Nicki Swift I was a pentecostal so they remain me of it and it scares me but the one I was in said women were second class evil because of eve so rape was ok I hope they don't go that far
Absolute BS. How are you going to marry someone if you don’t know them intimately? Love is being comfortable with one another enough to share intimacy. How are you supposed to know that from a side hug? Not to mention they are very strict about divorce and they can only get one under certain extreme circumstances. These girls are at a very high risk of living in a loveless marriage and being stuck. That is no way to live your life.
Nicki Swift it's sorta stupid how they have these crazy rules of romance when one of their sons molested his sisters and they defended him over their daughters.
@@morgolig6095 they are like cult Christian's or something. So they dont believe or support in LGBT etc. So being asexual would probably be met with some shock therapy or something.
Rhonda Law Amen. You are so right. Literally translated, it says that he gave Adam an “help meet” not a help mate but still we weren’t there and don’t know the language of the times but I believe it meant someone to meet him on his level and help, not be dominated or ruled over. To be totally honest, I think women have much more common sense then men do and God made us to keep him in check. Lol
When I saw that part I was like well.. right there.. I hate him. I’m in PA school and I graduate in less than a year. I’ll be making the same or more than my current fiancé. Doesn’t matter. I want to be able to support myself. I’ve always tried to be self sufficient since i turned 18. I would hate to just be there to do what he wants. No thank you. I’m so thankful for a fiancé who believes in me and pushes me to go for my dreams.
According to the Catholics women was created as a helper. I go to a Catholic University where you are taught by priests and you are forced to take many religious based classes including intro to the bible and 3 theology classes.
Exactly my comment too, I can’t imagine a more TERRIFYING way to lose my virginity, to go from barely holding hands to having full on sex, all in a matter of hours?! What a freakin nightmare!! I can’t even imagine the theory behind this crap..
@Marla Shidster More than curious who sent me that filthy comment about the Mickey in my Finn. No, it's not amusing and you are being reported. And you can stick that finn where it fits best, Linda.
I’m not one to bash on how others raise their children but Michelle and Jim Bob are way to strict . I can get no sex until marriage but , no kissing , only side hugs and can only hold hands when they’re engaged ? My parents were Christian and they weren’t even that strict with my siblings and I . This is why they get married so fast because they want that intimacy
this is why i like the bates sooo much better. have you heard of them, they have like 19 children also and they're less strict with their christian ways in terms of dating, etc.
Read the Bible....God says sex is for marriage and marriage is of God. It is a very good thing and so are the Duggars. If your parents allowed you to have sex whenever and wherever the notion took you, then they were N-O-T Christian. Sorry, LaTavia but you just don't get it.
To be honest they only court for less than a year usually, it’s not like they date for 5 years before being married. A year would suck but wouldn’t be too hard if you focused on the main goal.
I would literally be so annoyed at my parents if they tried to control my love love like this. Like, I get that some people want to remain a virgin until marriage, but no hand holding, only side higs, and no kisssing until you're engaged/married? And all dates/phone and video calls are chaperoned? What are they gonna do? Kiss through the screen/speaker? And yes, there is sexting, and phone sex or whatever, but still. Poor Jana is 28 and still living at home because she's not married yet. I'd leave and never look back.
They can set they’re own rules for courtship. They could kiss if they wanted to but they just choose not to. Bc they want to avoid temptation. Four regular folks it’s kinda weird that they put so much emphasis on avoiding sex. Also the theory is Jana is a lesbian and the family is hiding it.
It's odd that Jana is still unmarried at 28, pretty old for a Duggar girl, maybe she is a lesbian or maybe she just drew the short straw. Like someone had to stay at home and help the mother raise all those kids cause Jim Bob doesn't look like his much help. Probably had a vote and the poor girl lost that or the rest of them were like I'm getting out of here as quick as I can!!!
That's the cult mentality coming into play. In the Quiverfull movement, of which the Duggars are major followers, the man of the house is second only to God. So what he says should be taken as God's word. The daughters should remain pure for their future husbands whom the dad has to approve of. This is the courting thing where families get together and arrange their children for marriage.
Probably something to do with their public display of faith in a cult. Not a Christian one either. They are dedicated members of the Quiverfull movement.
i completely understand and respect the fact that they don’t wanna drink alcohol, but protesting a store in your town for wanting to sell it is ridiculous
NOTHING this family does has any real basis in the Bible, they have chosen to interpret certain passages to suit their needs and not actually follow what it says
Well,that's what most people do,interpret the bible to suit their own needs be it negative or positive..most who follow the bible don't seem to understand that it is supposed to be a guide,not taken literally..I am not a Christian,but I grew up in a Christian household and I found alot of Christians think the bible is to be taken literally...it's not...
If the Bible is the "Holy word of God" then there should be no interpretation, it says what it says and not what these people want it to say, can't have it both ways
Hineni John3:16 well if people are going to take it literally like that then technically girls can still wear pants as long as the pants are made for females cause those pants are specifically made for females
I don't see a problem with courting, maybe more relationships would last longer if more couples still did that these days. But no hand holding until they're engaged? NO kissing until the wedding day? I don't see how that's possible.
Elizabeth LovesYT No it doesn't. Courting means that two people pursue each other with intentions to marry. Typically they do so with no sexual intimacy, but other types of physical contact like kissing or hand holding is not prohibited. That's why those rules are so incredible to me
The problem is that these couples "court" for about 3 months, get engaged, then are married 3 months after that. It's hardly enough time to get to know someone. Especially if you're 19 or 20. They act on their hormones which means marrying the first person you want to kiss.
i agree with you 100%. ive been following this family for a long time and it was only just before the who Josh Duggar thing came out did i start to view the family differently. I feel for the girls of this family and feel they are almost wasting their lives away. It breaks my heart. Not to mention how if one of them is gay they will most likely never get to be them.
I'm actually happy Jana didn't follow in her sister footsteps I mean I would want to get married but wait maybe like when I'm twenty seven or twenty six I want to live my life not have responsibility for a husband and child but it's also crap that she can't leave if I was her I would have told my parents straight up I ain't the nanny
mountaingal homemaker It's not evil. Some people just use it as an excuse to act on their evilness. And if you just consider how they're harmful to your health, then Michelle should cry about the opening of fast-foods chains too.
Kale Ling You’re right, I don’t know where Michelle is coming from. But since the Duggars are against any kind of alcohol and it’s consumption I found it really ridiculous.
Marco Feekil Alcohol is still a drug. Actually, one of the worst. People get in their cars drunk, killing people. So people, *NEVER DRINK AND DRIVE* Take an UBER home and always remember to tip your driver! 👍
LaraCroftEyes1 they specifically stated that the October date was not their actual date. They had to put a date on the registry so they used her birthday.
