How To Deal With A Toxic Boss ? 05 Practical Tips Given | Watch Till End To Get Full Clarity On It
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Tips - How to conduct at workplace.
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1. Don't fight your colleagues' battles.
2. Don't indulge in gossip (chugli) at the workplace.
3. Don't increase the aura of the boss by bitching about him/her. Whenever you make somebody an object of laughter (uphaas ka patra) or demonize him, you are increasing that person's energy. Don't make your boss Gabbar otherwise his aura keeps increases. (Politicians at times try to instigate you so that you hate them)
4. Do not make friends at the workplace. You would never know what would they tell and to whom which may be used against you.
5. Do not become vulnerable at the workplace by exposing your life, your personal troubles
6. Increase your Aura and presence at the workplace - Always wear better clothes than your boss. Your shoes should stand out. A person who gets better dressed gets more respect even in the same job.
7. Always speak with your boss in English even when he tries to speak in Hindi. It's a formal language and it helps in maintaining distance. Hindi brings you closer.
8. Boss may not have work himself, so don't talk to him all the time.
9. Show yourself as busy. Be efficient so that you can work fast but do not deliver fast. It should take the same time.
10. There is no point in being a team man / team player. Somebody else gets the benefit of it. Either somebody at the top or some other person in the team due to team politics.
11. Maintain professional boundaries with everyone at workplace.
Identifying a toxic boss
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1. Wants to own you, own your time, control your life
2. Has no personal life
3. Has completely set personal life
4. The person who doesn't let you have lunch
5. Doesnt do anything meaningful himself, so would not let you do the same.
Dealing with a toxic boss
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1. Call out his toxicity in private.
2. Don't discuss with other colleagues.
3. Tell your time, your boundaries.
4. Work will happen this much only and in this much time only.
5. Keep social distance with this person. Do not let him know about your personal life.
6. A person is same in all lives personal or professional - Not different in two places.
What if the boss says - "I am not happy with you"
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1. Don't defend or justify anything.
2. Say my wife, parents, kids no one is happy with me, even I am not happy with myself. But you seem to be happier - please guide.
Some Golden words
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1. Baatein wahi chubhti hain jo sach hoti hain
2. Pyass aise hi nahin bujhti, time lagta hai. Poori pyaas to marne pe hi bujhti hai
3. If you want to be like a king, remember that a king doesn't talk to everyone.
🙏🏼 awesome trainer and life guru
Sometimes good people are fired due to internal politics. If a project failed, then the blame has to passed on someone chosen as scapegoat. Many times great people are eliminated this way. Sometimes straightforward and honest people are removed because they ain't bootlickers.
Yes 💯
I agree. Toxic people do exist in corporate. For no reason, no need they will trouble you. They'll ask you to be logged in even when you have competed your task but their task is not yet completed.
I agree with you
Very true
Tips - How to conduct at workplace.
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1. Don't fight your colleagues' battles.
2. Don't indulge in gossip (chugli) at the workplace.
3. Don't increase the aura of the boss by bitching about him/her. Whenever you make somebody an object of laughter (uphaas ka patra) or demonize him, you are increasing that person's energy. Don't make your boss Gabbar otherwise his aura keeps increases. (Politicians at times try to instigate you so that you hate them)
4. Do not make friends at the workplace. You would never know what would they tell and to whom which may be used against you.
5. Do not become vulnerable at the workplace by exposing your life, your personal troubles
6. Increase your Aura and presence at the workplace - Always wear better clothes than your boss. Your shoes should stand out. A person who gets better dressed gets more respect even in the same job.
7. Always speak with your boss in English even when he tries to speak in Hindi. It's a formal language and it helps in maintaining distance. Hindi brings you closer.
8. Boss may not have work himself, so don't talk to him all the time.
9. Show yourself as busy. Be efficient so that you can work fast but do not deliver fast. It should take the same time.
10. There is no point in being a team man / team player. Somebody else gets the benefit of it. Either somebody at the top or some other person in the team due to team politics.
