The Straights Being Okay

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Komentáře • 849

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Před rokem +1652

    We’re so conditioned to seeing ‘straights not being ok’ that my eyes are still adjusting to the title. They can be ok? That’s nice.

    • @Geo_TV
      @Geo_TV Před rokem +111

      I know some very amazing straight people.
      Some of the best people in my life are straight.
      My cousin when his girlfriend got hit by a truck spent every single day in the hospital room with her and would argue with her father that he had every right to be there.
      And when she woke up the first thing she saw was my cousin's face.
      Unfortunately life is very unfair and his girlfriend passed away in the hospital shortly after.
      Her father was at work when he got the phone call my cousin was sitting next to her holding her hand as she drew her last breath.
      When I told him I was bisexual he told me that he hopes that I find someone like he did
      No matter who they happened to be.
      He would love them just as much as he loves me.
      That mindset is how every single human should have. When his girlfriend got hit by that car my cousin was at work he dropped what he was doing and went straight to the hospital.
      He almost punched his boss when he was denied being able to leave.
      He just walked out and went to the hospital.
      That is a sign of love and as a straight person he should be the role model for not just straight people but every one in the world.

    • @okamiangles7121
      @okamiangles7121 Před rokem +25

      @@Geo_TV
      Wow! That's a very touching story! 😭🥺🥰

    • @Geo_TV
      @Geo_TV Před rokem +23

      @@okamiangles7121
      Thank you.
      Technically speaking my cousin isn't an actual "cousin" our moms were just friends as we were growing up and we think of each other as cousins.

    • @imperioushearth5837
      @imperioushearth5837 Před rokem +28

      Almost typed Yes we are And than remembered im ace 💀💀

    • @osheridan
      @osheridan Před rokem +17

      @@imperioushearth5837 mood

  • @sheepishwolf
    @sheepishwolf Před rokem +1644

    There's no problem in being cis, straight or whatever. The real issue is being a miserable and disrespectful human. When you are prejudiced, then you are not okay. I'm a straight trans guy, but I have no right to be homophobic just because I'm straight. And people shouldn't be transphobic just because they are cis, as well. Anyway, thanks, Jamie! Love your vids.
    Edit.: Wow, I didn't thought people would actually read this. But obviously fools are right below commenting foolish thoughts. For those victimizing about "we can't discuss anymore😭", I shall say: yes, it in fact happens. As I said, your gender/sexual orientation/color don't matter when it comes to morality. It's something people should have, but keep failing and forgetting what it means. Do you know which kind of person already hurt me in my life? Any kind. White, black, cis, trans and all of them with their own sexual orientation. But seems like you, losing your time arguing in the comments of a comment of a video from a channel from a guy you don't even like, would never stop and think that exactly 100% of logical, evil and stupid creatures in this world are from the same species of yours. Because we are all 𝘩𝘶𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘴. That's what any annoying victimist with a haughty inflated ego or trouble-seekers like you share in common. 𝘏𝘶𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘵𝘺. To be a selfish, depraved social parasite, you just need this. 𝘉𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘩𝘶𝘮𝘢𝘯.
    (But for those who gave me likes, thank you all! I'm glad to see some people understood my point).

  • @CareyHAuthor
    @CareyHAuthor Před rokem +918

    I work at a nursing home and a woman came in to visit her husband. We chatted for a minute while she signed in and then she said, "Well, I'm off to see the love of my life." I said, "Aw, that's so sweet. How long have you been together?" She said they were high school sweethearts and he "still makes my toes tingle when he kisses me." It was sooo cute!!

    • @Travelling_Ghost
      @Travelling_Ghost Před rokem +56

      Aww that's adorable 😆

    • @Nobert594
      @Nobert594 Před rokem +40

      Goals

    • @CareyHAuthor
      @CareyHAuthor Před rokem +57

      @@Nobert594 I know!! She came to see him every day. I think he passed while I was on Maternity leave because I never saw her when I came back

    • @princessthyemis
      @princessthyemis Před rokem +11

      Aw!

  • @DinosaurNick
    @DinosaurNick Před rokem +370

    The cutest part to the lesbian wedding is they may not have necessarily come out as gay ... they may have been bisexual or pansexual etc .... but the fact he was best man on both sides instead of being petty over his exes marrying each other is freaking adorable

    • @science_bear
      @science_bear Před rokem

      Ok Aldrich

    • @DinosaurNick
      @DinosaurNick Před rokem +7

      @@science_bear Huh? What is an Aldritch....?

    • @science_bear
      @science_bear Před rokem

      @@DinosaurNick Anderson Aldrich is the non binary ether shot up Club Q, a gay bar in Colorado.

    • @DinosaurNick
      @DinosaurNick Před rokem +3

      @@science_bear um ok

    • @DinosaurNick
      @DinosaurNick Před rokem +2

      @@science_bear So what you're saying is ... 1 non-binary person attacks a gay bar ... and that makes all of us extremists who want to kill gays
      Ok well using your logic. Every man is sex offender, and all humans are serial killers, and all white men are racists, all cops are bad, all cis people want to kill trans people etc

  • @hopeswansonsmith4645
    @hopeswansonsmith4645 Před rokem +184

    My baby was just in a phase of saying “dadadadadada” without assigning meaning to it and my husband kept saying “mamamamama” to him to try to balance it out.

  • @JayeEllis
    @JayeEllis Před rokem +263

    My grandparents were married 65 years. They had rooms next to each other in their nursing home, and would sit in their wheel chairs holding hands. They died two days apart, and we had a double service for them, with all the grandkids as pall bearers. No one will EVER convince me Grandma didn't wait so Grandpa could go first.

