How To Be Happy - THE TRUTH
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- What is the answer to the life long question of how to be happy? The answer's actually right in front of you in the way you react to the things around you.
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I'm scared to die, but tired of living.
I feel u so much there 😳
i feel the same hopefully we’ll get better
true
Wow that hit hard
Oh I know how it feels 😔😥
That moment when You search how to be happy
It’s really sad, but honestly I need to know. All I want to be is happy.
@@oliviaburgess7220 I wanna be happy but I can't so I search it on CZcams
Sorry if I have a bad English, I'm from Romania
Analisa Zamfir nu cred ca am gasit romani... :(
Yes :(
literally just searched on youtube 'how do i be happy' tbh
Man, I miss being younger. No worries and always so happy. I miss the days of goofing around and running and playing outside :(
I like being older, now i control my own life and can enjoy it the most.
You’ve just found the secret to being happy. Go outside and run around - I promise you’ll feel better. Anything you remember with fondness from your childhood, just start doing again :)
i'm a kid and I to miss this feeling, depressing stuff. I just love to try my best to have fun, than fail miserably due to the constant treatment of "grow up". I just love life.
I was already sad when I was younger
That’s what worry’s me I’m only 12 but here I am
If you're reading this, I'm sending you a hug.
thank you.
Thank you I really need it
*hugs you*
Thank you :)
I can't breath...I'm so sad, I just want to be happy
@@kiarajohnson5978 *hugs you*
If you are reading this, whatever you are going through, you will be okay.
But first let's get to work
Real talk
Today was a tough day for me... you give me a reason to be happy. Thank you, dude! Have a nice day!
I hope so . I dont think i can 😭 I think i am losing now
Sats soon
Tsm ❤️
I honestly just want genuine friends that I know I can fully rely on.
Meh, don't rely on others to make you happy. Make yourself happy then share the joy around ^^
Kakashi sensai
chris hey man hope you have found some friends, if you haven’t know that someone is there for you I am here for you xx stay safe
Same thing I want
Same
Damn people actually be waking up and look forward to their day and be happy 🤔
Mmm can’t relate
Wait.. Your from Finland, "the happiest country in the world" ? And you watch this video???
BAEnito Mussolini its true u gotta find the motivation really do what u love ur passion
Its not as simple as it looks, i know the feeling
@@christalcavanaugh
Can't relate either
When u search "how to be happy" that moment u realize how broken u realy are...
Lol
Can relate 😌💅
@Keedy I'm not just a gacha kid you ignorance hurts me
it's completely normal man, no one is broken
we live in a society 😔✊
The greatest obstacle you'll ever find in your entire life, is your own mindset.
-Buddha
So true
@PJ Brown STOP POLITICIZING THINGS
This is so true!
@@topic260 yea you don't you need to respect people's thoughts and beliefs
@PJ Brown wait did you talk about Democrats as a insult orrr?
I’m so happy
Cause today I found my friends
They’re in my head.
This is kinda scary
Hunter ???
Hunter ooh alright, I didn’t know hahah
Oh I see you are man of a culture aswell. Mmmm
There is no friends in this life you just created to live without other people.
I don’t know why but while watching this video I started crying
Same hun
It just hurts me to remember how happy and healthy mentally and physically I was a few months ago despite all that I was going through
same
I did cause I cry every day, when my friends/sis ask me what’s wrong I say “people”
Same...
Maybe you just feel powerless,for watching something like this..But sometimes we need a reminder to show us diffrent direction,there are also million things that make us sad..So its okay to search for help
Woah I didn't expect to be so depressed that I had to search how to happy
me too.....
same
Hello random person, I don’t know you, but I know your unhappy. Remember this may be an ugly chapter in your life, but books always get better. Your so beautiful in many ways, I know you may feel lonely, or that you don’t matter, but I promise theirs someone who loves you unconditionally ❤️ please don’t change yourself, your perfect in everyway
*Thank you!* we're random guys trying to make self-improvement funny and sharing our experience with the world! We just post a new video on our channel about the one habit to stop to be happy. Check it out and let us know that you are coming from this video! We would love to meet you and see you there!
get out of my head.....but thanks man really needed that..
i dont even know what to say but thank you
Ok i almost cried reading this. You just made my day thank you
The book doesn’t get better.
