The True Reasons Ben Affleck CHOSE To End His Relationship With Jennifer Lopez!
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- čas přidán 5. 09. 2024
- This video discusses the relationship between Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez, from their initial romance in the early 2000s to their recent marriage and subsequent separation. It details their reunion in 2021, quick marriage, and the problems that arose shortly after. The summary highlights JLo's controlling nature, including restrictions on Ben's habits and social life, which reportedly caused tension in their relationship. Ben's apparent unhappiness and the public's perception of their dynamic are mentioned. The video also touches on JLo's career setbacks and how they affected their marriage. It concludes by describing Ben's decision to move out, his new living arrangements near his ex-wife Jennifer Garner, and JLo's attempts at reconciliation. The piece speculates on the future of their relationship and invites readers to share their thoughts on the situation.
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Ben knew what he was getting into when HE reached out to her, when HE proposed to her, when HE married her … all the sudden she’s too diva for him, please
There it is ..her DIVA crap..between her and another hollywood legend..who gives a damn
Please, he can walk away like he did whenever cause she done it to her ex hubbies so she should expect that what goes around will come around, or did y'all think that millionaire's are always going to get away with trashing people?
😂 she's getting what she deserves and she should be understanding and all of the whining people too.
She needs to change and maybe this will help along with her own past that's come back to haunt her
YOU HITTING ON NAIL BEN KNEW ALL ABOUT JLO I FEEL FOR HER ..SHE LOVES HIM. ❤️ 😍
@RebeccaColeman-d7e 😂 let her deal with her criminal life first and possible coming lawsuits and medina the one who's been accused of SA by another man or more and jlo has had him by her side for decades knowing that Ben don't approve of him and that's probably why, cause medina is like another diddy or worse.
Jlo is only going to get what she deserves, and getting fame through pervs is disgusting. I wouldn't even call her a millionaire, not how she got it, it probably belongs to them too
He drinks and smokes. She doesn't.
Never works.
Best they end it as possible friends.
Letting the world read your love letters as shown in her latest documentary is really crossing the line. Sad. Let go and Let God! Keep private things private! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
It would be great. If let the lord in their life’s. But theirs no money. In it. So Hollywood comes first.
Jennifer needs publicity in her love life with Ben for some reason. She doesn’t do it with other men, instead she is low key more private.
I completely agree!
@@cathyellis767 yes! It’s a sign of insecurity which proves Monet talent beauty etc won’t fix the holes inside of us! #LetgoletGod!
So what ,even Nancy Reagan published a book with Reagan love letters what's the big fkn Deal
Ben is no prize either but if someone sold my stuff without my permission I would leave them instantly. That's messed up.
Sells his stuff and opens an alcohol company knowing he is a struggling alcoholic 🤦♀️. It’s always about her, her needs, her wants, her attention whoring
My girl, she lost her mind for him again. Ben, though, has always been a whole issue. He's an issue with legs. Addiction, resentment, childishness, aggressive, volatile, too low, too hype, too selfish. My gurl deserves much better. She's already moved on. He, as usual, will be miserable as always.
And publicised his love letters without his consent when he clearly didn’t want them shown to the world. She is so fucking disrespectful.
@@idylledoll Even Matt Damon, one of his best friends, said it. That he is not capable of being a good husband to anyone.
@@idylledoll @Love11904 Even Matt Damon, one of his best friends, said it. That he is not capable of being a good husband to anyone.
Never rush into the “fairytale” called marriage without discussing the important topics that dear to each partner
Cannot be more true, I married my husband after 17 years together 😂
@@SuperNashum people know most times they just try to change people to fit their desired narrative.
What important topics
That woman is just not a marriage material; she is all about herself. She loves attention and would do anything to get it. It seems like she feels above anyone. He was a fool to return to her. Run run run Ben run.
Don't worry you turn is coming
He likes his privacy and she doesn’t respect that
Helloooo,He know how is this bussines
We witnessed that and more in her documentary that never should've happened.
@@lisbetharevalo2934you're illiterate
If Jennifer Garner couldnt control his drinking, JLo can not as well.
Also the paparazi cause the problem....paparazii cause that celbs start drinking.
