Long Distance Relationship? 99% Does NOT Work

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  • čas přidán 9. 07. 2017
  • Are you in a long distance relationship? What is your current situation? Let me know in the comments section below!

Komentáře • 203

  • @lorenze3743
    @lorenze3743 Před 6 lety +116

    long distance relationship will work if you have patience, trust and love. that's it.
    I'm also in a LDR. I only see my Gf once a month and guess what we've been together for like 6 years now. and our relationship is stronger than ever.

    • @kumarasamy9408
      @kumarasamy9408 Před 6 lety +2

      wow,thats great

    • @abbygonzales9571
      @abbygonzales9571 Před 5 lety +6

      I’m in a new LDR and it making me cry all the time

    • @angelotajanlangit4648
      @angelotajanlangit4648 Před 5 lety +2

      Thats why "Unless it Does " :) :)

    • @fionacao3698
      @fionacao3698 Před 5 lety +4

      once a month is okay, happy for you.

    • @norajozsef1748
      @norajozsef1748 Před 5 lety +3

      Long distance is work .need trust to each other...
      I'm the one ldr ...first meet 2 years . after every year visit me.
      Now we are 4years relationship...

  • @iprilyou
    @iprilyou Před 7 lety +16

    Like the part that he said "..maybe you think you love him because of the thought of having him..."
    ☺ such an entertaining speak with sense..

  • @mackanarcon8460
    @mackanarcon8460 Před 6 lety +17

    Ldr works just as much as relationships that are near each other fails.
    Its all part of how two people work and find a way.

  • @jamgaming1242
    @jamgaming1242 Před 7 lety +55

    Proud to be the 1%er!

  • @jonathanbautista9644
    @jonathanbautista9644 Před 5 lety +5

    Yes! I totally agree with you sir. Unless it does!

  • @melvaortega7182
    @melvaortega7182 Před 7 lety +1

    I really love how you honestly answered and advised the lady. and you're right about ldr.. most of the time it doesn't work and I've already experienced that , unless it works and that's how I managed to maintain and cherish my current ldr.. 'coz it worked and we're together for 4 years and 3 months now... so I think it only worked because we choose to make it work... there's an effort from the both of us... and I honestly don't get irritated when my bf calls me 57 times a day... because I just simply love him despite the fact that we're miles apart and can't be together all the time... ldr is for strong people... ready to take the risk,, willing to do everything despite the uncertainty...

  • @carladominiquetanjay6274
    @carladominiquetanjay6274 Před 7 lety +11

    Gosh. I love this. Keep posting 😂😊

  • @potatocorn4828
    @potatocorn4828 Před 5 lety +5

    70% agreed. Ung rest di sangayon sa caption. I've been in a long distance relationship myself. And i must say, sa laht ng ldr. Trust, loyalty, pagusapan ng mabuti ang problema, tapos respect sa sariling life and have a goal to each other. It will work. Madaling sabihin. But myself madaming try and error before nahandle ung relationship. Trust me. Mas magiging stronger kayo.😚

  • @beebeevalentino
    @beebeevalentino Před 7 lety +34

    I hope he makes more videos. I like his honesty

  • @jplondonkorea
    @jplondonkorea Před 6 lety +7

    Long distance only works if you and your partner both have a plan and destination together e.g. marriage, 100% sure that you guys will move in together etc. If you're just dating, you're wasting your time, trust me. The amount of stress, concern, loneliness, alongside giving up social events in order to avoid arguments with your long distance partner, is not worth it AT ALL...unless, like i said, you guys are serious about the relationship and have an end goal together. Especially if you're young, don't waste your youth on this kind of stuff. I advice you to go out, explore, meet people in person, have fun. Heck, relationships will only leave you with scars unless you're ready to settle. So enjoy life and avoid any kind of romantic relationship, let alone long distance if you want to live a life where you can look back in the future like "I have so many memories and had so much fun in my teens/20s".