Dakota right Joy-Anna was pregnant she marry Austin hence they're supposed to get married in October 28 2017 and that Joy-Anna and Austin had early pregnancy scare while they're courting
LaraCroftEyes1 that was just a tabloid rumor. It wasn’t true at all. Check the math. 40 weeks from Feb 22. May 19. Which would have been her LMP. Conception would be two weeks later. After the wedding.
God, when you said 'no pants' it completely distracted me from what I was doing. I thought you meant underwear XD God, this family is like a cult. When the bloke said "You can side-hug. For thirty seconds." It was just... *weird.*
I dont know how they could. They are monitored at all times. They aren't even allowed to text a friend without being in a group chat with their parents.
@@beverlyjodder6182 no? I mean there are just questions you don't ask around the chaperones who are mandated as your niece and siblings. Who were children..
I think that, if I had been born into that family, I would either have rebelled or cracked up. I wouldn't have been able to take it. Of course, I have always had a questioning mind, which I may have been born with. Wait until one of these families have a kid who has a questioning mind. Then they will be in for a shock.
It's ridiculous for all of them to procreate irresponsibly! Not all parents can handle that kind of stress! The more children the worse your parenting gets, it's a fact. Also you don't know if they can afford them and like so many women bearing children can be detrimental to your health! I had twins and ended up getting a major illness unrelated to childbirth but severely limited my ability to give them all they needed, not to mention the abundant housework involved! Stupid is what I call it!!!!!
The Duggar’s are minted! Jim Bob was some kind of political senate (I don’t know the US term for it). He owns a car retailer, is in real estate both flipping and renting. Some kind of trucking company. Has thousands of acres of land. They do not struggle whatsoever. The older girls have books and CDs, the younger girls have 1 CD. If you follow the girls on Instagram they regularly get sponsored by company’s to promote products.
Now the left wants to limit how many kids others can have- it’s not bad enough u endorse murder of babies becoz u cannot figure out how they r made! Leave these ppl alone- their kids r healthy and loved- not disposable
@@michelleevans5531 They may have money but they were incapable of raising and parenting their own children. Hence they needed to force their child daughters to raise the younger children. Not to mention they ensured and enabled opportunities for their son to abuse and molester his sisters and other girls with no consequences. It may be their life but they have a disgusting life that has harmed others.
One of the sisters did tell .not sure if was jinger or jill but she told her parents when Josh was still just 15 years old .that why thay got the local sheriff involved and sent Josh to a Christian camp for troubled boys .apparently that didnt help .
Young & Funny Ok but either way weren't they still wearing a tunic 'dress'. whether male or female. in that case, shouldn't men be wearing dresses (tunics) now? maybe men's could be 'denoted' by having to always be blue?
I love how all of these girls are completely okay with a probably watered-down education and don't see college or anything higher than being some submissive mother and wife. You can be a holy wife and be a badass lawyer or doctor. Do their husbands have something against a wife being smarter than they?
Jim Bob has a problem with anyone being smarter, more educational knowledge than him. Look how he went after Jeremy & Ben who do not believe as he does.
"Watered-down education?" I can bet you that the Duggar children are probably 10x smarter than the average high school graduate attending public school. Just because you don't share the same religious views and the same way of life as them, doesn't make them stupid. Everyone talks about women's rights to choose their path in life, but they forget to mention that it's okay for a woman to WANT to become a wife and mother. If a woman is content in that life and she's happy, then why should SHE be looked down upon? Not ALL women want to go to college or start a career! And never once in all the years and episodes, I've watched, have I EVER heard the Duggars say that college was forbidden. Please find me proof of that! There isn't any because it's a false allegation. I'm sure if one of them desired to go to college and become a doctor, the etc..their family would stand behind them all the way. But, so far, It's not what they've chosen and I don't see anyone FORCING them down the aisle or forcing them to have children. It's their choice, it's their religion, and it's their life! When did "housewife" become a dirty, taboo word anyway? What's ironic, is that these young women are probably far happier in their lives than other young women who ARE going to college and striving to break the glass ceiling. Quit being so judemental!
@@denalistar5256 there is a show or intervieuw I recall where they mention the girls don't attend collage. They can have some vage online courses but collage is not for the girls they are prepped to be wifes and mothers because that is what God wants them to be.
Being smarter than someone gives you a power and freedom over that person. So do they get an education? Yes. But no matter how smart they are I believe their education opportunity is limited, at best. The men who follow this path want a woman who is meek and mild, subservient and submissive. There are many religions that say Man sits at the feet of God, and Woman sits at the feet of man. These women/girls never had a chance. The mom is a total nut job. The dad and sons are all pedophiles.
The parents are so strict I can’t imagine living in a household with all those kids and barely going out with friends doing what I want. It’s like its mandatory to get married and have kids immediately afterwards with this family I’m surprised none of them broke away and turned out like a Tila Tequila or Snooki
They make up rules that aren't even in the Bible, they're that crazy. I don't drink alcohol either, but Jesus drank it so much in the Bible the he admitted to being called a "lush" or a "drunkard" depending on the version of the Bible you read. Matthew 11:19 is the verse I am talking about, so they would be condemning Jesus if he was here.
Elizabeth LovesYT Just had to come on here to clarify. This verse isn't saying that Jesus drank "so much" or was a "drunkard". The Lord himself is speaking in this verse and is saying what people call him. He speaks about John first and says because he doesn't indulge in what the world does, he's a demon. So he's being chastised for living differently. And because the Lord eats and drinks "he is a glutton and a drunkard". Eating and drinking doesn't mean "eating and drinking alcohol". It was a time of feast and communion. Christ “did no sin, neither was guile found in his mouth.” (1 Peter 2:22) I hope I'm making sense, but scripture isn't always literal. The Lord often speaks in parables, so you have to have wisdom and discernment for what you're reading to fully understand the meaning. Have a nice day!
I'm sorry what happen to you and Jim Bob and Michelle would do the same to Anna if she ever grew a backbone divorce Josh and she be disown by her parents
Not kissing your partner until you’re married is just ridiculous. I’m an atheist, but I do believe people have the right to believe and worship what and who they want, but taking religion to point that the females can’t wear trousers or shorts. WTF?!!
Yes. Ppl like to go to weddings for the food. Thats ridiculous to be served an ice cream float in a parking lot. No appetizers, no sit down dinner, no buffet..Then you are expected to give a gift? Nonsense.
My big question/gripe, whatever you want to call it is how women have been turned into slaves for men by them quoting that God made Adam a “helper” or literally interpreted as a “help meet”...... how does that end up becoming totally submissive to and under the control of a man? I’m just asking cuz it sure seems it’s been twisted from its original design.
