I noticed in the first interview, she interrupts him a lot, and puts what she wants and ignores what he wants. Look & listen to Ben. He looks frustrated.
She’s a Leo ♌️; we’re all chatterboxes. Leave this woman alone or at least say something Positive 💯!!! She’s a big heart ; just picking the wrong kind , that’s all.
@@WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s people are different. Does not mean she's a bad person. She didn't commit any crime. It was a bad move of her. Who are we to judge. Chill out
@@filipepedro8272 JLo KNEW Ben prefer a more private relationship but publicly exposed all the letters he wrote to her? She did that on PURPOSE to hurt Garner! That's not a bad move..EVERYTHING she does is carefully thought out which makes her conniving and I don't feel bad for Ben leaving her AGAIN.
@@WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s 😂😂 Ben knew JLo. She's a mega star. Tabloid person...u can't always blame your neighbours from your own problems. Take some responsibility
She completely ignored him. "i know he will support ME because they are MY dreams" Her "dream" was to expose his private life without his consent. She interrupts him.. and forces him to do things he didn't want.
The first time it happened... well, Ben was young, and smitten, and horny. The second time around, it was 20 years later. This time it is his own fault.
One loves the public and one loves being private. He seemed so perturbed by her love for making everything public, especially his love letters. They were just too different.
That might be the case on why Ben had enough. But l don't"t think it was Jen sharing her and Ben's love letters ❤ to the public. It something way worse than that Maybe something to with P.Diddy and her involvement with that thug p.diddy? Does anyone know?
Yes, they should have dated for several years...just to see if this second time around would work before spending all this money on two weddings, only to end it so quickly. I honestly don't see how she's going to bounce back from this major disappointment. She should take a few months off and spend time outside of L.A...because this already caused a storm of media.
Jen Garner will make sure her kids are. Emme and Max are old enough. Marc Anthony isn't the greatest guy in the world anyway. Even he said he was unhappy.🙄
Their relationship is so depressing. Seemed like they barely spent time together in their marriage. They probably would have been better off if they had kept their relationship as a hook-up/friends with benefits and let it run its course.
she made the mistake of involving everybody into her lovelife .....he was never comfortable with that and he thought u would get used to it but he never did....she found the man of her dreams but lost him because she wanted to show the love she never had..wanted to shout it from the rooftops ....she exploited her personal life and did not realize she would lose him again...learned the hard way
Yes. You nailed it. The image of her relationship was more important to her than the relationship itself. It’s ironic because in the end she is humiliated
N BEN RAN 2 HIS X WIFE JEN G BLABBING AWAY HIS PROBLEMS WHILE JLO BUT THATS OK IT NOT NO GOES RUNNING 2 THEIR X WIFES N HOUSE N SPILL ALL HIS PRIVATE THINGS WITH JLO TO JEN G IS SICKENING NO X DOES THAT CRAY HE HAS ALOT OF FAULTS N CHEATS THATS OK HES NO ANGEL EITHER THE COULD OF WORKED IT BUT NO HE WANTED OUT BECAUSE NOW HE GOT A NEW SQUEEZE HE CHEATED WITH😊
Ben should have watched this interview before be approached her the second time Where he and jennifer spoke about the paparazzi and watched his reaction he would have seen how much of a handful she was even then. His face expressions give it away when she keeps interrupting him to say she wants the paparazzi to be there.
Deep down I was wishing them the best but through that doc alone when she said he wasn't comfortable with her doing the movie...you could tell the marriage wasn't going to last. At the same time he is partly to blame as he knew her character before he married her.
@@Hugo-nw2suMy friend just had her vow renewal. Two weeks later, someone was blasting and blackmailing her husband all over Facebook with FaceTime screenshots of him and his pants down! 🤦♀️
Jlo: we learned last time to keep things private. Then she makes a movie about their story and a month after it’s out they seperate… girl you didn’t learn anything about privacy then
Lust is NOT love. Just because he looked the part for her fantasy doesn't mean they ever had anything in common. He might not be a rocket scientist but he did go to Harvard. The end.
Nobody is surprised. J.LO should have respected that Ben expected some aspects of their marriage to be private. She crossed the line when she shared the emails and letters Ben wrote to her.
When he said he doesn't like people who's concerned about whose watching them, he was talking about J LO. HE KNEW all Jlo cared about is her image. It boggles the mind as to HOW these two actually got together the 2nd time
@@Essence-hv8mt @4:21 look at Bens reaction after she just bypassed his feelings about people hounding them smh. She CRAVES media attention 24/7 and dont get it that, although well known, not everyone want to be seen
@@WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s yes! I noticed thag mark exactyl. and she craves it to this day , making thag documentrary was about rubbing it in peoples faces that Ben came back to her after all after dumping her at the alter . making people look at the love letters and emails he wrote her lol,
@@Essence-hv8mt💯! The spookiest part is, some people believe JLo casted a love spell on Ben to get him back because she was clearly obsessed with making him HER husband...after all she DID admit to practicing Santeria. It's said that when a "love spell" wears off ,the victim of said love spell will be absolutely REPULSED, mean or sometimes violent to their partner..not saying he was violent but i DO believe he was repulsed by her after she exposed those letters. I guarantee JLo won't be as open and detailed about that divorce as she was about that delusions of grandeur romance
@@WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s He was definetlt refulsed that she made other people in the indusrtry go through their emails just for her wack songs . In 2003 he was refuseld then still when he said " To me thats so gross ..I hate people like that" i believe he dumped her for the email thing . its like she CANT listen to people. Even in the documentary people were asking, " why are you doing this?!"
