How To Be a Gentleman - 50 Things Every Young Gentleman Should Know - Book Review
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Learning how to be a gentleman in today’s confusing world can be quite difficult. The book “50 Things Every Young Gentlemen Should Know” written by John Bridges and Bryan Curtis offers some amazing tip to displaying your class. Most of the tips are common sense, manners, and etiquette tips, but there were a few tricks I never knew. Always introduce the younger person to the older person when you are performing an introduction. Also, I didn’t know it was polite to wait for an older person or lady to offer their hand to shake before insisting. Being a gentleman isn’t just about acting and thinking politely, one must dress sharp to fit the stereotype. I was very intrigued that there were no tips or chapters on how to speak like a gentleman though. If you want others to think of you as a gentleman, simply read and follow the tips in this book.
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time to be gentleman
Did you?
Indeed
Hope you attain to be a good gentleman
Lololol
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First tip is say "please"
Just says "subscribe"
How ill-mannered
no ones perfect. takes time to learn new habits also.
Christian Nicdao Lol give him a break, he did say he hardly follows 25 of the tips
But we aren't subscribing for him...
Tf 🤣🤣
@@aisakataigaa daddy chill
For those of us that watched the video and need a summary list to keep in mind to use day to day:
1. Say Please
2. Say Thank you/Accept a compliment
3. Write hand-written letters
4. Excuse yourself
5. Introduce people: introduce younger to older and include something interesting
6. Shake hands: Let elderly and ladies stick their hands first
8. Kindly thank giver
9. Knows good sportsmanship
10. Be well groomed
11. Compliment another
12. Hold the door for someone else
13. Always put the toilet seat down
14. Know film theatre etiquette
Watch the YT video for an elaborated explanation for each.
Eduardo Abarca a
So certain groups can't be gentlemen 🤠 cheers
Thank you for the summary
Thank you.
Thank you kind person for making this summary
No need of a book to learn that... Just responsible parents.
not everyone has that...
valamere101 😭 😭 😭 the feels...
Exuse me sir, but pointing out that people do not have responsible parents is very rude. Shame on you
I apologize if I offended you in anyway.
I was only joking guys, I dont talk like that lmao
I couldnt agree more on the "gifts" part, its really annoying when you kindly give something to someone and they answer "no, you shouldnt have, keep it" it just starts an akward conversetion with you trying to make him accept the gift and him refusing
I know dude! Im like
"I bought this from far and I come here to buy this gift for you, if you dont appreciate it, you are not gonna get it"
or
"u foking wot m8"
😂😂😂
They are clearly trying to look kind, or just genuinely felt guilty if they accept it, which makes things much awkward
Honestly, it depends on the culture. For example in many Asian culture, the refusing of gifts is usually part of the process of giving. The giver has to insist of giving until the receiver has no other means but to accept the gift. Honestly it’s just being courteous but some awkward people (like me) might look too far into it and misinterpret.
Too late I'm a Barbarian.
TheLone Wiseman Morning oh crap
Hilarious!
Me too
I will evolve into a gentleman.
Even the barbarians lived by a code
i'm gonna be a gentleman from now on.
Best of luck :D
ralpharances should have been one boy.
Go on..!!
how is the progress, 3 years have past
Same
m'lady
😂😂😂😂😂
**Fedora tipping intensifies**
M'laria
Charming
A shame that "m'lady" is so mocked. I think it's a nice way of referring to a lady. Guess I'll stick to "Miss".
11 Tips (with timestamps):
0:23 Saying please
0:44 Saying thank you
1:13 Sending hand-written letters
2:07 Excusing yourself
2:35 Introducing people
2:48 Shaking hands
3:17 Receiving gifts
3:37 Reacting to games
3:58 Dressing well
4:18 Complimenting women
4:37 Watching movies
Okay
Thank You
the thumbnail tricked me. turns out being a gentleman has nothing to do with cooking up meth
Louis Burgess this is gold
lmao XD
A gentleman only cooks up meth after thoroughly reading the proper instructions.