@carol nelson Right. I don't get these leg humpers pedo sympathizers. There is always that one kool aid drinker. Plus they are only watching a very scripted reality show. Its all lies. Those ppl are not good. Allowing thier fucked up son to molest his own sisters then goes on National television to say its common???? My brother was a horny teen. Guess what? He didn't sneak into my room to molest me! He had magazines and tried to watch those spice channels like a normal kid.
This is ridiculous that the adult children can’t hold hands/kiss or even have a phone call with their significant other without the parents around. WHAT THE HELL
well, those "men" (hahaha) need someone they can dominate, touch inappropriately and probably worse things I do not even want to think about. It is always the same: Those who pretend to be the highly moral people, are quite often the worst sickos behind closed doors.......
Makes me wonder what Jim Bob and Michelle did when they were teens that they are so strict on their kids. Just because they couldn't keep their hands off each other when they were younger doesn't mean their kids are going to immediately hopped into bed. Instead, the girls are signed, sealed and in the delivery room within a year of their marriage. It is ridiculous to hold your kids to standards you didn't even follow yourself. You can lead and guide, but ultimately the decision should be left to them.
I think they're really overboard when it comes to their rules about love but... I would love a guy to court me a little bit instead of just trying to get physical.
Derick Dillard did not "take aim at Jazz". That comment is so unfair. He simply told the truth about "transgender" stuff. He was very supportive of Jazz and the way Jazz was being exploited. Derick is being misrepresented in this and his comments twisted to make him look bad. He does not look bad in God's eyes. He is completely right in what he is saying. This is exactly what happens when a true Christian tells the truth. Society today does not allow for the truth. If you don't adapt to a worldly view, you are excommunicated. Sobeit. Derick Dillard is a wonderful example of a Christian. I am proud of him and I know God will honor his behavior. The ones who have snubbed him.....not so much.
I think it’s child abuse to have so many kids. I’m one of 7 kids and I know I didn’t get enough love, affection and attention as a child which caused problems for me in my adult life. It’s sad. Children deserve love and care. Attention and help with their growth.
hmmm..... I grew up in a small family and also didn't get enough love - and was very lonely and depressed as a teen, with the result that I left home at 16.
At Joy-Anna wedding, her little sister/buddy was sobbing (which is forbidden by the family) and Ma Duggar grabbed her roughly by the shoulder to drag her away from the bride. J-A to her credit grabbed her sister back and hugged and comforted the sad little girl.
i am genuinely so fascinated by them now that i am older. i remember seeing them on TV when i was a preteen and what not and not really thinking about it very much. now that i’m in my 20’s this is INSANITY. i hope they are all happy or that these girls escape and FIND happiness. sheesh.
The only thing I agree with is no booze. I grew up with an alcoholic father. I am 34 and I have been drunk once, over 10 years ago. I haven't had booze since. I am not religious by the way. I believe in God but not religion.
I feel like one of the reasons heavily religious people get married so young and their dating periods are so brief are because they dont want intimacy but dont want to be punished like they are taught.
And not to mention the whole million children she’s raising/raised, uhh no Michelle YOU didn’t raise them, YOUR POOR DAUGHTERS DID, and STILL DO, so giving out ANY PARENTING TIPS (or a book?! Lol wow) is nothing but a total freakin JOKE!!!!!!!!
They hardly know their spouses. The Bates family allows their kids to really spend time with their potential spouses and are allowed to hold hands, hug, etc. The Duggars are so weird that they only "side hug" their own children! Very cold.
Tbh I think not kissing your boyfriend/girlfriend before marriage is kind of cute. You get to know them better I guess and it makes the wedding kiss all the more special. However, having chaperone’s on dates is a bit extreme ngl
Hunger is the only Duggar that I still like because I feel they really try to act how a Christian should act. They waited a while before having a kid and I really like her husband Jeremy! I love how she was the first to stop wearing shirts and rebelled against her parents in that sense.
Athena Gonzalez I don't think they should have any right to stop sell of alcohol it's not only her town other people have the right to have alcohol if they what they just want to have things there way
There’s a lot of things that I don’t understand or like about the Duggars but one of the top ones is just having that many children. If Michelle has 19 kids and they all have maybe 10 kids they are gonna overpopulate the world! In 20 years it’s gonna all come back on them when there’s so many Duggars that one of them starts courting their cousin.
A father controlling his adult daughters' romantic relationships is creepy as hell. Gross. I hope some of them step out of his control and explore romance on their own terms.
I really hate this family, but I'm feeling sad for these kids. Living like in the stone age, and they think it's okay. Shit, hope they will get smarter with years.
I think that kissing before marriage was one Duggar couple’s idea, and then the rest are like trying to “one up” the rest of their siblings by continuing that tradition. I think one of them will seriously be like “we didn’t meet until our wedding!”
Oh shit, Jill's husband looked normal at first, but then when you see the more recent stuff it seems like he's getting more and more Charles Manson-y looking...
I don’t see a problem with them living how they want as long as it’s a CHOICE. Not a family choice, but a choice that they each have. The choice to chose their own lives, paths and make their own decisions. I get that feeling that this is not the case. It seems like they’re stuck with the ways they’re raised and aren’t allowed to make their own rules as adults.
tell my why my father who has practicing christianity ever since he came out of the womb, will literally let me wear and do what i want (with some rules ofc) (i was also raised in a christian household)
I can't imagine not being allowed to have physical intimacy like kissing before marriage. In my experience it is such an important part of the process. If kissing and physical intimacy were off the table in my last relationship I might still be with him because our physical incompatibility is what caused our breakup. And if I were still with him I would never have gotten together with the man I'm with now who is the love of my life.
Why does that make them sick? What is truly SICK are the people going out and having one night stands and casual sex every weekend, and then running off to the nearest abortion clinic. That's sick. Married couples conceving children in wedlock is the way it was meant to be.
Really they should of taught there pervert son that the parents make me sick can't stand them we they started showing up on counting on I quit watching the show
What Jeremy said in his essay is literally what it says in Genesis I don't think he meant he opposes gender equality I just think he means a wife should complement her husband I think that a lot of people would agree with that I don't know that's just my opinion
Derick sounds like a sane man in an insane world. He’s right, it’s horrible the boys parents allowed him to irreparable damage he’ll most likely regret later in life.
the dad okay a "side hug" for his adult daughter to huge her courting boyfriend. I didn't know the father has the power to control the adult daughter's choices..
Forget physical intimacy. There's no way to build emotional intimacy either if all of your interactions before marriage are supervised. They're getting married to complete strangers. What an easy way to end up with an abuser.