2 years is not long enough to work out your marriage. Shame on both if you. You are both used to getting your way immediately because of your money and fame. J Lo didn't understand you wanted your relationship private, not on social media. She should have respected that. Ben you should not have run away like a spoiled child not getting his way. If it meant that much to you to not be on social media, you should have said no to Jen and that it could break your marriage. You both should have faced your marriage and gone to a good marriage counselor to work on your marriage. Instead you both just ran away from the problems to do what you want to do at that moment. It is okay to ask for help. You could have made it work. There is no successful marriage with out the 2 parties negotiating and no one gets their way all of the time.
I totally agree with you. Jlo could have kept things on the down low to protect her marriage. she was in love with this dude. Him on the other hand, is just selfish and self-absorbed. He treated her like crap just as he did years ago. Slamming the door when she got into the car, miserable alllll the time, disgusting behaviour. He knew who she was before they got back together, and he pursued her and told her sweet nothings when he proposed. Just to walk out without trying to make it work whatever the situation was
@@lizet3more yeah, it’s kinda hard to understand how it all went for him from utter love and devotion to annoyance about her character or behaviour. she should not have exposed and objectified the relationship, but why did he let her? i mean, did they not discuss things, when she posted about them, did they not have a talk beforehand: hey, i’m gonna post this, etc. is she so tone deaf towards his dislike of exposure that she just couldn’t be reasoned with? maybe, but then, did he not know her personality from before, and from when they rekindled things?
@@user-st8vt5de6pagreed! they’re both 50+. Only the most selfish and self-absorbed and compassion less for their unborn, SIGHTLESS for the future!, would have kids @ that age. Agreed!
And what do he give poor Jen garner in return??? He’s a terrible spouse. Cheated on her. Blaming her for him drinking! She was there for his best???!!! What was his best exactly???!!! Sit down with your stupid comments dumb
Jennifer lopez is the same person she was 20 years ago! She doesnt even let Ben talk in this interview! She even admits she okay with paparazzi! And how she admit she already told everyone about there relationship public!
JLo’s mother gives off that “He’s a good man Savanah” vibes (from Stella got her groove back) she wanted her daughter to be with this man so bad. Like mom stay out of it!
I saw the sparks the sparks the first go around by the 2nd time I saw no sparks or glow whatsoever, Ben clearly is worn out and has been through it over the past years he thought JLo could :fix" to be better and a changed man but a leopard doesn't change its spots as the saying goes LOLOLOL
He likes his privacy & peace…… that’s what I c in him….Some ppl. don’t like to compete with other ppl’s noisy-high energy…….it’s exhausting to be interrupted while you’re talkin. Best wishes in healing Jen
She is super high maintenance, but I believe what put the nail in the coffin is her relationship with P. Diddy. He is bad news and is going to bring her down with him.
This is just sad! 😔 I’m sorry for them…she loves him for real and he stoped loving her. Their problem is that she doesn’t mind being open about every personal detail and he hates being in the public eye and sharing personal details. Maybe he shouldn’t be an actor that way he wouldn’t be followed around and asked questions about their life. Oh well it’s over I guess! Jlo must be crushed after sharing so much about how much they loved each other. She demonstrated she loved him for real because she didn’t do a prenup that says a lot right there.
That's the problem she shared way too much. Something is to be kept private Like his love letters to her. She shared them with strangers. He did try to be out there. I give him credit.
I agree, you can tell she really loves him. She said he was the love of her life. Makes me sad that they could not try and make it work. Especially if they really are each others true love. It does seem that he likes his privacy and Jennifer wears her heart on her sleeve so much that she wanted to proclaim it to the world. Maybe it was too much for him. The lack of privacy and space. Similar to what happened 20 years ago prior. Just wish they would have ignored the press and lived their lives privately. It guess it’s hard when you’re in the public eye.
Everyone keep on saying that although he had a celebrity wife that is very private and it did not work out either. He said it himself...he felt trapped , was drinking and depressed. If that was his main problem why would he choose to marry J.Lo oit of all the women available to him...
JLo treats her life like a show. Ben didn't want his private life to be a public show, so divorce happens. Regardless of all of that, a divorce is sad and they both deserve to be happy together or apart.
