Parents Pe Gussa Kyu Ata Hai ??? || Sandeep Maheshwari..
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Thanking You...💗
my parents think that i am rude but they cant understsnd that they are the reason
I swear 🙄
Same here
Yes
Also they think I am egoistic and they say I raise my voice and start the quarrel but they don't understand that the reason is that they don't listen toh me when I want to convey calmly then the only option left is to speak loudly .
🥺🥺🥺😔😔😔😔
@@swarnaabha4568 same here
let's take a pledge..
ki hum bade hoke achhe parents banenge aur na ki humare parents jaise..
love you guys let's make next generation far better than ours.
Yes 👊👊👊
Bhie mujhe toh lgta hai humare shadii hii nhi hogi..... Kyuki depression kei wajah se humare shadi sai pehlay hii death hogiye hogi....... 😭😭😭...... Yrr i can't take this trauma anymore.... 😭😭😭
Hum toh parents hi nhi banenge...boht hua ye sab...hum rahenge akele...sb jhamela khtm
@@syedyasu6273kyu Aisa kuch bhi nhi hoga just thoda time or don't lose hope
@@syedyasu6273 don't think like this, you just need some money, believe me, you can buy your parent's opinions.
We're the last generation who are tolerating such abusive parents who feel that they are God and perfect 🙂
true
The main problem is student are not financial indipendent ........
Right 👍
100% true
Students are not supposed to be financially independent, they are students
Ture 🥲
@@sushreeswain1554haa ek toh independent hone nahi denge ..aur hamesha darate rahenge Ghar se nikal dunga ...humne tujhe pala hai wagera... Ab toh Ghar se nikal ne mai bhi dar nahi lagta ...itna seh chuka hu na 🙂
Parents thinks they are perfect 🤐
Yes
So true
Yes
Yes 😞
Yes 😒
Hamare parents ko hum nhi doosro ke bacche acche lagte hai🥺
Sahi pakde hain😅
Right mummy ko apne bhanje bhanji achhe lagte hain
😂true
True
Aap kaha the Guru 😂😂
In any child's success their is a huge role of understanding and supportive parents doesn't matter whether poor or rich
Ispe jawab milta hai ki
"Utna nahi kama paaya utna nahi padh paaya kyuki hum gareeb the par jo bhi ho tumhe bhookha toh nahi maar rahe na saari jaruratein poori kar rahe hai"
Also
Maa baap ke emotional blackmail se koi nahi jeet sakta...
Bhai app toh maurya hoo appp tohh khoti maa retha hoga
Same case 🤣
Same here
Every time I try to rectify their wrong decision regarding me they start emotional blackmail and try to make me realise that I am wrong
Apni bachcho ki mental health k bare me kbhi nhi sochte sirf apni aur society k bare me sochte h
Mai jeet sakta hu bhai
They take out kindness and politeness as our weakness🥺😔
You are right bro
Parent's think they are perfect for us , but actually they are not understanding us😥 .
They think Our situation is not hard . but actually we all are in trouble situation.
this situation nobody can understand 😐 only our friends understand🤞.
That's the reason we are only share our feelings with our friends not with parents 😟
That's the reality 😶
Ekdam barobar
bhai kch frk hua ya wesi hi situation h?
@@traderbotamanbrother after getting maturity you think that Your parents telling anything to you is for your bright future🤞
And now I changed my thoughts that people becomes a successful person by doing hard work and behave rudely not by listening good things about you for others 🙂
Parents all time fav dialogue agr humne kuch bol diya toh ~
Inko lagta hain ki padhai karke Ye BHOT SMART HAIN hume toh kuch pta hi nahi chalta !
The fact that if we say smth to our parents...they think we are answering them back!
My dad always thinks that ki chal chal mujhe mat sikha 😢
@@ashwinipatil1261 that's what problem is with our parents
Really, I talked this with my parents...
But after it I listened 1 Hr lecture & emotional drama ...😭
they can't understand in any kind of situation.
Same yaar samajte kam hai faltu ke pravachan jyada dete hai
Parents ka overconfidence badta hi jaa raha hai
GUILT TRIP chadhta hai phir. Sabse badi problem yahi hai ki unko hum Hurt bhi nhi karna chahte. Unse jeet k bhi koi satisfaction nahi milta ulta bura lagta hai .