@alenaadamkova7617 maybe the paps lie but really they weren't ever meant to be together so everything else was going to be excuses to let go bit I think the diddy support by her made the divorce process go faster but it's better
I think Ben needs to stay single. It's all about him as well. In a lot of ways, Jennifer & Ben , are a like.
WRONG....Ben takes good care of all his kids. Lopez ignores her 2 teenagers, specially her boy..for God's sake..he is autistic
They are both leos.. i mean ego is huge both ways
My girl, she lost her mind for him again. Ben, though, has always been a whole issue. He's an issue with legs. Addiction, resentment, childishness, aggressive, volatile, too low, too hype, too selfish. My gurl deserves much better. She's already moved on. He, as usual, will be miserable as always.
Jennifer such a drama queen.
I will never choose an addict and a cheater Ben.....
You have no idea - the best marriage and business partner -- first 3 years you have a lot of discussions and fights....Later, after you become a strong .....because you have learned about eachother - Ben doesn't love her.... All wives are caring for their husbands, like that..
Ben such a drunk
@@lgstar3363... yeh let's see where each goes from here...
@@keepcreationprocessBen doesn’t love anyone not even himself.
Same Old story . Waste of time, nothing new.😢
You are so right ✅️
So true
How humiliating that he doesn’t want her, yet again! 😂
It’s life. Can happen to anyone. Nothing is funny
I don’t think it’s humiliating for a dry drunk not to want you.
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You cannot have a relationship with a narcissist it’s impossible!
When a man decides to leave, there's no turning back
When a woman begins to behave like she's done, she is "DONE!" 🙂
Women end marriages more often than men do.
clearly not he went back to her and got married. he should've stuck by his first decision.
you can say the same thing about a woman
Apparently not. 😂
If they do this three times, they need to move to Mars.
True. Especially when a man walks out of a marriage. I am not addicted to any drug, but my Ex wife tried to control every move I took. She even wanted me to stay at home and not go to work because we had some passive income. Some women, especially those who have had multiple broken relationships, are just control freaks.
This is what happens when you’re in love with the idea of being in love and too narcissistic to work on yourself and consider the needs of your partner. Her exposing his letters without his consent and selling his motorbikes without his knowledge was jacked up and crossed boundaries, imagine all the other disrespectful shit we don’t know about.
I think this video make her look completely wrong but we have to remember Ben has a major alcohol problem that he went public with and why he divorced with Garner. He was supposed to be sober so yes I’m sure that was a huge problem trying to deal with an alcoholic. There are two sides to every story. Maybe he was tempted to drink when he was with his buddies. He ruined a lot of his life from drinking so yes she was probably trying to help someone who didn’t want to be helped.
Firstly she had to of known he's living a life of sobriety
And I hope they had a discussion in regard to his sobriety as to what is acceptable and what is Not
Idk where he is in his sobriety but the first 3-4 yrs are the roughest and he has to face & acknowledge what his triggers are
You would think as adults they spoke thru everything, they also should of waited b4 getting married.. they were trying to makeup from their breakup 20yrs ago 😢
Shame not even 2yrs and they've split ... All that this is the biggest Love story ever.. And it all went KAPUT....
Like Will & Jada putting o. This big show And None of it is TRUE
I agree with you @sarahpeyton .He seems like such a hot head as well. He is the one who contacted JLO in the first place knowing how bad he hurt her in the past. I have lost all respect for him. Everytime I see pictures of him its always a mean look on his face. He is a miserable man and needs help. He deserves to be alone.
YOU SAID EVERYTHING JUST RIGHT ..TO SIDES
JLO 55 KNEW ALL ABOUT THAT.
Totally agree @@chipper3132
I knew this what happen. Totally mismatched.
They should have lived together like Kurt Russell & Goldie Hawn! For the past 40 years K.R. & G.H., have been together without walking down the aisle. ❤😊
Are you for shocking up and living together before marriage?
AGREE!! BUT SHE NEEDS THOSE RINGS.
JLo 👎
That works for non-christians.
it wouldn't make a difference. they both shouldn't have been a couple. Ben has past issues and jlo dosent like it. she treats him like a child.
