A Detransitioners Take On the Transgender Movement | Chloe Cole at the University of Iowa
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- čas přidán 22. 10. 2023
- Radical gender ideology is leading innocent kids down a path of destruction. Chloe Cole shares her personal journey with "gender-affirming" care and exposes how it’s actually not caring at all.
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Chloe Cole is an 18-year-old who previously identified as a trans male and underwent hormone treatment and a double mastectomy. At the age of 16, she detransitioned and now believes her desire to transition was driven by trauma, body image issues, and fear of growing into a woman. She now advocates against gender-affirming treatment for minors and young adults.
You inspired me to exit the LGBTQ community, and trans back to my original identity and be a mother, daughter and sister. Thank you for sharing your story and opening my eyes to the truth...I always ran away from cults...not knowing that I was indoctrinated and deceived into being in the biggest cult in history.
God bless you 🙏🏾
I’m sure your family cherishes you. 💛
Glad they didn’t get you to become sterilized & mutilated . Good luck to you & God bless you
Out of curiosity, will you be again using the birth name your parents gave you?
I am proud of you for being strong and steering yourself back onto the path you were meant to travel. That is never easy to do.
Welcome back you got this Girl :)
The real woman of the year right here
ABSOLUTELY! Great comment!
Indeed!!! That’s what real women are, strong, brave, empathic, loving, caring. And we have to understand that, those characteristics are not our weakness, they’re our strength.
I agree 100000% with you! Chloe is the woman of the year. She’s a beautiful and intelligent woman, and as the first man who talked to her during the Q&A said, I support her and she has to stay strong, never surrender and keep saying the truth and her story! We are all with her, by her side to fight against this nonsense! She’s so brave🙌🏻🙌🏻🤍
@@tiffepatenaudeYes! Femininity is NOT a weakness, just another kind of strength. It's why I'm so disheartened to see girls taught that in order to be strong, they must take on masculine traits, usually to a toxic degree.
Chloe is everything a great woman should be. Already, at 19. Perhaps by her 30th birthday, this world will have changed to the point where she will be named woman of the year.
I agree 👏 👏 👏
She is a role model for true bravery
Chloe Cole > Dylan Mulvaney
This is the side they don’t want you to see. This is real bravery. This is strength. Good luck to her on her journey.
100%
She repeat Republican talking points of "promote: strong national defense" ...which really is the enrichment of the Military Industrial Complex .
Shhh... We shouldn't talk about it or kids could give second thoughts about transitioning.
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@@peekaboopeekaboo1165mkay trophies for everyone
Chloe Cole = WOMAN OF THE YEAR!!!
She's not trans enough for that anymore.
Absolutely, I second that!
100% agreed 👏👏👏
100% 😂
From Angola, Africa 🙏
FACTS
Chloe Cole.......an inspiration and the definition of brave.
Fully agree. Not to take away from what you are saying but conservatives applaud Blaire White and I don't understand that but I can understand this. That poor boy will never be able to be a man.
At least Blaine white was an ADULT when he transitioned. What’s being done to children by these demonic psychiatrists clinics & surgeons is CRIMINAL
💯 %. I can’t imagine getting up there and speaking so calmly and maturely, after the horrors she’s been through.
She called Chloe transphobic but could not tell Chloe how she was transphobic. She couldn't even define transphobia. After gaslighting like that, it was time for her to sit down and stop wasting everyone's time.
I think part of the core issue, is a lot of children feel isolated, alone or different, unconnected; How many don't have friends, so they "identify" as gay or trans or "nerds", gamers, sports jocks etc, but adding "phobia" or Fear/hate, makes them feel vulnerable to losing their group and become defensive, both sides will do it, and then there's an impasse (Just what the manipulators want, they have a captured group, an isolated group, very much like cult leader behavior).
This is much deeper then most people comprehend...
"her to sit down and stop wasting everyone's time." And if she was crying out for help? How do abused children (Even adults) behave, think about Stockholm syndrome, or drug addicts etc; I could point you to experiments that would terrify you...