She Never, Ever, got that Ben is an Artist. He literally does hid Art to Earn money and want Nothing to do with the Fame part of it! Its a Job for him!!!!... She needs a Narc for a Mate!😮
I’m old enough to remember the circus that was Bennifer 20 years ago! I thought that she would’ve learned from that as it was one of the reasons for their breakup! She speaks here of keeping the relationship private this time around yet she done the exact same thing again. Over sharing! She should’ve listened to Jane Fonda. I really wasn’t hoping for this outcome this must be even more embarrassing than the last time with the album, the documentary & the film.
She deeply doesn't love him she only loved that fact that she got him back and loved tthe attention that came with it. Where she wrote on her computer that "Leo men are easy to love" how would she know that Leo men are easy to love? how many Leo men had she had in the past? well I can tell you that A-Rod was also a LEO!
She humiliated him over and over again - just like the line in the old Truth or Dare Madonna movie when Warren Beatty looked at Madonna like she was nuts for being so addicted to public attention. People no matter how famous USUALLY need a sense of privacy. I'm not surprised at this whatsoever. Very sad.
Also I have heard that both of you treat people badly around you. Meaning treating wait staff rudely, acting superior, is that you Jen? Ben yelling at photographers, grumpy to people. Try making other people's day happy. Stop being all consumed with your wants. If you try to make other people's days happier, you will be happier too.
I don't even like J Lo, but I feel sad for her. Not many of us get a 2nd chance like this. Her happy ending.was finally hers, and yet it was short lived.
They both have their own demons. I think they truly loved each other. I truly feel badly for them. I hope they both find happiness after this and let each other go with love ❤️
Jane fonda meant no harm in saying whatvshe said i truly belive that ..she was being open that just live your love there was nothin to prove to anyone in the world ..thata all she meant ..jane fonda thoughts were coming from a good place truly
I understand wanting love. But she has to give her kids a break. Making relationships with her partners, then breaking up. Regardless, if it was the partners doing or not. This is so unhealthy for them.
They should have just dated and taken things slowly; marriage and/or cohabitating is not for everyone. Unless there was something that happened to completely decimate their trust in each other, they should have tried to work it out.
It's no secret who Ben Married, people blaming her and saying she was high maintenance yada yada yada, he knew who he married and, he admitted this in a couple of interviews or more.. She loved Ben and i think she made more of an effort and he treated her like crap just as he did when they broke up years ago, slamming the door when she was getting into the car, miserable at every event, I'm like dude, you told her so many sweet nothings, you pursued her after she broke up with that Rodriguez guy and to treat her like crap, Ben showed he was still self absorbed, self centred and still one selfish dude. He didn't even go to her birthday party. He's just really mean
He is a narcissist. So is she. But he is on a deeper level a narcissist who doesn't care. Also, he is an alcoholic. I remember Jennifer Gardner said when Ben turns his attention to you, it's like the Sun shining but when he decides to take away the attention - it becomes a dark day. That is totally 100% narcissism at it's finest.
I think they’re both not blameless. Ben is an addict and he hates attention. JLO is a narcissist who thrives of attention. That’s a toxic mix. They should have dated without getting married and they’d have seen that.
The only real love story "never told" was between Asap Rocky and Rhianna!! The media keeping it under wraps how Asap was still persuing Rhianna, how Asap had a falling out with a few guys who were also pursuing her and how he FINALLY got his woman. THATS a real love story
@@Hugo-nw2su in case you missed it I only mentioned Ben and A-rod are Leo's bcus according to JLo's script on her computer it said "Leo men are easy to love" 🤭
She will soon have someone new anyway to soothe her ego. All these big words she uses for her love life has become tiring and a joke, she should really not say anything for a while regarding her love life.
No she Wont But he had cheated on her since June with Kirk Kennedy just like he cheated on Jen G with the Nanny while she was out of town Now kick Kenndy n Jlo find out that's Infidelity on his part..He could have FORGIVEN Jlo but I knew it was then that n I knew it had 2 be big n itwas n itis he cheated on her n Now it comes out
That’s really sad, I feel like her ego and his dependence on alcohol got in the way. I don’t think they fought hard enough to make it work and to be a little more selfless and giving to the other person. They both were at fault. He doesn’t seem to treat her right , he is always running away and she needs to be a little more private and respect what he needs. It’s sad that she’s always gushing about him and he doesn’t appreciate it.
I noticed in the first interview, she interrupts him a lot, and puts what she wants and ignores what he wants. Look & listen to Ben. He looks frustrated.
She just doesn't know how to chill.....a Leo man is going to want to lead.....follow or be left behind.
She doesn’t shut up and you can see his expressions. So annoying.
She was really out of hand almost shouting
She was loud in that interview.
And when Ben said he wanted to keep details of the proposal private, and JLO said she already told everyone..
She really doesn't just shut up😂.
She is still talking that's the whole problem.
Mean girl, narcissistic, psycho.
