Personally the clearest sign ive had that i wasn't much of a looker was my mirror. All it took was a single glance. Was a real eye opener. Really made me see the truth of it.
Was a real introspective moment. I saw my true self bounced back at me. A reflection of who i truly am. There was a demon in that mirror staring back at me. But that was just my wife. She was there too.
Nah, I've received decent customer service and I'm not good looking. I think it's a matter of expectations, just don't expect to be treated like a king, treat them as you would anyone else and they'll do the same. At best, i look like the wish version of Russell Brand, or Keanu Reeves, or Johnny Depp, but they're all on crack and severely sleep deprived.
In my case I can't relate but because I don't know, the thing is: I used to live in a country with very rude people where customer service was trash everywhere, not just in some places or towards some people. Less than a year ago I moved away and where I am right now people are extremely much nicer, so I don't know if I'm getting worse customer service than average or no because it's like 200% times better than the one from where I come from
Eh. I'm fugly af and I can't even remember a time when I've gotten poor customer service, off the top of my head. Could be that I'm a Minnesotan, though.
Here's a REAL EXPERIENCE I've had: · I only make friends in places where I'm mostly covered up like when I'm skiing or doing downhill mountain biking. This one girl was super friendly with me while we were skiing, she wanted to spend all day with me, let me choose the slopes, gave me her number, saw me without the helmet and goggles... and then she never answered to a single WhatsApp message.
@@DiegoRuiz1991That’s very rare, many people, even ones who think they dont care about looks, care about looks at least a little. You yourself probably have girls you wouldn’t date because your not attracted enough to them.
I was waiting at a train-station, standing on one of the platforms. Two blonde, chic, pretty girls (teenage or early 20s, don't recall precisely) were sitting on one side of a large bench on the platform. There comes this dude. You could tell from his body-language that he was a friendly, laid-back, nice person. He was obese, his clothes looked poor and old, his hair was greasy, he was sweating and out-of-breath from running to catch the train. He sat down on the bench, on the opposite end to the girls. The very second his bottom touched the bench, they got up and left, deciding to wait on the train somewhere else. He didn't seem to notice. But I think, on a subconscious level he did.
A really bad one is peoples reaction to the possibility of dating/being with you. I have someone that really likes me now. But people I have NEVER shown interest in would pre reject me and get super offended when I would tell them that it wouldn't happen anyway because they aren't my type. Had many childhood instances of chicks im hanging out with outwardly being DISGUSTED if anyone even MILDLY suggested we could be a couple. Really a confidence tanker :/
@@JoJo-fan-right-here to be fair, for young men "ew" often doesn't mean it, if they hang out with girls. They just afraid to be found out, and it will ruin their friendship (because they believe that girl wouldn't like them back). That my childhood, and I often see it shows in older tv shows. If he was actually "ew", he wouldn't even hang out with them, since making friends with guys easier, and he would hang out with "the boys".
One way I knew I was unattractive is the many women that looked at me with a grossed out expression a few have even said “ewww” right to my face haha dam that hurts more then getting kicked in the balls! 😅
All these, except the Kids one. Additionally, my Mom would say, "I don't get it, at Parties all these Ladies would tell me how Handsome you are." I would ask in return, "Then why are they telling you and not me? Face it, your Son is Ugly as Sin, they just want to make you feel better, not me."
The worst part is when you have genuine interest in someone, and they are the one to ask you out, just for it to turn into a joke between her friends, so she leaves you because they're hurting her for it. Feels way too shitty. Single women keep other women single.
Gave a picture of myself to an indirect friend of mine, actual friend of my sister, who claims what she knows a couple of women who are looking for a relationship. I am sure that the moment thewy saw me all of them probably went "eww." I know I am not attractive, I have actually been called a creep just for staring blankly, lost in my own thoughts. Receesing hair, and forehead that possibly looks like it could be used as an emergency bottle opener. I stopped caring after a while. By the way, even my parents tell me that I am attractive. I told them how much BS that really is, I could look like a Cronenberg creature and I would still be called "hsndsome."
as someone who used to be chubby, with acnes and bad teeth and lack of flattering styling (in terms of hair & clothes, may i add that i was also horrible at makeup) through my entire teenage years and only had a glow up now in my early 20s, i still genuinely cannot tell that if somebody shows interest in me, if that's actually genuine or are they just joking but i used to get hit on as a joke back then too. and obviously i see myself as prettier now cuz only i know the differences that changed, but i'm still not a 100% sure if i'm on that level of fitting into the beauty standards yet so i can be treated better. cuz the truth is that looking appealing definitely gets you more ahead in life, if i'm being honest that's the entire reason i wanted/want to look better. cuz i was getting too tired of ppl whispering about me when i pass by or just being rejective despite of me acting nice & approachable. in an ideal world, we wouldn't have to worry about these things so much...