@@R0d_1984 I agree with your assessment of the core issue and that this social contagion is the result of manipulation. I would like to add some groups to the one's you mentioned. In the past there was Goth, Emo, Punk, etc. The Emo kids did their thing but didn't try to change everyone to affirm them. Nor did they try to cancel those who disagreed. .
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Correct! This is deeper.
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The people form the queer community who engaged with Chloe seemed kinder than some of the activists. Still, they were irrational and were not listening to her.
Lastly, reflecting on the trans person who could not define phobia. If she is troubled and crying out for help, she will need to find more productive methods than going after Chloe. As an adult, she is responsible for her own mental health. This whole social contagion makes excuses for bad behavior. And she doesn't get a pass because that would be enabling.
I’m so happy 😃 happy 😆 thank 😊😊
@@marque2127yesss! Well said!! 💯💯💯💯
*I WOULD BET ANY PERSON $100 ON THE SPOT THEY DO NOT KNOW THE CORRECT DEFINITION OF TRANSPHOBIC.*
That lady dodging the "what is transphobia" question just to tell Chloe she was dodging her question made my eyes roll so hard 🤦♀️
That over weight girl didn't answer the question. "Can you define transphobia?" She just babbled on about how a friend of hers committed suicide. Basically dodging the question, and putting the blame on others. Typical behavior for her ideology. It's insane. We have to pray for these people. No hate to them. We have to try to free them from their self inflicted torture.
It's also ironic that she was blaming Chloe for dodging the question when she herself didn't answer her question.
She was/is in a lot of pain, who knows what has been done to her, abuse and/or a lack of love, care and bad associations can do unpleasant things to people; Do you think little girls or boys dream about becoming prostitutes, drug addicts, murderers or "gay"?
Do you think that the loss of her friend is "babble"? Have you lost a friend? If you/we can't empathize and try to understand what is "wrong", how can we help? Even teens with "issues" that aren't trans, how do we help them, parents for thousands of years have had to struggle with the hormones and growing mind (Once a upon a time, "teens" spent very little time with other teens...).
We are up against very evil but very sophisticated manipulators (psychologists etc), we have to do better or we will lose this and every other battle.
@@R0d_1984 I don't think that little kids dream of being prostitutes or drug addicts. But I do believe that some dream of murdering and all kinds of sexual acts/lifestyles, including being gay. If it is true that she actually lost a friend to what she speaks about, then she is not simply babbling. If she is lying, because we don't have any proof besides her words, then yes, she is babbling. Yes I have lost many friends, most importantly people who are closer than friends. Like my mother, two aunts, two grand mothers, two uncles, my grandfather. I've lost a lot. And since those loses, the way I view life is different than most. We can help these individuals by telling them the truth. Not bending to their delusion. We can do this with a kind heart, but also being firm. We can teach them to love their body, the way it was perfectly designed by the most high. Even if they were born with some kind of deformity. We need to teach confidence and ownership of ones actions. Also we need to teach them how to be selfless. I agree we have to do better. We need Yahweh and Yeshua to in order to do anything that is right.
What do you wanna bet that her boyish friend whom she referred to as “her” later told her she misgendered her.
My heart broke for her because she wanted she’s hurt and angry and want to pin it on someone. She completely misunderstood what Chloe was trying to say
Kudos to this brave young woman for speaking out on this sick evil mutilation & sterilization of CHILDREN
Protest for the release of the 200-300 hostages taken on October 7th being held in Gaza by Hamas
I so applaud this woman for her COURAGE in standing up against the false narratives being pushed and forced upon us by the woke mob. We need so many more of her!!
Woke mob? Woke brownshirts? Alphabet Nazis? Yeah they need to go...
Not sure if this young woman is now sterile from cross hormones , hopefully not. She’ll never breastfeed her children. The psychiatrists & surgeons that did this to a 16 yo should be ARRESTED & put in PRISON . They make money off lifetime trans patients , it’s pure greed
This is her superhero origin story we are lucky to witness! Other women (and men!)… step forward and take your rightful place amongst the change makers. 💛
This is by far the most powerful speech I have heard about what really happens to children caught up in this evil Web of lies. Chloe is such an inspiration to all of us.