She’s a Leo ♌️; we’re all chatterboxes. Leave this woman alone or at least say something Positive 💯!!! She’s a big heart ; just picking the wrong kind , that’s all.
@@dimples2000 Free marketing
@@atimnile2401lol
She wanted to keep it private and put out an album and a movie all about the relationship.. bad move
The final straw for Ben 😂
BS! If she really wanted to keep ot private why would she expose all his letters he wrote to her? Something's not right about this lady
@@WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s people are different. Does not mean she's a bad person. She didn't commit any crime. It was a bad move of her. Who are we to judge. Chill out
@@filipepedro8272 JLo KNEW Ben prefer a more private relationship but publicly exposed all the letters he wrote to her? She did that on PURPOSE to hurt Garner! That's not a bad move..EVERYTHING she does is carefully thought out which makes her conniving and I don't feel bad for Ben leaving her AGAIN.
@@WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s 😂😂 Ben knew JLo. She's a mega star. Tabloid person...u can't always blame your neighbours from your own problems. Take some responsibility
She completely ignored him. "i know he will support ME because they are MY dreams" Her "dream" was to expose his private life without his consent. She interrupts him.. and forces him to do things he didn't want.
The first time it happened... well, Ben was young, and smitten, and horny. The second time around, it was 20 years later. This time it is his own fault.
One loves the public and one loves being private. He seemed so perturbed by her love for making everything public, especially his love letters. They were just too different.
This is how desperate for validation women act
Yeah, why would she share his love letters without asking him? That's so insensitive 😒
That might be the case on why Ben had enough. But l don't"t think it was Jen sharing her and Ben's love letters ❤ to the public. It something way worse than that Maybe something to with P.Diddy and her involvement with that thug p.diddy? Does anyone know?
you haven’t learned anything from the first time around……you did exactly the same thing.
Definition of insanity
Even while saying we’re gonna do things different this time around.
💯💯💯😂
@@ShiningLight411 She was just saying what he wanted to hear, she had the old same agenda, to market on the relationship.
You don’t think it’s cool to share your husband’s love letters with the world? His friends must’ve laughed at him!
They should have dated after rekindling their romance instead of jumping head first into marriage.
Yes, they should have dated for several years...just to see if this second time around would work before spending all this money on two weddings, only to end it so quickly. I honestly don't see how she's going to bounce back from this major disappointment. She should take a few months off and spend time outside of L.A...because this already caused a storm of media.
@@Ava2969ny not to mention a $60 million mansion.. and so public.
It was over when the musicians started calling him Pen Affleck.
I agree 1000000% . He was mortified.
Hahahaha that’s funny though
@@McChillz69I felt sorry for him
It was terrible.
Ben Affleck do Lopez powinien mówić: Penniffer albo Penny😂
She talks over him. She told private info then, and she did it again.
My thoughts are with their five kids. I wish each of them peace and stability.
Those are my thoughts also. I think it’s sad that they don’t put their children first.
Jen Garner will make sure her kids are. Emme and Max are old enough. Marc Anthony isn't the greatest guy in the world anyway. Even he said he was unhappy.🙄
she should just stay single and focus on her self and kids
Need to be worshiped.
Wow she won't let him get a word in 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Their relationship is so depressing. Seemed like they barely spent time together in their marriage. They probably would have been better off if they had kept their relationship as a hook-up/friends with benefits and let it run its course.
Or just dated
Yes
@@Hugo-nw2su Yes, dated for a couple of years. Had their fun, realized it wasn't going to work out, and move on.
I Agree. It's Sad. I'm not a huge fan but I wanted her to finally find her happy ending. Life is a Circus.
@lindalambert8712 I love how you said "Life is a circus"👍😅
that 1st interview was awkward. it was obvious they are not compatible
she made the mistake of involving everybody into her lovelife .....he was never comfortable with that and he thought u would get used to it but he never did....she found the man of her dreams but lost him because she wanted to show the love she never had..wanted to shout it from the rooftops ....she exploited her personal life and did not realize she would lose him again...learned the hard way
Yes. You nailed it. The image of her relationship was more important to her than the relationship itself. It’s ironic because in the end she is humiliated
@@Hugo-nw2suand Jane Fonda warned her about it but she just doesn’t want to listen…
"Everyone loves me, and wants more of me, so I must commodify my marriage"
N BEN RAN 2 HIS X WIFE JEN G BLABBING AWAY HIS PROBLEMS WHILE JLO BUT THATS OK IT NOT NO GOES RUNNING 2 THEIR X WIFES N HOUSE N SPILL ALL HIS PRIVATE THINGS WITH JLO TO JEN G IS SICKENING NO X DOES THAT CRAY HE HAS ALOT OF FAULTS N CHEATS THATS OK HES NO ANGEL EITHER THE COULD OF WORKED IT BUT NO HE WANTED OUT BECAUSE NOW HE GOT A NEW SQUEEZE HE CHEATED WITH😊
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
I think it’s important not to judge others..we all have our own journey
It's true, but she puts herself out there to be judged. With that comes the good and the bad.
