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I was dating a woman who had already divorced twice, one of which was the baby daddy, and he was paying child support to basically hardly see the kid. She actually had the nerve to make it seem like I know nothing about marriage because I've never experienced it yet. I pointed out to her apparently she doesn't know anything about marriage either since she was divorced twice already. That comment changed the entire relationship and in hindsight, glad I was honest.
Amen
Please, tell me you didn't marry her?
@@MeneerHerculePoirot sure didn't 🤣
I can relate!!!
CITY BOY.......CITY BOY.....😂Game, set and match with that reply! Well done💯Hope that you have a blessed one🙏
If a woman gets bothered by a prenup don’t put a ring a on her finger. She will screw you financially
Here's the problem with this thinking. If you find a good woman who has been raised to see marriage as it is meant to be (UNTIL DEATH), of course, she'll be bothered by the idea of a prenuptial agreement. It's a clear sign that there isn't full trust in the other individual.
Now I'm well aware that a good woman is like finding a needle in the haystack nowadays. But if you're that convinced that a prenup is needed, might I suggest you forgo marriage altogether. Or do the ceremony and make a vow before God WITHOUT signing a government document. It is better to be without the government involved rather than relying on another government contract to try to save you from a mistake.
@@francoblu9498 I rather sign a prenup and get married in a church under God instead of signing that fraud government contract
@@francoblu9498 Shes not a good woman who wants a marriage till death if she gets upset about a prenup. If she was a good woman, She wouldn't care about the prenup because it would never be used at that point.
No woman is a good woman if they believe prenup is a bad thing and the person who initiates divorces 75% of the time are women.
If a guy wants to marry a woman, that means they trust them, if they didn't trust them they wouldn't marry them, the problem is women like to break trust so easily. Just think of prenup as part of the marriage contract and not as "the thing that says someone doesn't trust them" because only the untrustworthy would be upset with prenup.
What does a guy gain from divorce? Why would he marry someone who makes nothing just to divorce them later?
@Jayy You do realize that prenups are additional documents to a government involved marriage, right? They have no standing otherwise.
If you're only making a vow before God, which was one of my suggestions, a prenup wouldn't be recognized as binding. But you also wouldn't have the government in your pockets. Win/win.
Edit, to add an analogy to further my point. Prenups are like women learning self-defense. It'll make you feel safe unless you come across men who truly wish to do you harm. The men in this analogy are "progressive" states. Know where you are. If you see they recognize common law, say no to marriage in any form.
@@francoblu9498 so in your view/words a pre nup is bad?
I'm telling any woman that I start to take seriously about prenups BEFORE the "we love each other" stage/phase. I also tell her this will eliminate her trying to emotionally talk me out of it after 1-2 years. 11 women stopped dating me, exiting with insults. 1 woman stayed. She asked questions and expressed concerns. I explained how they worked, and now she's ALL IN.
I told my wife this 1 day prior to marriage. "Am I what you want?" She said yes. Then I said "do you consider me a traditional man?" She says yes. Then I said "Ok. If we're gonna get married,... you should know that I'm traditional up to the day we take those vows. Because there is going to be 2 pieces of paper darlin. A marriage certificate,....and a prenup. So you should think on that awhile. You may not want my protection, resources, time, and attention if you may have to leave with what you came with. Nothing. So let that truly sink in sweetheart". Without skipping a beat she said,...."no need. I'll sign it now if you got it.". I was relieved to say the least. I chose well.
Bit of a mean way to phrase this for someone youre wanting to spend the rest of your life with. Rather condescending.. but then maybe thats just how u speak to someone you consider beneath you
@@NG-sw3fi Uh oh. This one in there feels. Ok. Let me put it in a way you may understand hot rod. When a man is going to invest in something that is considered a high risk, high yield venture??? He must do certain uncomfortable things in order to protect his asset's and wealth. Those things will involve conversations , court precedings and so on. So this behavior is very common in the real world for a man of status. Very common.
So when I finally decide to offer my hand to a whole human being that I must protect, feed, clothe, and provide for,...???,.....I must treat it with great care. So when I sit her down to disclose this information,.....it is purely to inform her of the arrangement. So you see honey,.....if I thought she was beneath me,.....I would wait until the day of the wedding. Which,.... incidentally, she had $80,000 I provided her to plan the wedding with. Plus she was extremely pleased with the 💍. So as we are sitting here reading this, we are flabbergasted at the victim blaming and SJW hive mind behavior. The hyena gallery in believe they call it.
