Why The Virgo Man Keeps Coming Back?

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Komentáře • 261

  • @B3auty1sNatura1
    @B3auty1sNatura1 Před 3 lety +180

    If a Virgo mans life is too busy to give time and attention to a woman, then maybe he should just say that... He should also just focus strictly on his priorities and then open himself up to a woman when he has more free time to do so as opposed to inviting or accepting a woman into his life and then ghosting or becoming distant because he does not have the time. That’s my take on it... Also just because a Virgo mans life is “too busy” doesn’t mean that the woman doesn’t have anything going on in her life. Maybe her life just isn’t as occupied or she is making time for him. I’m a firm believer that ppl make time for who and what they wanna make time for.

    • @kalisseaya
      @kalisseaya Před 3 lety +10

      Facts!

    • @melissapereira9879
      @melissapereira9879 Před 2 lety +7

      100% facts..

    • @roze6144
      @roze6144 Před 2 lety +29

      facts! The virgo I'm dealing with does the SAME thing. I have an extremely busy life as well and I make time for him. I just think they are stubborn and refuse to adhere to consistent communication and thus just feel like they can do what they want. They can be quite hypocritical as well. They can take forever in responding but when you mirror their actions, it's a problem.

    • @dm1969able
      @dm1969able Před 2 lety +10

      I wish there was a LOVE button for this comment! I couldn't have said it any better!!! ALL FACTS!!!

    • @beccf.s.8012
      @beccf.s.8012 Před rokem +10

      They don't change. I've been surrounded by Virgos my whole life. My whole family and besties are Virgos. They just find a lost cause to rescue. So if you aren't an issue for them to fix and rescue they won't like you. Once they find that cause, they stick to it and will go to great lengths to work on that "cause" while criticizing the heck out of them in the process. They love push overs. To the world they are giving that person a better life (because they rescue people) but, while living with them they will boss you and control you.

  • @kalisseaya
    @kalisseaya Před 3 lety +127

    Virgo men want you to give them the world while they give you breadcrumbs.
    Reciprocation is crucial in a relationship.✍🏾

    • @user-fg9se3yo8u
      @user-fg9se3yo8u Před rokem +2

      You are so beautiful❤

    • @nomm.darkyy
      @nomm.darkyy Před rokem +3

      Girl, this is true, I just broke up with a Virgo man who offered me a friendship after everything and I said we should go our separate ways, so I left.

    • @melissamontes5410
      @melissamontes5410 Před rokem +1

      Yes !!! 100 percent ❤️💯

    • @theeladyj
      @theeladyj Před rokem +1

      So true .. that’s why i leave the one i “ deal” with alone

    • @kalisseaya
      @kalisseaya Před 11 měsíci

      @@user-fg9se3yo8u Thank you sweets!🩷

  • @Kimtran0102
    @Kimtran0102 Před 10 měsíci +20

    The more I watch the less I want to pursue my virgo man now 😂 Thank you for enlightening me. I’m done 😁

  • @TiaJacksonTheRealOneAndOnly

    I can’t stand them liars cheaters the stupid how can u be in a relationship and hold on to your ex’s and hurting someone else it’s just dumb 🙄🙄🙄

  • @maerose5053
    @maerose5053 Před 4 lety +48

    I have been stuck in an off and in cycle with mine for 5 years and two kids. I always walk away because I can’t handle the way he is immovable. He never chases but always comes back. He has good qualities and we have good times but really the problem is we can’t communicate effectively and solve issues together.

  • @ambieeeeance
    @ambieeeeance Před 4 lety +38

    “Love doesn’t die it gets transferred”
    Facts 💯💯💯💯💯

  • @cheryl-annwent468
    @cheryl-annwent468 Před 4 lety +38

    Good men, but too much work and since virgos are unapologetic it makes it worst dealing with them... who wants to work so hard to end up unsure because essentially virgos decide whether they want to be in or not

    • @rashiedhyatt8954
      @rashiedhyatt8954 Před 3 lety +1

      Virgo men are kings and need queens for our kingdom on mercury

  • @dimondmetcalf2723
    @dimondmetcalf2723 Před 4 lety +118

    All this just sounds like to me is that Virgo men are inconsistent and hypocritical 😒

    • @All_starrSquad
      @All_starrSquad Před 4 lety +12

      Yesssssss👏🏾

    • @latoyamccoy3283
      @latoyamccoy3283 Před 3 lety +19

      Very Inconsistent

    • @millie570
      @millie570 Před 3 lety +20

      Veryy I just ended it with a virgo we dated for 3 yrs he was very inconsistent and unreliable in my opinion narcissistic!!

    • @latoyamccoy3283
      @latoyamccoy3283 Před 3 lety +16

      @@millie570 I agree💯 definitely narcissistic behavior.. I hate feeling as tho I am constantly repeating myself. They expect the world from everyone else but give very little in return

    • @rashiedhyatt8954
      @rashiedhyatt8954 Před 3 lety +3

      Noooooop

  • @cleo5543
    @cleo5543 Před 3 lety +24

    bruhhhhh! yall goes far. yall brain bruh is just amazing to me. that over thinking shit... i dont know how yall do it. ghosting is not ok and it really hurts.

  • @servantjen
    @servantjen Před 2 lety +18

    I am convinced that Virgos are good for friends and a problem in relationships. I managed to get into friendship with this Virgo man I love at first because of my authenticity and I don't want to be controlled. I decide to be both very warm and icy. And I know he got the taste of my fire 🔥 burning by being cold for months.
    But the second time around, when there's a need to come back to ask a question, everything came back to normal and I didn't question it just so we can both have peace.
    Now, I didn't question him anymore and think of uncertain things.
    I improved myself more as a woman, mentally, spiritually, and physically. If he stays and manipulates, it's his choice. He will lose a queen, his life.

