Dating App Red Flags đ© - PRETTY BASIC - EP. 173
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 21. 06. 2022
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Sound the alarms! Alisha is officially back on the dating apps. SO, of course the PB girls HAD to dedicate an episode to the infamous issues that arise when dealing with ghosting, replying and flirting virtually. The girls give their listeners advice on how to respond to certain messages, how they would respond to prompts, and their red flags and green flags on the apps. This episode is a hoot and a half and the PB girls dole out some quality advice, so tune in!
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The world ain't ready for when alisha find her true one. That will be the power couple of the century I just know it. I feel like alisha needs a confident man who knows what's up but is also able to read a room and can be fun in a social setting but is also down to hide out for days on end. Remi and cal are everything and I can't wait for alisha to have her lil fling
Oh definitely. I think the universe is just waiting for the perfect guy for her. She deserves the world and needs a guys who matches her energy. Really anybody would be beyond lucky to be with loshy, and I canât wait for the day that we see her with someone she truly loves.
He is getting ready! Still needs time to be the perfect guy for her... but he is coming!!!
Alisha: You know what, I am lonely
Remi: Good!
đI mean we know what you meant but đ
I feel the blue eyed thing soooo much, theyâre so cold looking haha brown eyes are so warm and inviting
2:28 isnât it weird how alisha never tells remi anything (dating, being sad, etc. ). But alisha tells the people that remi is extremely close with and the people that remi introduced alisha to. Idk I canât imagine being this close and not sharing that type of stuff with each other but going to people youâre not as close with and sharing extremely personal stuff. And the worst part is that the people she confides in always gossip and remi ends up finding out!
Righht? I thought the same.. whenever anything happens to me the first person i tell is my best friend, and i always wonder if they truly are that closeđ„ș
She kinda mentioned it in the last podcast but I think itâs bc Alisha doesnât like worrying remi! Jokes on her tho bc our sweet angel rem is always gonna worry a little, in the loop or not đ„Č
@@IWishIHadABetterURL ya maybe I get it the first time but this is the second time and itâs about something remi cates about so much.
@@IWishIHadABetterURL I mean it wasnât anything worrisome. She didnât even tell Remi that she joined dating apps again⊠itâs nothing deep, in fact Remi would rejoice but alisha made the conscious decision to not tell her
I understand her itâs like when you have anxiety sometimes we worry so much of the people the closest to us because we feel like maybe they would judge me or this or that not because she doesnât trust rem but because she feels anxious and not because she doesnât care but because she cares way too much so itâs easier to talk to other people idk Iâm always like this with my closest ppl
I would LOVE to see this episode with some guy perspectives, or even LGBTQ perspectives on dating and dating apps. My friends and I would ALSO discuss how curious we were about what other girls profiles looked like to men, or what their red/green flags were for our profiles. Would be super interesting to hear about :)
omygosh would love another pretty basic x zane and heath unfiltered about this topic!!
Idk why Zane came to mind when Alisha was describing her type đ€Ł
Pleaseeeee I have been manifesting this. Ever since I watched both their podcasts collabs, I hoped something would happen. Like pleaseeeeee Alisha is so freaking perfect.
I can imagine Alisha dating someone from IT, like a confident software engineer or a lawyer you know. Someone who has a regular job/business OR someone who is from another country? Why not? Like France, Spain etc đ
Loved this episode. Ugh I am the same way Alisha! Overthink freaking everything but I swear Iâm a cool ass chick once Iâm comfortable with a person lol
hahaha I love the "I swear I'm a cool ass chick one I'm comfortable" đđđ
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I met my boyfriend on a dating app, tinder, but weâve been together 4 years now. Say in your profile that youâre not looking for a hookup but youâre not looking for an immediate relationship either.
REMI:
Dating me is like:
Seeing your waiter finally come out with your food đđ
Catching up on old episodes and my mouth DROPED when she said Moreno Valley. Crazy!!! Small world
Alisha were literally twins đ I was literally born on the same day (2001 tho), obsessed with dachshunds, dealing with similar mental health problems, introvert until I know the people im with, and dating a Remi đ even my type is your type
Alisha is me whenever I have to prep for interviews. âTell me about yourselfâ ââŠâŠ..â
Remi is amazing at the way she can articulate her thoughts. She could have a podcast on her own and kill it with guests!
