What your ex is feeling during NO CONTACT
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- čas přidán 25. 06. 2024
- Ive gotten this question so many times since my review of the NO CONTACT rule. This is my opinion and experience. Im not a Dr, this is just the way I see it from being in that position. Hope this helps everyone!
- Komedie
There’s nothing worst than breaking up with someone and having absolutely no friends
A B feel you
A B yeah you drop all your mates to give the person you love a lot but then all your friends have gone bc you didn’t give them enough it’s weird
The worst!
This is me atm 😔
@@simpsons790 aww so sorry. Maybe find an interest and join an internet group for it. All my friends are online lol
The best way to make an ex miss you is by being the best version of you
Proven. This is very true.
How do you become the Best Version of you??
RANDY JACKSON fix ur bad habits
RANDY JACKSON hit the gym fam
What if my best isnt enough?
I can’t wait for the day I don’t miss him anymore 💔
did it get better?
I feel your pain. It's been three months and it's like I never existed. We were engaged for over a year and together for 2 and a half years.
Same.
@@jerrychambers3817 omg similar situation for me but it was long distance
@@BunnyMumma33 yeah nothing for almost 4 months. Her so, brother in law and cousin are still friends on social media.
Quarantining and going through this things ain’t easy 😒😂
I'm right there with you. Dumped and also isolated
It’s hard lmfao
Me too
That's exactly what i am going through. Can't hang out with friends and no job means want to text him even more
I became a shell of myself and a complete wuss as a result of quarantine. She got turned off by my emotional unloading on her and acting like a desperate loser. She ceased contact for good because I never listened to her need for space. Now I really give her space. I hope she will write me again :(
Never Beg, Never become needy, & never chase..
Exactly! Self-respect is so important no matter how much you miss them!
Exactly....thanka alot..
I totally fucked that up and angry texted him like 20 text walls of ranting.. getting on the right track now though I'm ashamed
Yup
I’d say beg for 1 day. If it’s a no for sure... 30 day contact !
The quickest way to get someone's attention is to remove yours.
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact Mike to help he is a genius, you can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701)
@AlexHanson do u really believe that will work?
@@tellysantos2392 it's definitely better than begging and pleading. Spend time with people that appreciate you. Also, get off social media, it helps a lot.
thissssss
I love this!
In my opinion, I’d rather get dumped than do the dumping. The fear of missing out is much worse than just walking away from a closed door. But maybe that’s just me 🤷🏻♀️
I agree 1000000000%. This is the reason why I'm scared to break up. You're not alone
Same Here, & that's why we suffer the Most....
Lie. You are using reverse psychology. You hate being dumped
Mister Celebrity ofc I hate being dumped. Who wants that? But I’d rather get dumped than dump someone.
@@paigeheartly8936 it's because your a b. Your not a proper lady either
Got betrayed and isolated in lockdown..but there are so many like me.
Saim Khan yea man same keep your head up
@@lifewithjulz5809 brother but it's hurting more in case of betrayal...but sure Allah will ease all pain.
Same here...
Same.. :(
Don't worry Saim Khan. Stay strong🙏🏻
No matter how you look at it.
No contact is a win win situation.
1) they come back
Or
2) they dont and you have more time for yourself.
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Preach
🙌🏻🙌🏻
Yes Indeed!!
When you moved on and start feeling better and you don’t miss them anymore that’s where the table turns on them
And then they appear..
You could be right
@@rosasalah5820 they really appear ... early or late...but until then don't tickle their ego to reach them and beg,cry .. contrary... experience the pleasure every day they to wonder how it is possible to not write to them...
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Daisy M melissa Marie oh wow what brave souls for going no contact 😂 let’s be real, as soon as the guys on a woman’s social media figure out that she’s single again, they slide in and shoot their shot. Y’all can rebound left and right easy as pie. I’d bet that all of you on here were talking to a new guy within a month or two after your breakup
After getting your heart broken you can’t even imagine the day that you will get better, I promise there’s light at the end of that dark tunnel.
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I hope it gets better , I was getting over it but then saw a post on social media and it set me far back again. It’s really awful. She cheated on me. It destroyed me inside and still is, this was 1 month ago.
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Day 1. I’m a emotional wreck. I’ve been sick all day and can’t focus. I pray it gets easier. I’m tired of crying
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Blocked him on everything, because i cannot keep hurting myself more for someone that doesn’t care about me.
