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I’m battling cancer, my future is uncertain. I hope there is someone there to greet me, I don’t want to be alone.
You don’t have to be alone-then or now.
For years, I felt a terrible loneliness. Even when I was with loved ones, part of me ached, longing to be _known,_ to be understood.
When I was 18, I learned about Jesus. Wow. If anyone knew what it was like to be lonely, not understood by even His closest family and friends, it was He. He spent His life loving people, healing them, _seeing_ them, pointing them to God.
How was He repaid? Betrayal, slander, mockery, and . . . Death. Part of that was His love taking the punishment we deserve so that we could have a relationship with a holy God. I also think part of it (a small part, but very dear to me) was so that He could know how _we_ feel in our low times.
The Bible even says that He can intercede for us because He felt the same pain, wrestled with the same temptations. He doesn’t make excuses, but He does understand. He took the
punishment for us, so He’s not spreading His hands, saying “Oh, well, we’ll just let that slide.”
On the contrary; He shows His hands-and the scars still visible there-and says, “That sin? I already paid for that.”
I could go on and on! The love of Jesus has carried me through some horrible, painful times. Times when I hurt so much that I knew _how_ to go on living (just keep breathing), but for the life of me I couldn’t figure out _why_ I should. I just had to tell you about Him. ❤️🩹
i’m wishing you the very best you can do this!❤
Believe on Jesus and death is not the end
My mother was greeted by both of her husbands.
Believe me, you won't be alone.
“Do you see her?”
“I don’t, but I BELIEVE YOU.” This is the sweetest most meaningful response to that question.
I agree totally with you. It was a generous response.
She was there just for him❤
Exactly
Exactly :)*
Many have said they see some of their family. They also have said this exact thing of when they are leaving, and have. We had a friend who came to visit us and other friends for the last time as he would be leaving us in a week, and he peacefully did.
When my Mom was on her deathbed she told me she seen my father...he passed away 24 years before her. Made me so happy to know he was waiting for her..true love❤
Same ( Sheila Cox ) Not James commenting I’m on his phone his mum is fine!!
She actually said something to my sister about him passing before she got to!! She was in a hostel with vascular dementia and she was told not to mention it because she’ll only forget 😢but they sat together and she said did you just say “insert name here) is dead !! She wasn’t really that shocked because she always claimed to be psychic
I’m also very sorry for your loss ❤
Delusions are not something to be happy about.
@@frstchan what a 🛎🔚
This just made me tear up when he said he felt “excited” to go.
I was okay until that was said too. It’s so beautiful in a painfully bittersweet way to see someone that is in the process of dying go from any fear or anxiety related to dying to being excited because their loved one(s) are with them again and they feel the peace of their presence letting them know they won’t make the final journey on their own 🥹😭🥰 A peaceful and calm passing and death is something that we all can hope to have as it seems to be SO beautiful anytime I witnessed it in the LTC I CNA’ed at and there aren’t any feelings of fear as the entire room is filled with the peace that comes into them!!! ❤❤
I wish everyone could feel that way. Excited to go.
My grandma wanted to go so she could be with her family again. I know she was happy to go.
That is a woman.
She.
I am dealing with an illness that has a shortened life expectancy and I just surpassed that age. I am petrified, but when I see your videos I am a little less scared to die. Thank you.
I will be praying for you ..don't be afraid your not alone..♡
Ask Jesus to Send help u transition
Read the Bible and talk to Jesus
You are going to be fine. Better than that actually.
I wish you a peaceful, easy, and joyful passing when your time comes. Maybe I’ll see you there sometime. It’ll all be alright.
Made me cry. I lost my wife 9 years ago. If this is what I have to look forward to when my time comes, I will accept Death with open arms.
I know she will be so happy to be with you again when the time comes :)
Death doesn't stop us from loving those we've lost. I believe that those who have passed on also don't stop loving us. Your wife is looking forward to seeing you again just as much as you are looking forward to seeing her. ❤
Beautiful :)) Me too, really looking forward to it
We are divine souls having a human experience. Energy doesn't die. Your wife will come to take you wherever you want to go!
I have many friends and loved ones on the Other Side, and gaining more. I look forward to seeing them again when my work here is done. All in His time.❤
I had a patient once who I was checking on and he started talking perfect German again he hadn't spoke German in 40 years and he smiles and looked at me and told me his beautiful wife his angel was here to take him home and he smiled and reached for her and took his last breath. So Beautiful ❤
Shut that front door!!
That's beautiful. I feel like no one will come for me
Edit: my mother will come for me.
My Mother also was talking in Russian when she was close to passing. We believe she was talking with our family who had passed.
WOW💓💓💓💓💓
@@morganseppy5180I'm happy to see you edited this❤
I am 73 and my late wife was under hospice care as she lost her battle with cancer.The staff was very caring. As death becomes nearer and, through losing friends, more frequent in my life, videos like this are like a warm blanket.
Thank you.
Sending so much love ❤️
you deserve a long lasting loving life, your an amazing person. Take care
@@JennieGallagher-zi6iq
Mahalo, Jennie
My grandad woke up from a nap in his chair to see my gran (who had passed away a year earlier) standing in front of him smiling. He said "hello love, is it time?" And she smiled back. A week later he passed away. They were married for 65 years.
That's so beautiful ❤
I wish more stories like that were told. It helps remove the fear of death and see it as just a part of life. ❤
That is holesome❤
You know he was just counting the days until he could be with her again. This one got me in the feels. 65 yrs. together - wow!!! 😮❤❤❤
@@ddelv583 absolutely, he said many times he was ready to go and join her.
“Your parent are really excited to see you” that hit different
😢 it really does.
Yeah.... hard
Yeh made me cry 😢
I was OK till I read your comment. It’s tough being an orphan. Yeah it does hit different. Big hugs
@@bigbearblondie No matter what happened here, no one is an orphan there. :))
I’ve taken care of a lot of dying family members and our family members came for them. It’s a beautiful time even if it’s painful.
Over two years ago I was very lucky to survive a Pumonary Embolism.
Blood cots and fluid in both lungs. I lay in hospital hooked up to Oxygen and I had four ports in my arms and needles in my stomach.
I can recall my mother coming to see me and take me with her.
It was a place of loving warmth and there were familiar faces there
I was told I had to go back and stay with my daughter and family .
Please don’t be afraid..
doing Earth time is hard.