This is the biggest problem or quality in our type of people
Damnn true brother 🙂
Ak acha or sorting parents kabi ya masos nhi hona data
Damn true
best comment form heart
No one can take god value bcz god is very powerful 🙏🏻🙇🏻♂️👑
My parents are always scolding me without any reason its hearing me very hurt but it becomes habit rights now. But one thing i learn be silent in every situation
@@Aspirant429 aise mat bolo yaar you have to keep silent everything will be good on you
Same muja mari mom na khuch asa bola jis ki waja c ma ak dam dump feel krna laga is c acha ma kahi bahir chala jao or kabi wpas n ao
@@Ahmedchattahio yar ap to male ho aap jaa skte hoo bahar...m ldki hu m jhel ri hu kse b...mje job ni krne dia naa bahar jane dia....agr m bhag b jaau to aapko pta h ldkio ki saftey kaa alg msla hota h ....islie ro ro kr jhelna pd rha...
@@Ahmedchattahio yar ap to male ho aap jaa skte hoo bahar...m ldki hu m jhel ri hu kse b...mje job ni krne dia naa bahar jane dia....agr m bhag b jaau to aapko pta h ldkio ki saftey kaa alg msla hota h ....islie ro ro kr jhelna pd rha...
literally i guess we're in the same boat
My parents tells me about only my weakness😢😢
Also they encourage me 😇
Yes same my mom also do the same thing pointing my weakness
They are narcissistic evils .try to know word meaning of narcissist
Bhai aaisa bolunga to chapppal padega😢
Nahi tum bhi ladna seekho wo kehte hai na loha lohe ko katata hai
Ye karna padta hu thoda bohot bhai vrna parents bhi jindagi jhand kar dete hai
@@JonJones9111 meri ho chuki hai
@@JonJones9111 meri kar di hai.aur pita toh jaan ke dushman ban gaye hai.mai ne toh crack bhi kar liya tha kuch support nahi health, education, emotionally .
Right 🙂😭
Mujhe aesa lagta hai parents jis environment se grow hue hai ,jis environment ke sath wo rahte hai . The environment is totally negative present or past both or wo chahte hai uss negativity ko hum pe dalna. Siraf negative environment makes her thinking negative. Yahe wajah hai today new generations face huge pressure of negativity. Hamare desh me talent ke koy kame nahi hai ,soch ( thinking)ke Kami hai. 🤔🤔🤔🤔
This comment is the most sensible in this whole section. Mujhe bhi yhi lgta h... Pr ye bhi h ki hm unhe nhi bdl skte, har 10 saal me jis hisaab se cheeze bdl gyi h, aage bhi bdlengi, hm bhi outdated ho jaege new generation k liye but understanding honge smj jaege. Km se km positivity toh provide kr hi skte h hm next generation ko. 😂
@@himpriya9379 agreed
Parents think they are perfect, they need to rub their ego first
Yes yaar
Ham ek baar ko ye maan sakte hn ki bachche bado ko na samajh paaye ya phir unhe pata na ho ki bade hokar kaisa feel hota hai.
Par agar bade ye bhool jaye ki bachche hokar kaisa lagta h to ye unki glti h. Kyonki koi chhota bade ko na samjhe to samajh bhi aata h pr bada chhote ko na samajhe to samjh nhi aata
'Don't listen to every elder's advice , even fools grow old'
Agar aisa bola to bolte hain ki yahi sunne ke liye humne tujhe paida kiya tha
💔💔😢😢😢😢
100%
Paida karne humne bola toh nai tha na🤪
Hamse poocha tha kya
Tumne bol dia tha kya? 🤣
To hum bhi bol denge ye hi suna ne ke liye hame peda kiya he 🙁🙃🙃🥲🥲
Reality ye hai ki jab aesa kuch bol do toh unka Ego hurt ho jata hai . Elders always think they are right just because of age . But that is not true
Sahi kaha aapne
It's a reality
Mai bhi aone parents ko ulta khoob sunati hu. I argue with them on equal footing. Jitna daboge utna dabate hai parents
Agr asey bolengay na jo ghar main rhene detey hena wo bhi nhi dengay
Maa baap bhagwaan hi hote hai .......
Mai jee hi rha hoon apnei mummy ke liye......
Parents teach you that they are above God...
