(390) Aaron's Storyline - 29th September 2011 (8pm)
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- Episode Date: Thursday 29th September 2011. 8pm episode.
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Summary: Chas reels when she lifts up Aaron's shirt and sees the cuts that he has made on his body. Shell-shocked and wanting to help, Chas calls for Paddy and can't hold back the tears. She feels bad telling Paddy but needs his support. Later, Aaron arrives back with more blood on his shirt and tells Chas that he won't stop self-harming. Chas is terrified by his controlled manner.
This will always be one of the most heartbreaking moments between Aaron and Chas - the look on her face when she saw his scars and the shame in Aaron's eyes says it all. He just looked haunted. Danny and Lucy's performances were beyond words.
Louise MacAllister this and Gordon's part this year.
Louise MacAllister that's true this broke me
"It's not about wanting to die... it's about wanting to live."
It's all about punishing yourself for something. Self-mutilation always is. I've been there, I've done it as a teenager growing up. Nothing that severe, but I have.
Kudos to Emmerdale for this storyline... so well acted and written.
The acting is so realistic, especially when Aaron talks about not knowing why he does it, that really hit home for me
I love how accurate the finding out scene was, my mum had a very similar reaction to Chas when she discovered I was doing this. And just like Aaron, all I could say was 'I don't know' in reply to her questions.
I hope everything is better with you now. Sending some positive energy from sweden to you ☺
My mom almost find out and i just panicked and i just maked out some excuses she would be so sad. I can't do that to her.
In my case it was very weird, my family didn't really take it seriously, but I don't really care. It started suddenly, but I don't know if it'll go suddenly.
Watchin it over and over again every couple of weeks... I loved Aaron!!! And Mr. Miller shud be one of the best payed and well knwon actor of the world... Such a talentd guy!!!
I love paddy saying to Rona that "i cant tell you, i promised" it shows his loyalty and her understanding
His last words "I won't give it up" haunts me.
One of many Best performances
Should have kept Pearl and Rhona out of this one.
There's also the science behind it...once the harm has occurred adrenaline is released, providing a rush, quickly followed by dopamine, which temporarily improves mood and reduces anxiety and then endorphins, the body's own pain killers kick in, providing a high (that some believe to lead to a euphoria similar to morphine). So it does have scientific evidence behind it to say it helps, however, just like morphine for pain, the effect weakens over time and more self-harm is required for that ef
I have a fair bit of experience with this. I know several different members of staff from the local psychiatric team and all agree this IS a coping mechanism. Whilst acknowledging that accidental suicide can occur, most people who self-harm do not do so in an attempt to end their life and thus generally tend to not go cutting too deep. I even know a psychiatrist who said to me once that giving advice on wound care was the best help to give to someone who self-harms and so educating them was
Damn Beautiful Danny gives me so much goosebumps! Wouhouw! He really has to get an Emmy,if that's possible!
The writing on this is Top Notch!! Who ever is doing the writing. Has been through this or has done A LOT of research.. It shows a side of grief. most people never knew about. Great Job!!
When Chaz opens his cothes..ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh the skin, the exposure, the smoothness of Aaron's abs...so goooood...
Having Aaron sectioned would be unrealistic. As yet he has posed no serious threat to his own safety and apart from verbal abuse, no threatening behaviour to others. I think, however, that he looks pale and I reckon that he may be going down the anorexia route as well as self-harm. If this is the case then a psychiatric hospital would be appropriate, just as it would if he becomes violent to others physically and/or shows signs of a breakdown. Congratulations to the Emmerdale team - great s
When they show the Samaritans helpline at the end of the clip you know shit has indeed hit the fan or will do in the very near future... i truly didn't know what i was letting myself in for 389 parts ago.
i understand what he means by it helps as a former cutter the pain you feel in your heart is too much to handle and anything that can distract us from that is worth it. cutting of the skin takes some pain away that you feel inside for a while you feel nothing and it was great but then it ends and you crave that pleasure again so u do it again and again and again but it cant replace the deep pain that aches inside you
wow... I was glued to the screen today...
Amazing acting and writting. They are showing me something I really didn´t know about. like I said in previous epis I´m surprised at how many people has this type of experiences. Kudos to ED again
amazing acting by both of them, the really work well together and make the story-line one of the best ive seen since aaron came out
aron need to talk to someone about all what is going up in his head this was very had for him he need to open up they have to try to let hem talk if not he will lose it one day
“Want to watch you all the time, creepy” 😂
God. WHY DOES NOBODY EVER HUG HIM????? He needs someone to come close to him! Now is the time! He has every defence down. Now you can come through to him! Just HUG him!
i have never seen movie, soap..........with so much crying. How is Danny doing it?
love this! some great acting again from Mr. Miller!