  • @ajk2382
    @ajk2382 Před 6 lety +4

    Most people in long distance relationships haven’t had very many partners , in fact the person that they are in a LDR with might even be their first and only love . It’s hard to let go of that but the reality is that it will end sooner or later .

  • @farhani29
    @farhani29 Před 7 lety +1

    I really like your explanation. Aside sa nakakarelate ako, very simple yung pagkakadiscuss mo. Medyo natauhan din ako.. but I really prefer to be with him physically than talking to him over the phone. LDR sucks!

  • @xatherian
    @xatherian Před 7 lety +3

    This hits the truth HARD! Hope to see more videos from you. Keep up the great job and more power to you

  • @kylanicolepaldez4668
    @kylanicolepaldez4668 Před 7 lety +3

    i really love your honesty Mr speaks 😌 sana marami pa pong video na ma-upload

  • @johnreyes583
    @johnreyes583 Před 7 lety +2

    Tagos sa puso sir ! Fantabolous !

  • @cristelynlaranan6415
    @cristelynlaranan6415 Před 6 lety

    I'm also in LDR relationship and it's hard because at first both of you and him didn't know the dos and don'ts but if you love him know him and never did what he don't like. So he appreciate that you truly loves him.

  • @angelo_the3rd
    @angelo_the3rd Před 6 lety

    so true, proved it myself.

  • @orlad2495
    @orlad2495 Před 6 lety +11

    Ive been in a long distance relationship a year now and we are still going strong

  • @axelsalinas5845
    @axelsalinas5845 Před 4 lety +6

    I tend to find people I want to be with online more than I do in person. I know it’s weird but it’s just been happening a lot lately. But at the end of the day nothing ever seems to work how I want it too. I just wanna be happy and find someone who cares the same for me ya know? I know I’m young but being single and feeling lonely while all your friends are finding love is tough and makes you wonder weather you will ever be happy with someone. Specially if all your past relationships haven’t worked out. 😔

  • @randomross841
    @randomross841 Před 7 lety +3

    Brother! Its not the distance why it doesn't work. It doesn't matter how far you reach together. But how long you wanted to stay.

  • @aileengonzales3040
    @aileengonzales3040 Před 3 lety +2

    It takes a lot of trust and patience to make LDR work.

  • @merakistgo329
    @merakistgo329 Před 3 lety +1

    It will work when u have trust and loyalty to each other

  • @danicagapasin6303
    @danicagapasin6303 Před 7 lety +1

    Excited na ako sa mga susunod na videos mo :)

  • @godz1_
    @godz1_ Před 5 lety +3

    i mean depends how much time u see each other.... i am watching to this vid 1 week after i broke up with my girlfriend because i live in england and she lives in portugal.... we see each other twice a year... we thought we could do it, however we cant because i know she needs someone to be next to her and to express her love to which in messages and video calls is impossibel... thats the harsh reality, if you like me and you love her u have to let her go... thats a proof that you love her never forget that she was special. i still love her but i know i cant be with her when she needs and to prove i love her i let her go, because i cant make her happy by seing eachother twice a year.... life is full of pain and hard choices... evetually when you finally understand like me that you cant be without that person thats the real proof of love.... trust me you need to let her go, or you will never be happy .... :)

  • @pangilinankrizele5520
    @pangilinankrizele5520 Před 7 lety +2

    More vid about this please!

  • @rp5863
    @rp5863 Před 5 lety +2

    18 calls a day? What about 1 call a week, sometimes none and about 5 one liners texts a day? Let us see how patient you'll have to be in that situation...i need to reevaluate my life

  • @navidendi945
    @navidendi945 Před 7 lety +4

    more pa mr speaks ng matauhan na kame hahahaa

  • @mosaylawrence3159
    @mosaylawrence3159 Před 3 lety

    100% I agree 3years love now she ask who are you? really it's painfully but I realised now but really she's nice woman I pray god give sweet life always

  • @paulpahilanga2091
    @paulpahilanga2091 Před 7 lety +3

    just keep on posting pre

  • @straightouttaarea5119
    @straightouttaarea5119 Před 6 lety +10

    But he didn't mention the factors why LDR doesn't work and why it works, he simply focuses on the aspect why she didn't pickup an 18 calls a day. Honestly, this wasn't a clear explanation to long distance relationship.
    LDR doesn't work, because it takes trust, a lot of trust. You probably think that your partner from faraway is telling you the truth through calls, and you're too confident about it, but fact is you don't have the evidence, it's like telling you're mom that you're home but you went straight to the club just so your mom would stop bothering you, and now since you lied, you see your mom as a distraction. Same thing with LDR.
    One day, you'll see your partner as a "distraction" and from that point you'll begin wondering if you should break up with her or not.