@@lorrah4but she give him second chances, he never loved her but used always and hit her over and over
@@gasarolita9597 exactly!
Well she put their greatest love story never told Extravaganza right out in the open for everybody to see.
@@gasarolita9597 he did but got sick of her thirst for public adoration. Simple.
Ben should have watched this interview before be approached her the second time
Where he and jennifer spoke about the paparazzi and watched his reaction he would have seen how much of a handful she was even then. His face expressions give it away when she keeps interrupting him to say she wants the paparazzi to be there.
Such a cringe interview. Anyone could have predicted these two would be like oil and water.
Deep down I was wishing them the best but through that doc alone when she said he wasn't comfortable with her doing the movie...you could tell the marriage wasn't going to last. At the same time he is partly to blame as he knew her character before he married her.
@@thunder8185 agreed
It was honestly hard to watch. She’s so clueless it annoyed ME and I’m not even Ben lbs
Ben always seems depressed he needs to find help and heal from his traumas. Jen is addicted to the concept of love
Absolutely they’re both going through their own issues. Being together just makes it worse.
😂😂😂 getting tattooed with names 😂😂😂 killer of all relationships
Tattoos and vow renewals..
@@Hugo-nw2suMy friend just had her vow renewal. Two weeks later, someone was blasting and blackmailing her husband all over Facebook with FaceTime screenshots of him and his pants down! 🤦♀️
Jlo: we learned last time to keep things private.
Then she makes a movie about their story and a month after it’s out they seperate… girl you didn’t learn anything about privacy then
She said they were going to be much more demure this time, but she made a movie out of his letters, that was too much
Exactly. Makes no sense
JLO is rude and a diva. But Ben knew who he was getting back together with.
Facts
Prawdziwa Diva nie zychowuje sie tak prymitywnie. Dotyczy to rownierz zycia prywatnego. Lopez jest bardzo daleko do Diva
I think he always saw the good in her. Even when other people warned him. I guess they just didn't mix in the end.
Looks like she was more into him than he was into her
Facts
She’s completely obsessed with with that man!
Maybe she was into Him❤❤
BEN: THANK YOU FOR HAVING ME❤
💯 she's insecure about him for sure. That's why she has to prove it to the world in her documentary about him. Lol. Hilarious! 😂
LOT OF PEOPLE KNEW THIS DAY WAS COMING 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lust is NOT love. Just because he looked the part for her fantasy doesn't mean they ever had anything in common. He might not be a rocket scientist but he did go to Harvard. The end.
They should have saved sex til marriage. Easy way to find out if its love or lust. No clouded judgment and they would have probably not gotten married
She was so obsessed with the parties and gushing to the media that she (and he) forgot to focus on their actual marriage. So sad 😢
Nobody is surprised. J.LO should have respected that Ben expected some aspects of their marriage to be private. She crossed the line when she shared the emails and letters Ben wrote to her.
When he said he doesn't like people who's concerned about whose watching them, he was talking about J LO. HE KNEW all Jlo cared about is her image. It boggles the mind as to HOW these two actually got together the 2nd time
He was speaking DIRECTLY to her . And she knew it from her facial reaction and response. But too stubborn to heed the warning
@@Essence-hv8mt @4:21 look at Bens reaction after she just bypassed his feelings about people hounding them smh. She CRAVES media attention 24/7 and dont get it that, although well known, not everyone want to be seen
@@WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s yes! I noticed thag mark exactyl. and she craves it to this day , making thag documentrary was about rubbing it in peoples faces that Ben came back to her after all after dumping her at the alter .
making people look at the love letters and emails he wrote her lol,
@@Essence-hv8mt💯! The spookiest part is, some people believe JLo casted a love spell on Ben to get him back because she was clearly obsessed with making him HER husband...after all she DID admit to practicing Santeria. It's said that when a "love spell" wears off ,the victim of said love spell will be absolutely REPULSED, mean or sometimes violent to their partner..not saying he was violent but i DO believe he was repulsed by her after she exposed those letters. I guarantee JLo won't be as open and detailed about that divorce as she was about that delusions of grandeur romance
@@WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s He was definetlt refulsed that she made other people in the indusrtry go through their emails just for her wack songs . In 2003 he was refuseld then still when he said " To me thats so gross ..I hate people like that"
i believe he dumped her for the email thing .
its like she CANT listen to people. Even in the documentary people were asking, " why are you doing this?!"
2 years is not long enough to work out your marriage. Shame on both if you. You are both used to getting your way immediately because of your money and fame. J Lo didn't understand you wanted your relationship private, not on social media. She should have respected that. Ben you should not have run away like a spoiled child not getting his way. If it meant that much to you to not be on social media, you should have said no to Jen and that it could break your marriage. You both should have faced your marriage and gone to a good marriage counselor to work on your marriage. Instead you both just ran away from the problems to do what you want to do at that moment. It is okay to ask for help. You could have made it work. There is no successful marriage with out the 2 parties negotiating and no one gets their way all of the time.