    • @kiarona.
      @kiarona. Před rokem +22

      YOU MADE ME CRY 😭
      THAT IS SO SWEET AND SAD

    • @transsnack
      @transsnack Před rokem +32

      @Star of Europe I mean, it's believable. Elderly couples tend to follow each other pretty closely. It's called the Widowhood effect. While it isn't totally understood, the current leading theory is that the surviving spouse can't withstand the stresses of grief, physically or mentally, and they tend to die shortly after their long term partner.

    • @nat3007
      @nat3007 Před rokem

      It doesn't always happen my grandad is still here three years after my gran died and they were an elderly couple both in their 90s

  • @WantedVisual
    @WantedVisual Před rokem +376

    To anyone not menstruating without a trash can in their bathroom: imagine the sheer luxury of not having to walk to a different room to clean your hairbrush, or throw out a Q-tip, or a tissue you used before realizing you'll clog your cruddy apartment toilet if you try to flush that. You do not need to bleed to get permission to have it. You can just go to ikea, spend twelve bucks, and LIVE THE DREAM.

    • @fulana_de_tal
      @fulana_de_tal Před rokem +41

      it always baffles me that people in other countries don't have trash cans in their bathrooms, because in my coutry, every toilet has it's assigned trash can next to it, it is because we trow used toilet paper in them, yes, but it's still so useful

    • @orbracha25
      @orbracha25 Před rokem +16

      I'm cis male and I use the bathroom trash can for toilet paper, I don't understand why someone wouldn't have one for that purpose...

    • @spicysalad3013
      @spicysalad3013 Před rokem +10

      There's people who don't have trash cans in the bathroom?? Where do they throw away the toilet paper?!

    • @WantedVisual
      @WantedVisual Před rokem +21

      @@spicysalad3013 There's countries where the pipes can handle TP (only TP, ideally from recycled paper, not tissues or paper towels) being flushed. Those countries then have a problem when people who use single-use menstrual products or wet wipes have no trash can.

    • @disableddragonborn
      @disableddragonborn Před rokem +5

      ... I'm AMAB and had no idea that was what it meant. That sounds miserable, and I've had 91 surgeries.

  • @Paula21441
    @Paula21441 Před rokem +1643

    I just came out to my parents :) Don't know why I'm telling it but I'm proud of myself 🥰
    Love from Germany 🏳️‍🌈

  • @finch3035
    @finch3035 Před rokem +374

    My brother is a good straight, stood up for me when our parents deadnamed and misgendered me.

    • @pennybutnotthecoin
      @pennybutnotthecoin Před rokem +26

      It truly made me well up to see this. We dont all have that luxury and I'm so glad it's a given for you ❤ Hold onto him, you're all u have

    • @rohkakaobananenshake807
      @rohkakaobananenshake807 Před rokem +20

      Aww, oh my god, that's so supportive and cute! 🥰

    • @science_bear
      @science_bear Před rokem

      Your brother is evidence that straights defend their own.

    • @finch3035
      @finch3035 Před rokem +3

      @@science_bear What do you mean? I'm queer as can be and he was on my side, against our parents.

    • @BrainR0t__
      @BrainR0t__ Před rokem +2

      W brother

  • @thereseenders6899
    @thereseenders6899 Před rokem +95

    Fun fact from my son's speech therapist: babies frequently say "dada" early (and before "mama") because "da" is a ballistic syllable, which means it's easier to say. 🤷‍♀️ But she said she never tells the dads that. 😜

    • @irisbear9421
      @irisbear9421 Před rokem +14

      Thanks! I remembered that one of them was easier for babies to pronounce, but I couldn't remember which way it was! 😅

    • @danielcastillo591
      @danielcastillo591 Před rokem +4

      I like to think she tells the dads the same about mama
      Everyone feels vindicated

  • @tubeyou2884
    @tubeyou2884 Před rokem +300

    I love seeing men be kind when their so is on her period. I was on my period recently and went to my husband telling him how gross and dirty I felt because of it (growing up in a household that shamed me for my period products and didn’t allow me to talk about it) he put his hand on my shoulder and told me that I’m not allowed to feel gross. If I have cramps I can feel sick or in pain but I am not allowed to feel gross because it is natural and there is nothing wrong with my body or my periods. They are not gross and I am not gross. I started sobbing because hormones and love and he just laughed and hugged me. I am so lucky to have such a great man! We need more men who think like this!

    • @silverghostcat1924
      @silverghostcat1924 Před rokem +22

      Yes we do 😊

    • @queerqueen098
      @queerqueen098 Před rokem +25

      that is super cutee

    • @crystaldragon8211
      @crystaldragon8211 Před rokem +11

      not just men.. just humans cause I'm guessing it wasn't just the males of the family making you feel gross. I know it wasn't in my house.

    • @tubeyou2884
      @tubeyou2884 Před rokem +17

      @@crystaldragon8211 my mom worked a lot so I didn’t get it much from her. Mostly my dad and brothers because they were taught by my dad. They are better now. Dad and mom still not. But yes! Every human!

    • @maschaorsomething
      @maschaorsomething Před rokem +6

      I'm in the same boat.