    • @karlo4664
      @karlo4664 Před 5 lety +1

      Because he talks out of his ass. He always contradicts because it gives character to him. Not because he is factual. He’s an actor. And people are stupid to believe this clown’s talk. Lol.

  • @markm.apostol3621
    @markm.apostol3621 Před 4 lety

    Proud to be one of those 1%

  • @aloksmusic4432
    @aloksmusic4432 Před rokem

    Wow gr8 words my frnd u are human and u want to feel evidences of love so with long distance relationship it's not possible stay away frnds it's a sheer loss for men

  • @dinoazazel6523
    @dinoazazel6523 Před 6 lety

    Well, one month palang kame, pero hope ko na hindi lang kami tumagal kung hindi magmahalan ng higit pa sa numero ng bawat oras ng aming araw-araw na gawain

  • @ayeshazahra3843
    @ayeshazahra3843 Před 6 lety

    LDR it takes lot of courage and trust..

  • @franzbfavorito4427
    @franzbfavorito4427 Před 6 lety +3

    Yes your right bro, Long-distance relationship never work unless in does. Even though you have alot of assurance like your engaged or you have baby together and etc.
    People well seek physical attention and lot of people refer there love from what they saw and fill physicaly. And i agreed to your thoughts that it works once in a Million chances

  • @einasacdalan6563
    @einasacdalan6563 Před 7 lety

    I need to teach me about a LDR without seeing in person yet but I met him in FB online.

  • @oppa6926
    @oppa6926 Před 2 lety +1

    Well long distance doesn't work? so near relationship doesn't even work to unless if they love each other and depends to person if they can wait.

  • @roanjardin7498
    @roanjardin7498 Před 7 lety +1

    MR speaks I hope the next one is about guys na pafall, potential fuccbois. Please! 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @kill3rclown690
    @kill3rclown690 Před rokem +1

    Yes it can work but 99.9 percent of the time it doesent because u cant touch u cant be there for each other physically and u or the other person can meet someone else and u might wind up liking that perso in ur area. The other person could wind up cheating on u, and u won't know it. One of u has to move and that means giving up ur family and friends and environment that ur used to. Theres just too many risks.

  • @annalizapuno2807
    @annalizapuno2807 Před 3 lety +1

    We've been in a relationship since 2004, but he broke me sept. 27, nalaman kong me karelasyon syang iba, pero September 22, 2020 ko lang nalaman n me iba pa pala sya, we talked and he choose the girl, Mr. Speaks bakit nia po ako ipinagpalit sa kelan nia uli nakausap through messenger pa, ano po bang Mali sakn?

  • @rubysebastian9565
    @rubysebastian9565 Před 6 lety +1

    LDR could work but as for me and him we both had our issues so we lost trust in each other but by time we fix it but since i myself is a jealous person it’s difficult ;( we both cry our asses off we both love each other so much but the distance is killing us I been with this guy for 4 years now and still going but at times I loose it since I saw him for the first time last October 18 2017 I fell more in love I crave his presence I miss cooking for him go for adventures sigh

  • @Aj-em6vh
    @Aj-em6vh Před 2 lety

    I totally agree!!!😜

  • @piyo9271
    @piyo9271 Před 6 lety

    Is it important na to give each others space? Like if problemado ang isang partner at gusto nya mag isa pero if you tried to catch your partner up away nya talaga makipag usap sayo. Like all his/her friends even loved once ay shinashut down nya for a mean time?