Ben did a good job . So happy for him ❤
A relit cigarette never tastes the same
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JLo needs to let go and move on. Ben doesn’t want her.
I think that Ben’s love for Jennifer died the moment Jennifer Lopez told media sources outlets that Ben had kept all their love letters. Jennifer Lopez is a grown ass woman. You can’t tell me that that wasn’t going to hurt Jennifer Garner, the mother of Ben Affleck’s kids below the belt what was the need for all the display of affection when they hadn’t even had a moment to sit with their love. She managed to hurt him by not respecting his boundaries and managed to hurt the mother of his kids whether they’re together or not or whether they have a good relationship or not that is not cool. Jennifer always wants the men to be blended with her family, but she’s not willing to love the other person‘s kids.
@user-px1ne8yw4y That’s so petty & pathetic!! That’s not love! Tell me, why did Jennifer Garner divorce him, too? She’s the total opposite of JLo n they have kids! There’s something wrong with Affleck!
I agree 100%. Funny like suddenly it is all his fault. Just check how many marriages, engagements and boyfriends she had and compare with him. Yes, he has issue and needs good therapy but the woman can't keep ANYTHING private. Her friends are the people working for her and she brings the entourage everywhere. Also Benny Medina tips the Paps and never liked Ben. JLo parted ways with him when they dated prior. Medina doesn't want to lose again. To blame Ben is quite easy. The guy has been sober, supportive of her projects and quiet. She is selling booze and her team gaslighting.
@@vanessacarvalho9076Ever heard of a dry drunk or addict it’s real.
I knew the minute she did that love letter narcissistic need to be above his ex wife in front of the world would be the last straw. It shows how her ego is more important that being mature in the fact he did love others and he respects the ex mother of his children. Trying to dismiss his ex wife made him see the true monster that she is. And who the hell sell another persons collection of motorbike. He should have sold her purse collection and said now we are even. And narcissistic control is beyond belief. They watch you and critique 24/7. Like even how you breathe is only ok if they think it is.
The way he open the car door and then closed it 😂😂😂 yea he sick of her shit😢
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You cant control another's addiction and sobriety
Right on!
It's a disease..
@@franklinblack2716 correct
You would have thought that they would have spoken about this before they got married. Of course, it would have never worked. They are two totally different people.
This is her, now.
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ben is a recovering alcoholic, and he also has a track record as a cheater. Jennifer Lopez probably got tired of constantly looking over her shoulder! She, on the other hand, is a remarkable woman, but fame got to her? She seems controlling and very insecure which may seem surprising, in my humble opinion, they are better off living their lives the way they choose to.
Forreal.
Ben did the right thing no one wants to be controlled he is a quiet man I really hope him and Jennifer Gardner gets back together as a family
He's an alcoholic. Jennifer Garner doesn't want him back!
Garner cheated on everyone she was with in order to get Ben. She’s a social climber like no other, she has no career without him. She’s really not a great person
Wow selling his collection thats horrible
But JLo has to stop in being so controlling over men’s, She knows very well Ben and he is the typo of man “macho” and this means that he has his pants-on in this relationship with her. She had many husbands & she does whatever she wants , were like “poopets “ and after she got tired then she thrown them out…I am happy that Ben gets his own way apart give the lesson to JLo to calm down & not taking anymore all her B.S. Good for you Ben!!!!!!!👍👍
"THIS IS ME.....AGAIN "
Jennifer is on a its all about me program.. Sad 😔 It's over..
It was inevitable since Day One that this marriage was doomed. She's an attention-seeking control freak and he's completely the opposite and will not let her control him.
Lopez uses men as accessories.
Never try to change a guy. You will lose. Especially when you're a narcissist like JLo. She loves the camera on her always. Ben doesn't like the hoopla. I wish Ben would have just waited before jumping into that again. I'll Always be TEAM BEN! HE'S AMAZINGLY TALENTED!
Dude watch your mouth when you speak about Jennifer Lopez I am her albino prince
I Dony believe Nen Was Forced to do Anything HE WANTED TO MARRY HER❤❤
$100,000 a month?!!? I could change my whole life for the better for the amount he pays for a month's rent...not to mention the lives of many others' through worthy charities.
