Biggest Parenting Mistake | Sandeep Maheshwari | How To Choose Your Career | Hindi
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- Sandeep Maheshwari is a name among millions who struggled, failed and surged ahead in search of success, happiness and contentment. Just like any middle class guy, he too had a bunch of unclear dreams and a blurred vision of his goals in life. All he had was an undying learning attitude to hold on to. Rowing through ups and downs, it was time that taught him the true meaning of his life.
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I can relate to this ,I have my brother who wasted 6 years of his life in UPSC preparation .At the end he is going through same trauma what sir has mentioned .we are trying our best to support him now .
Just an update : He cleared the UPSC CSE in his recent attempt,Thanks everyone for all the warm wishes ,really grateful 🙂
Tell him about this girl . and how he has done no mistake , and show him some garryvee videos where he says , you have time to even old people of age 60 .
He says : " starting from 21 and you f*ck for the next 5 years , and the morning you wake up , you have the whole life in front of you . " These kind of information can help him deal
with the situation .
Best of luck for him❤
Success is Journey
Not a Destination...❤
I am going through this tough phase..
I had already wasted 7 years of my life for preparing various government exam..
Even I can't take decision...
Should I give up or continue my preparation?
I am hopeless, I felt immense pain..
Sucidical thoughts come to my mind..
I wish I were a poor student..
I am from general caste..
Every time I am out of the final merit..
I don't know what to do..
Give up
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@@funnygamer2867
U can become home tutors my frnd.
I don't know how would have my life been without his advice and guidance 😢 thank you sir ❤
and yet, your username is hatemeguys !?
Yes same here
@@sskothawadewhat's the logic 🤔?
Awesome,, you learning.....
This is the harsh reality behind these entrance examination like UPSC, NEET etc etc & no one talk about this topic... Thnq Sandeep sir❤ for guiding us.....
Bitter but truth!
Iam a psychiatrist. Many teenagers come to me in depression, when they are not able to crack UPSC.
1) failure is not a problem. But acceptability hona chahiye.
2) apni ability k according hi aapko apne carrier options choose karna chahiye.
Every teenager must watch this video. Thankyou Sandeep sir!
I think if your child has a valid point for not pursuing something you shouldn't force them. as for the girl sandeep sir is mentioning she didn't have valid point and the girl was a idiot. and every parents should raise the children the way sir sandeep sir advising.
I want to talk to you please
madam, i need help 😔😔
Sandeep Maheshwari sir realizes the future reality 😊
Sir best motivation for parents
Very true.
See now again we are getting biased by seeing this video... so we went to the negative extreme....
Come on... not blaming sandeep sir.. but again everybody forgot the point of the video and got negative extreme thinking that UPSC will be a failure.
If you are smart enough again analyze both sides of it...meet both the succesful and failures and make the right decision....same example of drinking water applies here...
Thx sir
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आदरणीय संदीप माहेश्वरी जी आप देश हित में बहुत बड़ा काम कर रहे हैं देश के फिल्मी हीरो जो नहीं कर रहे हैं इससे ज्यादा आप कर रहे हैं आप रियल हीरो है
I think filmy hero ka to comparison hi nhi hona chahiye, wo log to katputli ke tarah kuchh v act krte h...
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10:20 imp line.."koi b topic k 2 side dekhne chahiye usse negativity nhi reality kahte hai"👍👏
This man is born to make history ❤❤
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Barbaad kerne par laga hua hai Bharat ko jo itne bure tarike se youngster ko संस्कृत or apne sanatan ke khilaf कचरा bhar raha hai.
Bhai same comment har bar
He already made it
UPSC coaching institutes often employ psychology-based marketing tactics such as:
1. Authority: They showcase faculty members who are ex-civil servants or have impressive credentials to build trust.
2. Scarcity: Limited seats or early bird discounts create a sense of urgency to enroll immediately.
3. Social proof: Success stories and testimonials from previous toppers are highlighted to demonstrate their effectiveness.
4. Fear appeal: They emphasize the difficulty of the UPSC exam and position their coaching as the only viable solution.
5. Bandwagon effect: Institutes often stress on the number of students enrolling each year, suggesting that joining them is the popular choice.