We all know a big reason they have such short courtships and engagements is largely because they are dying for physical touch and privacy. I understand waiting until marriage but imagine how much longer their courtships and engagements would be if they allowed for some reasonably physical touch (hand holding, hugs, kissing,etc,) and privacy. I also know their family frowns upon divorce. So since you married someone you barely knew they could actually be a horrible match for you once you truly get to known them. No Duggar courtships and engagement last more then a year. Most of them only officially dating each other for 6-9 months before getting married. There is no way in hell I would do like that. They are still in the honeymoon phases of their relationship (the new relationship honeymoon period and engagement honeymoon period) when they get married. Then they have the honeymoon phase of being wed and never are able to talk and go through the hard things until after the fact. I much prefer the Bates family over the Duggar’s. They let the couples set their own boundaries for their relationships and allow for privacy (meaning non-chaperoned dates, private communication, access to social media). They allow their girls to make there own decisions. They are encourage higher education to all of them. Their most recently married daughter had been with her boyfriend for about 3 years before getting married. There is not nearly as much rushing around with them. They still have more traditional religious values and ways but they don’t force it upon their children or others.
Not having private time with your significant other must make it hard to know if you’re compatible enough. Imagine never being alone with your s/o until you’re married.. and then you’re screwed!
What's your take on the Duggar rules when it comes to romance?
Nicki Swift I was a pentecostal so they remain me of it and it scares me but the one I was in said women were second class evil because of eve so rape was ok I hope they don't go that far
Shouldn't be allowed to breed, and replicate, other than that, I don't care.
Absolute BS.
How are you going to marry someone if you don’t know them intimately? Love is being comfortable with one another enough to share intimacy. How are you supposed to know that from a side hug? Not to mention they are very strict about divorce and they can only get one under certain extreme circumstances. These girls are at a very high risk of living in a loveless marriage and being stuck. That is no way to live your life.
Nicki Swift it's sorta stupid how they have these crazy rules of romance when one of their sons molested his sisters and they defended him over their daughters.
frida cadena well they definitely think of women as sexual objects to be controlled and men can do whatever they please practically
"Side hug...30 seconds" lmao the way he said it made me cringe.
Young.Gainster SAAAAAAAMMMMMEEEE
Ughhh that was SO creepy!
You know what? Go ahead. I’ll allow it. HAHAHAHA
Then he says "no I meant 3" & they step like 6ft away from one another again. And he's video recording the entire interaction on his phone 🤦🏻♀️
Young.Gainster it’s like he was directing a porno
I guess marriage is the only way out of the house
😂😂
aw What if one of them is asexual? Then what are they gonna do
@@morgolig6095 they are like cult Christian's or something. So they dont believe or support in LGBT etc. So being asexual would probably be met with some shock therapy or something.
@@justblack1 o-o oh
@@justblack1 actually im pretty sure one of them is bi. ima go see who it was
God created WOMAN as a partner not a slave.
Rhonda Law Amen. You are so right. Literally translated, it says that he gave Adam an “help meet” not a help mate but still we weren’t there and don’t know the language of the times but I believe it meant someone to meet him on his level and help, not be dominated or ruled over. To be totally honest, I think women have much more common sense then men do and God made us to keep him in check. Lol
When I saw that part I was like well.. right there.. I hate him. I’m in PA school and I graduate in less than a year. I’ll be making the same or more than my current fiancé. Doesn’t matter. I want to be able to support myself. I’ve always tried to be self sufficient since i turned 18. I would hate to just be there to do what he wants. No thank you. I’m so thankful for a fiancé who believes in me and pushes me to go for my dreams.
Rhonda Law its their religion. A Christian woman must be submissive. Which I disagree but. That’s most religion
who said?
According to the Catholics women was created as a helper. I go to a Catholic University where you are taught by priests and you are forced to take many religious based classes including intro to the bible and 3 theology classes.
Kissing, making out and having sex all on the same day? That sounds like a nightmare.
Exactly my comment too, I can’t imagine a more TERRIFYING way to lose my virginity, to go from barely holding hands to having full on sex, all in a matter of hours?! What a freakin nightmare!! I can’t even imagine the theory behind this crap..
To me it sounds like a party...
It’s actually not bad. My husband and I didn’t kiss till our wedding day.
You don’t have to all in the same day!
@@micaylalemieux8270 what if he ended up being a terrible kisser and lover? Then what?
And no one is allowed to "touch" them unless it's their brother.
Elizabeth Harmon 😆
Oh....don't make fun of the victims
That’s okay, mummy and daddy will cover it up.
Elizabeth Harmon it’s weird
They didn't condone that.
the real problem i have with the duggars is the whole pervert son situation
They had no right to stop people from selling beer and it's not only her town other people live there to
Nive Is Unicorn Fluff and than the girls aren’t aloud to kiss a boyfriend or fiancé
Omg I love Tinashe
Everyone has skeletons...no family is perfect....
@Marla Shidster More than curious who sent me that filthy comment about the Mickey in my Finn. No, it's not amusing and you are being reported. And you can stick that finn where it fits best, Linda.
I’m not one to bash on how others raise their children but Michelle and Jim Bob are way to strict . I can get no sex until marriage but , no kissing , only side hugs and can only hold hands when they’re engaged ? My parents were Christian and they weren’t even that strict with my siblings and I . This is why they get married so fast because they want that intimacy
JB & M don't frontal hug their own children. Children need to be loved & hugged.
this is why i like the bates sooo much better. have you heard of them, they have like 19 children also and they're less strict with their christian ways in terms of dating, etc.
LaTavia Washington ikr what if they’re “love language” was physical touch? I can guarantee that Jinger’s is because she broke the most rules
I like those rules. I dont like the popping continuously
Read the Bible....God says sex is for marriage and marriage is of God. It is a very good thing and so are the Duggars. If your parents allowed you to have sex whenever and wherever the notion took you, then they were N-O-T Christian. Sorry, LaTavia but you just don't get it.
Maybe the reason why the girls are getting married early because they want physical contact (I mean the ability to hold hands or kiss).
My thought process when I see people getting married young
Even christians
@@DubsOdyssey I got married at 23, which, according to this video is apparently "strange" and I had plenty of physical contact beforehand.
catchic0000000000000 It is still kinda young
But that’s just me
@@DubsOdyssey My point was that I was already getting physical contact, so that's not why I got married. I've been married for 16 years now, happily.
catchic0000000000000 Still don’t see the reason to get married young
could you imagine not kissing your significant other until you're MARRIED
DonYelle and Diana I think if I had to marry the first person I kissed life would have sucked cuz he was a terrible terrible kissar
That would drive me mad lols
I have an alternative to kissing.
To be honest they only court for less than a year usually, it’s not like they date for 5 years before being married. A year would suck but wouldn’t be too hard if you focused on the main goal.