Returning to source and family is a beautiful homecoming ❤
I'm glad that they were welcomed by other family. It's good to know you have a welcome committee when you pass on this realm
@@enchanter7382 woah, I also had a bilateral pulmonary embolism over two years ago with pneumonia. I feel like I know exactly what you mean. One night while in the hospital hooked up on oxygen, I was asleep and just remember warmth. I never remember what the dream was, but I woke up with hope and I started improving. Idk why I'm rambling, but it just felt so nice to meet someone who perhaps understand my feelings in a way most people can't. I hope life is going better for you and I hope your family is doing well too
@@mercysensei4714I actually read an article yesterday about the phenomenon of near-death experiences because for the first time, a study on this topic was done that completely avoided the possibilities of a researcher/interviewer's expectations (which often present themselves in the way any questions are phrased) via the usage of AI. I think there were around 160 participants who had to select adjectives they associated with their experiences, and a significant (as in, enough data to be meaningful) amount of people selected words such as "warm", and mentioned being surrounded by brightness and loved ones that has preceeded them in death.
For those without loving family members, I believe there is still a place of absolute love to journey to.
💯 gardens underneath with rivers flow, with companions and no ill talk
This is so beautiful and so important. Maybe it’s just other people who did not have loving families there to say that they all have each other
God will send angels for those without family members!
Pets come for their people too
This was so wholesome. I’m glad to know that they accepted what was to come.
Fr
Mhm
❤YES ETERNAL GLORY..... ETERNALLY HAPPY & PEACEFUL 🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️
@trisarahtops5557 My grandfather called me. Asking, I've been seeing your grandmother. Would you mind if I let go. I said what do you mean Pap. You ready to go. You can go. You don't have to ask me..
He said, when you were little, you always used to say. I'm going to see you until you're 100. You know. My hundredth birthday is an 11 days.. 🥹🥲😭
I said wow yeah. I remember that. I used to always tell you that when I was a kid..
Sir. You don't have to ask. I love you so much. You made the world to me.. would you like me to come over. He said no. I'm run down and look off hope. I was cute the last time you saw me quite handsome. So hold that in your memory..
He also had his best friend with him...
The most beautiful part. My grandfather was a racist man. The first day I was born he wouldn't hold me. Called me the n-word. Killed my mother's heart and spirit. Shock the hell out of the family whenever I told him what he said and how everything happened in the room and how mother felt.
I was 5 years old. I said to him. You don't hold me. You won't read to me. You always make excuses. If I need help doing something, you walk away.. Are you a man of God?
Everyone is silent My mom and grandmother are doing some pre dishes. We're waiting for the Sunday roast to finish.. My Aunt Janine is snacking on grapes very loudly. My grandmother says shush stop that. My aunt says, I can't help it they're so juicy. 😅😂
The tension was thick in the room. I didn't care. I was tired of it. I asked my grandfather, to read to me. He said dinner will be ready soon. Kicking the grand boys off of his lap. And it wasn't a girl thing either because we have other nieces that he would read to and help..
I said, are you a man of God quite loudly. He said yes. I said I don't think so. God knows every hair on my head. He knows every thought and every feeling in my body.. And you are not a godly man. Expressing what he said the day I was born. My grandmother broke a dish. And said Well, she's the straw to break the camel's back but I guarantee you she is the glue to hold us together..
I walked into my grandmother's room and looked into the mirror and cried. Was very upset and came back out. And I said I'm serious.
You are a racist man. I noticed that. You don't have any friends of any other color. Strange though. Mimi will not tell me who her bloodline is. She definitely not Italian she's lying when she says that and she knows it. Why do you say that they will kill us for our bloodline. And, if you haven't noticed. I look exactly like your wife..
How dare you be racist to me.
My grandfather felt very bad. Was very apologetic. Clearing his throat nervously. Completely apologized.. I said good as a man of God. I want to see you respect other people of color. I want you to have friends of color.
I had a girl pick on me in first second and third grade. She called me hypercolor. She would swap me with her sweaters and sometimes if her sweaters had zippers they really hurt..
I told my mother about her and my mother threatened. If you come home, beaten. Heart. I'm going to kick your butt. Kick her butt.
Oh that scared me because my mom's scary..
I caught the girls sweater and I said to her. I'm not taking this anymore. We were getting into our class and I looked at my teacher Mrs Meljanovich. And said, please leave us. I need to settle something okay. She did..
I asked her what was her problem and why did she call me hypercolor. She confessed. Because you come to school really dark. You're just a shade lighter than me. And then, by our second picture you're white.. I said, I don't look white to my mom. My mom always jokes around, she found me at a bus stop and adopted me. No she gave birth to me..
I explained to her. The grass is not always greener on the other side. Why else do you pick on me. She expressed about my hair and how long it was. I said, okay you want to play with it. She said really I said of course. I'll make my mom not do braids so you can braid it and have fun. I explained to her, how my grandfather was racist to me. And he's been nicer since I've pointed it out. That I've had racism in my life. And what she was doing was racist and mean. And my own grandfather wouldn't even hold me. Wouldn't read to me or play with me. Wouldn't help me. I stopped that whenever I was five. And I never thought I would deal with it from another fellow peer. She apologized. I said is your family mean to you She said no. I said Do you have a mom you're scared of? She said no. I said okay then the grass isn't always greener on the other side. So you wish you were me. But if you really were me I don't think you would want to be me. So love your life and love who you are.
My grandfather's best friend was a black man. 16 years. They played bocce ball dartball together and we're really close. So that day he called. Telling me that he was with him. I told him. Let go. And how proud I was of him. That not only was he a great grandfather. But he was one of the best fathers I ever could have had as a role model in my life. Even though he was a little rusty in the beginning. He cleaned up and shined up very well.
He said thank you. The next time I see your grandma, she keeps telling me come on. It's time to go. I'm really holding on to turn 100. I just want to make you proud.
I laughed and said been there done that. You've made me proud a thousand times over. You can let go any day you want.
Give my love to him. And he was gone that night. 🥹😭😭😭🫡😭 I love him so much. Just talking about him I can feel him. 😊
@@MzClementine 😢❤
This made me realize suddenly that all the people my mom talked to in the last few days were really there to get her ready. ❤ thank you
They definitely were! As a nurse I’ve seen this so many times it’s so crazy and special all at the same time ❤
@@MaaikeCoats I hope I’m not being too invasive but how had that effected your spiritual life.