  • @Handle18880
    @Handle18880 Před rokem +10

    I see how you’re describing the process of personal reflection for the Virgo and appreciate the perspective. Having said that, many of these things are not healthy communication, it’s defense mechanism and immature

  • @nellgeez
    @nellgeez Před 4 lety +83

    Is it possible that Virgo men keep coming back because they create soul ties with the people they have sex with and they don't realize it? Sorry I got stuck on this page in a rabbit hole. I am kind of sick of them. They might be the most bipolar, insecure, inconsistent zodiac sign I've ever come across LOL.

    • @TiaJacksonTheRealOneAndOnly
      @TiaJacksonTheRealOneAndOnly Před 3 lety +20

      Janelle so true they very disrespectful too

    • @latoyamccoy3283
      @latoyamccoy3283 Před 3 lety +23

      Bipolar, inconsiderate, inconsistent confused individuals. 1 virgo is enough for me.

    • @2ndChanceCrafting
      @2ndChanceCrafting Před 3 lety +9

      My first Virgo last 7 months, he saw flaws in me but will not admit flaws in himself. We are both Empaths also and both INFJ's. I was not happy but all I can think about if having him back in my life. Never a Virgo again! Being a double Leo - we were doomed from the start.

    • @millie570
      @millie570 Před 3 lety +2

      Agreed

    • @chasesidora
      @chasesidora Před 3 lety +6

      EVER but swear they are Gods gift to the world!

  • @staygold1285
    @staygold1285 Před 11 měsíci +9

    If you need so much time to yourself then might as well be single. why you’ll need to waste someone’s time.

  • @fakebrit
    @fakebrit Před 4 lety +66

    I’ve had to cut it off with my Virgo exs. Both great men it just didn’t work out and yes I had to be the one to cut it off or we would just end up talking and acting like we’re still together. It tough because I cared for them too but it goes for any relationship... if you’re not willing to commit don’t waste someone’s time. Other than that I’ll date another virgo again. They’re great if you’re a relationship type person. A mature one will communicate his moods and needs.

    • @shathamuhsen3842
      @shathamuhsen3842 Před 4 lety +2

      I was with one virgo man , we are working toggether , after one year of in and off relationship, he decided that he fell in love with me and want to marry me ! So he send his mother to my house where i and my mother live together , for some reason his mother didn’t agree with being together, at first he said i didn’t give up ! I want time to make her mind ! Then after that , he start ghosting me and become distant , then i myself start to walk away , so he after 2 months come back saying he don’t lnow what to do with his mother , and he miss me and etc! I said you can’t do nothing with your mother so walk away ! He said that this is trueand right ! And he will walk away from me , every couple months he come back making joke trying talk to me in our work company ! Didn’t know what he want !

    • @rashiedhyatt8954
      @rashiedhyatt8954 Před 3 lety +2

      Give more time 🍯

    • @ladycancer9330
      @ladycancer9330 Před 2 lety +1

      I totally disagree about your last comment . Was with a Virgo man for 5 years and our problem was he wouldn’t communicate with me.

  • @yudelkasalcedo1796
    @yudelkasalcedo1796 Před 4 lety +7

    Love this topic! Keep up the great work sir ~ you're out here changing lives!

  • @StacyannJ
    @StacyannJ Před 4 lety +54

    I had to ghost my Virgo "Friend" He lied way to much and wasn't worth my damn time. He took advantage of my kindness and kept stealing my idea's.

    • @JonathanRWhitfield
      @JonathanRWhitfield  Před 4 lety +11

      You did the right thing

    • @StacyannJ
      @StacyannJ Před 4 lety +14

      How do I get it through his head he keeps calling me like everything is fine, refuses to apologize and admit is wrong doing. He tries to project his wrong doings on me and play petty and it’s annoying he’s to old to behaving this way 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @janecostello7468
      @janecostello7468 Před 4 lety

      I’m a Virgo female I know exactly what your saying most people don’t understand us I’m am exactly the person traits your saying Virgo men are no different

    • @StacyannJ
      @StacyannJ Před 4 lety +10

      Jane Costello ima Virgo myself I think august virgos and September Virgos are so different

    • @BornToBeFamed
      @BornToBeFamed Před 4 lety +6

      Stacyann J i Agree. Im a august virgo. September virgos act like libras

  • @mmourino3
    @mmourino3 Před 9 měsíci +1

    This video has helped me more then you know! Thank you ❤

  • @tammiedavis9381
    @tammiedavis9381 Před 4 lety +51

    I've been dating my Virgo for almost three months now! In the very beginning, we were hanging out, having fun, cuddling in public, just loving on each other! We even spent the weekend together at a hotel and it was beautiful! All of a sudden, he's acting like he can't spend the night with me or come see me! When i accuse him of cheating, he gets mad! I'm a Leo and we don't do that ghosting thing! I told him that i was gonna leave and walk away but he didn't want that! I'm sorry Mr. Whitfield but a Virgo man will have a woman tearing her hair out of her head and just wanting to put the paws on him! I'm trying to be patient because he is a sweetheart and very handsome i might add! I am so in love with this man but he makes it so hard!