To be fair I know it’s not the same but arraigned marriages have the highest success rates to some degree in some aspect it has to work somewhere
I would literally be so annoyed at my parents if they tried to control my love love like this. Like, I get that some people want to remain a virgin until marriage, but no hand holding, only side higs, and no kisssing until you're engaged/married? And all dates/phone and video calls are chaperoned? What are they gonna do? Kiss through the screen/speaker? And yes, there is sexting, and phone sex or whatever, but still. Poor Jana is 28 and still living at home because she's not married yet. I'd leave and never look back.
Unfortunately these poor kids are brainwashed. It's all they know and their parents make sure it's all they know.
G Reader1 sameeeee! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
They can set they’re own rules for courtship. They could kiss if they wanted to but they just choose not to. Bc they want to avoid temptation. Four regular folks it’s kinda weird that they put so much emphasis on avoiding sex.
Also the theory is Jana is a lesbian and the family is hiding it.
It's odd that Jana is still unmarried at 28, pretty old for a Duggar girl, maybe she is a lesbian or maybe she just drew the short straw. Like someone had to stay at home and help the mother raise all those kids cause Jim Bob doesn't look like his much help. Probably had a vote and the poor girl lost that or the rest of them were like I'm getting out of here as quick as I can!!!
That's the cult mentality coming into play. In the Quiverfull movement, of which the Duggars are major followers, the man of the house is second only to God. So what he says should be taken as God's word. The daughters should remain pure for their future husbands whom the dad has to approve of. This is the courting thing where families get together and arrange their children for marriage.
I don’t know why I’m so creeped out by this family!
Scott H We all are, don’t worry
Bc nothing about them allows common pleasure or excitement
Maybe because you're a narrow-minded idiot?
Probably something to do with their public display of faith in a cult. Not a Christian one either. They are dedicated members of the Quiverfull movement.
Maybe has to do with the son molesting his sisters and the mom not batting an eye but cries over Alcohol at a convenience store🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
i completely understand and respect the fact that they don’t wanna drink alcohol, but protesting a store in your town for wanting to sell it is ridiculous
I am surprised that the authorities bowed down the wishes of one family by denying them a license.
my thoughts exactly
NOTHING this family does has any real basis in the Bible, they have chosen to interpret certain passages to suit their needs and not actually follow what it says
Where in the bible does it refer to no pants?Could you give a particular passage?
Well,that's what most people do,interpret the bible to suit their own needs be it negative or positive..most who follow the bible don't seem to understand that it is supposed to be a guide,not taken literally..I am not a Christian,but I grew up in a Christian household and I found alot of Christians think the bible is to be taken literally...it's not...
If the Bible is the "Holy word of God" then there should be no interpretation, it says what it says and not what these people want it to say, can't have it both ways
Give me proof of your claims, Bible verses, let's go, I've actually read most of it unfortunately
Hineni John3:16 well if people are going to take it literally like that then technically girls can still wear pants as long as the pants are made for females cause those pants are specifically made for females
I don't see a problem with courting, maybe more relationships would last longer if more couples still did that these days. But no hand holding until they're engaged? NO kissing until the wedding day? I don't see how that's possible.
Courting means no kissing or physical stuff, just so you know. It means just talking.
Elizabeth LovesYT No it doesn't. Courting means that two people pursue each other with intentions to marry. Typically they do so with no sexual intimacy, but other types of physical contact like kissing or hand holding is not prohibited. That's why those rules are so incredible to me
So, am I the only one that wonders if they only get married to be physical?
No, I think a lot of people are thinking that.
The problem is that these couples "court" for about 3 months, get engaged, then are married 3 months after that. It's hardly enough time to get to know someone. Especially if you're 19 or 20. They act on their hormones which means marrying the first person you want to kiss.
Not to mention Jim bob is a super terrible person who treats his kids like crap according to insiders.
oh i know. I feel so bad for her too. They're wasting her life away almost and she, from what i'm gathering, has no escape or freedom what so ever.
i guess in a way. But I feel Jim bob is way worse. Joe Kennedy was awful but in a different way.
i agree with you 100%. ive been following this family for a long time and it was only just before the who Josh Duggar thing came out did i start to view the family differently. I feel for the girls of this family and feel they are almost wasting their lives away. It breaks my heart. Not to mention how if one of them is gay they will most likely never get to be them.
I'm actually happy Jana didn't follow in her sister footsteps I mean I would want to get married but wait maybe like when I'm twenty seven or twenty six I want to live my life not have responsibility for a husband and child but it's also crap that she can't leave if I was her I would have told my parents straight up I ain't the nanny
Jana can't follow her sisters footstep because Jim Bob and Michelle used her a slave and won't allowed her to have freedom
I could not survive in this family. maxi skirts??? Side hugs??? Nah b
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Nah B 😂
Cough cough Cult.
no cough to it....CULT!!!!!
You're right. They are followers of the Quiverfull movement and even speak at the seminars and gatherings.
No a cult would be the democrats 😂
The Duggar cult is setting us back 100 years
setting you back maybe. I'm blazing a trail forward.
Louder for the people in the back. *coughs on Jill*
How are they holding YOU back???
do you even know what defines a cult? because this isnt it.
Crying because of alcohol 😂
mountaingal homemaker It's not evil. Some people just use it as an excuse to act on their evilness. And if you just consider how they're harmful to your health, then Michelle should cry about the opening of fast-foods chains too.
Kale Ling You’re right, I don’t know where Michelle is coming from. But since the Duggars are against any kind of alcohol and it’s consumption I found it really ridiculous.
mountaingal homemaker weed not that bad chill lmao.
Marco Feekil Alcohol is still a drug. Actually, one of the worst. People get in their cars drunk, killing people. So people, *NEVER DRINK AND DRIVE* Take an UBER home and always remember to tip your driver! 👍
seems that many in this family have serious drug problems.
Lol
Imagine not being able to hold hands with your “boyfriend” until you’re engaged
What kind of bs is this
It was not a honeymoon baby she got married the earliest because she was already pregnant when they got married
Exactly and that Joy-Anna and Austin wedding date was set in October 28 2017
Dakota Mathews no she wasn’t. Check the math.
LaraCroftEyes1 they specifically stated that the October date was not their actual date. They had to put a date on the registry so they used her birthday.
Dakota right Joy-Anna was pregnant she marry Austin hence they're supposed to get married in October 28 2017 and that Joy-Anna and Austin had early pregnancy scare while they're courting
LaraCroftEyes1 that was just a tabloid rumor. It wasn’t true at all. Check the math. 40 weeks from Feb 22. May 19. Which would have been her LMP. Conception would be two weeks later. After the wedding.
We still care about them??
thats what I was thinking.