  • @kennethrojimagoncillo5114

    F sub g = Gm1m2/d2 meaning the greater the distance the lesser the force of attraction...

  • @daonlysolidmemes
    @daonlysolidmemes Před 4 lety

    hi im also in LDR, but im doubting why she doesnt want me to call her, she only wants to text, i told it to her, and still i cant even call her. so idk if shes serious or not. but we always text.

  • @bellareign6606
    @bellareign6606 Před 3 lety

    LDR din po ako...Pero sa panahon po Na ito ng pandemic at nagkakaroon Tayo ng problema lalo financially...we always talk about our problems..nagopen aq sa kanya about this...gusto niya magpadala ng pera pero natatakot aq Na baka dito magsimula iyong doubt..baka magbago siya Kase Baka isipin Niya kada magkakaroon aq ng problema sa pera kailangan Niya magpadala...

  • @annzkiboom7131
    @annzkiboom7131 Před 6 lety +1

    Grabe ka ate ha.. ako nga mamatay ako pg ndi ko xa nkausap.. mbbliw n ko

  • @linnkim1121
    @linnkim1121 Před 5 lety +3

    i said yes to him when he started working abroad. now we are in our 8month relationship with such long distance. i still need to wait for another 9 months for him to come home here in ph. . we call everyday for at least 1hr or less.we always update each other. some guys still hit me up but never entertained them. ive always been loyal. d thing is i can only trust him. i dnt knw if hes doin d same thing but for me i overthink a lot. sometimes i feel like its nvr gonna work but its hard to let go coz i love him so much. damn ds is hard. i cry almost everynight of overthinking... its hard. so hard. 😢i dunno y im evn writing ds here 😑

    • @paolomagsuay5750
      @paolomagsuay5750 Před 3 lety

      Just trust your partner.

    • @linnkim1121
      @linnkim1121 Před 3 lety

      ​@@paolomagsuay5750 yes he came back last nov and guess what we're engaged

  • @patsyandjonathan3931
    @patsyandjonathan3931 Před 4 lety +2

    We are in a LDR relationship I live in Sweden and she lives in the US. We have proof on our channel that long distance relationships works😊🙏

  • @lp4969
    @lp4969 Před 7 lety +3

    How did I end up here?

  • @chippyjean2883
    @chippyjean2883 Před 4 lety

    Mr. Speaks I like your T-shirt. Saan po maaavail? 🤩
    Totoo yong sinabi mo. 😆 kawawa naman c boy. 😣

  • @pangilinankrizele5520
    @pangilinankrizele5520 Před 7 lety +1

    More vids mr speaks!

  • @unothecat8117
    @unothecat8117 Před 3 lety +1

    0:31 yeaaaaahh!!!

  • @angelouvanbooc7736
    @angelouvanbooc7736 Před 6 lety

    Hi Mr. Speaks yung bf ko kasi nakipaghiwalay sa akin and yung reason niya is pagod na siya at sabi niya sa akin na babalik daw siya. Aasa pa ba ako?

  • @gracelikerain5039
    @gracelikerain5039 Před 6 lety +4

    She doesnt love him

  • @reinestay227
    @reinestay227 Před 7 lety

    need more pa po abour LDR and all about love please

  • @desperado5366
    @desperado5366 Před 7 lety +1

    Maybe you need to post MORE VIDEOS, MORE TOPICS and MORE INSPIRATIONAL THINGS.

  • @annalizapuno2807
    @annalizapuno2807 Před 3 lety

    Sbi po ng bf ko me pinagsamahan daw pp sila, eh pano po un mang yayari nagkaasawa ung girl at nagkaanak pa ng 2, kelan lang sila uli nagkausap nung mag aaniversarry ang srb, mag sis and brod po sila sa srb way back 1988 daw, Tska pano po sila magkakarelasyon, we've been together ng boyfriend ko since 2004, bale po 16 yrs na po kami, all of a sudden nagbago syang bigla, me kasalanan po ba ako, ano po bang pagkukulang ko, ang saya2 pa po nming magksma bago ko mabuko ang lahat, LDR po sila nung girl at me kaya po sa buhay ung girl na pinalit sakn, me asawa at 2 anak pa.