The “friend zone”. Loaded term, but if you hit it off with single people of the opposite gender but they don’t see you as potential bf/gf material, you’re not hot.
Not true. There are many reasons one can land in the friend zone. Being unattractive is only one of them. Sure, if you're a 10/10, you won't land there, but that doesn't mean every person is in the friend zone because of looks. Also many women will not even be friends with ugly guys, or at the very least have a cut off. It's creep (1-3/4) friend (4-6/7), interesting personality (7-9)
@@manuelp7472 the question is "what's a clear sign?" not "what is indisputable proof?". If you're always a BFF, never a BF, it might be your looks. Yes, true, you might have a personality that they like as a friend but don't find attractive in a partner, but if you were physically attractive, a lot of people will find a way to rationalize how you're actually the perfect match for them. People will go from "we have so much in common" to "well, opposites attract I guess" in a heartbeat.
Yeah , the friend zone is for guys who do everything right but being attractive. Think about it. If you were an asshole , interesting with nothing going on in your life , you would be ghosted not friend zone. The friend zone is when the only problem you have is being short/ugly. Men don't do that shit but all women I know have a phone full of guys they friend zoned , it is crazy
When only Mom tells you you're handsome or when you talk to a girl and her answers to your questions are only "Yes", "No", "Mhm" and she continues to show you're not interesting for her by doing stuff like sitting on CZcams in middle of a conversation. Been there, saw that.
What made me realize I was unattractive? Have you ever heard of mirrors. One look in that bad boy and I automatically knew that I was most likely going to die alone.
funnilly enough, the second last one might just be you putting yourself down, it did not say the person showing interest was just joking, but that YOU convinced yourself that that is the case
@@skulisoul not necessarily, "being convinced" don't necessarily mean you are in the process of being convinced, it may also mean that you already ARE convinced of that. English is a bit confusing in that regard. But anyway, if it was the case where someone is trying to put your hopes down, that wouldn't be any proof you're ugly, just that you have very VERY crappy friends
@@melo_maniac_studio i am literally explaining how in that situation YOU would be the one gaslighting yourself, but the amount of people i've seen lately who don't seem to get the concept of gaslight would make me believe a further discussion would be fruitless
Well I always thought that was the case with me when I was younger (and well now as well). This pretty much solidified itself with the following experience: I reached the end of my school day and was about to head home when I met my friend before leaving and we started to talk. Then after some time I heard the voice of a girl behind me trying to get my friends attention while we conversed and I looked back to see who it was. In that moment she saw my face and went „Eww“. To this day I am upset…. at myself for not finding a good comeback.
1:37 sadly it does not matter what I do I keep thinking this and that is what I hate about finding someone or even making friends, you can NEVER be sure and that is the biggest reason why I am so asocial.
1:36 THIS WAS ME. I had horrible acne until I was 25, it which point it finally subsided (mostly). Literally, I started getting attention from women almost right away. It was legitimately disorienting to have women interested in me to that degree after basically being told (implicitly and explicitly) that I was ugly for most of my life.
the good news is, the more you grow up and people around you grow up the less people care about how you look when it comes to regular social interaction. people will like you if you're good to just get along with. doesn't apply to dating tho, there looks will always matter to a very large degree. teenage years and adolescence are by far the worst time in life for ugly people
there is a "halo effect" where people assume you're a good person with a fun life and treat you more charitably if you're attractive. It can affect you socially and professionally throughout a lot of your life, unfortunately. Anecdotally, it definitely seems more pronounced in youth though.
(Serious) People would know it from straight forward people, tho it would be hard to find them coz a lot of people fear of telling the painful truth out of fear of being judged for it. You barely see anyone actually blunt about it, it would’ve been a motivation for the receiver to improve themselves physically. The problem is some people would take the wrong path after being told how they look like.
i honestly think im average looking. some people think im attractive, some people dont. it'll go as high as someone wanting me and as low as someone blocking me
When I went through 2 years of hard acnea and skin problems I really doubted my attractiveness since I stopped interacting with girls less and less. Nowadays I think I look decently good, most skin problems are gone, acnea has calmed down and I'm relatively fit. Unfortunately I'm studying in technical school with no girls so it's hard to say if they find me attractive, but I have confidence in my looks now.