  • @deathforhumanity8540
    @deathforhumanity8540 Před rokem +524

    Jamie, you've encouraged me to come out as trans to my family, and could get puberty blockers and hrt!!
    Edit: thanks to people replying and being so supportive

    • @Pneumonoultramicroscopicsillys
      @Pneumonoultramicroscopicsillys Před rokem +10

      That’s amazing!!!! :D

    • @nyalpiers7203
      @nyalpiers7203 Před rokem +6

      Im so proud of you!!!

    • @WoahItsKris
      @WoahItsKris Před rokem +13

      good job!! thats a really scary thing to do and im glad you were able to do it!
      (also i love your username lol)

    • @KimsiePimsie
      @KimsiePimsie Před rokem +5

      owh that's amazing! I'm really happy for you:)

    • @kmckinley7151
      @kmckinley7151 Před rokem +3

      good luck!! I hope it goes very well for you, that can be a very scary thing to do. :]

  • @FiatVentusCreations
    @FiatVentusCreations Před rokem +31

    I dated a man before I came out as a lesbian. It was about a two year relationship, and we stayed friends after breaking up. He is one of the most important friends in my life and I hope we stay in each others lives moving forward. Recently he started dating someone and he is so happy and she is so kind. I can’t say how cute he is when he talks about her and looks at her. It is so sweet.

  • @laraca6324
    @laraca6324 Před rokem +189

    For the pretty princess guy at 6:30
    I have a similar thing and wanted to talk about it for a long time, once I was doing a "game" that was about how you fell comfortable being called, and it had nicknames etc. One of the examples was Prince and I just melted with the ideia of someone called me a Prince (I am a cisgender girl, so it never happened before). Ever since I've hidden it from everyone because I thought no one would understand, knowing someone had a similar experience really made my day!
    Sorry for bad English, not my first language

    • @missnaomi613
      @missnaomi613 Před rokem +24

      1) Thank you for sharing this.
      2) Your English is great.

    • @akitokutikabanae7010
      @akitokutikabanae7010 Před rokem +24

      I hope you'll be able to talk about that to someone who will let you try ! Have a nice day Prince 😌💜✨

    • @paadoxal
      @paadoxal Před rokem +12

      nicknames are so fun to explore and that's so cute:) have a good day prince

    • @osheridan
      @osheridan Před rokem +10

      I'm also a cis woman and I also think it's a really sweet nickname! They don't always need to be gendered

  • @xotbirdox
    @xotbirdox Před rokem +498

    7:42 I once dated a guy not long before I came out as bi. When he found out I was bi, he was like "why do all the girls I date end up coming out as bi???" and like had a complex abt it lol and I had to reassure him it wasn't him. 😅 Guess what? He's out as gay now. 😂 We were all just a bunch of queer folk apparently. 😂🏳️‍🌈

    • @firasjemil213
      @firasjemil213 Před rokem +5

      Sounds like social contagion

    • @AnimeLuver0604
      @AnimeLuver0604 Před rokem +71

      @@firasjemil213 right...no gay person has ever had straight friends. By that logic my sister would be gay being around me and our two very bi best friends.

    • @Lkat.
      @Lkat. Před rokem +3

      Queer people tend to gravitate to other queer people. I accidentally ended up in a queer friend group before I had even considered being queer myself.

    • @ameliasellers6396
      @ameliasellers6396 Před rokem +59

      @@firasjemil213 Bruh I'm bi and I think a good half of my close friends are straight. By your logic, I'd have infected them and they'd be indentifying as queer too. Hell, I've known one guy for years, and he's still straight.

    • @grutarg2938
      @grutarg2938 Před rokem +52

      To the wedding guy who dated two lesbians - it's a compliment. They don't even like guys but they were willing to give you a chance.

  • @gorillster3192
    @gorillster3192 Před rokem +154

    My nana and papa were married for 60 years till she passed away earlier this year, and on their anniversary, while she was in the hospital, he stayed with her all day, and when visiting hours were done, he said "I'll see you tomorrow, I'll love you for forever" and it was so sweet. She passed just over a week later, five days after her birthday

  • @nikk-named
    @nikk-named Před rokem +82

    12:08 "We die like real men, no airbags" I almost spit out my water that was so unexpected

    • @nikk-named
      @nikk-named Před rokem +29

      My brain filed it under the ao3 "no beta we die like ___" thing, which made it even funnier actually.

    • @osheridan
      @osheridan Před rokem +3

      @@nikk-named Lmao- I did the same- 😭✋️

    • @e.458
      @e.458 Před 5 měsíci +1

      To me it sounds like: "We die like real men, earlier than necessary"

    • @rianorixalaunana357
      @rianorixalaunana357 Před měsícem +1

      @@nikk-named I haven't gotten to that part of the video yet, but my brain also immediately went there when I saw this comment. LOL!

  • @kia.tarsia
    @kia.tarsia Před rokem +109

    I was in a really long relationship that found me squashing my personality.
    Now I am with someone who adores me just as I am. Bi, dominant, strong, sometimes grumpy woman.
    We are kind of opposite of usual stereotypes. I happily tell him that he is the best wife I could have ever hoped for. & he tells me I'm a pretty good husband. 😂

  • @NothingToPostHereJustWatching

    I’m out to my parents now as transmasc, it actually just happened yesterday, thanks for making all of these videos! They’ve been incredibly helpful!!

    • @KimsiePimsie
      @KimsiePimsie Před rokem +7

      awh that's amazing! Congrats

    • @unapologeticallylizzy
      @unapologeticallylizzy Před rokem +5

      Congratulations!

    • @wynnexed
      @wynnexed Před rokem +12

      @@dustygania2425 you think the transphobes you follow on facebook had something to do with yours?

