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- čas přidán 4. 09. 2024
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Recorded on 24 May 2021 in Karumandurai, Tamil Nadu, India.
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"If you are not sure if you should eat or not. Don’t eat.
If you are not sure if you should travel or not. Don’t travel.
If you are not sure if you should marry or not. Get married." -- Bengali saying
Although Srila Prabhupada sometimes said that it was possible for married devotees to live outside vaisnava communities, it doesn't last long and they often separate before vanaprastha...
In our society, in the west, a large number of devotees remarry at an advanced age (over 60) and even have children from this age. As you saiid, a good brahmacari make a good grhasta.
Hope next generation will be the good one to succeed in varnasrama family life !
Dandavat pranams, all glories to Lord Nrsimha
Hare Krishna Gurumaharaj, your only one well wisher in iskcon, so in this lecture , you said about two Brahmacharis commited suicide, but unfortunately one of them is my friend (saffron bramchari who committed suicide) , I don't want to say his name, so in bramchari ashram we are treated women as stumbling block for Krishņa consciousness" ,so if we remove saffron dress and marry any devote, people say we are fallen in bhakti, so unfortunately he can't marry or neither he can't stay as perfect bramchari, so there is other option for him,he did suicide unfortunately, same thing it's happened to me, so I was at bramchari ashram, after some time senior devotes told me to marry someone, then I also realized I should marry a good devotee,after listening your lecture now I got clearity that I should marry a good devotee, but Maharaj please tell about more responsibilities in grihastha ashram, I also studied mother and master's as you said, you mostly emphasized to follow Varna ashrama and also stay in farm communities, but most of matajis or your disciples don't want to stay in farm communities, even some of matajis doesn't want to marry but they want relationship shamelessly, so I started to do material job and but at work place I observed that my consciousness is contaminated with dirty association, so 100 percent one cannot do material job and do pure bhakti, so what I should do?.. please give suggestions, many of your disciples and other bramcharis facing same problems..
Most of "matajis" just pretend to be disciples.
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Hare Krishna, I face the same issue. I am planing to move to a farm community, serve there and wait for wife. That is my plan. :-)
Good luck my Godbrother 🙏
This title is misleading. For male devotees, it should say: "Can I buy a farm and generate enough income to maintain a Vaishnava family with everything complete?"
You get married and open a preaching center somewhere...there are somsny empty templess in cities snd willages, all world is yours..
I am older lady. My wedding never happens. I am very late with it... thats okay - more time for Krishna
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I m girl . I hate family life . I love to be alone and I can't imagine physical relationship with man also . I can take care of myself and do sadhana . Still should I go for marriage without my consent and will ? I don't understand with this it will be difficult for future husband and for me also . Can I just do job and sadhna for lifetime being single forever and considering krishna is husband ?
(Managed by Disciples) The female psychophysical nature is such that a soul in a woman's body will be happiest in marriage and with family (children etc). Nowadays the media and society condition women to think otherwise but many who do not get married for whatever reason initially later regret it. As Srila Prabhupada said to one Temple President; try to make all the female devotees get married. For more guidance you can contact a senior and married female devotee who can speak more on this subject.
@@BhaktiVikasaSwami I find my psychophysical nature is different that's main issue my other female friend wants to get married but I don't feel at all instead when I think I get traumatic negative vibes due to toxic father & bad experience of men .I don't want that repetition because I have seen most of couple including my parent enjoy till honeymoon period and after rest of life they complaint and argument I don't want to waste in these shit again
@@theempress2115 (Managed by Disciples) But not getting married may itself cause problems. As I mentioned earlier, I think you should discuss this with a senior devotee married lady. In case you want to be connected to such a person, please contact me. muraridas.bvks@gmail.com
@@theempress2115 I have the same situation and feel the same way about marriage.