11. Maintain professional boundaries with everyone at workplace.
Identifying a toxic boss
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1. Wants to own you, own your time, control your life
2. Has no personal life
3. Has completely set personal life
4. The person who doesn't let you have lunch
5. Doesnt do anything meaningful himself, so would not let you do the same.
Dealing with a toxic boss
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1. Call out his toxicity in private.
2. Don't discuss with other colleagues.
3. Tell your time, your boundaries.
4. Work will happen this much only and in this much time only.
5. Keep social distance with this person. Do not let him know about your personal life.
6. A person is same in all lives personal or professional - Not different in two places.
What if the boss says - "I am not happy with you"
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1. Don't defend or justify anything.
2. Say my wife, parents, kids no one is happy with me, even I am not happy with myself. But you seem to be happier - please guide.
Some Golden words
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1. Baatein wahi chubhti hain jo sach hoti hain
2. Pyass aise hi nahin bujhti, time lagta hai. Poori pyaas to marne pe hi bujhti hai
3. If you want to be like a king, remember that a king doesn't talk to everyone.
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❤❤❤ Bhaut sahi ❤❤❤❤
Perfect
In one of my company I worked, my boss asked me to stay back, I stayed back, next day I claimed conveyance. He asked me" What work did you do? I replied" You ordered me to stay back and I followed it". From then onwards, he used to make sure I leave the office right time!😀😀😀
Lol😂
super
I think my boss is similar.
Good and talented peoples are never fired because if they were fired, they will work for themselves and will create a better life...
You are so right .. all toxic bosses have horrid personal / married lives . So they can’t see another person happy . Many even have extra marital affairs or look forward to having one in the office premises . I know this much from my experience working as an officer in Govt sector .
💯 true
Lol
My boss is married and got some other girl pregnant
Lol
You are a true Guru in simple cloths. Your advice will save people from heartattack. Great person
Never make friendship at workplace----Million dollar quote. Workplace par kaam se kaam hi rakhna best hai
Thank u guruji aap ne ye gyan hme batya ase realistic topics laate rehna please youth ko bhot zarurat h iski
Jabardast sir...pls give this speech in offices too. It'll change work environment. You're great.
I'm planning to sit and tell my boss that his disorganised work schedule is not something i want to manage. I want to work in an organized manner and leave on time. Also, WORK IS NOT A PLACE TO MAKE FRIENDS, IT IS ONLY A PLACE TO WORK .. most truthful
Thank you very much sir... Thanks for sharing knowledge with us. Respect you very much sir.
Your teachings never found in any books, colleges , schools also taught by any parents.
Really helping us to lead peaceful , relaxing and happy life.
I dealt with my toxic house-owner exactly in the same way. It has worked wonderfully well 😜😇
Very practical advice, sir. 🙏
Thanks sir....your advices are very knowledgeable and practical..
Awesome counseling sir Ji❤❤❤
Great knowledge..!! Really connects with times 🎱
Sir bilkul apt hai mere liye...
SIR THANKS AGAIN FOR "TRUE KNOWLEDGE."
Sir thanks for creating this video
It’s a superb content which is difficult to get without experience
This knowledge shared by you would indeed be a blessing for many
Thank you so much sir. U r absolutely right.
absolutely true . reallly agree with your words sir
Are sirji.... Apke mantra ne to Kamal hi kr diya. My boss is completely change and her boss is also in fear that I do not complain HR. The boss of boss has given a tight slap to my boss😂
well expressed
bas aap hi ho .baht motivate karte hi hume
Very true sir❤...
Dekhi hai Sholay, gabbar bhi yaaf hai, baki 90s ke bachpann mei Kaala bandar chalta tha. Ps - Bohot badhiya video
Thanx sir . These all things is happening with me in govt. Job in punjab .
Dear Sir I follow your videos, aap jo jo bolrahe ho... ek ek word i can feel.. thank you for your guidance.
