VBAC Birth Story 17 Months After C-Section

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  • čas přidán 25. 04. 2020
  • My name is Alyssa
    / dreamingofthefarm
    I am so proud and happy to share the story of my VBAC.
    FAIR WARNING the birth story of my VBAC is quite long… I did my best to make this video as short as I could.
    I went into labor 41 weeks exactly. I had my VBAC 41 + 2. I delivered 9 days late.
    The birth interval between my c - section and my VBAC was 17 months. I got pregnant with my second baby 8 months postpartum. The reason for my c-section was failed induction or failure to wait.
    When I decided to try for a VBAC I couldn’t find much information on successful VBAC’s with a birth interval less than 18 months.
    I wanted to share my birth story to share that it is possible.
    Trying for a VBAC was sometimes lonely…. It’s not something you can talk to just anyone about. I wanted to do this video to be an ear for those who may need a friend when trying to make this personal decision because sometimes all you need is someone to hear you out.
    As a disclaimer, you should not rely on this information as a substitute as it does not replace professional medical advice. If you have any questions or concerns about your health you should always consult with your physician or other healthcare professional.

Komentáře • 149

  • @VivirSimple
    @VivirSimple Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you for sharing your beautiful birth story 💖 not enough out there on VBACs and it’s rejoicing to see women sharing their VBAC stories. I hope to have one with my next baby.

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 4 lety

      Thank you so much for watching and YES! That is why it was so important for me to share my story.

  • @cynditran2036
    @cynditran2036 Před 2 lety +5

    This literally gave me so much hope, because I had a c section after going thru 36 hours of labor with my son being stuck at 7. So, you gave me hope! Thank you for sharing your story and so blessed you had an angel by your side and you have a healthy beautiful babygirl!

    • @christengardner1466
      @christengardner1466 Před rokem

      My daughter was stuck at 9.5 which sucks and she will be 21 months when I have my son I want a vbac so bad. How did your birth go mama?

    • @semhartesfamichael3143
      @semhartesfamichael3143 Před 7 měsíci

      Update pls ​@@christengardner1466

  • @hectorinahprecious6677
    @hectorinahprecious6677 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm extremely glad I landed on your video Moma. It's just the right piece of information I needed to boost my confidence to push through with my vbac plan. I'm 19wks apparently and I'm trusting God for a successful vbac. Thanks once again Moma for sharing your story. Sending love from Uganda

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 2 lety

      Wow all the way from Uganda! Thank you so much for watching my video. I will be praying for you mama. Trust god and your self. All will be well. Here for you if you have any questions.

    • @hectorinahprecious6677
      @hectorinahprecious6677 Před 2 lety

      I so much appreciate your prayers dear and words of encouragement.

  • @cheyennekeziah1566
    @cheyennekeziah1566 Před 3 lety +2

    Our c-section stories are identical! I want to have a successful VBAC so badly. Thank you for giving me hope and information.

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 3 lety

      Of course. Sending you all the positive VBAC vibes!! Thank you for watching and being kind.

  • @christinamarie8791
    @christinamarie8791 Před 4 lety +3

    You are so STRONG Mama! Oh my goodness I teared up when you did! Goosebumps! Love how you told your story!

  • @tonibrooks837
    @tonibrooks837 Před 4 lety +3

    You did awesome! So happy to watch your growth❤️

  • @sai-vonnaj.5078
    @sai-vonnaj.5078 Před 4 lety +13

    God bless you , I pray that I get my successful VBAC this year ❤️

    • @loopzblessed9437
      @loopzblessed9437 Před 4 lety +1

      Same here 🙏

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 3 lety

      Thank you my friend. I am sorry for my delay on this comment. How are you doing now? Praying for you to have your VBAC.

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 3 lety

      I pray you have it as well. Sorry for my delay on this comment... how are you doing now?

    • @komaloli8062
      @komaloli8062 Před 3 lety

      you achieved your delivery? cs or vbac?

  • @gingypants
    @gingypants Před 4 lety +3

    Alyssa I am soo soo proud of you!! I hope to be as strong as you we’re come june 🤞🏼🤞🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💜💜🤍💜🤍💜

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 4 lety

      Love you Heather! YOU WILL BE STRONGER. Thanks for watching this long video too.