These tactics play on aspirants' hopes, fears, and desires, compelling them to sign up without fully evaluating their decision.
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Thank U sir for your right
GUIDANCE ❤❤ It will save many students from stress, and suicidal thoughts
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It is reality
Really heart touching for those who already failed 😢
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@@Ramesh-js5nofail kon hota he pata he bro aapko . Or kisi ko nhi pata ki fail ham nhi hote fail hamara Brain hota he . Hame usse sabse pahle conqueror karna hoga .
Exactly my point. Freedom to children is the cover over lazy parenting. (Even parents don't realise they are lazy) We tried to reason out our daughter's choice of career, help her meet those who were already in the field, encouraged her to ask the questions to them, and help her feel confident about it. Sometimes we doubted if it was interference, but, she is very happy that we help her decide her stream.
This is one of the best session to understand the thinking of our society
This video is a must watch for every aspirant who is dreaming of IAS and preparing for government exams...
As well as there parents also ...
Nothing new here.... It's the reality.... There are ups and downs... There is failure... Uncertainty...depression....
There is a person in my relation who has been preparing for UPSC for the last 8 years… and I am a JEE aspirant, so I did not get in the first drop, but he says, try once again, it will happen…I told him clearly that I don't want to try now because I know now that mine will not happen even in nit....& Now I am very happy with that decision so friends if you have parents or whoever Don't do on someone's saying first justify yourself then look at his other side if it doesn't happen... take a decision after all this....!😊
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Very true.
You make us think the way we should. As a teacher, I try my bit to help students think critically. And a lot of it is inspired by you. "Ye Duniya Badlegi, Badlegi ye Duniya.. Kyonki yeh bhi hona .. Aasaan Hai! "
Same meri mamma ne bhi kia tha jab mjhe career choose karna tha..i have given test for AIEEE jisme architecture ka bhi exam tha..usme i have scored more in architecture so i was more interested in opting architecture rather than engineering.
After few days mamma mjhe ek di ke pass le gai jo already architect kr chuki thi unhone mjhe sab btaya kse unhone clear kia architect every pros n cons. After this discussion i was able to take the right decision. So you are absolutely correct. Smart parenting to hmare mamma papa ko bht ache se aati thi. Ab social media ne sab badal dia hai.
It's not only about UPSC but, other Govt. Job as well. Because, it's not our dreams. It's our societies Dreams. 🙏🙏🙏
UPSC Govt Job hee haina
@@punittiwari212Ha
The best point in this video is human biases... ❤🎉
Yes.. Availability bias, reality check also
Sandeep sir is god of our present society..........................❤❤
You are inseparable parent of many of us sir who teaches everything needed ..thanks a lot sir ...lots of love and respect to you....❤️❤️❤️
Best line of sandeep maheshwari is "Apny app dekho mery khny sy kya hota hn.... Best wisdom ❤
Sandeep sir is modern world guru ji in our country 🙏❤️
I agree with you.... We need to show our kids the fact check process. Today's kids need to know how to face failures and adversity......
No one can match this discussion ❤❤
Acharya Prashant Sir ko sun lo ek baar.
Nice to hear from you and got to learn more about good parenting. Thanks fm bottom of my heart. “Balance in life is very essential to take right decisions “
Sandeep Sir is telling us about the harsh reality in everyone's career in Indian society and families. It is the today's bitter truth and probably the word of mouth of every student, very difficult to digest for parents and their ego. 👍🏼👍🏼 It is the best Psychology Lesson and career counseling in the world. Thank you Sir for such brainstorming sessions and mindblowing content. ❤️❤️ Keep inspiring us and telling such harsh realities. We love your honest suggestions and future mappings. No motivational speaker in the world will tell such things and give this type of honest opinions to the public. 😍🙏🏻🙏🏻
See now again we are getting biased by seeing this video... so we went to the negative extreme....
Come on... not blaming sandeep sir.. but again everybody forgot the point of the video and got negative extreme thinking that UPSC will be a failure.
