BeawCast Ep.21 - Being Sexually Open With Your Partner

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Komentáře • 114

  • @annelouisemalixi
    @annelouisemalixi Před 5 lety +101

    I LOOOOOVE this podcast. I don’t usually comment, but I love you guys’ channel and your content. But I LOVE hearing about your relationship because it makes me understand the way I am and it normalizes the feelings I used to have since I grew up in a Catholic household as well. I thank both of you for being so open and so honest. It’s genuinely so refreshing-please do more of these!

  • @katiekat1302
    @katiekat1302 Před 5 lety +36

    This just shows how little strangers know what goes on behind closed doors. Bart and Geo were always deemed the ‘perfect’ couple by viewers BUT they were experiencing the exact same problems that we all do.
    This type of honesty will encourage younger viewers to strive for what feels right to them, as opposed to seek this ‘perfect’ relationship, that never existed in the first place.

  • @islandfantasy5931
    @islandfantasy5931 Před 5 lety +33

    I am so happy you guys didn't give up. There are so many married couples who give up and start having affairs before getting a divorce.

  • @Lalalalala...
    @Lalalalala... Před 5 lety +84

    I love this! I remember their gf/bf videos from back in the day

  • @borntobelucky02
    @borntobelucky02 Před 5 lety +60

    I found your vlogs from JK news and I'm addicted.
    Taika is adorable and I learned so much about you guys, your lives are so interesting.

  • @dearbrittny
    @dearbrittny Před 5 lety +9

    This was so raw to watch. I really appreciate Bart and Geo for opening up so candidly about the problems in their relationship.

  • @crazyandfunystuf
    @crazyandfunystuf Před 5 lety +52

    I think therapy is something everyone should do if they can, it is not just for people with problems.

    • @Pumpkin0_0
      @Pumpkin0_0 Před 5 lety +7

      Yeah, everyone should talk to someone professional for the heck of it, because something small can create a snowball. Someone who's perfectly fine can prevent a worse mental state over time. It's a dark example, but people always seek therapy like it's a last resort, so it's like *waiting* to be terminally ill instead of having common checkups every once in a while in case they have cancer or an illness of the sort to stop it early on. The mind deserves its checkups as well, even if it's balanced right now.

    • @SS-vt1hb
      @SS-vt1hb Před 4 lety

      I absolutely agree with you. But the systems and government need to make it more affordable

  • @aLovelyDay4Love
    @aLovelyDay4Love Před 5 lety +4

    Best podcast episode I’ve probably heard and seen ever, from anyone. Absolutely life changing. These guys have no idea how much they mean to people and their lives

  • @ElT0r0fuerte
    @ElT0r0fuerte Před 5 lety +55

    Did anyone else screen go black when they were doing the sponsor?

  • @allessiaella6744
    @allessiaella6744 Před 5 lety +2

    THANK YOU GUYS! You have no idea how much I appreciate this kind of content because it just goes to show how people go through shit, even the couple that you look up to as super perfect and can never imagine that they were ever on the brink of break-up
    Just simply brings everything thing to reality...that we are all human beings, trying our best to maneuver through life and work through our own problems that have been created through our experiences in life

  • @marinae06
    @marinae06 Před 5 lety +8

    Wow genuinely loved and needed to hear this podcast episode. I appreciate you two so much and how open and candid you two are about your past struggles, relationship etc. this episode brought a lot of in-site and was much needed, thank you ❤️

  • @kimmehkinzz
    @kimmehkinzz Před 5 lety +6

    Absolutely loved this podcast! I love how open you two are about your relationship! Thank you for giving us a glimpse into your lives and how you guys communicate!! Love these healthy conversations

  • @martins4860
    @martins4860 Před 5 lety +7

    This podcast was Brilliant and thank you for opening up . You guys brought up so many memories and make me think. Stilll waiting on the application to be Bart’s friend.

