A Hidden Source of Our Suffering | A Monk's Perspective

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  • čas přidán 31. 05. 2024
  • Many people are struggling and suffering with mental health. In this video, I wanted to give you a perspective that may be helpful for you to view your suffering along with 3 practical steps that you can apply. There are many things that contribute to our suffering, but one condition that we may overlook is the issue of "complexity". My hope is that this video encourages you to look identify what areas of your life is too complex, and see if you can find ways to untangle or decrease that complexity. I hope this is helpful. Enjoy! #monks #buddhism #mentalhealth
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    0:00 Introduction
    1:09 What’s causing our suffering?
    5:53 Know that complexity is contributing to suffering
    6:06 Identify where your life is complex
    7:50 Take action
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Komentáře • 312

  • @nickkeomahavong01
    @nickkeomahavong01  Před 11 měsíci +22

    What area of you life feels to complex?

    • @juliaangelicaa5395
      @juliaangelicaa5395 Před 11 měsíci +4

      My work demands drains 100% of my energy.
      We're expected to answer emails and text on nights and weekends.............even joins teams meeting on days off.
      Other than that, I live a simple life and no stressors outside of work.

    • @jeffreyjackson5229
      @jeffreyjackson5229 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Work can be, but the remedy is effective time management, which, after the unexpected arises, I pause and remember and enact it.
      Otherwise, the only other complexity was family but since relocating and setting and maintaining boundaries, that is not an issue. It's all about self-care to me, and one can practice such and not be selfish. This is as far as I am going to go with you 😉

    • @faxanidu3070
      @faxanidu3070 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Always work if everywhere stopped trying to kill everyone with skeleton crews that would be great

    • @jeffreyjackson5229
      @jeffreyjackson5229 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@Beijaxol don't even try to stop thinking. The goal is two-fold: minimize being dragged along as the thoughts arise; and enjoy the space between the thoughts, that space there but you are missing it because you are so focused on thoughts and not wanting them as you are meditating.

    • @pamburton9090
      @pamburton9090 Před 11 měsíci +2

      I particularly love the social media detox. When I observe silence, it's the first thing I notice, how much time I waste on social media. I try to observe silence for 3-4 days every 3 months. I wish I could fit it in more often! ❤

  • @susanswinny588
    @susanswinny588 Před 11 měsíci +46

    Reducing complexity is the way for me.
    Just got rid of over half my clothes, lots of books, some furniture, and cleaned out the garage.
    It feels so much lighter with more open space.
    Got a very short hair cut-not yet monk-length but that could be next!
    Cut back my work hours now that I'm commuting to work 4 out of 5 days a week.
    Meditation, rest, walking, yoga at home, cooking and housecleaning are my main activities outside of work.
    My husband does most of the grocery shopping these days.
    Less screen time.
    And my sleep is better these days.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  Před 11 měsíci +7

      Wow that’s amazing Susan! Thank you for the update. Keep it up 😊😊

    • @susanswinny588
      @susanswinny588 Před 11 měsíci +3

      @@nickkeomahavong01
      Same to you, Ven Nick!
      Keep up your great work!
      You're an inspiration!
      Still working with all the things I learned from you.

    • @hilarygatehouse6407
      @hilarygatehouse6407 Před 9 měsíci +1

      I applaud you, Susan. What an inspiration.

    • @reshukhanna
      @reshukhanna Před 8 měsíci

      Woww sounds good..u are actually applying all the teachings in your life ❤

  • @rustyshackleford3278
    @rustyshackleford3278 Před 11 měsíci +65

    A special thank you Venerable Nick for your teachings. My divorce has been extremely difficult, your kindness by reminding us to get to the core of our suffering is sincerely appreciated. You have helped your subscribers understand that despite achieving great merits suffering and impermanence are to be expected and should be dealt with in a natural and positive way

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  Před 11 měsíci +10

      Thank you so much my friend. I’m glad the videos are helpful 😊😊

    • @gingersutton8240
      @gingersutton8240 Před 11 měsíci +3

      Bless you on your latest “difficulty”.

    • @Michele.3142
      @Michele.3142 Před 11 měsíci +3

      May you be well and at ease.

    • @KristenNicole222
      @KristenNicole222 Před 11 měsíci +4

      Im sorry, your going though this. Your not alone. You will come out stronger. Iv grown spiritually most in those challenging moments in life. It's just hard to see when you're going through it at the time. Much love

    • @PEzell-cp1lt
      @PEzell-cp1lt Před 11 měsíci +4

      May you be well!

