Learning how to navigate through the grief process | Dr. Henry Cloud
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- čas přidán 6. 09. 2024
- Perhaps you're facing a divorce, job loss, or shattered dreams. No matter the circumstance, confronting grief is crucial. Experiencing grief is a journey. You might have come across the Kubler-Ross stages of grief, but it's a common mistake to think of it as a straightforward path. Dr. Henry Cloud explains grief as more of a recurring cycle than a linear progression. You might reach a point of acceptance and later find yourself back in a state of protest. This is natural.
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I could be wrong, but I think that Elizabeth Kubler-Ross's model came from studying grief in the people who were actually dying, not the family members. But in my experience with grief, I do see these various emotions intermingled sometimes. The good news for me is that I've never seen the Lord waste anything. All of it He can use in furthering His kingdom.
Understanding the HUMAN Steps of
GRIEF is the LIGHT and START POINT
in managing the MAZE & SHACKELs
of PAINFUL GRIEF & LOSSED
Gods cont…CAREs & BLESSINGs
over you and your
BELOVED ONES 🕊🤍🕊
16:10 - ...I don't know if I can adequately express... but.. it's this LAST part... I think, that literally saved me... SO well spoken, and Full of truth. Thank you for reminding us of Jesus's invite Parable.
And I know This is what I meant in the end regarding the poem I wrote in my other comment.
I Will Not Give Up... but invite OTHERS to the party I'M gonna have... called Life.
***
I Wish I could come see you. For some sessions...
But I'm afraid I'd just waste the time sitting there Crying through the whole thing.
Wow. I love that. "Go & invite some other people to the party that is your life".
Thank you for sharing your personal experience.
Last year my sister took her life by suicide, it has been a difficult season of grieving. When you described the “protest” stage it was spot on…
Grieving is such a unique experience, as I have also lost a friend to ALSS in July, such a sharp contrast of how I grieved for each of them. . . I did not have the duration of “protest” for as long for her. Thank you, again.
😢😢😢 Thank you soo much!!! To name a few griefs (they’ve been with me all my life) I have had a family of origin that’s been hard to understand all these years and recently just lost a brother in law at 15 years old. This video was more impactful than you’ll ever know!!! I am a woman of faith too and I LOVE your dream- but yes when it is gone there’s no denying it… my husband and I similarly lost his career and the entire lifestyle that completely effected our young family.
Sometimes the biggest grief is losing something we never had. Disenfranchized grief, something Im experiencing to the fullest and not processing well. Almost 35, childless, marriageless, no career while silmutaneously holding onto a sliver of hope ill get married and have a child or two.
Thank you so much for all the examples of grief!! I recently had to remove myself from my family of origin. It hasn’t been a healthy situation for a long time. It took serious health issues on my part to realize what I needed to do. I realize now I’m grieving after watching this video. 😢 but joy comes in the morning!
I’m so glad that you brought into the conversation the grief of careers ending and failed dreams. This is helpful. I loved my career once. I believe I can do that again.
Hello Dr. Cloud, I am new to your grief counseling. I've been trying to get help with help my severe guilt; which now I have learned that it's called complicated grief. But I noticed the other day that there is traumatic grief and I am in that. I know that because it is extremely hard to get through the day, night too. I feel like I can't do anything, like I'm going to dieor maybe I should die. I called you 3 times after I discovered you have a number to call and I thank the Lord. Both times it was busy, then interference. I need prayer that God can give me answers I need and help me cope with my 2 recent losses, my brother and fiancee. I can't watch TV, listen to music, etc.
Just when it was getting good you say "ill end with this"
I thought "Noooooooooo!"
Im trying to hold onto the essence though.
I needed to hear this, thank you
Thank you so very much
13:10 - but you HAD it... for-a-while.
You had it.
You Had SOMEthin... of it...
for-a-while.
14:35 ... I get it, yes.
But I'm Here
And not There
And don't Know
What is fair
What is up
What is down
As I'm blind
To what's found
Do I stay
Do I go
Say that yes
Say the no
Wait for change
In my chest
In the song
Of behest
Fight in faith
Speak for life
Stay the course
Pains of rife
Judge the time
Leave the main
Ask if love
Is in vain
Hours en-mass
Stay the Trust
Do I dare...
Yes
... I must.
***
Do I, or do I not
(fgb (c) 10-28-23)
Thank you, so helpful and alleviating
But how can I get past the passing away of a dear family member?
How can I find a life giving essence … and a new beginning past death.
Even with my Christian belief in eternal life - but it’s so hard.
Can you help?
It's bn 4yrs.since my divorce &still KNOCKED DOWN I JUS NEED 2 FIGURE OUT WHO IM WIFE MOTHER WAS ALL I WAS MISTY LEFT YRS AGO HELP ME FIND HER PLZ
How can I heal from a break up when he said he hated me?😢😢