    • @tonileolion9702
      @tonileolion9702 Před 3 lety +10

      tammie davis I’m a Leo ♌️ to and dating a Capricorn which the are almost the same then I met a Virgo ♍️. We love ❤️ being with the men we reallly like and can see ourselves with. Tbh I think 🤔 u should pull back, detach urself . Create space , communicate only when he does . Not cut him off yet . Also have a ez going conversation about how u feel. Do not let ur emotions show , talk to him using logic , they understand that more so than feelings . If u r a Leo ♌️ who isn’t busy, still crave attn : he is not the one for u. Now if u r the opposite, than go for it . Earth 🌍 signs r very calm and chill . Slowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. So patience is Major Key 🔑

    • @2ndChanceCrafting
      @2ndChanceCrafting Před 3 lety +9

      Leo with Virgo here, they know exactly how to manipulate us. Last 3.5 weeks from break-up have been pure hell, never felt this low. Lord save me.

    • @cleo5543
      @cleo5543 Před 3 lety +3

      @@2ndChanceCrafting OMG! your soooo right! my virgo blames me for being manipulative! cant get it through his head that he's really intense and he's the one trying to manipulate me with the feelings shit. for an aqua like me it drives me insane. he always has to be right and have the last say about everything. i just shut down and wanna pull my teeth out! omg

    • @2ndChanceCrafting
      @2ndChanceCrafting Před 3 lety +1

      @@cleo5543 - O they are never wrong. If I go to him with something I think that is bothering me about us he turns it around and makes it about me and it's my fault!! WTH? We are doing the friends thing now but it is not the same, getting him to open up and tell me what really is going on is not working. He loves me but thinks we are too different.

    • @evaglennrobert6279
      @evaglennrobert6279 Před 3 lety +2

      Literally same with my story, my bf is also a virgo and he did the same as what your man did u

  • @shaylamarie960
    @shaylamarie960 Před 4 lety +30

    All I attract are Virgos lately. And my only heartbreaks in my life have come from Virgos. The latest one on Friday! 💔😭 They will cut you off with no warning, and never speak to you again. That's devastating. I will cut you off also, but give you chances before I do that. I'm Cancer Sun, Scorpio Rising, Aquarius Moon. This video is right on.

  • @shainaj1391
    @shainaj1391 Před 4 lety +3

    I’m loving this low cut Jonathan!!!! 😊😏

  • @isaacaguirre8709
    @isaacaguirre8709 Před 3 lety +62

    I can tell you from my own experience that the reason we come back or change our mind is because we don’t like leaving situations unresolved. It’s harder for a Virgo man to understand his decisions because he always runs those decisions back in his head. I struggled with this in my relationship and I didn’t stop becoming a problem till I took my time and felt the loss of my girlfriend. If it wasn’t meant to be then I truly believe that she would of never called me back and she would have blocked me. But instead she did call back and we did decide that we needed to change the pace of our relationship and steer towards a more positive direction. Virgo men need a women who is loyal patient strong and caring. Because without that we can easily let go and come back just to realize nothing has changed. So cut him off completely if you don’t have Loyalty, Patience , Self confidence, And a Caring relationship with your Virgo man.

    • @servantjen
      @servantjen Před 2 lety +5

      This is my take as well. It was really unresolved and until now, I have not received answers.
      I did cut off the interaction but not blocking him, because even if he hurt me unintentionally and I hated him for some reasons, I came back to make my words true. And that's when everything went smooth the second time around.
      I just can't stop caring for him as well. I know he needs it.

    • @Handle18880
      @Handle18880 Před rokem +8

      Virgos want those things but doesn’t have those things

    • @Saash.6
      @Saash.6 Před rokem

      Hi, will you please stay connected with me? I just wanna know some things

    • @chidimaokereke8372
      @chidimaokereke8372 Před rokem

      @@Handle18880thank you for this they are unknowingly selfish and no accountability what so ever

    • @tiana2906
      @tiana2906 Před rokem

      @@Saash.6 what do you want to know?

  • @whoareyou3916
    @whoareyou3916 Před 4 lety +22

    I actually brought this up to my virgo ex that he does this. I jokingly asked why and what is it about me that makes him come back. but he couldn’t give me a straight answer. So thank you for making this video.

    • @italianprincess8107
      @italianprincess8107 Před 4 lety +33

      They wont give you straight answer because most of the time they lying

  • @blackspanese
    @blackspanese Před 4 lety +4

    Looking fresh!

  • @michellenibler6599
    @michellenibler6599 Před 3 lety +8

    I only know two virgo's, and both of them would do almost anything for me. I am one blessed aries woman. I treasure them both. Blessings....

  • @ItsSunshyne
    @ItsSunshyne Před 3 lety +25

    I loved a Virgo since I was a teenager (2o10-11). Met him through my family. We broke up and never stopped “seeing Eachother” until last year. He has watched me grow. vice versa.. the last time I saw him, I told him I was done chasing back and forth when he knows how much I love him. Why do I feel so hidden when it came to us.. was I that horrible of person to his lifestyle? My life was a wreck. The last thing he said to me was, “But I love you” with a kiss on the forehead and a hug goodbye and I cried the whole ride home because I knew that was my last time chasing a broken dream. And since then, I’ve done a lot of self care. Since then, he’s been dry. Less flirty, etc. yet, He has watched my posts on social media, watched me through his business page, a fake page messaged me and I honestly believe it was him. He claims I’m paranoid.
    To make matters worse.. he’s in a relationship about to have a family. I was hurt. But I forgave myself. I will always love that Virgo man. He did something to me. He changed me for the better. I’ll probably never know how he really felt about me. He’s so dry to me now so I blocked him. I’m learning to let go of 8+ years of.. nothing.