Protest for the release of the 200-300 hostages taken on October 7th being held in Gaza by Hamas
'There is NO biological marker for Transgender' - Words of truth of wisdom.
Here in New Zealand, halfway across the world I could hear a pin drop when Chloe spoke...such a quietly powerful voice
I was a tomboy who developed breasts at 9. By 10, I had a D cup. My dear mother treated it as normal, and explained it all to me. I can't believe there are people who would take it as a sign to destroy their child's life through surgery and chemical mutilation. I'm so sorry about what happened to her.😢 parents, if your child seems worse when seeing a therapist, that's a red flag. Change therapists. Talk to your child, for God's sake! Push until you find the answers
I was a tomboy, but I knew I was a girl. I acted tough only to be around my brothers guy friends!!!! Oh yeah.
The true definition of bravery is doing the right thing when society tells you to go along with all that’s wrong. Chloe is an inspiration to each and every one of us. Thank you for sharing your story and for standing up for yourself and others.
40:03 On top of that, if her lawsuit is successful.. now there's a precedent set with case law. It's important. That gotcha she tried was so condescending. I'm glad Chloe handles these folks with maturity.
What's wrong with the lady in the greenn hoodie. How can she say that clinics not allowing all sorts of trans surgery is trans phobic? These people are just cry babies of simple things. The topic is about allowing keds to rltransition. If you're grown, you do you boo boo. However don't be pushing your agenda to encourage parents to allow thier kids to transition
I felt bad for the that person’s pain but I was proud how Chloe handled it. Chloe has a lot of truth to say and many don’t want to hear it- keep fighting Chloe!
She will win her case
Chole Cole is the one who is brave. I thank her for telling the truth and sharing her story. 🙏 I hope she never stops spreading the truth.
YES! Get the information about transgenderism from someone who has gone through it and come out the other side, not by anyone else.
Protest for the release of the 200-300 hostages taken on October 7th being held in Gaza by Hamas
@@user-sn2tm4gy4fwhy are leaving the same comment on everyone's comment. This particular issue has NOTHING to do with Hamas. And protesting here in America won't convince hamas to let them go.
She was done so wrong. People that done this to her should be jailed and pay her everything they have. Won't give her back what they took from her. But she should still get everything they have and then some. Very strong girl
The woman with the mask on needs to transition from obese to a healthy weight. She will feel mentally and physically feel much better and it's something she can actually do.
Incredible brave person .. the community that continues to harm these incredible children that are just questioning themselves like all children do need to be stopped and criminally charge..This needs to stop .. our children need to be protected from these predators.. thank you Chloe God bless you ❤❤❤❤❤
The fat girl was making an emotional plea. Chloe DID answer her question.
And she didnt answer... what is transphobia..
There was nothing to even answer. Her question was "are you aware that you're transphobic?" Then when asked to define what transphobia actually means she failed miserably.
Sometimes asking a question is the best response to a question. Its a great way to respond to loaded questions.
Chloe Cole is a highly intelligent articulate young woman. I wish her the best.
They really need to explain that almost everyone goes through Body dysmorphia
We all h@te our bodies and don’t feel we are good enough sometimes..
we all are uncomfortable growing up and going thru puberty.
And sometimes we all wish we looked like someone else.
Stop pushing for these kids to permanently change their bodies.
They need love and mental health care. And understanding.
True Bravery right here
She stood up to everyone who traumatized her and permanently messed her body up. I hope she wins every lawsuit !!
She deserves woman of the year!! 👏
Brave, strong, intelligent, caring, and beautiful
I’m so proud of her. When you google her name, the first result tries to smear her, calling her anti+trans and emphasizing that she supports bans on child-transitioning and “gender-affirming care”. When they try so hard to shut her up, you can tell that she’s saying something important. God Bless Chloe Cole.