Angel literally what I needed to hear!!
Agreed
Good! I'm going through the same situation as you now and I know exactly how you feel! He also ignores me. he wants me when he feels like. He doesn't care and doesn't bother to reply back and now I don't either. I came to realize he's only a player. Likes to play with girl's emotions and moves on when he wants to and comes back when he feels like. Please guys pray for me he gets hurt the same way he hurt me.
@@eliseaatravissknightt you gonna know when its right.block him and sooner than later he will come crawling.i promise
darren j aww thank you so much. It really means a lot. I hope what your saying comes true. I hope he feels the same how he made me feel. I promise I’ve never hurt him not even once in our relationship. I still think where’d I go wrong? Was I not good enough for him? I hope god gives me the strength to move on like you did. And I find someone much better. Thanks so much for your supportive comment. It really made me feel a lot better :)
Don’t u ever take back anyone who was able to walk out of your life . Practice self love show them how to treat u . Remember what u allow will continue.
Walter Estrada
AMEN!!
I believe people can get back together in some situations.
The only way you take someone back from a break up, is if they go out of their way to get you back. They have to fight for you. Now, if they broke up with you because the dumper cheated, then the equation changes.
Unless you're the one that caused the breakup. There are exceptions 🙄.
yes Walter im with you on that one same thing happened to me
Ladies, or whoever, please be strong and do this no contact. Just do it!!! There’s so much victory in it!!!
True
Oh Yes it is. My second month of no contact and I ain't looking back!!
100%
Ladies or "whoever"? Who else is left? Lol
Do you hate us that much?
@@fidelguerra2164 yes!
I’ve been crying for weeks, lost so much weight, can’t eat, can’t laugh like i used to. My heart is so heavy, never realized it would hurt this much.
I experience this too yesterday ..I begged ,I plead ,but she totally block me to all social media
How are u feeling now did u get it over it yet
How are you doing today? It's been a year since you posted this. Hope life finds you well.
I’ve been there. Ur loved and I hope ur going better
No contact for me turned into 4 years later and still nothing....but that’s ok because I have my self respect
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Really? Damn...
You have my respect, too! 🙌
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That’s amazing! Admire your strength!
Dont play games. Block them on all social media, cry, let it out and move on. THEN they will come crawling, but you wont want them anymore 🤷♂️
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exactly what happened for me 👍🏼 received mails every 3 months for a year , I never answered back until the last one to make things clear once for all, once I was emotionally detached and moved on for good (healing takes time)
When you don't have any feelings for them anymore no contact starts working and they'll reach out eventually it's all in your head!
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Exactly!
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He ended it.. didn’t beg or anything I just went no contact so far seven weeks. I’m feeling better.. I don’t want him as much anymore. Focusing on myself 😊 no contact makes it easier to move on.
melissa wallace stay strong
melissa wallace yes yes yes
melissa Marie exactly!! The more I focus on myself, the less I think about him.
So hard
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You let me go, I’m gone. No reason for no contact. Someone else will show me the love you didn’t give me.
true damn im hoping to be over him soon
I agree with you and your mindset because what you said is my true feelings on being dumped!
her eyebrows look amazing...
As a guy, her whole face looks amazing
This bitch has to get a life!
Wish me luck. This is my day one.
Keep strong! 💪
SAME!!! Right now 😭
@@Radhaisberry I'm going through the same and yesterday I looked at her profile and she changed her profile pic and she looks more happy after leaving me
That made me think if she can be so happy after leaving me then why can't I be happier because she's the one who dumped me
@@karan6516 Hey man. I am pretty sure she changed the picture because of one of two reasons. 1. She need to "remake" herself. New clothes, new profile picture etc. 2. She wants you to see her..... I know you know but we shouldnt look at our exes social media. Nothing goods come out of it.
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Stay strongg 💕
A breakup takes two, if you’ve been let go it’s easy to feel like you’re the one to blame. Believe in your good points, know you did the best you could and that you’re worth fighting for. If someone won’t fight for you then you deserve better. You will get better. You will find better.
No Body reading this actually made me feel a little better 💜
Sabrina Janel this makes me happy. I know it hurts, I’m in there battling myself. Have faith that you will heal. That’s what I tell myself.