  • @terrystith9568
    @terrystith9568 Před 11 měsíci +8

    Simplicity is a virtue. This has to be learned . It's wisdom.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  Před 11 měsíci +1

      😊😊

    • @tonytravels2494
      @tonytravels2494 Před 10 měsíci

      Knowledge may be learned. Wisdom needs to be comprehended. You cannot 'learn' wisdom. Either you have it or no...

  • @jeffreyjackson5229
    @jeffreyjackson5229 Před 11 měsíci +27

    "Less is more, small is beautiful, simple is best"- Papae philosophical proverb from your introduction to the Papae meditation retreat.I committed it to memory.
    While not everyone has the strength or the situation to live such in totality, it would behoove us to determine where changes must be made and implement a structured plan so that we can remain healthy, free, and light.
    Since the world is not getting any better, we must 🙏

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  Před 11 měsíci +4

      Oh wow! That’s so great that you remember it 😊😊😊

    • @jeffreyjackson5229
      @jeffreyjackson5229 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@nickkeomahavong01 Oh, yesss! It's a childhood gift. I draw from such wisdom to remain focused and encouraged, especially when difficulties arise. It serves as a mental anchor.😊

    • @Call_Upon_YAH
      @Call_Upon_YAH Před 11 měsíci

      Be it known:
      Through the Holy Spirit, God has put it on me to preach to those lost in the devil's deceit!
      I tell ye, truly, Jesus of Nazareth is the propitiation for the whole world's sins. He is the anointed one, for he is, Jesus Christ. God the Father has raised him from the dead; who is gone into heaven, and is on the right hand of God! Angels and authorities and powers being made subject unto him.
      Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life: no one comes to the Father, but by him. They who believe and are baptized with the Holy Spirit shall be saved; but they who believe not shall be damned. For they who believe not on him, shall die in their sins!
      I tell ye now to repent of your sins, accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and you'll receive the gift of the Holy Spirit upon asking the Father!
      There are *NO* sub-divisions of Christianity. You're either a disciple of Christ or not. A Christian is someone who follows God's word, not a religion. Who obey the Father and follow his will; not man's nor their own heart's. Unless you keep Jesus' commandments, think not the Holy Spirit will dwell within you!
      They who heed this message and did what was stated with an open heart to God...
      Read the Holy Bible (KJV) daily and every time before you read, pray to the Father and ask:
      "Lord I ask that you give me understanding of your word, that I interpret it the way you want me to, and none of my own. I ask you in Jesus' name, amen."
      1 John 2:2 KJV
      2 And he is the propitiation for our sins: and not for ours only, but also for the sins of the whole world.
      Acts 13:26-33 KJV
      26 Men and brethren, children of the stock of Abraham, *and whosoever among you feareth God, to you is the word of this salvation sent.*
      27 *For they that dwell at Jerusalem, and their rulers, because they knew him not, nor yet the voices of the prophets which are read every sabbath day, they have fulfilled them in condemning him.*
      28 And though they found no cause of death in him, yet desired they Pilate that he should be slain.
      29 *And when they had fulfilled all that was written of him, they took him down from the tree, and laid him in a sepulchre.*
      30 *But God raised him from the dead:*
      31 And he was seen many days of them which came up with him from Galilee to Jerusalem, who are his witnesses unto the people.
      32 *And we declare unto you glad tidings, how that the promise which was made unto the fathers,*
      33 God hath fulfilled the same unto us their children, in that he hath raised up Jesus again; as it is also written in the second psalm, Thou art my Son, this day have I begotten thee.
      1 Peter 3:22 KJV
      22 Who is gone into heaven, and is on the right hand of God; angels and authorities and powers being made subject unto him.
      John 14:6 KJV
      6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.
      Mark 16:16 KJV
      16 He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved; but he that believeth not shall be damned.
      John 8:24 KJV
      24 I said therefore unto you, that ye shall die in your sins: for if ye believe not that I am he, ye shall die in your sins.
      Acts 2:38 KJV
      38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
      Luke 11:13 KJV
      13 If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children: how much more shall your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to them that ask him?
      John 14:21-24 KJV
      21 *He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him.*
      22 Judas saith unto him, not Iscariot, Lord, how is it that thou wilt manifest thyself unto us, and not unto the world?
      23 Jesus answered and said unto him, *If a man love me, he will keep my words: and my Father will love him, and we will come unto him, and make our abode with him.*
      24 He that loveth me not keepeth not my sayings: and *the word which ye hear is not mine, but the Father's which sent me.*

    • @ileanaglez1477
      @ileanaglez1477 Před 11 měsíci

      🥰🥰🌸💮🪷🌹

    • @pamburton9090
      @pamburton9090 Před 11 měsíci

      I love this!