“it’s not about wanting to die, it’s more about being able to live” hits home.
Lucy and Danny work together so well
The scene where Aaron is holding the bloody blade, and then when Chas unzips his hoodie zipper.. As someone who cuts, and has done for years, it brings me back to when my mother found out. The look on her face. The blade dripping triggers me so much, but I love Aaron so much. As to why I come back to the beginning of this storyline and watch it over and over.
wouw the way he talks to his mother....OMG right into my heart!
This was just so powerful, just when you think this story could not get any better, the writers and producers take it up a notch. The acting from the whole cast but from Danny Miller in particular was breathtaking. Does anyone know when the next episode will air?
Danny Miller has been sensational yet again. So scary how calm he is and determined in the final scene. was great too. Really think he should be sectioned for his own safety. It has gone too far and it is too serious to let him continue in this way. Also want to praise the makeup for the realistic cuts and the way Aaron looks so pale and drawn now. The writers and actors really have stepped up to the plate with this storyline and deserve every bit of praise.
Aaron is surrounded by Passive/Aggressive people.. No wonder he can't heal emotionally.
@Mighthore i love the sound of it, too!
Lucy and Danny were really awesome.Such a simple question Why do you do it? It helps.Its really extreme seeing him disfigure himself,but I quess people actually do this or worse.I'm still hoping the best for Aaron.
the phenomenal "why you do it" question, if there was an answer simple enough to explain that it helps with all the built up pain inside. the most disturbing part of this is that Aaron has a found his solution to his problems and that is the most scariest shit there. It's like molding in pain and u see some sense of freedom/ release from all that, but it is just illusion cause it will never go away and it will become a problem in itself. Aaron is really breaking my heart.
i came out to my parents on Sept 1, and i wish i had Chaz and Paddy for parents instead...
i know wt they are trying to portray here. sometimes i find hard to live in nervousness and scared. my mind is unstable of fear and scared. living every moment in fear and nervousness i very dangerous. i m also tired of it. So self harm helps in very un-describing way.I did put a hot knife on my neck.I just felt peace.not in fear of emptiness and uncertainty tht i have worry about every next moment thtt comes in my life
I think I just found my real life Aaron. ;) Do you want to go out with me? Have a couple of pint? Hehe
Lol.love to go out with u. however i dont like alchohal . sure we can go out for a coffee. but i m in india. cheers
proxyDECOY I'll go out. hehe
where r u located?
Well thank goodness Chas discovered this before he actually performed invasive surgery.
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“I wanna watch you all the time”
“Creepy” 😭
This is the most maddening thing. One would think it 1954 and everyone totally ignorant and uninformed. They have smart phones and computers and Chas acts like she lives on the moon. In all the years NO ONE seeks professional advice let alone help. They live life without the slightest idea how life is to be lived and just go around in circles never really getting anywhere. If you are ignorant or inexperienced of a problem or situation you find someone with experience in this area. But they never do. If they had ever done it early on with Aaron's behaviour of acting out he'd never have had so many problems.
@98slbrookes98 Of course but he never even tried to live in this condition, he gave up the moment he got his diagnoses.
Aaron Need Help
@greymushroom1 first, it's like he is punishing himself and same time reliving the pain but the pain is still there so he does it again, then he hates that hes doing this to himself but sees no other way and punishes himself but cutting again. this goes on and on, it is a vicious cycle of disfigurement and not only physically but mentally how you think.
Although cutting is not a good way of coping and Aaron needs proper help, unless he accepts that he needs help it is going to be hard to give it to him. Some of what Aaron is saying is true about the physical pain distracting him from the emotional and that cutting is not about wanting to die but rather a way to deal with life. But, he could unwittingly go too deep and bleed to death which is the problem.
@Mighthore I love your comment. And yes I want to watch too :)
I'm sorry but I don't think there is anything remotely healthy abt what Aaron is doing, speaking from own experience Aaron dosen't stand a chance of getting better until he gets professional help, even though Aaron may not have the intention to kill himself what he's doing could easily lead to death by just one cut too deep or a inch to many and it's over. Aaron needs to get coping skills thru therapi not from sharp objects.
He also needs to talk a LOT I think Adam could help him a lot.
'Come on son, I just wanna help you..'
'I can do it.'