  • @saoirsesoleil6573
    @saoirsesoleil6573 Před 2 lety +2

    congratulations on your beautiful baby girl! thank you for sharing your story. it sounds like you were surrounded by a wonderful support system throughout your journey, which is really important when you have all these anxiety. i've had two prior c-sections with a low vertical incision. my last daughter being born 3 years ago. i want to have a vbac, but really scared of uterine rupture😢

  • @spffc15
    @spffc15 Před 4 lety +7

    Congratulations! I really appreciate this video! I will also be trying for a VBAC 17 months after my c-section. Where I live, the minimum recommendation is 18 months so your story gives me hope!

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 4 lety +7

      THAT MAKES ME SO HAPPY. The biggest reason why I wanted to do this video because I felt there was such little info out there to give women hope who were under that 18 month recc. YOU GOT IT MAMA.

    • @spffc15
      @spffc15 Před 4 lety +2

      dreamingofthefarm Thank you so much! I am so hopeful! :) finding stories like yours are so encouraging!

    • @ashleyhopkins6296
      @ashleyhopkins6296 Před 2 lety

      Did you get your vbac?

    • @yunusazainab3022
      @yunusazainab3022 Před 2 lety

      @@spffc15 is did u have vbac or repeat c-section

  • @zepetogirl6072
    @zepetogirl6072 Před 2 lety +3

    Same here.im now pregnant with my second baby and my first baby is 8 months old ☺️☺️ i hope that i can also have vbac inshallah pray for me to have health baby 🍼🐥

    • @KiranKumari-qo7iq
      @KiranKumari-qo7iq Před rokem +2

      Are you try vbac.... your vbac done successfully please reply

  • @maggiemayplays
    @maggiemayplays Před 4 lety +2

    Love your video! It's so informative ❤

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 4 lety

      Thank you so much for watching.. are you having a VBAC???

    • @maggiemayplays
      @maggiemayplays Před 4 lety

      @@dreamingofthefarm3490 no but I wish I would have watched this video before I had my daughter. I was too nervous to do a vbac

  • @greenjammie5
    @greenjammie5 Před 2 lety +1

    I love your story! It gives me hope! I have an emergency csection with my twins last year and this year I’m planning on delivering vbac (natural)

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 2 lety +1

      You can do it mama!! You are amazing!! So excited for you

    • @greenjammie5
      @greenjammie5 Před 2 lety

      Thank you so much! So are you! You are sooooo strong, I hope I can do it too.

    • @Farxadiyoguul
      @Farxadiyoguul Před 2 lety +1

      It won’t be easy if you don’t have the right support. You have to be very determined! Avoid all drugs no matter what the situation is because once there is a intervention it may continue. I hope you’re successful by the will of God.

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 2 lety

      @@Farxadiyoguul This is so very true!!

  • @kgm6325
    @kgm6325 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you Soo much for sharing your VBAC story! You have really given me encouragement to definitely give my all for a successful VBAC! Im due in 2 weeks!! I had my son last year on June 7th of 2019 by emergency c section, it was definitely a surprise to find out I was expecting 6 months later lol! We'll see how I do my DRS are letting me go into labor on my own and hopefully I can push all the way to the end like you 💖🙏🏼

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 3 lety

      You can do this! I believe in you!! I hope you are feeling well. Just relax and breathe and get yourself into the best positive headspace possible. I have heard so many VBAC success stories since I shared this.. did you see my other video with my tips for a VBAC?

    • @kgm6325
      @kgm6325 Před 3 lety

      @@dreamingofthefarm3490 I have not seen it just yet but I'll be sure to look for it ☺️ im so nervous and excited! Please pray for me and my baby 🙏 thank you I'll be updating you soon 💓

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 3 lety

      @@kgm6325 I know that feeling mama. You will be amazing and I will be praying. Feel free to dm on instagram as well if you need a friend in the moments to come.

    • @NaziOfficial8630
      @NaziOfficial8630 Před 3 lety +2

      Same here pregnant after 6mnths... what happened with you plz tell me

    • @livlyfe4022
      @livlyfe4022 Před 2 lety +1

      What happened. I’m pregnant six months after also

  • @allisonastorvargas8380
    @allisonastorvargas8380 Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you that was very informative!

  • @hopeforthebarren
    @hopeforthebarren Před 2 lety +5

    I am so appreciative of this information, and I’m so happy to see so many women who are on the same journey as I am here! I got pregnant at 6 months pp and will deliver at 15 months post c section. I really want to have a VBAC!