I can't stand all the baby making brain washed my there Jim Bob cult leader
Uh,no 😝
God, when you said 'no pants' it completely distracted me from what I was doing. I thought you meant underwear XD
God, this family is like a cult. When the bloke said "You can side-hug. For thirty seconds." It was just... *weird.*
They're disgusting and brain washed! Aren't they a part of the quiver full movement? Yuck! Skirts are just for easy access smh
Yes Duggars are part of Quiverfull Movement
Wow I’m actually offended I have to wear skirts bc of my religion
I wear only skirts and non constricting short but no pants, though not for a religion just because they're uncomfortable to me
They claim not to be, but anyone who knows anything about Quiverful knows better.
Raph Reyes YOU'RE sick and WEIRD. The Duggars are classy and very clean
Imagine all the lying and sneaking around these kids have to do, wow.
I dont know how they could. They are monitored at all times. They aren't even allowed to text a friend without being in a group chat with their parents.
I had to have chaperones and I hated it. You can't really get to know a whole lot about the other person with someone constantly hovering...
you mean in bed?
@@beverlyjodder6182 no? I mean there are just questions you don't ask around the chaperones who are mandated as your niece and siblings. Who were children..
Beverly Jodder yup me and now wife where doing the nasty it was kinda weird with all the people around but we did it anyways
I think that, if I had been born into that family, I would either have rebelled or cracked up. I wouldn't have been able to take it. Of course, I have always had a questioning mind, which I may have been born with. Wait until one of these families have a kid who has a questioning mind. Then they will be in for a shock.
It's ridiculous for all of them to procreate irresponsibly! Not all parents can handle that kind of stress! The more children the worse your parenting gets, it's a fact. Also you don't know if they can afford them and like so many women bearing children can be detrimental to your health! I had twins and ended up getting a major illness unrelated to childbirth but severely limited my ability to give them all they needed, not to mention the abundant housework involved! Stupid is what I call it!!!!!
But it's their life, not ours. They actually can aford it. The Duggers were debt free even before the show.
There's a video on this channel called "This Is How The Duggers Really Pay For Everything".
The Duggar’s are minted! Jim Bob was some kind of political senate (I don’t know the US term for it). He owns a car retailer, is in real estate both flipping and renting. Some kind of trucking company. Has thousands of acres of land. They do not struggle whatsoever. The older girls have books and CDs, the younger girls have 1 CD. If you follow the girls on Instagram they regularly get sponsored by company’s to promote products.
Now the left wants to limit how many kids others can have- it’s not bad enough u endorse murder of babies becoz u cannot figure out how they r made! Leave these ppl alone- their kids r healthy and loved- not disposable
@@michelleevans5531 They may have money but they were incapable of raising and parenting their own children. Hence they needed to force their child daughters to raise the younger children. Not to mention they ensured and enabled opportunities for their son to abuse and molester his sisters and other girls with no consequences. It may be their life but they have a disgusting life that has harmed others.
I don't understand why this is talking about saving themselves for marriage..They didn't tell mom or dad the oldest son was molesting them.NOBODY TOLD
Actually the parents were aware of it happening 3xs before "seeking help" for their son. Then it happened 2 more times after only the son "got help"
One of the sisters did tell .not sure if was jinger or jill but she told her parents when Josh was still just 15 years old .that why thay got the local sheriff involved and sent Josh to a Christian camp for troubled boys .apparently that didnt help .
“You can give him a side hug if you want, 30 seconds” I couldn’t imagine living like that💀💀💀
Can they please tell me where in the Bible it says,"Thy women must wear skirts?" They make so much up.
but from that time, i don't believe men wire pants. didn't they wear robes, ie. long dresses?
Jayne Matthews they wore tunics. They had a specific tunic for men and one for women
Young & Funny
Ok but either way weren't they still wearing a tunic 'dress'. whether male or female. in that case, shouldn't men be wearing dresses (tunics) now? maybe men's could be 'denoted' by having to always be blue?
Jesus didn't wear pants.. the men and women should be wearing those robes 😂
@Hineni John3:16 Yeah but men's and women's pants have different cuts so I dont think that applies.
I love how all of these girls are completely okay with a probably watered-down education and don't see college or anything higher than being some submissive mother and wife. You can be a holy wife and be a badass lawyer or doctor. Do their husbands have something against a wife being smarter than they?
Jim Bob has a problem with anyone being smarter, more educational knowledge than him. Look how he went after Jeremy & Ben who do not believe as he does.
"Watered-down education?" I can bet you that the Duggar children are probably 10x smarter than the average high school graduate attending public school. Just because you don't share the same religious views and the same way of life as them, doesn't make them stupid. Everyone talks about women's rights to choose their path in life, but they forget to mention that it's okay for a woman to WANT to become a wife and mother. If a woman is content in that life and she's happy, then why should SHE be looked down upon? Not ALL women want to go to college or start a career! And never once in all the years and episodes, I've watched, have I EVER heard the Duggars say that college was forbidden. Please find me proof of that! There isn't any because it's a false allegation. I'm sure if one of them desired to go to college and become a doctor, the etc..their family would stand behind them all the way. But, so far, It's not what they've chosen and I don't see anyone FORCING them down the aisle or forcing them to have children. It's their choice, it's their religion, and it's their life! When did "housewife" become a dirty, taboo word anyway? What's ironic, is that these young women are probably far happier in their lives than other young women who ARE going to college and striving to break the glass ceiling. Quit being so judemental!
Shawnie Campbell Preach Sister!! 👏🏻👏🏻
@@denalistar5256 there is a show or intervieuw I recall where they mention the girls don't attend collage. They can have some vage online courses but collage is not for the girls they are prepped to be wifes and mothers because that is what God wants them to be.
Being smarter than someone gives you a power and freedom over that person. So do they get an education? Yes. But no matter how smart they are I believe their education opportunity is limited, at best. The men who follow this path want a woman who is meek and mild, subservient and submissive. There are many religions that say Man sits at the feet of God, and Woman sits at the feet of man. These women/girls never had a chance. The mom is a total nut job. The dad and sons are all pedophiles.
“You can go ahead and give him a side hug if you want. 30 seconds” 😫😩 jeez lol
"Duggar Marriages" yet this focuses on just the women. There are several of the sons who are married as well.
The parents are so strict I can’t imagine living in a household with all those kids and barely going out with friends doing what I want. It’s like its mandatory to get married and have kids immediately afterwards with this family I’m surprised none of them broke away and turned out like a Tila Tequila or Snooki
Derrick looks like he’s addicted to percs
They make up rules that aren't even in the Bible, they're that crazy. I don't drink alcohol either, but Jesus drank it so much in the Bible the he admitted to being called a "lush" or a "drunkard" depending on the version of the Bible you read. Matthew 11:19 is the verse I am talking about, so they would be condemning Jesus if he was here.