So listen up sis. I'm his wife. You are salty because you know deep down,.....you could never get, or secure a man of this stature. So,......like he outlined previously. He is protecting his hard work. As he should. It tells me he is intelligent, and very resourceful. It also tells me that he will never make emotionally
charged,(hint hint😉) irrational, or dumb desicions concerning our livelyhood. Let us know how that dating is goin sis.We'd love to know.😏
Good luck with that.
Yours truly,
WINNING 😂
@@NG-sw3filol nah, some people don’t like to sugarcoat crap
A prenup guarantees equality in the marriage. Otherwise there's an imbalance in power that makes the relationship abnormally fragile. It wasn't always like this. But that's where we are now.
🎯...Women...And the court system, have All of the Power in Divorce...men have little power....!!..that is how it is nowadays... Probably started during the 1970s
Back in the day I was making well over a million dollars a year and my significant other didn’t work and stayed at home taking care of the house. Every Sunday morning I would give her $800 cash and told her to spend it on whatever she liked so she wouldn’t have to ask me for money all the time. First week I gave it to her she comes back a few hours later and she is all excited and says “look what I got!”…she then proceeds to show me towels that she bought for the house!!! Obv she was a great lady so I had to explain to her that this is for you not for household expenses etc. She said she understood perfectly but that’s what she wanted!!! Who was I to argue. I treated her great and always did nice things for her and bought her clothes and jewelry and her opinion was “what more do I need since u already spoil me !!”” It was a great dynamic tbh!!!
@@Good-Enuff-Garage no. We are not together anymore and we are still friends and my money is still mine. Lolololol but that’s was rich!!!
Lucky man, that's a woman that wants to help build a home and your status not just hers.
@@carloscardona8425 should've stayed with her man, she sounds like a keeper
Perfection
Yeah that sounds like a good ending to me lol
Me and my wife have had separate accounts since before we got married…no arguments about money…unless it’s date night then it’s who asked who out…I agree with the three accounts makes it easier
This is some Valuable Information.
And in ALL Prenups when Huge amoungs of money or property is Involved... Cheater Clause. if She cheats she gets Nothing. Downside is if she agrees to it in This "wording", it only Punishes HER if she Cheats.
Prenup should never be a tool of punishment. Only a fool would sign a prenup that only protects/punishes one party involved. Thats a bad contract, never sign something like that.✋️
A prenup is a step in the right direction but putting things in to a trust is locking it like granite!
Or just don't get married that's the best bet that you're not going to lose half of what you worked for!
It weeds out the gold diggers/ un esteem able women, and strengthens the marriage because now she has to stay just like him, so they are forced to work on their problems, issue, and grow together.
I did the exact same thing, got a prenup, and we have separate bank accounts. We have the best marriage of anyone I know.
I wouldn't b mad if I had 2 sign 1. I completely understand shit happens.
Any man, regardless of income, needs a prenuptial agreement. Otherwise, you are leaving your future in the hands of a family court judge who’s strongly predisposed to bias towards the wife.
I only came onto Bet-David recently, he's really great to listen to. I agree, smart man.
That's what i do wit my girl....we ain't married but she doesn't make anything near what i make so i give her money and she can do whatever she wants wit it
Mandatory dna testing and prenups would cut some of the problems in modern relationships
“Why sign a contract that will incentivize the women to break it”…. I’m thinking he meant why not sign it
I think he was referring to marriage itself. Not the prenup.
If she ain't gonna sign a prenup, she ain't the one. Cause the right woman will have the same view of what marriage should be as you do
Make a prenuptial agreement, if she stay home mom get her an account and put som $ inside there depending on what you earn by doing so you will never be under pressure and control. Spend your money to buy her something that you feel the way to buy it whitout being asked.
i heard a lawyer say that stay at home mom's are the worst to divorce cuz if you give her money she still depends on you and thus she can still get money from you even with a prenup. You have to prove that she can support herself without you. Which means she needs a job or her own business which many men don't want her to have ironically...