It's okay to be uncomfortable with your sex, the body changes and kids dont like change, its natural. God bless you Chloe Cole. You've become an astonishing and beautiful woman❤
29 minutes in and the room is DEAD SILENT. Tells you all you need to know. Thank you for speaking out.
What an amazing young lady. Bravo 👏 👏 👏 👏
She is the WOMAN of the year !!!! Extremely brave
So good to see Chloe getting out there more and more. She’s a brave young lady, and an inspiration to young people everywhere. God bless you girl.
This amazing young lady is the definition of courageous and brave!!
Chloe Cole is a gift and must be protected at all costs!
🙏🏽❤️
Well done
I am a (relatively) conservative, 56 year old Caucasian, straight male... (in case any of that matters to anyone!) and I just want to say Chloe Cole is one of thr most inspirational human beings I have EVER seen in my life! You are a beautiful soul, as well as a very attractive female... I just wanted to tell you, Ms. Cole. You touched my heart with your incredibly articulate speech before Congress, and I think you are super special and important for the entire future of this planet! (Not to put any pressure on you or anything!) I think you will accomplish anything you set out to do in life, and I want you to know you look spectacular. You are loved! I love you already! If I was about a 20 - 23 yr old young man I'd be trying to meet you! Lol. I hope your feelings toward yourself get better with time, because I guarantee that you will have to beat down the young men with a club who will battle one another for your affection and attention. May God bless you in all of your endeavors. P.S. - you could write speeches for the President or be a White House Spokesperson in the future if you so desire. You are extremely well-spoken. Take care and keep on keepin' on. You are my inspiration ❤️.
Wow she gave a powerful testimony!👍👍
I hope she finds happiness in her future despite the wrong that was done to her. I felt exactly like that guy at 4:21. Just heartbroken this happens...Her speaking up is a great thing and I hope many see it and aspire to her bravery.
You are way brave, lady. Full respect. And good on you for filing you lawsuits - the only way they're gonna stop the permanent patient conveyor belt of cash is by hitting them in the bank account. Stay well, live well.
As someone who is dysphoric and still seeking transition, I too do not trust in the psychiatric field. I have issues beyond gender dysphoria that I have tried years to get help on, but therapists have proved to be useless on. I have to educate myself on it, an I am only more motivated to do so because I am finding detransitioners who struggle with the same thing and I want to help them if I can. Dissociation causes a mental and physical disconnect from one's body and or reality, anyone who thinks this is irrelevant to gender dysphoria is a damn fool.
Bravo. You will find strength in taking power in your own life back. Everyone should educate themselves on what it is they're going through. Blindly trusting the psychiatric and medical field is extremely dangerous and you could end up much worse than before you ever sought their guidance to begin with.
I feel you should have discussions with people who have been trans and on hormones for years and then have discussions with people who have regretted it and de transitioned … to get both sides and see where you’re comfortable at .. at the end of the day your happiness matters trans or not , hormones or not you are a beautiful person.
It's brave for you to admit you're wrong but it's even bigger for you live your life as yourself 🎉
One of the many things that makes Chloe Cole great is the ability to speak to the general public about what is going on. I have plans to write an anon letter with a link to Ms. Cole's Testimony to Congress along with the transcript. Anyone who doesn't know what is going on should be aware of this young woman. I am impressed with her and am empathetic to her suffering. Much love to Chloe Cole. Thank you Chloe for all you do. May you find honor in yourself for taking the time, energy and focus to bringing the truth to all.
41:35 oh the irony, she couldn't define her whole cult community's defense mechanism when faced with criticism. yet when Chole tried to answer her question, she accused her of dogging the question. transphobia as a term doesn't make sense. No one has a fear of trans people, we disagree with the ideology and find it to be destructive to our youth and society.
Ya, it is interesting that if people have claustrophobia, they aren't guilt-tripped for it. But when someone doesn't agree (and trans people feel angry at them) they accuse them of some sort of irrational fear despite the fact that Chloe Cole is totally calm and isn't showing signs of panic, anger, irrationality or fear.
Chloe Cole is so brave. Thank you to her for speaking out about this issue.
