I didn't wash my hair for 1 MONTH and THIS happened!
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Detangling each twist as you take them down and before shampooing would have been more manageable. I can't wash my hair in this big sections, its a no no for me even if I leave my style for 1week.
I agree , also refreshing every week through detangling and retwisting helps manage such that’s what i am doing now
Same
Bless you! 🌺 Weekly washing with two small ones is not realistic, especially with a lot of hair. I’m speaking from experience with two small children myself. What’s going to help you is to pivot…you cannot do what you’ve always done. Your hair will adjust to a new routine and it will not fall out. 😅 With the twists You ended up with in this video, keep those sections and work in them constantly. Finger Detangle with oil before you wash, wash and condition in those twists, and style using those twists. What helps is when you work in small sections, you’re able to start and stop much easier, and you can attend to your children as needed. Hope that helps a bit. 🌺🥰
Thank you so much!😊 🙏
This is indeed the best advice ,i also tried it and proven to be worthy 👏 my daughter's hair is also long as this length(waist) and I wash it once a month . Finger detangling with oil has been a game changer and I don't even know what's matted hair, even the hair loss is not as much. The oil really works wonders and I actually noticed with the comb after washing she used to loose a lot of hair but not anymore with finger detangling with oil. 😊
I totally agree! Permanent or semipermanent parts work best when you don't have a lot of time to dedicate to your hair. This has worked for me for years. It allows you to detangle and redo 1 twist at a time whenever you can so you won't feel the pressure and the anxiety of having to section again and do a full head of hair at once. It's important to avoid feeling overwhelmed when doing your hair. As long as you don't twist too tight at the roots, you'll be fine with permanent parts. As mentioned in other comments, when taking down a long term protective style, to avoid matting the hair further you must detangle first before shampooing and oil is great for that. Hair doesn't have to be dripping with oil for this to work. Sometimes just coating your hands with oil before working the twist will suffice. Another thing that works for me is to lightly spray the twist with warm water before applying the oil. However this step is not needed if I kept my hair moisturized while in protective style. Working in sections from beginning to end along with permanent parts will save you time and help you keep your sanity lol. Thanks for sharing this because people wish for long hair but sometimes fail to realize how challenging and time consuming caring for it can be. That's why I prefer to keep my hair at bra strap length. I love my hair but I love myself more. Wishing you the best in your hair journey.
Wow great advice,, God bless
Doing hot oil treatments before taking down a long-term protective style helps to reduce the matted hair 😢
Thank you!
Thank you I’ll try this !
Great idea🎉. The oil would allow hair to slide off each strand.
Hey next time detangle before washing with a conditioner with lots of slip. It’ll help greatly!
I cleanse my hair once a month or longer. I use aloe vera gel on my hair and scalp every 3 days as my leave-in and moisturizer. Aloe Vera cleanse the hair n scalp.
However Every one is different.
I wear my hair in medium plaits
Interesting! Everyone's hair care is so different!
@@MrsCharityUmar yes,
I also think if you wore medium braids/plaits your hair would not have tangled in a month time
I am always so happy when I see a new video from you. Pleaaaase do more. ❤❤
awww☺️❤️
I've heard that prepooing and detangling using flaxseed gel prior to shampooing is a game changer. Your hair is beautiful by the way. Hope this was helpful.
Hey, Charity! I remember several months back, your mom threaded your hair for you into a style. If possible, would you consider asking her to do it for you again? I know that this season of your life is very busy for you, and a long term protective style would be ideal I think. You're beautiful either way, but it's just a suggestion!
I pray that in due time, you'll have an elongated period of rest to refresh yourself; you deserve it! ☺️❤️🙏🏿
☺️ that's an option to reconsider. Thank you so much!🙏
Hi, Charity. Thanks for sharing with us💟 What I find helps when the hair is super tangled is to do a pre-shampoo treatment. Apply a generous amount of oils and conditioner (preferably with silicones like the discontinued Trader Joe's Nourish Spa, my old fave) and then put on a plastic cap. You can then do some housework or exercise for an hour so that your body heat will help to soften the hair. Using a heating cap or steamer for 20 minutes is also effective. When you get in the shower to start the shampoo process, rinse the oils/conditioner and gently finger detangle. Then use a cleansing shampoo (I prefer one containing sulfates to prepare the hair for the second phase of conditioning) and again gently detangle as you are rinsing. Shampoo again with a moisturizing sulfate-free shampoo and rinse well. Lastly, apply another conditioner and detangle. Doing this backwards process (oils/condition first, then shampoo x2, then condition again) helps to decrease the lost hair strands. I have found that going straight to a water rinse on matted or tangled hair makes for a disastrous, long wash day.
Thank you so much for this information!🙏
I completely agree with your technique. It’s been my go to for years. I prepoo with oil & cond (sleep overnight under a shower cap) then proceed to detangle & shampoo the next morning. ❤
Thank you for sharing. Your hair is beautiful. may God give you grace to go through and conquer this new season of your life
The basics Suave and Treseme. They both work well, and are a great price.