You are 100% rght🙏
Yes ,sir !
One of my favourite videos❤
Thank you Sir 🙏
Very nice Sir, so valuable information. Please share the information for toxic lady boss.....
Very well explained sir... notes are really worth following...
Thanks Vinod ji .pls share
Thank you sir I need this tonic
Always respect your self esteem.
Y, nice tips 👍🏽
Thank you🙏
Sir ji tussi great ho 🎉
Superb ❤
What an analysis sir👌
Thanks
Yes sir you are truy👍🌹
Ek video..how to deal with toxic partner /husband par bhii bna dijiye 😅
U r great person 🎉
Very much convinced
Sir
Please expand on the point of how people get powerful if others gossip or hate them
Good topic - gabbar syndrome
Very practical suggestions. 👍👍
Thanks.pls share
@@SangoLifeSutrasit's ofcourse without saying 😊👍
Maza aa gaya
Nice video
Gabbar wala example nice
CORRECT EXPLAIN THANKS
true sir
Omg so true, i have been treated bad not given valuable work and im working in a hostile environment. My direct lady manger not sure what personal problem she has with me. She has problem for me on each and everything i do. Please advise what i must do
sir thanks for such an amazing lessons , i have a question for you sir
What should we do if an office colleague speaks ill of the boss in front of us? How should we respond?
Udargottufying performance ra mama
Nice informative video boss's???
Nice topic Sir but there are less opportunities available as far as job is concerned in our country what one should do in that situation? Please clarify. Thanks
Improve your knowledge and skills related to your Job.
Improve your communication.
Yes G
Notes in the description are worth to read. If you can understand, apply it. Nothing like it. 👍👍👍
Good evening Sir🙏
Sir please please please aise videos aur banaiye... Isme gyaan atleast free me dijiye sir jii... Youth needs your guidance a lot
Plzz make video on toxic colleagues...as in communication they don't response
Y, sir you are just amazing
Thanks
hope this video reach every toxic boss
Yes
Aaj kal log physical relationship tak bana lete hai...or pata chala eska promotion ho gaya..agar boss har 3mahine me outing rakhee sanjhaao.....pta nahi log office place le kise kerlete hai
How female should mange finances before and after marriage?
YES SHOLAY
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I love your insights and a regular viewer, though I understand hindi but has some trouble with some vocublaries, please keep your audience like us in context and use some simple lingo - dont mind please, i dont want to miss your even a single word
Kacche baniyana nahi pehen ke jana chahiye 😂😂 guruji mauj karadi
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Sach mai mai bhi बड़ी परेशान hoon na to job kerte बन reha hai na kerte बन reha hai
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Par one thing if he says k ham bhi to esa hi kare hai ye hi hai hamara bhi schedule to ham kya baat kahe sir ..
Staff pr b bnaie . Unhe lgta hmare bina kaam hi ni chlega . Tarref kro to choude hote h . Kuch smjhao to argue krte h . Shrafat ka fayda uthati h .
Seen sholey
Y 😊
मैने monster boss की गळतिया collect करके company owner के जरिये ब्यांड बजाया...🔥
My boss always keeps bringing up my personal matters. And when he starts asking/ sayin things,he goes on n on n on ,it gets irritating. M jus frustrated. He's got no life literally n even he knows it and admits he's toxic that's the reason fr it. N yet he harrasses others.
I regret that i find the video very late.
I have seen many videos for proper solution but none of them are as clear as you.
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I hate the 2nd kind of boss.
Meri boss itni toxic hai retirement ke baad bhi picha nahi chod rahi building walon se mere pith piche milkar dosti kar rakhi hai aur yahan(residence) mein bhi harassment kar rahi aur ek stupid relative se bhi mil kar yeh log dimag kha gaye hai,jooth phela rakha(highly jealous)...life destroy kar di.want to get rid of them.
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Agar tumhare pass paise nhi hein aur tumahare pass property hein tumhare paribar vale tumhara paisa kha rha hein