Her life story is so inspirational for many children
Thankyou Chole! We need people like you!! Helping save children! Never surrender! Stay strong!! ❤❤❤❤
My heart goes out to Chloe. She is a victim of mindless people with an agenda. Her family were victims. She was failed by the very adults that should have protected her, the medical “professionals “. Shame on them.
I’m a gay conservative. I am NOT part of the lGBTQ+ alphabet soup. Thank you YAF for existing. You guys are amazing. I will be donating money to your organization. Yes you can be gay and conservative!!!! Leave children the heck alone!!!
I'm bisexual and athiest, yet I'm conservative too. I do believe there is a point where we have to say no more!!
You do realise conservatives are going to go after gay rights too? After Roe V. Wade was overturned the judge Clarence Thomas discussed overturning the case that legalized gay marriage.. and conservatives keep conversion therapy legal
Chloe is extraordinary, an amazing speaker, brave and beautiful. Good luck to her. She will go far in this world ❤
*YOU GO CHLOE! YOU ARE MY HEROE!*
*I AM A 74 YEAR OLD HILLBILLY AND I APPROVE OF CHLOE'S MESSAGE. THE PEOPLE AROUND HER LET HER DOWN. PROTECT THE CHILDREN. READ YOUR BIBLE TOO!*
Great speech and for once some polite questions. Watching their faces I felt the trans students were uncomfortable, probably because they were hearing truth for the first time. The autistic kid in the Q&A…good lad. Much respect mate.
What a brave young woman. I never found trans to be right and am glad people like her are speaking out. I hope more people get the proper help they need. I have always been a tomboy and never been a girly girl. Even at age 63 now but I never thought or wanted to be a man. We can do all we want whatever our sex. I joined the military, had a motorbike, still do so called manly things but I am a woman and have kids. I made my own solar system in the first lock down and used to make my own computers. No need to trans.
Thank you thank you thank you! I was recently diagnosed on the spectrum and I don't identify with women at all bc my brain works differently. This doesn't mean I'm trans! There are a lot of women on the spectrum who aren't trans getting the wrong treatment! I remember the gender confusion! I could have easily been pushed into transitioning
My heart silently weeps for her as I understand what she deals with as she explains it so eloquently. May her body heal to what wholeness can be now - healthy and strong and pain-free. May she be provided with healing herbs, balms, oils, anything and everything from healers that do no harm.
GOD BLESS YOU CHLOE... we SUPPORT you 💯%... 🇺🇸
Chloe Cole is the epitome of courage. All those people that think they're brave for "coming out" are all delusional. She is the one actually going against the narrative. The sooner these other kids wake up and realize it's all been a farce, the better off they'll be.
The parents are a huge problem also
The two female activists who questioned Chloe on the lawsuits, said that she is preventing standards of care for children. The problem is they weren't listening to Chloe. The reason Chloe is in this position is that affirmation therapy has nothing to do with healthcare standards.
Chloe is becoming such a great public speaker!
God bless!
Yes, applaud this woman for here courage! And it enrages me that the medical community would allow this to happen (not really - as there industry says a good patient is a patient that requires long, long term treatment, eh?)
Regarding the protesters, I wish that Chloe (and folks like her) would had commented on the protesters use of the term Transgender" Hate", the term that they so freely throw around. It is obvious that Chloe does not hold any "hate" towards any transgenders but unfortunately any group that is in disagreement with an opposite position, they label that "Hate" or phobia. It offends me greatly.
It kills me that anyone would suggest a minor can make these decisions. Chloe might make a comparison that if that is what you believe, then your logic would also allow to decide to have a sexual relationship with a 30 yr. old or older person if they so desire, or be allow to experiment with drugs.
I just don't get these people and the society that reinforces this insanity.
Love Chole. ❤️
Chloe Cole is an amazing and brave young woman who is trying to protect children ❤
It’s ironic how she can accuse her of dodging the question
But when she ask you what the definition of Transphobia your response was it’s a lot 🤦
Wow. What a brave girl. Thank you, Chloe.