  • @isabellegrenier194
    @isabellegrenier194 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Your video comes at the right time for me. I’m trying to reduce stress and anxiety. I got rid of a lot of things and am starting to simplify my wardrobe. My phone is a hard one for me. I’m addicted and have a hard time leaving it in the morning, even though it gives me anxiety and starts my day wrong in every way. It’s a process and I am excited about going back to a more simple life.
    Thank-you for your videos, I really enjoy listening to your wisdom.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  Před 2 měsíci

      Yayyyy! I’m glad you’re taking the steps. Yes some things are harder to detach from and it will take some time but you’re doing great! Keep it up 👍

  • @kithu1231
    @kithu1231 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I am in a very difficult phase if my life right now..your words and wisdom give me reassurance and hope...

  • @charlysimone8999
    @charlysimone8999 Před 11 měsíci +5

    I read your book today, The Buddhist Cleanse. I want to tell you and others that this book opened my eyes about myself for the first time in 67 years..Your book is so powerful. Thank you and Phra
    Michael Viradhammo for writing it.

  • @apeacelily5151
    @apeacelily5151 Před 11 měsíci +16

    Thank you Venerable Nick. Your words resonated so much this morning.
    As a teacher of 10/11 year olds, I describe life in the 70s and 80s. They tell me, "Whoa, that must have been soo boring." 😂😂
    The thing is, it wasn't. We all had time and head space. I tell them, how, if we wanted to talk to our friends, we would have to arrange a time to meet. Or just knock on the door and ask, "Is x coming out to play?" If the answer was no, then trot back home, read a book or rearrange my room or sew some clothing for my doll etc
    Boring, never.
    Simple and easier, definitely.
    I often consider how much time everyone seemed to have back then and I do put the difference down to mobile technology. Of course it has so many uses but I definitely need that simplification. Thank you🙏

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  Před 11 měsíci +2

      Wow thank you so much for sharing that. I do remember knocking on the door. Haha. That’s such a great example of how simple it was 😊

    • @lokalolatigra
      @lokalolatigra Před 11 měsíci +1

      Yes the 70"s -80's was a much simpler .

  • @Rella_sky
    @Rella_sky Před 11 měsíci +20

    Needed this, especially today after several mental breakdowns. Pain and suffering has been the theme all week. Thank you for posting. ❤

  • @gracesanity6314
    @gracesanity6314 Před 11 měsíci +1

    My need to look successful, special, togeather has driven me. As long as l was looking for peace, groundedness, my true self in externals...l was lost. I am lonely for me. Huge suffering.

  • @jeffreyjackson5229
    @jeffreyjackson5229 Před 4 měsíci

    It reinforces and confirms the way that I live my life: less is more, small is beautiful, simple is best.
    As always, thank you. Blessings to you and your family.
    Take care.💪

  • @jill5977
    @jill5977 Před 11 měsíci +2

    When I am not stressed I see how less I need. But when I'm stressed and there's still a lot to do, I sometimes feel like I cannot care for me anymore. I cannot come down .. And in these moments I stroll social media and online shopping. I think it is to 'keep going' even when I'm exhausted.

  • @jeffreyjackson5229
    @jeffreyjackson5229 Před 11 měsíci +2

    It's better to be healthy and alone than to be unhealthy with someone. That's why I keep my distance from family, yes, family. They are definitely a drain for me.

  • @anitacarter8060
    @anitacarter8060 Před 11 měsíci +17

    Love this….
    Since I have become minimalist and simplified in my life, I am calmer and much more content and happier 😆🙏🏻

  • @IDLExHANDS
    @IDLExHANDS Před 11 měsíci +10

    You don't need to be the exemption to succeed. We always look at our goals but fail to pay attention to the journey. If you don't spend time to slow down and take a breath, you're bound to miss lessons that will ultimately make you a better person.

