"Why Are You Mean To The Ones You Love?" - BeawCast Ep.28
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- čas přidán 27. 08. 2024
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People get comfortable and forget boundaries exist, that respect is a part of love.
thats a big problem im having with family members. whereas friends respect my boundaries
So happy y’all talked about this because I noticed Geo being ugly to Bart in some of the recent videos. Love y’all and treat each other good! 😄
You guys should try to do a “Only Speaking Spanish For A Day to Bart” vlog for Geo and vice versa in Mandarin for Bart 😁
watch Missmango butt's video before y'all do it its HILARIOUS
Getting your "'wiggles out" is basically doing *eustress* related activities ("good stress") like weights, "shredding the guitar," cycling, painting, yoga, etc to gain endorphins that helps decrease the *distress* ("bad stress") and negative thought process....it's the body's own natural depression/anxiety medication.
Please do a podcast on how to stay calm (anger management) during a disagreement. I know Bart used to smash doors, threw a tv out a window etc which i can relate to but now he has improved alot, so please please do one on how to control unnecessary actions when arguing with significant other. Thanks!
Yessss. It’s been a month but I hope they actually do this. This would help a lot
Geo: Just get me any food!!
Bart: SweatingJordanPeele.jpg
this feels like a true heart to heart conversation with the jk community, i love it :D
I love that you guys are being honest like this and putting this out there cuz all of us have made the mistake of looking at Geo like "she's mean" and I've done this myself in the past and I apologize, but just revealing your true struggles in the relationship and being willing to accept who you are, what you do is sooooo fucking cool to me. I totally fucking understand that emotions sometimes run some of us and it can be fucking hard to just be nice with someone else when you're at this low energy level. So thank you guys for telling us about such an intimate thing that seems to always be the topic of conversation and I hope people now understand Geo a lot more for who she is cuz we all have bad days, we all have bitch days, but it takes her kinda courage to admit to it and A LOT of people don't do that. I think it's better to do something and be able to come clean than repeat behavior and flat out denying what you did, failing to recognize you've caused hurt, so I fucking applaud you guys!!
9:17 - 9:25
I freaking died 😂 I love that they can have fun even during important conversations like this.
They deserve wayyyy more subs and views. I love y'alls communication and mindset.
This is some serious couple talk. My husband and I have had similar conversations, especially after having our daughter. Things get tough and your old coping mechanisms don’t cut it any more because it’s constant stress now, not just sporadic. It’s awesome that you guys were able to communicate and talk it out and realize that some behaviors need to be addressed.
Melissa Jennings hey I just wanted to say that your family (from what I can see in your profile picture) is beautiful and adorable
Bart is such a great guy with a kind heart.
I felt the tension in the Japan vlogs. Its good to hear you guys talk about it. Communication is amazing in a relationship.
I feel you Geo. Growing up latino/hispanic we can be so mean to each other and yet love each other at the same time. I can see why it hadn't really phased you.
I saw the stress and tiredness in every Japan vlog.... specially at the end of almost every vlog... Poor geo....
Yeah sometimes Bart can be like a 2nd kid and it can be stressful...he even admitted it before.
@@sundaze631 all I saw was Geo monitoring taika all the time... And I can understand how that feels... Being constantly mentally aware of your child is exhausting specially outdoors in a new place....
Yeah I think I understand why geo gets upset when Bart isn’t able to do a simple task such as getting food. It’s so draining to make every decision. And he should know what she likes they’ve been together for a decade. He just seems either inattentive of her needs and allows geo to make all the little decisions OR geo really is too picky. But I think Bart just isn’t very attentive with the little details.
@@sundaze631 Yeah.. you bring this up a lot.
No, I don't but i'm glad I have a fan.
I love how you guys communicate your thoughts and emotions with each other. One of the reasons why I just broke up with my boyfriend is that I could never talk to him about feelings or even little issues, when I was always open to discuss and listen to his reasons.