I totally agree with you.
Jlo could have kept things on the down low to protect her marriage. she was in love with this dude.
Him on the other hand, is just selfish and self-absorbed. He treated her like crap just as he did years ago. Slamming the door when she got into the car, miserable alllll the time, disgusting behaviour.
He knew who she was before they got back together, and he pursued her and told her sweet nothings when he proposed. Just to walk out without trying to make it work whatever the situation was
@@lizet3more yeah, it’s kinda hard to understand how it all went for him from utter love and devotion to annoyance about her character or behaviour. she should not have exposed and objectified the relationship, but why did he let her? i mean, did they not discuss things, when she posted about them, did they not have a talk beforehand: hey, i’m gonna post this, etc. is she so tone deaf towards his dislike of exposure that she just couldn’t be reasoned with? maybe, but then, did he not know her personality from before, and from when they rekindled things?
Totally agree with you. They could have worked things out unless he did tell her and she didn’t listen.
You're right about Ben, totally wrong about Jen
Maybe they both knew if wasn’t going to work and didn’t want to waste time putting work into something that was going to fail.
Jennifer speaks as if Ben is her Savior, praying she can have the Lord fill her void. A man cannot complete her. 😇 God Bless the families 🙏✝️
Thank goodness he didn't give her kids, he really dodged a bullet.
Omg 8 days before the divorce she was using his kid Sam to try to get to him. Imagine if they had kids
@@Essence-hv8mt ich wspolne dzieci byly by koncem swiata dla Ben Affleck
She’s 50 plus years old !!! Baby???
@@user-st8vt5de6pagreed! they’re both 50+. Only the most selfish and self-absorbed and compassion less for their unborn, SIGHTLESS for the future!, would have kids @ that age. Agreed!
She never shuts up!
She’s exhausting
She was married when they met. She was engaged they reunited. Sounds like all her relationships overlap
She tried too hard to convince people that it was all great.
My heart breaks for these two. They clearly love each other but can't come together to live their love in peace. I wish them the best.
me too❤
It’s sad. I really feel for Jennifer. SHe loves him so much but Ben is a total wreck and unhappy man.
@@MzBombshell06he’s not the one who’s been divorced 4 times lol
He always looked unhappy and miserable with her.
She really did not follow through on everything she said about being more private....
She said " I'm a private person" yet I knew everyone single one of her men and flings so how is that private? relationships should be private.
They want to pretend but they never look happy together, but they want to convince everyone that they are so happy
0:44 soon as she opened her mouth I became irritated 😂
All he wanted was some privacy. And she wouldn't give him that. That is not real love.
I'm glad that it's Garner who had him at his best and helped him at his worst
This ! ❤
he has lost a gem
And what do he give poor Jen garner in return??? He’s a terrible spouse. Cheated on her. Blaming her for him drinking!
She was there for his best???!!!
What was his best exactly???!!!
Sit down with your stupid comments dumb
Jennifer lopez is the same person she was 20 years ago! She doesnt even let Ben talk in this interview! She even admits she okay with paparazzi! And how she admit she already told everyone about there relationship public!
@@AudreyCarlencia she’s not just OK with paparazzi she loves it and lives for it.
They might be this generation richard Burton and Elizabeth taylor
Liz was a lot lot more seasoned❤
They didn’t have to make such a spectacle of buying their 60$ million mansion
So so sad. Why why did she not take her own advice. She is addicted to the paparazzi and fame. So Sad.
JLo’s mother gives off that “He’s a good man Savanah” vibes (from Stella got her groove back) she wanted her daughter to be with this man so bad. Like mom stay out of it!
I never understood why this two were together. I didn't notice any attraction or love between them at all.
I saw the sparks the sparks the first go around by the 2nd time I saw no sparks or glow whatsoever, Ben clearly is worn out and has been through it over the past years he thought JLo could :fix" to be better and a changed man but a leopard doesn't change its spots as the saying goes LOLOLOL
He likes his privacy & peace…… that’s what I c in him….Some ppl. don’t like to compete with other ppl’s noisy-high energy…….it’s exhausting to be interrupted while you’re talkin. Best wishes in healing Jen
You want privacy?, become an accountant. Nobody cares what they do (except on tax season).
Divorce? What was with all the showing off? Definitely cursed
She is super high maintenance, but I believe what put the nail in the coffin is her relationship with P. Diddy. He is bad news and is going to bring her down with him.
Makes me think PDiddy has something over Jen...😬
Ben’s family is not about that Jenny from the Block / Diddler stuff.