I agree. Get a prenup. Saves a lot of stress and helps protect your assets.
She still need to work. She not getting no account where I'm just putting money into and she's not. It will incentivice her to spend whatever and just come back and ask for more. Then if she don't get her way she acts a fool. I'm not going to an early grave while a woman sits back and enjoys my money. She'll go before I do if she's not godly enough
A Trust is harder to subvert vs a prenup. Prenups have been voided because they said they signed it under duress, coerced, etc. A Trust is different. Of course seek the legal advice/guidance from a lawyer in your area.
Words of wisdom right here💯
Everyone gets married with a state default prenup. If up to the couple if they want to create and use their own.
I got married objectively poor so I wasn’t thinking of a prenup. I now earn a decent 6 figures. My wife knows how psycho I get. I am not motivated by money; I seek freedom then power. Money allows me to achieve freedom and power but no money also allows that. I will give everything up and leave the country.
All it takes is having a kid for the man to lose his money. You don’t have to be Married, but paying a female adult alimony would drive me crazy. Also I’ve heard that courts have overruled prenups before. Maybe I’m wrong but I don’t doubt it.
My wife makes $200k a year. I don’t make shit. No prenup. I guess my situation is different because I don’t buy stupid shit….and I’m a man
Prenups get thrown out as well tho so you're still rolling the dice just getting married regardless
I’ve never wanted to get married. I’m also my only one in my friends group that still has all his money and stuff.
Take it from a man who is in the middle of a divorce, get a prenup. I messed up and thought she loved me. Nah fam, protect yourself bro.
Nah, modern men like games and modern women like attention
MTR talks a good game, but best believe he'll end up getting married in America...95% of these red pill guys are performers
This isnt about "not getting married". Its about making wise choices for you, and for youre future partner.
I support prenups, but I didn't get one with husband. We married poor and we worked up together. You're most likely to stay with the man you grow with.
All TRUE
He gives good advice, his wife is my first cousin Jennifer 😊
Facts this is what me and my wife do we have 4 accounts 1 personal account each this is where our wages go into we then have 2 joint accounts one account for bills and one account for savings that needs both of our signatures to take money out, we put over half of our wages into the bills and then a quarter into our savings account the rest stays in our accounts for us to use on what we want the amounts put in for the bills adjusts depending on the cost of living we discussed how much goes into what accounts and revisit this as needed we've never had an arguement on what the other is spending their own money on
The average person doesn’t need a prenup. Just make sure your spouse is working. A fill dates a bum stay at home spouse.
Simple
Might as well be roommates and never get married. Learn how to pick your spouse and be on the same page in these 4 areas: Family, Children, Spirituality, and Money. If you can't get on the same page about these before you get married then don't bother. The statistics prove that couples who pool their incomes together and have the same money goals are more successful in the long run. Only when the assets majorly unbalanced do you think about getting a prenup.
Dont get married without a prenup!! Makes no damn sense!!
Facts
I think there is this kind of preconceived notion about prenup and what it actually is and what it can do for both of you. It isnt just about protecting the one with the most assets, it can be about what ever you two decide as parters. In my opinion, its very much needed. All sorted out, not in case of a divorce(although it covers that as well) but in terms of the relationship. Sit down with youre partner and decide together what should be put in there and sign it together, with both of youre lawyers and let it be. Its a good way to lay down the ground rules for the relationship.
I’ve heard of women including that they don’t clean windows or bathrooms in their prenups 🤷🏾♀️. People act like prenups only benefit one person in the relationship, not so.
Theres no deciding when the laws favour women over men.u live in ur bubble
@@KD400_ you clearly havent done any reseach about this topic, just want to be negative. So be all you want.✋️
@@jennaeveliina313 I have done every research about this topic. Stop being ignorant. If ur married good for u. Go and look at the other comments and u will see other men saying how unfair the law is. I'm not being negative I'm saying the truth. But ur just a typical woman who lives In a bubble.
@@jennaeveliina313 it's easy to say this when the laws favour u. U will never understand what men have gone through so don't try and pretend that u know everything. Quite frankly men r tired of western women. So they will have an issue when women speak as if they know the male struggle. And ur subscribed to Kevin Samuels lol. Kevin would have said this to ur face what I'm saying lol. Ur just being hypocritical
This needs to be the modern mindset with modern marriage
I agree 💯
Also, the pre nup should be written by a lawyer so it holds up in court.