  • @c.cabanilla8963
    @c.cabanilla8963 Před 11 měsíci +6

    I would say my life feels complex when I believe I need to solve all my life problems etc in a unrealistic short amount of time. Realizing there is a time and place for everything in life and my recent trip to Hawaii to visit family, helped me to slow down and be in the moment.
    Take care venerable Nick

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  Před 11 měsíci +1

      Wonderful wisdom my friend. Yes it does take time to un-tie the knots. Just do it patiently and gently 😊

  • @vyvan84
    @vyvan84 Před 11 měsíci +9

    Thank you Venerable Nick. It really makes my day. a hidden source of our suffering I think is also our Expectation. We expect a lot of things in our life. How to cultivate No Expectation is still a long way to learn.

  • @gregpantelides1355
    @gregpantelides1355 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Sadhu, Sadhu, Sadhu, Venerable Nick!

  • @jeffreyjackson5229
    @jeffreyjackson5229 Před 4 měsíci

    "Less is more, small is beautiful, simple is best."

  • @Cleanearth12345
    @Cleanearth12345 Před 11 měsíci +1

    You right they say we listening and watching then they get rich we get poor and depressed and sick in mind

  • @jeffreyjackson5229
    @jeffreyjackson5229 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Inspirational teaching. I will stay on the path that I am on- few worldly cares, few worldly possessions, and freedom.

  • @wala6276
    @wala6276 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Video dropped at a good time, thank you

  • @DiannaGold
    @DiannaGold Před 11 měsíci +3

    Complexity is fascinating to me. I enjoy technology but I realize how much work it took to achieve the technology we have. We stand on the backs of giants ! However I do not think everyone has the mental facilities to really sort through the chaos the internet has brought us. However for those with higher IQ we seem to be able to sort the chaos and make use of it in positive ways.
    The key is ... Desire... Desire causes suffering. That's the root. To face this "complexity" you must remove yourself from feeling that you need to be as those on social media.
    Desire nothing and you will find suffering is optional.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  Před 11 měsíci +2

      Yes!!! You hit it on the head 😊😊

    • @DiannaGold
      @DiannaGold Před 11 měsíci

      @@nickkeomahavong01 I must know something. On your path to share and teach, is it not painful to wish to do so?
      Sometimes we choose how we suffer, but is it worth it?
      Personally I think that improvement is suffering but the kind that is worth it. Growth pains maybe? Just something to consider... How much self sacrifice is too much?

  • @fodizi-sq4jq
    @fodizi-sq4jq Před 2 měsíci

    Not to exaggerate, but this video was life-changing for me. Thank you, Ajahn Nick.
    I hope you have a safe and good time in Singapore, where I am sure you will be very well-loved. Sadly, I cannot attend your talk, but please know that you've made an impact on my life and I really love your videos.
    Seeking forgiveness from you, Bhante, for any misdeed I may have done to you in word, thought, or deed.

  • @jeffreyjackson5229
    @jeffreyjackson5229 Před 4 měsíci

    "Who are you around that drains so much of your energy?"
    Great and thought provoking question.
    I live in TN and my family in MD.
    Need I say more?😊

  • @aslazaimi5824
    @aslazaimi5824 Před 10 měsíci +1

    The way he laughs at the number of problems we have 😂😂😂
    Amazing message

  • @krispykruzer
    @krispykruzer Před 10 měsíci +2

    Beautiful messages once again Venerable Nick. Love from from Melbourne Australia

  • @TheDostojanstvo
    @TheDostojanstvo Před 8 měsíci +1

    that is very true, that is my main source of suffering... im working on making my life more simple, removing material objects from my life and activities that just drained my energy like social networks. i rahter choose to watch your videos teacher, rather then social media... you talk about very importent topic that are improtant to me.. i always love buddhism.. my goal is to be maximal minimalist two weeks im working intensively to remove objects i that dont serve me from my home .. and also 3 days ago i lost my mobile phone so i decidet to give up social netowrks entirely

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  Před 8 měsíci

      Yes continue to surround yourself with positive things 😊

  • @worldview730
    @worldview730 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Beautiful my Brother🙏

  • @marimarlotus7413
    @marimarlotus7413 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Hola Nick! Great message! I just realized how complex our lives are with technogy. I grew up in the 80's and we didn't have cell phones only house phones. One line to talk every body in the house. I totally resonate with you. Social media takes my time but not so much, I only use them for texts and for information and also watching k dramas that I love them as most of the times they give me beautiful feelings ❤️💜 Sadhu! Namo Buddhaya 😊