I am on the same wave as Alisha when it comes to dating. I want so bad to meet someone naturally but Iâm forcing myself to use the apps. Trying to have a positive outlook !
I also need dating coaching from remi đ this is absolutely hilarious Iâm dying love you girls
you two doing the flags, âgreeeeeeeen!â âredddddddd.â Idk why I thought it was the cutest moments đ
First of all love you guys and second of all thank you for the last podcast, listened to the episode again today and I can somewhat relate to it so thank you, I'm glad you're feeling better
I always tell my single friends to meet guys from apps asap, as long as you feel safe and tell someone where youâre going and all that - it eliminates some of the annoying small talk and gives you more to talk about irl instead of judging based off texting. An irl vibe is more important than how someone texts imo, and a lot of my friends over think what theyâre saying over text.
I was also against dating apps, but I mean we have all out on a cute outfit and extra perfume, gone to a bar w friends or alone hoping to meet someone - whatâs the difference in doing that online
Iâve said this for so long and this episode just confirmed. Alishaâs physical interest is literally Jeremy.
didnât she say in a truth or drink that heâs the hottest CZcams boyfriend along w Alex terranova đŠđŠ
When someone reaches out to me on a dating app if they say something quirky that has to do with my profile I really like that, because they are putting in the effort to pay attention to my profile.
I love theses kinds of episodes because theyâre just so entertaining to watch and so relatable and I just overall love you guysđ„°
I love games like this! Definitely want more in future episodes!đ„°
Alisha is so precious and hilarious!! I relate to how you think, and sometimes I donât always understand how Iâm feeling. Donât overthink, just say what ur feel. Itâs honest and refreshing. Love you
Happily in a 3 1/2 year relationship, off of TINDER đđ and I was cracking up this whole episode yâall kill me. Love yâall slay this week beauties đȘđŒ
Iâm so glad I rediscovered your friend group! I used to watch all of you years ago and now Iâm back! What was wrong with me? Why did I ever leave!? Love you guys soo much!
Youâll leave again. Thats how it is you canât be watching someone for a decade and not take a break
Can relate! I only kept watching and following alisha but i've recently started to watch the others like remi's content again!!
You two girlys I look up to so much. & TK!!
Me toooo
Alisha, your hair looks amazing! Loving the brown on you!
alisha is the biggest white fox fan in this episodeđ„°âš
I had a conversation recently with one of my friends about funny or bad dating stories, I think it could be a fun episode.
I love you girls! You are like my bffs without being my bffs lol. Thank you ladies for always making my Wednesday đ€
When I was reading these hypothetical messages I would have a thought and Alisha would IMMEDIATELY say my exact thought right after đ I can just tell her experience with dating apps and my experience are equivalent.
Alisha I'm right there with u you are literally me. I hate small talk and I can't talk lol. Never know what to say . đ€Łđ€Ł
Can I just say how I am so much related to these beautiful ladies?! We have a lot in common⊠From the last episode about Alisha⊠responding about Mental health⊠btw, I donât have bipolar, but I do have high anxiety && mild depression⊠ILYSM!! đ„°đ€
Screaming @ what ingredient are you missing? âSerotoninâ đ đ đ đ
Finally the first one something love the videos â„ïžâ„ïžâ„ïž
Alishaâs impression of cal: âreeaally?â đ
Yes on the brown eyes and blue or green eyes being too intense. I have always said that lol
I love when turtle guy makes a surprise appearance hahha
I just got so excited Iâm going grocery shopping perfect timing to upload đđ
I am Alisha during all these small talk situations đ I cannot deal with small talk on dating apps
My day is made so much better when thereâs a new pod đ
Yâall up early I love it tho đâ€ïž
You two girlys I look up to so much & TK!
Worst experience a guy made a list of pros and cons about me and then sent it to me⊠then asked why I didnât want to see him anymore
love u ladies so much
No colored eyes are literally scary to me sometimes. Like especially bright ass blue
i love both of you!!!
I didnât understand the fish photo until I went fishing with my step dad and when he caught that bad boy he was so proud. It was cute and then it clicked
I love a long description cause we can just get to it⊠buuuuut when they say lookin for friends they do be lying
I loved this episode,so fun to listen to while I was at the gym
I met my husband on tinder! We have been together for almost three years! đ„°
I feel like you can tell a lot about a person if you asked the question âhow long have you been looking for someone?â
I related to alisha so much this episode. I hateee small talk and never know how to reply lol
Not them aggressively waving flags but casually talking 49:30 đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
i jumped when alisha said Mario kart. I would die to play you in Mario kartđ© best game hands downđ€Ș
Loveeeee this ep!