What up biatch
Hahahahaaaaa
It's funny how you become gentleman-like and still people abuse your politeness and kindness.
alahmmar yeah... But you tried your best. You can change your behavior. But theres you can't. Excuse me for my bad english, but for me because I am German it is a foreign language.
your english is good dude. you'd survive in america : - )
You can be a gentleman, and still be strong minded. I consider myself that. I won't take any pettiness or rudeness, and I definitely will not be offended by words. However, I understand others are different, and I won't crap on them because of that. Just be polite, and stick up for yourself and others, but know when it's better to say nothing. That's the most important. Knowing when to say something, not deciding whether to say it.
Being respectful, polite and considerate at all times cannot be abused. If you think people are abusing these basic traits you've probably crossed the line between being polite and being a push over. They are not the same thing.
Chibuike Obinali 👏👏
the fact that I need this shows desperation
No problem :D
The fact that you are wanting to develop your social skills shows courage
+Mohamed Osama wise words :)
yo osama you sound like the guy who knows where you can buy a fedora
chayse choyce lol
chayse choyce I just need some advice, I’m trying to impress my girlfriend
So I am a Gentlemen! Everything you mentioned I already do whithout any advice. Its just a good behaviour!
But I'm still single :/
being a gentleman doesnt get you laid. it just makes you a gentleman
I didn't sayed that. A gentlemen want a real relationship with real emotions and love and not a one night stand. You can't copare those two things. To get laid you have to be single or you cheating. So I meant I'm single because I had no relationship
So? what does being a genlteman have to do with having a relationship? Finding a right person to share your love with doesnt have much correlation with being a gentleman (although it does give you more options, women would be more open to get to know you) and is hard as fuck, probably harder when you get older. Expecting a relationship because you act like a gentleman is something little boys would say
***** and santa claus is real :D
If you want a relationship, ask girls out on dates.
I thought this was common sense?
Joe Wild thats exactly what i thought
Futurepoint
lol some people have to learn this shit, so sad.
Joe Wild Isnt that kind of failing at being a gentleman? You know being rude to others? I have a bit of doubt about you.
ivan sedelkin how did he insult anyone?
Futurepoint No maybe didnt insult anyone, but you did give the impression of standing over someone, or being better, thats called arrogance.
Is it Flaunting if I state that I am surprised that I do 98% of these by default without thinking of it ?
If so, Sorry.
Perhaps it's because i'm Canadian.
german here, I found myself doing about 90% of them too :D
***** in der Tat. Sollen sie lachen, Gentlemen gibts in jedem Teil der Welt ;)
I just love Canada... The people, their self mockery and the country itself! To bad I live in Europe
Chromozone Fifteen Seems like Canadians don't say "excuse me" when passing by, and instead say "sorry" or nothing. I am from the southern US and we say excuse me and pardon me, but when I said it in Canada I felt like people thought I was being rude, like I was ordering them to excuse my behavior.
Chromozone Fifteen I'm British and felt the same! (though perhaps 80% would be a little more honest with me)
Granted, not all of my fellow Brits are as courteous or polite, and I'm not trying to make sweeping generalisations about anyone here, but the basic stuff like; 'please', 'thank you' and 'excuse me' or even just holding doors (actually ESPECIALLY holding doors) was notably lacking when I visited the US last year.
The way I heard most (not all, but the majority) of people speak to staff in places was appallingly bad and rude. On the flight over alone every person around me (bar ONE old lady) demanded what they wanted to the poor lady pushing the refreshment cart. "Gimme a beer" as opposed to when they got to me and I'd said "Could I have a beer, please"
Also - as a side note - I've never understood the American thing of referring to someone by their job title, such as; 'Steward', 'Driver', Usher', 'Waiter' etc. I think it's so rude and condescending - there's no harm is politely saying Sir or Ma'am/Madam or if that's a bit too formal depending on the circumstances, like maybe in McDonalds for example, opening with "Excuse me" doesn't hurt!!
That gift one is something girls should do too. I find it so annoying when my female friends say "oh you shouldn't have!" after giving them a gift. If I have actually gone far above and beyond the call of duty, then ok. But a small gift on your birthday does not count as "far above and beyond the call of duty". You're only revealing your own insecurity and embarrassing me. "Thank you" and a smile is sufficient. If you really really wanted what I got you then you can make it "Thank you!" and give me a hug too. But don't act like it's a shock that your friend got you a birthday gift.
Most of these are common knowledge but this is a good reminder. Saying thank you and please is really underrated and should be used more. It just shows respect and appreciation and takes almost zero effort.
What I don't get is why it is rude when you make a comment on someone their handshake. I see no problem if you don't insult them.