Today i learned i am ugly. Well... i did know already tbh. I do nothing with my long ass hair and i dont care about clothes at allXD I would be surprised if i actually was attractive. But i have fun in life anyway. It dont really matter:3
I can’t even tell if I’m pretty or ugly because of all the mixed signals I get. I’ve never been hit on and I’m almost 16, which is still young, but I’m seriously concerned that I may be ugly. But then again my female friends treat me like I’m pretty. I’ve been told I come off as intimidating and I never have shown interest in guys, so I wonder if that has something to do with it. Or maybe it’s the fact I’m 5’6 and always wear dark makeup. At the end of the day I’m convinced I appeal much more to girls.
Benefits of being unattractive: -less likely to receive unwanted attention or harassment -you'd know if people genuinely like you or not -you don't need to worry about maintaining your beauty and spending so much on products -you're forced to develop other skills such as personality, humor, going to the gym, etc.
Some of those are good, but developing yourself partly involves aesthetics, especially beauty, as it’s often tied quite directly to health. If you’re fat, for instance, you need to go to the gym, not just so others can bear your visage, but so you don’t die as horribly or as soon. If you’re unhygienic, it’s gonna make you ugly, but fixing that is necessary, not just some societal rule. If your face is deformed from birth or something that’s different, unless the deformity causes health issues now like trouble breathing, speaking, or swallowing, then try to get it fixed via surgery so you can be healthier.
@@feartheghus the others i can understand but the last part is very odd to me. some people get their faces blown off, some are born with severe disabilities, etc.. if those things can be easily fixed with surgery they wouldnt be a huge issue in the first place. its not rlly about being healthier anymore, since theres only so much modern medicine can do (esp taking costs into consideration). making someone prettier doesnt make them healthier and vice versa.
-all interaction by default will be slightly negative -working on yourself has a negative modifer -people will flex their lack of knowledge or skills because they didnt have to do anything to be accepted
I can’t tell if I can relate to this. I’m 20 male and have never been hit on, although my male best friend once asked me out and he was serious about it. I have only had one person ask why I am single, and that was an old woman I had never met at a family function. I am very social in university part of a lot of friend groups but I feel like I get little one-on-one attention. I cannot tell if I get bad customer service or if people see me as a ghost because I have nothing to compare it to. I’ve had a lot of people overreact to slightly offensive jokes I make even though I’ve seen other people make very similar jokes to the same person.
The deprecating jokes is what got me the worst. I pretty much cant make anyone laugh so i stopped trying a long time ago. I did notice the awkward silence probably because they knew it was true.
If you're having worries why would you even read all this. It literally can only hurt lol, wallowing in self pitty is about the most useless thing you can do.
Help 💀 I relate to some of these lol How about this…when someone hits on you, you’re confused and think it didn’t happen or that they were flirting with someone else
Honestly, unless you got a hygiene problem or a medical condition specifically affecting your face I refuse to believe you're ugly. Everyone has a cute side.
I’m a very attractive man and man don’t hate me but life is very easy. I’ve never not gotten a job, I’ve literally had multiple women walk up to me and ask me for my number and tell me I’m cute, I’ve always bagged in the first date latest is third date if it’s a more serious person. Women always do that hair flip thing when they walk past me. I’m tall and muscular so people will always get out of my way. People generally want to associate with me in any given social situation. I personally think a lot of people are weird so I stay to myself but get attention anyways. Whenever I approach a woman it’s 9/10 a positive situation. Very rarely have I been turned down and I have slept with many attractive women. Everything in life is relative and over time you get used to things. Don’t be so impressed by material things or how someone looks. Be impressed at how someone is in a spiritual sense. There’s no amount of external stimulus that can make you a happy person, it all comes from within. Even if I were ugly fat and wheelchair bound I would still find a way to be happy. I was ugly as a kid so I know what it’s like btw.
How are you not jaded though man? When I first got in shape the thing that really bothered me the most was that fat girls gave me more attention, whereas when I was their size they never looked at me. Like, if they weren't willing to date me when I was a fatty, why should I date them?