If you are smart enough again analyze both sides of it...meet both the succesful and failures and make the right decision....same example of drinking water applies here...
@@457anand I am not here to criticize UPSC aspirants or UPSC organisation here. I am thanking Sandeep Sir for telling dark side of UPSC. It's bright side is already known to the whole world, there is no need to highlight. As Sandeep Sir said, nobody could tell you about that dark side of failures and false beliefs in your mind.
@@dr.chetan sir.. agreed...but look at the comments.. see the mindset of people.... they have concluded that UPSC is a disaster.. tomorrow if someone says the opposite, they will believe that also... all am saying is try to analyze pros and cons and never come to conclusions based on someonees advise.. i agree this is an eyeopener video..
@@457anand That's correct!
Bro sango life sutra ne pehele hi sab kuch bata chuke hai
My favourite mentor Mr. Sandeep sir ❤❤
Indeed a very enlightening & eye opening video ...Please post such content as much as you can ... Thanks a lot for sharing your valuable guidance .
Web series dekh kr m bhi motivate ho gya tha bt sahi wqt pe apne sacchai se awgat kra diya, it is really an Eye opener video❤
Again unbelievable session sir 🔥🔥
Listening him since 5 years he has evolved fro subjective point of view towards more objective point of view that is towards more unbiased approach day by day he should be working on himself so much in shadows ❤
What do you mean by subjective and objectives, could you explain
अति सर्वत्र वर्जते ...well said sir😮
A little observation over the year on Sandeep ji’s videos.
At the Initial stage of his videos, almost every videos were a motivational which was very helpful for the those who were disheartened with their life experiences. Be it career, business, relationship, health, etc. You gave a new hope for those who don’t have any other vision or a prospective.
Now, in 2023, most of the videos are not so called motivational rather a realistic videos. It’s a gentle leap where many of us are aligned with the thought process of you. The realistic videos gets lesser viewers. Anyways, Thank you sandeep ji
As Sandeep ji also evolving each and every day as per his experiences ,he's trying to deliver his best.
Life has to go through various stages of life.
Yes,
Sir aapne jo es video m bola it is a truth because mai ak NEET aspirants hun or mujhe malum bhi h 22 lakh bacche exam dete h or only 50 thousands ke aas pass selection hota h mere pass hone ke chances only 1-2% h or fail hone ke chances 98%
H fail hone ke chances jyada h it is not demotivation it reallity of any exam mene aapki video se kuch naya sikhne ke liye dekha motivation ke liye nahi
Thank you so much sir 😊😊❤❤
This is reality of UPSC ❤
Awesome Sir.....❤
This is an Amazing discussion, so much need of this awareness at this time and age.
Beyond intelligent.
He deserves a Padmashri....❤
Thanks from the bottom of my heart for making this , I really learn a lot from this 😊 .
*Good discussion of coaching upsc industry thank you so Sandeep sir*
I think it's not only important for the parents it's also important for all students or children. Thank you sir for such a wonderful knowledge ❤
Very true.We should follow this method of parenting.👍
You are only one person of CZcams when they say truth without any bias ✨✨✨✨
Absolutely true! Coming from a state where I have seen people selling their land or giving away their savings to fund their children’s “UPSC coaching”.
Not only upsc neet nd medical study too.....😢
@@theambivert798 but in neet have more chance than upsc
@@arikvlogs3284 its hard for general. ....to get seat
@@theambivert798just spend 1 year after 12 th for neet, if u dodnt crack no problem
Join graduation in other stream
You are definitely not a normal human being....
You are simply awesome...
You surprise us everytime we hear you...
Thank you and God Bless you... 😊😊
Very very important video ❤❤❤❤wonderful vision you have.... Itna achcha bataa diya ki bachcho ko reality dikhao and support.... No words for maargdarshan sir
Great .... The World need people like you.....