Good video! A necessary one.
There are pretty much just two rules:
1. Have a wellbeing of others in mind. Empathy.
2. Excellence in all you do.
What you covered is derivative from these two. This being a fact, it makes it easier for those who just begin their journey rather than figuring it out as they go. All the best!
It´s very lovely to see young man who wanna be gentleman
Thank you for saying so.
Thank you ma'am, i'll do my best
I love how your videos are straight forward and informative
This is an awesome video and it deserves to be seen, shared, reviewed and implemented by men from all over the world. We have lost the charm of etiquette, praising and appreciating others, as well as speaking and presenting ourselves well. This video reminds us to always be and give our best and be a great, refined man/gentleman in society and promote proper ethics and accountability for ourselves. Again, awesome!
Hardly watch 2-3 videos and can't resist myself from subscribing.! Great work
+Kul Deep Awesome! Thanks for the feedback, expect some great content on this channel!
true hahah
It's good to have books like this. Although some have mentioned we should just know these things, the fact is that every human being, in the absence of a guided upbringing, will be little better off than wild animals. Also, as time passes, knowledge of things fade over time. There are certainly cracks showing in society in how we conduct ourselves publicly, as well as privately within our closer circles. Books are important as well as the continued desire of people to never stop learning how to do better. How we act is more powerful to those around us than our words.
Please pardon me for my interruption, but I thank you for your informative opinion. With all the excitement within the world, we sometimes need to think of how we carry ourselves through life. I believe you are quite right in this response. Good day to you, kind Sir, and have a lovely evening.
Even before reading this book I’ve always stood up to shake someone’s hand. Glad to know I’ve been doing it right
your voice is smooth, good job with edit
thanks for the advice and keep up the good work
Thanks Alex :D
Thank you for that video.
Thankfully I do many of these which makes me feel a bit more confident but there's still room for improvement
I think nowadays adding please sound more rude especially putting the tone on PLEASE especially giving the please a sarcastic tone.
Well DON’T BE Sarcastic!
ALWAYS BE Sincere.
It all depends on your intonation and intent chungdha. If you are sincere most people will appreciate your well intended words.
You can tell somebodys character by how they treat the person that serves them
"Manners Maketh Man"
William Horman?
Practical Psychology it is a kingsman reference
Colin Firth ;)
@@Lawrence9596 Uh no...
Was waiting for this one
1: look like Walter White.
@saganist u guys r cool
Yes, most of these does not only apply to gentlemen. Everyone in general should have good manners. :)
Also, congrats! It's only been a week but you got 1000 more subscribers. Really proud of you sir. Keep it up (y)
Super glad you're commenting! I love keeping track of viewers who comment on all my new stuff
very nicely done. learned a few new gestures and was very happy to know that i already exercise some gestures. i appreciate this. thank you.
Man, your channel is highly underrated !!!
great video , great presentation , keep up the good work
+Houssem Hammami Thanks!
Observe polite people and emulate their activity.
Awesome video. Very well explained, thankyou :)
Great video! I do some of these things already but I definitely benefited from being reminded of others. Nice job
Well done that was a lot of great tips, I will sure try and put them in practise thanks a lot.
+Ashish Abraham Thank you :)
Wow! I remember this book from my university, I was making an investigation in the digital library about human rights and then I start messing around looking for other titles and found this.
That's actually super awesome!
Thanks for the great video!
Thank you for the tips young man
Loved it, loved it, loved it! Young men need this type of direction. Being a gentleman slipped out of fashion, in my opinion, in certain sections of societies for some years now. Men need to be more proud of what they bring to society and there is nothing more pleasing than a genuine gentleman of any any age. Well Done you did a lovely job.
be careful you don't flaunt with these skills, as you can come off as a m'lady-saying, fedora-tipping neckbeard. If it doesn't feel comfortable, be honest to yourself more than to these tips: you'll come off as more genuine.
Truth right here
Good video, thanks for posting.
Great video!
great stuff...you have one of the best channels
+Confidential Male Thanks!
Practical Psychology now i exactly know what i should not do if i don't what to look like an idiot. there just one rule if someone does it for money you don't need to be polite i mean i also dont thank hookers for a blowjob
So that means i'm a young gentleman?
Neat.
Great work!
Thank you for this review!