    • @leahheffernan4644
      @leahheffernan4644 Před rokem +7

      @@dustygania2425 oh my god, over 1000 comments on this channel being transphobic, you must be the saddest transphobe there is!

    • @unapologeticallylizzy
      @unapologeticallylizzy Před rokem +9

      @@dustygania2425 Are we watching the same CZcamsr? Jamie is a happy, successful man who just got married.

  • @tod1way
    @tod1way Před rokem +47

    Okay. The mom secretly saying "dada" to the kids got me teared up, too. It's good to know there's still selflessness in the world. ❤❤❤

  • @nightshadeo1300
    @nightshadeo1300 Před rokem +210

    I just wanted to say thank you. You were a rock in one of the hardest times of my life. Trying to find myself and my people was very hard and I almost gave up. I’m now officially 1 day on T and have found my people. You have no idea how much you helped me. Again thank you. I probably wouldn’t be here today if it wasn’t for you

  • @pffffggg
    @pffffggg Před rokem +163

    I literally cried with the mother saying "dada" to the twins

    • @pffffggg
      @pffffggg Před rokem +14

      rewatched after a big fight with my husband... crying my eyes out

    • @TitularHeroine
      @TitularHeroine Před rokem +11

      @@pffffggg I hope things are all right between you now. Stay safe, 'k? The world is crazy right now 🙏🌈

    • @tinkeramma
      @tinkeramma Před rokem +12

      I did that too. My husband also fought against me, trying to get our daughter to say mama first.
      He won.

    • @AnnaMno1
      @AnnaMno1 Před rokem +2

      It was sweet that they did that. Unfortunetly my mind kept me from fully enjoying that bit as much due to information I found out about...
      Babies natually start off with a vowel after a constant (m, d, p, and b are all fairly common early on), so when a baby says mama, dada, papa, etc for the first time it's unlikly that's it's actually saying anything but rather just making sounds
      Intestingly the majority of languages and language groups do have some form of that 'ma' for someone to refer to their mother as

    • @pffffggg
      @pffffggg Před rokem +1

      @@AnnaMno1 ahahahahahahahaha I am linguist, so I have studied the topic more than a bit. Even though when you are absolutely right, it is a multifactorial situation, so is not black and white in the outcome

  • @CathySW
    @CathySW Před rokem +67

    OK, here's a tip if you have trouble with your partner stealing the covers at night - have separate quilts. You will both be warm through the night. And you can still have a large one over the top if you want

    • @laulutar
      @laulutar Před rokem +18

      My husband and I've been together for 20 years. We have separate duvets, and you can still totally cuddle with them 😁 we miss the separate duvets when we go somewhere with just the one duvet.

    • @baakojernigan7095
      @baakojernigan7095 Před rokem +11

      This is also good bc some people prefer have layers and layers of blankets so each person can adjust how warm they wanna be more easily

    • @grutarg2938
      @grutarg2938 Před rokem +10

      My sister keeps a pile of blankets on the floor beside her bed. Her husband steals them one by one throughout the night and she keeps replacing them.

    • @TitularHeroine
      @TitularHeroine Před rokem +4

      @@grutarg2938 😂 I dunno why but picturing that is kind of funny. I felt sorry for your poor sister too. I hope they are good-natured about it and appreciate the uniqueness. Thank you!

    • @sarahk8053
      @sarahk8053 Před rokem +1

      My partner and I used to have seperate ones and they still got stolen by one of us :D now we have a big one. Didn't solve the stealing issue but did make cuddling easier.

  • @helpfulinterdimentionalfor8692

    One of my boyfriend's pet peeves is having to repeat himself. However I'm ADHD and it's common to say "huh?" "What?" And halfway through his repeat I'll respond. It's a processing thing. But he does his absolute best to understand and not get irritated, and I find it really sweet. 5 years together and he still deals with my scattered mind and I adore him. ^°^

  • @padraicbrazeau5251
    @padraicbrazeau5251 Před rokem +15

    I’m crying at the “I’ll go with you” pin that so amazing that kids can do something so awesome and even more so that the father embraced and shared that positivity

    • @WombatMan64
      @WombatMan64 Před rokem +2

      I gotta admit, that one made me tear up a bit as well. With all the horrible news coming out of the USA on a frequent basis, it's nice to remember that there are still many good people who live there and approach the world with love and kindness rather than hate and prejudice.

    • @niveusnimbus
      @niveusnimbus Před rokem

      Me too 😭 that was so sweet

  • @Amozon28
    @Amozon28 Před rokem +23

    9:37 is such a nice change of pace. Bc not only us is it so sweet to put in such a specific amount of work for this obe thing ur wife loves, but especially in response to her body changing after having kids when its not uncommon for straight guys to have negative reactions to the changes their partners bodies go thru with pregnancy

  • @broblerone413
    @broblerone413 Před rokem +64

    i just recieved some really bad news but this video made me feel a lot better :) it makes me so happy to hear there are some okay straights out there
    edit: thank you all, y'all are so sweet

  • @sediaramus446
    @sediaramus446 Před rokem +16

    Oh my God, so, I'm going to a wedding in June. My ex is getting married to the woman that he dated (on my suggestion) while we were still together. They're the cutest couple, and I'm so glad they still have each other! It was a bit of a rough breakup for me, but we both knew that we weren't fitting quite right. I'm so proud of and excited for the two of them, and I can't wait to see how beautiful the wedding is!

