Reacting to Insane Reddit Stories | You Can Sit With Us Ep. 181
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- čas přidán 15. 01. 2024
- Our thoughts on nude beaches, the wildest Bridezillas, and Becky's tattoo secret.
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Executive Producer | Keith Habersberger
Executive Producer | Eugene Lee Yang
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stocking mom should’ve put divorce papers in husband’s stocking. there no way this is the first incredibly shitty thing he’s done
I mean all the years before when he didn't help with his own kids' gifts were pretty shitty anyway, so I think we know what kind of husband and father he is
Absolutely, I recently got out of a 4 yr emotionally abusive relationship, luckily not married and without kids, and my bf would treat me this way.. the thought of putting up with that for 14+ years and having kids with the person literally makes me shutter. I take a deep breath and feel so relieved and so happy I’m not in the situation anymore although I deal with his harassment and stalking to this day 😔 just left the tire shop now replacing all 4 that were slashed a second time. I never want to speak to anyone ever again, me and just me for the rest of my life will be absolutely blissful and amazing. Feeling prisoner to someone is awful. I just can’t wait to leave this state and finally be free for real and back with my family :/
For the negligent Dad and Husband - his wife is literally an ER nurse and he works in Marketing. Don’t get me wrong, Marketing is stressful, I work in Marketing, but she definitely has the more stressful job. Her husband is a loser and I hope she returned all his gifts.
I hope she put divorce papers in his stocking. Screw this guy!
i was literally like, trying so hard to be like, you don't know, let's not judge, but then they said she already got everything he just needed to pick it up, and i was like, ok this is bullshit, this couldn't be easier. then the COMMENT that man made????????? i'm so triggered lmao
"An areola is really NOT a lot compared to a glock" - Queen Becky
Matt the entire episode: "have you you worn wigs? Will you wear wigs"
Hahahahhaab
When will you wear wigs 😂😂
Every time the camera turned to Becky and Matt all I could concentrate on was Zach’s pictures staring into my soul
Right! 😂
loving how becky handled the topic of disability with a child, so respectful and understanding to the kid and to people, thank you :) that kid will grow up and not judge people instantly just for seeing a disability now❤ thank you
For the wedding story, I was thinking that when she backed out and the groom got the full story, he canceled the wedding because of how bridezilla his fiancé was being
Ok but the 'financial support man' story... He said she was at home and organised the home stuff because she didnt have a job but literally she was studying to be in the medical field??
Also sounded like the maid was to come out of her money, not their money.
I understood it was that she hadn’t been working while she was getting her degree, and therefore had time to do the house work, and then once she had gotten her degree and found full time work, she couldn’t keep up with the housekeeping that she’d formerly had the time to do when she had been studying (I don’t know where he was in all of this, I’m trusting that he has all along been busy enough that he is not able to even partially take on house work now that she’s working full time).
I think it was a perfectly reasonable suggestion, if they can afford it and clearly need it given their busy schedules, why not enlist a professional cleaning service? The snag was that the suggestion of enlisting a cleaning service was interpreted as criticism of her housekeeping rather than as a practical solution to balancing both of their busy work schedules.
When I was old enough to do my own Christmas shopping and before my step dad finally realized he should be doing it, I used to go out and make sure I had at least a few nice things for my mom's stocking. It was something inexpensive and easy for me, as I know well what she likes. For her, however, it was very meaningful. I look back now, and I'm so glad I made her feel appreciated. Good moms deserve so much more than they get.
Becky adamantly suggesting to ‘Goodbye Earl’ listener #2’s husband has me in fits 😂😂😂😂 also fully support 🙌
For the bridesmaid with eczema, i looked up the post and somebody asked how the cancelled wedding was her fault. This was OP's response:
"I’m assuming there was another problem but she just decided to tell that to everyone to cover up"
Another video with Rainie in a tank top and everyone else in sweaters! Love it 😆
Well, she's from Colorado so she's used to the cold.❄😉
It must be cuz she runs HAWT
When Maggie talks about running cold it resonates but only bc I. The compete opposite 😅
Bridezilla seems like the type that wasn't having the wedding to celebrate her love with her fiancé and loved ones. She wanted that perfect Insta moment to show off on her socials.