My parents are really toxic..somtimes I just wanted to die but that's not the solution 😢😢they are the reasons behind my every problem they are thinking that I am not studying because i don't want to buy the reality is that because of their personal problems I can't study well that's the reasons of my bad grades in exams but they are always blaming me 😭😔 I wish I could die but really I realise that no death is not the solution of any problem 😢😢
My parents control Me eveytime... I am really frustated.. And then they expect me to independent
Same bro mai toh ye frustration unn pr hi utar deti hu wapas
@@harshita5043 you can watch ramanand's Sagar Krishna or ramayan serial for better understanding of yourself.it helped me a lot in my anger issues, overthinking issues etc
Papa ne Ghar se Nikal Diya 🙂
My parents think talk back for yourself is desrespect them😢😢😢
They are always perfect in their thoughts, they never understand others, they thinks that what they are saying is The most right thinh in this world😢
Hum nahi sochte ki wo perfect hain balki wo sochte hain ki wo perfect hain, aur is samaj ne unhe bhagwan ka darja diya hai
Bas financially independent ho jaau kuch karke fir hisab har ek cheez ka Liya jayega. 👿😡
Kyu bro......... Jab hisab hi barbar krna hai toh abhi unka fayeda kyu utha rhe ho? Unke paise pe khaa rhe ho, jee rhe ho, parh rhe ho aur agar vo tumhe daant de toh badla lena chahte ho....... Wahhh😍🔥!
@@YashSharma-cf6gf To theek hai main na kamate time kuch paise return kar diya karunga Har mahine. Ab theek hai?
@@madtrainfan Buss paise bro.....?
Bachpan mai maa ne jo tumhari potty saaf ki.... ? Tum jab bukhar mai raat bhar tape toh neend ussko nhi aayi...?
Jab ghar mai rotiyan kmm pdd gyi toh maa ne apni roti tumhe dedi.........
Paison se chuka loge isska hisab bro?
Bhagwan bhi nhi chuka sakte bro, hum tum toh insaan hain❣️
@@YashSharma-cf6gf
What you mean by fayda “loot” rahe ho?
keya hamne kaha ta hamko peyda karne ke liya? aur parent hamare lalan palan karenge, ye to unki responsibility hey koi fayda nehi..agar responsibility nehi nivaoge to tum parents kyu ho
@@YashSharma-cf6gf uss bachche ne paida karne ke liye bola tha kya, duniya mai janam diya h to take care karna bhi tumhe hi h, warna janam hi na do
Perents ho ya teacher ya love ya rishtydar ya fir koi dost..... Glti apni ho to jhuk jao or agr bina glti ke apko sunna pde to suno mat kisi ki
Hm sunne k alava or kya kr skte h ?
@@jiminshii5543 army 💜 smiled seeing you and you are right but one it will their turn l have decided when l will get a job l will give money to them and will live my life freely yes my mon wants is money she said it clearly she don't cares about me and my feelings
@@jiminshii5543sunne ke alawa koi aur option hi nahi hai
I wish it was that easy 🙂💔
Itne me to unke 10 tane or tyar ho jayenge jitna ho chup hi raho vhi better h
Sahi kaha
❤❤
unko kuch bura bol diya toh baad me hame hi bura lagta hai bhaiya.. 💔😊☺
@techlogy tech haa bro. You r right 👍💯
We can't disrespect our parent because we know they get hurt but parent don't care we also get hurt . 😔😔
Me after saying this- R.I.P 💀💀 R.I.P
Maine ye try Kiya lekin wo kuch samajhna hi nahi chahte😢
Mere pure narcissist parents hai.
Oh God .... please protect yourself bro .....if what you saying is true toh unke jaise bilkul math bananaaa !!! Stay strong ....protect yourself ....and be an empath !
Mere bhi
Mere bhi bro..especially mummy
Mere papa
Mere family hi puri narcissistic hai
Har koi aake mere ko bolta rehta hai ye education kuch kar hi nhi raha
Or mei bhi kuch bol nhi pata hai kyu ki drr lagta Hai ki family tut gai to kya karu
Jab hum bolte hai tab wo humko arrogant bolte hai bahut kuch bolte hai😢
Aaj kal ke maa baap ne ganja fukliya hai, ush logon mein hi overconfidence hai
My parent are my parent they are always sacrifice for me❤❤❤❤❤
Because they know they will depend upon us after certain age
That's why parents want boy not a girl
They all are selfish 😡
💯💯💯 true hai sir 😀😀👍🏻💗 really
Agar humne unhe aisa bola toh hum logi ko kitni jada galiya padegyi bappra mera toh soch ke hi dimagh hil gya
If we talk back ... then have to leave the damn house
😂😂😂 right
Agar aisa sach me unsupportive parents ko bolo toh wo tumhe apne gaav wale clg me daal denge (by experience)
So true, being FINANCIALLY DEPENDENT on your parents sucks 😒
@@rosequinn3217 my parents are toxic my health is serious i have lower back pain knee pain neck problem i can't walk they don't support me
@@SageWhisperz This may be because of stress and anxiety. Our body channels out all the negativity that is caused by our surroundings. Try to communicate with your trusted friends or other family members. This is not at all healthy. Try going out more even for simple walks. I hope you feel better. You are not alone. You will overcome this.