    • @MsFeyCreature
      @MsFeyCreature Před rokem +2

      I had to miss my ex's wedding (still good friends) but his now-wife specifically checked with me before asking him out back when we were officially split but still living together and she wasn't sure of the situation. I told her to go for it and I'm glad I did, they were totally right for each other and I found someone right for me.

  • @silt59
    @silt59 Před rokem +19

    I haven't watched this video yet, but I just wanted to share that I came out to my mom as trans and nonbinary the other day and she was super supportive!! :D She's still getting used to it, and it's also hard since I'm not out to my dad yet so she can't use my proper name/pronouns around him, but it's still a huge improvement and I'm super happy I worked up the courage to tell her.
    This channel was a huge part of my journey and discovering who I am, so I want to also say thank you so much to Jamie for making these amazing videos, and to all the amazing people here in the comments who are always so kind and supportive to all the other commenters here!!

  • @Werevampiwolf
    @Werevampiwolf Před rokem +24

    My sister and I both had the first word of "dog". Also, we're not twins, I'm a couple years older. We just both love dogs lol

  • @astridposey
    @astridposey Před rokem +15

    "Everyone should feel they are dating the best person on the planet."
    *Panics in polyamory*

    • @turingtestingmypatience
      @turingtestingmypatience Před rokem

      hi hi i saw your pfp and only recognised the demigirl flag. pleas tell more about the other two they look really nice must expand knowledge,,

    • @astridposey
      @astridposey Před rokem

      @@turingtestingmypatience sorry for getting back to you later on this. The yellow is the Saturnic flag, attraction to non-binary or androgynous people. And then Cupiosexual, which is asexual, but needing a sexual relationship to be fulfilled.

    • @turingtestingmypatience
      @turingtestingmypatience Před rokem +1

      @@astridposey awesome, thanks! (no worries about the time it took)

    • @yukiookamisakura57
      @yukiookamisakura57 Před rokem +2

      In your case, best people* on the planet

    • @ragnkja
      @ragnkja Před rokem

      I don’t believe you have to decide which one person you’re dating is the best person on the planet. It can be a tie 😊

  • @swamp347
    @swamp347 Před rokem +21

    I am beaming from ear to ear right now. I’m just so happy for all of these amazing people and my new kitten. I just love you all! Thanks!

  • @sarazverinova405
    @sarazverinova405 Před rokem +20

    At first i thought purple fits Jammie very well, but then i remembered hes just handsome.

  • @NarwhalAcademy
    @NarwhalAcademy Před rokem +11

    Jamie your reactions aren’t annoying they’re authentic and they make the sweetness that much sweeter 🥰🥰🥰

  • @ripvanallosaur113
    @ripvanallosaur113 Před rokem +39

    My favorite little comic shows the woman waking up, noticing her boyfriend's feet are exposed so she moves the blanket. Then he wakes up, notice she's uncovered and pulls it up. It's adorable

    • @kiiturii
      @kiiturii Před rokem

      what they need is to get a bigger blanket lmao

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Před rokem +51

    He’s the best man of both worlds. Also, the ladies ending up together reminds me of the outcome of the ‘Boyfriend looking at someone else’ meme.

  • @scarlettrossell6622
    @scarlettrossell6622 Před rokem +20

    So I just finished my panto performance and so many people there did not conform to gender norms and when I was dressed up as my character(stereotypical man) with a moustache we all just complemented each other and had a great time even the dames non,after what you are doing who you may be acting as but you will have support now or soon.
    DONT GIVE UP ❤

    • @funnyfirefishfan
      @funnyfirefishfan Před rokem +3

      I remember going to a panto where one of the main characters was a man playing a lady. He wore a full dress, and looked amazing. He was the best part of the panto by far, he just hammed up every scene, and there was a point where he just started flirting with a man in the audience in front of the man's wife, and everyone was in stitches. It was great.

  • @gaxalee7392
    @gaxalee7392 Před rokem +9

    I recently got new glasses(round/silver), and I keep smiling at my reflection in the mirror. I feel like I look adorable.

  • @greybey4385
    @greybey4385 Před rokem +31

    This subreddit combined with this man is my dose of serotonin for today.

  • @GlamourNNail
    @GlamourNNail Před rokem +29

    I always hoped that my kids' first laugh would be with my husband. He got four out of five first laughs and I love that for him. I am glad that I got one, but mostly glad he got four.

  • @JennaGetsCreative
    @JennaGetsCreative Před rokem +8

    The Dada thing made me tear up too, Jamie!
    Edit- The blanket ones are always cute, but the real answer is having enough individual blankets that everyone can cocoon in something when snuggle time is done.

  • @rosieg6989
    @rosieg6989 Před rokem +14

    Jamie, purple is a good colour on you, it contrasts well with the yellow background.

  • @Jsembuh.Klansemi
    @Jsembuh.Klansemi Před rokem +41

    idk why but the silly face on vacation one and the trans button one genuinely made me shed a tear :')

  • @isla_theegg
    @isla_theegg Před rokem +13

    thanks so much jamie, you are honestly such a beam of light and hope for our community and you make me and so many others feel appreciated and loved. we are so lucky to have you x

    • @silverghostcat1924
      @silverghostcat1924 Před rokem +2

      As a cis-female I totally agree, Jamie is truly a beam of light 🕯️. His positivity is such a joy to experience ☺️

  • @lucypreece7581
    @lucypreece7581 Před rokem +8

    Even if the people in that household don't have periods you should still have a little trashcan in your bathroom. like where do people put the empty loo roll tubes or like used bits of dental floss and stuff.