@@backtoshellac6459 the ones you are talking about are delusional. I’ve made a couple drunk mistakes and hooked up with a few on that side of the fence and they ALL cling to you hard. Be aware of the dunning Kruger effect and extrapolate that to human attraction. The hard part about going from zero to attractive is that in between you will meet people you know you won’t stay with. They will see you level up and sink their teeth into you. Once you get to peak level, body, and personality, is when you can finally play a fair game. And to answer your question, I am. I don’t glorify sex with hotties in my head anymore, I don’t have any naive curiosity towards dating. In short I’m f’d in the head in that way. I can be with someone that loves me and I feel nothing. It’s a blessing and a curse. I’m actually on a long ass hiatus right now so I can start to feel again. Running through chicks is doing more harm than good at this point, even though it’s easy and tempting. I feel like a psychopath in relationships.
Personally the clearest sign ive had that i wasn't much of a looker was my mirror. All it took was a single glance. Was a real eye opener. Really made me see the truth of it.
Damn
Was a real introspective moment. I saw my true self bounced back at me. A reflection of who i truly am. There was a demon in that mirror staring back at me. But that was just my wife. She was there too.
@@Coomamon_MemesLMAO
Real
@@Coomamon_Memes😂
God, the one about always getting poor customer service is soo true
Yikes
I can relate to it too
Nah, I've received decent customer service and I'm not good looking. I think it's a matter of expectations, just don't expect to be treated like a king, treat them as you would anyone else and they'll do the same.
At best, i look like the wish version of Russell Brand, or Keanu Reeves, or Johnny Depp, but they're all on crack and severely sleep deprived.
In my case I can't relate but because I don't know, the thing is: I used to live in a country with very rude people where customer service was trash everywhere, not just in some places or towards some people. Less than a year ago I moved away and where I am right now people are extremely much nicer, so I don't know if I'm getting worse customer service than average or no because it's like 200% times better than the one from where I come from
Eh. I'm fugly af and I can't even remember a time when I've gotten poor customer service, off the top of my head. Could be that I'm a Minnesotan, though.
Here's a REAL EXPERIENCE I've had:
· I only make friends in places where I'm mostly covered up like when I'm skiing or doing downhill mountain biking. This one girl was super friendly with me while we were skiing, she wanted to spend all day with me, let me choose the slopes, gave me her number, saw me without the helmet and goggles... and then she never answered to a single WhatsApp message.
Yeah man, I can relate to you, that's why I stopped wearing masks
@@NeonNova736 - I'm kinda the opposite, I wish to trick a girl to like me enough that she doesn't mind I'm f-ugly
@@DiegoRuiz1991That’s very rare, many people, even ones who think they dont care about looks, care about looks at least a little. You yourself probably have girls you wouldn’t date because your not attracted enough to them.
Looks are one of the thing people always look into at first. Yes, that includes me as well.
Damn
The part with the Tiktok Video is so true, they'd say stuff like that to make you feel better
Unless its instagram reels
@@un_mexican0783we don't talk about insta reels...
1) They ask question like this one
Right on man
Nah, a lot of people purposely fish for compliments online by calling themselves ugly.
People dont like hearing the truth.
Id assume this video applies to u which is why u commented this.
Low hanging fruit
lol
I was waiting at a train-station, standing on one of the platforms. Two blonde, chic, pretty girls (teenage or early 20s, don't recall precisely) were sitting on one side of a large bench on the platform. There comes this dude. You could tell from his body-language that he was a friendly, laid-back, nice person. He was obese, his clothes looked poor and old, his hair was greasy, he was sweating and out-of-breath from running to catch the train. He sat down on the bench, on the opposite end to the girls. The very second his bottom touched the bench, they got up and left, deciding to wait on the train somewhere else. He didn't seem to notice. But I think, on a subconscious level he did.
blackpill
Cut away obese, greasy hair and sweating, and it's literally my experience every time.
@@rinslittlesheepling1652this, this happens to me and I'm not even obese
Well being obese is one thing
There is no excuse for bad breath, bad grooming, lack of clean clothes and shoes
@@Inbraneinthememsane poverty
they use reddit
You're so swag
Real
@@attepatte8485Mayhaps even based
Real
Damn, society really treats people like shit. That's sad, man.
Social Darwinism at its "finest".
be the change you want to see in the world?
Don’t use it then - anyone who is in social media is all by himself to
Blame
A really bad one is peoples reaction to the possibility of dating/being with you.
