Friendly Insults
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- čas přidán 9. 09. 2024
- Welcome to another week of our usual Bants... This week we talk about the friendly way people stylishly insult you under the guise of "Joking" with you. We have them in our lives, those people who style out jabs here and there like they are playing with us but the disrespect! Watch out fo for it and eliminate them immediately cos life is too short and we have all just survived (some still surviving) a pandemic, no need to let people who do so little control your emotions. Watch, Like, Share, Subscribe and pls comment too.
I just cut off a friendship of 8yrs. Everytime she takes digs at me and me I was always celebrate her.
I even brought her to the place where I work and she started campaigning for me to be sacked. But God has exposed her.
I thank God I had this awakening in my twenties. I will teach my child o
She won't take rubbish o
I love this vid it made me a lot sure of what I did, cutting her off
And thank God am no longer that's girl that's needs friends and their validation
Got rid of a couple of friends recently too. Funny thing is I was very open to them. One was copying my successful business and was trying to hide it from me instead of askin for advise. She failed. Lol. Bad belle ppl. D other one was always throwing jabs at my skin color. Got rid of them n my life is at peace
How can you not like Toke????
Listening to her is therapeutic...
She is healing my soul...
I want to be her protégé pls.... Thank you ma for raising the bar....
Yes oo don't tolerate disrespect from anyone not even from yourself
Yes say that again... Not even from ourselves 🌹🌹🌹
People like that are just insecure. They can only feel good about themselves when they put others down. So sad because it's usually those you actually like and that are close to you that behave in this mean spirited way. The best things is to distance yourself from such.
So true! They never want to see you do better than them.
True
True talk
Good friends are hard to find!! These days, I’m just reserving tables for 1 and loving myself more.. no time for drama here. Positive vibes only 🤗🤗🤗
My rules: You like me, the feeling is mutual.
You hate me, the feeling is mutual.
When she said she’s reached a ‘dangerous level of freedom’ I felt it in my soul. I’m now able to see people for what they really are and my time and energy has become my most expensive commodity. So many gems in this video. Sharing it with all my friends. I appreciate u Toke for always being authentic!!!
Thank you TM!😘 Friendship without respect is rubbish 👌
I love this woman. I love this woman. She empowers me so much.💪🏿🥰😂❤️ 🔥🔥love from🇿🇦
Thank you Toke ....you make me value and respect myself even more
friends that compete with u too while u are busy staying in your lane. i really cant stand them
You said it all...
My sister!!🤥
THIS ONE RIGHT HERE 💯
Some of these people you share bed with, stay woke my people. When you pray for god to start exposing them, prepare to start loosing people.
This is what I've alwaysssss said omg.... disrespectful friends. I call them frenemiessssssss!!!!
And when you react they say "you can't take a joke" or "you're too serious"
@@sharonnche-che7351 exactly!
Omg!!!!This is the best Vlog for me....."na dem "...U are very correct . Increase ur volume abeg 🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣
These days I don't even need friends 😂 anyone that will stress me can use the door, and let the door hit them on their way out 🚪
My attitude this year
🤣🤣🤣 love it
Everyday MOOD🙌🏾
Lol
😄
I never thought about them friendly insult and this was an eye-opener... some so-called friends insult you intentionally and want to get away with it under the disguise of friendship!!! good riddance to bad rubbish!!!
Dear TOKESTAR
Thanks for this.... This was uplifting cause I see the hate in people's eyes for me...but they can't say it to my face...#Cowards....😂😂 but this is how I treat them too...thank you!!!!!
Confine in God Cus he is the only one who doesn’t screenshot or voice note to others over the things you ask him for .
asin!!! it is so loud and legit!!!
Deb Deb ❤️😁
The way you correlate your thoughts eh and yet still keep it a vibe is amazing. Your presentation of a topic is definitely one of my inspiration for my own channel 🙌🙌🙌. Thanks TM
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh woman after my own heart ooooooh chai. You dropped this nicely!!! These gems should be added to the book of proverbs. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Tell’em. Friendnemeys
This is my FAVORITE vlog from TOKSTAR🔥🔥🔥🔥....If it’s barking like a dog, we don’t wait to hear “woof”....we what? We move!!!!!😂😂😂
Hahhahaha
na now i understand why im a loner, i was always thinking there;s something wrong with me, friends can be anoying, when i leave u i feel better...i no need friends pls. Thank you Toke for giving me reason to understand friendship in a right way...omor!
Bless you my pretty darling! Let our positive energy give them constipation. It is wicked to make others uncomfortable by talk down on success... Big hugs...
Mummy Adesola. I love you ma'am
@@rodiyatoyelola4630 many thanks. Let's keep the good work going...
Lolz it’s the vibez for me always omo I’m so stepping into this baby girl for life zone and that’s on perioood ✌🏽
Yeah people do that a lot I dey play na so dem dey take insult person😆🤣
Everyone need to learn how to be happy been alone
“Be my enemy with your chest” 🤣🤣
Ooose! mama.👌 I admire your wisdom ma.
Wise words..I love TM
Can I like ds video a billion times???????🥰🥰👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
E for energy
This video made my day....I love her vibes💯
Hahhahaha.... So me..... And I keep shining
This topic, so true and needed. This vlog is one of your best in terms of content. You really called a spade a spade.
Yes o
Things you can't stand for.... Do not tolerate it. Na for clap e dey take enter slap.... 👌 Their father.....
