Don’t Make Marriage Difficult Because of Mahr | MuftiMenk & Bilal Assad
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📌In Islam we don't sell our kids with a dowry and a bride price; there is no dowry or bride price there is only something known as a #Mahr which is a gift from the #groom to the #bride subhanAllah. Allah made #Nikkah(#marriage) simple in order to avoid Haram. Both #MuftiMenk and #BilalAssad bring forward the matter that sometimes People make marriage hard because of Mahr so that Youngsters fall into Haram in this video clip with #Englishsubtitle. One definitely shares a portion of the sins if he/she is guilty; May Allah make it easy for us. Mufti Menk mentioned the famous Hadith of achieving Jannah (#paradise) for raising #daughter in Islam
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People make zina easy marriage difficult.may Allaah azza wa jall guide to Qur'aan and sunnah Aameen
No worries, mgtow exists. Men don't have to get married. It's a fraud
I am 24, looking for getting married, with the pious woman, who have pious father, brother, O Allah, please guide me to the straight path, keep me away from sins, and keep me from those who spread evil, ameen
Ameen May Allah grant you a good wife insha Allah
Yh same insha'Allah
Ameen but now a day’s people made marriage very difficulty.
Don't. Go your own way. You don't need a woman. Marriage is a fraud.
May allah protect us from zina ameen
Assalamualikum mufti menk jazakallah khair so much what u saying is so true pls make dua for my nephew he was supposed to get married in October this year but nikaah called off cause he don't have enough money for wedding pls make dua for him my brothers an sisters in islam
Ibn Abbas (RA) reported that the Messenger of Allah said,
“When one of you wants to approach his wife with intercourse he should say,
‘Bismillah, Allahumma jannib-nash Shaytaan wa-jannibish Shaytaana ma razaqtanaa.’
(O Allah keep Satan away from us and from what you grant us.)
If it is decreed that they have a child from that intercourse Satan will never harm it.”
A phrase that's often come to mind to me is that we take cuture religiously but relugion as if it was just a culture,
we're often exagerating the value of our cultural traditions (that usually would be over-ridden by religion anyways and under-valuing tge priority of religion) we're making things much tougher and putting so much importance on things that don't matter that the actual priorities are left behind
I only want a HOLY QUR'AN for my MAHR😊
Accepted, sending you a Quran now.
@@silentraven4582 🤣
Very good, Maasha Allah. A very nice mahr, Alhumdulilah.
This is really interesting. From the american side it is very messed up also. It is like everyone has forgotten what it takes to maintain a good relationship.
The MAHR that I want in THE FUTURE from my FUTURE HUSBAND it's only a HOLY QUR'AN 🤭 THE BIG ONE, GREEN COLOR,n there's a translation in it😉
SubhanAllah 👌
Have you gotten married? I wonder if you actually did it
Why not a trip to ummrah as well sister? A share of the house he buys for you & your future children....& A tree in the garden for shade. A one honeymoon trip after five years or ten years of marriage to keep things alive.
May Allah guide us to the right path.😊
His hard working an just started a job make dua for him
Arahuma Amiin
Aslkm sir mashallah nice. I have daughter&son inshallah allah give good life&health&deen Ameen.
May Allah subahanalah watawala guide and protect all of us. Haj Mufti Menk may Allah blessed you .
Arahuma Amiin
The guilt of not paying mehr is really high
I am soon to get married but I don't really have a good salary now but i feel embarasshed as a man as I cannot give sufficient meher
Are you married now?
Bismillah
Let it be an easy thing...
The best is the simplest, the easiest...Mahr..
MashAllah,
Jazokollohu khair for all of you.
The only difference between Mahr and Dowry is it happens the reverse way (of dowry).
Married for 7 years, I made it clear to him, I forgave him for the 7 grand and told him instead, I want gold set, under 4 grand affortable price. I reminded him after 7 years and his response is, you are telling me this now! Was I suppose to remind him? It was his duty hé did not oblige.
Coming from a happily married man of American Syrian ancestry that is happily married to a lady of Pakistani Punjabi ancestry, dear brothers (fathers) keep the mahr reasonable. Keep it simple for the sake of the couple. A very good question to ask the young man that is interested in marrying your daughter, is "Son, How much can you afford?" May Allah bless all of us, Ameen.