  • @lionessprowess3581
    @lionessprowess3581 Před 4 lety

    Definitely one of the best topic ever. So relatable. Everyone goes through some kind of rough patch. I couldn't comprehend what it means to "work" on your relationship to keep it healthy and going until now. It's always nice to hear other couples going through the same struggles. It makes me feel normal and less lonely. Thanks guys🤗

  • @TopazMagicGirl
    @TopazMagicGirl Před 5 lety

    Thanks guys for being so open! I have almost no experience in the relationship department and often get nervous when I think about all the intricacies and ups/downs of relationships, so it really helps to hear you guys be open and real about it. It helps me and others who may feel the same see that the ups and downs are natural, that they can be worked out, and that they aren’t something to be so nervous about~ :)

  • @ghostnight845
    @ghostnight845 Před 5 lety +14

    Yeah you guys are awesome for being that open.

  • @elizabethhinojosa1047
    @elizabethhinojosa1047 Před 5 lety

    It’s extremely crazy how much my husband and I can relate! We both come from a catholic background and we both recently were way more extremely open and it’s helped our relationship 100% and this podcast just makes me feel 1,000% more normal to feel the way we were feeling when we were insecure or thought something was wrong. Thank you guys ❤️

  • @jennijubilant
    @jennijubilant Před 5 lety +3

    What Bart mentions about Geo wanting total equality between the two of them stemming from insecurities...Wow. I didn't think about it that way, ever.
    I see it more from Geo's point of view; I want the relationship to be "fair" in the sense that I don't want my partner working like a horse just so I can live comfortably. I want to bring something to the table, too. That way, we both offer tangible value to the relationship instead of one person just giving/taking all the time.
    Also, if shit ever goes down, I know I can at least support myself without relying entirely on someone.

  • @LizzKillian
    @LizzKillian Před 5 lety +1

    This is probably my favorite episode so far. I love that you guys don't hold back.

  • @xxxmx4568
    @xxxmx4568 Před 5 lety +7

    Sexuality isn’t the only thing you need to open up about. Self reflection and what your resenting kills what’s going on outside of that. Figure yourself out first. Than others. You can also do it together

  • @sigh9913
    @sigh9913 Před 5 lety +1

    Wow, I love you guys. I don’t have the best role models at home but thank you so much for keeping things real and raw.
    I learn a lot from you guys. I love you guys so much. I appreciate everything y’all do.

  • @leticiacurumaco8487
    @leticiacurumaco8487 Před 5 lety +24

    Or parents put it on mute and they tell u cierra los ojos jajjajaj who else can relate

  • @Anthony_Agu
    @Anthony_Agu Před 5 lety +4

    Thank you so much for this video, super helpful. Probably my favorite episode!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @dominicgonzales5852
    @dominicgonzales5852 Před 5 lety +6

    Yo geo on to something... when she said , "geeez i didn't realize that we would wave to work on a relationship everyday, like why woulf we fo that to ourself". Maybe thats the type of person you should find, where going thru that grind is still worth it... to be with them

  • @itaniabaez
    @itaniabaez Před 5 lety +6

    She said I’m in high school !!! Bart you heard right!

  • @serbswish
    @serbswish Před 5 lety +1

    best one ever, I never comment, I'm from Sweden, but this episode was the best one, It made me and my partner, for the first time feel normal in our relationship, wow thank you so much

  • @babychubs15
    @babychubs15 Před 5 lety +4

    I got bit by a mosquito, I'm suing Bart and Geo for it, I was distracted and the mosquito got the best of me! All see the 2 of u in court!

  • @staciegarcia5966
    @staciegarcia5966 Před 5 lety +1

    I understand what Bart was saying about Geo’s Vulnerability. I am like Geo in her thought process of being a burden and wanting to be equal and what Bart was saying made sense because the reason I want to be equal is because I don’t want people’s opinions of me to be based on my dislikes or negative sides. When I do voice my insecurities I feel like I’m being dramatic and there’s no need to voice them cause what’s the point. But after doing so I feel like my partner has a better understanding of who I am and it wouldn’t hurt to do it again. It’s still so hard to do but I try my best so I can better connect to the ones I love. So they know who I truly am beyond my actions.