Whenever I try to live in the moment and appreciate things it always makes me feel worse because it reminds me that these things won't last forever
exactly
if you're thinking about that then you aren't living in the moment. are u happier now tho? it's been a year.
Me too...
That's the thing, you're living in the future...try to just think wow I'm having so much fun I'll take this moment to be happy and motivated to have more
Exactly
I don’t want to die, I just want to disappear into nothing.
Im sad.. I hate my life.. Right now.. Every night i cried..
jhunica pajador Do u need some help? I can help you.
To be happy u need to be grateful.....I can relate I’ve been there but when I tried this it worked. Be grateful to small things....like I have a family , I have food , I can see, walk, hear while some ppl can’t ..yeah I hope I helped you at least a little bit.
kwin jhunica you just need a pet pets make people happy (unless your allergic)
take small steps toward a direction and learn to be content with what you have in life.
@@noexonolife6921 I want to be deaf so that I don't hear the evil, I want to be blind so I don't see evil and I want to be mute to not speak evil
I remmeber as a child i was way happeier than now at 16 ive been feeling down alot
Yeah same everything just starts to change
How long have you slept today?
I'm 13 and things changed the day before I turned 13.
I tried meditation. It made me more furious, more impatient, more frustrated, and it only gave me more time to focus on all these negative feelings.
Yea that's the point focus on your negative feel its don't judge them let them flow I suggest u look up How to free your mind.
U actually don't know how to meditate dear..
try guided meditation
I feel like I’ve been sad my whole life I just wish I could remember a time when I was happy
Those 3 ways of reacting... I'm all of those no wonder I'm unhappy.
Human Paper i love rose.
Same here. I always find myself waking up unhappy but I don't know why, before that sleep I was very happy and comfortable with everything, after waking up, I feel all the negativity
Well, the vid says 99% of people react like you
If i only could run away from my family and my country and start again , maybe then i could feel like a Human. I'll be just grateful for that. Life would be easier..
I feel like I was born in the wrong country...I love my mum but we just have to many arguments and she says that I don't help out enough but I just don't have the energy as I'm always so depressed 😔
Same
w a t e r l i n g question are u Arab ?
@@3bdullah666 yeahh obviously
Same here but they can kill me if I run..
This doesn't help
I meditate every day and I'm calm but still not happy
Why just watch memes then lol.
Erika Ivanov change ur mindset,it will change ur life ;)
Read "the power of now" and watch vanessa van Edwards videos or articles on how happiness makes you more likeable, attractive and healthy ;)
I practice meditation too, and I can totally relate to what you said.
I'm trying different things... maybe we're too calm, we need some excitement and hedonism for contrast... 😄
Meditation does not really help unless you can be happy with your present conditions.
Like if you are Paul Pogba, you can be unhappy with your club but after meditating, you realise how happy you can be with your millions.
Stay strong sad boii
Thx
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Marsean Deterala yh man
Yep, simply being present, in the moment, just plain mindfulness is all it takes, Simple zen awareness.
That is just what my Son's book is all about "You Are Now" starting at the depths of despair and finding true happiness and a meaningful life. Truly inspirational.
I hope it is as easy as it sounds...
Does anybody else miss when they were little and happy? :(
I started having depression at the age of 9. I start historically crying when i'm all alone and no one's there. I actually like being alone. Because it makes me let all my tears old till I calm down and then be normal. One time I used a tip that in my brain I pictured a settings page and I said "Happiness 100%" and it actually kinda worked! It doesn't work anymore all I just do is put out a big smile and confuse my brain if i'm happy or not.
I’m actually on CZcams looking up how to be happy. My life is in a hole and I can’t get out of it.
Try to practice thoughtless state of mind..and see the magic😊
I don’t like how I had to search this up on my BIRTHDAY.
6 months late cause I just found your comment but happy birthday
Happy birthday!^^
Happy birthday dude
Advanced Happy Birthday✨🎉🎂
Happy birthday in advance
The power of now! :)
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i zone out all the time.. talking to friends, driving, in the gym.. constantly thinking of why i do wrong never right.