    • @priyankarai1061
      @priyankarai1061 Před 8 měsíci

      I feel that pain in my chest right now … I wish I could hug you .. wish you peace and healing .. you are so brave !

  • @jenellemccray9802
    @jenellemccray9802 Před 3 lety

    oh and by the way Minister J. Dope , and accurate video

  • @awesomeness1176
    @awesomeness1176 Před 4 lety +9

    Jonathan ~ May I say ‘ you very inviting ... I think personally it comes more down to common sense , ladies , if he is invested he will show it , give him time to think ... at least when he does come back you know he is invested ,don’t act insecure ~ it’s a turn off / keep it direct , no one like a dweller !

  • @theresagilliam5770
    @theresagilliam5770 Před 4 lety +33

    Him being able to read me has/is one of my favorite parts about him. Nether one of us can hide. Pisces/Virgo. Lol Jonathan!

    • @candyt1984
      @candyt1984 Před 4 lety +2

      How I feel about mines can see right through me but seems insecure no trust but was friends before lovers im a Libra& he a Virgo

    • @msblaquecherry
      @msblaquecherry Před 2 lety

      How’s it going? I’m a Pisces as well with Virgo and it’s been....😩🥴🤯

  • @ktate0809
    @ktate0809 Před 3 lety

    Lost Your Page After Losing My Old YT Page. Found You Again On The TL. So Glad I Did.

  • @CarmenRivera-ti9in
    @CarmenRivera-ti9in Před 5 měsíci

    The end of this video made me cry, when you spoke about being grateful. I often find myself being grateful for the moment I’m in and when I look around me, no matter what I’m going through or what I’m feeling, and it helps when I’m feeling at my worst. Thank you, Jonathan.

  • @tyb1rdp464
    @tyb1rdp464 Před 4 lety +5

    You are so handsome. I also enjoy the content.

  • @roxie71
    @roxie71 Před 4 lety +5

    Its God wisdom over you on that light 😊

  • @pockahantiss
    @pockahantiss Před 4 lety +36

    My Virgo ex tried to come back. I thought about it, then I'm like NAH- I'm still mad about the "two-for-one"coupon he used fuh us when we went to see John Q! AND the ONE Dove ice cream bar that he bought fuh himself on top a dat! HELL NAW- I'm good-!!!✌🏾️Ol' cheap ass-😒😒😒

  • @barbss.7578
    @barbss.7578 Před 3 lety

    Let me know when you do your next Live topic, J. Thx. B.

  • @MsShaw-xn1qo
    @MsShaw-xn1qo Před 2 lety +14

    From my experience They can abstain from sex for a long time

    • @JessSkubi
      @JessSkubi Před 9 měsíci

      Really!?

    • @melissaleon1489
      @melissaleon1489 Před 9 měsíci

      Omg yes so true. As a Leo woman who love to seduce, I started to feel like wtf😅 But I'm realizing it's just how some of them are, nothing to do with me.

  • @gabz24etcetera
    @gabz24etcetera Před 2 lety +7

    I really thought a virgo woman was complex but virgo men are 10x that complexity. I am shook and I am a virgo woman that is very patient. I see why most don’t get married until later on in life or not at all. It’s a catch 22 to virgo men, virgo women are at least bendable seems like the virgo man isn’t at all. You are right, ppl are different. This might not be worth my time, but I’m willing to try bc of the compatibility and being a child hood friend.

  • @kristinecheng2509
    @kristinecheng2509 Před 10 měsíci +3

    I just started dating a virgo man 5 months ago it’s has been crazy. Sometimes I think like wtf did I get myself into… 😮‍💨

  • @kandycoated6408
    @kandycoated6408 Před 3 lety +13

    My Virgo ex wouldn’t take no for a answer just a cycle of me being miserable and him not seeing the error in his ways , I finally ended it and blocked him , he started calling from his mothers house phone, I blocked that too, he won’t go away

    • @shannons8976
      @shannons8976 Před 3 lety +7

      Going through the same thing! He ghosts and comes back. I cut him off, he gets with someone else and comes back hitting me up after that relationship ends. It's a toxic cycle!

    • @denisecrawford96
      @denisecrawford96 Před 2 lety

      @@shannons8976 I’m taking to Virgo and we got into our first fight he block me off everything would he come back to even apologize

    • @AmericanGirl8848
      @AmericanGirl8848 Před 2 lety

      @@denisecrawford96 did he ever come back?

    • @denisecrawford96
      @denisecrawford96 Před 2 lety

      @@AmericanGirl8848 lol yup he did still be trying stalk me

    • @JessSkubi
      @JessSkubi Před 9 měsíci

      😂😂😂😂❗

  • @carmenhayes8680
    @carmenhayes8680 Před 4 lety +25

    Mr. Whitfield, you are speaking the exact TRUE! You have to be PATIENT with a Virgo man. You cannot rush nor manipulate this man into nothing. If you try, he will leave you in a heart beat. This man can do without you...PERIOD! Help him realize his dreams. Don't do it for him or that will piss him off...HELP HIM! Talk to him and be very ladylike about it. Share when he's ready to share or that too will piss him off. Let him do him and yoi do you. Let him come to you. You can't do it any other way. Be passionate. Be bold. Be nurturing. Be very ladylike and respectful. Be a go getter, but always remain a lady and not show any masculine energy. But most of be yourself and love him in that way always. No guarantees, but pray as I do and be patient. God will let you when to let go.
    Thanks Mr. Whitfield. You have help immensely.