Tells A LOT about someone to waste that kind of $ on rent or possessions when they could still live well on far less while positively contributing to society with the extra $. I understand why Greed is considered a sin!
Bezos Elon and Gates and people like
Ben and lopez should be in Jail noone need that amount of money.i forgot the kardashian.
I will see them in hell.
Its shameful (if true) when so many people in the world are struggling to eat and keep a roof over their heads. Wish rich people would not flaunt their money. On the other hand maybe they do give a lot to charity as well. But still ... I have much more respect for the rich that stay humble and who live like normal people and do good with their money.
I could’ve told them that wasn’t going to work when they got back together on day one. No surprises here.
Sadly Jen had bought into the whole entourage lifestyle, there’s no room for Ben 😢
I gave them 2 years😂😂 boy I was right!!
Im surprised they lasted this far. Good that A Rod ran for the hills when JLo started pushing for marriage
Life is too short. Your partner in marriage should be there to celebrate the ups and share the sorrows while creating deeper love through new adventures. Control has no element in any relationship except abuse. Your partner, lover, best friend, home, soulmate, secret keeper, and pajamas or naked day sharer is all that and more. If you try to control you will NEVER KNOW TRUE LOVE OR MARRIAGE. YOU HAVE TO LET THAT CONTROL GO, talk to your Almighty Father because until you do you will never find true happiness in marriage. No money can buy it. I am glad Ben identifies with it.
MARRIED 49+ YEARS AND YOU HIT IT ON THE NOSE, IT'S CALLED COMPRIMISE.
I think he needed love , patience, kindness and he got toxic controlling Jlo.. hopefully 🙏 he can find fulfillment and peace soon he looks so exhausted 🥱.
Disagree
Now I wonder whose husband she is going to steal next 😂
She should have taken the past two years off and just enjoyed being married to him.
How can she control HIM? The guy's got 2 Oscars. Absolutely her equal, if not, better than her.
He also likes to drink!
If Jennifer garner couldnt control his drinking, JLo can not as well.
Also the paparazi cause the problem....paparazii cause that celbs start drinking.
A narcissist could control anyone. It is a rule.
Ben found out that his intuitions about their relationship was RIGHT the first time 20 years ago.....But at least now they can never say they didn't give it a try. Truth is, Relationships can be complicated and are never easy, so I wish the best to both of them as they move forward.
When Money & Fame isn't enough to make you happy...
Jennifer doesn't want love... She wants everything else... Most of all, control....
She knows she can't hide the fact that she's a narcissist who really can't sing... truth hurts 😏
No they will not get back together , she screwed up and I’m happy for him, I hope he and Jennifer Gardner get back together, that wld be wonderful 🎉
He's an alcoholic. Jennifer Garner doesn't want him back!
Jennifer Garner’s in another relationship and engaged to someone else
She needs to let go, and move on. He doesn’t want her. She’s making it harder on herself
She's also acting like she's desperate now to stay married. If she really wanted him she wouldn't have done all the sneaky crap behind his back to hurt him. Releasing their old love letters and selling his motor bike collection without his permission or knowledge. That's an awful person who does that!
If Ben treated Jlo like this, we would all be screaming “ABUSE!”.
She is smiling all the time with him, but he always has a sour and dissatisfied face...and always disgraces her with his constant displeasure... I feel really sorry for her, what she must endure with him all the time.
Cause she’s fake and want people to think she’s happy when in reality she’s not. Like Jane Fonda told her…
Agree, my ex was the same way, always upset/unhappy…it’s hard because I always wanted to be loved by him.
My great grandmother said all the time we see the faces not the hearts and not was going on in close doors. I'm a very serious person outside in the public people my sister says I look mad but very happy at home my husband looks very happy in public but very anxious at home we been together for 2 decades
She is immature at 55 , and she acts like 13
Affleck and Aniston should get together
They are both Leos, what did you expect. Leos like to be in control and not be controlled. They did not balance each other.
❤ I don't blame him he is standing up for his self. Move on Ben and take yourself go be with your friends and someone that cares a out you being happy too.
He’s not even mad at Jen! He’s sick of paparazzi.