Lots of love and respect from Pakistan💎❤️
Thank You Sir Your Speech Very Useful For Motivation
Sir apke Jaisa pure you tub per koi nhi sab khali lootne wale h sir apka dil bahot bada h ap jo kr rhe h apk jaisa aj tak koi nhi kiya h .bhagwan iske badle apko aur bahot kuch de jo ap deserve krte h
We are blessed to have a such a great personality, who simplified each and every corner of the life. Thanks a lot sir for improving our thought process.❤
The best way to choose your career is to see and meet both the failure one and the success one. who does what you want to doing. and see the good side and bad sides of the career - Sandeep Maheshwari
So great Full to attend this live session ❣️
I was also going through this type of journey depression . I was prepare one of competative exam . My thought of doing that exam generate from a seminar , where I was seeing only positive sides of that exam with ignoring negative sides. I was not ready to see the reality . I was badly afraid of to see the reality .
No one talk about this ....everyone seeing only positive sides .
Thanku Sandeep sir . 👍❤️
And please keep it aware to newly student who has currently thought about it.
Thankyou sir.. This video will help many youngsters to learn more than that of their dreams..
Wow wonderful session ❤
I have completed my graduation this year and i am 21.5 years old i am not preparing for UPSC but preparing for SSC but i will not waste my 5-6 years for preparing i will try just for 1 to 2 years just and i will also learn some skills during the preparation so that there will be option B for me❤️❤️
Best of luck🎉
Welcome To 10% Club If You Try SSC
Or If You Direct Drop SSC and Pure Focus On Other Things, Business, Then Welcome To 1% Club
2 year purely focus on ssc and 1 year enough for skills
For success two years no plan B .. after two years make new Plan A... But never make any plan B.... Just change your Plan A as per circumstances...
Bhai 21 ke ho gaye paise kamana suru Karo l. Ye exams ke pache mat bhago .
First make millions
""Clarity for youth "" is best platform for youth he already addressed this tragedy.
This comment is not worded clearly so I want to say. Clarity for youth is a YT channel that has covered this topic many times.
Agree❤
I also follow Amit Sangwan sir😂
true actually Clarity for youth is the first channel which is publishing this content with original thought process.
Thank you Sir. This topic is really an eye opener for all of us parents as well as children.
You are absolutely right sir.
There is lots of students suffering from this.
This is best video for their parents ❤❤❤❤❤
Thankyou making such content sir.. it's really amazing for students 😊
कर्मण्येवाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचन ।
मा कर्मफलहेतुर्भुर्मा ते संगोऽस्त्वकर्मणि ॥
Love you Sir...
संदीपजी आप सच्चे संत हैं, जिसने काफी समय से दूसरे के हित में सोचा और दूसरो के लिए कर्म किया, जिसे गीता में यज्ञ कहा जाता है। आप धन्य हैं...🙏
Kabhi bhi ye sant nahi ho sakta bharat ke sanatan kr khilag hai jo sanskrit ka khilaf hai hai
Kon keh diya ki Sandeep sir khilaf hai kuch bhi mat bolo Bhai
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Love from Nepal 🇳🇵🙏❤
You dont know but many of international people love you much more 🎉❤❤
Well said Sir...I am happy that I think this way...UR WORDS R GEMS OF LIFE
.. NOTHING LESS...🙏
Thank you Guruji for this Amazing Awareness
Thank you sir, you teach me like a father or elder brother. Thank you I literally needed it. Everyone's eyes catches shine or glow of it without knowing the reality and process behind that.
Thank you so much sir, I really need that kind of video because I've just completed my 12th class. And was confused about my career. Now, I know ki esi cheez me jitna time lgaungi usse accha jis jgah competition km h uss field me jaake bohot behtreen kr lungi.
Lucky to born in Sandeep Sir's era❤
But sir kuch jayada motivate nhi kar dete .... I don't think so sabhi log jitna view ja raha sab life me implementation karte hoge ...
Practical psychology ke session mein ye already pucha ja chuka hai
hi rasika, Will You friendship with me😍
Yes ..sir your are right 👍...समान समस्या
Excellent point covered sir, I can well co-relate this being mother of two.
Such an outsider influence, just not giving proper time to the kids.
My 9 yr kid talks so much about...and shows me the what's going on these days!!
Thank u sir.. I want a few more videos regarding parenting...