For the woman with the stocking. Take back everything you got for your husband. And when his stocking is empty on Christmas Day tell him he’s and adult and it’s ridiculous for him to expect you to fill it up for him. 😡
This reminds me of Smosh's Reading Reddit Stories with Shayne Topp which I love ❤ I hope you could also read some comments from the stories since there are times the OP would answer/clarify the readers' questions/comments 😊
I look forward to those videos every Saturday!
Yay! Hello fellow Smosh fans 👋☺️
Same! I wanted to see the comments of the stocking stuffers story! I googled but couldnt find the post, i wish they would say the titles of the the posts they are reading
So my mom never made my dad a stocking growing up so it was just the kids that got stockings until we were adults. My sisters and I bought them stockings and started filling them, and now both mom and dad buy each other stocking stuffers. I feel like that’s at least somewhat more equitable than what that poor mom has to deal with. Her husband is a douchecanoe
Hearing about Stocking Mom makes me super grateful for my parents. There have been a couple of times my dad didn't have a stocking because he cares about giving to everybody else. He goes shopping and cooks for the holidays and works really hard in and out of the house. 😊
To the person with the tattoo, have a frank conversation and say what you feel. I had a few before my family found out about it and the last one I got I told my gran before getting it. She's from a different time and thinks it not very ladylike and opposes it very strongly, back in the day people with tattoos are only related to street gangs. I told her I already paid the deposit and I'm just giving her the courtesy by informing her this time round. She was not pleased and she was still not pleased when I returned with a shoulder piece, it's about 20cm. I asked if she liked it which she obviously said no, then I told her this tattoo is of a plant called Ivy. My aunt passed away a few years back and her name was Ivy, she still wasn't pleased with it but she did ask for a second look after I told her. I think that conversation really helped smooth things over and helped her understand that tattoos isn't all bad as they have it in their heads.
She should put divorce papers in his stocking.
My PhD was studying mitochondria and yes we constantly heard the "powerhouse of the cell" meme, but so happy to hear them get a shout-out 😂🎉
For the story about the tattoo, I would find it interesting if the mom's reason for not liking the tattoo is about her image as a good parent to others but disregarding her own daughter's POV on how she thinks about her treatment to her. But the other factor that I'm curious about is whatever the design of the tattoo is or if having a tattoo is not good for her health? 🤔
I'm 36 and I do a stocking for my mom every single year. She puts into so much effort doing one for everyone in the family, so she 100% deserves one ❤
Ugh, I felt that VaniCream question SO HARD. I’m dealing with eyelid eczema right now. It sucks! This podcast made me happy though. Love the responses. So thoughtful!!
I’ve been watching Smosh’s Reddit videos every Saturday morning. Glad to see another podcast will be sharing their favs as well. :)
Loved this. Also, the last bit about close friends for $3 had me rolling 😂
the vibes in this ep were excellent
Loved this! Also would love though if y’all do it again in the description to put the Reddit titles or the links. I love to read comments and top comments and see the verdict of Reddit
Don’t know how I’m just hearing this pod for the first time. I love it! Shoutout to Miss Rainie u are the bomb
Good job.. good job. So many laughs and truths. Love y’all 😂❤
Indeed, adulting your parents is hard. As one of my friends once said, "you try to raise your parents the best you can, but sometimes they just don't get it. " xP
I love Matt’s responses!!!
The girl with the tattoo. Sounds like a whole lot of “it’s not your problem”🤷🏻♀️. It’s your body, your money. You do you and focus on your goals and aspirations and in time I guarantee your mom will not care as much. Think of it this way. Maybe this needed to happen for your mom to break from this toxic cycle of comparing her family to others.
Matt's search history reminded me of Ziryab (and asfaraj). History point if you know which episode of Puppet History. Hint: Hot Ankles was the special guest. EDIT: Just saw on Becky's stories she tested positive for C*OVID. Keith and Henry are tested negative. Hope you get better soon! Also, hope Keith and Henry continue to test negative.
Happy to be here w yall!
I work in a children's store in western Canada. My boss drives to the US border just to get Tonies for our store since it isn't available for us to get here. They are awesome!! Becky and Keith could make some amazing "Creatives". You can record your own things on them through the app. You can sing, read stories or whatever you want. I love the idea of relatives who live far away recording something.
Maggie has really come out of her shell!!!!!!