  • @nancyb.9759
    @nancyb.9759 Před 11 měsíci +8

    Thankyou so much Venerable Nick. I have looked forward to your videos so very much, and I have noticed my life changing because I take your words to heart. It has been for at least a year now, perhaps more🙂
    I journal about your teachings and also meditate ( and look forward to that) I consider your teachings to be an anchor in my life. Every single thing that I do in my days feel so different now- I feel so much gratitude and hope one day that I will be able to meet you, or go to a retreat that you would be teaching .
    This will be just a wonderful experience someday. Now, I have wonderful contentment in my days, in large part because of your merits. Thankyou always, Nancy

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  Před 11 měsíci +2

      Aww that’s wonderful to hear Nancy. Thank you for taking the time to share. I think your journey will inspire others. Keep up the great work 😊😊😊

  • @Helentan4896
    @Helentan4896 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Ven Nick, the main cause of my suffering is the strong attachment to money. It causes fear n insecurity in me so much that causes sleepless nights and affects mental health. The uncertainties of the future is scary...

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  Před 11 měsíci +2

      Yes that can definitely contribute to it. For now, just acknowledge it neutrally. This is the first step.

  • @fuchsiacorbin7884
    @fuchsiacorbin7884 Před 11 měsíci +7

    Your videos are life changing. Thank you for your content. It's one of the best things on the internet.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  Před 11 měsíci +1

      Aww that’s so kind of you. Thank you for your kind words Fuchsia 😊😊

  • @stuartwalker121
    @stuartwalker121 Před 8 měsíci

    Many people are living lives speeded up to the max Nick, messages coming at them from their phones, tv, radio, newspapers 24/7/365. It's a pressure cooker with all the inevitable stressors, anxiety and disease. Never ending desires and consumption are the devils waiting to trick us. Your message is most welcome. Thanks so much for sharing...Stuart

  • @katiebuydos4975
    @katiebuydos4975 Před 10 měsíci

    Finances and retirement are weighing heavy lately. Especially with the rising costs of living. I'm trying to find ways for me and my family to keep living simply so we can get ahead even in these times of higher than normal inflation.

  • @ZengHuaXiansheng
    @ZengHuaXiansheng Před 11 měsíci +3

    Great video as always! I think that one of my biggest issues is that I have too many interests. I always want to be able to do more or less everything. I think that I should prioritize more.

  • @jeffreyjackson5229
    @jeffreyjackson5229 Před 11 měsíci +1

    "Too much stimulation" If we properly and honestly introspect, most already know what they need to do but either lack the strength to forego the problem sources that may have more peace.
    For me, I know that my system needs a quiet and orderly environment. This permits me to get away, recharge, and reflect. This enables me to face life without it consume me.

  • @mariposa8149
    @mariposa8149 Před 11 měsíci +3

    You’re reassuring and comforting. Thank you for your wisdom Nick.

  • @Michele.3142
    @Michele.3142 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Hi Venerable Nick,
    I have used many of your suggestions to uncomplicated my life. I have unsubscribed to excess eNewsletters that stream into my box everyday. I felt compelled to constantly check those. Now there is more silence. I also do your morning routine of making my bed when I get up and putting money away for a later donation and these bring me peace. Now I just need to rethink all the apps on my phone and pick a few to eliminate. More peace will be on the way! Btw, I love your laugh! It is so comforting…thank you for these videos! ❤

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  Před 11 měsíci +1

      🤣🤣🤣 thank you so much Michele and thank you for the update. It’s so wonderful to hear. I’m glad you’ve been able to implement some of these teachings into your life. That’s so amazing to hear. You’re doing a great job. Please keep it up 😊😊😊

  • @leadingauctions8440
    @leadingauctions8440 Před 4 měsíci

    Keep up the teachings.

  • @evanioviana2630
    @evanioviana2630 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Venerable Nick, cheers from the heart your teachings. It's always a pleasure and a true source of wisdom to hear from you.