A man and his love can change the world. Thanks for your contributions.
Can anyone explain me ki negetivity aur reality check me difference kya h because when if we are thinking about reality may be we can be demotivated 10:38
Sandeep maleshwari sir ❤
Great motivator
Such a great sir.your thoughts and understanding.❤🫡
Aankhe khol d sir aapne....superb sir
Sandeep sir's childrens are very lucky to have him as a Father 💜💜
Bhai thik bol raha Tu galat baap ke pass aa gya bhai kamiya, dekh uss bacche ka sandeep kitna action leta hoga uss parr
Agar padhe iss comment ko reply jarur dena 🙏🙏🙏
And you are lucky, you have parents whatever they are or bad at least it's a lot better than being an orphan
@@dukandartraderkyo asa kya likh Diya tune
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Everytime we watch his videos, we get a new perspective towards life❤
Thank you sir
I don't have words to actually express how true and right this point is!!!!
himmat ko salaam h sir aapki. is topic pe koi baat hi nahi karna chahta.
One of my frnd started doing upsc 2 yrs back, that time yvf aspirants came and she was very happy and liked the series too much,, she said to me i shuld watch, then i watched and my view was like that ki reality nahi show ki h,, and its half the picture of reality,, bt she fought with me on my view,,
Your name is enough to save millions of people who is actually faceing struggle
Thanku sir for your this Channel🏆
Shi kha Sandeep maheshwari shab 🔥
Me jab coaching wale teachers ke motivation Ko sunta Hun
to hsii 😁 aa jati hai unki bato par
Unfortunately 😢 vo baten students ko bahut acchi lagti or motivate ho jate h
I Hate This system 😢
Right 👍
Exactly Sandeep sar bhi yahi bol rahe hai.
❤❤❤
Shi kha
💯💯
Thank you sir. Apne to sochne ka najariya hi badl diya. Actually me reality yahi hai jo apne batayi hai🙏apke jaisa dusra koi bhi soch nahi skta our na hi hm students ko smjha skta hai🙏
I can't express in words about you sir because you are most valuable person for me
You r really telling the facts❤.... sir....
Thank you so much sir 🙏 for guiding us to be a better person and also a better parents. ❤
I have no words, I can see everything clearly after watching the video, and now I am crying 🙏❤️, thanku sir apke hone se zindagi aasan hai ...🙏
Best answer when everyone wants a goody-goody life. I think he is one of first guy to speak on this topic . Hats off to you sir🙏
Everyone blames there parents for all their bad lives. They forget that once they will be in 40s-50s they will also be blamed by their children..
amazing lesson given by "Sandeep Sir" 🎉
Excellent video sir... Thankyou for your effort.. reality is most important..
If you really respect Sandeep Ji. Kindly forward this video to such people who are doing the same thing as a parent or to whom who is facing this problem. Always spread kindness. Thank you 🙏 😊
Surely,we will definitely give this video to the one who needed it the most.Namaste.
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Woh ladki mil gayi
Koi respect karne layek nahi
Jo apne bhartiye भाषा का bhiskar kiya
Hai
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Best motivation speaker in the world is sandeep maheshwari sir ❤❤
This video is really helpful for me as I have been struggling a lot to choose a career.. Thankyou sir!
Sandeep sir ko kisi se b compare nahi kar sakte next level knowledge and very very helpful for us ghar baithe bahut help mil rahi h.. Great❤😊
To make children aware of real life experience of a situation and all sides of it is good parenting acc. to me... always a blessing for u sir...
To know the trueness of these fake people who are almost 90% around us will be good for children...
That's very best decision making process ❤
How true
You are doing great by being an eyeopener
Waah😢 sir kya example diya hai aapne samudra ka❤❤🙏🙏
Sandeep mehswari is the real hero
Love you Sandeep Maheshwari sir
Such an insightful session ❤
In this session, the energy is next level. Fantastic explanation 🙌
Every upsc/NEET/IIT aspirant must watch and accept this.. I have been preparing for upsc last 2 and half years I have realised what does sir want to make understand to us.thank u so much sir..