Are YOU The One Doing The "Chasing" With A Virgo Man?
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- čas přidán 21. 11. 2022
- Discussing why does it feel like you are doing the chasing and pursuing with a Virgo man
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I told the Virgo I was dating at the time, I’m not into chasing men. So he tested me another way, he tried to put me on the shelf I called him out and let him know that’s not how I get down. Five months later he proposed. Ladies these type of men will play games IF YOU LET THEM.
aww congrats everything still going good?
Same here been married 23 years now. Yes they love games!!! Teach how to treat you ladies 👸🏾💕
@@ravanjanae it’s good, we are still together. One thing I learned about these men is use your head not your heart with them.
@@EnlightenOne75 congratulations 😊 yes train them girl. They seem to like that
😂 facts my Virgo tried me I’m a Capricorn so the cut off is right it took one month he was literally crying begging me not to leave him alone we been A1 ever since.
If you have to chase him, he’s not yours to begin with. A man will pursue and make time for what he wants and Virgo men are no exception 🤷🏾♀️
There's some truth in what you are saying, Virgos just a lil different
Correct
@@JonathanRWhitfieldno they aren’t a lil different. In the beginning he was pursuing me. Then as soon as I started falling he stopped and it seemed like I had to chase him.
They are so complicated. Confused me all the damn time. Everything is hot and cold with them
Lol... I'm sorry my Virgo wasn't reciprocating enough. I had to let him loose for the next woman. I loved him & I tried. #SignedTaurus
When was his birthday?
Neither was mine. Not worth the hwadache.
Virgos have issues with reciprocity 🙄….they know how to ask for OTHER things that they want 😒😂
TRUTH 🤣🤣🤣 ...bastards
Facts!
Really what kind of virgo y'all met
Meet a real Virgo that's what
That part!😂
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When I first met my Virgo man friend he pursued me I'm a Virgo woman then the table changed that he made me feel like I was chasing him but when I realized that I backed up. My Virgo man friend is still dealing with darkness so I have backed up my emotions and energy...
Your relationship sounds like mine😭❤️
Most Virgo Men are unfortunately.
That’s what I am about to do the Virgo man I am dating also. I am also a Virgo and don’t like chasing men. I’m very reserved and traditional myself. The Virgo I’m dealing with is always busy with work and was pursuing me strong. But now I’m trying to plan something to meet up with him but he’s telling me he has to travel for work. I’m just going to leave him alone.
Yes mine pursued me too in August ‘22 and he and I talked after we met he told me to contact him and finally in February ‘23 and when I talked to him I couldn’t contact him anywhere and then I emailed him and then the table changed on me too and I backed off I was kinda disappointed and he had been thru a toxic ex and got legal trouble because of it and i was thinking he did have me going like chasing him because we established and we both sat down and we both like each other and he did that so I feel like I I needed to back off.
So dealing with a VIRGO it’s like a needle in the haystack. Chile that darn Virgo will be left behind because that Virgo isn’t going to stress me out.
He came after me hard and fast initially. Then I was issuing the invites to see me due to distance, and he was eager. Then it was equal- he started to initiate now and then too. Then we both got busy and he was turning down my invites, though we'd see each other at social functions and it was fun and close. I know he's falling in love and it's rattling his controlled world. He won't let himself love me and once he gets the feels, he backs off, so I'll hang back and treat him with affection and interest but let him come to me. He knows I'm crazy about him. But let him feel he's not being pushed or pulled toward me. I want him to come freely.
How can they be called good communicators but don’t communicate well with whom they pursue? It’s weird. I don’t think I’ll make it with this new suitor… my patience ain’t that good … ugh, he’s sooo nice and intelligent though 🙃🔥🏹
Yes sagittarius sis...we need clearer communicators than virgos.
What I want to know is why my Virgo crush is extremely quiet and boring around me but super loud and flirty around 304s 🙄😒 and then he just stares from afar…
Honey, you don't even know JUST how helpful this and all your videos have been to me. ♡ thank you King!!!