Are you sure😂😂😂
There was rumourss Ben cheated with the Nanny while married to Jennifer Garner. Jennifer Lopez don't need Ben's money. Ben has an alcohol problem and he was not in good health because of the alcohol problem. Is it so wrong for JLo to care for her man's health by getting him on a proper diet and monitoring his alcohol usage? We don't know how Ben gets when his drink and riding on his motorcycle. Sometimes married life and dating life get tough for normal people, I guess it's hundred times worse for celebraties. I pray that they work this out. I was really rooting for them.
We all know this was gonna happen I mean she is JHO Lol he loves his ex glad he left her
Ben has his own money and fame he doesn’t need jlo controlling him, her diva attitude dose not work anymore she will end up with another backup dancer she a rude person anyway God don’t like agly
Poor Ben, I would've ran too, peace of mind is everything, one day Jlo would realize you can't change someone no matter how much you try to control them, they'll change only if they want too...
End of Bennifer 2.0
Next round in 20 years😂😂😂
She should wake up out of the fairytale she’s getting what she deserves she’s rude and talks bad about others like actors also she’s been married too many times can’t be in love with all of them take some time and try to catch up with her kids if it isn’t too late and please stop having people photographing you everyday and everywhere people are talking and laughing grow up
Correction around 10:37 Ben was married to Garner while being an addict and cheated at least 2x on Garner while Jlo had some relationships made public
He needs to move on. He has No Peace at all in this Marriage with JLO. No one would. She is Materialtic Worldly person, and very much into herself. It's all about Her. Good he moved on.
Now she knows how it fells to get divorced and hurt finally.
I hope he goes back to Jen Garner and their kids.
I hope so too
Garner deserves better
I think Ben made the best decision always put your mental health before anything
im so happy for Ben i hope he go back to hes real family jennifer garner ❤❤❤❤
Wait a minute what rock have I been under they got married?
Yess in 2022. Her last album this year was about him.
LOL! this is usually me living under a rock so its funny seeing others cmment like this
The way he slammed the car door😮😅
Marriage counselors say that if the relationship didn't work the first time, it won't work the second time unless these issues have been addressed. Poor Jennifer. There will be more relationships with the same outcome. Jennifer also has time against her. She is getting older, and most men won't want an "old" woman.
Why do you vilify JLo when Afleck is the serial cheater, he knew how she is and marriage is supposed to be in the good times and bad times, not punk out like a light weight.
I feel for Jennifer Lopez....I also feel for Ben Affleck.....and their family ...they can not just separate for the sake of themselves and their families..... they have inspired the world with their reunion, they have involved their children, and all the people around them.... they are bigger than themselves...they need to work this out...let love not go wasted!!! It seems they have given themselves time for reflection, to be on their own while working on their own projects...rush decisions can not be applied when there are so many variables involved...they need to learn from this venture called marriage from their past experiences as well. A love like theirs should not be allowed to deteriorate for misunderstood set ups interfering with their goals for the future.
She is a villain,she’s not humble at all
@HildaCastillo Exactly
You have absolutely no proof with all your accusations against JLO. DIVA attitude? How about the way he behaved in public? No accountability for the man? Gimme a break.
Just saying but seems like people want them to end my marriage????? All speculations. Did they actually come out to the public and say oh it's OVER.... At this point y'all should mind your business and your own home gosh its sickening
Yes but me and Jennifer lopez has been talking for several months online
@@user-rf2ol6jf6w How certain are you she's the one chatting you back???? Every couple has their ups and downs. Majority of people shading have bigger issues on their plate.
@@marieneriya7662 because I knew about the divorce before you did because she is leaving Ben for me
And she already excepted my proposal
😂😂😂😂😂👏👏👏👏👏👏@@user-rf2ol6jf6w
The author of this video has no updated story to tell. It’s the same old story all the time!!! And she’s slandering!
This is hilariously one sided, it takes two people to make a relationship work, just like it takes two to let it fall apart.
I usually don’t believe these blogs but this doesn’t feel like it was pulled from the sky.
OMG the poor kids 🙄
Not Ben ' kids, they are on the safe side now
Okay if a woman is demending and having high expectations she’s a diva- but if a man is beeing demending and has high expectations he’s just precise and a boss?