So scary that one guy was allowed to have that kind of power over one's life because of where he was from and his title. Therapists - esp. counselors - are churned out a little bit. I went to Master's classes to become a counselor. They were not classes designed to churn out competent clinicians. Even still, it's only an opinion at the end of the day. It is scary. I was misdiagnosed with like 4 - 5 mental disorders and had me on medication. I'm off all of it, see what I really have (CPTSD - not the 6 things they said) and I have felt great since leaving that all behind two years ago. They do more damage than they help, that industry. It's not the way to mental health. Sleep, sunshine, laughter, music, friendships, love, attention, nature, exercise, not virtual reality in a room for hours every day.
Beautiful Young Lady, Keep Shining. God Bless You, You are A Champion. Brave. Don't Give Up. YOU ARE A HUGE INSPIRATION. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
It's a business.
No transition, no money.
EXACTLY.
this is a smart well articulated individual that has absolutely no problem defining her feelings. and taking the timeframe into consideratio, im pretty sure she was good at convincing the doctors to. i think she needs to take responsibility for her own actions as well and not only blaming doctors.
Seeing how the TQ community treated detransitioners was what first caused me to take a closer look at my support.
This also coincided with them switching arguments from "sex & gender are different" to Transwomen ARE Women and you must allow them into sex specific spaces.
I course corrected pretty quick once I actually looked into the issue, and I'm honestly befuddled how anyone else who also has could possibly reach a different conclusion.🤔🤷♂️
I think a lot of people just don't look into it.
Chloe bravery is over the charts ...
trying to make the other side make sense on their poor claims is a lot ..
the way that the green sweater girl with the hat never even began to answer on her definition of transphobia and the inversion trying to claim that Chloe was deflecting the questions ..
what a joke ...
and here's a foolish idea instead of asking acces to cut in her body she should spend more time walking outside or doing any kind of sport .. this kind of have the effect to make people more and more comfortable with their body
This woman is so brave to speak up and its so sad and telling that she has to go to the conservative side or moderate side to find peace, acceptance and to find a safe space to even be heard is very telling that this radical wokism cult is oppression..its awful...i was always a liberal democrat growing up poor and believing in the truths of MLK jr. I mainly have been agnostic in spiritual stance though
I realize now, i am a conservative republican
I really want to be Christian but its always been intellectually difficult to accept
*Btw does anyone realize these voices are being snuffed out and threatened with violence and death by the very group(woke cult culture)that claims acceptance and understanding
I hope we find solutions to the absolute fascism this woke culture is promoting, i literally am fearful for America, like we are watching the rise of Nazism in Germany that is how this feels.
If you are in league with this woke ideology and are actually reading this
Please read literature of what it is like in a cult and ask yourself some hard real questions.
God Bless you Chloe. God chose you for this!!!!!
She knows this topic as well as possible
this was such a thoughtful event!
The power of a community and a sense of belonging is very powerful, especially for a young girl or teenager, this needs to be taken into consideration by these activists and furthermore, it should be considered malpractice when a therapist only confirms a self diagnosis rather than provide ACTUAL therapy to work at getting to the root of a problem, when that is exactly what their job is...to probe, challenge and discover what is really going on and to DIAGNOSE.
To not do this ever but especially for a child is malpractice. A person or child should never self diagnose and then automatically only get agreement on the self diagnoses by someone calling themself "a professional".
People need to sue affirmative care, the therapists and anyone else who promoted this over providing care.
Why does this only have 20k views?
Such a brave young lady. Very awe-inspiring. She should be very proud of herself. 😊
So proud of you , such a strong woman
Dearest Clohe, my heart weeps about the massive betrayal you suffered from the hands of so many adults you trusted as a child.
I am a 75yo woman who has a daughter 55yo. How all these horrible people robbed you is nothing but evil.
God bless you in all you do, Clohe, may He give you His peace as you live out the complex mission you have.
This sad physical life will give way to a wonderful life in the spirit where physical bodies no longer exist and your sweet spirit will live free from torment of every kind.