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i went no contact because i no longer wanted her back and was sick and tired of playing games,,,life is too short to waste on people who dont know what the hell they want.
Exactly. When you are serious about no contact and mean it permanently, that's when the energy they put out comes back to them. I cut my ex off and it bothers her to this day.
I didn't even know there was a such thing as no contact. Mine kept holding "her" house over my head and kicking me out over little petty things. Then she sent a few little texts. I told her to fk off that I hated her and never want to hear from her again. We haven't talked since. Its been around a month and a half. I started looking on here for narcissism answers and stumped across these no contact videos. I'm like you though, I was just tired of all the bullshit and head games. Lifes too short.
Robert Swift Just say it ! Whatever you feel instead of the back and forth !
Very well said buddy🤙🏼
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I think Important to NOT believe you will be together again, just to move on, it will be less disappointing. The list of disadvantages really works, cuz I deserve more.
am very grateful and wish to share my testimony my fiance broke up with me last week i was so sad I changed completely, I wasn’t eating and i wasn’t talking to anybody, I cried a lot,I was so depressed and stressed out that I was scared I’m going to end up in the hospital because of all the stress and depression until one day i search online on getting love tips because I Love & care about him deeply and I just want us to be together as a couple again and I want us to last forever then i found a powerful spell caster Called Dr.KABATO that he solved so many relationship problem then Dr.KABATO told me he will come back to me between 24hrs after he cast spell on him never believe it until my finance called me on the phone and told me he want us to come back and live happily together forever , Am so happy now that Dr.KABATO help me bring my finance back to me. Thanks so much Dr.KABATO he can also help you Email him at drkabatospelltemple@gmail.com or WhatsAp📲+2348166431631
he can also help you out with the following
{1}GETTING YOUR EX LOVER BACK.
{2}WINNING LOTTERIES.
{3}CHILD BEARING.
{4}YOU WANT TO TIE YOUR
HUSBAND /WIFE TO BE YOURS FOREVER
{5}BREAKING OF GENERATION COURSE.
{6}IF YOU WANT TO STOP YOUR PARTNER NOT TO DIVORCE YOU
{7}GETTING OF JOB.
{8}JOB PROMOTION.
{9}SPIRITUAL PROTECTION.
{10}BEAUTY SPELL.
{11}DEALTH SPELL
{12}SPIRITUAL BULLETPROOF
{13}LONG LIFE SPELL
{14}PROSPERITY SPELL
{15}PROTECTION SPELL
{16}YOU WANT TO BE PROMOTED IN YOUR OFFICE SPELL
{17}SPELL TO GET VISA URGENTLY WITHOUT DENIED
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True im doing the no conta r at the same not expecting he will come back. If you'll just exoect you can never move on.
my body is literally in withdrawal :(
Hey kat! Im 21 years old. My ex gf broke up with me after 3.5years. we where suppose to move in together and now we go to same college. It feels horrible at the start and if you ever need someone to talk you can talk to me!
How are u doing? I’m going trough the same thing rn
Me currently
i feel you 💔
I think they won't feel the loss or nothing if they entertaining someone else.
Milagros Rodriguez don’t worry time will do that for us! Trust me
@@marymake9485 ok
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What I've found?....once the "Honeymoon " phase is over..so is the relationship. Guys are fickle.
They're always looking for the next New...then THAT New gets old..so on so forth.
Above all ....Know your worth and be Happy! Take care of yourself..it really does matter!!
All the Best!
@@carolloraine223 Not all men are like that.
I said, doesn't it suck how you're over here thinking about and missing that person who hurt you.... meanwhile they're over there living their best life? Someone told me, "they're not living their best life sweetie... because they don't have YOU."
Woww facts!! 😍💖
Love that!!! :)
Julissa A. Godinez true facts
Love it too 💕💜
And you'll live the rest of your life thinking that.
Sucks losing someone who promised you the future with them , too only leaving you in the end and having no friends bc you put everything aside for them 😢
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No contact with my ex is so much better 😂 I’m so happy without him ! I’m feel so free finally don’t have to deal with him anymore he can’t get me back no more cause I don’t waste my precious time on that guy who hurt me so much ! 😌🙌
Very significant statement at 8:09---"You need to start showing them
your power"---the power not to beg, plead, and be helpless. Excellent
video.
eric lavel yep especially if like me, you begged and acted really pathetic
I read that when she just said that
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@@edrinablissgthe part where you said it's usually a power thing is confusing me can you explain that
because I just thought of it as just changing your mind people do change their mind on how they feel and what they want
If someone breaks up with you, move on. Stop trying to sell something to an ex, who made it clear that they don’t want to buy what you’re selling.