  • @Shugsicles86
    @Shugsicles86 Před 5 lety

    Y'all are the best. I love how open and honest you both are and I really look forward to these podcasts every week.
    I would love it if you guys could talk about the way you communicate and how it's changed over the course of your relationship and marriage. I would assume it's different depending on the stage of your life. How has it evolved and changed? I would think that the way you communicate changes depending on each other's moods (for example when Geo is PMSing I would think that Bart would know to be a little more forgiving), or when you hurt the other person's feelings, etc. Also, how do you communicate when you fight (past vs. present). You guys touched on it a little bit, but some more concrete examples (and more detail) would be great!
    I just feel like the way that you choose to communicate with your significant other can be the single most important factor in whether a relationship works out or not and people generally don't put enough emphasis on it. Again, because of how open and honest you guys are in your podcasts I think that it would be super beneficial to others if you guys would talk about this topic and your own personal experiences.
    Thank you for all your hard work! I really love watching your vlogs and adore you guys like you're part of my own family. Keep it up and more importantly, keep it coming!

  • @omarhernandez361
    @omarhernandez361 Před 5 lety +15

    11:31 Gio said _"In"_ not _"out"_ sorry I just had to point this out, now I'll keep watching the rest of the video!

  • @melissaruiz3768
    @melissaruiz3768 Před 5 lety

    I'm glad you guys shared! I had a similar experience two years ago but the issue also grew bigger and we ended up splitting up last year. The fact that I was unable to communicate and understand what my issues in the relationship were made for a messy breakup. loved this episode guys ! :)

  • @EdwinYee1
    @EdwinYee1 Před 5 lety

    Do a cast on how to love yourself and drawing the line to not be cocky, specifically to improve yourself to attract women/men. Does it mean to have a career goal? Finish college? Have a well paying job?

  • @karlove17able
    @karlove17able Před 5 lety +1

    This was a dope topic. One that me and my fiancé can relate to. It’s cool to hear your journey in the story of you two. I appreciate what you shared with us today. The JK family is filled with amazing people who want to uplift their audiences.

    • @karlove17able
      @karlove17able Před 5 lety

      I would absolutely love to hear your next topic be about healthy disagreements.

  • @alejandracanal6054
    @alejandracanal6054 Před 5 lety +13

    I never clicked so fast 😩😍❤️

  • @cassieselement
    @cassieselement Před 5 lety

    Super related to this and found it so helpful. You guys will always be my favorite couple and family on CZcams! Thanks so much for being open about what it takes to get to your relationship level. :)

  • @josephsebastian4467
    @josephsebastian4467 Před 5 lety +3

    That deep demonic voice Bart did had me rolling😂

  • @austinxiong7848
    @austinxiong7848 Před 5 lety +1

    28:22 thank you!!! I wasn't the only one!!! 🤣 lol

  • @unit0186
    @unit0186 Před 5 lety +3

    I love this podcast but I wish you guys would put this in spotify or soundcloud to make easy when I can't use CZcams.

  • @Evolvewitheleanore
    @Evolvewitheleanore Před 5 lety

    I love the sponsor for this video!!!! Thank you thank you ❤️

  • @tgirllannister4819
    @tgirllannister4819 Před 4 lety

    This podcast topic is so fking real. I like to rewatch it bcuz I can relate to it.

  • @rockyourjawshua
    @rockyourjawshua Před 5 lety

    Love you guys for this! Thank you

  • @jonathanlobe509
    @jonathanlobe509 Před 4 lety

    Very helpful. Thank you B. and G.