I wonder how people’s relatives respond when they’re up in heaven and all of a sudden their grandson gets hit by a car and they’re up there like DAMN WE AINT EVEN GET TO PREPARE HIM
It's the hardest thing to see but as someone who feels spirits when they're around I know my mom was safe she was fighting with them telling them it wasn't time yet 😢 my mom waited for everyone to be asleep before she left with my dad and the rest of my family I woke up to feeling like the dust was settling again after it being kicked up almost like a calm after the storm I didn't hear her making noise or anything I went in to check on her and her eyes and mouth was open I was thinking she was still out of it so I called to her and no answer I went to grab her hand and she was cold to the touch 😢 I cried and cried along side her until they came to pick her up in a way I was glad she finally went home but she was the only one keeping me in the world as my dad passed when I was only 15 both had cancer so they didn't get to their 60s all ik is this is the most heartbreaking thing to handle I took care of my mom 2 months before she went home
@@ondemandslapperandclapperI think the time goes differently. And they have the time to prepare while in the tunnel or just after
My grandmother passed in February, she had really bad dementia. She was on hospice when she passed. The workers there were spectacular. I appreciate each and every one of you. It takes such a special person to be a hospice care person. To receive people at their end of life, repeatedly watch them die and still remain so compassionate. Everyone should hug a nurse, tell them you appreciate them, because they go through a lot.
Hospice is pretty incredible.
I Absolutely Love this. I had a patient who absolutely hated me was an angry man. He kicked me out so many times 😔 but no one would work with him. I worked nights with him. I was who he had. They gave me the opportunity to walk away but I couldn't. I knew I was it for him. The night he died altered my life. I had been around death but never just me and the patient. He took his last breath iny arms with me crying and reciting the Lord's prayer. I prayed for him holding him knowing he was gone yet I was his only person in life to release him to our father. I just hope I helped ease his passing even if he didn't like me much. I Loved him and I wanted the last feeling he felt on this earth was Love.
This is so beautiful, he was so lucjy to have you! Thank you!
This made me cry. When my grandmother, Mumbo, was dying she reached up with her arms and said ‘ my girls ‘. She had 3 sisters who had died decades before and lost her mother as a child. She was 100. I still miss her so much. I hope she’s waiting for me one day xxx
I never cry at these comments, I just get sad. But this one… this one hit hard. I’m tearing g up ❤
I cried too. Lost my bf almost 3 yrs ago . His dad came for him. ❤❤❤❤It made my heart swell with love after I was told about it
My grandma, some days before she healed, she saw her parents in her dream... the week after, she healed from her pain and went up to the heavens, I miss her so much...
she made it to a really good age ❤
Wow .. I wish I see beautiful people welcome me also when it's my time
This is what compassionate hospice work looks like. The world needs more people like you. Thank you for easing the transition.
My mom was at home hospice and nurse/doctor/SW was visiting instantly when needed. They were so good and empathic and did everything for my mom to be comfortable in her transition, tried to take her pain away....there are good people out there
For my mom, the nurses came in and out dropping off meds, and that's about it..
The "bath girl " was phenomenal. Very supportive and just a sweetheart... We were very grateful to have her...
My wife was under hospice care a few months before she passed. While they were kind and respectful to her and me they were not at this level of compassion and warmth. Still, I'm grateful for them.
I can relate. Breaks my heart, yet it's true..😢
The fact that this phenomenon happens all the time and people still refuse to believe in some sort of afterlife stuns me
I believe 🙏 🙌
There may or may not be one, I don't know.
And honestly I don't care in the slightest.
This is my life. I'm trying to live it following my values, who aren't religious.
Everything else can wait until later. After all: Nobody makes it out here alive.
@@Tantejay and that’s your choice and life even though it confuses me. I’m not to tell you that you are wrong
you do realise that these are just hallucinations ...
@@xyincognito you think they are hallucinations but multiple people seeing the same things even when they never heard of this all at similar times (aka death) is amazing proof to an afterlife. I’m sorry you don’t see it that way. But they are hallucinations to you 😊
As a long term care nurse for my entire career so far, I can 100% confirm this happens and it's always beautiful. When they see their loved ones it's almost like an immediate relief. Like the fear of passing is instantly gone. I have actually prayed for this to happen to a couple patients who were struggling.
Edit: thank you all for the likes 🥰 God bless.
Probs because they know they are dying and they think about that stuff. Doesn't mean its real, but would help peoppe processes it
@@joebloggs8900it’s real, you just haven’t witnessed anything yet but I hope you do one day. It’s crazy
@@joebloggs8900if it wasn’t real then it wouldn’t happen to the majority. I’ve seen spiritual beings that I didn’t want to see. The metaphysical realm is real. Get out in nature and get connected
@@joebloggs8900but the thing is, it doesn't matter if it's "real" or not. Even this reality is an interpretation of our mind so who's to say what real even means. I believe if we focused on how our beliefs affect our lives it'd put an end to an illogical war over whose beliefs are right. Everyone's is because everyone's experience is valid but that never gives anyone the right to do something harmful to others that don't match their expectations.
Just to make sure, I'm not specifically directing this at you or trying to start anything, it's just what I thought of after reading your comment
Did your prays get answered?
When my Mom was on her death bed she sat straight up, reached out her arms and said “Mother!” in the most joyous voice. She died shortly after. I’m convinced her Mother came to usher her into Heaven. ❤
When my grandpa was on my deathbed I got the distinct feeling that both of his parents were by his side, and had only stepped away from him to give living relatives room to take his hand. They were making sure their son wouldn't have to go home alone. ❤
@@starsaur6664 that’s beautiful 💙
She come to fetch her.
When my gran died in the early hours of the morning. She came to me and said.... 'grandpa has come to fetch me, I am very happy. Tell everyone I am happy and not to worry about me'. The next thing I heard the phone ring and I knew. Was my aunt phoning to tell us about my gran ❤️😊❤️😉 never worry, they are safe and happy ❤❤❤
My great uncle kept repeating mom over and over too ❤
Instant tears just from reading this. I can’t imagine what it’s like to witness that
My fiance died 7 days before our wedding. That was 12 years ago. It doesn't hurt any less as time goes on... the pain just gets easier to keep to myself.
I pray he is there waiting for me when it's my time. The only thing that could possibly make me happier than that is to go back 12 years in time.
So sorry for your tragic loss, life is very cruel! The afterlife must be better! I lost my daughter a year ago, and live with that loss in every day😢
I understand your pain as my husband died 30 yrs. ago, but I still hurt so much.
@luciemarinov129 thank you. & I'm so sorry for your loss as well... I can't even imagine losing a child.
@suzanneterrey4499 While it is a bit of a comfort to hear that I'm not the only one feeling this pain, I wouldn't wish it on anyone. I'm sorry.
Sorry for your loss. Did you get remarried?