I can’t be happy anymore I can’t go outside anymore I can’t goofy around anymore I gotta be matured now because I’m older? I hate being older now I want my child self back I want her back i want the girl who used to be happy and everyone loved her but she’s gone she’s not here anymore why? I really don’t want to go through this anymore cuz I want to be happy......again I want to be alive again I want to have freedom again I want to go out without being yelled or being forced staying at home again I miss it all I REALLY DO
SAME!
as a rather introverted person, at the same time being a shy guy with a moderete level of social anxiety, zoning out is comfortable I must say. But rather in the sense that not always I imagine past or future, just observe then I have a conversation with myself. Coming out with a topic and discussing with myself, sometimes I agree to the voices in my head, sometimes I make a reason to decline. Of course it is not rare as well that I zone out like as discribed in the video since, I'm anxious most of the time. I get to the point of being lost from the world, just to enjoy my internal monologue
Same lol
Same .have you found any solution to that?
Same 🙃
I just got yelled my my whole family
And looked up “how to be happy”
And i feel a little better.
I am bakugo
I’ve never known what true happiness really feels like. 😕
I'm pretty sad right now but what makes me even more sad is that I have to watch a video on how to be happy. This shows I don't have a life anymore
I don't agree with the answer unfortunately. I think the answer lies in being gratefull and thankfull for everything. Instead of looking at things you don't have, concentrate on things you do have. Also loving, yourself, others and giving is a big part of happiness.
The reason for this is that your thoughts determine your feelings and that determines your behavior. So how you think is the most crucial thing for determining happiness within yourself. You can still meditate and still feel depressed several years (know that by a friend of mine).
I've learned this by psychology and studies
Uhh... this is exactly what mindfulness is about. Nothing to disagree about her...
Very, very true
Lol. This doesn't solve anything. I do think bout the stuff I have. I am grateful.. I'm fine. Just empty. Not happy at all
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the perpetual bliss is a lie. It doesn't exist. Happiness comes and never overstays its welcome, therefore we should deeply appreciate it when it arrives. We should realize that no one can or have "it all" so we can cut down on the one thing that impedes our happiness: Envy.
You’re absolutely right,
I started meditating when I was 16 and i can’t even describe it. It was clarity. It was contentment. Mindfulness was easier, natural. I felt ready to thank on the world & explore it.
Now that I’m 25 I haven’t meditated due to not having my own room for years and constantly moving… but since I have that safe space now. I’m going to start meditating again, Thankyou for reminding me. I’m just scared of all the thoughts to sift through since the last time…but it’ll be worth it. Thankyou!
My dads friend told me that in order to live a full life is to not take things to seriously and to not react to failure with sadness but with an intent to learn from it and become better, also find what you like to do don’t let your family influence what you like to do and your job, he told me that the best thing he did was study abroad and go on vacations by himself to force himself to meet people and interact more, he said that changed the way he thought and stopped being so shy. He also said that not everyone is your friends and your friends from childhood aren’t your close friends but people you know but you will start to make deeper connections starting from your teenage years, so just put yourself out there and be more relaxed and don’t care too much and don’t be shy.
I wanted to leave the place several times. It's all becaude of my mind. I over analyze things a lot. I feel like it never gets better. I have my hopes and dreams, but it those little things like getting a bad grade that bring me super down. It's weird. I just want to keep a positive mindset. I don't want to be happy i want to be perfect. So I won't feel so left out and so I won't let others down anymore. It feel like I just can't achieve that. It feels like one the days a feel happiest, the darkness comes in and I feed it. I feel likr giving up
3000 years of philosophy to find how to be happy and there is still no answer to it but a 4 minutes video will change that!!
Improvement Pill not really but love you tho
@@ANTISHMETTT do you even meditate bro?
the answer the religion
@Qiyana in your opinion but respect it
Be grateful for what you have, there’s always someone who has it worse. Hope everyone feels better
I need to be happy I am incredibly sad
What's making you unhappy?