  • @waldothedepressedbear1999

    Imagine Taika in 15 years going thru and reading these comments and watching this video 🤣🤣

  • @elenajoos3200
    @elenajoos3200 Před 5 lety +3

    Watching these always makes my day :) ❤️

  • @BuBs1970G
    @BuBs1970G Před 5 lety +2

    I don't get angry when my boyfriend watches porn, I just get very sad and insecure. Seeing Bart and Geo talk about this together so openly is nice, but I know it'll take me years to be as chill as Geo and Bart.

    • @petrosking5588
      @petrosking5588 Před 5 lety +7

      Maybe the feelings you have are just who you are. You shouldn’t lessen what you feel because other people seem ok with it

    • @katiie7
      @katiie7 Před 5 lety

      I just think it’s hormones if he didn’t have hormones he wouldn’t be doing it. If he loves you and treats you right I don’t think it’s a huge deal

  • @asiakz2198
    @asiakz2198 Před 5 lety

    Omg I can relate so many things you guys talk about. I appreciate your amazing content.

  • @NavAK_86
    @NavAK_86 Před 5 lety +1

    The word Geo was looking for is ''Disillusioned'', but it means being free from your delusions.

  • @somename1690
    @somename1690 Před 5 lety +2

    The ones who don’t even watch the podcast are the ones who are saying it’s boring.

  • @Zhcwu
    @Zhcwu Před 5 lety

    I actually learned a lot of this from behind the scenes of porn stars, but porn has come a long way from the 90s, there are still many genres but the main vanilla porn stars talk about relationships and intimacy etc which i find very helpful.

  • @loveesamanthaa
    @loveesamanthaa Před 5 lety

    Golden advice! Thanks guys!

  • @imnotsurewhy
    @imnotsurewhy Před 5 lety

    You guys are like the parents I wish I had.

  • @felipuno9235
    @felipuno9235 Před 5 lety +1

    Understanding that your parents did their best, and knowing that you're convincing enough to influence them for the better, is how you get free from the spirit of judgement or anger. Playing God is too much of a burden for human beings which were made to praise God. Discerning and acknowledging that improvements need to be made is different than judgement though. It has the other persons interests at heart. Justice was completed at the cross, that's why mercy can be extended out to everyone. Even those close to you, that have hurt you.

  • @sandrag3259
    @sandrag3259 Před 5 lety

    Loved this podcast!

  • @underground6756
    @underground6756 Před 5 lety +1

    love these

  • @lovejinie4569
    @lovejinie4569 Před 5 lety

    I loved this episode!

  • @momentous7417
    @momentous7417 Před 5 lety

    You guys are my dream goals. #fightallday #realAsF #openrelationship

  • @SS-vt1hb
    @SS-vt1hb Před 4 lety

    I HIGHLY RECOMMEND INDIVIDUAL AND COUPLE THERAPY

  • @LauraLopez-hl6by
    @LauraLopez-hl6by Před 4 lety

    LOVE THIS !!!! 😭

  • @Danielgonzalez-kr4lm
    @Danielgonzalez-kr4lm Před 5 lety

    Bart how are you so comfortable hearing about Geo's past experiences with other men. Does it not bother you. I struggle with this with my girl. And I understand it's all in the past but for some reason it just fucks with me here and there. Hope you can give me your perspective

  • @rianap9976
    @rianap9976 Před 5 lety

    Loved this‼️❤️

  • @piglink10
    @piglink10 Před 4 lety

    21:03 That's a pretty good Bart Simpson

  • @zeryang85ify
    @zeryang85ify Před 5 lety

    Maybe I missed it on the info box. But I didn't find the website or promotion code. So now I just spent another 20 min looking for it..

  • @alexvalero2067
    @alexvalero2067 Před 5 lety

    Liked before it started

  • @natmartinez2092
    @natmartinez2092 Před 5 lety

    Geo and I think so much alike 🤯🤯

  • @jennt9066
    @jennt9066 Před 5 lety

    Love all your content, s'great you guys are in the podcast game now. Just a note to skyrocket it, less 'um' and 'like', to keep it profesh.