Stop trying to cling onto something that didn’t work out.
💪💯
even if it was something beautifull something you never had with anyone it's hard
I would agree with this mostly, exceptions do appear though - my uncle had 3 breakups with his gf before they got married but damn is it a strong marriage - they were always meant for each other but they were on/off during university because of various stresses, and the fact that they both weren't quite mature enough for a relationship
@@youareaspook5897 I feel that. My boyfriend and I just broke up last week because we've both been really stressed with covid, figuring out jobs after graduation, and a lot of family issues going on in his life right now. It was a pretty mutual decision to end things, but both of us are optimistic about the future. We started dating right before the pandemic so we really never had the chance to just enjoy our relationship, which just added to the stress.
Ask yourself. Have you changed. Has he changed. Answer. No. So what's going to be different?? Move on!
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I feel like women start the moving on process right away so we feel all these emotions right away but it hits men later, by the time when they start feeling everything you’ve been feeling, you’re already pretty much over it
Exactly!!!!
Yup my current situation!
Amen!
Yes Indeed!!
Really? 😅
When your ex sends you those meaningless texts, they're just "taking your temperature". They want reassurance that you're still around. That's information that you definitely don't want to give them.
Bob Riedel what if they actually want you back and by you not responding they decide to leave you alone ?
shav12 that happens if you ignore them enough times.
Right
What happens if they text you after two months asking if you want your stuff back?
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Unicorn's don't have wings though do they? That's a Pegasus with wings and no horn. An Alicorn, sometimes referred to as a Pegacorn has wings and a horn though. I was with a Donkey unfortunately....the one that discarded me.
Life is like a roadtrip, along the way you might meet someone and pick them up but you are the driver and you have to focus on the road ahead. If they decide to step out just let them go and continue your journey because if you look back you might crash and hurt yourself.
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No contact sucks when the other person doesn’t seem to care. Why does dating have to be so hard?
ivy layne love is harder.
I feel you
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact Mike to help he is a genius, you can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701)
Things arent always what they seem... the no contact will help reveal that. If they truly dont care then they would have continued to fiddle your heart anyway so stick to your guns and the truth will come out one way or the other!
Then that is definitely no contact.no contact involves having nothing to do with him whether he cares or not
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Anyone who plays these stupid mind games and is willing to hurt a person in that way needs to be thrown out of your life. They are not worth it.
I did no contact forever. It's been 8 years. She always tries to find a way to stay in my life because she's a narcissist. Blocked her on Facebook and I'm at peace. She keeps her exes for emotional comfort but I'm not the one. It still bothers her to this day.
Asante-Sudani Adé #nailedit
How did you find out she was a narcissist ?
Good job! 👍
@@babybnb8470 I'm sure he knows the signs and traits of a narc. There are videos on here on how to spot one.
Asante good for you..stay narcfree!!
That’s exactly what I did. I begged my boyfriend, my partner, of 10 years, to stay. But he chose to walk out of my life. Even though he was the one that messed up and hurt me. He is moving out tomorrow, and although I have humiliated myself up until now, I will not contact him after he is gone. It is going to kill me. It’s killing me now. But I have to do this for myself.
You got this girl! Not contacting him after it’s over really is the best decision. You are showing your strength and will be stronger over time as your heart heals. I wish you the best
So me rite now it's killing me but I got to be strong for me an my daughter
@V Medina update ??
How are you doing? Please update us
Same. Got left after 6 yrs like i didnt mean anything and it hurt so bad.. im fighting the urge not to call him or check up.. stay strong❤️
Thank you, this has opened my eyes and shown that I’m not a helpless victim, I’ve been struggling for about 30 days and the no contact has taken a toll and made me feel like nothing, like it was my fault but hearing this has gotten me out of the mind set and I’m ready to start being myself again. Thank you so much again ❤️
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I love u
just had to say you're so beautiful!
Absolutely stunning
I blocked him so I wouldn’t even know if he decided to contact me lmaoooo I’m staying strong
Gabby Ackerman that’s exactly what I did..I have no idea if she contacted me .