Dance for 1 hour solid to a funky house classic 😎
@Matthew Goodwin every human need happiness فهمت يا بزر
This was kind of an eye-opener for me. We generalize happiness so much... And the worst part is that others can't really see from your perspective. Hence, they don't understand if you truly feel happy or not. Anyway, thank you for this video.
how do you make these videos. I've seen other yters use this as well
CM Punk why would you want to make crappy videos.
Will Will do a favour for everyone, just don’t watch them
The feeling of being nearly blind and then finally putting your contacts in after not having them and you get to look at the trees and sky and clouds and just smile because life is so beautiful. If it wasn't for the experience I would call this video bogus, but I seriously agree. If you can look at anything and fully sit there and comprehend it, it can be a spark of gratefulness and often lead to a happy mindset.
This made me burst into tears after watching this😭
I am really depressed and I don't know why:\
We live in a society...
Don’t worry! I was really sad and suicidal in grade 7 but things weirdly got better! Idk how long it will come for you but trust me, things will get better
That happened to me, i was feeling really low all the time and could't snap out of it, then i began hard exercise and gradually i began to feel better, now i dance as well as much as i can, i feel great !!
Put the effort in and you'll get a break through 👍
bassam youssef same, but I know why:(
same
This is a great illustration on the truth of happiness around us...
Great work guys!
I just watched this video and just meditated for the first time. All the symptoms you talked about occurred, but along with it a weird magical thing that I want to experience again some time. When I sat there, just as you said my mind wondered off in the first few seconds but I brought it back to breathing. And my mind constantly dwelled off but somewhere I weirdly managed to bring it to the present, an experience I've never had before. It was like I was there, but not there. I was only thinking about breathing, the fluid of air going in and out, and I felt my heart beat. Then the next part felt really weird, it felt as if I was an observer from outside watching myself and feeling myself at the same time. I was in the real world, but at the same time in my own world, and then my mind was suddenly just blank. Only thoughts were on my nose and the air around it. No sense of time whatsoever, I don't know how long I sat there but just suddenly my 5 minute alarm woke me up and I am now in a weird sense of calm, detached from my emotions. I just wanted to share this if it was interesting, even though it might have been a common experience
For some reason, this video made me smile, I even felt tears of joy forming in my eyes.
doing a constructive activity or doing something you enjoy i would consider as good as meditation.
Justin Bennett i would disagree , I think meditation is giving a rest to mind while any activity requires mind to work
Agreed
Like ballin with the homies
Doing something you love doing doesn't feel the same when your unhappy in life
I feel like MDMA greatly amplifies my mindfulness. Your information was an apt description of what I feel when I take it.
+Improvement Pill
Now all he has to do is learn to re-create that in normal circumstances.
I’ve been failing high school and always wanting so much more than my brother.I get the idea now,thank you.
And I’m not meditating 99% of videos like these it’s always gots do with meditating
I think this is why I keep shopping so much..I focus on happiness, not "getting to the next thing"
Thank you very much for this video. Very informative about our tendencies to want, to reject, to zone out. I really love the thought on mindfulness - focusing on what's important. Great video!
I wished this video actually helped me.
So glad someone understands where happiness comes from & that it is not subjective. Mindfulness is the key. 💙
I have been feeling like this. I should be so grateful as I am not going through any real hardship - still feel so alone and not myself - like my spark is diminishing. I just need to get over this and hopefully I’ll be happy again.
"I don't seek happiness, but i look for pleasure"
Amazing Vid! As soon as I saw the notification I zoomed over haha
Thank you Improvement Pill!! This really brought so much more happiness into my life!!
I feel better when i see that we all write "how to be happy"...guys we deserve the world
predators; they are around me. whenever i want to be happy, they make me sad. and i became sad, again and again. even if i want to be happy. I can't.
Thats so true...
@@skyimpas4412 Army❤
exactly what i need now...mindfulness :D.. thanks for the video
dude you are so wise, thank you for this. i literally silently screamed at you with happiness! tysm!!
I’m going to a new school, and I’m so afraid that I won’t make any friends or fit in that I’m constantly stressed and unhappy. Thanks for the tips, I will try and be more mindful
I just wanna see my friends again.