    • @italianprincess8107
      @italianprincess8107 Před 4 lety +15

      Well makes 2 of us i can do just fine without a virgo he aint the only one fish in the sea ..i dont chase no man life is too short for all that crap

    • @sarahs.archives
      @sarahs.archives Před 4 lety +6

      ^^Literally who has time for constant hipocrisy

    • @chasesidora
      @chasesidora Před 3 lety +5

      @@sarahs.archives the time or the energy! headaches!

    • @milesgs
      @milesgs Před 2 lety +1

      @@italianprincess8107 say no more !!!

  • @kingjames6232
    @kingjames6232 Před rokem +2

    I’m Virgo ♍️ man and this really true , rn I’m inlove with a Aquarius ♒️

  • @moonshinetarot7763
    @moonshinetarot7763 Před 2 lety +3

    I’m Pisces and he’s Virgo casual relationship and omg we bonded and he keeps coming and coming and I keep trying to keep boundaries so I don’t get attached… he is very critical but honestly I’m not offended maybe he will help make me better . but idk if I should break it off . We have had separation and I don’t chase and he came back a year later asking why I didn’t text him . what to do?

  • @joycelynwalker269
    @joycelynwalker269 Před 3 lety +11

    If I'm going to give my all and I'm going to be disrespected and he goes with his ex's. Then he need to stay there. If you still in love with the ex then keep the ex. Stop blocking others. Emotional manipulators. I am going to go because I'm not putting up with the BS.

  • @michellegaindilal5758
    @michellegaindilal5758 Před 3 lety

    Trinidad in the house

  • @samannthaswtnss9397
    @samannthaswtnss9397 Před 4 lety +9

    I’m a double Scorpio woman and I have such a bad on and off again relationship with a dominate Virgo male. Every four months like clock work he pops up in my DMs. Last time we spoke it was bad. He sends me mixed signals. I mean I’m a Scorpio and he sends my head for a loop. He trump me on my game. It’s toxic and so good at the same time. I just don’t understand this one. And that’s hard for me to admit. I love him tho. It’s something this one.

    • @denisecrawford96
      @denisecrawford96 Před 2 lety

      I’m talking to Virgo and it end bad and he block me we never resolve our conflict do u think he will be back

    • @Usernpclookinahh
      @Usernpclookinahh Před 2 lety

      @@denisecrawford96 only god knows. In the meantime, work on yourself & find what makes you happy, girl fuck him 😂

    • @elarisa10
      @elarisa10 Před 2 lety +1

      You dont need him

  • @72578
    @72578 Před 4 lety +11

    A Virgo does required patience! But hopefully with time, we can become part of his priorities

    • @B3auty1sNatura1
      @B3auty1sNatura1 Před 3 lety +8

      @Debbie Palacios “hopefully with time, we can become part of HIS priorities”?? Hmmm 🤔 so what happens when you’ve waited around for months/years and he decides to choose another woman?? Now you’re devastated becuz he didn’t “pick you” but you were being “patient”. And what makes a Virgo man so much better than the rest of the men out here that we have to “wait on him” in the first place?? Let’s not be foolish for a man. It’s better to use discernment and know our worth so we don’t get strung along for years and then cry victim when we’re dumped or “ghosted” for someone else. Jmt 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @RiysWorld731
    @RiysWorld731 Před 4 lety +3

    Can you please allow the "live chat" to be viewed on this video?

  • @robinburns1178
    @robinburns1178 Před 4 lety +3

    Why I didn’t get a notification about this live 😒

    • @florestrella1305
      @florestrella1305 Před 3 lety

      Lol. It's a sign. Those virgos need to grow up, just saying.

  • @joycelynwalker269
    @joycelynwalker269 Před 3 lety +8

    So don't he thinks others need their self alone time. Ghosting is being disrespectful. If I call or text because I have concerned and I'm keep being ghosted. He can take that some place else. Communication is the key especially if you claimed you have feelings for the person. Need to learn to apologize.

    • @elarisa10
      @elarisa10 Před rokem +2

      I never understood the fact that someone pretends they have feelings and ghosts you, expecting that this doesnt bother you .If you allow them to do so ,they will keep doing that and think its normal and its not normal at all. If you love someone and they are ghosting you cuz they need time alone they definitely dont love you, they are enjoying that time to be with another person ,cuz he got borred of you,and knows you ll hang on there waiting patiently for him to come back when he gets borred on the other side.... People need to not just grow up,but educate themselves about being in a relationship and not just take it as a fun factor. You can destroy someones life with your bad relationship behaviour...

  • @jessicajackson2438
    @jessicajackson2438 Před 5 měsíci

    Omg I needed this video.... He ghost me back in 2017 apologized a year and some change later took me awhile to shake him then for a almost two years he chased me seriously lol kept apologizing even told me he loved me a few times and he'll do anything for me... Finally I gave him a chance last October and we're cool I keep him as far as my feelings towards him in a cooler with lots of ice 🤣🤣 because Virgo men are something else lol but we're cool I love him but we just cool lol

  • @thisloop
    @thisloop Před rokem +1

    he said he didnt wanna talk to me no mo 🤗 when he was angry he said super rude words to me while i talked to him nicely, addressed the issues nicely. then unfollowing me on instagram then i just blocked him straight!