I did the same thing.i blocked his whole family to.i know it’s harsh but they were bringing me unwanted gossip.
Gabby Ackerman so yal are DONE
Gabby Ackerman I’m the same we work together so I decided to change my schedule so I wouldn’t be able to see her
i did that, but then unblocked, you have to delete the number.
Dont play games, if someone discards you then move on. They most likely are looking for their next victim.
Yep
Agree
Well said.
Yep
Jason Oquinn so true
I can not say how much this video helped me. Im currently separated from my wife past 4 months and have no contact now for 30 days. Its like my body is dying each day but i am putting my trust in god. Your words lifted me up from a very dark place today. Thanks. No matter what i wont be breaking my no contact. I respect myself to much for that. I tried many times with no reply so as much as i am devistated, the personal sacrifice and trauma must stop at some point and allow the universe to work its way. Blessings
One of the best videos on breakups. Thanks for giving my power back :) keep rocking
You didin't contact a week ??? a week is definetly not enough for your ex to miss you... nor 30 days are enough ! between 2-4 months your ex will propably miss you !
No contact forever until they reached out
@@Fireman854Prod Agree with forever NC !!!
She meant she took a week at a time.
How about 9 months or a year?
TheSnowFoxParty nc as long as it takes
Going through a breakup right now. 5 month relationship. No contact has helped me move on. You can't drive forward if you keep looking in the rear view mirror. No contact helps you heal with the out of sight out of mind mindset.
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I am in the same boat. I dont want to move on tho...
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My girl broke up with me 1 week ago , we were also 5 months in 😞 I blocked her hadn’t contacted her since , she drunk texted me 6 day after the break up but I just kept on ignoring, I do miss her but I just gotta move on 💔
How you feeling now bro?
Sis, im currently taking my power back and your video just gave me even more confidence in what im doing.
I’m gonna be honest. I have been loving the solitude of this quarantine. I’m a musician so this gives me time and space to work on my music. For those desperate for contact with another person try instead to focus on a creative project. This is a much better way to spend your time. In fact it is the most fulfilling use of time in my opinion. And it feels great.
I lasted 5 months and then finally didn’t even want him anymore when he came back(:
Ari Kelly when did he come back ??
Bby Cali 5 months ya donk 🙄
4 months no contact here 😂
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Literally I was begging for them to stay with me and I seemed desperate ... now that I’m ignoring them I see them wanting to see me and miss me more
Girl I’ve been there done the same thing
I did the same.
No matter how much I begged and cried to her she didn’t care. It definitely does work
Shellsvaldez any update??
H H I let them go... it was more of a pain waiting around and trying to make things work. I had to respect myself and just choose myself instead. No one is far more important when it comes to my happiness and they took that from me. Now it’s time for me to find a new happiness and learn to love myself once again❤️
Ms. Gibson, We are never told old to learn, and never to young to teach. I'm almost 43 years old. I've been to Afghanistan for a year, combat in Iraq for 6 long months. Two additional 6-month tour to the Middle East. I'm still serving to this day (military police) which is 23 years. My point is, I had to be mentally strong for war, but I was not ready for what hit me regarding what happened (content of your video). But I learned a lot from this 10 minute video. You are wise and give great advice. I love you last recommendation about the list. I will use that. Thank you, Ma'am. I hope this comment reaches you. Blessings for your bright future.
Both dividing the NC into weekly or daily weekend increments and writing the list of your ex’s faults are excellent tips! Ty!
I just gave up n moved on with my life if I have to play all these games to get someone's attention it's not worth it ✌
Al Sanchez nice!
Exactly
Al Sanchez yesssss‼️
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I literally counted the days, then weeks, months and now it has been almost 13 months since we last talked. She can get lost, I would never be able to look at her the same way again.
Wow, this is one of the wisest advice I have listened since my ex broke up with me. Although she might never text me, I will not text to her for sure. Thanks for the motivation.
You are amazing! this video really helps to those going through heart pain.
You're powerful don't let your ex show your weaknesses because at one point we have to move with or with out them ...
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact Mike to help he is a genius, you can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701)
8 years ago no contact divorce now never look back couldnt be happier
saltminer s haha
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Very true .. this is first videos of yours which I am watching because I am in pain as well ... one suggestion to all please don't jealous to your friend otherwise you will feel more pain for long time .. just keep in mind there is no hope you will feel better. ...