Elizabeth LovesYT Just had to come on here to clarify. This verse isn't saying that Jesus drank "so much" or was a "drunkard". The Lord himself is speaking in this verse and is saying what people call him. He speaks about John first and says because he doesn't indulge in what the world does, he's a demon. So he's being chastised for living differently. And because the Lord eats and drinks "he is a glutton and a drunkard". Eating and drinking doesn't mean "eating and drinking alcohol". It was a time of feast and communion. Christ “did no sin, neither was guile found in his mouth.” (1 Peter 2:22) I hope I'm making sense, but scripture isn't always literal. The Lord often speaks in parables, so you have to have wisdom and discernment for what you're reading to fully understand the meaning. Have a nice day!
even Jehovah's Witnesses say it's ok to drink...
Jesus dance which is forbidden to Duggars
It's not okay to get drunk.
I'm sorry what happen to you and Jim Bob and Michelle would do the same to Anna if she ever grew a backbone divorce Josh and she be disown by her parents
How tf do u have 2.4 kids?
niya angelova it’s the average, meaning most families have between 2-3 kids
Not kissing your partner until you’re married is just ridiculous.
I’m an atheist, but I do believe people have the right to believe and worship what and who they want, but taking religion to point that the females can’t wear trousers or shorts. WTF?!!
Mental Maud it’s not biblical it’s a fn cult..
Ok I was 18 when I was married. You’re ready when you’re ready. I’ve been married for 11 years and we are happier than ever.
I was also 18. Been married 40 yrs lol
they invite over 1000, to the wedding and only give them cake or ice cream, They could at lease give the a appetizer
Yes. Ppl like to go to weddings for the food. Thats ridiculous to be served an ice cream float in a parking lot. No appetizers, no sit down dinner, no buffet..Then you are expected to give a gift? Nonsense.
My these folks are irritating!.
These people are one odd cult.
My big question/gripe, whatever you want to call it is how women have been turned into slaves for men by them quoting that God made Adam a “helper” or literally interpreted as a “help meet”...... how does that end up becoming totally submissive to and under the control of a man? I’m just asking cuz it sure seems it’s been twisted from its original design.
Everything is strange, weird and creepy about this family.
If you consider living a good, wholesome, Christian life creepy...I suppose.
@carol nelson Exactly.
@carol nelson Right. I don't get these leg humpers pedo sympathizers. There is always that one kool aid drinker. Plus they are only watching a very scripted reality show. Its all lies. Those ppl are not good. Allowing thier fucked up son to molest his own sisters then goes on National television to say its common???? My brother was a horny teen. Guess what? He didn't sneak into my room to molest me! He had magazines and tried to watch those spice channels like a normal kid.
This is ridiculous that the adult children can’t hold hands/kiss or even have a phone call with their significant other without the parents around. WHAT THE HELL
And the fact they believe birth control is a sin.
ha ha, idiot
Honestly, how can you marry someone if you’ve never actually spent time alone with them?
Is one of them that the oldest daughter isn’t married? It seems the others are being married off quick but the oldest ... nope. She’s a second mama.
Well, those men are lucky they have wives because they really do need help. lol
well, those "men" (hahaha) need someone they can dominate, touch inappropriately and probably worse things I do not even want to think about.
It is always the same: Those who pretend to be the highly moral people, are quite often the worst sickos behind closed doors.......
It’s possible that their wives agree with their thoughts
@@pustebluemchen79 Yes, I know that very well because that was the case in my family.
This family just gives me the creeps.
Makes me wonder what Jim Bob and Michelle did when they were teens that they are so strict on their kids. Just because they couldn't keep their hands off each other when they were younger doesn't mean their kids are going to immediately hopped into bed. Instead, the girls are signed, sealed and in the delivery room within a year of their marriage. It is ridiculous to hold your kids to standards you didn't even follow yourself. You can lead and guide, but ultimately the decision should be left to them.
2:31 the girl she is taking a picture with she lives on the opposite of the corner of my street lol 😂
I think they're really overboard when it comes to their rules about love but... I would love a guy to court me a little bit instead of just trying to get physical.
My husband and I are atheist and got married when I was 20 and he was 21. Just felt right and so far we’ve been pretty happy.
how old are you now
@@kva5751 Probably 1 day older than she was yesterday.
Derick Dillard did not "take aim at Jazz". That comment is so unfair. He simply told the truth about "transgender" stuff. He was very supportive of Jazz and the way Jazz was being exploited. Derick is being misrepresented in this and his comments twisted to make him look bad. He does not look bad in God's eyes. He is completely right in what he is saying. This is exactly what happens when a true Christian tells the truth. Society today does not allow for the truth. If you don't adapt to a worldly view, you are excommunicated. Sobeit. Derick Dillard is a wonderful example of a Christian. I am proud of him and I know God will honor his behavior. The ones who have snubbed him.....not so much.
I think it’s child abuse to have so many kids. I’m one of 7 kids and I know I didn’t get enough love, affection and attention as a child which caused problems for me in my adult life. It’s sad. Children deserve love and care. Attention and help with their growth.
hmmm..... I grew up in a small family and also didn't get enough love - and was very lonely and depressed as a teen, with the result that I left home at 16.
At Joy-Anna wedding, her little sister/buddy was sobbing (which is forbidden by the family) and Ma Duggar grabbed her roughly by the shoulder to drag her away from the bride. J-A to her credit grabbed her sister back and hugged and comforted the sad little girl.
i am
genuinely so fascinated by them now that i am older. i remember seeing them on TV when i was a preteen and what not and not really thinking about it very much. now that i’m in my 20’s this is INSANITY. i hope they are all happy or that these girls escape and FIND happiness. sheesh.
The only thing I agree with is no booze. I grew up with an alcoholic father. I am 34 and I have been drunk once, over 10 years ago. I haven't had booze since. I am not religious by the way. I believe in God but not religion.
I feel like one of the reasons heavily religious people get married so young and their dating periods are so brief are because they dont want intimacy but dont want to be punished like they are taught.
And not to mention the whole million children she’s raising/raised, uhh no Michelle YOU didn’t raise them, YOUR POOR DAUGHTERS DID, and STILL DO, so giving out ANY PARENTING TIPS (or a book?! Lol wow) is nothing but a total freakin JOKE!!!!!!!!
that book is horrendous the should be ashamed for using is and especially recommending for other parents to use that book is a how to on child abuse
They hardly know their spouses. The Bates family allows their kids to really spend time with their potential spouses and are allowed to hold hands, hug, etc. The Duggars are so weird that they only "side hug" their own children! Very cold.