    • @niag7273
      @niag7273 Před 10 měsíci +1

      What’s the update????? Did he come back 👀

  • @christopherfitzhugh4788
    @christopherfitzhugh4788 Před 4 lety +12

    Virgos are so complex and I mean that in the nicest way possible. I’ve been on and off with one for almost two years not dating we just are intimate and hang out like friends would. He compares it to making love and talks about our connection. We also work at the same place but don’t see each other often. He’s asked me bunches of times if I like him or cared and has asked me multiple times if I care or like him. He calls me closed off but I’m still healing from an abusive relationship. I honestly think he knows the answer too, but he’ll say that he’s not into assuming. He does the ghosting thing to, I think the longest was a month we went with out communication. I’m so conflicted and confused. He always comes back and never stays gone long. Love your videos I’m getting so much insight! You virgos are something for sure! Very captivating and intelligent. Edited to mention this account was set up with an old email but I am a woman talking about a Virgo man.

  • @patriciawitherspoon3518
    @patriciawitherspoon3518 Před 4 lety +7

    I ask him how he know so much about me I love that about him when he knows something is wrong he picks up on it by the tone of my voice.

  • @vixen264
    @vixen264 Před rokem

    Been out of my Virgo ex’s life for years and he is with someone else now but he always finds an excuse to talk to me. I’m so confused 😢

  • @moonlightgomez1469
    @moonlightgomez1469 Před 4 lety +12

    Broke up with him for almost 1 month now. He put my name on his bio yesterday even though we haven’t talked for like 3 weeks??? Edit: I’m a cancerian woman and he’s a Virgo

    • @zztops3739
      @zztops3739 Před 3 lety +1

      How did it work out?

    • @lovely7464
      @lovely7464 Před 11 měsíci +2

      i know its 3 years since you wrote that comment but Girl what did the bio say? My virgo just came back out of nowhere like we are still together. wtfffff

  • @Handle18880
    @Handle18880 Před rokem +6

    So when is Virgo doing the work to understand and adjust to the way OTHER ppl are. Why does the Virgo assume everyone needs to get with their program and interactions must be on their terms. Healthy, mature relationships do not operate that way. It’s also immature to assume ppl need to come to them to have dialogue to understand them better. Speak up, initiate conversations.

    • @sullysully_
      @sullysully_ Před 5 měsíci

      I SO agree with this. Virgos act like the world revolves around them.

  • @barbss.7578
    @barbss.7578 Před 3 lety +4

    J... Scorpios are the "feelers"... Scorps can read you better than any other zodiac with exception of Virgo (only becuz Virgos and Scorps were once one in the same.)... The 2 zodiac signs are balanced by Libra , although they have become their own zodiac scors are the closest and compatible to virgo.. Pisces is also compatible but too emotiona for virgo; whereas Scorpio can invade the virgo lie an Xray. We do understand their form of intensity (and melt virgo into liquid n2 the earth).

  • @candyt1984
    @candyt1984 Před 4 lety +2

    The Aug 23 is that considered Virgo or leo and Virgo cusp?

    • @KsBadass88
      @KsBadass88 Před 3 lety +3

      Early August is Virgo but they have Leo personality traits

  • @etheltrader2814
    @etheltrader2814 Před 4 lety +2

    I asked a virgo u still love me he replied of course. Why you ask he texted me alot after intimacy so I guess he loves me he said he honestly does

  • @Herakane88
    @Herakane88 Před 2 měsíci

    This Virgo man got me in the headlock 🤦🏽‍♀️😂 I can sense a kindred spirit in him however it’s really hard to get to know him because he has trust issues. I’m a very thought provoking woman who loves clear communication and it’s like pulling a tooth out with him 🤦🏽‍♀️😂I truly want to get to know him but sometimes I feel like I’m forcing myself on him, when clearly he would rather be alone

  • @crxzytakia1057
    @crxzytakia1057 Před rokem +1

    so idk if you’ll reply but I’m currently going threw a interesting situation w a Virgo man I am a Virgo women we have a good connection there wasn’t a bad fallout either but I just feel like I’m getting ghosted n I talked to him so we can plan to meet up talk about how he communicates n he ghosted me so I told him off but idk I feel like I made a mistake……..

    • @sullysully_
      @sullysully_ Před 5 měsíci

      What happened after? I told mine off too.

  • @sibarra4583
    @sibarra4583 Před 3 lety +2

    You are Correct that Everyone... Goes Through Something! What some Fail to Realize is that in Many Cases... It is Ourselves that 'Put' Us through that Something! I was Raised on a Foundational Premise that 'Time Waits for No Man'. (Even Virgo Men). Lol. Anyway. I'm Listening because I Care about my Virgo Relationship. Yet. I Assure You... #Cancer Chicks have 'Ish they Require as well. So. Compromise. Balance. 'Innerstanding' is 🔑 for Us All.

  • @Moneyney-
    @Moneyney- Před 3 lety +17

    The prom is not that he comes back. The problem is that we let him. We need to stop pointing finger and grow up or accept them just the way they are.

  • @belindamcclain5579
    @belindamcclain5579 Před 9 měsíci

    My Guy is a Virgo & it's been almost two months and he has never called me on the phone...So I questioned him on that & he said he don't talk much over the phone...but I'm hoping one day he will let me in enough to actually call me...but we text every few days...

  • @virgojenkins876
    @virgojenkins876 Před 4 lety +2

    What’s sup Jonathan I always watch your videos. I’m a Virgo myself and you say straight facts about a lot of stuff in the videos that I watch, I was watching the love feed and in most of them even hearing from my wife that we are lef as selfish. Help a brotha out?

    • @JonathanRWhitfield
      @JonathanRWhitfield  Před 4 lety +1

      ppl say that but it is only because we don't do things that don't make sense

  • @shaylamarie960
    @shaylamarie960 Před 4 lety +2

    Where do you preach?

  • @brooklyn3263
    @brooklyn3263 Před 2 lety +5

    So why is it so hard for the Virgo man to be faithful?