Thank you for this video. This is exactly the point I have landed on! (for the first time in my life)
I feel like Im almost done/but maybe not with a relationship (my second one). Long story, but here goes. The weirdest thing is that we only know eachother 5 months, but it was such a strong rollercoaster ride, so powerful. But even though our relationship was in many ways something great, our situation, also now with the corona isn't ideal. We didn't see each other for 4-5 weeks, and ultimately I got pointed for a maximum of 3 discussions we had. She dislikes confrontations. And I dislike confrontations also. It seems so small, but somehow has a major impact now.
But in some things I stood for having a confrontation because my belief is that when talking through with someone getting to ultimately a point where we both can stand for and grow greatly from it ( it was very well meant) backfired on me. To make matters worse. Is that this discussion was our biggest and dragged on for a longer time where I tried to pursway her, and she wasn't listening to the point and she was discussing something else. It's difficult to explain how it all exactly went, but let's say we both made choices that we could have dealt with better. Especially because we don't know each other in that sense so much that we don't even know anything about each other in this regard of what we expect, values and so on. Because these are the things you normally only find out in "alternating" situations. And this happened in the time of Corona and these talks happened in text form. So really it's even hard to even convey your emotions 100% through texting, and some things really was taking ultimately harder for her than I expected. She wasn't so nice to me, and between us 2, I was sad for 2 days after this discussion has taken place. I couldn't really be 100% myself to her. But she then approached me addressing this and that's where I stopped being like that and went over it.
But this is where the problems started because she afterwards lingered more and more in negativity and said that I am negative, and coming with conclusions and absolutes. And this now drags on for weeks and to the point where I am mentioned as me being loving, and that my intentions are good, but but I some way of communicating reminds her of her ex, and that is for her super scary she says. While really, Im sooo a well meaning person. I came out of a 12 year long relationship myself and am always strongly caring, trying to be respectful, and so on. And that what she says, is now based on 1 moment where I make a choice to stand by something I believed in in a discussion (what she names as a confrontation).
And everything, our whole relationship is entirely being in the balance because of that. And I am trying my best with well meaning, my love and reason, and good will, but nothing is even nearing her. And the thing I have the biggest difficulty with is that in these last 5 weeks of Corona where this happened, she talked less and less and she says that she has anxiety when she things about me or talks with me. And apparently she once told me she had anxiety with people, but that with me she doesn't have that. But that is aside the point. But she really is now at a point where she doesn't reply to me trying to make her realize that this is all not worth being negative over and to linger so much in and that we need to talk both constructively over this and with good will to grow together and get over it. But she doesn't reply on any of it now. She says she needs her space and time, and see if "this settles". Meaning her fear or something of me (who was entirely unaware) that I somehow remind her of her boyfriend who was was bad to her. It's all getting very complicated, because till 5 weeks ago, our 3,5 months before where ma-gi-cal. And she already said that she doesn't know how to be without me. She wanted to be always next to me, and every possible compliment. And now it's 180 degrees turned with me trying to get in connection with her and sync and let our relationship grow. So again. She said 2 times that she needs time and space and sees if this (her fear, anxiety, or whatever it is) settles.
But I don't know. I have immense difficulty with how she for weeks now doesn't really communicate with me, and now almost not at all. Especially knowing that I was literally everything to her just 5 weeks ago. I feel a lot of pain, and the greatest of this pain is that I cannot talk to her and that Im being left in the dark. A rule I have set for myself even in my first 12 year long relationship that whatever I do, I will always need to leave the other in good energy and comfort, so that that person doesn't linger or is unaware and gets in difficulties. And now I am carrying this for 5 weeks and it's getting stronger now that I feel like I have done and said everything I could have said, even having read so many articles, of professionals, of which I stated 2 quotes to her in my last text to her, that it's incredibly important, as difficult as it may be, to communicate with each other, as research shows it has no therapeutic value whatsoever and impacts a relationship negatively down the line if you dont communicate together, among other relevant things that I feel are important in our relationship. This I wrote yesterday. But alas. No answer.