Even if you have a lot of stress going on you still have to think about the other person and never wanting to ever wanting to hurting the other person. We have been married over 26 years When our little girl was a baby you still have to be mindful of the other person's feelings . Communication is the key to a healthing marriage. We have had some not so good arguments like everyone has when they are married. You have to be careful around Tiaka. He will see everything. Y'all are going to do fine. This Podcast is a great way to talk about what everything, keep it up.
You guys are seriously the best!! Thank you so much for always sharing your experiences and wisdom with us. It is greatly appreciated. Love y'all!
💖💖💖 How is it possible to love two humans this much that you haven’t even met and also have found people that think the same way as you and discuss topics you think about too? I’ll never know but they inspire me so much and I’m unbelievably thankful for these two 💖💖💖
I feed my stress with more stress, cause negative times negative, becomes positive
ShadowRealmZ PEMDAS that shit
But if you add stress to more stress, negative plus negative is more negative.
No one:
Geo:
Bart: thank you
I love that bart always says thank you
thats a dangerous mentality for geo to have. that to think the love will always be there no matter if ur being an asshole to them.
Dude. This was actually fun and educational. I'm so glad I took the time to watch today.
Know what was interesting? Bart was talking about the “stress stomach.” Which a was a very interesting and great theme. Bart began to introduce their last product. He said, “ my last product...” then Gio interupted him and said, something like ‘that was a really interesting point and a good place to stop for endorsemnt’ and Bart changed “ my last product” to “OUR last product...” closeness is so interesting to watch. I personally love this podcast so much. I am going through literally the SAME thing with my girl. She is emotional and wants to unload her stresses and I want to have her back and listen to her but she gets snippy and cold when she does so. I am not korean BUT I grew up in a house with, not transactional love, but admittedly conditional love. I empathized so hard with Bart. And My gf empathized so hard with you, Gio. Anyway, this started a dialogue between us at a crucially important time and I wanted to let you know that I love the verbal exchanges you guys have on your podcast. They feel in resibly organic. There’s an authenticity and flawed element to both of your honesty that is so fucking relatable. Gio made the “bean” joke during Bart’s explanation and it was quick and it was obvious that Bart felt it wasn’t the time. He was being vulnerable and didn’t acknowledge it. Gio was completely innocent of not taking him seriously, it appeared but he moved passed it. I really like your podcast, its dope.
I knew geo was doing an all girls podcast bc of the Vegas trip and I’m so here for it girl!!!!! 🥰🥰🥰
That’s Geo innering her Latina!😂😭 Us Latinas are very passionate and bitchy 😭 we really don’t mean it, anyways love these podcasts!!!
Agreed!!! Lol
I did notice Geo getting annoyed at Bart often during the vlogs
Lol what does she do? 👂🍿 I rarely watch their vlogs anymore.
your favorite netcitizen what they were talking about In his video basically just being annoyed at Bart all the time
Thank You for making great content! :) I loved watching this podcast.
I appreciate that you guys are always so real on your podcasts and in jknews. Listening to you guys really help me sort out my feelings about the relationships in my own life. Please never stop creating content!!
Bart and Geo. Idk how to tell you how grateful I am for this video. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and ideas on relationship and stress. Really needed this since I've been feeling super low and idk why. Well...you guys pretty much answered all the questions in my head 😂. So thank you again.
Wow I relate to this a lot. The way Geo reacts to stress is basically me. And the way Bart reacts to / perceives Geo's stress is basically my younger sister. Lol ima need to have a conversation with her after this. I need to apologize. Our arguments over the littlest things get really bad.
sidesideful I think During certain stressful periods of life...people resort to certain coping mechanisms. Geo is rough, says things straight to the point and doesn’t sugar coat things. She might be “bitchy” but hey at least she gets things done and her family doesn’t starve and her business thriving. I think it’s ok be a bit rough in order to get things done. Lots of ceos and bosses are like this too. Just as long as ur not being abusive emotionally. It helps to cope in different ways as well...exercise, write, talk to someone.
Thats why I felt geo wasn’t being into vlogging when they were in japan.
so real! love the conversations u guys have! thank you
Good conversation I really do learn from these thank you
I feel like everything that bart finds fault in geo that she tries to downplay (e.g. bart is being “too sensitive”), geo would turn around and blame him for the exact same thing simply based on her emotional state at the time.