Your comment killed me 😂😂😂😂 their father
True talk... it's jeolousy, u know what? they are very difficult to get rid of cos u avoid them but they keep coming
Awsome you just mentioned OLUWA it is 13;44 again on the 25th of September 2020 and my last comment to you was with the name of Oluwa. PREACH STISTA ! yes when other hang on but the sad thing for them is they did not realise that the space they filled has made us more solid. Amen. Hey wear the hat every day, your true colours are varied enought. xx
Toke is always speaking the truth ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
That experience you say you had in your 30s, I have had it in my 20s. I don't live to impress people anymore or live by anyone's standards. I live based on convictions and intend to do so for the rest of my life.
Lol Toke your explanation is going back and forth but truth is, some people will tell you pump and plain that you’re not their friend. And if you also notice that someone doesn’t like you as a friend, stay away from them. I’ve learned to be OK with being myself and just being on my own. But God also have a way of bringing good people our way. I can’t pretend to be friend with people. When I notice someone doesn’t like me, I stay away from them!
Period sis
Amen
Absolutely true
I like ur last statement...👏👍
It’s the prayer part for me!!
Let them be ugly 🤣
OK. This is the best blog of 2020
I hit that phase in my life at 35 and it is a powerful feeling to gove zero fvcks! Loving you more each Wednesday💚
Hun mine was when I was 18
I hit mine about 4 years ago. I just got tired of faking being nice to people who aren't nice to me. Also,I stopped explaining myself to people who don't deserve it. I have mastered the art of the stare down
Opeyemi-Folasade Agboola 🙌🙌🙌🙌. If more women get to this level in life, this life go begin balance!
Jesus said be wise as a serpent and gentle as a dove.......my biggest prayer from God is to give me spirit of Discerment ,this way I can discern your energy and be alert.
Awww. Thank you so much Toke. I can relate a lot even as a guy... 🙌🏾
More videos like this please 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽👌👌👌👌 love it
😂🤣 Tokstarr be cracking me up
Straight on. *facts*
Your like my spirit animal.. Always spitting sense💯
Toke you said it well. Thank you! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿. Ah this was music to my ears. Beautifully said 🖤💜 lol
See me nodding my head saying Yesss
I have plenty of them as So-Called friends
Mo ya Cut iya won yamayamaaa
Haters gon hate, especially the enemies in friends clothing. Yes ohh, may GOD expose those fake people in our lives ohhhh. Omohhh me too ohhh I constantly update and adjust my privacy settings.
Your vlog sha. All litty!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I watched this video thrice at a go! Toke forgerrit you are my sistergirl for life! Haha
50% of jokes are based on truth. I know I had to learn how to set boundaries. Find friends who will respect you and your boundaries ✊🏾 Love 💗 #AfiaBella 💋❤️💋
one of the best video my sister!!!!!!!!!!!!haaaaaaa
True n straight talk
I love that prayer
thank you mamie❤️ we needed to hear this
I once had such friend, I let her use the exit door when I felt the competition was much, but we are still cool though buy not as friends anymore
😂😂😂😂 lol I agree
Yasssssss Iv learned to check them right then and there. I ust to not say anything and later internalize it.. not any more!! I will check yo ass real quick!
Friendship is not by force. Being around those who don't have your best invest in mind is such a drain on your energy 🙄🙄🙄 ...as you said "May God expose all of those who don't mean us well" 🙌🏽🙌🏽
How come I’m just subscribing to our TM’s channel
You’ve inspired me honestly
You inspire me every time. You too balance 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽👍🏾 you were born for such a time as this.. thanks teaching and speaking up for us. You are blessed and highly favoured 🙏🏾
Some days I wish I had more than one friend, other days I'm super glad I don't.
Love you so much TM
You always speak the truth
She said “jelux of”😂
Amen to all the prayers jare ... I love this 💕
Baby girl for life ❤️
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I swear I to love you 😘💗
Right on point baby girl for life! I told my hubby that you are just the best adviser and straight to the point girl....Frienemies! That's what they are called,; Toks!!!! #unfriendlyfriends 🤣
I love everything about this video :)
I don't even like anyone enough to let them ever disrespect me!
I once had a friend like that and didn't even notice these things till my mom told me... Mehnn that girl did me silly🤦🤦 Thank God for my mom ooo
"My world consists on me, myself and I". Lol. I can't be less proud of myself hearing this. It's going to be my anthem
At least your mom was there to rescue you
This is for me , I needed this. I love you 💋
Let them just be ugly 😂😂😂☺️
Yassssssss!!!! I'm the first to get here. Proudly a TM doll.
Love this video
I just love the energy and vibe here.😍❤️🥰
They are only genuinely happy for you when you have money so they can follow you to spend it
Funny thing just happened, while I was watching this lovely video one of the fake friends just sent me a message. Can you beat that?
*Leave me alone don't call me don't text me friendship is not by force* damn I love Toke
Dats all...
No be by force ohh 😝😝😝
This lady is really funny! Everything she says is true. I love listening to her.
“If my spirit says it is barking like a dog” ......🙏🏾
Marlene Rumeta it’s probably is...
Trueeeeee ooo, and this people are even our best friends... ko ni da fo awon friends, God will keep exposing them
I totally love you! 'Very very truthful and honest! 😂❤
Girl you are really saying something, all factttssssssss
amen to these prayers!!!!!!1
I love you because you spill the truth
Thank you ❤️
Toke please be my friend oo. You are too real and honest.
I really love Toke!!! 💥💥💥
Saving this video asap
I just love you toke because you say it as it is.
See the way i love u eh 😂😂😂. So real
I love this woman! GOSH! ❤️❤️
Yes!!!!!!!!!!!! I Agree
Clap 👏
Ameeeeeennn