  • @typicalmegaman
    @typicalmegaman Před 5 lety +2

    18:00

  • @UncleAlpha1
    @UncleAlpha1 Před 5 lety

    Who is Geo older sister??? We never have seen her.

  • @TIMLOUIEBRAVO
    @TIMLOUIEBRAVO Před 5 lety +4

    Lol damn Bart finally called Geo out. So true. See how she's fidgeting in her chair side to side all nervous and scared while Bart just sits still and lays it on. Ever since she became a mom and contributes less, she has become super insecure. You can tell by how over the top she has to be on everything, and knee jerks to every comment she gets. Has to jump on the feminism bandwagon to try and empower herself and make up for her contributing less.

    • @jackson8303
      @jackson8303 Před 4 lety

      You must be like 10 years old. You really said Geo is contributing less after becoming a mom. That's about as much contributing you can do jackass.

    • @miguelsanchez2230
      @miguelsanchez2230 Před 4 lety +1

      @@jackson8303 you completely missed the point

  • @Alex_0341
    @Alex_0341 Před 5 lety

    Wait Am I the only that heard them said they almost got a divorce???

  • @HowardSantiago-qn4kv
    @HowardSantiago-qn4kv Před 5 lety +2

    Also being open to what happened to your dog (Briggy)

    • @katiadjemoui4997
      @katiadjemoui4997 Před 5 lety

      James San what happened ?! U mean losing her back in the day ?

  • @tiffanylin6936
    @tiffanylin6936 Před 5 lety

    Bart's girl voice sounds a lot like laura cerny lol

  • @samatyanchinov6449
    @samatyanchinov6449 Před 5 lety

    Here's what I like: you both.

  • @phatnguyen-qh9hu
    @phatnguyen-qh9hu Před 5 lety

    Bring Andrew yang at a guest

  • @chelseythai2110
    @chelseythai2110 Před 5 lety

    another one c:

  • @reactjoemaliajuggalo1572

    🧡🧡🧡🧡❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @sonyyaaj
    @sonyyaaj Před 5 lety +1

    Cmon we all know Geo been cheating

  • @itaniabaez
    @itaniabaez Před 5 lety +5

    Delusional in Spanish is not even close .. geo you never want to be wrong .. that’s your problem

  • @andrewreyna9227
    @andrewreyna9227 Před 5 lety +1

    First I think 🤔

  • @Pauloveskim
    @Pauloveskim Před 5 lety +2

    Geo def cheated on him lmao

  • @zarifaghul2603
    @zarifaghul2603 Před 5 lety +3

    Tbh i really dont like the podcast thing.. just want to watch a vlog of your day

    • @DaKurupt19
      @DaKurupt19 Před 5 lety +1

      Then don't watch or listen to it?

  • @Justsayinbruh
    @Justsayinbruh Před 5 lety +6

    I haven't watched any of these Beawcast nor do i plan to bc they are extremely boring. I miss the good ole days where there were skits. Oh well

    • @Chic014
      @Chic014 Před 5 lety +8

      Just Sayin no one cares about u

    • @moneamonae1928
      @moneamonae1928 Před 5 lety +14

      Nah these videos are hella cool. Skits are cool but these type of videos give you a insight on who they really are and give people real advice and stories.

    • @BriceTooNice
      @BriceTooNice Před 5 lety +1

      Boring if your just sitting watching the screen podcasts are good for driving/working if you can have headphones. I listen to podcasts everyday at work so its all g to me

  • @LizzKillian
    @LizzKillian Před 5 lety +1

    This is probably my favorite episode so far. I love that you guys don't hold back.

  • @sonyamonkey
    @sonyamonkey Před 5 lety

    Keep these videos coming guys ! I really enjoy and find these videos especially this one super helpful and incite full . 🙂

  • @LizzKillian
    @LizzKillian Před 5 lety

    This is probably my favorite episode so far. I love that you guys don't hold back.