    • @siphookobama8344
      @siphookobama8344 Před 2 měsíci

      Hey you are dealing with a toxic one it have nothing to do with the sign

  • @SimranKaur-to8vy
    @SimranKaur-to8vy Před 4 lety +2

    I have seen your videos they all are well enough to make one understand about the traits of a Virgo. There are certain things I would like to discuss not enough to write here. How can I talk to you about it ?.. I am from India.

  • @verrenadecker7739
    @verrenadecker7739 Před 4 lety +7

    We are both Virgo’s we are always in a twin flame cycle😳. When will he ever get out of this cycle?

    • @virgoyogini5377
      @virgoyogini5377 Před 3 lety

      Same. Only I think he's gone for good, he's engaged, and she doesn't let him talk to me (which I can't believe he tolerates), unless there's a miracle. I miss him.

  • @theresagilliam5770
    @theresagilliam5770 Před 4 lety +2

    Crockpot! Takes a process to cook but the food is delicious!

  • @shuntayshuntay04
    @shuntayshuntay04 Před 9 měsíci

    When the Virgo meets me the Aries 🤭 trust me he has been humbled . Virgo’s are the best for so many reasons . But here’s a tip keep blocking your emotions you will miss blessings . But as I told him ..that’s on you ❤😂

  • @hudamasood2985
    @hudamasood2985 Před 2 lety +6

    I am a cancerian he is a virgo we shared an amazing bond but he wouldnt commit or propose so I had to walk away just recently, but I want him back soooooo bad, will he come back?

    • @milayu4419
      @milayu4419 Před rokem +5

      He will come back but will never commit 😅

  • @RiysWorld731
    @RiysWorld731 Před 4 lety +1

    Can you let the "live chat" be viewed on the video please?

  • @angelina8481
    @angelina8481 Před 5 měsíci

    I'm dealing with a Virgo man that don't give me much conversation and don't spend time with me ghost me.

  • @jenniferfoster8078
    @jenniferfoster8078 Před 3 lety +5

    What about a Pisces and a Virgo man you don't like talking about him why I am a Pisces I'm in love with the virgo man we have. That kind of relationship

    • @JonathanRWhitfield
      @JonathanRWhitfield  Před 3 lety +2

      These two are a good match but it can go bad if they are not actively working together to maintain

    • @3476rachel
      @3476rachel Před 3 lety +1

      Me too pisces woman🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @LoveCammi
    @LoveCammi Před 4 lety +1

    Oh geez

  • @kenrowland7864
    @kenrowland7864 Před rokem +2

    Grade A NARC 👆🤗

  • @jenellemccray9802
    @jenellemccray9802 Před 3 lety +3

    I don't think Virgo's talk down on people. I think people don't like when the Virgo Flips the Script back on them.

  • @angelina8481
    @angelina8481 Před 5 měsíci +1

    If I ask him questions, will he be honest with the answer?

  • @Leecegyrl
    @Leecegyrl Před rokem

    Virgo men are very practical and friendly men! They have their fair share of deep emotional issues or problems that they hid but are willing to listen to others ppl problems bc he is the problem solver of the zodiac! This leaves them overwhelmed exhausted and depleted! Therefore they will become very distant and ghost you! So just make sure you got your ish in order these kinda men need strong women to show them how to balance emotions and life!

    • @thisloop
      @thisloop Před rokem +1

      nah... not really! the one i knew when i addressed the issues he suddenly got mad for no reason n accused me for somethin i didnt do 🤦‍♀️

  • @etheltrader2814
    @etheltrader2814 Před 4 lety +3

    Should i be with a virgo when I asked why do you love me he said I just do and then I asked so do you love me or love me as a friend he replied it's a growing love. I can't really gauge it

    • @Sussexxsquad
      @Sussexxsquad Před 4 lety +7

      I can’t stand them sometimes, how they answer questions.

  • @hmoobtojroob9066
    @hmoobtojroob9066 Před 4 lety +1

  • @staygold1285
    @staygold1285 Před 11 měsíci +1

    So in short they are just healing 12 months of the year.

  • @MadamMenTion
    @MadamMenTion Před 4 lety

    He went off on me cuz i asked him to leave me alone so i said prove what u saying leave me alone ......that cycle is a sick brain malfunction......don't down play my shit and u wont leave me alone boy! Im a virgo to tho🙋‍♀️😚

  • @winsan5046
    @winsan5046 Před 4 lety

    Hey Jonathan thanks for your video well i have question wish you can reply me , i had chat with Virgo guy by social media i ignored him he keep chat and come back , we live in long distance he chat to meet many Times in a few month till i replied once time and continue to chat we have strong connection ... Since then we Met when he came to my country ITS fun talk he is calm cold and seems mysterious after meeting he ghosting couple weeks till he said on chat Long Time No Hear and i replied him and he replied back after 3 weeks he said I Miss You ... After a few weeks he sent message again You Forgot Me ?? I often care to him about our chat ..i actually don't know why he keep contact me even a few Times sent message and ghosting ITS weird but i cant let him go from my mind as he does saying that before we Met . Thanks Jonathan

  • @truckdrivermartinquefrankl5313

    I hate this virgo man so much I want to make him hurt he cheat fights me he talked about me to his family he gone hurt at the end

  • @asemirg
    @asemirg Před 3 lety +4

    4:25 video starts

  • @patriciawitherspoon3518
    @patriciawitherspoon3518 Před 4 lety +7

    Long distance relationship here

  • @9PAIRS
    @9PAIRS Před 4 lety

    ...I know the secret!