I just wanna live before I can’t.
If I saw them, I’d be happy. I think. I hope.
Literally just search "How to become happy"
:')
I'm going through a great sadness and started not caring about anything and I don't know why.........but thanks for this video
Today I woke up happy and excited for online classes and at the end of the day, I got tons of homeworks and project and now Im ready to procrastinate and cry myself to sleep
Guys life has its ups and downs. Its like the ocean, never calm. I am hypochondriac and it really eats my self but better days are coming
This is exactly what my therapist was always telling me to do, but I always made excuses not to put in the effort, and still do. From what I understand, mindfulness sounds like a wonder drug. Can't wait for the next videos! :)
I don't know why but when the video started and me reading the positive comment i started to cry..
My friend just sent an old photo of myself, I was so happy, I want the old days back so bad
happiness is in my name
Easy to say, hard to do. What if you are rejecting the things around you.
Ugh why am I watching the best channel ever when I should be doing my homework?
This is a month after I watched this video update. I read every night before bed, exercise once a day and meditate at least once a week.
1) I don't want things though....
2) I do rejecting with myself....
3) I can't help dissacotiating...
So i just need to meditate for 10 minutes every day?
And the way i do it is sitting on the ground and than breath calm and then think of my day is that good?
No you have clean your mind the goal is to think as less as possible.
There are actually a lot of great guided meditation videos here on youtube. Maybe you want to just give it a try. :)
These are the kinds of videos I love about this channel
I freaking absolutely LOVE YOUR CHANNEL. THIS IS THE BEST CHANNEL ON CZcams. THE THINGS THAT I HAVE LEARNT FROM HERE CAN'T BE COMPARED TO ANYTHING.
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!
Deal with it. We’re all living for a future that doesn’t exist.
l o n e l y g r x n d e doesn’t matter even if it really does not exist. considering that happiness is something everyone can achieve, we should still try and live our lives to the fullest, regardless of the mystery that clouds the future :)
Talha Khan Palal but it’s difficult , making it almost impossible for us to find the happy things in life when we’re continuously forced to do things we don’t want. We’re just sick of it. Nice to hear from you though, appreciate it
Nature love SAMEEEE
I feel like I'm just sad cuz im setting too high expectations for myself.
I sometimes feel like I'm meditating when I'm lifting weights. I ignore everything around me and the only thing that's on my mind is the task ahead of me. Is this wrong of me to say? Or do I need to meditate properly if I want to reap all the benefits as well
mr1337viking meditation and any physical act that makes you focused and Zoned in is the way to go.... happy lifting
mr1337viking it's because you enjoy it. Enjoyment isn't limited to wanting or being mindful, it's just loving what you are doing. The chemical reactions and dopamine released, the burn, the results. Just enjoy it man, Love is powerful
True, when you focus on what you have right now you'll leave no room for complaining and negative thoughts
The productivity culture makes us care so much about the result, that we forget to enjoy the process. The Forwago helped me to keep improving myself and achieving my goals while still enjoying the process, and I am so grateful because of that.
this is awesome but there is 1 false point made in this video, meditating is... NOT... the only way to become more mindful for example, and anyone who is reading this can try the following... just decide, decide that your going to look at things with wonder, you will then realise that everything has some amazement to it, decide you want to be mindful, make it a goal every morning and the chances are you will achieve it. certainly there are plenty of ways to become more mindful.
Tbh when I bought my Xbox one and put it in my room, I don't remember a time I was bored and anytime anything bad happens I just hop on Xbox and things are better
same here
Same. But it's getting old. Now I have to find something else.
Distractions always help...until they don't anymore.😞
My Xbox is my drug. It’s bad
Idk try a book. It’s like traveling without using your legs
Editing,Anime,Tiktok,Yt Is my only sorce of happiness🥰
Nothing else🥰
I love how there’s always people like me in the comment section ❤️
not that i disagree with what's the potential of meditation, but there's definitely other ways to get mindful other than practising meditation. Experiences will make you more mindful and more present, and therefore more happy. Also health is quite crucial.