  • @dudeinabox2137
    @dudeinabox2137 Před rokem +10

    Love seeing content like that! One of those posts reminded me of my great friend who just recently came to me to ask for advice and information about period and period products. His little sister hit puberty and he wants to be good big brother and be able to actually support her when she needs him. He's just very lovely guy

  • @marnenotmarnie259
    @marnenotmarnie259 Před rokem +11

    jamie is once again trying to make me personally cry

  • @j.apenrose7896
    @j.apenrose7896 Před rokem +20

    Oh my word. 😅 The one about the husband asking the wife out 8 years after they've already been together was soooo cute, and sooo a call out. My partner had a rough relationship (with a lovely person) where he really wasn't getting enough verbal confirmation that she loves him. And ever since he told me that I've ended up putting a lot of effort into making sure I say I love him, and flirting, and asking him out. It's kinda our inside joke and love language thing.
    Yay for some straights being okay out there! Any non-okay straights, please take notes from this video!

    • @Callum_1275
      @Callum_1275 Před rokem +1

      👏😭. That is so cute!!!

    • @grutarg2938
      @grutarg2938 Před rokem +2

      I still call my wife "girlfriend" as a pet name. (We're lesbians)

    • @Callum_1275
      @Callum_1275 Před rokem +2

      @@grutarg2938 🥺 IM DYING FROM CUTENESS!

    • @nandeboleine
      @nandeboleine Před rokem +1

      My partner never asked me out. It would be so validating and life-changing if he did that for me, and I think I will always have a small hole in my heart wondering if he really wants to be with me 😢

    • @j.apenrose7896
      @j.apenrose7896 Před rokem +1

      @@nandeboleine Oh hun.

  • @renkazakiewich427
    @renkazakiewich427 Před rokem +29

    Its heartening to see wholesomeness. You look great in the purple btw ;)

  • @tamhalls646
    @tamhalls646 Před rokem +5

    I've seen that last video with the balloons with sound, and you can hear him say that he saw her on the security camera with the balloons and can see them floating away and he appreciates them and it's okay... even sweeter!

  • @WiloKun
    @WiloKun Před rokem +3

    I've seen the balloon one with sound. The girlfriend tells him she had balloons and is clearly very upset that she let them go. He tells her "No, I see them!" and gives her a hug and it's absolutely sweet and the epitome of "It's the thought that counts"

  • @rjcarr5511
    @rjcarr5511 Před rokem +4

    It never occurred to me that some people don’t have trash cans in their bathroom, even if they don’t have period products to throw out. Where do you throw away your floss?

  • @matthewpvc1928
    @matthewpvc1928 Před rokem +5

    OT brought me over here. I come in peace.

    • @antonvinther31
      @antonvinther31 Před rokem +4

      Welcome. OT is a cool guy. Hope you will enjoy Jammies channel too.

  • @magickquill6724
    @magickquill6724 Před rokem +2

    @5:40 when Jamie is stumbling over "have a habbit" CZcams decided to load an add and I got the buffering circle for like 2 seconds and I started laughing. Could not have been better planned.

  • @Leena79
    @Leena79 Před rokem +9

    Thank you for the wholesomeness (is that a word?), these videos are always needed. 💗

  • @FaeFayore
    @FaeFayore Před rokem +13

    I really REALLY hope he wants a kid. He'd be such a good dad.
    Like, it's ok if he doesn't, but we need more kids raised by guys like Jamie.

  • @kawaiicharlie9650
    @kawaiicharlie9650 Před rokem +1

    That story about the guy who asked out his wife makes me think of my parents.
    I can remember one day we were walking down a stair case in spain enjoying the veiws, my parents were walking hand in hand in front of me.
    I could hear my mum laughing. This was going on for a while so i asked what was so funny.
    Apparently my parents were walking im time and my dad would do little skips to get then outnof pattern to wind my mum up.
    They have been married for over 30 years and they have done this for as long as i can remember

  • @mariatamburro
    @mariatamburro Před rokem +1

    this video is everything i needed today. Just got covid for the second time while still dealing with long covid for over a year. I'm kinda worried about what this will do to my progress but I'm here trying to ignore it. This video let me know that sweet people still do exist.

  • @Erin-S
    @Erin-S Před rokem +1

    I'm a cis straight woman and we're celebrating 15 years this year. My partner is so sweet, kind, tender and loving. Being in a relationship with him has healed so much of the trauma around men in my life. Now, we have a little girl. We took her to the doctor and he knew just as much about her as I did. It's so healing. He wants to learn macrame so he can make me an earring holder lol.

  • @EssixLaPoomf
    @EssixLaPoomf Před rokem +4

    ‘If they’re not kind, they’re mean’❤

  • @graciemcgee1888
    @graciemcgee1888 Před rokem +6

    This video reminds me of my parents. They are also very wholesome straights! ♥️

  • @byecatsstacey7467
    @byecatsstacey7467 Před rokem +8

    Thank you, Jamie, for reminding us that sometimes the straights truly are okay - we are so used to them not be okay this was a cheerful and refreshing reminder! Your hair is looking fabulous and that purple jumper suits you perfectly! Keep on purpling

  • @happydillpickle
    @happydillpickle Před rokem

    AAAGGGHHH! The creepy wolf blanket! It kept popping up in my ads on CZcams and I thought its sentiments were a bit stalky, so I read it out loud in a stalky voice and my fears were confirmed 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Groffili
    @Groffili Před rokem +4

    I'm grinning like I'm crazy. There still is hope for the world!
    (And BTW, the colour of your sweater goes perfectly with the chair.)