STOP WITH YA FLAPPING, BOY, AND TAKE THAT JACKET OFF!! for, um, medical purposes, obviously...
@cvsken Invasive surgery? You mean before he accidentally hit an artery?
@jwsm2 Believe it or not, this is actually a healthy step, one which many treatment centers for trouble teens endorse. Essentially, Aaron is taking a deeply disfiguring psychological pain/trauma he can't deal with, and translating it into a physical pain which he can cope with. He feels better when he cuts himself, first because he's "punishing" himself, but second, because he's transmuting the pain into something the stings, but gets better, which heals. So he's trying to cope.
@shyathena34 Jackson didn't want help either and now he's dead and Aaron is violant and destructive, Chas has already done everything she can, she needs to let professionals take over and let handle this and she can just me his mom. They need to get him help weather he wan't to or not b/c he imo can't make good decisions for himself any more.
@lawrence5584 What the hell type of treatment centers are you talking about? No one defines cutting as a "healthy" step. There are treatment centers FOR cutting (also referred to as "self-mutilation"). It is considered incredibly self-destructive and no one is going to endorse it, particularly if your job is to try and find healthy ways for teens to deal with difficult situations. He isn't coping, he's just finding new ways of not-coping worse.
@preagle60657 exactly..it's about finding something to take your mind of things, a temporary pain..like getting high that little escape but it doesn't last for long, it's not healthy and you end up hurting yourself and losing the true you in the process. :(
At least Aaron gets it...
Zumi1995 It tends to not be as effective when you figure that out, sometimes you have to just struggle through it, the inner pain/depression does ease off sometimes, maybe most times. Harming might work at first but like most things you get used to it so it isn't as effective after a bit (PS I didn't cut, too dangerous and too messy, but I know what I'm talking about there)
I just wonder when Aaron's life will be fixed in this roll au couster...just don't get it.
@Merima1978 I don't think you can compare the two. Jackson was paralysed from the neck down and didn't have a good quality of life. He asked to be euthanased because he was desperate. Aaron's case is completely different but I agree Aaron needs help.
on a really silly note, danny's belly button looks huge!!!!!!!!!!!
@pdcub5 They have maintained this level for 2 years. I don´t know how they do it
@lawrence5584 uh no dude, although yes I have heard and read that it can be seen as a healthy tactic cause it is relieving emotional tension and the pain but it is not healthy in any way. ppl who endorse this is ridiculous. you think 10 more cuts till he stops punishing himself? 20 maybe ? how much you think it will take "cope" with a memory of inflicted pain? it could be seen as coping but it will manifest into something worse.
Chas calls Paddy who may care but is the most incompetent person on this planet to deal with anything serious or complex. She should be calling a doctor or help line strictly for advice if nothing more. This is the blind leading the blind. Who are these writers, Mental cripples from Borneo????
@sanyrub same here...i would be on the edge of my seat, to borrow a phrase =)
@98slbrookes98 Jackson diden't have any quality of life b/c he was depressed not b/c he was paralysed.
@sarahamadan Me too!!!
@b4ubreak i know, it sounds banal - but it gets better! ;)
@sarahamadan same here.
@sanyrub save me a seat, k? i'm right there with you guys ;)
those eyes @ 1:33 !!! and (this is surely the farthest thing from appropriate) that tummy @ 0:37 !!! 0=)
i have to admit i find this triggering !
@gxdjoeybaby07 lol I wouldn´t be able to stop watching if I had one of those seats...
@b4ubreak be strong! 0=)
Chas really needs to back off on this. I mean, she took away the punching bag, now she's trying to take away his cutting. Aaron needs something to help him through the process, and so long as he isn't causing lethal damage then he should be allowed to continue. Everyone has there way of coping with their issues, this is Aaron's. Moreover, as Aaron pointed out, she can't stop him; he will continue to cut for as long as he needs too.
Aaron Need Help you Mom or Paddy SomeOne Like Andy Ed John Jackson you Friends Family Girlfriend you gay Like Boys Boyfriend
Say it with me guys: "Coun-sel-ing" "The-ra-py" "Pro-fes-sion-al Help."
And if all else fails, wrap him up in a straight jacket and call it done. Usually, I'd be sympathetic for a person who feels like Aaron does, and think differently, but if there's one thing I've always found myself saying while watching this entire series, it's that Aaron is mad. I washed my hands long ago. Chas and Paddy have all my respect for being so impeccably resilient. Even for parents/guardians, they go way beyond.
love this! some great acting again from Mr. Miller!