  • @PeggyBlackshire-ww2mz
    @PeggyBlackshire-ww2mz Před 8 měsíci +1

    Yes Nick, haha I have 16 worries but I have bit by bit decreased them from listening to your Wonderful Advise given very gently. Less is better for a well balanced life of Peace more than stress. Thank you my friend

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  Před 8 měsíci

      Oh wonderful Peggy! That’s great to hear. Please keep it up 😊😊

  • @AtortAerials
    @AtortAerials Před 11 měsíci +1

    My Mom has dementia and I've been watching her slip away from me for years now and as her caregiver has been beyond hard. I was adopted and have literally no family other than her. Zero people to turn to and she was the only one to ever be there for me always and now that's gone. Dementia and caregiving is complex and I have no choice. I'm severely having a hard time with depression and anxiety and just don't seem to be able to do it on my own anymore....wish I had just 1 person there to help me.

    • @xbluebells
      @xbluebells Před 11 měsíci +1

      Bless you! My momma had dementia and for me to be her caregiver too it was absolutely the hardest thing I had ever done. I have no words of advice but I am sending you all my love.

    • @shirleyrankin-zf6nv
      @shirleyrankin-zf6nv Před 11 měsíci +1

      I have been there I was care giver for my mom for 8 yrs. She was in a nursing home for 6 yrs. I was always on call .I am a retired healthcare worker that took care of dementia pts for 35 yrs .My mom also had dementia and even with all my experience it was the hardest thing I ever had to do. Even after she passed I had to deal with her estate for three yrs. I loved my mom with all my heart and I would do it all again just to have one more day with her. I also had no other family to help. I feel your pain . It will be over one day hang in there. Go and see if your family doctor can set you up with a councillor it will help .Good luck and god bless

    • @AtortAerials
      @AtortAerials Před 11 měsíci

      @@shirleyrankin-zf6nv 💓

  • @Beth1300
    @Beth1300 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Very insightful. Thank you

  • @jota6866
    @jota6866 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Venerable Nick, thank you so much for sharing this video, i didn't know how much i needed to hear this until i've finished it, it has make me feel better, hope you are doing alright, and thank you again for your videos they are really interesting and really helpfull 🙂

  • @karaeverman1164
    @karaeverman1164 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I definitely can relate I feel very burn out and tired. I’m a single mom of a 3 and 14 year old. I’m always tired but it won’t always be like this. They won’t always be young. They are the lucky ones. I’m not young anymore but I remember that was the best time of life. I love to reminisce.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  Před 11 měsíci

      Yes enjoy your time with them. It takes a lot of energy but it’s priceless 😊

  • @delia200903
    @delia200903 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I love this guy

  • @misskallitheakherl-pyncke
    @misskallitheakherl-pyncke Před 11 měsíci

    🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 Sadhu

  • @arnoldjoyfv1847
    @arnoldjoyfv1847 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Thank you dear Venerable Nick. I hope i can be able to experience that retreat you have 🙏😘❤️

  • @jeffreyjackson5229
    @jeffreyjackson5229 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Financially, I am good. You know why? I stay away from those who would rather ask for money than to improve their lives so that they don't have to ask.
    These are the same people who either won't or can't help you if you need it or seem to have forgotten all the times that you were there for them.

  • @vk250958
    @vk250958 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thanks.

  • @lucadepaoli4790
    @lucadepaoli4790 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Dear ven. Nick thank you so much again for sharing your wisdom! I found in it the answer abour my previous question. I realize that ut takes time to fix the issues but it is necessary to take action and to start and to be patience and keep going!!!!!

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  Před 11 měsíci

      Wonderful my friend! I’m glad the video was helpful for your situation 😊😊

  • @JuanCastillo-vm1ht
    @JuanCastillo-vm1ht Před 11 měsíci +3

    Nicks videos always help me man! So simple yet so powerful

  • @KristenNicole222
    @KristenNicole222 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Im thankful for you, your videos. you help change my perspective, which is needed at times. 🙌

  • @tishatwing6062
    @tishatwing6062 Před 11 měsíci +3

    More Blessings to you and thank you for reminding us and of how to "uncomplicate" life.✨

  • @dhruvpatel7813
    @dhruvpatel7813 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Venerable Nick, I want to ask you a question, How should a person live if he has decided to remain single by intention due to multiple reasons. Today's world is so revolving around relationships and romance and love that people try to demean us and defame us by believing that we're missing something, majority days it's cool but some days it feels a deep fomo. How do we handle this criticism by our family friends peers that just because we made a different choice, we missed out on something?
    Sadhu sadhu 🙏

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  Před 11 měsíci +3

      Take some time to get clear on your intention. You can even write it down. Then always come back to this to remind yourself.