    • @yunusazainab3022
      @yunusazainab3022 Před 2 lety

      MoriYah Zion did u have vbac plsss

    • @hopeforthebarren
      @hopeforthebarren Před 2 lety

      @@yunusazainab3022 I am still only 7 months.

    • @yunusazainab3022
      @yunusazainab3022 Před 2 lety

      @@hopeforthebarren wish u safe delivery dear

    • @ezemamabel4079
      @ezemamabel4079 Před 2 lety

      @@yunusazainab3022 I want us to connect zainab I am in the same situation with you I lost my baby and really wanna take in but I don’t want CS

    • @yunusazainab3022
      @yunusazainab3022 Před 2 lety

      @@ezemamabel4079 ok we will be chartn and discuss i will start tryn next month by god grace bcos am using calender method since to prevent pregnancy even last 2days my gynae said no problem i can try. Now how many month u have after cs?

  • @elyaalish753
    @elyaalish753 Před 2 lety

    So happy for you👏🏻👏🏻 how much pounds did you again on your first &second pregnancy?

  • @foreveronifadeonifade5728

    Thanks so much for sharing!😊

  • @nyaguthiechege8125
    @nyaguthiechege8125 Před 3 lety +1

    Beautiful and encouraging.

  • @eb8365
    @eb8365 Před 3 lety +1

    I got pregnant in December at 7 months PP. Baby was frank breech & was delivered via c-section. It'll be a 16 month difference & hoping for a vbac this go around!

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 3 lety

      congratulations!!!! JUST SAYING I love this age gap btw... I believe in you you can do it!! So you are due at the end of August??? Are we friends on insta? I would love to connect with you... I also shared a VBAC tips video if you haven't seen it yet. :) Shares everything I did to make it possible.

    • @mikaylajorge4613
      @mikaylajorge4613 Před rokem

      Did you get your VBAC?

    • @eb8365
      @eb8365 Před rokem +1

      @@mikaylajorge4613 I didn’t. Something told me not to do it. Turns out his cord was wrapped around his neck twice & even with having the C-section he still needed oxygen after he was born. The doc said he could’ve died or had brain damage & would’ve ended in an emergency c section no matter what. I’m glad I didn’t go through with it 🙏🏻

  • @ashleybrindley6353
    @ashleybrindley6353 Před 2 lety +2

    Thankyou so much for sharing this story! Im going to attempt a vbac at 16 months post emergency c section, your story has really made me believe its achievable and I can't wait to do it! I want to feel that empowerment and be able to say I did it both ways! Xxx

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 2 lety +1

      Of course! I am so happy to hear it brought you hope. I will be praying for you mama. You can do it!!!

    • @selamembaye7618
      @selamembaye7618 Před 2 lety

      Hello there how was your vbac gose did you achive

    • @ashleybrindley6353
      @ashleybrindley6353 Před 2 lety

      I unfortunately had a miscarriage on the 2nd of December. Its been really hard coping with the loss of my baby but im hoping to try for my rainbow baby during this cycle of my period. If it doesn't happen this time then unfortunately I won't be able to try again for another few years due to reason I don't feel comfortable disclosing. Thankyou for asking though xx

    • @ashleybrindley6353
      @ashleybrindley6353 Před 2 lety

      @@dreamingofthefarm3490 I unfortunately miscarried beginning of December its been absolutely devastating but im hoping to try again for my rainbow baby during this period cycle. Fingers crossed 🤞 xx

    • @selamembaye7618
      @selamembaye7618 Před 2 lety

      @@ashleybrindley6353 iam sorry mamas

  • @saravananpk3520
    @saravananpk3520 Před 3 lety

    Thanks for giving me hope 😊

  • @openmindeddoll9520
    @openmindeddoll9520 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much for this video bc I'm pregnant after 16 months of pregnancy and I wanted to see if there would be some kind of success in similar timeframes..

  • @priscilachagas3552
    @priscilachagas3552 Před rokem

    This gave me hope, I'm dreaming with my VBAC 16 months after C-Section.

  • @aamina2311
    @aamina2311 Před rokem

    I am 37 weeks now after 20 months of c section. But my doctor told she don't want me to take any risk of uterine rupture and she has planned for repeated c section at 38 weeks

  • @dorikahcooper2377
    @dorikahcooper2377 Před rokem

    Thank you so much for this!!! I needed this. My babies will be around 18 months apart when my baby comes and I want to try for a successful VBAC!!!!