These make me sad but happy. Thankyou for making these,, closure is important and acceptance is healthy
I took Communion to a man every week in hospice care. He confided to me that he was seeing angels just coming in his room and sitting in his bed while he was getting physical therapy. I asked him if he told the therapist and he laughed and said “no! He would think I was crazy.” We both laughed over that. He promised me a dance in heaven some day. ❤️
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Thats wonderful ❤️❤️❤️
Aww the dance in heaven was so sweet! He trusted you ❤
rest in peace so sorru ops
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This happened to my grandfather. His sister that died months prior told him she was coming to get him tomorrow with a very wide smile. She sure did 😭😭 When he told my mom this, she just said right back "that's wonderful Daddy!" She encouraged him to go knowing it was time. She is a retired nurse and understood what happens to people that are dying. 😭😭
This happened to my grandfather too! My grandmother died three weeks before he did. He stayed behind to take care of the paperwork and logistics and then she came to him in a dream and said, "I miss you, when are you coming to see me?" and he died the next night. They had been married for almost 70 years and were so deeply in love till the end.
Nearly every single one of my elderly relatives who have passed naturally have "seen the ancestors". It's a sure sign in my family that there's less than 24 hours left. We find it kind of comforting tbh.
@@JenniferSturley ❤❤❤❤❤
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My uncle was seeing my Dad. He had passed in 1995. He came for him, I know that some people don't believe but I do.
Thank u for these compassionate videos! I lost my daughter a year ago. And more recently beloved animals, these videos help me continue living! I’m 78 and lost many family members and close friends as well!😢😢😢😢❤❤
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Thinking of you from UK.
I'm with you. I'm 77 & lost both parents, 1 sister & 3 brothers. I've lost 2 brothers within 4 months of each other. Just recently lost a niece.
@@BonnieThompson-ie9ci I’m so very sorry for your many losses, It’s so hard to believe there is a just God. Hope u stay strong in this world, because it’s very hard to be positive after your terrible tragedies. Love 💕 and best wishes !
@@luciemarinov129 Thank you so much. I still say life goes on. I have great neighbours & friends who are there for me. Have a great day!
Hospice caregivers are truly special! I can’t imagine the emotional drain it must be to do the work they do. And to help us as we take that last/next step in our lives is such a wonderful service and blessing!
My grandfather was very old and sick with cancer, and while he was in chemotherapy he hadn’t been eating very much. One morning I woke up and there were 2 plates of food on the table. I asked him why he’d made so much breakfast. His eyes smiled and he said he and my grandmother had made breakfast together and talked about their upcoming trip. She had passed away a few years earlier and so this was an unexpected answer. He passed away a few days later. I still think about that morning and how happy he was and it still makes me smile.❤
Thank you for sharing your story. Amazingly beautiful
this is so wholesome!!
beautiful story
Wow
May God bless you grandfather and grandmother. How beautiful! ❤️😭 Edit: And may The Lord also bless you! Amen.☺️🌺
🥺I remember experiencing this like it was yesterday. I lost my mother to uterine cancer and she was saying “not yet mama, I’m not ready to go yet” I knew she was in a lot of pain. I couldn’t stand to see her suffer. I knew when she stopped talking our time was limited..🥺hard to process 🕊️
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I lost my Mum last year to uterine cancer, which was only discovered following a stroke. She had, what seemed to be, a steady procession of people who she had been talking to, none of whom were really there. She was scared about dying months earlier and I said my Nanna, who passed 23 years earlier, had told me she wasn't ready for her yet. Mum said, that's what she told me too! I've always had a spiritual connection with my Nan. When Mum passed away a few months later, it was the day before my Nanna's birthday and I felt comfort that Mum would be back with her for that. ❤
@@crimencrochet 🥺I’m so sorry for the loved ones you’ve lost. 🫂🕊️My mother’s diagnosis was discovered the same way, through a stroke. She had had several and I thought she was fainting during baths and feedings. I think she knew for years after retiring in 2010 from (Sentara Norfolk General Hospital 43 years). She avoided going to the doctor and was angry that I called the ambulance. The doctors told me 7/9/15 and we lost her 7/21/15. I’ll be glad when the holidays are over with because I wish she could be here with us. Some days are better than others.
Remember that your relatives are next to us at a higher 'lightbody' vibration, and we are at a low 'animalistic' one with a perception of only 0.05% of the Universe. It is like being stuck to one octave on the piano with a mile-wide keyboard.
As above, so below,; As Below, so Above,
...so their world looks like ours, but minus the evil very low-vibration shadow-parts we do not like to see.
As an energy being, they are also perpetually at their physical peak as dictated by their DNA, until they decide otherwise. They can also travel with just changing their point of focus. It is like getting on a plane, sleeping for the 10+ hours of flight, and waking up to eat breakfast and energetically step into a tropical paradise.
We are also (sound & light) energy beings (E=mc²+1), but our earthly physical bodies (made from local minerals and basic natural chemicals in our foods & water) are more like rocks and mud in comparison.
So 'going to the other side' or 'Home' where we ALL 'like Jesus' and have access to all of the Knowledge of the Universe (past, present, & future) is normal. So yes, it is exciting. 😊
The no talking stage .... My grandma had breast cancer she battled it for 6 years. She was my best friend. When she went I had to hear her rattle in the room next door for like two days. It killed me I miss her daily. She went so fast. It was so much to handle
This is helping me SO MUCH to be more at peace about dying one day! Thank you for your videos!! PLEASE make more!!❤❤😊😊🎉🎉
Having spoken to the elderly with an ailing mind.. this is very real.
People of sound mind have deathbed visions, too.
@@mjt1517 no, their mind is definitionally failing if they are that far gone.
My mom's actively dying right now. I hope ppl that went before her are with her.
I am so sorry. Lost my parents young but went through this w my grandma. I hope your mom finds peace and your family heals
My condolences. Lost mine too. Nobody truly knows this part of the journey.
Be strong and believe in knowing those who love us want us to gain life events to have more to talk about in the afterlife.
God bless you and your wife.
Let the energy flow through you as it comes dark and light alike.
My thoughts are with you. I lost my mom August 12, 2023. I was with her and experienced her transition. It was very special. Remember, until the last breath, the last thing to go is hearing.❤🙏
I was fortunate to have spent my Mother's final moments with her. She did experience seeing and conversing with family that passed before her. She also related to me, while she was fully lucid and aware of her surroundings, that she saw Death in the hospital room with us... Standing against the wall, to the left of the foot of the bed. She was calm, not afraid, and very matter of fact. I learned a lot about the stages of dying, and her acceptance of what she was going through. Even the experience of 35 years of being a critical care /ER RN, I was not able to truly be able to know what she taught me in the 6 weeks that she had to go through, up to the time Death took her by the hand, and she was at Peace finally. I miss you, Momma. ❤️💕
I hope you're ok
As a nursing student, my grandma was dying, I took time off to care for her and she kept calling out my long deceased grandfather’s name and reaching out as if someone was there. Others in the family kept fussing over her and calling her back. I asked her if she was seeing Grandpa and she nodded. I told her we would all be ok, that we loved her and that it was ok to go. The next time she saw him, she peacefully passed away. It was then that I knew I wanted to work in palliative care. It is such a wonderful gift to be with someone who is dying. I have always considered it an honour.