I love you, dear Chloe, I hold you tight always❤
Thank you very much for sharing the truth!😊
God Bless Chloe.......She truly is an inspiration 🙏
She is a strong , brave woman.
Green hoodie asks a question
Chloe: well....
Green hoodie: you are not answering the question
Chloe Cole - WOMAN OF THE YEAR!
THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS TO LOVE YOURSELF AND THERE IS SOMEONE THAT WILL LOVE YOU FOR YOU!!!!!❤❤❤
At 40:22 she really enraged it, to the point that it froze without being able to speak
It breaks my heart the numerous children and mentally disturbed people who have been affected by this monstrous movement mutilating themselves, believing it will make them “feel better”
Such a beautiful person.
Peace for Chloe.
How in the actual fuck did this become a left wing versus right wing issue? At what point in our history was it decided that one political party would say, "You should take a bunch of drugs and chop your body up" while the other party says "No, we shouldn't let doctors do this. It's very dangerous and it doesn't help anyone"?
42:26 That "Ma'am...Ma'am..." after they said they were trans!! 😅
That was great!
What a brave young lady.
not giving the answer you want is not dodging the question
It’s so sad. She still has masculine features. Are those permanent? Thank you for doing this. ❤️
Unfortunately it is permanent. No so much in men when they transition back. Very sad.
It’s like no matter what you say to object it will always come back to “But please just let us do this. It doesn’t matter what the collateral damage is. It doesn’t matter some Children will be permanently sterilized, have stunted development, or have healthy body parts removed for an aesthetic. It doesn’t matter how likely it is for a kid to grow out of their dysphoria and that this is a normal part of adolescence for most. It doesn’t matter that none of this will actually change our sex and be performative at best. Please ignore all of that so I don’t kill myself. My COMFORT, my FEELINGS are the priority!”
EVERYTHING is a personal attack no matter how reasonable the pushback is. Transphobia is just saying NO apparently.
I hated boys until puberty, really hated them. I was asexual, did not have romantic feelings for girls either, but did not hate them. If I were a child today, I would probably be labeled a lesbian, or trans. I would have realized upon puberty, that I had romantic feelings for boys, but would have been terrified to detransition or come out as straight, as an 8th grader or 9th grader, and I'm not afraid to speak my mind. Adults with authority over me (teachers, principal, counselors) would have ended up destroying my teens. I'm from a very progressive state, I'm not sure I would have left my teens with my breasts and uterus if I were going through school today. I scares me to even think about it.
Easy way to determine if something is a cult: “How do its believers react to those who leave?”
Prayers and love and hope that they return? Or hatred, vitriol, dehumanization and shunning?
Hello YAF- Can you guys select the CC option on all your videos, for the hearing impaired such as myself. Thank you.
She should be woman of the year! Such a brave young soul 😊
The girl in the green hoodie couldn't even explain what transphobia is..."it's a lot" isn't an answer
Well. I believe Girls’ physical appearance is more noticeable during puberty
It’s very common for girls to be picked on over their chest size and it’s something u can’t hide that well. It’s there for everyone to see.
Not like boys
And it can start early. Like age 8, 9 or 10.
So that’s one factor involved with it affecting females more when growing up.
For example I was CONSTANTLY told I had huge b00bs.
I started showing at age 9/10. And by 12 I was full C. And then D right after high school
Or that’s how someone identified me.
Oh do u know Mandy. Mandy who?
Mandy with the big b00bs
Matter of fact I still have people from school making comments on my top.
I took a photo at the beach back home and someone commented nice
And someone I went to school with commented “well she’s always been well endowed, remember her in school, wow” 😳
It always made me self conscious and so I always wanted small b00bs
Couldn’t fit into cute tops like everyone else. And I’ve always had back issues and bad headaches.
I was more of a Tom boy because of being uncomfortable with being feminine and showing my top. I wore baggy clothes
People are weird... That sucks. Too young to be having your body parts spoken about like that, even if it is by other kids. This culture is obsessed.