I have someone that really likes me now. But people I have NEVER shown interest in would pre reject me and get super offended when I would tell them that it wouldn't happen anyway because they aren't my type.
Had many childhood instances of chicks im hanging out with outwardly being DISGUSTED if anyone even MILDLY suggested we could be a couple. Really a confidence tanker :/
Oh yeah when someone says jokingly “oh Sarah likes Liam” and liams reaction is “ew what the fuck” when he knows it’s a joke :/
@@JoJo-fan-right-here to be fair, for young men "ew" often doesn't mean it, if they hang out with girls. They just afraid to be found out, and it will ruin their friendship (because they believe that girl wouldn't like them back). That my childhood, and I often see it shows in older tv shows.
If he was actually "ew", he wouldn't even hang out with them, since making friends with guys easier, and he would hang out with "the boys".
@@rinslittlesheepling1652 yeah ik I’m just using it as an example.
"You are smart and articulate."
Worse if that's clearly a lie.
@@djinnxx7050exactly that's salt on a scorching wound
Is it bad that I relate to most of them 😭
send image of your face
I do, too.
One way I knew I was unattractive is the many women that looked at me with a grossed out expression a few have even said “ewww” right to my face haha dam that hurts more then getting kicked in the balls! 😅
Aw man that sucks
All these, except the Kids one.
Additionally, my Mom would say, "I don't get it, at Parties all these Ladies would tell me how Handsome you are."
I would ask in return, "Then why are they telling you and not me? Face it, your Son is Ugly as Sin, they just want to make you feel better, not me."
The worst part is when you have genuine interest in someone, and they are the one to ask you out, just for it to turn into a joke between her friends, so she leaves you because they're hurting her for it. Feels way too shitty. Single women keep other women single.
That sucks.
But nah, toxic and unhappy Women keep other happy Women single... not just all of the single ones 😂
Gave a picture of myself to an indirect friend of mine, actual friend of my sister, who claims what she knows a couple of women who are looking for a relationship. I am sure that the moment thewy saw me all of them probably went "eww."
I know I am not attractive, I have actually been called a creep just for staring blankly, lost in my own thoughts. Receesing hair, and forehead that possibly looks like it could be used as an emergency bottle opener. I stopped caring after a while.
By the way, even my parents tell me that I am attractive. I told them how much BS that really is, I could look like a Cronenberg creature and I would still be called "hsndsome."
0:20 based. Women constantly do this.
The juxtaposition between the topic and the background music is diabolical
If someone says you're ugly...
When they caught a glimpse of you, and they immediately switch to Flight or Fight response.
People looking at you, but with disgust.
When you pass out at a party and wake up with more clothes on than before! -Amy from the Big Bang Theory.
as someone who used to be chubby, with acnes and bad teeth and lack of flattering styling (in terms of hair & clothes, may i add that i was also horrible at makeup) through my entire teenage years and only had a glow up now in my early 20s, i still genuinely cannot tell that if somebody shows interest in me, if that's actually genuine or are they just joking but i used to get hit on as a joke back then too. and obviously i see myself as prettier now cuz only i know the differences that changed, but i'm still not a 100% sure if i'm on that level of fitting into the beauty standards yet so i can be treated better. cuz the truth is that looking appealing definitely gets you more ahead in life, if i'm being honest that's the entire reason i wanted/want to look better. cuz i was getting too tired of ppl whispering about me when i pass by or just being rejective despite of me acting nice & approachable. in an ideal world, we wouldn't have to worry about these things so much...
Some of them are just signs of bad self steem, not necesarly being ugly
Bad "self steem"? What is that? Do you need to keep it in the fridge? Is it a medical condition? Is it contagious?
Dont need to cope if u relate to these man. Lifes unfair. Deal wit it.
The “friend zone”. Loaded term, but if you hit it off with single people of the opposite gender but they don’t see you as potential bf/gf material, you’re not hot.
Not true. There are many reasons one can land in the friend zone. Being unattractive is only one of them. Sure, if you're a 10/10, you won't land there, but that doesn't mean every person is in the friend zone because of looks. Also many women will not even be friends with ugly guys, or at the very least have a cut off. It's creep (1-3/4) friend (4-6/7), interesting personality (7-9)
@@manuelp7472 the question is "what's a clear sign?" not "what is indisputable proof?". If you're always a BFF, never a BF, it might be your looks.