It is an honor. I have seen that many times . They will reach out and hold the hand of these loved ones. Having had seen this many times . Im looking forward to seeing my dad and my grandma.
This.
They need to be told that it will be ok.
My grandmother was hanging on, we think because she was worried how my grandpa would get on without her… I pulled him aside and told him, “she needs to know you’ll be ok.” The rest of the family left the room and he told her how much he loved her, and how much he would miss her, but also that it was ok for her to go because he’d be right there with her someday. She passed shortly after.
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It really is the greatest honor to witness someone's passing.
The angels said we confuse them when we celebrate the birth of a child and mourn the loss of our elderly. They feel it is inverted ( like all on earth) and we should mourn the birth of a child as he is just beginning a lifetime of trials and the elderly should be celebrated as they have completed their test and have been called home. Really makes perfect sense if you understand!
This brings back so many memories as a former nurse I remember those days as working as a hospice nurse and talking with patients. Strange situations happened over the years. Memories that I will never forget. But there is a lot of pain in the back of my mind for those that have passed away. I wish them well because they are missed by their family and friends in the end.
Why did this make me cry...just beautiful
Before my grandpa passed away, I had a dream where I saw my deceased grandma, his wife, put her arm around him and with a huge smile and so much joy in her face said “We’re leaving soon.” She was glowing and in light and so happy that her husband would join her soon. ❤
No comments yet but I think this is so sweet
Omg this is the sweetest thing, I bet they’re enjoying their time together ❤
Wow that's incredible ❤
Lllllllliiiiiiikkkkkkkeeeee
I remember my grandpa telling the hospice nurse and pointing at the couch, “That’s my wife over there.” My grandma would sit on the couch that couch a lot when she was a live. He passed that same day.
I miss them both, but I’m happy he was surrounded by family and my grandma when he passed.
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omg this truly brought tears to my eyes, the comfort this person has in knowing they’ll be with their wife and family, accepting their fate. its beautiful
When i worked in a Nursing Home many residents in their final weeks or days would call out for their Mum, sometimes their Dad. That really pulled on my heart strings. It was always an honour to prepare a body in their favourite outfit and brush their hair. I'm sure they heard me sing old songs like Bicycle Built for Two, Que Sera Sera and Bless 'Em All.
It was lovely of the Nursing Home to allow nurses visit a resident in the cool room. You get so attached when your with people day in and day out and heard their wonderful and brave life stories.
My grandpa saw my grandma at this foot of his bed just before he passed.
He kept saying “she’s young and beautiful again.” just smiling. I’m so glad that she came back for him.
I instantly started crying what is this magic 😭😭❤❤❤❤❤
Same with my grandmother She saw her mother who passed away in 2001 and a young girl. The wried thing is me and my aunt could see them two even befor my grandma mentioned them.
My grandpa said my grandma was there, a day before he passed.
@@stefanduer5427u see them ?? Woooow
This nurse in this video is not only very beautiful, but very sweet and compassionate.
being still in my 20’s and lost both parents, my mother at 18 who was my rock, the “your parents are so excited to see you” made me cry like a baby. i hope they’re there when i go. i so hope.
I can relate ❤
My mom was seeing her twin brother
Jesus is the way🙏🏻. The only way🙏🏻. God bless you. I’m sorry for your loss.
I pray that you see them.
Sameeee I want my mommy to greet me! ❤️❤️❤️
My best friend of many years past away 2 weeks ago. He was fighting bladder cancer and treatment really took a toll on his body. A a few days before he died he told us he was having the most vivid dreams about his mom. His mom died of cancer when he was 17. I didn't think anything of it at the time. He was actually feeling better over that past week. Then he was just gone. I still cant beleive he's gone.
I love this Truth, thank you for sharing, sharing the positive side of crossing over.
My friend was only 20 dying in hospital and she said there's so many people behind me waving at her to come here. I bet she now knows they were all her family ❤
Poor girl
Same with my grandma! She also saw "so many people".
My mom said something similar she said oh I can't go in there, there's so many people. I died after a bad car accident and heard and felt my great grandma and my dad they said they love me but it wasn't my time I needed to go back
Okii but this is the one that made me cry, if that happened to me i probably would have dropped dead in that moment 😭
I hope my mom will be there to receive me . I was 7 when she died, I had a sad childhood with no parents. I just wanna hug her.
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💝🙏🏻💝 Just ask. I feel you already know she is the one who will be there for you. Sending you a love filled hug from my heart to yours!💝🙏🏻💝
I'm sure she will be, just please don't be in any rush to get there. you have one life on this planet, best to live it to the fullest
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Oh that smile ! I am glad you followed your true path . Your soul is pure and kind
This is precious, and so reassuring.
my great grandmother was declining a lot and was mosty sleeping but one night she woke up and told my grandma that her husband came to take her to lunch. she told her "go have lunch with dad. i love you." she went to sleep and passed the next day around lunch time
Oh wow 😢
My mother was adopted by her maternal aunt as a newborn because her mother died in childbirth. The morning of the day my mother died, she looked up at the ceiling and was crying, tears on her cheeks. "Marie is looking for her baby." and repeated it. Marie was the birth mother she had never met.
Thank you for sharing ❤
Well now I'm ugly crying
@@solsticebaby My mother, myself, and my eldest daughter all share the middle name Marie.
You know… I was going to say that near death people begin to hallucinate… but to think of that on your deathbed when you go? That’s… there’s something to there being another plane of existence, or another level of consciousness only reached after death. But I do think your consciousness can be weighed down by your “sins” or wrongs you have done in your life, creating the idea of a heaven and a hell.
That is so beautiful! In addition to being reunited with my parents and brother, I look forward to meeting the baby girl that I lost in miscarriage. I hope that it won’t be for a long time, but I do look forward to it. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
This is perhaps the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen on FB or CZcams
Thank you for making this video. Many times people are unsure and not clear what happens at the end. It is not a time for fear or confusion. God has so much love for us. Our family is waiting for us. Follow the warmth, the love, the lighted opening. God bless everyone in this journey.