The other problem is is that she is online on Facebook, and on my work mail (she is a person I know from work and we both fell in love with each other), and she doesn't reply to me but we both work and we both are online. It is such a weird thing to me, and I have never experienced this in my life like that. My last relationship before really wanted all the best for me, and me for her and we always tried that in whatever situation we were in, to handle it. And but I fell out of love in that one, but for years tried to uphold that one, even though I was out of love, thinking I would be able to do it, but ultimately I couldn't anymore. But despite all that, that ex-person of mine, was incredibly well willed and even though she never wanted to lose me, she wanted the very best for me. And she never was angry, she gave her love.
But then this person that Im in this situation with right now, is in such a different way, that everything what I did before, like trying to get to a conclusion in a discussion so that we grow and move on, up to the point of yesterday, that I feel out of option, but to let it fully sail on her way. She only abides by what she feels, and even though I tried to explain things, it didn't matter to her. And just her saying that something changed for her, and that she needs space and time to see how it goes and that she went through a terrible relationship before, and that it gives her double pain of me reminding her of something from her ex, and that that is super scary to her. She also said that she can't write pages about it because it costs her too much energy and then she cant focus on work at all. But she appreciates how much effort and energy I put in our relationship. But first she needs to see if this calms down she says. And that is her last real thing she said.
But I don't know. I have an incredibly difficult time in the last 5 weeks, because we went from absolute magic, with her words being endlessly beautiful, to this state, with now her not answering my last try of coming together and solve it together. No. I'm excluded.
And this is where I am. I feel very sad, although me writing this down somehow gives comfort. But yeah. I guess the only thing that I have is to take atleast my power back for starters.
This is a universal game. It doesn’t just apply to a boy friend/ girl friend life. It can work with siblings, parents or friends.
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact Mike to help he is a genius, you can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701)
“They’re not feeling it as much because they’re the ones that ended it”
Not always true. I was put in a position where I felt like I had to end a relationship, and it sucked so bad..
There are so many different reasons people break up..
True
Johnathan Grey I’m a dude. Broke up with a woman, and no I never went back. But she did try to get back in my life.
True
I'm on the same boat dude. It hurts but it was the right decision
Exactly
After a month, I still cry every couple days. It is definitely really hard to go through this after being together for so long. It’s hard to lose him as a friend as well. Thanks for the advice in this video, it really helps.
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Thanks for this video. 💯 I was the one broken up with and I pleaded like a fool. I haven’t spoken or texted him in 3 weeks now and even though it was so painful in the first week, the depression and all really hit, trust me it gets better with each passing week. I think that was when I started to realize that HE was the one who gave up not me and that speaks volumes of a person’s character. Someone who gives up on you is just weak and not worth your time and love. Be thankful that you are not in that position!
Also, if you’re the one who pleaded to fight for the relationship, don’t ever give him the satisfaction of being the one to first reach out again down the line. You’re just going to undo all the work you did to get out of the mess.
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I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact Mike to help he is a genius, you can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701)
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Crazy how life works and how no matter how much you do for someone they can just throw it away like nun and move on 😣. I just got out of a 6 year relationship and this stuff hurts so bad bc he was my first everything. Some advice I’d give is to block them everywhere!!!! don’t beg or chase pleaseee because they don’t deserve you at alll! It’s gonna b ok !! And I’m here if anyone needs me 🤍 idc who you are pleaseeeee don’t go thru this alone ☹️🤍. Blessings and prayers to everyone in this sad situation 🙏🏽🤍 you got this 🤍 ur worth more than you think 🤍
I still have these thoughts abt me wanting her back after a month of her breaking up with me... nani dafuq do i do lmao??
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Went thru this almost 30 yrs ago before CZcams and all these informational channels existed. Thank God I had enough self-respect to step away and did no contact/ radio silence: Let him taste life without me in his. He came back after 6, 7 months and stayed forever. Married almost twenty years before he passed. Have self-respect if you want them to respect you. Sooo important!
What am I doing with his stuff... he broke up with me yesterday and we are going to meet next week to give us everything we have from each other.
He said he loves me and I‘m a great woman but he doesn‘t think I‘m the right one. And he says there is no reason, it‘s just a feeling ...
Best thing to do if you can? - Agree with the breakup, walk away, and THEN go no contact. It basically speeds up the whole process - they feel insecure and semi-rejected immediately, because you prove your strength and demonstrate higher value. They expected you to beg and plead, so it's a massive blow to their ego when you don't.