Brother how many years have you been married ? Where did you meet?
@@Sa-od9ke I have been happily married for about a year. We met through Facebook, Alhumdulilah. And we got married in Dubai.
@@Sa-od9ke I personally think some Arabs are crazy when it comes to the ridiculous amounts of mahr they like to charge a young man to marry one of their daughters.
@@sean87arnaout sweet 😊👍💐happy to hear this.
@@Sa-od9ke Thank you, JazakAllah Khair 😊
Sister I know married the for halal and right reason marriage failed completely
And her brother the fornicator drunkard married a innocence girl and treats her like a sex slave and maid marriage still surviving how is this possible?
SubhanAllah .Ameen .
Bismillah
What is fathema mahr? Is there any dalil for this? Some people use this.
Please translation to Malayalam
but sir, plz understand in places like india women r sexually harrassed, nd hqrassed to death if they fail to pay dowry to men, at least men cant b sexually harassed
I want to talk with counselor Mufti menk. I don't know if the mistake was from my side or from his side.. I don't want to share my relationship problems in public. How can I contact him?
Without giving mahar can husband intimate with wife
MAHR IS THE IMPORTANCE ONE😉EVEN ONLY $1 MONEY
as Muslims we must fear Allah swt and not change the deen to suit our needs, unless we want Allah punishment to come upon us,
two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then one [marry only] from Quran...
And you will never be able to be equal just between wives, even if you should strive [to do so]. From quran from Quran...
Allah said
Verily, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and he forbids immorality and bad conduct and transgression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded.
Surat An-Nahl 16:90
And Allah says
O you who believe, be persistently standing firm for Allah as witnesses in justice, and do not let the hatred of a people prevent you from being just. Be just, for that is nearer to righteousness. Fear Allah, for Allah is aware of what you do.
Surat Al-Ma’idah 5:8
“A man who has two wives and who is completely inclined to one and who ignores the other emerges with one side of his body paralysed in the Day of Judgment.” (Hadith; Ibn Majah, Nikah, 47; Mishkat al-masabih, 2/196)
A woman does not consent to share her husband with another woman under normal circumstances, and no woman would like to marry a married man unless she has to.
It is a necessity of belief that polygamy is right. However, to believe it does not necessarily mean for a woman to consent to the second wife and approve it.
No believer father would like his son-in-law to marry a second, third or fourth woman along with his daughter. The jealous nature of the woman and the affection of the father for his daughter disapproves this. As a matter of fact, the daughter of our beloved Prophet, Sayyidah Fatima, objected to her husband, Ali’s marrying of a second woman. If it weren’t permissible to object, Sayyidah Fatima, who was brought up by our Prophet, would not have objected. The Messenger of Allah would have warned her and ordered her to consent to her husband’s wish. However, it did not take place like that. On the contrary, the Messenger of Allah, who saw that his daughter was worried, asked Ali to give up his wish and told him that if he did not give it up, he could marry another woman after divorcing Sayyidah Fatima. He did not consent to Ali’s second marriage to depress his daughter.
By considering that act of the Messenger of Allah, it can be stated that Muslim daughters and fathers may object to the second marriage of their husband or son-in-law.
If a male makes 100k a year how much should he give in Mahr please answer I want to know.
@@popcornto6032 that still looks too high. mehr should be a gift.
"$50 is a disrespectfu offer" she is the one setting the mehr price. its not disrespectful at all to ask for little. marriage should be made easy. its not a business deal
i dont do that i kknow
Subxanallah
If husband does not give mahar is their could love between them ir this is haram
Never ask your dad they don't know jack shit ... Always ask your mother she knows best
I never ask my dad, I only ask ALLAH 😇. I can't ask my mother 😔 cause she died when I'm 14 year's old 😭
April Sweetly I’m sorry that sucks
I believe some father have a lot of knowledge about marriage. And some mothers also have a lot knowledge about marriage. They both got married after all even though they may have gotten married at a different time. But we can still learn from them and ask for help. And inshallah God will help us all.