"rest up we're leaving tomorrow" when you put it like that it's much more comforting thinking of them in the end. They're just resting before the next great adventure.❤
It’s either heaven or hell ! Nothing else
@@user-qt1jv5gd8h Not everyone believes the same thing. No need to force your beliefs
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Everyone’s gotta calm down I think she said it great
@@Melmich25 I'm calm. No need to white knight anything. What SarahJames777 said is perfectly alright and I agree. I was replying to the person replying to them. Should I add a tone tag for you to tell I'm /nm?
I knew an older woman who didn’t have much family, her adult son lived far away, and she wasn’t married, but she always had a cat who she loved dearly. I’d come over from time to time and have hours long conversations with her, just for the company. After her cat died i happened to pop over for one of our long conversations and asked where the kitty was since it seemed quieter and i saw no sign of her in the home. The lady said “she has moved on to her next great adventure” & I loved that phrasing so much. I still do. It’s comforting, I think.
My dad introduced me to my great grandfather when he was passing. I smiled and looked in that direction and just let him have the moment.
I still dream of him and he brings me relatives I've never met before.
That’s amazing! What a gift, id give anything to see or hear from my father again. 🥺
@nikkired5584 same, my dad committed suicide in mid-late 2020, I really wish I could see him again, but I dunno if he'll even be on this spiritual plane due to the unfortunate cause of death.
What a true gift my love ❤
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I will pray God gives you clarity! I have a dear relative who passed that way.... and God has been so good! in letting us know she is safe with Him!
That is amazing your Great Grandfather gives you that gift to meet your relatives, I would give anything and everything to see my dog again ( we had to put her down and I felt so bad that after they put her to sleep I ran out of the room)
When he said he was excited and his wife just smiled sweetly, its just a sweet moment. I hope everyone has that, they go peacefully getting picked up with loved ones long past.
Mom was looking over my shoulder and smiling she was so excited. Hospice nurse said she is talking to someone and it will be soon. 3 hours later she passed. God bless.
Its very comforting to think that someone we love will be there at the end
Comforting if its Jesus, not so comforting if you didn’t live for him and satan is waiting instead
@shockawha9 speak for yourself, if Satan comes to pick me up HIMSELF I'd be honoured 😂
@@SnowWhite-ov9ofLMAO this
So ill be leaving alone. Sweet.
@@SnowWhite-ov9ofsatan won’t be in charge of hell. He’ll be rotting in hell with the rest of the condemned. He has his very own cell .
My 92yr old grandmother said that my grandpa was coming to get her tomorrow. He passed about 8yrs before her. The next day she had passed. It still gives me goosebumps ❤
Sounds like the notebook 😢❤
@@LilithNefilim how does it sound like The Notebook when in both the book & movie they pass _together_ *at the same time* - not 8 years apart lol 💕
Wow... That's amazing. ❤
Very beautiful.
My great grand parents died also 8 hours apart.
The force is strong with this one ....I love the depth of this ....thanks alot 🙏💯🔥
I love these videos…my dad experienced visioning when he was actively dying…it was the most beautiful thing that I have ever had the opportunity to experience…at one point he lifted his arms as if he were flying…when my sister asked him, he motioned up towards the heavens…when she asked if he was gaining his wings, he nodded his head in agreement…most beautiful thing-he had been too weak to even speak the last few days but he was able to move his arms, like Angel wings fluttering…
My uncle was in his wheelchair and was in a rush to go outside . He said Rebecca is here for me . That’s my aunt who had passed 4 months before. His face was gleaming with excitement. As soon as he wheeled himself out his head rested, that’s how he passed. He was under the tree in the front yard. We had his first Rosary sitting under that tree . There was a pair of doves sitting in that tree for a couple of days. It was so beautiful,it was as if they were letting us know that they were together at last.❤😢
🖤🖤🖤 I'm crying because of ur comment. Beautiful. I sure hope they are together. 😭😭😭
Such a sweet story 💞 -- Praying the Holy Rosary is the most powerful prayer meditation there is. I try not to miss a day!! 🙏
That’s so sweet.
Ohh what a beautiful experience your family had ,I lost my mother on my 19th bday she was only 40yrs old and had a massive cerebral brain hemorrhage, but the night before she stopped me at the door and said I love u to me ,we didn't do that on mother side of the family ever ,but we always said I love u on my fathers side of the family and I will never forget that ,I looked at her and said I love u to mom and then I left ,it's not as great an experience as yours is but it's mine to never forget 😢I'm 54yrs old and I still miss her so very much ,her sudden death changed who I was as a person, always waiting for the next tragic thing to happen..my mom would not want me to be living like this PTSD and anxiety attacks also major panic attacks, I miss her and know our heavenly father must have needed her for a very special job ,but I needed her too😢
@meredithaherntamilio4553 that is a beautiful story. And it is true. We never know God's plan. ❤😢
last year my uncle was in the hospital for several weeks as his cancer was getting worse & one afternoon he told my mom that his dog Heidi was begging him to go on a walk and he said he needed to take her on one & that he would see my mom later. Heidi had passed away a few years before that so my mom thought the drugs had him hallucinating. But I kid you not, he passed away that night. His dog came to get him y’all… brb crying again
That is amazing.
Thank you for sharing 😢❤. I always worry about my baby dog leaving me someday in the long future.
This gives me hope I'll see my soul mate again. She was a furbaby that passed at 7yo, too too soon and so tragically, traumatizing. She was my partner in crime, adulting, and raising 2 littles by myself. As a Pitty, I always felt safe, even alone single woman with small children in the dark. She was a perfect representation of her breed. She changed so many people's opinions of pitties, and smiled at hate strangers sent her way. I joke she was our emotional support puppy.. but she really was.
@@alissag8780i totally feel this! I lost my fur baby almost a year ago at just 9 years old! She fought so hard to just lay& basically hide. 😢
So truly sorry for your loss. Tears of solidarity ❤️ she came to me at the most unexpected time, I really couldn't handle more responsibilities but she gave us so so much love. I did everything I could but there was nothing to reverse kidney failure. I think the pandemic played into her delayed diagnosis. And frankly, a sh*tty vet. ✌️❤️
I don't know, but God does. The hospice RN, is so appreciated. Amen 💖 🙇🏾♀️🪽🪽🙏🏾
We lost my Grandma last July. Life truly has not been the same without her, and I can't wait to see her again one day.
Hopefully shes up there playing scrabble with her sister.