  • @charlesderling5235
    @charlesderling5235 Před 3 lety

    Beautiful!!

  • @gabbyhayes614
    @gabbyhayes614 Před 3 lety

    Hey there! Was she born posterior or did your exercises with doula help? I just found out (from my post op report from my csection) that my baby was posterior. I was never informed of this in labor. They didn’t tell me to try different positions or anything. Just get in the bed for monitoring and then you should probably get an epidural because the anesthesiologist lives 30 minutes away. Trying for a VBAC next time. Wondering if posterior babies tend to happen again? Do you know if your first was posterior and maybe that’s why your labor was stalling? Sorry for all the questions. I have seen a lot of women with posterior babies go on to have a VBAC

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 3 lety +1

      Hi Gabby, sorry for my delay. Yes both of my girls were born posterior... and the reason for my c section was ruled Failure to Progress due to posterior position (sunny side up). We had a feeling my second baby would also be a posterior baby and my doula was prepared with lots of positions to help with that. Back labor is def harder but doable. Miles Circuit and Spinning babies were a game changer for that. Our c sections sound very similar btw... are we instagram friends? I have shared more information there as well. Thanks so much for watching and praying for your future VBAC. You can do it!!

    • @gabbyhayes614
      @gabbyhayes614 Před 3 lety

      @@dreamingofthefarm3490 yes I follow you on Instagram. I love your content! I was just shocked when I saw the notes from my c-section that he was posterior. I will be hiring a doula for my VBA2C attempt so hopefully they will be able to help me spin the baby 😀

    • @belzeebubbubbachunks
      @belzeebubbubbachunks Před 2 měsíci

      Same exact thing happened to me. Definitely getting a doula next time

  • @patriciamgala5292
    @patriciamgala5292 Před 2 lety

    Hello. Can I try vbac, I get pregnant after one year after c section please can you answer me dear

  • @anthonymurrietta2716
    @anthonymurrietta2716 Před rokem

    How much did your girls weigh? My last son was 10lbs and would not come down and i didnt dilate past an 8 so i needed a C section, in order for me to be able to try a vbac i would need a smaller then 10lb baby

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před rokem

      My c section baby was my smallest baby at 7 pounds 8 oz and both my VBAC babies were over 8 pounds. Believe in yourself, manifest it!! You can do it mama. Have you watched my VBAC TIPS video yet?

  • @tapty4107
    @tapty4107 Před rokem

    How much your Scar thikness ?

  • @haimawaqar4956
    @haimawaqar4956 Před 2 lety +2

    I.also have a same 17 months time between deliveries I'm due this Feb 15 2021 my dr is not cooperative for vbac what should I do?

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 2 lety +1

      I would definitely get a second opinion. My original provider was also not the "most" supportive... have you seen my VBAC tips video? I talk about that a bit more in that one. Prayers, hugs and good vibes my mama friend :)

    • @haimawaqar4956
      @haimawaqar4956 Před 2 lety +1

      @@dreamingofthefarm3490 thank you God Bless You Mama

    • @Farxadiyoguul
      @Farxadiyoguul Před 2 lety +3

      @@haimawaqar4956 do your research you can do this go to another doctor. I didn’t go to the hospital until I was in active labor my doctor was also not supportive but with God’s will I succeed.

  • @NaziOfficial8630
    @NaziOfficial8630 Před 3 lety +2

    Congrats 👏...I'm pregnant after 6 months of c section so nervous for Vbac

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you :) Yes I was very nervous myself being pregnant 8 mos after my c section. So hard now to remember how nervous I was but I did so much research at that time and many support 6 months as enough time to TOLAC. Have you checked out THE VBAC LINK? Congratulations to you and I hope you are feeling well :)

    • @patriciamgala5292
      @patriciamgala5292 Před 2 lety +2

      Hello Did you try vbac
      Please give me feedback

    • @semhartesfamichael3143
      @semhartesfamichael3143 Před 9 měsíci

      Any update pls

  • @allymantikas9247
    @allymantikas9247 Před rokem +2

    Did your scar hurt while pushing ?

  • @bethwatts7488
    @bethwatts7488 Před 2 lety +3

    My daughter is 8 months old going on 9 I just found out I’m pregnant I want to shoot for V bac wish me luck!