    • @dhruvpatel7813
      @dhruvpatel7813 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@nickkeomahavong01 Venerable Nick, I'm in my 20s right now, been doing a wonderful job with a good income that supports me and I practice Dhamma daily. I mainly live a very solitude life, never lonely but alone. I meditate for hours even after my work. And on weekends my whole day is divided into learning Suttas, practicing bhramaviharas and cultivation of metta. I'm also celibate since last 3 years and want to continue on this path. I travel solo mainly and I love taking all experiences meeting new people and culture and learning from them. I also support the monastic community in my nearby monastery by providing whatever help that is required. I very very very much love this solitude life and I feel I would be doing an injustice to a partner If I date because I wouldn't like to spend much time with them! But my family is putting very heavy pressure on me, they say
      Who will take care of you if you remain single? I answer, I am a grown up and can take care of myself, also there are assisted living where 24×7 help is provided
      You'll feel lonely! But I know I won't! And even if it is just for a moment or two.
      I very well know I'm on correct path but I feel resistance from all side.
      🙏🙏🙏

  • @flor.7797
    @flor.7797 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I buy everything from amazon now, so easy 😊😊😊

  • @kenny99888
    @kenny99888 Před 7 měsíci

    We just got rid of our house phone plus the cable a couple months ago. And we are glad we did. You are so right on about everything:)

  • @SundayBoy72
    @SundayBoy72 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thank you Ven Nick. Always. Teacher.

  • @peterlawrence738
    @peterlawrence738 Před 7 měsíci

    Great work….simple…great

  • @margarettownsley9500
    @margarettownsley9500 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Venerable Nick thank you for sharing your wisdom I’m not in the best place in my life just feeling fed up it’s like more existing and not really living and feeling like this is it for the rest of my life will things ever change will it be any better than it is now

  • @mexigirl64
    @mexigirl64 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Venerable Nick, so good to see you. Always fact filled information!

  • @indianguy8133
    @indianguy8133 Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you so much venerable nick.
    I cant wait to finally use technology one more time.
    Thats when i put in the application to IDOP when i have made my self ready to go.

  • @marcijlo
    @marcijlo Před 11 měsíci +3

    Thank you 🙏🏻 Ven. Nick! I love your videos!

  • @cathelijne.
    @cathelijne. Před 11 měsíci +3

    Thank you, Nick. Very helpful ❤

  • @Advneethupadoor
    @Advneethupadoor Před 5 měsíci

    Hey !
    Nick 🍀
    I really agree the concept Which You told above ! When i looking in to outside i Can see many of them living in the world of Technology .Can be Say through mobile Phone or tech -gadgets ! They Are forgetting to live ! ……
    Wishes 🎉to you and be Happy .

  • @veekay6142
    @veekay6142 Před 10 měsíci

    Omg! This is very helpful, thank you so much.

  • @lulu_g8445
    @lulu_g8445 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Thank you, Ven. Nick! Your videos have been so helpful to me. Honestly, I feel that the dharma wheel has luckily rolled my way again through your teachings. I am looking forward to going to Azusa to meditate soon, and I’m hoping that my friend and I can both go to the event on July 8. Just want to say thank you so much for the dharma and for all the sacrifices that you willingly make so that you and others can be liberated from suffering.

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  Před 11 měsíci +2

      Awwww thank you so much and yes please come visit! That would be great.

    • @lulu_g8445
      @lulu_g8445 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@nickkeomahavong01 My bestie and I watched your video about letting go of the past… The one with the juicer analogy… Afterwards we discussed it and then had a meditation together here at home. It was really helpful. Thank you again for your teachings. In combination with the meditation, which you are always encouraging us to do, your dharma talk helped us to process past experiences and to focus on taking the good parts and moving forward. It brought me a lot of peace today. 🙏🏼

  • @jahzen7
    @jahzen7 Před 11 měsíci

    Love this thank you 🙏

  • @tamarapopovic9532
    @tamarapopovic9532 Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you.

  • @troyanderson247
    @troyanderson247 Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you

  • @paulinebryant1549
    @paulinebryant1549 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thankyou Venerable Nick for caring. And so true simplicity is delightful. Love from Australia.