I said I’ll give it two years. I was right.
Ben had to put his sobriety first. Without that he has nothing. She is a desperate insecure woman who can’t be alone and has to be the center of attention. It’s very sad as the joy she is looking for is in front of her face and she can’t see it. She is so needy for fame ,control, money, being adored she is missing out on the love of a good man and children. It’s sad for her and him as I believe they really thought it would work. She just couldn’t accept him.
I'm so TIRED and DISAPPOINTED!!! What the HELL drew them back to each other in the first place??? And HOW could Ben have ignored any red flags before he proposed to her????!!!!!
So JLo wanted what's best for her husband, not letting him indulge in alcohol again, and tried to have a Healthy life, Healthy habits... That's not a reason to leave someone, unless you"re an alcoholic that chooses toxic things instead of ur family. A loving wife will never let her husband fall off the wagon, unless she doesn't love him. So i don't find a mistake in her behaviour.
Its stupid to betray her again, he knew what she' s like 🙄
She might have not been so bad 20 years ago. People change you know! Her head kept getting bigger and bigger, it’s sad.
@@RitaWeaver-sc8gd Why did he marry her then, if she was so bad? Immature and selfish
@@nedailic2139🤑🤑🤑🤑
With her ways, he’s never gonna take her back
She failed in her attempt to emasculate him!
She needs closure he needs stability. Her ego is hurt he’s evolving
Jenny from the cell block
Hum, I think Jlo knows what she wants (and don’t) and Ben decided he was not the guy. Fair
Being married to a baby man is misery for any mature woman. Hope she heals well. She deserves better.
good. Ben has to leave her for good. she is a narcissist, controlling narcissist
He’s not even mad at Jen! He’s sick of paparazzi. She’s not in love or she would have flexed rather than being unwilling to hear his gripes. Let’s face it. When wealthy people want out they get out. No need to fight & fuss plenty of money to Cush the heartbreak & break the fall.
Ben is now picking his career up after hooking up with Jlo and now he doesn't need her anymore.
Ben Run! 🏃♂️
He can’t run from himself. Loser addict
She seems CRAZY CONTROLLING. He needs to get OUT and stay OUT!
Ben needs to move on and Jennifar she should stay single had too many MEN in her life
She tried all types of men. Who is for her, a woman?
Surprise he didn’t look drained and unhappy before he said I do.
JLo very PASSIVE AGRESSIVE.. and all about ME ME ME!!
JLo doesn't look for a companion, she looks fir the perfect prop for her display of life...she needs to sit for 5 minutes by herself: no staff, stylists, assistants, ladies in waiting, photographer and videographer.
And he needs to stop using females and friends as co-dependents. Jennifer Garner needs to let him sit in his own mess, and turning her girls into co-dependents as well. She needs to let him establish his own relationship with his children and stop filling in blanks.
Marriage can either be a crucible wherein people are being molded and manipulated and fired together into something that can survive ANYTHING or it can be a lovely cruise on sometimes beautiful, sometimes stormy seas. Or it can be both. Either or both: these guys can't make it because look what they do, how they earn their money, craft their talents, where they are from and what they value. They are too different, but to capitalize on your love, to exploit and exhibit it and use it for clickbait and profit? Wasn t there a song, Love For Sale?
Ben is a great actor love the accountant
I thought that before they got married this time. It was wrong. You can tell that it was that way. I thought when he had left Jennifer Gardner that that was a mistake. He thought fast and racist. But all he really was an island away for a while and really think of the happy family home. We all have to grow up. Wait till you get in your 60s. Enjoy family.
I agree 100%. Funny like suddenly it is all his fault. Just check how many marriages, engagements and boyfriends she had and compare with him. Yes, he has issue and needs good therapy but the woman can't keep ANYTHING private. Her friends are the people working for her and she brings the entourage everywhere. Also Benny Medina tips the Paps and never liked Ben. JLo parted ways with him when they dated prior. Medina doesn't want to lose again. To blame Ben is quite easy. The guy has been sober, supportive of her projects and quiet. She is selling booze and her team gaslighting.