  • @Pa5an1
    @Pa5an1 Před rokem +2

    The one with the old couple reminded me of my grandparents. One time when I was visiting them I asked how they met and they excitedly shared the story and it was already very cute. And then I went to the bathroom and when I came back they were holding hands across the table and just looking lovingly into each others’ eyes and I almost started crying. They would’ve been married for 70 years in 2020 but grandpa died a few months before the anniversary

  • @ruffboiALT
    @ruffboiALT Před 7 měsíci

    legitimately started crying over the "dada" one. It's so lovely when people can be happy

  • @suzannep
    @suzannep Před rokem +5

    My face hurts from smiling too much through this😊❤

  • @skyetrick2666
    @skyetrick2666 Před rokem +2

    My friend and I once had a set of characters that were twins (he controlled the boy, I controlled the girl), and mine was nonverbal, and wrote very little as well. We always had her communicate via emojis with her brother similar to the rabbit dinner thing (Not all emojis, but frequently), and would chat back and forth to decide how best to portray what she wanted. That is, until the two of us started getting so good at understanding EACH OTHER in emojis that we’d write them having conversations this way without discussing it previously, and fully understand one another. It was awesome and really fun!

  • @darthcyanide7620
    @darthcyanide7620 Před rokem +3

    Hey Jammi, I've been struggling with my gender identity for a few years now and I just no longer feel like a female. I've been thinking and thinking about what I can do or who to go to but I'm not sure what to do first. I'm going through a lot with my identity and watching your videos are really helping me understand how trans people go through life and how they learn things on the way. ❤️❤️

  • @That_One_Enby
    @That_One_Enby Před rokem +15

    Poggers!!! I’m getting my first binder!!

    • @KimsiePimsie
      @KimsiePimsie Před rokem +1

      WOOEEHH🥳

    • @CABLEG0RE
      @CABLEG0RE Před rokem +3

      Fun tip: Keep it separate from your regular laundry. I machiene washed mine on accident and it shrunk 😭👍

    • @cecilofthesea
      @cecilofthesea Před rokem +1

      congrats!! be sure to follow the directions for how long you can bind for so youre not overexerting yourself. wishing you happy and healthy binding 💜

    • @dark7859
      @dark7859 Před rokem +1

      that's great, take care

  • @bookishblossom8670
    @bookishblossom8670 Před rokem +10

    I just finished my precalculus exam! \o/
    This is a very nice video to watch afterwards, it's very calming

  • @TitularHeroine
    @TitularHeroine Před rokem +4

    I had to rewind and pause at 2:46 to learn how to make the bunnies.
    (\_/)
    ( ·_·)
    / > |>
    New skill unlocked! Yet more to be thankful for here :)

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Před rokem +67

    The Straights do make me cry. They need a hug and they need to join the fruity side and potentially be fruitier than fruit salad in a hollowed watermelon.

    • @zefiro6829
      @zefiro6829 Před rokem +7

      This is an adorable image; I can'tー

    • @ryttyr14
      @ryttyr14 Před rokem +5

      Aww... now I want fruit salad..

  • @xx-el9gl
    @xx-el9gl Před rokem +1

    5:00 I 100% relate to that! My fiance has a severe peanut allergy that causes seizers so epipens would do the opposite of help him. I had a nightmare once that I eat something with peanuts and kissed him and he freaking died! I woke up in a cold sweat and redoubled my efforts to ensure his safety. By that point I had already cut out everything peanut in my life but idk man we gotta walk around peanut bags at grocery stores

  • @calliedawn6060
    @calliedawn6060 Před rokem +12

    I love your vids honestly cheers me up on a bad day

  • @leiathrix
    @leiathrix Před rokem

    Purple looks good on you too 💜 especially with that bright-yellow rim of a t-shirt underneath!

  • @dorothea_walland
    @dorothea_walland Před rokem +1

    omg this is so beautiful and so hard to watch when you have no one to care for you... i have been crying this whole video.. ❤️😔

  • @freudianslip2010
    @freudianslip2010 Před rokem +1

    The last one actually made me emotional because it looks like she is upset and he is really sweetly comforting her. If I lost my husband’s birthday balloons, I would be super upset because he’s so wonderful and deserves a nice birthday surprise and I would be mad at myself for messing it up. But he would totally comfort me like the boyfriend here. And then probably gently tease me (e.g. “Let’s go to dinner in that direction and maybe we will spot them!”).
    Also, congratulations on the wedding!

  • @Sevastiel
    @Sevastiel Před rokem +1

    At 7:50, a really nice point is made about not being ashamed if the person youre dating turns out as gay or ace. I wanted to add!
    If you were really trying your all, consider the fact that you made a space and relationship with them that was safe enough that they were genuinely able to explore themselves mentally and then told you. Dont be ashamed. You have probably changed their lives for the better.
    I write this to my ex of 2 and a half years, who was the MODEL boyfriend in every way. He probably wont see it, but in lieu of him, the rest of yall get it!

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Před rokem +9

    This was a much needed relief and it has cheered me to no end.

  • @shaae_26
    @shaae_26 Před rokem +1

    jamie dissing on purple while its my favorite color

  • @melissacoviello2886
    @melissacoviello2886 Před rokem +4

    My youngest came home from school with a pride flag and I asked him where he got it (for context we live in a rural town in California with lots of closed minded people) he told me he joined the lgbt+ally club at school. He’s in 8th grade and I am so proud of him. We’ve always been open in our house and my kids know that all kinds of people exist and whoever you are as long as you’re a good person is a ok with us. But to see your kids live those principles in the world when you aren’t there is so moving.