  • @sexyali3324
    @sexyali3324 Před 7 lety +20

    LDR do work! im in LDR, we will make it! we can make it!

  • @teteissupermartins2568

    I done a long distance relationship before I knew the lad because I got to know him when I went back to Angola my home town to see family and then I got told that a boy liked me and I said I don't do long distance relationship but then he wouldn't stop asking me out and said oh we can speak across the phone across Facebook and Skype I then was stupid to accept to be his girlfriend the relationship lasted four years and 8 months such a long time I felt like we we're doing great but when it got to May of 2017 nope I found out that year that he lied to me saying a picture of a girl is his cousin when really it was his girlfriend I was so heartbroken and just wanted to punch him but sadly I couldn't because of the distance LOL but I am in England my family tried everything to explain that long distance doesn't work but nope I just didn't listen I wish I did though I regret even doing one and I am never doing a long distance relationship ever ever again I have learned my lesson but yet again we argued a lot went on and off but then I was so stressed out about him cheating that I blocked him on everything because he wouldn't leave me alone when I didn't block him but when I go back to Angola for a visit it is going to be strange seeing his face everyday because he lives next door to my aunty sadly.

  • @navyseals745
    @navyseals745 Před 5 lety

    Im already scared about being left alone by my girlfriend. She's already processing her papers and will be leaving me soon. Im actually starting to act like Dum* @$$ fVuck everytime she tells me that she proceed to her next proccess on her documents. Im always saying that "i wish that you go sooner." But deep inside im hurt cause it makes me realize that the time is now shorter to be with her and she will leave me alone like nothing and feeling like all the time we spent together is all useless at the end

  • @azzblank3088
    @azzblank3088 Před 3 lety

    2020 na ngayon ko lang nakita mga vidoes mo.

  • @abbygonzales9571
    @abbygonzales9571 Před 5 lety

    Kuya more video of LDR pls

  • @randilchristianmantilla8949

    Nasa Cebu ako nasa Samar sya higit isang taon na kami sana mag tuloy² pa

  • @cambuendia9206
    @cambuendia9206 Před 7 lety +15

    i agree..ldr doesnt work....it actually happened to me twice :(

  • @aryagaikwad6797
    @aryagaikwad6797 Před 2 lety +1

    I believe in 1%

  • @clemencioretiquez3335
    @clemencioretiquez3335 Před 3 lety

    Hahaha choosy pa si mommy 😂

  • @seanneleighliah116
    @seanneleighliah116 Před 7 lety

    if we talk about LDR two words only trust and loyalty.

    • @jgperias3813
      @jgperias3813 Před 5 lety

      Kahit may trust at loyalty. Mas pinili niya ang putulin ang aming relasyon dahil sa iba ng aming paniniwala

    • @kngrrx
      @kngrrx Před 5 lety

      Faithful over Loyalty

  • @darrielmarqueses
    @darrielmarqueses Před 5 lety

    so we belong in 1%

  • @XilK28
    @XilK28 Před 4 lety

    During this pandemic. I was in 30 minute drive long distance relationship with a guy.
    And he broke up with me cause i keep nagging that he doesn't call that often.
    That he never sees me when he says he will nor call at all.
    And he said he got tired of it and that we are incompatible and that we never see each other due to the pandemic. Kaya he broke up with me dahil long distance at incompatible daw kaya naman nagsawa daw sya.

  • @jaysilva5854
    @jaysilva5854 Před 6 lety +1

    What language is this malay?

  • @khialeano4014
    @khialeano4014 Před 7 lety

    I like it..

  • @mr.broccoli3776
    @mr.broccoli3776 Před 7 lety +1

    More topic please hahahahaa ..