This was like my favorite resident who had dementia. About a month before she passed she started telling me her family was building her a house and that she'd be leaving to move in soon. Everytime i said goodbye for the week she would mention the house. The day before she passed i noticed how different she was acting and looking but she was so happy to see me. Id been with her over 3 years so she always recognized me, even tho she never once knew my name but she always told me how much she loved me and appreciatee me. Anyway on her last day she said she was tired but had to rest before moving and that i needed to come visit her. I promised i would right before i left for the night. Not even 24 hours later i got a call she had passed. I cried for a week, but i know she's in that house with her family now ❤
Oh my gosh, thats so sweeet! I hope you visit her in heaven too
This made me emotional, such a beautiful story, knowing that we will always be with our loved ones 💜
that's really wonderful of you to have been very nice to her.. she'll greet you one day, both of you alive and happy and well 💕
Made me cry
I‘m a nurse. While in nursing school, one of my patients said „I‘m going home tomorrow to see my husband.“ The next day she passed and her daughter told me the husband died a couple of years ago. Still gives me goosebumps.
Before my grandmother passed, she fell asleep and dad couldn't wake her. Her breathimg was shallow too. He called the paramedics. She woke up shortly after they arrived and was angry they interrupted the nice visit she was having with her sister. The sister passed years before.
Yes, they know. I volunteered in hospice for three years. They always told me when they were going to go.
It must be something to help people cope with passing
Props to her for taking in stride, not treating them like they were an idiot or a fool. It's nice to see
I lost my husband unexpectedly a year ago... in the 3 months after that I have unexpectedly had to see both my brothers go on hospice... I'm the "elder" of the group... the emotional roller coaster has been awful! I'm a ICU RN, I know this road! Esp after 43 yrs of high acuity nursing. This brings me some peace & helps me remember the peace I have seen so many have when this happens!... and it is REAL!
Man i really hope this is an accurate representation of how it works. It would be the ultimate peace of mind
It totally really is... It is touching to see your lived one , see their lived ones who have passed. & Its like they see them & talk to them when we dont understand. I went thru this w/ my dad. I spent one month looking after him & as he got closer to the end he was talking to all his siblings who had passed & he said they were coming for him. When he gave his last breath, he waved goodbye to me and raised his hand that he was leaving this earth... Not scary, but touching... Its almost 2 years since my dad passed.
People did not going to nursing for “the money 💴 “ they go into that profession to care give and that is exactly what she’s doing. She’s taking care of her client.
It's not.
@@truff631 wow you must be special then because you're the only person in the entire world who knows what it's like 🤣🤡
Unless… Say for example you’re a seventh day Adventist, who believe that the dead are all asleep before their resurrection on judgment day, and that demons masquerade as the dead. Then you’d be freaking out.
I’m a CNA and one of the times I worked with a hospice client she was very near the end and petting her long since passed beloved cat. She was so happy to see her and I had not ever seen her smile like that. It was so beautiful
Less than a year ago my sister lost her beloved cat of 13 years, a few weeks ago she told me that he came to her in the early hours of the morning as a spirit, jumped on her bed and robbed himself on her face (somehow she could feel his fur) and "told her" he loved her. He was a good kitty.
I love that. Thank you for sharing your experience.
Crying 😢 that was a beautiful thing to share. Thx
Damn. Imagine living almost a century and the living being you love and miss the most is a cat. Skill issue honestly.
Residents not clients. Im shocked they didn't teach that. It was constantly reiterated when I was in nursing school, especially cna/gna. Hospice especially were called Residents.
There was once a girl that meant alot to me. When and if I die before her. I will watch over her until she comes too with her family behind her
The people that work with Hospice are absolutely incredible! I feel their work us definitely a calling! Our body is not who we are, but just the vessel that helps us navigate our earthly lives! Our soul is who we are & this shows that your soul lives on!
My little brother died last year and on his death bed his little eyes fluttered and he told me he could she heaven and then he said , "I want to see mama", he passed the next morning.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you the biggest internet hug ❤
And see her he did. She came to bring him into her arms. Bless you. I'm crying thinking about my own son, but I truly believe he's in a better place
That’s very touching. Condolences. 🙏🏻
My mom died nearly 2 years ago, and I so long to see her again. I hope she comes for me when it's time.
@@Charmayne7my mom died two years ago this past august and I can’t wait to see her! My dad passed when I was 25 and that will be 30 yrs ago nov 1 I can’t wait to see them both!!! ❤
This happens quite often with patients at their end of life to have visitation from deceased loved ones.- they have conversations and are able to see these loved ones. These people are quite lucid and need to be taken seriously. -from a retired nurse
Well said 🌟
A lot more people take this seriously now that we are in the middle of the Great Awakening of humanity ❤
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Indeed there is a new era coming for humanity as a whole. I see you feel the same inkling about it as I do.
I'm a shaman. When my dad was leaving this life, we were both able to see my deceased mother visit him.
When my paternal great grandmother was getting ready, she had all those available gather aby her bed in the hospital. She told them she was about to leave and pointed to the side of the room saying "My Lord Jesus and loved ones before me are waiting". She prayed for them, blessed them, laid back in bed and went to sleep. Everyone that was there said it was the most beautiful thing they had ever experienced and were happy for her.
I read your book! It was at my local library! Thank you for writing all those amazing experiences, it was a privilege and gift to read. ❤
the warm smile after they said "excited" made me feel all fuzzy inside
My dad died a few hours ago.. he said to my mum he saw a passed friend and my passed uncle. I truly believe this happens and have seen it in my care home I work at. It's truly a special moment ❤
sending condolences for your loss ❤
So comforting
Sending condolences ❤
😢 Love and hugs swnt your way. Hope you'rr hanging in there❤❤❤
I'm so sorry for your recent loss. May our loving Lord lead, guide, and direct you during the difficult days/weeks/and months ahead 🙏.
The day before my husband passed I heard him talking to someone - He was looking down the hallway and our two little dogs who were on the bed with him, were looking down the hallway as well.
I asked him who was he talking to ---- He said:
'My father. He said you can't see him but everything is going to be ok'
My heart was breaking because I knew my husband was dying but still I was hoping for some miracle - you know?
His father passed when my husband was only 6 years old so I know this was God sending him his father to help ease his mind and heart -- And so my husband could try to help me and let me know everything would be ok.
I am happy you got some comfort. My husband passed in his sleep at 53 years old leaving behind our 3 sons. I did not get this comfort. I hope you can offer me some adivce to over come the guilt of not having said too many I love yous, or hugged and kissed more. I am in so much pain.
@@graceharper6384 (((Grace))) My heart aches for the horrible loss you and your sons are dealing with.