Matt would be incredible on Big Brother
the stocking stuffing one stressed me out... i know gift giving is not everyones live language, but that was so not the point. growing up my father was bad at picking gifts because he's an acts of service person, but he still made an effort in the gift giving, when i git old enough to help i started helping him choose & he is happy fir the help but certainly not because he didnt cared to do it himself but just relieved after some embarassing gift opening moments when he used to do it by himself.
my dad always gets my mom stocking stuffers on top of thoughtful gifts. he’s a 68 year old conservative and has never thought twice about it
The eczema on the eyes is the worst! I feel you Maggie 😭
I would put divorce papers in his stocking. He doesn't respect her, obviously.
I had to google pebble ice :) we don't have ice makers in our homes over here, at least I've never seen one.
maggie!! dream cream from lush is the only thing that helps my eczema!! it took like a week for it to completely wipe it out!
Dream cream from Lush is one of the greatest products ever. I had Several large oven burns on my arms from working in a bakery and it absolutely wiped away all traces.
@@rebalanna3003 it’s magic! i tried so many things for years to get rid of my itchy itchy eczema and it is the only thing that ever worked!
I will definitely go get it, thanks for the recommendation ❤
The way I’d ABSOLUTELY subscribe to Rainie’s close friends LMAO I love her
My eczema has been so bad this year and everyone I’ve spoken to has said the same! I actually started red light therapy, and it did help with my eczema. However I have started to also mix castor oil and oil of oregano and putting that on my hands and wearing gloves at night and that has actually helped my eczema more than any steroid cream or shot has ever helped!
Hey where’s Rainie on the podcast department list in the description? She deserves her spot on the list!
The second story is wild to me. All the men in my family, including my bil, stuff the stockings and buy gifts and cool meals and make appointments. It’s wild to me that it’s not the norm. WILD.
I love Becky even more knowing she didn’t give up her brother when she was in trouble! Wow!
anyone know where i can find the stocking story on reddit so i can watch for updates?!?
The yitties lady is definitely not the asshole. But i think one line that got missed was that sister was upset she did it in front of her husband. Which to me just SCREAMS insecurities going on in her sister's marriage. Like girl, if your husband reacts to his sister-in-law's body ... that's on him, not your sister.
Part of me thinks this and then part of me, coming from and surrounded by toxic dynamics, knows a few sisters who would deliberately go looking for their in laws attention 😬 I’m sure had there not been additional people she would have felt more liberated the whole thing wouldn’t have been such a thing.
It's probably because she thinks her sister looks better and/or the husband sneaked a peak and she's jealous.
Agreed, divorce. lol
Mom needs to get over himself- Once my Granny (favorite person, I was the person with her towards the end) randomly called my mom out for being a bad parent because of my tattoos, so I called her out to her face and to never say it again, that it was my choices and it was even a memorial piece for someone close to me.
The gasp and pause for incel Maggie had me rolling, noooo lmao
Definitely agree sister being jealous she has the confidence to do that and that her husband sneaked a peak. It's a her problem she needs to work on with herself instead of projecting her insecurities on others.
i hope that she put divorce papers in his stocking
For the last story: I wouldn’t be surprised if the fiance of the bridezilla found out she was treating her friends and called it off. And then bridezilla went around blaming OP when it really had nothing to do with her
No wait this is for Maggie. My Eczema has been so horrible this year and also it has been the worse on my eyes. Which I’ve had eczema from birth and this year is the first years I’ve had it on my eyes and I’m in my late 20’s.
The tattoo story sounds like from Singapore haha
Idk I think sis should have made sure she didn't mind her husband seeing her undressed at all. That's jus me
Exactly. Respect the boundaries of your sister's marriage. There's no reason to ignore your sister's feelings. Just because you're comfortable showing your breasts to her husband doesn't mean she is. . .and you'd think your sister's feelings about her marriage and body would be more important than your need to tan your breasts 🤷♀️
Can we get chapters to skip ahead to certain stories? Please? 🙂
Starts at 8:29
Is it really that common for the mother to do THEIR OWN STOCKING, that completely ruins the surprise! My dad always does my mother’s stocking and gets her presents.
You’re delusional if you think I’m going to buy my own damn stocking stuffers, thats ridiculous.
21:00
I love Matt's laugh!