I’ve always been playfully mean to my friends and everyone gets a good laugh, I allow others to do that to me as well.
4:45 I can sooooo relate and I get anxiety so one way I have noticed that is working for me is journaling i thought this was bullsh1t but I try every morning to do script journaling or morning pages and I have noticed that it takes a lot off my mind and I’m a lot calmer dealing with my children and getting my morning routine settled Geo you should try it
Loved the ending I pictured the planets being friends too and having feelings 🥺🌞🌝🌎 awee
I love you Mom and Dad
I fucking LOVEEEEEEE yall
Candy corn is the shit.
You guys are so fuckin real love it
Are you guys able to add your podcast episodes on spotify?
They already are.
Feel so bad for bart. Geo can stab bart 100 times and take it. but stab 1000 times can chip away barts heart an soul. Geo really need do something released a bit of stress or really need a therapy. Bart ain't invincible emotional 1 sided relationship stabbing bag when he trying be nice for her when he c she not in her ups. Poor guy really feel for ya bro. Go Team BART!
Gosh Bart have achieved a lot wow ...
Cause we Feel comfortable with each other to shout cry etc...
Fuck yes. I love geo so much.
Lol husband and wife just staring at each other at the end. Good to see the spark is still very much there.
when i was a kid. the thing you call suicides we called wind sprints. that was in the 80's/90's
"I'm not trying to justify it" then proceeds to try to justify it
I love you guys 😊 you guys give me hope for my relationship with my partner God bless you guys ❤
You guys are the cutest couple ever!
bart killed it
Lol love y'all doing this. I'm not a minority but my family was always very suppressive about mental Heath and just powering through.
Nice to see a couple that's open about it.
Also don't forget to give her props bro.
42:20 Um no, REAL STRESS is figuring out how are you going to pay next month's rent, or having to choose between paying the light bill or gas bill, or finding a babysitter so you can get to work on time or else you'll get fired....lifting weights is a hobby, not a necessity.
Sun Daze he never said lifting is a necessity, he said people should make it a necessity so they can get it done and help manage stress. Much like different hobbies can be stress relievers. It won’t take away from what is happening but it can alter your emotions and reaction to stress because you had some form of release. :)
Stress is a subjective things. Some things that are not considered stressful for you might be stressful for someone else. Imagine lifting weights is a way for you to take care of yourself, keep yourself happy and relieve some of your stresses, you'll be super stressful that you don't get to do something you NEED.
I know he never said necessity but I did....Bart waking up early in the morning working out and saying he has to meet this weight or work "x" amount of time, is "extra work" he is placing on himself that's not as important on the grander scheme of things....yes, it great & important to stay fit, healthy etc but when it becomes like a "second job" where you get to a point of contemplating is this cutting into my "family time" or actually becomes a stressful thing because you didn't workout or hit a goal etc...then it's a lil excessive....so yes, I agree stress is subjective...but let's look at it objectively as possible....hitting a weight goal and worrying about getting evicted...which one would _anyone_ think is _more_ stressful? One is definitely a want vs a need. This is why the phrase "first world problems" was created.
Sun Daze you do realize they own a gym right?
Owning a gym and working out...are two different tasks.
Thats why theres a saying you are MORE exhausted staying at home lol. But your doing Amazing Geo! True Bart never seems stress 😂😂
Yes! Especially when doing stuff like the groceries or cleaning up the house. You can work hard all day long and the house looks the same. But it sure took a whole lot of effort to keep it looking like that and no one sees that effort xD.
You guys have such a cool office space
42:33 Imagine you're in a mma fight and Everytime you get punched you shout things like 'my mortgage', 'my company', 'my wife' , 'my son'..
I feel like Geo's bitchyness isnt even half of my girlfriends when shes in one of her (coined terms) "not so pleasant" moods.
Example: She made me drive back to chipotle over 10 miles away for fucking guacamole one day. Insisted that she asked for it and I forgot but the next morning admitted that she might have forgotten to ask me to get the guacamole.