  • @ceciliaeth6550
    @ceciliaeth6550 Před rokem

    These reminded me of my father with my mother- he was her primary caretaker thru her Alzheimer's. They were married 61 years, and she was always his sweetheart.

  • @nixhixx
    @nixhixx Před rokem +4

    I'm confused... there are people who don't have a trash can in their bathroom???

  • @Pneumonoultramicroscopicsillys

    You have helped me realize I’m trans :D

    • @gutbucket6184
      @gutbucket6184 Před 3 měsíci

      Checking in a year later, hope it’s going well!

  • @karenmakesthings4880
    @karenmakesthings4880 Před rokem +3

    Aww. Thanks. I needed the mushiness today!❤

  • @tabitas.2719
    @tabitas.2719 Před 8 měsíci

    The pretend fight over the twin babies' first word had me tearing up as well! 🥰

  • @daa5865
    @daa5865 Před rokem +2

    nice video! I'm feeling down a lot again so it's nice seeing a positive video about people being okay. I keep hearing people in my classes making weird comments about either trans or gay topics and it's just really disheartening so it's nice to see something positive for once 💕

    • @Am-uj6qn
      @Am-uj6qn Před rokem

      What are they saying?

    • @daa5865
      @daa5865 Před rokem +2

      @@Am-uj6qn a lot to count but one of the male teachers has "Maria" as his second name, which is common, but one of my classmates reacted by saying "Eh, is he a trans??" (idk how to translate it, but she used an offensive way of the word in German) in a shocked and disgusted tone.
      I heard a guy talk about how a lot of the boys on his school trip didn't want to sleep in the same room with a specific boy because he's gay, and as the night came more boys came to the extra room and that also just made me sad.
      (I even asked my friends later if they're uncomfortable changing when I'm in the room because I'm currently in a same sex relationship and they said they don't mind because they know I am not predatory, which is why that story felt bad for me)

    • @Am-uj6qn
      @Am-uj6qn Před rokem

      @@daa5865 Ich bin auch von Deutschland. Was ist das wort, was du nicht übersetzen kannst?

    • @daa5865
      @daa5865 Před rokem

      @@Am-uj6qn ah, achso. Sie meinte "Eh, ist der ne Transe?" und hatte sich generell über ihn lustig gemacht weil gesagt wird dass er schwul ist (sagt eine Klassenkameradin).

  • @benmiller5303
    @benmiller5303 Před rokem

    So much sweetness, missing my Lady as always. Very glad I saw this.

  • @jenniferhof9448
    @jenniferhof9448 Před rokem

    NASA dad rocks! I got to see one of the shuttle launches myself and there is nothing like it. Plus a lunch with an astronaut?! That dad has some special skills to be able to get that all arranged without anyone knowing ahead of time. 💜💜

  • @neisulore_dv
    @neisulore_dv Před rokem +2

    i get what you mean, my reaction the whole time was just "OMG that's so cuteeeeeee", which yeah it's the same over and over but it's TRUE. they're all so CUTE

  • @julianlastname5730
    @julianlastname5730 Před rokem +2

    The peanut allergy thing is real though. The last person I dated was crazy allergic to peanuts. I have a pretty limited diet, and one of my safe foods is a peanut butter sandwich. I would always overthink when the last time I ate nuts was, and stress about forgetting and hurting them with a kiss

  • @GoodWormDoctor
    @GoodWormDoctor Před rokem +3

    My aunt and uncle play video games together, and they have a minecraft world where he built her a massive castle, and she built him a small basic house and it’s so cute

  • @disableddragonborn
    @disableddragonborn Před rokem +1

    This is the first time I've ever heard of shoe expanders. Fascinating.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Před rokem +2

    3:54 My non-existent ovaries have exploded. The whole post is just too adorable “with a capital A D and all the other letters.”

  • @everycolourinthesky
    @everycolourinthesky Před rokem

    My eyes just kept watering w every post and then by the end I was just fighting back tears 😭💕people being in love really does it to me.

  • @kristinw2600
    @kristinw2600 Před rokem

    My grandmother died after 60 years of marriage to my grandfather, five years ago. My grandfather, who is now 93, moved from his longtime home to a senior center this past summer. The hardest thing about moving from somewhere he'd lived for fifty years? He wouldn't be able to go to the cemetery and visit his beloved wife's grave every day, since he was moving to a new state and giving up his driver's license. It is so adorable to see how much he still loves her after 65 years.

  • @doveydoos
    @doveydoos Před rokem

    i love the fact this is a whole video giving love to straight couples; everyone deserves love, not just us gays!

  • @VTPPGLVR
    @VTPPGLVR Před rokem +1

    0:45
    Be careful because their parent company sells info about their clients and therapists. (My friend got a visit to her home AFTER she worked out them because they had already sold her info to a site she doesn’t work with.)

  • @kurapikakurta1997
    @kurapikakurta1997 Před rokem +6

    I had the craziest coming out story recently. My sibling was going through my tumblr they randomly stumbled upon, and they saw my pronouns in bio. They freaked out being like “omg trans???” and I was panicking like “yeah????? are you gonna tell my extremely transphobic family?????” and then I found out they were non binary *and* we coincidentally chose really similar names!!!

    • @TheJinx1441
      @TheJinx1441 Před rokem

      @Star of Europe
      I know that this mean trolling of yours is a phase. Hopefully, you might grow out of it.