Most definitely get a prenup she not going be talking half of my hard earned money and she didn’t do nothing especially if she the reason things didn’t work out
My Dad did this with my Mom. No contract but had separate accounts. Rarely an issue
Finally... THE RIGHT FRASING.... WHY SIGN A CONTRACT THAT INCETIVIZES ONE PART TO BREAK IT
Don't get married don't give into the system prenups can be thrown out due to the ex-wife saying that they were under pressure to sign that prenup it will get thrown out and then you'll be screwed.
Absolutely, Absolutely, Absolutely the remedy. Until one ☝️ of you either gets greedy or messes up badly.
Years ago I wouldn't have agreed to it. But in today's times, women aren't what they used to be. There seems to be a chance at a failed marriages, I would tell any man that would get married today to go for prenup 100%.
I've found the solution to the present to my girlfriend before offering that prenup
🖤💯🖤💯🖤
Hes not even married or marriage minded. Why are you listening to him.
Hes not trying to be married. How are women incentived to break it? Lawyers get paid either way
estate planning makes sense to me
Prenups get an unfair reputation of being exploitative. In fact, they can be completely reasonable and fair. The more reasonable, the easier both parties will be willing to accept its terms. Nobody should be a “hard no” on prenups without at least putting forth terms.
Been on that PBD since 2020💯📈🤌
Prenup = 💍 non-negotiable
And what's easier than all this nonsense? Don't get married. At the _very_ least til the divorce system gets a complete overhaul.
That's most likely never gonna happen
Yeah that'll never happen especially in today's society. We live in a men are trash society.
Avoid yt man papers, set yall terms and sign it.
💯
HAFEEEEEEEEEEEEZ
Be a Ninja, MIS-INFORM them of how much you have and make MULTIPLE accounts, backups for your backups FOR your backups.
Sad that men HAVE to resort to do THAT these days...
Pre-nups or put your assets in a trust.
He was doing okay until he said give her my money.
Men dont have joint accounts...keep your stash
Don’t prenups also help when death is involved? Since it’s marriage related, the prenups can also help divide assets and what not. Correct me if I’m wrong though. I’d mainly do a prenup for that reason alone, not for divorce purposes.
If a woman has a problem with the idea of a prenup, then that's definitely a sign that you need one!!!!!
To be fair, I fail to 👀 how a man who is not 💍...can advocate for a prenup.
Just a thought MTR...
Every man should get a prenup
Even if you're broke right 😂😂
@@sodvine3486 if you Wanna do it for that reason sure go for it .
@@josvanivado5920 to keep your brokenness. Kool
@@sodvine3486 I never said I'm broke but you're broke then that's up to you
@@josvanivado5920 never said you were broke. I'm speaking generally.
We don't have a prenuptial but we still have our own bank accounts and we each keep our money. We then pay for household expenses together. He has a hobby and I don't stress because the household stuff is taken cared of. I also like keeping my money for my own sense of security. Both my dad and mom instilled in my having my own money in case husband left me.
I would never get married w/o a pre n.
I don't think I could ever give anyone full access to my account
😂😂😂😂😂 wow it's scary how doing wrong is praised, but staying true to someone and having honest intentions is frowned on.
Step one if you are a God Fearing man perhaps really get to know a God Fearing woman.
Step 2 Build a friendship.
Step 3 Let friendship blossom over the years as you live and experience that special person.
If she has honor, courage, and commitment to making you happy and adds value to your life, and as a man you realize you shouldn't let her get away because of your investment into the relationship... then 👰.
Why have marriages if there is no trust anyways.
I mean if you actually took a couple years to get to know someone you'll find out whether or not they have HO tendencies and won't run off with the next bigger bag😂. Taking time is a horrible thing for the right now minded.
Lol 😂 do you know the rate at which prenups are thrown out. Just under 50%.
But please be aware... ((NO JUDGE IS OBLIGATED TO HONOR YOUR PRE-NUP!!!)) There's always LOOPHOLES to every law and women KNOW how to jump through them. If they don't know, their lawyers will inform them.