Thanks for sharing. 🌹🌸
Sister Charity,
I can understand your predicament and try to wash my hair 2 times a month for the exact same reasons. Although I did wash my hair every 7-10 days for several years, it’s not as practical now since I’m a Doctoral student and it’s waist length plus super thick. If she was still alive, my maternal grandma would say that 5-7 individuals worth of hair is on my head. Lol. 🤣🙃 I’m immensely grateful for what the Lord has given me since cutting it off and starting over 10 years ago (June 1, 2014). For at least 5 years, I’ve discovered that the best prewash Detangling is from hot oil treatments and conditioner (Amla Legend by Optimum or Hask Argan Oil, adding a bit of olive oil or cocoa butter oil to the conditioner for extra slip).😊🙃
😅 I'm glad that you can relate!
@@MrsCharityUmaryes, I really do! I had to add some info to my original response above, and hope it helps you plus the channel family. Your uploads are such a blessing!! 1 Corinthians 3:11. ❤
Wash it weekly like white people do their hair and your hair will be super healthy.
Ms. Charity, that was a lot of work. I usually use Moisture Miracle pre-poo to detangle my hair stands. I love the amount of slip it provides. Shampoo is a breeze. The warm water & oil may do the trick as well. I have not tried those techniques. God blessed you with such thick hair, you need assistance with your hair or your young ones or both. Ask God to send it to you. It's just for a season. Thank you for sharing what happens when hair is not shampooed or detangled over a lengthy time period.
Thank you for sharing your experience and the challenges of maintaining your hair during a busy season. Your detailed steps and honest insights are really helpful. I wash and condition my hair in twists. Keep up the great work, and take care!
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Thanks for posting! Real life struggles.
Spritz your dry hair and detangle first before washing. That's why it's super tangled
I have some unpopular opinions. Before I wash my hair, I don't comb it wet, I use an oil and comb it through because hair is wekest wet and my strands are fine. I comb my hair root to tip (there's a technique to doing it that way). In doing those two things, my hair breaks less and it has thickened up.
Definitely unpopular but if it works, awesome!😎. Thanks for sharing!
@@MrsCharityUmarSometimes we have to swim against the tide, some popular beliefs are wrong. When I was a child my mum combed my hair root to tip and it was always combed in a dry state (with oil not dry and crunchy).
Use vinegar spray it did wonders in my detangling
Oh wow! interesting 🤔
It takes a long time but I detangle my daughters hair before washing. It saves so much time and effort. I also dry detangle (not exactly, I use a little bit of water and oil) bc she has fine strands and when it’s wet it easily breaks and coils back on itself making it harder to stretch. Also keep your hair in sections and twists (unloose each twists and wash as you go through each section to be thorough). Although I do believe I may be saying something you already know. But God bless on the next wash session.
Thanks for sharing.
I wash my hair once a month and I dont loose much hair. I observe that hair tangles easily if it is twisted. I do more cornrows (weaving as we call it) that way, the hair does not easily tangle. During take down, I use leave in conditioner and detangle during the take down process. The wash process is easier after that because the hair has been detangled prior.
I wish you the best and pray for wisdom to handle this new phase with all your responsibility and hair care.
Feel your pain. It’s even worse with fine hair.
You will get it done.
Hi Charity! Love your channel. I often use that Treesemee conditioner before shampooing. I part my hair in four sections because my hair is more on the fine to medium side, then I put that conditioner all over those sections and let it sit for about 15 minutes. Gets the job done with detangling my hair. You may also want to try the African Pride pre treatment. That also works wonders and really helps with detangling the hair before shampooing. And I can relate to shampooing more often. I wash my hair every two weeks. This works best for me. Although, I know you have a busier schedule and us Women put ourselves on the back burner. Its alright to take time for yourself. Make wash day a relaxing day just for you. Even if its only for a few hours. You got this!
Hi sis,
Usually, I deep condition my hair before washing with a mix of avocado, banana, egg, various oils (like tea tree and argan), and honey. I then cover it. After about 2 hours or more, my hair becomes very easy to detangle, usually very soft, making detangling a walk in the park. It helps reduce hair loss too.
Well done, sis. The joy of the Lord is your strength.
Wha?! You shampooed before detangling?!😮 no combs or brushes for me. I used a comb once and the single strand knots almost brought me to tears. All I could do was cut it. Currently: Mini plaits with beads(to save/tuck my ends) 8to9 weeks, at time, going on ten months and I haven't collected that much shed hair. Be careful.... I was low key trying to estimate a length check while you were detangling.
Exactly my thoughts 😢
It's my usual practice to detangle after shampooing although I have detangled prior to shampooing also. Thanks for sharing!🙏
Do you comb before plaitng. I feel really hurt when I go to the salon and they have to comb my hair and it breaks a lot.