After this, I was certainly very happy to know that my dad raised me right as he taught me to do all these things from a young age and more. And now as a young father to two children, I will do the same
Hows the progress?
@@euphisa8127 Now at 3 kids and so far so good lol
My parents taught me all that :) But I love your accent and way of talking bruh..
your videos are a breath of fresh air. Simplicity is the hardest math.
awesome job done....good luck with more upcoming videos...
Enjoyed the video, and I usually just do all these things because I was raised that way and they feel right, although I do send letters occasionally I wish I sent them more, thank you for the video!
+Chubacca7 Thanks for watching :)
I thought the thumbnail was How to be a Heisenberg
this channel help me a lot !
Thank you for uploading this video.
I reckon it's all about expressing your ethical and moral standing through social norms. Being a gentlemen means you practise integrity, dignity, humility and respect for others wellbeing.
It isn't about being an oldschool pretentious tosser.
Louis Andrews Smith I agree
Shouldn't everyone be displaying those attributes?
Divergent Daoist Dude Depends if you vote for Trump or not
+Louis Andrews Smith Got em coach! 😄
I'm always reading Ractical Sychology...
thanks for the feedback :)
Hey Practical Psycholgy,
Your videos still catch people in the beautifull towns of germany like me.
I just want to convey you my appreciation of every video from you.
Keep it going !
Jannik
My 8 year old son wanted to write that "I like what you say.We are a family that have manners and we are polite.And kind.
hey dad! this is my john!
HAHAHA😂😂😂
There's the gentleman then there's the man, sometimes people just want you to act by taking the lead in situations where they can't.
Thank you sir for the lovely advice
I think you did a fantastic job on this, I know how much effort you put in but it's worth it.
Thx for the nice video.
+Steven003 Thanks for watching and commenting :)
:D
Crazy how a similar video directed towards women would get all the shitstorm saying it's sexist and stuff.
It goes to show which audience is being more mature...
EvilSapphireR Do you really think so? I am a women watching this, I would actually appreciate if the gentleman rules would apply more to womens behaviour. But I guess some girls/women feel oppressed by manner guidelines.
Dude, your content is amazing. Subbed
Great vid , keep it up.
And look both ways before you cross the road...
Another gentlemen tip i learned the hard way-
If you're sitting next to the lady on a booth in the restaurant, ALWAYS offer her to sit next to the wall. This is because when she had to get up to relieve herself, you show respect by you getting up for her. It's rude for her to get up for you.
Chairs. ALWAYS pull out the chair for your lady. If you're with your her/your parents, the father will do the same for her wife
Their wife* Lol. sorry for the typo
Webby The Dino lmao ur going too far
Cara Macaroni opening the door or pulling a chair isn't hard and men aren't obliged to do it, it's just that if he do it's a plus, a good point to add on his charms... It's like if a man like a pretty girl, she doesn't have to like soccer or games but if she does it would be awesome. that's it.
Whether a male would like to open a door for a woman or pull out a chair it is up to them. It's not a gender thing, it's called chivalry you should try it.
Agaperion Rex who hurt you lmao. It's called chivalry. Women and men can both practice this so it makes the world a little nicer. Not just men : ^)
great job on the video sir
Great videos. Very calm and informative.
Keep the toilet seat down, you need to block the fumes from your shit tornado
keep the seat down but not the lid please. esp if you're staying overnight for the first time at a ladies place. nothing more shocking than going to your own bathroom at night and half asleep but feeling a pressing need, plopping down on what you think is your familiar throne and ready to let go and then discover that you ended up sitting on the lid. which is a) probably quite cold and b) you can now hardly stop yourself so you're now on the brink of disaster.... o.O
TheFeldhamster I would think that depends on whether you found it that way with the seat down and the lid up. For homes with pets I believe in leaving the lid down. Also once you're used to seeing it down it doesn't look proper in any other state.
*tips fedora*
Tip#1..saying “Shit Tornado” is NOT BEING a ‘Gentleman’..SHOW SOME CLASS!
Tip#2..GO in your OWN Place!
Oh boy, how would the world be if every man followed these tips...
Capitalist Crusader it would make the world a better place except feminism is ruining it
I honestly don't understand why so called feminists have a problem with kind and polite masculine behavior. The world would be a paradise if all men were gentlemen
@@jacquelineboulet6975, in fact, women were taught to be disciplined.