37:07
The undressing on the beach being a problem is funny to me as a european, there are naked people on every beach and in the sauna of course, completely normal to be naked in this context even around in-laws
Red light for the eczema is a go! Do it. Esthetician of 20 years, specialized in treating that, its root causes & also have it myself. Red light will definitely help.
I’m new to this podcast, so maybe someone can answer this: why is there a photo of Zach just randomly taped up on the wall?
To the person that wipped out her yitties. You’re not the asshole. But you can definitely have empathy for your sister. If she’s not open to you trying to talk to her then it’s not your problem. But maybe this is an opportunity to help your sister not feel bad about her body ❤. Maybe she needs to whip out her yitties too to be free from those thoughts 😊.
Matt better get a wig
Me as a mom with an empty stocking 😢😅
Where is the thum nail for maggy from
It looks like it's from episode #178
I think it's disrespectful to go topless in front of your sister and her husband without checking that both are actually comfortable with it. It's one thing to see strangers nude at the beach vs. your sister or SIL sitting next to you. Your body your rules but I don't think the sister was out of line being a little peeved.
yes to rainie close friends, i would THRIVE, you could do polls and q&a's for the fans!
the tattoo one: give it time, my grandma was so heavily against me getting one, now i have 11 and she loves them, i even have a silly one and showed her and she laughed hysterically :)
As someone who wears wigs all the damn time you can wear AliExpress wigs and look believable. So long as it's lace front, you'll be ok
Tip your server's 😊
Okay Rainie is joking but I definitely support someone on patreon who has close friends on Instagram as one of the perks
Make him in charge of his own stocking from now on, and don't tell him. If that's the expectation, then he shouldn't have an issue with it
Someone call the Whole Man Disposal service for that husband with the Christmas stocking.
As usual Becky’s takes speak to me. A Glock really should be more offensive than a nipple 😂👏🏽
The zach pic at left side of becky is bothering me hahahahahah why
I was curious so I asked my husband and sister about the first one.
( my husband and I have been together for ten years . He has 3 sisters. My sister and I were raised in a very " a body is a body" household)
My husband : i wouldnt care
Me : no?
My husband: its not like id be oggling her thats gross.
Me : thats what I thought like its not a big deal. I feel like thats between her and her husband.
Sister : oh. Didnt they joke about it ? I feel like if there was a proboem it shouldve been a conversation before hand
Me : thats how I took it. But would you take your top off ?
Her : oh yeah but id probably wear pasties just for my own comfort
Me : did you know some people outside of the u.s call american men babies because theyre attracted to breast
Her : that hilarious
Her yk. I wear my piercings all the time so I dont see much of a difference 🤷♀️
Becky looks alot like Mia Malkova.
rainie i would pay for your close friends patreon
hmm
The tattoo story is missing the information about where they are located. There are a lot of cultural differences that we really don't need to judge.
I thought they said the arm ? I may be mistaken
@@mckinneypassios4273I'm sorry, that was badly worded. I meant where the people involved are located geographically. Different cultures look at things differently.
@@nancythomas5387 ohh. I mean I see that but I feel like if that were the case the dad would also be more dissapointed upset by it ? And she doesnt seem to think the people around her would actually care so maybe its just her mom?
I dont know thats just what I got from it but I do think their culture could make a difference
@@mckinneypassios4273, I guess that would depend on the where's and what's of the culture. Many cultures have the men staying out of such things. It's very common that "moms handle daughters, men handle sons," and this could easily be the case here.
Love the show, but throwing shade at face tattoos is gross.
Several indigenous or First Nations cultures have thousands of years of history behind face tattoos, as an indication of maturing and becoming an adult
theyre talking about henry having face tattoos, hes a white baby so how does this apply? theyre very clearly not talking about that….and they werent even that bad?
For the story around 43minutes,
I dont feel bad because SHE agreed to dye her hair and lose 10kg.
Just say no, sorry, ima back out.
tbh i would pay 3 bucks to be on her close friends💀💀 51:24
hello cuties 😍
I miss Ariel 😢
God I miss Ariel
I do, too. No one talks about it. I understand why. But she was so great at asking leading and thoughtful questions. Also, she would admit to not being knowledgeable about different topics. Really REALLY want to know her thoughts of ACOTAR.
Maggie would you please work on your reading the stories? It is hard to follow up sentences.
When does the reddit story actually start??? I keep skipping but they wont stop talking about irrelevant bs 😭
Why are we still promoting get vaccinated???