I run the shower water over my hair sections and use the detangling brush to get all the tangles out (starting at ends) ; my hair reaches midback. This was my life saver after dealing with so much lost time dealing with the tangles.
I hear that it helps to detangle under running water. I get very itchy from standing under the shower for a long time so I wouldn't do that but I do apply water after applying the conditioner. I'm glad to know that running water helps you during detangling!
Suave is the best!! I use it as well
The unbrush may work. It’s a good product.
You have a lot of hair still. Give thanks.
❤❤❤ Never wash that much hair in a loose state. Detangle with oil, water and conditioner and put into 8 to 10 loose braids before you wash it. Afterwards the tangles should be easy after shampoo and conditioning in 8 to 10 braids. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
And I wash once a month😅😅😅...that's my usual routine 😅.
I've probably figured out or gotten used to how to detangle it... but your hair is way longer than mine🙌🙌🙌 and so beautiful 😍😍😍
Spray on Mane And Tail Detangler and wait a few minutes. It helps my tangled hair.
Exactly why I condition and wash my hair every 3 days, just the itching from products I just can't take. I put 4 to 6 corn roll twist in my hair every few days after detoxing the scalp and conditioning, my hair has very little shedding now. I am doing rice water treatments weekly now to boost growth.
It makes me wonder if our hair is meant to be locked, as it locks up so naturally 🤔I bet if I wanted locks though, my hair wouldn’t lock up so easiky! 😠
I loose a lot of hair due to shampooing less frequently. It’s good to know it’s normal shedding.
The stress you had as you were doing your hair😢😢. I felt like you were scared that perhaps you had completely damaged your hair😭. Sorry sis❤
Golly I Wish I had that problem 🤦🏾♀️
I usually wet my hair & spritz with green tea.
Place a cap or plastic bag over my head & let it steam for and hour or 2 this make the detangling a lot easier. But I always have my hair clippers nearby to cut any strands or ends 😊
I feel your pain. But honestly, this happens to my hair whether I wash it one week or 3 weeks. I believe it has a lot to do with the chemicals in the products, shampoos and conditioners reacting to hard water. Also, for me, products with too much protein interacting with the chemicals in the hard water. Also discovered oils with protein products are my worst enemy. MY hair just webs/mats up. I am still trying to figure it out. I have found that Isoplus neutralizing shampoo plus conditioner works well for stripping product build up, and hard water deposits. You have to know which products work well together or NOT. Hope that helps you someone else going through this mentally draining process.
Thanks for sharing sis
❤Sis, would you want to check out some natural hair salon? Now that your hands are full with the cuties and jump back to routine whenever they are a little more independent? ❤
@Charity, what is the name of your church? I'm looking for a Holy place to send my money. AND do you all stream your service on line?
Hello Charity. You could wash your hair weekly but just one side of your head. It would be less time and energy consuming.
Hello sis, I want to ask about the shipping of your products, am I the one who pays the shipping fee or not and if it’s me how much is it. I’m in Botswana, Africa I want to order your starter pack
So you detangle after you wash? I could see how that can help with less hair loss. I might try this.
You must prepoo with a mask or conditioner.
I agree
I am sorry, this video made me upset. I kept wondering why you were not using your own products to detangle your hair. .... Sis, I've been using your creation, ie. " the rehydrating leave-in conditioner" to detangle my 4c hair after washing with shampoo. It works wonders! It melts the knots.
Seriously! Please consider it.
Do you use any grease?
Maybe hair differs or maybe because yours is too long.I can go even two months without a wash and no problem
You’ve been on a hair journey, long enough to know to detangler for you wash that’s why your hair isn’t mad at love
Craazym 😔
You need deep protein once a month treatment place a plastic cap on your entire hair
Next sit underneath under a condition electric plug in the wall cap or hooded hair dryer for about one hour
Your hair would not be so hard to detangle
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I have daughters with long, thick, 4 b-c hair. Wisdom let me know a long time ago that natural hair need natural products. We CAN'T and should not wash our hair with store bought products. If she keeps going on this path, her hair will be broken and severely damaged! Let not your ❤ be troubled (John 14:1)... Many of us are doing way too much! 😮
Question: Why would anyone go a whole month and not wash their hair? Every 7 days for sheep wool.
Peace and love!
Please be respectful. We don’t know what she went through in her life that cause her to not wash her hair within the month. I’m assuming you’re a Christian yourself by the scripture you shared. Learn to extend grace to others and not judge. She’s a mother of 2 children. Hope you take this message kindly. 🙂
No disrespect intended. Love and grace will always come with the Holy Spirit of Truth. A person who will not tell you the truth does not know love. One of my daughters' names is Charity, and I have the same love for her as I do for all my sisters. I hope that we will all come to the knowledge of the truth. HIS yoķe is easy, and his burden is light. Pls remember, the truth hurts, even if the intentions are good. Peace and love to all. 🙏