Yes, true, you might have a personality that they like as a friend but don't find attractive in a partner, but if you were physically attractive, a lot of people will find a way to rationalize how you're actually the perfect match for them.
People will go from "we have so much in common" to "well, opposites attract I guess" in a heartbeat.
I find my friends attractive but I am not interested in dating them because we are not compatible. Simple as that
@@abba9265 you're at least a bit compatible, or you wouldn't be friends.
Yeah , the friend zone is for guys who do everything right but being attractive.
Think about it. If you were an asshole , interesting with nothing going on in your life , you would be ghosted not friend zone.
The friend zone is when the only problem you have is being short/ugly.
Men don't do that shit but all women I know have a phone full of guys they friend zoned , it is crazy
When only Mom tells you you're handsome or when you talk to a girl and her answers to your questions are only "Yes", "No", "Mhm" and she continues to show you're not interesting for her by doing stuff like sitting on CZcams in middle of a conversation.
Been there, saw that.
The comment about not getting any attention when you try being social is so true
God, the entirety of this video hurts me personally.
What made me realize I was unattractive? Have you ever heard of mirrors. One look in that bad boy and I automatically knew that I was most likely going to die alone.
my girlfriend (now ex) of 6 years said she never found me all that attractive and I was at best a high 2 or a low 3 on a scale of 1 to 10
lol your iq is very low
They’re doing that to fuck with you btw
Women only date up so I guess she was a 1 outta 10, lol.
She prolly said that to hurt you when yall broke up
@@kunka592she just settled for an oofy-doofy
When they look at you with disgust when you remove your mask.
funnilly enough, the second last one might just be you putting yourself down, it did not say the person showing interest was just joking, but that YOU convinced yourself that that is the case
Usually the reason people think that way is because it has happened to them in the past
By the wording, i tought someone else would convince you that it is a dare.
But if you believe it, there's nothing else we can do
@@skulisoul not necessarily, "being convinced" don't necessarily mean you are in the process of being convinced, it may also mean that you already ARE convinced of that. English is a bit confusing in that regard. But anyway, if it was the case where someone is trying to put your hopes down, that wouldn't be any proof you're ugly, just that you have very VERY crappy friends
Bruh
You're gaslighting
@@melo_maniac_studio i am literally explaining how in that situation YOU would be the one gaslighting yourself, but the amount of people i've seen lately who don't seem to get the concept of gaslight would make me believe a further discussion would be fruitless
A women said im ugly right in front of my face, she is a friend. I had to lock in after this one
Did you clap back?
Im not that bad looking, but I know for a fact that because of my acne (getting better), my attractiveness gets cut down by more than half.
Same here bro, I'm my face is nice and my body Is naturally fit but my acne kills me. I'm 19 and still struggle with it.
Well I always thought that was the case with me when I was younger (and well now as well).
This pretty much solidified itself with the following experience:
I reached the end of my school day and was about to head home when I met my friend before leaving and we started to talk.
Then after some time I heard the voice of a girl behind me trying to get my friends attention while we conversed and I looked back to see who it was.
In that moment she saw my face and went „Eww“.
To this day I am upset….
at myself for not finding a good comeback.
I would of just looked back, do an eye brow raise and say Ewww louder
This video gives off the same energy as an ASPCA commercial. 😅
Hahaha laughing at this
The social media comments one (with the old men and family being the only commenters) is so fucking true
1:37 sadly it does not matter what I do I keep thinking this and that is what I hate about finding someone or even making friends, you can NEVER be sure and that is the biggest reason why I am so asocial.
0:31 Average redditor
half of these apply to me yet the other half are the exact opposite of my situation, i am left even more confused than before
1:36 THIS WAS ME. I had horrible acne until I was 25, it which point it finally subsided (mostly). Literally, I started getting attention from women almost right away. It was legitimately disorienting to have women interested in me to that degree after basically being told (implicitly and explicitly) that I was ugly for most of my life.
Bro…. I’m cooked 💀😭
I relate to like 75% of this
This video just increased my confidence thank god
One sign is that you always ask these questions 😂😂😂😂😂
bro 😭
the good news is, the more you grow up and people around you grow up the less people care about how you look when it comes to regular social interaction. people will like you if you're good to just get along with. doesn't apply to dating tho, there looks will always matter to a very large degree.
teenage years and adolescence are by far the worst time in life for ugly people
people just become more polite. It always matters. Your whole life is determined by how you look
there is a "halo effect" where people assume you're a good person with a fun life and treat you more charitably if you're attractive. It can affect you socially and professionally throughout a lot of your life, unfortunately.