They only step up when you fully ignore them and another man bags you. They don’t put in the work but as soon as a another man shows interest they get mad.. well too bad. One sided narcissist..
Me and my Virgo guy friend rekindled our friendship today after not talking for months due to a misunderstanding. We hung out and watched movies today and it was all good vibes, we also talked about the misunderstanding. He basically said what you are saying. But when him and I are together it’s good chemistry but we when are not it’s a bit distant but we have that understanding now. He gave me the biggest hug before I left our chemistry feels better vs how it was when we first met in April. But Virgo men are better in person, they just have their own thing going on when you are not around them. He is very much so a gentleman whenever I come over.
Heyy Minister J. Enjoy listening to U. Thanks for ur input.
I’m over y’all Virgos. 😂
Me too. A lot of women feel the same. Gimme a Scorpio. At least I get passion and better sex!
@@SR77736more like abuse and control
Nah, lack of confidence shows. We will eat that up. Don't be weak
I am a Aries to be honest I never chased any man. I was married to a Virgo man. From day one he chased me. After we divorced he still was chasing me and started to resentment me because I no longer wanted to be with him. It’s now 30 years later and I done attracted another Virgo man in my life. To be honest, I have been trying to get a way from him but he keeps chasing me. I truly like him but I don’t know if I should trust him. He came into the relationship with to many Red Flag 🚩 🚩 🚩
Listening to you feels like I’m interacting with the Virgo man I’m dealing with, it gives me a sense of peace. ❤
Same!
Me too! ✌🏾
Me too
Happy Thanksgiving Mr. Whitfield!!!!
😫😂 so funny I’m a Virgo and I am
Used to being pursued I like this virgo man and when I’m around I “think” He likes me he rubs my skin lol he flirts when I text him he responds exactly like you said a good 5 minutes then he disappears 😂 I’m like wtf wrong with this man I think he scared of me
Hahaha nah he is just giving you your space
Same here
8:01 is funny cuz you can really notice how nervous they get. When I go on a date with my Virgo man he keeps silence but he gently touch my hair sometimes, he doesn’t look me in the eyes when we talk but when I’m off guard I noticed he does 😂🤣
Don't y'all know that men are supposed to pursue women?! R.C. Blakes who is also a very wise relationship and women empowerment counselor would say that the man is broken who let's women pursue them.
You right Cynthia l know who R.C blakes is sweetie. I'm subscribed to his channel and one of his followers. Let me to you somethin Cynthia you don't put yourself on hold for no man regardless of what his astrology sign is. Life is too damn short you do you. Always put yourself first and keep your options open sis. Peace and blessings to you 🙏
Virgo is a feminine sign, so if you're not willing to compromise; maybe a virgo is not for you :)
Lol well go walk around in front of other signs that'll throw they self at you problem solved
@@soulitude814trust me she's better off dating another sign.
you on point....
J you know I’ve been going off in your comments and I sincerely apologize…. But after watching A LOT of your videos I’m in a better place with my husband. THANK YOU 💕
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Your videos are great! Do you have a video on how to win him back when you've hurt him?
I know he still wants me he is just being really timid, liking posts but not initiating direct messages. I sent him a message with full apology but it's been a couple days
I’m trying to understand them but it’s hard.
So true. I’m a Virgo and BD a virgo.
In other words…adopt another child😒😂
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Rite 😂
In other words he saying they a lil slow😂😂🥴
I’m a cancer/cusp and go very well with Virgo men 😍 this is true .