My Best Wishes for your Bright Future 🙏
@@rosequinn3217 tysm i will try
@@SageWhisperz All the best brother👍....May u have an absolutely Bright✨✨ and an absolutely Healthy future🙏🙏🙏
Samjanae per bhi parents nhi samjte h hurt hota isliye ummid naa bhar walos se mat lagao naa parents se
You are really the best sandeep sir. Hats off sir thanks
Itna kehne ke baad sir ghr mai rehne nahi denge 😢
Bolne se bhi nhi fark pdhta kuch unpe
Bola tha kehte Hain ki esi aulad na de 😭😭
Absolutely right Sir ❤️🫰
I told my mother the same thing you said. In response she told me, "tereko dekhne ki zarurat nehi hein, jitna mein tereko bol rahi hu utna hee kaar".
Actual mein parents ko bhagwan isliye bola gaya h kyuki woh bacche ki care karte h,resources provide karte h uski growth ke liye,lekin logo ne kuch aur hi matlab nikal liya.aur woh apne aap ko superior samajh ne lag gaye.😊😊😊
Ho parents he ho uska ulta jabaab denge 😢
Correct.
Parents think they are perfect and we are always wrong
But isa bolate hai to unhe aur gussa aata hai ......
Competitive exam candidates can relate 😢
asea Ai bollunga❤❤
If we say something to them .. they will do something which you don't want them to do .. Mein un par fully dependent hu .. agr kahi jana ho toh unse pucho 99 % ans will be no . mein apne psnd ka kuch pehen nhi skti ... phle vo trauma denge .. vo khtm nhi hota phir pressure bnayenge
@@statusxar9763 glti maa baap ki h ki wo sirf betiyo ko gyan dete h beto ko nhi...jarurat wha h !!!
Ldkiya apna dhyan rkh skti h..lekin jisko glt krna hota h wo glt krta hee h...or glt kisi k saath bhi ho skta h..aapke saath bhi...maa baap beti k jivan hrr decision khud lena chate h chahe wo glt ho ya shi...ye bolkr ki hum tumhari chinta krte h...reality m wo bss usse dominate or control krna chahte h..beti apni chinta khud kr skti h..18+ hone k baad aap ka pura haqq h aapki life prr..kisi or ka nhi chahe wo maa baap ho ya life partner..
Hrr kisi ko generalised statement mt pass kiya kro..aapke maa baap ache h to jruri nhi sbke ho..
@@buriburizaemon11678 you are 100percent right
@@buriburizaemon11678no its not true.
Toxic parents abuse even boys .
For girls what to dress is the real concern.
And for boys what to become is the real issue.
Sir apki har baat me dum h par parents ko ni bolengy koi ni hum kr lenge parents ka dil ni dukha skte yhi to eklaute h duniya me jo hume kinna bhi bole phir bhi sabse jyda pyaar apne bchho ko kiya
Sabse zyada pyaar kiye hai aur phir v aise bol rhe hai? Thoda sa doglpanti to hai
hn yeh baat sahi hai yrr
I love my mom but sometimes she says so bitter words that just stab me like a knife and i react very harshly and then I feel guilty😞
Counter reply 😂
I'm trying this method and my dad say.. Battamiz ulta jabab deraha hai apne bao ko 😢😢😢😢😢😢
Yaar ye toh maine bhi suna yaar
Pata nahi parents ke itne kya nakre hai? 😢
Kya chutiya giri hai ye parents ki😢
😊😊😊
Parents ke behaviour ne to mujhe homelander bana ke rakh diya hai 😢. Ab to koi acche se bhi kuch bole to uske bhi amma behen pe aa jata hu 😭
😊
Mere parents mujhe kabhi nahi samajhte, Meri Younger sister ko toh bahut value dete hai aur Uski abhi college life chal rahi hai toh usko toh ladko se baat karne bhi dete hai aur main College me thi toh bolte ki ladko se baat mat kar log kya sochege, Aur sir mera bhi bahut maan karta hai ki Ladko se dosti karu baatein karu par aaj tak ek ladka bhi mera dost nahi ban paya Building me sab soch te h ki main bahut bekar ladki hu Parents pe gussa karti hu par Koi ye nahi samajhta ki meri problem kya hai main kyun aisa karti hu Plzzz sir help me 🙏
Same 😭😭
At the moment, what's is your financial condition? I mean you are fully dependent on your parents or not ...!? If yes, so kohi zarurat hai hi nehi kisi ko samjhana, khud samajh jao. If no, as early as possible try do some job for your basic survival. Then, do everything whatever you are want to day...