Exactly. Really really love your work by the way. Please keep doing it no matter what!!
I know the potential of meditation as a habit and how awesome it really is. But is seems so hard for a beginner (like myself) to sit even for 10 minutes there, concentrate on my breath and clear my mind. Do you have any tips or meditation techniques to suggest? It would be cool if you also include this in the next video.
221rays as a daily meditator, honestly JUST START WITH 2 MINUTES. set a timer on your phone, find somewhere quiet and for just 2 minutes focus on your breath. your mond will try to zone out and that's OK, keep in mind that you can't fail meditation. whatever effort you make will make a difference in your mind. Cheers!
shir35303 I understand. Well this is good to know then.
check out 'Mindfulness in Plain English' by Henepola Gunaratana...perfect for beginners
221rays Try guided meditations first. It really helps specially for beginners, if there's someone guiding you in your meditation (even if it's a pre-recirded tape). There are plenty of excellent apps out there with guided meditation sessions like Insight Timer, Headspace, Calm, Omvana etc... I'd recommend the first 2, they helped me the most.
And no, it's NOT meant to be hard. The more you practice, the easier it gets.
Best of luck, 221rays!
Thank you all for the suggestions! :)
"Yeah you might get a glimse of happiness from your achievements, but what you'll learn as you get older, every time you reach one, is you'll just make another goal that doesn't lead to freedom." - NF
I've been stuck on the most horrific chapter of my life for 18 years! I want to make a change. I want to finally feel something. I've been trying to better myself over quarantine and I've certainly gotten things done but it's not enough. I need to keep trying. I need to keep working hard. I don't want to fall back into the pit of an endless cycle of darkness again 🥺
Family is the true happiness.
Tepes Obrejac my family says I’m unhappy all the time and that makes me more unhappy
F*ck yes! Meditiation! I just read about Meditation in "Tools of Titans" (which I read because you recommended it) btw) and I definitely want to learn how to meditate!
Leonholic just sit in a comfterbel position. close your eyes. focus on your breathing and try not to think.
Leonholic Check out Headspace on the app store. The first 10 guided sessions are EXCELLENT for beginners and are free. After that, check out the mindfulness app called Insight Timer. It has literally thousands of free guided meditations and a whole community of meditators. Best of luck Leon!
StratosFear1992 Awesome, thanks man!
StratosFear1992 sounds like you've been meditating for a while. So what do you think?? Does meditation work?? Is it really the true way to eternal happiness?? What's been you're experience, I'd love to know!
J_Venchy
I don't want to oversell meditation as a wonder pill but in my personal case, it really has transformed my life for the better. I started meditating a year ago in my final year of uni and it gave me the self awareness to know what my aim really was and the extra focus to study harder than I ever did. I aced my final exams and since then it has helped me improve in so many ways.
Meditation only actually develops a greater sense of calm, focus and self-awareness in you. That self awareness however is key, as it helps you detect unhealthy habits and patterns in your behaviour that you weren't even aware existed. It made me realise how I was sabotaging my own success and that it was MY responsibility to make a conscious change.
I stopped complaining and living in the past or blaming my situation on anyone or anything other than myself.
I finally started reading and watching resources about self development and actually started putting them into practice. So meditation was for me a "keystone" habit whose positive effect spilled over into every other aspect of my life.
I started a journal (as opposed to a diary) and have discovered so many self destructive thought and behavioral patterns in myself.
Have gotten the focus to stick to an exercise regimen.
I've learned to recognise feelings of anger and frustration as soon as they arise. This especially has helped me A LOT in dealing with people (be they close or strangers)
Am better able to deal with situations when shit hits the fan.
Overall more calm and focused.
So mindfulness ITSELF may only make you 10% happier but if you keep your practice up, it will snowball into something truly transformative.
If you're already a very disciplined and focused person, it may not make as big an impact, but it WILL help you nontheless with very little time investment on your part.
So I'd definitely advise you to try it for a week. Since it's free, there really is no pressure to carry on if you find it's not working for you.
This is the 3th time this year I have searched "How to be happy".
Maybe I should actually try for once
I'm not happy but I physically can't cry