You’re literally stunning, so beautiful 🥰 thank you for your advice, I really hope this is going to work 🥺
This is the best no contact video I’ve seen… and I have watched so many. Thank you ❤
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*No contact means NO SOCIAL MEDIA, NO CONTACT TO CLOSE MUTUAL FRIENDS AND NO ONLINE STALKING!* 😌🙌
see the online stalking is my problem 🤦🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽
constantly looking for clues
I cant believe someone broke up with you, You look like an angel
There are dumb people out there you know?!
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@GG T87 you can be nice but demand respect by setting boundaries and not being a walk over
@GG T87 yeees thats the sad part of it, but the great thing is the nicest people ALWAYS win
This is the best video which I ever watched on CZcams . I'm really thankful to you like this video made me realise that I'm a diamond and I deserve more better
You are so genuine and honest thank you for this video
who the hell wanted to have a breakup with a gorgeous women like you....
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You'd be surprised! What most men wish they had other's treat like garbage smh 😕
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact Mike to help he is a genius, you can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701)
Because you are superficial.You dont know her personally
ThE CoNcReTe KnOwLeDgE looks isnt everything. A persons character is. Looks is just a plus
I didn’t talk to him for three days and he came back at me the next day with the “we can still be friends” “we don’t have to stop talking completely” “I still care about you”
Some videos have made me understand one crucial point I see they repeat and that is very true.I am new to this channel but I happened to come across this video because of the obvious reasons.Now I thank you for your words for it has healed me a little bit and has made me understand to calm down and focus on myself and persue improvement as a human being and what I want in life.A big thank you for you.
Omg I did the making a list of the bad things about my ex just few hours before watching this video 😮 You're so vool girl
I really needed this video, I'm going thru it really hard. First time I actually smiled in a while was when you complemented your viewers. Thank you.
Me too, my girlfriend just broke up with me yesterday. Feel like I can't bear the pain. It's killing me. I'm just searching for something anything advise etc to ease the pain and understand the situation
I believe when I work on myself, and I’m ready to be back to my usual self again, he will want me back. I am confident that if we’re meant to be together, we will. And I think no contact is the best way to show me if I really truly want him or not, and gives me time to love myself totally. Thank you for this video.
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You’re brilliant ! Thank you for this video
I love this you’re super beautiful! Thanks so much for this advice .
This is definitely the best no contact video explanation. I've watched dozens. Thank you.
Christal Moore wow thanks!
I watched them all too when I was going through it
Very good advice!!! I recently suffered a break up. It hurts so bad. All I've been doing is texting the girl that broke up with me. I've tried the no contact rule,but i always find myself texting her when i know i shouldn't. Thank you for this wonderful advice. I know I'm not perfect by any means necessary, however maybe this was a sign that i needed to improve myself as a person, as a man. Hopefully i have the strength and the desire to rise to the occasion.
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact Mike to help he is a genius, you can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701)
Post breakup, it's very easy for us to remember the good times and feel bad about the current circumstances, wishing we could go back to how it was. But its EQUALLY important to remember the bad, the hurt, the anguish that came with it at the end to remind yourself of the reason you truly broke up. it helps :)
Wow! Love ya! You have explained it’ beautifully! I needed that.
You're so easy to listen to and come off as real, and I needed this lol. Most stuff about the no contact thing comes from law of attraction videos saying "hey this will work for you" lol I had to see some real people with evidence and advice that they themselves did. Thanks for sharing, you help me feel more confident!
My x broke up with me after 3 years. . . The last 8 months he broke up with me every time we had an argument the last breakup he cut ties a month after my mom passed away . . . I’m getting myself together
1st off sorry about you mother that’s tuff and keep your faith in god 😔 2nd off Wow you are so beautiful my god he lost out. You seem to have a caring heart the right guy would come along.
Hes not worth it move on
His fuckin loss. Im sorry for what happened to you and i can bet that he is the loser you didn’t even loose lovey ❤️ keep on focusing on your beautiful soul
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Remember you are one of the preetiest and strongest Girl in this world...
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I really enjoyed listening to that , its so accurate god bless u❤️❤️
You won me as a subscriber when you mentioned creating the list of unlikeable traits of that person in order to maintain yourself on no-contact mode, especially when you're tempted to violate it. Thanks for that insight. Yours, Roberto.
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