What’s on the menu Mr. Whitfield? I know you gon’ throw down on some Thanksgiving food!😉😉😉😉
Question for you how long do it takes a Virgo man realize I'm a blessing to his life but he has made me feel unvalue so I'm will to walk away from our friendship.I will be the one that got away
He will realize it maybe he does but haven't found a right time to tell you how he feels just find a quiet time with him but don't expect anything bcuz expectations ruined things, if u can't feel what he have for you then just walk away save your beautiful self for someone who will appreciate you....I'm a virgo man by the way, I have my past experience that I couldn't make a move towards this special girl who treated me so much better than the person I was with in a relationship, I just found it unfair to leave because of someone but it would have all been worth it that the girl I was with left me for someone else but can't accept her back no more so everything was my mistake
Im trying to understand my Virgo, he is a Sept 1 and Im May 20, I need more patience because its running away from me😅 sometimes I feel like calling him and ask him “hey what is the problem? I don’t pursue men” aye 🤦🏻♀️
I’m going thru this now I’m a may 22 and he is Sept 6. We are in the middle of a misunderstanding. After not talking for a month and some change I reached out to him via text and calmly and and in a civilized way told him how I felt. 4 days later he just texted back that he wasn’t ignoring me. Then a few days after I texted him part 2 of how I felt. Then a week after I texted him how I missed him. Always reassure to him in your text that you understand he needs his space. They appreciate and will listen more when you’ve not suffocating them. He hearted my last message but that’s all. Just give him time. It’s a good sign if he at least acknowledges you. Be patient because like you, I really don’t chase men.
im an April 29 and his Sept 2 .
im taurus he’s virgo . dammmn can’t believe the patience i have 🤭 but i adore him even tho he has his own space and we only see each other on mondays 🤭 haha . thinking of giving up sometimes cause i dont like chasing . Men chase after me and i reject them. but with him i don’t know why . i’ve been giving him all the signals and even telling him nicely and slowly . that i like him more and more . and he tries to change the topic . but he doesn’t want me to leave him either hahaha . its weird that i still have the patience to continue this stagnant no label relationship 🤭🤣🥰💕 hoping he realizes soon .
Analysis Paralysis….or is it that you don’t go after who you really want but rather just settles for who comes to you
But why are there so....many unevolved Virgos....?
The real question is "Why are there so many Unevolved people?"
@@r.s.spence5738 Spoken....as a True UNEVOLED Virgo 🤣
@Latonya Williams Did you or Have you met all the Virgos in this world in your lifetime?
As A Taurus I Agree With R.S Spence it’s Unfair to just put this on one Zodiac. Humans are flawed and short sighted in general. There are a lot of people who need to open their eyes and their minds to an ever changing reality.
@@Sirade ✊🏿
I can’t with my Virgo man omg I’m a Aries I can’t I’m so confuse, he tell me he love me but sometime he disappears and carry condom in his car omg. I can’t with Virgo man
Listen it's not about a sign just be with someone who you feel yourself the vibes and everything effortlessly compatibility matters u just met the wrong one for you or maybe try understand what his showing you through actions than words that's when you know
Get rid of him, if you caught condoms in the car then he's cheating
Hey J., my Virgo man has ghosted me and it's been over a month now. Should I reach out or do you think it's been too long has he maybe moved on?
Same lol he’s ghosted me but he did tell me he has some issues that he needs to deal with and then poof he’s gone not a text or call and it’s almost a month lol
You probably did something to scare him off or upset him. They are pretty upfront and will drop hints at what’s bugging them about you. If it’s been a month no call/ no text/ no watching ur stories he’s likely done. If ur last call was argument or confrontation they will fall back. But if it wasn’t nothing bad he might think u don’t like him more context is needed
He probably found a new partner
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I don't know what to do
I was involved with one I loved him he died
My virgo crush gives me hint flirts a little also give me Nick name bt he is too shy.. He always like this nick name is ok for you.. 😂i said your choice is mine then he said ok let it be not tht imp. Then after few mins he said me baby😂😂😂which he suggest me for my nick name before.. Bt the thing is tht we talk very less.. He is so punctual.. It's not like he is giving tym to other people nd ignoring me.. He is bsy in himself doing his work or whatever... Bt its a new connection nd I want him to be available more so tht feeling can grow more. 😢although I really like him nd m ready to adjust myself according to him bt sometimes it's feels like what if he started feeling like m a easy girl because of my this sensitive and caring nature. Love is so complicated😅
I chased my virgo man and he ditched me..
Now he is with my ex friend who betryaed me she is libra..i should'nt have chased him..
These are both trash ppl
@@garimasingh4659 yep, that's how my toxic virgo ex betrayed me.