Anecdotally, it definitely seems more pronounced in youth though.
People do not magically lose their unconscious bias once they become adults.
What’s with the sad music???
Because people love to pity themselves
(Serious) People would know it from straight forward people, tho it would be hard to find them coz a lot of people fear of telling the painful truth out of fear of being judged for it. You barely see anyone actually blunt about it, it would’ve been a motivation for the receiver to improve themselves physically. The problem is some people would take the wrong path after being told how they look like.
i honestly think im average looking. some people think im attractive, some people dont. it'll go as high as someone wanting me and as low as someone blocking me
You're a lucky brother 👍
you're no average then. Women don't want average dudes
When I went through 2 years of hard acnea and skin problems I really doubted my attractiveness since I stopped interacting with girls less and less. Nowadays I think I look decently good, most skin problems are gone, acnea has calmed down and I'm relatively fit. Unfortunately I'm studying in technical school with no girls so it's hard to say if they find me attractive, but I have confidence in my looks now.
Why do you think I only talk to random people with a mask on? Upgrades people!
Today i learned i am ugly. Well... i did know already tbh. I do nothing with my long ass hair and i dont care about clothes at allXD I would be surprised if i actually was attractive. But i have fun in life anyway. It dont really matter:3
Sounds like it sucks to be ugly, ngl
0:21 no bc this is SHOCKINGLY true
I can’t even tell if I’m pretty or ugly because of all the mixed signals I get. I’ve never been hit on and I’m almost 16, which is still young, but I’m seriously concerned that I may be ugly. But then again my female friends treat me like I’m pretty. I’ve been told I come off as intimidating and I never have shown interest in guys, so I wonder if that has something to do with it. Or maybe it’s the fact I’m 5’6 and always wear dark makeup. At the end of the day I’m convinced I appeal much more to girls.
These are relatable and hilarious😂
Benefits of being unattractive:
-less likely to receive unwanted attention or harassment
-you'd know if people genuinely like you or not
-you don't need to worry about maintaining your beauty and spending so much on products
-you're forced to develop other skills such as personality, humor, going to the gym, etc.
What a sad cope
@@feddorit
Poo mobile
Some of those are good, but developing yourself partly involves aesthetics, especially beauty, as it’s often tied quite directly to health. If you’re fat, for instance, you need to go to the gym, not just so others can bear your visage, but so you don’t die as horribly or as soon. If you’re unhygienic, it’s gonna make you ugly, but fixing that is necessary, not just some societal rule. If your face is deformed from birth or something that’s different, unless the deformity causes health issues now like trouble breathing, speaking, or swallowing, then try to get it fixed via surgery so you can be healthier.
@@feartheghus the others i can understand but the last part is very odd to me. some people get their faces blown off, some are born with severe disabilities, etc.. if those things can be easily fixed with surgery they wouldnt be a huge issue in the first place. its not rlly about being healthier anymore, since theres only so much modern medicine can do (esp taking costs into consideration). making someone prettier doesnt make them healthier and vice versa.
-all interaction by default will be slightly negative
-working on yourself has a negative modifer
-people will flex their lack of knowledge or skills because they didnt have to do anything to be accepted
I think your clear image in the mirror is a good enough sign to go off of, it's worked wonders for me!
What if the mirror isn't clear though
I can’t tell if I can relate to this. I’m 20 male and have never been hit on, although my male best friend once asked me out and he was serious about it. I have only had one person ask why I am single, and that was an old woman I had never met at a family function. I am very social in university part of a lot of friend groups but I feel like I get little one-on-one attention. I cannot tell if I get bad customer service or if people see me as a ghost because I have nothing to compare it to. I’ve had a lot of people overreact to slightly offensive jokes I make even though I’ve seen other people make very similar jokes to the same person.
Keep toxic friends around you and they will tell you.
What's a clear sign that you are an unattractive person?
My answer: you're asking this kind of question on reddit
1:07 Remember, if you're the office flirt or creep, be sure to hit on everyone
There's no need also to be the office asshole
I thought I was for a while until I found my partner. Their opinion of me has dissolutioned me of such pessimism lol.