All a woman gotta do is stand in front of the judge with some tight clothes on - CRYING, WAILING & MOANING about how you're kicking her into the street, and how she ((DIDN'T KNOW WHAT SHE WAS SIGNING)) - and there's Loophole #1!! Women are FAVORED by the courts, so they can give almost ANY excuse and they will get whatever they want. So that excuse alone can invalidate your pre-nup!! She can say you FORCED her to sign it, she was AFRAID that if she didn't - something would happen... there's a TON of excuses to invalidate your pre-nup!!
Then if you show up with a FOREIGN bride - you're REALLY fuqqed!! Because NOW they can use - NOT ONLY the excuses above, but also the excuse that ((SHE DOESN'T CPEAK ENGLISH WELL) - So now you look like a pervy trafficker - preying on foreign women who can't even speak the language - especially if she's way younger than you. BE SMART MEN... DON'T GET MARRIED IN USA!!!!!
If you want a wife & family - GO LIVE IN A COUNTRY WITH LAWS FAVORABLE TO MEN.... OR YOU'RE FUQQED!!! Go look up people with Pre-Nups who still had to PAY.. Dr. Dre is ONE of them - She got that Brotha for HUNDREDS OF MILLIONS!!!! I'm telling you.. DON'T GET MARRIED HERE and if you live in a "Common Law" state - don't even let one LIVE with you or you're DONE!!
If I have the money, I would give her an allowance. Get her an investment property and she has passive income. Even when you divorce, she still has that as source of income.
How'd that work for Dr Dre?
In Poland you dont need a prenup coz by law ywhat you had before marrige is yours e d of topic
I'm not prenupping lol cause my was work just like me when we meet I made credit better cause I owe IRS u have to everybody in place
Call me crazy but isn't that the purpose of a prenup? To protect your assets?
#1 Stop getting married in the US.
#2 Get a Prenup that is airtight like in the Philippines.
#3 If you aren't Christian why are you getting married? This is a Christian principal. Holy Matrimony. This isn't for everyone.
Fool.
That's funny because even the Holier than Thou christians get divorced. All the time. Marriage isn't sanctimonious anymore like it once was dude. Quit with that Christianity shit.
Marriage pre-dates christianity
@@CZcamsowl278 Christianity is just the representation of a new covenant with God. Fact is that God created the union of two by blood after Eve and Adam disobeyed him. You know this by the Blood Pact and how God commanded that they shall be bound by Physical Laws now. So I'd say you are lacking massive amounts of info.
@@HiPlayerProdigy first off, Adam and Eve were never married. Secondly, Christianity stems from the Christ, hence started during Jesus' era not Adams. Thirdly, all this is according to christianity and not the general worldview. Not everyone is a christian, so your God isn't all that important than other religion's Gods and each religion has their own claims
That's why you gotta be rich before you allow a woman into your life.
I think if you not religious you shouldn't get married
Cd account make ur money make money
Islam
My mans, you need to fix that beard..
Most men don't have to worry. If you earn 60k and she earns 40k, unless you have a house, you probably don't need a prenup.
If you live somewhere with alimony, definitely get one so you can write the alimony out.
Protect what you have, but lets face it, the average man has the same as the average woman.
Bc you’re promising life with that other person in that marriage contract. Forever. You’re not supposed to be worried about losing your money.
It should be like that, I agree, but that’s not what is happening in reality. Most divorces are initiated by women, specially because of financial matters.
well if it's truely forever this model should work pretty well seeing that in the case where there is divorce, neither party lose.
You're one of them. Pretence
Prenups can have so much more put into them, then just the things that would happen if the marriage ends up in divorce. Its a contract that should never favor just one party involved. And only a fool would sign a contract with bad terms.
This is sad. Watch Dave Ramsey.
Explain
Dave Ramsey is amazing!! Look at us money hungry chicks being responsible about our own finances 🤣🙄
@@karnage2948 derp 😂 that’s why she said watch Ramsey, that’s the explanation.
🤣😂 tht fckn retrd boomer no1 cares what that old man has to say whats he gona tell me "give a firm handshake" "save for 70yrs"
Lol another woman who doesn't understand marriage laws favour women lol.