So much I need to learn.
6 years now. I don’t mind much, Thank you a lot sir Sincerely.
I like the idea of being a gentleman which is a fancy way of saying a man is polite and considerate. However, what do hate about it is that people add a lot of things onto it that I, frankly speaking, find pretentious i.e. write people hand written letters. Notice how the two people who he wrote letters to in this video were both old (grandmother and CEO)?
Always open a car door, especially if it's a lady. May I ask why? If you believe this I'm also going to assume that you believe a gentleman should pay for the date? If my assumption is correct, do you also believe a lady should be cooking for her gentleman?
+rodrigo herrera Dude, chill the fuck out. These are legitimate questions. He's not challenging the system, but questioning it. These are two very different things, and I'd advise you practice a little respect while you're at it.
Right??? I like to see "being a gentleman" as someone being chivalrous and no, not in a way where the person will be paying for the date or holding the car door. Simply being kind and polite to everyone regardless of their sex. Chivalry has evolved throughout the years and is commonly misunderstood as "a man does this for a woman just because she's a woman". I like to see it as "someone does this for someone because that person is polite and respectful". :DD
ChipperieMC ignoring the strict gender identity in chivalry over generations is ridiculous.
I'm the 272,727 view, i feel complete
That's cool
Thank you for adding value.
Great video man ! Tnx
i was a gentleman until the games part came in.
great video.
what software did you use?
Check out my video "How I make animated videos" :)
Great answer, hehe, made me smile, thank you!
No link? How ungentlemanly of you.
If the link is mentioned you'll check just that particular video.. if he doesn't.. you check entire channel... you'll end up wanting other videos as well.
Mallinath M You must be fun at parties.
Thanks for the advice!
you put so much effort into these videos. you sir have earned a new subscriber. Keep up the good work.
i think u r awesome..thank u
Much love :D
What software do you use to make these videos?
Check out my video: "How I make animated videos":)
I read this as you said: "Check out my other videos..." XD
does not make sense?
It will surprise me to know that some people haven't been taught all of these things growing up. Very well done video.
Already knew these because my dad taught me. Great video anyway!
chivalry is dead! feminism killed it!
*Opens door*
STOP OPPRESSING ME!
ok milo
Actually, the Battle of Agincourt (1415) heralded the end of chivalry.
Us feminists don't want chivalry dead. We just want you to apply it to everyone equally : )
Solly,
Iv'e seen a lot about this. But how do wanting to vote and get equal pay have anything to do with manners? I hate how this video and book is called "How to be a Gentlemen" like, I'm a girl yet these things still apply to me! It's just how you interrupt being a gentlemen.
This is just common sense, but who am l kidding. I'm in my thirties, so these statements are just general knowledge to me. It's a shame how daily habits our lost with each generation. Great job! Keep up the with the reviews.
This is so true. Thanks for your valuable feedback and much love :)
I could only imagine that daily discipline is only lost due to the neglect of the generation before. If a parent is not parenting, then a child will look to his or her environment to fill the void. And likely enough, the environment is less than tasteful. Beware, I mean no offense to you sir, but a general statement lead by watching eyes.
nice work. Thank you for this great video.
Thanks for watching and commenting :)
i really appreciate that conclusion of the book. I havent read it but i think you mentioned a lot important things that should be done by young men as a matter of course.
Thank you very much.
Anyone else was thinking of Walter White seeing the thumbnail?
+dilen noris :D
You underestimate my power to sound sarcastic even when saying please
iambiscuit lee that is the same with me. I asked my dad to do something and said please afterwards and we had a full blown argument about my sarcastic nature
Your videos are really interesting and the right length aswell, not too long or short. Keep up the good work!
Thanks! I'll keep that in mind for future videos ;D
Didn't learn anything from the video but I did enjoy it and it was put together really well
You and the other 100 CZcams book reviewers are just copying Fightmediocrity. You all just copy ideas from each other and make videos out of them. That's how you all make SO MANY OF THEM in just a little bit of time.
+Jacob Smith Has anyone reviewed this book yet through animations? Link me to it if you can.
I'd love to see if anyone is making animated videos like my channel. :)
so once you're a gentleman, good luck finding a real "Lady" out there.
Love the video. Keep up the good work👍
Thank you for doing this video , it helped me a lot :)