  • @Angela.Empressive
    @Angela.Empressive Před 3 lety +1

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @sweetiegirl3292
    @sweetiegirl3292 Před 2 lety

    He moved on with someone else and blocked me 😞I feel so hurt we were in love

    • @elarisa10
      @elarisa10 Před rokem

      He shurely wasnt . Stop lying to yourself ....

    • @tiana2906
      @tiana2906 Před rokem +1

      I'm sorry to hear that my love but don't worry cause karma will always catch up to these low life virgos

  • @alissap7200
    @alissap7200 Před 3 lety +1

    I'm a Capricorn he's a Virgo we've been broken up for 3 years and he is very complicated and I am too cuz we go back and forth whether we want to be in a relationship with each other and when I say I don't want to be in a relationship with him he kind of gets a little upset and doesn't talk to me for 3 months and then it'll kind of go the same way for him when I want to he won't want to and it's weird because the last time he opened up to me a lot lot more than he's ever done and told me why he always disappears without a trace and doesn't talk to me told me that I heard him when we actually dated for 2 years back in the day he felt that he wasn't giving me enough and that he loved me but he kind of still disappears when he gets really really close and I don't really know why I know he needs his time but and I kind of need my time too every time that I'm interested in somebody else he gets mad and or if I want my time to myself he'll get mad too and it doesn't make sense because like when he leaves I'm supposed to understand but when I leave and want time to myself for like a month or two months or something he gets mad and kind of jokes around about it but I know he's serious and I don't really know how to tell him hey look if you don't want nothing to do with me then leave me alone but he always tells me he cares and we have a bond and it's more than just sexual thing LOL I just don't know how to deal with it because when I want to be friends he wants more and when I give him more he doesn't want it but then when he tries I don't get the hints and then he gets mad so yeah we've talked and he kind of just goes back to the same thing I don't know if I'm ready for a relationship and he's got two beautiful kids but they're just kind of really really wild and don't listen to him and that's why the reason he told me that he just disappears because one of his daughter is a very bad trouble maker the last time that we had a connection he was going to stay overnight and all the sudden he just kind of got up and left and then I didn't talk to him for like 2 months LOL he says that he's always thinking about me and he wants to talk to me but he doesn't know how to say hi after he's not talked to me for a while lol

  • @IAMLilianChanel
    @IAMLilianChanel Před 3 lety +1

    So many of these comments r gonna b negative toward Virgo off the fact that they’re ppl who clicked on . . Why does a Virgo keep coming back ? “” so . . The commentary here has a bias • don’t read into the confirmation against a sign . . Which even a Pure Sign has its higher & lower vibrations • not to mention that an actual natal chart is massively complex • Every planet , asteroid etc is part of YHWH work & these planets can b found n Houses ( where within your life does this energy show up , Home ? work ? marriage ? N your MIND ? ) etc etc etc Don’t b found without sober self reflection • innerstand and take what applies and let the rest fly ppl ✨

  • @asemirg
    @asemirg Před 3 lety +1

    21:22

  • @GODDESS-ze3ew
    @GODDESS-ze3ew Před 3 lety +6

    My kids dad is a Virgo he got married to a different woman after getting her pregnant but I always knew he still loves me...because of the bond we share and we both dream about each other even when he is going through pain I sense it and am the only woman he talks to about his problems...he recently came back to tell me he wants to invest in me and that he still got love for me ...he was my good bestee since childhood...am a cancer anyways

    • @elarisa10
      @elarisa10 Před rokem +4

      Yeah he got borred of you,had another woman pregnant and now he got borred of her and you love him madly ... Is this a sandwich?

    • @tiana2906
      @tiana2906 Před rokem +2

      @@elarisa10 exactly 💯, the women is delusional 🤣

  • @Usernpclookinahh
    @Usernpclookinahh Před 2 lety +5

    Physically you look similar to my ex Virgo guy. I’ll never get back with him but we could remain friends. Nothing more, Nothing less 💯
    Literally thought of him the other day & guess what ?? He hits me up , TODAY 🤦🏾‍♀️. Lmao how you block me from your phone then inbox me a month later like nothing ever happened?
    ** && GHOSTING IS DEAD WRONG 🙄. BE MAN OR WOMAN ENOUGH TO SAY HOW YOU FEEL THEN GO YOUR SEPARATE WAY. SIMPLE 💯

    • @BlkOnyx0508
      @BlkOnyx0508 Před rokem

      I agree. Adults discuss their feelings etc.

  • @Readysetgolive
    @Readysetgolive Před 4 lety +8

    Your so handsome =) chocolate self

  • @allthingsiro
    @allthingsiro Před 4 měsíci

    I'm kinda over this Virgo man. When we're together we are good. But the time apart and the introvert part is too much.

  • @theresagilliam5770
    @theresagilliam5770 Před 4 lety +11

    Virgos are the healers of the zodiac.

    • @chasesidora
      @chasesidora Před 3 lety +22

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Glo_up576
      @Glo_up576 Před 2 lety

      True

    • @elarisa10
      @elarisa10 Před rokem +8

      Yeah,they heal your broken heart by killing it .

    • @JessSkubi
      @JessSkubi Před rokem +4

      He "healed" my broken heart from a Capricorn, then shattered my heart.

  • @Lovelaiaa
    @Lovelaiaa Před 4 měsíci

    Since I could remember I have attracted virgo men. They have been some of the most toxic yet loving and caring men I’ve ever dealt with. I have always had my own individual bond with each of my ex’s and they all still consider me and friend. They have bonds with a lot of women though.