People call you ugly
When grown adults laugh at you in the store
What
Definitely my face lmao, I literally have blister sized pimples 🤢
0:21 THIS IS GREAT
The deprecating jokes is what got me the worst. I pretty much cant make anyone laugh so i stopped trying a long time ago. I did notice the awkward silence probably because they knew it was true.
25, never been in a relationship still virgin. I guess this is clear enough 😂
Damn... this shit makes me feel sad.
I wish I was a pretty girl
Being short
#1 sign looking like me
Real...
69: You dont have a profile picture, not related to me im just an otter.
nahh i am not ugly for sure i know that much
The clearest sign is that you use reddit
my shmeat is not a whole foot long :(((
day ruined
They just like me fr
Turns out I’m not as ugly as I thought I was
If you're having worries why would you even read all this. It literally can only hurt lol, wallowing in self pitty is about the most useless thing you can do.
When you get zero matches on tinder.
No, you might be mid. Just girls on such app are too picky
@@wkywell6457and most men are ugly to women. There's no contradiction
Don't go on tinder. The algorithm is designed to drive you mad and extract as much money as possible
When the only matches you get are from bots and scammers who pretend to be who you think they are, asking for giftcards.
Chuldren run to their mothers screaming make it stop it pretty telling
Huh?
@@orion_paxx clear sign someone is ugly
I’m just fat :)
This video comes up
be me
Help 💀
I relate to some of these lol
How about this…when someone hits on you, you’re confused and think it didn’t happen or that they were flirting with someone else
Ah. That's for the post-realization.
This has happened to me too many times man istg, my own low self esteem is my worst enemy
That is only low self esteem. Nobody would hit on you if you were truly ugly.
The clear sign is when I look in the mirror.
Using reddit.
Can't relate
damn
Honestly, unless you got a hygiene problem or a medical condition specifically affecting your face I refuse to believe you're ugly. Everyone has a cute side.
No
@@atoki2 "but, it refused" ahh comment
I got a hygiene problem, so, yes I'm ugly. I win at losing.
@@Orange_Swirl then go and fix it, wtf you doin
@@user-df5dg8tf4wHuman.. i remember you're *no*
You're on reddit
I always have the teenage boys yelling at me for being ugly. It makes me scared to go outside :(
if you use reddit 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
At least put that annoying AI voice, i put these on while painting , I can't read it
Holy shit, skunk_weed. I'm 33 this month and I haven't been hit on once, either. My brother from another mother.
My ex had a very pretty face and lean body, but never got hit . It was because she had a bad attitude and it showed on her face and mannerisms.
I’m a very attractive man and man don’t hate me but life is very easy. I’ve never not gotten a job, I’ve literally had multiple women walk up to me and ask me for my number and tell me I’m cute, I’ve always bagged in the first date latest is third date if it’s a more serious person. Women always do that hair flip thing when they walk past me. I’m tall and muscular so people will always get out of my way. People generally want to associate with me in any given social situation. I personally think a lot of people are weird so I stay to myself but get attention anyways. Whenever I approach a woman it’s 9/10 a positive situation. Very rarely have I been turned down and I have slept with many attractive women. Everything in life is relative and over time you get used to things. Don’t be so impressed by material things or how someone looks. Be impressed at how someone is in a spiritual sense. There’s no amount of external stimulus that can make you a happy person, it all comes from within. Even if I were ugly fat and wheelchair bound I would still find a way to be happy. I was ugly as a kid so I know what it’s like btw.
How are you not jaded though man? When I first got in shape the thing that really bothered me the most was that fat girls gave me more attention, whereas when I was their size they never looked at me. Like, if they weren't willing to date me when I was a fatty, why should I date them?
@@backtoshellac6459 the ones you are talking about are delusional. I’ve made a couple drunk mistakes and hooked up with a few on that side of the fence and they ALL cling to you hard. Be aware of the dunning Kruger effect and extrapolate that to human attraction. The hard part about going from zero to attractive is that in between you will meet people you know you won’t stay with. They will see you level up and sink their teeth into you. Once you get to peak level, body, and personality, is when you can finally play a fair game. And to answer your question, I am. I don’t glorify sex with hotties in my head anymore, I don’t have any naive curiosity towards dating. In short I’m f’d in the head in that way. I can be with someone that loves me and I feel nothing. It’s a blessing and a curse. I’m actually on a long ass hiatus right now so I can start to feel again. Running through chicks is doing more harm than good at this point, even though it’s easy and tempting. I feel like a psychopath in relationships.