This is just sad! 😔 I’m sorry for them…she loves him for real and he stoped loving her. Their problem is that she doesn’t mind being open about every personal detail and he hates being in the public eye and sharing personal details. Maybe he shouldn’t be an actor that way he wouldn’t be followed around and asked questions about their life. Oh well it’s over I guess! Jlo must be crushed after sharing so much about how much they loved each other. She demonstrated she loved him for real because she didn’t do a prenup that says a lot right there.
That's the problem she shared way too much. Something is to be kept private
Like his love letters to her. She shared them with strangers. He did try to be out there. I give him credit.
I agree, you can tell she really loves him. She said he was the love of her life. Makes me sad that they could not try and make it work. Especially if they really are each others true love. It does seem that he likes his privacy and Jennifer wears her heart on her sleeve so much that she wanted to proclaim it to the world. Maybe it was too much for him. The lack of privacy and space. Similar to what happened 20 years ago prior. Just wish they would have ignored the press and lived their lives privately. It guess it’s hard when you’re in the public eye.
Everyone keep on saying that although he had a celebrity wife that is very private and it did not work out either. He said it himself...he felt trapped , was drinking and depressed. If that was his main problem why would he choose to marry J.Lo oit of all the women available to him...
JLo treats her life like a show. Ben didn't want his private life to be a public show, so divorce happens. Regardless of all of that, a divorce is sad and they both deserve to be happy together or apart.
The ink with his name, kiss of death to a relationship.
When all you see are Red Flags but Red is your favorite color.
She knew what not to do. But..
She protected nothing.
Nothing at all, all about ego and attention for this one.
She Never, Ever, got that Ben is an Artist. He literally does hid Art to Earn money and want Nothing to do with the Fame part of it! Its a Job for him!!!!... She needs a Narc for a Mate!😮
I bet Jay lo is embarrassed that it didn't work out especially after she put a new ablum out about their love story.
YEP and her next new man will have to see and hear about all of that.
I’m old enough to remember the circus that was Bennifer 20 years ago! I thought that she would’ve learned from that as it was one of the reasons for their breakup! She speaks here of keeping the relationship private this time around yet she done the exact same thing again. Over sharing! She should’ve listened to Jane Fonda. I really wasn’t hoping for this outcome this must be even more embarrassing than the last time with the album, the documentary & the film.
I feel like she loves him so much and she always is so grateful for him and he just feels so distant and sometimes almost uncomfortable ?😮
Yeah I actually feel bad for her
She deeply doesn't love him she only loved that fact that she got him back and loved tthe attention that came with it. Where she wrote on her computer that "Leo men are easy to love" how would she know that Leo men are easy to love? how many Leo men had she had in the past? well I can tell you that A-Rod was also a LEO!
Some people think love is all rainbows and unicorns.
lollipops and jet skis lol 🍭
She humiliated him over and over again - just like the line in the old Truth or Dare Madonna movie when Warren Beatty looked at Madonna like she was nuts for being so addicted to public attention. People no matter how famous USUALLY need a sense of privacy. I'm not surprised at this whatsoever. Very sad.
Also I have heard that both of you treat people badly around you. Meaning treating wait staff rudely, acting superior, is that you Jen? Ben yelling at photographers, grumpy to people. Try making other people's day happy. Stop being all consumed with your wants. If you try to make other people's days happier, you will be happier too.
That’s not true..don’t spread lies. Unless your were there is third hand info..that’s called gossip..and gossip is cruel
Facts❤
I guess he was going somewhere …
😅😅😅😅 Brilliant and ice cold at the same time
Going. Anywhere. Else.
She talks alot!! Doesn't allow Ben to get a word in edgeways! Two very different people. Unfortunate he couldn't see it or understand it.
he was only blinded by the P 100%
I don't even like J Lo, but I feel sad for her. Not many of us get a 2nd chance like this. Her happy ending.was finally hers, and yet it was short lived.
Emphasis on “her” happy ending. Nobody cared what Ben wanted especially her lol
…and she blew it.
She was annoying then and annoying now
Wow, the woman is full of herself and FOS at the same time!
I heard many lies!
Watch the interviews from the first go round. She was a bossy woman who never let him speak. They had a fun time, not a long time relationship.
He liked to keep things private, she didn't... that's it!
They both have their own demons. I think they truly loved each other. I truly feel badly for them. I hope they both find happiness after this and let each other go with love ❤️
No Jennifer is BANANAS and was obsessed with Ben. She did black magic/love spells together him back. And YES J lo does Santeria!!
@@WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s guess you were there the whole time? 🙄
He was never happy, she is selfish
All about JLo all the time.
Constantly interrupting him and that annoying laugh
Let’s see who she marries next… and then next after that… and then next after that 😂😂
It might be Bens turn again in 20 years!
@@lizzi7128 at 70 years old they will be together again🙊
Jane fonda meant no harm in saying whatvshe said i truly belive that ..she was being open that just live your love there was nothin to prove to anyone in the world ..thata all she meant ..jane fonda thoughts were coming from a good place truly
I gave it 9 months, but it lasted a bit longer.