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 2 lety

      CONGRATULATIONS!! You can do it :)

    • @Crystal-zi9qy
      @Crystal-zi9qy Před 2 lety +1

      Same here! I had my 8 month old via VBAC so I’m really hoping to have another with the new baby!

    • @semhartesfamichael3143
      @semhartesfamichael3143 Před 9 měsíci +1

      ​@@Crystal-zi9qyany update pls ❤

    • @Crystal-zi9qy
      @Crystal-zi9qy Před 9 měsíci

      @@semhartesfamichael3143 my second VBAC was successful! It was a natural birth as well. No epidural this time. My son (third child) is now 9 months old.

  • @yogitapatil4523
    @yogitapatil4523 Před 6 měsíci

    In India not so much doctor's are supportive for VBAC even gap is 4 years first c section. Is scar thickness is matter in vbac? How prepare for vbac make more videos to courage all moms too be. Happy nd helathy mother's life to you dear.

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 6 měsíci

      Thank you so much for watching - I have a VBAC tips video you should check out as well as my 2VBAC video.. both have a lot of helpful information. I will be thinking of you xoxo

  • @AnonJess
    @AnonJess Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing your experience! I had a preemie baby in January by way of emergency c-section, due to severe preeclampsia. We just found out we're pregnant AGAIN yesterday! So I'm only 6 months postpartum, but I really want to try for a VBAC. What were the reasons you had to have a C-section and what made you a good candidate for vbac? Thanks!

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 4 lety +2

      Congratulations to you mama! So that would make your babies 15 months apart.. did you ask your doctor? From the research I found on The VBAC Link 6 months is the cut off although others saying you shouldn't try less than 18 months but my providers were supportive. So I had a c-section because I was a failure to progress after an induction. I was considered a good candidate because I never went into labor on my own. Did you see my other video VBAC tips.. or find me on insta? I talk about this stuff on there all the time. My account is @dreamingofthefarm. Super happy to chat with you more about this. :) Excited for you!

    • @AnonJess
      @AnonJess Před 4 lety

      @@dreamingofthefarm3490 Hey there! Thank you so much for the reply, I will definitely find you on Instagram. It's so hard finding positive VBAC stories when the babies are somewhat close together. I seriously appreciate the fact that you made this video! I'll probably be picking your brain on there sometime soon. Thanks again!

    • @livlyfe4022
      @livlyfe4022 Před 2 lety

      Any news I’m
      6 months after c section pregnant again

    • @AnonJess
      @AnonJess Před 2 lety +3

      @@livlyfe4022 Hello! I had our second baby in March this year, and I successfully had my vbac! Everything went perfectly smoothly, with no complications whatsoever! It was an absolute dream! But it would not have been possible if my doctor + husband had not been so supportive. If you're passionate about it, and believe in yourself & have a good support system, then you can do it!

    • @yunusazainab3022
      @yunusazainab3022 Před 2 lety

      @@AnonJess congrats pls what is the gap between cs and vbac i lost my bby 9month ago

  • @BipinKumar-gb2ew
    @BipinKumar-gb2ew Před 2 lety

    How much was your scar thickness just before baby birth??

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 2 lety

      I didn't notice any difference to be honest.... is yours getting thicker?

    • @BipinKumar-gb2ew
      @BipinKumar-gb2ew Před 2 lety

      @@dreamingofthefarm3490 mine is getting thin ,within one week dropped to 4.1 from 5.1,still my 3 week is left so I think it will get thinner till that time,so not getting hope for normal safe delievery.

  • @saravananpk3520
    @saravananpk3520 Před 2 lety

    Hi I'm sathiya,I had my first baby on December 07 2019 and I'm pregnant 31weeks please tell me can I try for vbac

  • @christengardner1466
    @christengardner1466 Před rokem

    My daughter will be 21 months when my son is born I really really want a vbac

  • @noorunnisaha2845
    @noorunnisaha2845 Před 4 lety

    👍

  • @nilamkanwal9379
    @nilamkanwal9379 Před 2 lety +1

    I wnt to vbac. My total gap 17 months only. Can i achieve my vbac. ?

    • @dreamingofthefarm3490
      @dreamingofthefarm3490  Před 2 lety

      I don't see why not. Have you talked to your doctor? I had my VBAC 17 months after my c section..

    • @KiranKumari-qo7iq
      @KiranKumari-qo7iq Před rokem +1

      Hi Nilam are you give birth by vbac ? Please reply