Aur kya fark padta hai, app ladki ho ladka, be your own sunshine...
Aur jo bhi khuch karna chata ho wo sab karo, bas ye yaad rakhna, parents ko chod ko bahar ki duniya khunkhar sher ki tarah hai. If you want move , so abhi khud ko samjho aur jo achha lage wo sab karo, aur parents ka kya wo to khoon ristaa hai na, wo log kabhi na kabhi samajh jayenge...
"Have a great day"...💐
Same happens with me but i am a boy, I fulfill all their needs upto my strength and I have 0 expectation from them. I usually don't interact with them for my problems.
With full trust, can we be friends?
@@himanshujha923 Baat karlo unse, khudko separate maat karo parents se, appko jo accha lagta hai ya jo karke app income generate kar sakte ho wo sab karo, jab app appne base kuch kar loge parents bhi maan hi jayenge...
And believe in miracle...
Habe a great life...👍
Kabhi kabhi gharwalo ke vajah se hi kafi bacche jivan main aage kuch nahi kar pate pehale se hi Dara dhamakate hai ...tu ye nahi kar payenga tu kuch nahi kar sakata to its wrong
Bhai ye galat ho jayega. Itna himmat nahi hai 🥲 bura lagega bahot unhe
Because oo apko critisize nhi krtai abuse nhi krtai..
You have good 🎉
Ha yaar aur unko bura lagne pr muze aapne aap hi bura lane laga he... ki chup chaap sun loya hota unko. Chahe achha ho ya galat.. Mere bolne se situation aur kharab hogai aur conflicts aur badhgaye 🥲🥲
We know their intentions right
Unko bura nhi lgega agr hmne asa kuchh bola n to hmara hath pair muh sb toot jayega...😢
If parents makes sacrifice for you then die for your parents ..
If your parents makes you sacrifice then just leave them ❤️❤️
Literally ese toxic parents ke hone se acha na hona h leave them apni life me khush rhe bs
@@ruhisharma4 yes 💔
If we said like you say, then they say you always disrespectful with us we made a mistake to born you
Right
Hpp always parents not right..merai baap nai tho 3 sal se zindagi khrb kr di h
Only this person's answer satisfy me.
Main bolti hi hoon aaj kal
me bgi khi kbhi
My 90%problems are created by my foolish parents....now i am 20 and suffering because of them... now i have ideas to resolve them but its too late I thinks l. I pray to god that please give maturity to children because everyones's parents are not smart and clever..
Hum isliye unhe kuch nhi bolte kyuki hum parents ki feelings ki care krte hai but wo nhi krte, kyuki hame pata hai ki kitna jyada hurt hota hai jab aap bohot hardwork krte hai but kuch fayada nhi hota aur parents ko lagta hai kuch padhai nhi ki isliye selection nhi hua, it hurts like hell
Unse behes... Kbhi nhi....
Ghar se na nikaal de.. 😒😒😒😞😞
Kuch parents to sikhna chahte hi nhi he, chahe hum kitni b koshish kar le... Wo na sikhne ka koi na koi bahana dhundh hi lete he .....
Ye koi comedy nahi hai ,,,, ye serious matter hai
I hope we are the last generation which is survive from this conflict.
Agar hm bolte he to hm pe jor jor se chillate he or hath uthate he muje boht bura lgta he😢
Idk..... but this toxic trait of my mother ..... whenever i say things i want to .... she starts crying every sympathetical limelight moves to her and she always starts with ajtak jo kiya h tere liye hi kiya h puri umar ho gayi inko pdhane ke liye kamate inko izzat hi nhi h ..... she just makes me regret but respect is not about financial support every parent do that they have to if you are planning a baby this is about emotional support that indian kids never receive
For them they are elder means they are right...
That’s called back answering
They think that they couldn't do well due to their problems and we should do well because we don't have problems, I agree that we don't have the problems they had but we have different problems
Parents also disrespect their child,they compare,they dont see the trauma their child is going through ,infact they see them as attention seeker,always criticising ,always torturing ,...m living in this home from last 36 yrs ..now m dead inside
I got a toxic family:( I feel so sad most of the times...
Jis din maine ye bol diya na to really vo din uss ghar ka akhri hoga
Yes they are my god and I am happy with it❤
Use aage se koi reply ni chayie logical reply to bilkul b ni ego hurt ho jati hai sochte hai hume sikha ra hsi khud chahe so galtyia kar le maaf hum ek b karde to puri life sunate hai
being broken but parents did'nt understand
Aisa chamat padega ki 2 din tak ith nahi paunga