I was really rooting for them to have a happy ending.
I understand wanting love. But she has to give her kids a break. Making relationships with her partners, then breaking up. Regardless, if it was the partners doing or not. This is so unhealthy for them.
Everytime she laughs, I feel she thinks she laughs like Selena. I feel she thinks after portraying Selena, she deserves all of the limelight.
Very true! I saw that too. she exaggerates that laugh that you can tell its not her authentic laugh.
They should have just dated and taken things slowly; marriage and/or cohabitating is not for everyone. Unless there was something that happened to completely decimate their trust in each other, they should have tried to work it out.
Especially at their age.
Why the rush? It’s not like both of them haven’t been there before, one more than the other 🙄
Who is next?? Joe Manganiello??❤
She needs to learn how to speak in public smh
It's no secret who Ben Married, people blaming her and saying she was high maintenance yada yada yada, he knew who he married and, he admitted this in a couple of interviews or more..
She loved Ben and i think she made more of an effort and he treated her like crap just as he did when they broke up years ago, slamming the door when she was getting into the car, miserable at every event, I'm like dude, you told her so many sweet nothings, you pursued her after she broke up with that Rodriguez guy and to treat her like crap, Ben showed he was still self absorbed, self centred and still one selfish dude.
He didn't even go to her birthday party. He's just really mean
He is a narcissist. So is she. But he is on a deeper level a narcissist who doesn't care. Also, he is an alcoholic.
I remember Jennifer Gardner said when Ben turns his attention to you, it's like the Sun shining but when he decides to take away the attention - it becomes a dark day. That is totally 100% narcissism at it's finest.
I think they’re both not blameless. Ben is an addict and he hates attention. JLO is a narcissist who thrives of attention. That’s a toxic mix. They should have dated without getting married and they’d have seen that.
@@ForeverSweetx3 exactly. Pretty pathetic human being he is
I agree. He’s a total loser and she deserves better!!! I feel bad for her. He wasted her time AGAIN!!
Jennifer Garner is naturally prettier than Jlo
💯
Never let someone break up with you twice. The first break up clearly taught her nothing. Can’t wait to see who the next love of her life is…
She always adored himm!
The greatest love story never told ,omg jlow is so fake
The only real love story "never told" was between Asap Rocky and Rhianna!! The media keeping it under wraps how Asap was still persuing Rhianna, how Asap had a falling out with a few guys who were also pursuing her and how he FINALLY got his woman. THATS a real love story
I really wanted them to make it 😢
JLO and ARod were a much better match
both with out going personalities, socialable, fancy, outgoing and A-rod was nice to the people around him.
@@angie-jo1mn I think ARod also appreciates a woman like JLO who is centre of attention, and he likes flaunting her. For Ben it’s a nightmare.
@Hugo-nw2su 100% you said no lies. Also A-Rod and Ben are Leo's just like J-Lo.
@@Hugo-nw2su in case you missed it I only mentioned Ben and A-rod are Leo's bcus according to JLo's script on her computer it said "Leo men are easy to love" 🤭
@@angie-jo1mn yes in the worst movie ever made ha
she is too big for him (in her mind) i can see why he walked..... SHE CANT SHT THE F UP. she didnt RESPECT him. she didnt love him.... its all a show
100%!!!
She will soon have someone new anyway to soothe her ego. All these big words she uses for her love life has become tiring and a joke, she should really not say anything for a while regarding her love life.
No she Wont But he had cheated on her since June with Kirk Kennedy just like he cheated on Jen G with the Nanny while she was out of town Now kick Kenndy n Jlo find out that's Infidelity on his part..He could have FORGIVEN Jlo but I knew it was then that n I knew it had 2 be big n itwas n itis he cheated on her n Now it comes out
Marriage today does not last, adopt a kitten and call it a day.
😂😅
Only reason marriage lasted THEN because women didn't have a choice
Such solid advice lol
So sad story😢😢😢😢
Definitely humiliating
The protagonists are disgusting😮😮
Opposite attitude and behavior🥴 is the best recipe for the breakup🥴 between two very different personalities 🥴🥴
That’s really sad, I feel like her ego and his dependence on alcohol got in the way. I don’t think they fought hard enough to make it work and to be a little more selfless and giving to the other person. They both were at fault. He doesn’t seem to treat her right , he is always running away and she needs to be a little more private and respect what he needs. It’s sad that she’s always gushing about him and he doesn’t appreciate it.
Cheaters never stop Cheating
Who has time in their life to care about celebrity divorces??
I could not care any less about these two people
And yet here you are, commenting under this post, which means you do 😅
@@lizet3morebaaaaa😂😂😂
Why are you here, then?
@@shannacollins8371 exactly 😃
@@McChillz69 😃😃
This is sad. Hope there find they way back together. ❤
Good god!!!!! NEVER😂😂😂