Tbh I think not kissing your boyfriend/girlfriend before marriage is kind of cute. You get to know them better I guess and it makes the wedding kiss all the more special. However, having chaperone’s on dates is a bit extreme ngl
Also, I understand that Ginger loves her husband, but he’s a bit extreme in my opinion
“I’ll tell you what, you can give him a side hug. 30 seconds.”
Hunger is the only Duggar that I still like because I feel they really try to act how a Christian should act. They waited a while before having a kid and I really like her husband Jeremy! I love how she was the first to stop wearing shirts and rebelled against her parents in that sense.
I wonder if any of the kids ever tried or thought about running away
why ban alcohol in your town? stop shoving your beliefs down others' throats. jfc.
Athena Gonzalez I don't think they should have any right to stop sell of alcohol it's not only her town other people have the right to have alcohol if they what they just want to have things there way
Didn’t Jesus turn water into wine 🍷???
Yep he sure did
I'm almost sure that was the first miracle. Water into wine at the wedding.
Please don't use God's name in that manner.
There’s a lot of things that I don’t understand or like about the Duggars but one of the top ones is just having that many children. If Michelle has 19 kids and they all have maybe 10 kids they are gonna overpopulate the world! In 20 years it’s gonna all come back on them when there’s so many Duggars that one of them starts courting their cousin.
Maybe their goal is to populate the world with people of their religion.
A father controlling his adult daughters' romantic relationships is creepy as hell. Gross. I hope some of them step out of his control and explore romance on their own terms.
I really hate this family, but I'm feeling sad for these kids. Living like in the stone age, and they think it's okay. Shit, hope they will get smarter with years.
I think that kissing before marriage was one Duggar couple’s idea, and then the rest are like trying to “one up” the rest of their siblings by continuing that tradition. I think one of them will seriously be like “we didn’t meet until our wedding!”
Oh shit, Jill's husband looked normal at first, but then when you see the more recent stuff it seems like he's getting more and more Charles Manson-y looking...
I don’t see a problem with them living how they want as long as it’s a CHOICE. Not a family choice, but a choice that they each have. The choice to chose their own lives, paths and make their own decisions. I get that feeling that this is not the case. It seems like they’re stuck with the ways they’re raised and aren’t allowed to make their own rules as adults.
I think they are a messed up bunch of people. I hope as many of the young people break free from this evil controlling cult....
“Tell you what, you can go ahead and side hug for 30 seconds” BRO WHATTT that’s so awkward 😩😩😩😩😩😩
I respect the Duggar’s decisions.i respect people with conservative views.
Me too
Though I love being a grandmother, I always told my daughters that they shouldn't feel like adding children to their family immediately.
tell my why my father who has practicing christianity ever since he came out of the womb, will literally let me wear and do what i want (with some rules ofc) (i was also raised in a christian household)
I can't imagine not being allowed to have physical intimacy like kissing before marriage. In my experience it is such an important part of the process. If kissing and physical intimacy were off the table in my last relationship I might still be with him because our physical incompatibility is what caused our breakup. And if I were still with him I would never have gotten together with the man I'm with now who is the love of my life.
No condoms and no birth control these people are sick.
Why does that make them sick? What is truly SICK are the people going out and having one night stands and casual sex every weekend, and then running off to the nearest abortion clinic. That's sick. Married couples conceving children in wedlock is the way it was meant to be.
Their family, their life, none of your business.
The father gives me creepy vibes! “ go ahead and hug him for 30 secs and gave this smirk. I don’t know this family didn’t seem right from jump!!
I’m not discounting their commitment to their faith but they take it too far. They are a living example of why forced sterilization should exist.
Seriously? You first.
Now you are going to the other extreme. That would be eugenics and we all know what that led to.
Really they should of taught there pervert son that the parents make me sick can't stand them we they started showing up on counting on I quit watching the show
What Jeremy said in his essay is literally what it says in Genesis I don't think he meant he opposes gender equality I just think he means a wife should complement her husband I think that a lot of people would agree with that I don't know that's just my opinion
19 kids, abusive, cult. Why did TLC ever give them a show. The level of irresponsible the duggers are in so many ways is mind blowing.
Some of the duggars were pregnant before marriage. Surprised? Don't be. Just shows even the most 'christian' people can't wait until marriage
interesting. I didn't know you were there when they conceived before marriage.
They are home-schooled. Doesn't matter if it's in a building or home, it's still school.
@@michelleevans5531 And not told about certain things which they need to get through life. Did anyone teach Josh about consent?
What’s strange is 16 yr olds getting pregnant - not getting married “young” at 23... this world is stupid.
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Derick sounds like a sane man in an insane world. He’s right, it’s horrible the boys parents allowed him to irreparable damage he’ll most likely regret later in life.
The duggar family are insane
MrAnthonyramon is*
In your mind
They should convert to Islam and they can have the same basic beliefs without criticism.
the dad okay a "side hug" for his adult daughter to huge her courting boyfriend. I didn't know the father has the power to control the adult daughter's choices..
Lol and parents jumping each others bones and poping kids like rabbits aaa who cares if we have 19 kids any way the older ones have to raise them jaja
Forget physical intimacy. There's no way to build emotional intimacy either if all of your interactions before marriage are supervised. They're getting married to complete strangers. What an easy way to end up with an abuser.
0:27 You could feel the life slip out of his lungs.
We all know a big reason they have such short courtships and engagements is largely because they are dying for physical touch and privacy.
I understand waiting until marriage but imagine how much longer their courtships and engagements would be if they allowed for some reasonably physical touch (hand holding, hugs, kissing,etc,) and privacy.
I also know their family frowns upon divorce. So since you married someone you barely knew they could actually be a horrible match for you once you truly get to known them. No Duggar courtships and engagement last more then a year. Most of them only officially dating each other for 6-9 months before getting married. There is no way in hell I would do like that. They are still in the honeymoon phases of their relationship (the new relationship honeymoon period and engagement honeymoon period) when they get married. Then they have the honeymoon phase of being wed and never are able to talk and go through the hard things until after the fact.
I much prefer the Bates family over the Duggar’s. They let the couples set their own boundaries for their relationships and allow for privacy (meaning non-chaperoned dates, private communication, access to social media). They allow their girls to make there own decisions. They are encourage higher education to all of them. Their most recently married daughter had been with her boyfriend for about 3 years before getting married. There is not nearly as much rushing around with them. They still have more traditional religious values and ways but they don’t force it upon their children or others.
The Duggars have some pretty stupid 'rules'! I feel sorry for the kids.
Not having private time with your significant other must make it hard to know if you’re compatible enough. Imagine never being alone with your s/o until you’re married.. and then you’re screwed!
How do you have 2.4 kids???
WHAT THE HECK! I'm a women and I WILL NOT let anyone treat me as only a partner or a slave!