I’m starting to realize I am a “geo” lmao (not that it’s bad we just have similar personalities)
Yo Bart becoming a therapist 👏🏼😂🤓
This is great I need more real feelings.
I’m a stay at home mom and my husband’s job is very demanding and stressful. So when he has a hard week I make sure I don’t take my feelings hurt I just simply ask him what’s bothering him and then we have at least one day to ourselves without the kids every week to go on a date. It helps so much. And it makes us appreciate each other so much more. We also share the same hobbies like riding our motorcycles
You guys should get different angles on the podcast snd or go live!!!
I’d like to see these two get legit mad at each other. I’m so used to the tender, camera ready side of their relationship that the real stuff would be enlightening.
I cut somebody off today by accident and I saw their really negative reaction in the mirror. I felt so bad, but there was no way for me to tell them I'm sorry in person, and I felt like a piece of trash all day ):
I agree Asian clutter away and shop stauto
Haha B-A-R-S xD
🎵🎵🎼🎷
From 42:00 that’s it right there. All you need to do is workout everyday. 80% of the stress goes away.
Bart holds in tears around 7:20 :(( good on u guys for working it out
Tbh i get why geo was lowkey mad in the plane. Meditation and being mindful of your body will keep stress in check.
Oooooooh who are the late friend lol???
Bart, "Japanese food is safe..."
Geo, "Eww the broth!"
Reminds me of their conversation about how Geo doesn't like ice cream cake but likes mint chocolate chip ice cream...and Bart got her mint chocolate chip ice cream cake. Haha.
lol i feel barts pain, my girlfriend is a bitch too
Its crazy how I'm jealous of Bart for bagging Geo, but then get nervous when they fight.
Ypu guys are so cute!!!! Lol
I remember when I left a comment on the picture in the thumbnail on Instagram it caught fire😂😂.
Can't imagine what Bart goes through. It's funny how the aggression role has reversed in relationships. Men have become more feminine nurturing and females are becoming full on man like cause of woman empowerment and Thier emotional nature can't handle all this power.
Commending Bart for bring a humble dude but, damn dude you need to keep her in check or she will walk all over you and she will eventually take you for granted.
My uncle calls suicides liners
love you guys
awesome just what I need, because my leasing dates weren't lined up! thanks for the clutter recommendation! :D
Lol candy corn will make any day worse. This was hilarious
Sirens at 1:05:22 lmao 😂
I’m just going to say it these episodes don’t even get half the views of the vlogs.
no doubt that they both mean well but i feel like it might be more of a compatibility/personality issue. with geo getting so short and have expectations for Bart when Bart is just being Bart this won't end well. also can't keep saying sorry for being a "bitch" (as geo called herself) cuz that won't dismiss Bart's hurt feelings and it will get old eventually. Geo needs to have more patience as stressful as things are and Bart needs to understand her and just learn to "know" when to make alpha decisions to help Geo out. sorry i love you both.
Hey Bart, try some Aquaphor for your lips. I find it way better than vaseline!!!
Jeremae Delacruz I second this. My filler nurse recommended it for my lips!
Jeremae Delacruz I use vaseline lip therapy rosy and coco butter,it works like wonders for me .
I'm stressed all the time... I distract myself whenever possible.. I escape reality by watching CZcams or listening music or play simple games on phone...
Is that really his twitter on the description? It seems like an impersonator.
Bart you look like Asian Johnny bravo if you squint your eyes and picture the chair your sitting on is your body.
🧡🧡🐼🐻
Yall are cute
Lol geo I thought ur instagram was geo_.com 😛
My boyfriend is always mean to me..
Have a talk
Leave him
I've tried.. I'm just not sure he is even capable of expressing positive verbal things. He teases me alot, I'm the same as Geo where, it's fine IF he showed me the equal amount of love at the same time and he doesn't, just negative things all the time :(
He prolly doesn’t kno how to express himself. Just like me I’m unitentially mean Bc mean was my love communication thru my parents so ima just raw asf but now ik that’s not how it goes
Yeer
4th let’s gooooo
whole podcast is mostly ads