Hare Krishna Guru Maharaj I am very grateful to you very beautiful speech
Hare Krishna Guru Maharaj ji, Dandavath Pranam 😇🙏 Please accept my humble obsieances 🙏
Guru Maharaj ke charno me koti koti dandvat pranam shrila Prabhupada ji ki jai 🙏
Hare Krishna dear Guru we need to remember that all of us are under influences of Karma condition and to understand this important topic we most study through the guiding of our Gurus and Focusing to understand what is the law of Karma. Because tendencies root it in our subconscious as result of our previous activities from pass life’s and that leads us to engage and to be wrapped in to the different Areas of life in this case the topic is Marriage and for the most part devotees don’t study sciences found in the Vedas as Jyotish Astrology for example that can really help us to understand what tendencies we had developed in our subconscious. We can be very devotionals but karma and tendencies that we have are very important to pay attention . Accept my reverence dear Guru and all the Glories to Srila prabhupada!! 🙏
(Managed by Disciples) Yes, we also have to see the conditioning and vasana but we also have to have faith that Krishna can destroy karma as he says in BG 18.66 and BG 10.3. Both of these have to be considered. In some temples of ISKCON they do check the birth chart. A balance of both is required. If someone performs tivra (intense) bhakti then the effect of purification is much more.
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May I take the position of that brahmachari that maharaji is referring, As he is gonna be a married man soon.
So someone should have to take his position,so can i take his position.
I thinks that i am really ready for it.
Please reply
Please reply
Hare Krishna
(Managed by Disciples) It is highly advisable to spend time in the brahmacari asram. Please contact me for further discussion on this proposal of joining the asram. muraridas.bvks@gmail.com
I think devotees should get married! And they should also live a social life, work in mainstream society, and live an internal spiritual life! I think they should return back to social life and mainstream societal integration! I also think that that devotees should study 📖 Vedas, Upanishadas, physics, vedic maths, and try to study all the design and mystries of beauty of God's universe!
I think the only religion that is compatible with science is Hinduism, because it is the only religion which did not persecuted the likes of Galileo, etc, on the other hand in Hinduism the scientists were called Rishis and respected, worshipped! Hinduism is not Supremacist, exclusive and bigoted! On the other hand it is all inclusive and all tolerant!
I think we need to spread Hinduism and its values amongst the society, and to spread it all across humanity the larger societal integration of devotees is necessary! And marriage-family family is a central or core institution of spreading the values, culture, religion and ultimately humanity! To live a life with the health and well-being of the planet!
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Hare Krishna Dear Maharaj. Pamho. Agtsp. Thanks for the talk. It's a tough question. I heard the lecture for the second time today and I was inspired to try to be Krishna conscious without marriage for I don't feel too overwhelmed by material desires. I work to earn a livelihood, so, as per varnasrama I am trying for a suitable partner in a detached way. I wish to remain fully dependent on Krishna's mercy hapen what may. Ys
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Yes, try to becone Krishna Conscious and advance in it.
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I’d guess there’s more to it in the case of brahmacaris killing themselves because of sexual desire. Maybe they were homosxl? Otherwise it doesn’t make sense to take such a drastic measure, specially for devotees who understand the trouble of suicide
hare Krishna
NO!
sex is a natural instinct same like hunger and thirsty but to be fulfilled in a legal way of marriage and not other illicit ways and takes the responsibility of family with in the defined limits thts wht Isam teaches
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Hare Krishna! Not only Islam, but this is also the basic message of sanatana dharma because this is what distinguishes humans from animals. Animals don't have any rules and regulations, but humans should act according to dharma i.e., there should be sex life only after marriage and that too should be very limited. In fact, this is one of the teachings of Bhagavat Gita also. In Bhagavad Gita Chapter 7 verse 11, Lord Krsna says:
balam balavatam caham
kama-raga-vivarjitam
dharmaviruddho bhutesu
kamo 'smi bharatarsabha
TRANSLATION
"I am the strength of the strong, devoid of passion and desire. I am sex life, which is not contrary to religious principles, O lord of the Bharatas [Arjuna]."
Even in our International Society for Krishna Consciousness (ISKCON), if anyone wants to get initiated and seriously follow the path of devotion, they have to take vow in front of their Guru to follow the four regulative principles throughout their life. These four regulative principles are as follows:
1) No meat eating
2) No intoxication
3) No gambling
4) No illicit sex
Jai jai guru maharaj