The âtell me about yourself questionâ I would answer with what part like where Iâm at right now in life or something else
That will make him wanna know there is more to you than anything else
I would answer âsure, you first.â
I definitely first joined the apps for male validation đ”âđ«
Amazing video! God bless you allđđœGod is so goodđđœJesus loves us all so muchđđœâ€Turn to God He will guide you and give you strengthđđœTrust in Himđđœ
We were supposed to meet at 11.. he didnât show up till 1, AND I WAITED đ€Ą
such gorgeous gorgeous girls love u ladies đđđ
Wednesdayâs are my favorite days!
6:56 Maybe he was 28 tho đ many guys in our age are looking like 40-50 year olds nowadays, it's concerning haha
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Listening to all of Alishaâs answers on her type makes me think we have dated the same guys in LA or come across the same profiles đ
"That's Zora, Disney" my giiirrrrl đđđ
I think she was Sora for Kingdom hearts, which is true
@@alexandrareid4100 okay that's fair!! That would make more sense, I thought she was telling remi Zelda was Disney đ I stand corrected đ
every time i watch the pod i feel like iâm having a convo with my friends
I think most of us are Alisha when it comes to dating lol.
THIS IS TMI BUTTTT in terms of datingâŠ
My problem is that Iâm so introverted to put myself out there and when I meet new people I stress stress stress and when I know I have to take it to the next level is too much for me because I donât think I like the idea of sex or having sex like girl I masturbate but thatâs as far as I want to go and I feel like I canât have a relationship without it help am i the only one?
Have you heard of the Asexuality spectrum? I've always felt the same as you and I finally realized I'm Asexual! It's way more common than you think. Hope this helpsđ€
As someone who is plus size, even having a dating app is a horror story. No matches, if you do get any theyâre from creepy old men, knowing that majority of guys in your area arenât your type for many reasons, also knowing that I donât meet the beauty standard
Glad Alisha seems better đ
I can't wait to see what kind of guy alisha is gonna find. I can't picture her with guys cuz she never shows any of her relationships. I hope she finds an amazing guy!!!
Peak of Covid, we met at a mall, and he doesnât have a mask, so weâre sitting outside in the cold. My sister was there and due to the height difference thought I was on a date with a kid, aaaaand he grabbed my thigh and said Iâd be fun or nice I canât exactly remember to cuddle with
For remi I would say the ingredient is baking soda because she didnât rise đ€Ł
Fuckinâ Remi kills me!! I laughed so hard when she was laughing at Alisha đđđđ this was so enjoyable to watch đ€đ€đ€đ€
I knew where she was going with poppyseed đđđđ
alisha haahhaahha i love that new girl episode
Alisha goes speed dating! A concept!
I love Remi ! But the more I get to know them, I know Iâm an Alisha!!!
I feel the same as alisha about light eyes and I have light eyes đ idk what it is but I prefer a darker eye color
not my reply in the thumbnail hahaha
Iâve been talking with a guy since February from Tinder⊠FaceTiming, calling && texting. Just havenât met up yet!? Itâs just nice to talk to someone⊠I think dating apps are weird, fun && alot of work⊠but it could be rewarding at the end when you meet the love of your life⊠Plus, you get free food if your date doesnât work out⊠just saying!! đ
I took notes on this shit
Your podcast â â
My boyfriend (loml) and my best friend are identical human beings and it all makes sense haha
Is Aspyn gonna be on the podcast
i am literally alisha omgg does she have virgo in her chart ???
I met the guy Iâm talking to rn on Coffee Meets Bagel and I absolutely love the app, would definitely recommend to anyone!
Alisha will never live down the boat picture
Prompt: dating me is like a haiku, short and sweet
laughed so much throughout this episodeđ«¶đ»
my gosh alisha is picky asf. good luck to her
I can not WAIT for Alisha to have a man. I really think her life will change!!!
Get Dr Ramani on your podcast to talk about narcissistic relationships! Thank me later
how are alisha and remi sooo pretty
zane from zane and heath + alisha? i see it working
The âJâ name stereo type always has me like đł my bf of almost 3 years is a J
im definitely Alishia lol
Alisha should be the Bachelorette
the audi0 is a lil off to the the video