  • @David-br3cx
    @David-br3cx Před 3 lety

    Sana pala nakinig nalang ako noon sayo mr speaks 🙁

  • @sunny_el
    @sunny_el Před 6 lety

    This is true

  • @shysoriano8574
    @shysoriano8574 Před 2 lety

    Sobrang underrated netong tao nato

    • @MrSpeaks
      @MrSpeaks  Před 2 lety +1

      Salamat sobraaaaaaaaaaaa

  • @seangabrielperaltadacanay917

    damn.. ralate c acoe 💔

  • @stonerman1018
    @stonerman1018 Před 5 lety +1

    In a ldr relationship ur more like friends because you can’t do the shit couples do so won’t work never has never will don’t care what anyone says

  • @kingtraxx4506
    @kingtraxx4506 Před 7 lety +25

    LDR can work.

  • @vincentguieb6234
    @vincentguieb6234 Před 3 lety

    Cnu ung nandito dhil napanood sa FB

  • @tyngshainnongsiej7559
    @tyngshainnongsiej7559 Před 2 lety

    Work iam interested I just need some money to go

  • @Mck-sz7kn
    @Mck-sz7kn Před 6 lety

    i feel sad

  • @ashleymillare1031
    @ashleymillare1031 Před 7 lety

    This is very entertaining :)

  • @ambercf6053
    @ambercf6053 Před 4 lety

    If only he will call me..u would be d happiest woman in d world

  • @dodongbodung139
    @dodongbodung139 Před 6 lety +1

    0:31 iyahhh!! Yameteh kudasai!

  • @benihime8603
    @benihime8603 Před 4 lety

    Nakita ko lang sa fb to eh

  • @goodguyfromnyc
    @goodguyfromnyc Před rokem

    Ion understand these mfs in long distance relationships.
    My close friend is currently in one and i keep telling him that it wont work, but that offends him like a real cuck. And he still being wit her over the phone over seas.
    Im the realest friend you could meet that would want the best for you.
    These type of men who defend this type of relationship are delusional and sensitive and lonely.
    i bet My close friend will lose years wasted and come back to me one day saying i was right like a real dumbass. Im bout to cut him off without tellin him.
    I planned so much a head for us to get out the hood.
    Sometimes you want to carry everybody with you but sometimes you gotta go without em.

  • @einasacdalan6563
    @einasacdalan6563 Před 7 lety

    0:42

  • @ceejayparan1607
    @ceejayparan1607 Před 7 lety

    i like you now huhu

  • @user-ox2ci2wp2i
    @user-ox2ci2wp2i Před 7 lety

    can i ask a question??.... can you give me an advice??..

  • @dylanshrike1665
    @dylanshrike1665 Před 3 lety

    #iwatchph #iadvertise!

  • @chairacabrera
    @chairacabrera Před 5 lety

    I don't want his calls iether

  • @d3rylle
    @d3rylle Před 7 lety

    dang more vids kuya. you speak the truth cause i have experience that.

  • @kestervinpalma9937
    @kestervinpalma9937 Před 7 lety

    hi please reply when and where is your next stop

    • @MrSpeaks
      @MrSpeaks  Před 7 lety

      my next event will be on August 12 2pm on a Saturday. Please go to my facebook page for ticket details :)

    • @kestervinpalma9937
      @kestervinpalma9937 Před 7 lety

      thank you 😀😀

  • @dansuganuma17
    @dansuganuma17 Před 7 lety

    Super nice :)

  • @annejeanettelucido8760

    naiinspired talaga ako sa mga ganitong talk

  • @_leihkicon
    @_leihkicon Před 3 lety

    🥺🥺🥺

  • @whitekidd5451
    @whitekidd5451 Před 4 lety

    All relationships don’t work 99% of the time. If the relationship matters, then the distance doesn’t. The woman in the video clearly isn’t putting in any effort cause she doesn’t even want to talk to her boyfriend. RELATIONSHIPS NEED EFFORT. If it doesn’t work, the distance was never the problem.

  • @Absinthr
    @Absinthr Před 5 lety

    Maybe you need to research more

  • @achayannieroset.2953
    @achayannieroset.2953 Před 3 lety

    😭😭😭😭