  • @mcdade7489
    @mcdade7489 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Venerable Nick, love your videos. I am also, like you, a former mental health practitioner. Your videos are very helpful. Thank you❤

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  Před 11 měsíci +1

      Oh wonderful! Thank you so much. I’m glad it resonates 😊

  • @gingersutton8240
    @gingersutton8240 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Again, thank you for your sharing wisdom.
    Complicities…passed that for the most part w help from you & others!
    My big deal is my adult son who has great emotional problems. Worse yet, he will not get help. Refuses.
    My thing now is that my dh & I are in our 80s & want out from his illness.
    My Dd had fought the hard battle w the same disease plus some other debilitating physical struggles. She has the help lined up that she needs.
    My dh & I want to go to a sr. home other seniors to spend our laters years w. I want lose ends tied up.
    I wanna have fun!
    That’s what your speaking to Ven Nick but w other complexities.
    I thought @ 70 I would be done!
    The good side is I am still useful & needed💕Not bad for 80.😊

    • @nickkeomahavong01
      @nickkeomahavong01  Před 11 měsíci

      😊😊 keep going my friend. You’re making progress.

  • @mynameisjanz28
    @mynameisjanz28 Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you Brother Nick sunch a wonderful advice 🙏

  • @seekertruth72
    @seekertruth72 Před 11 měsíci +1

    This came up at right time I needed .....thanks very much Namo Buddhay!!

  • @carolyn8525
    @carolyn8525 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you! ❤

  • @viviandelacruz5364
    @viviandelacruz5364 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Thank you so much Nick for this wonderful message ❤️

  • @chomarhtun2942
    @chomarhtun2942 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @hereisacomment4u
    @hereisacomment4u Před 11 měsíci +1

    Like most people, the complexity in my life comes from my job. I’d like to have a simpler , less stressful job but I’m afraid I wouldn’t make enough money to support my family. Even without having a family to support it’s hard to get by.
    Capitalism forces us to sacrifice our peace just to survive.

  • @linahernandez2081
    @linahernandez2081 Před 8 měsíci

    I’m in CA too; it’s not what it used to be.We have issues other states do not have. It’s rough and yes, everyone is stressed out.

  • @Taylor-fp8kf
    @Taylor-fp8kf Před 11 měsíci +1

    YESS NICK!!

  • @aniccaanatta1774
    @aniccaanatta1774 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much....❤❤❤

  • @law2859
    @law2859 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you Venerable Nick...🙏

  • @mark_______
    @mark_______ Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thanks Ven. Nick. 🙏

  • @bautibhattacharyya8396
    @bautibhattacharyya8396 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Thankyou so much Nick. 🙏🙏 wonderful, wonderful, of your speaks very, very Needful every person of Life. Very, very, thanks🙏🙏 to you 👈 Nick. All the best👍💯Namobuddha. Namo. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🌸🥀🌻🌹❤.

  • @rose-sk2qv
    @rose-sk2qv Před 10 měsíci

    Just found your video's, im from england. your very calming, lovely laugh, made me feel calmer, I feel I get anxious from just noise of everyday life, traffic, people, information, adverts , continuous.. I with draw more, because I feel tired.

  • @lalah3372
    @lalah3372 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you😊Blessings to you too ❤

  • @reginaanthonypillai7515
    @reginaanthonypillai7515 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Thank you ven. Nick for giving us darshan you have truly brought us out of darkness🙏

  • @clayhaddon3968
    @clayhaddon3968 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Sometime could you do a video on over coming fear thank you in advance

  • @novaste1238
    @novaste1238 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thank you, Nick ❤ simplify and uncomplicate, so simple yet so profound 🎉

  • @PrincessJezie
    @PrincessJezie Před 9 měsíci +1

    I love all your videos. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

  • @manjushakya8316
    @manjushakya8316 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you Ven.Monk Nick
    Very effective 🙏🙏🙏

  •  Před 11 měsíci +2

    Thank you so much for this lesson! I wish you a great day! 🙏🤗

  • @sabinamock4799
    @sabinamock4799 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Very good message. Thank you Nick.

  • @stardustdiamond8576
    @stardustdiamond8576 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you much appreciated lots of gratitude one love 🤗💜🦋

  • @tavar16
    @tavar16 Před 9 měsíci

    Great video. Instarted living a minimalist lifestyle over a a year ago. Best change to mental clarity and happiness

  • @mariaa6918
    @mariaa6918 Před 11 měsíci +2

    So calming, so simple.... thank you.....

  • @BeautifulSoul814
    @BeautifulSoul814 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you for the video Venerable Nick