Other than to offer than grief is different for each of us - Some days the pain will seem to overwhelm to the point you can barely breath and other days you can almost feel your loved one close by reminding you that love never ends -
ANd you can look at your sons and in them see their father and know that he does live on.
Losing the love of your life so young and without warning is a loss I cannot imagine but I can say this:
Please be kind to yourself - You shared a love with your husband that had it's own language --- Yes, with kisses and hugs and saying ;I love you' -- But also with little looks, a shared smile - quiet moments when you know just what a blessed you each were to the other.
Try to keep your arms open to your sons -- Let them know how much their father loves them still and was always so proud of them. If they want to cry, be there for them because even the strong man sometimes needs to let the pain in their heart come out -- If they seems sad or angry it could be because they too, feel as if their father was taken from them before they could say 'I love you' one more time.
Keep your own heart open even when it feels as if can never mend -- It's been 6 years since my husband passed and there are times when the loss feels like yesterday - But I know he wouldn't want me to become broken and bitter - So I remind myself each day that being alive is a gift and I try to honor him by being kind to others, finding little joys to smile about - Like the day a bunch of butterflies landed on him - So when I see a butterfly I smile remembering that.
You can do this Grace -- There is no time duration or single way of grieving -- Try to find peace knowing that your dear husband was next to you when God called him home and his last thoughts were how blessed he was to have loved you-been loved by you, called you wife and friend and of the wonderful sons you created together.
Be Blessed
I believe animals can see the departed when they visit.. or at least sense their presence. Sending you hugs.
@gulfgypsy
mm…bittersweet beauty in the pain… thanks for sharing your precious story…
@graceharper6384
hello there, I know you weren’t asking me, but I thought I might put in a word in hopes that it might somehow help a little, at least…
First, prayed for you because I know that no human can go to the depths of the human soul where such emotions lie…only our dearest Maker who holds our stories and the overall story in His wonderful Hands.
Secondly, my small suggestion is to please jot down everything if you haven’t already…get all the feelings down on paper, cry over it, release it there…also please try writing out all the other ways you both showed love to one another other than I love yous, hugs, kisses. Considering you both have 3 beautiful sons together and you both were present in each other’s lives till death parted you for now, surely love can be found tucked in there and remembered…
And, I truly believe just the fact that you’re feeling guilt is a healthy sign of that deeper love for your husband! You just might have to dig down and ponder and put into words on paper and treasure those…
Lastly, my suggestion is to please consider this- meet with our mutual Maker, talk it over with Him, allow Him to take the guilt He carried on His back for you and give you His peace deep in your soul so you can come to forgive yourself instead of guilt yourself, and be strengthened to cherish those dear boys of yours gifted to both of you, the way I can tell that you want to do…
Hugs and please lean on the Maker, He’ll bear it all and be your guide each day…
Such a cool video!
I always love the thought that when I die, all my family members who I looked up to and protected me will be waiting for me on the otherside. Makes me look forward to it.
My father passed away three years ago. He was a hospice patient. While talking with my father during the afternoon, he told me that he saw angels at the foot of his bed. My father died that night, very peacefully.
Your videos help me so much and am a 12 year old and about a year ago my Grandma but I call her Grammy she had a heart transfusion, I think ,and it was going very well she got to where she didn’t need her oxygen tube anymore and she was doing great! They discharged her to go home after a long time at the hospital ,and on the very first night she had a stroke and the right side of her body was paralyzed and we took her to a different hospital and they abused her in many ways and we got her out as soon as we could then we brought her to a different emergency room and they told us if she would’ve lasted one more day and that hospital she would no longer be with us. And with her stroke she couldn’t move the right side of her of talk and she couldn’t eat or drink. She had to be fed out of a feeding tube. And after many months and rehab. She is now living with us and hospice comes to see her once in a while, the only thing that hurts, my heart is when she calls me Linda that was her sister that passed away right before she went into surgery and it was especially hard for her. But she’s doing so well. Now she even learned to walk and eat by herself. I am so proud of my Grammy❤❤❤ thank you for your time for reading this. Love to all❤
Love to you sweetheart. Grandmas and mamas are everything ❤
Bless you for loving your grandma and giving her comfort ❤
You are blessed to have one another. Enjoy your time together ❤️
My dad died at 42 of a sudden heart attack and i so hope his dad was there to hold his hand. He was the best dad and i just hope he wasnt scared.
He wasn’t scared and he wasn’t alone ❤
My dad at 44 same way
my Dad at 43 same way, I was 3.
I’m sure his dad was there. When I die one day, I fully believe and plan to come back for my kids and help them when their time comes. I don’t want them to be afraid or alone either, so I’m gonna be there. I’m sure your dad’s parents felt the same.
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Hospice can be the most difficult but it’s so important to keep in mind these people are going to a wonderful place ❤️
I wish I could like this video a million times. I worked in hospice for many years. Your videos have inspired me and reminded me of how much I miss it. I have been really thinking about doing it again. Thank you for these videos. Thank you for reminding me of who I used to be. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I have congestive heart failure, had a massive heart attack new year day, two stints and a pace maker. Also just got diagnosed with stomach cancer, but these videos have helped me cope and come to terms so we'll. While I wish I had more time, at least, thanks to you, I'm no longer afraid. Thank you.
I pray you find Jesus 🙌🏽
God bless you ❤❤
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I pray for you to heal, and if it is your time, for your loved ones and Jesus to be there when the time comes 🙏 ❤️
God bless you and your family🤍
When my daughter died, she mentioned seeing a angelic cat. She said it was cute and she wanted to pet it but it told her she had to wait. She wouldn’t stop talking about their white fur coat and bright blue eyes, it looked as if they came from Heaven. She passed away later that night. We have this stray cat in my neighborhood, it stays around our home often, it has a white fur coat and bright blue eyes, just as she said. ❤
I like to think it’s her way of watching over us.
Edit:for everyone saying I should adopt the cat, I asked around and even googled if it would be possible for me to just take in a stray cat in my country and area and various areas around me it is technically illegal and you must go through legal adoption process or take them to animal shelter since animal protection laws. My area specifically I could not find.
I took the cat to the vet and did all the necessary work to see if she has an owner or not and there is not. She is in a non kill animal shelter and I have already started the adoption process to get the cat.
I am as well doing in depth research on how to take care of a cat. It actually reminds me of when I found out I was going to have a daughter😅
Lots of feelings of happiness and remembrance and some sad but more excitement.
Edit 2: so the date has been set for me to receive the cat in 2 months after they received their shots. In the meantime I am buying cat toys, food, bed, etc. I am very excited!
Edit 3: i just wanted to thank everyone for their support and kind words and those who have experienced loss (I empathize with all of you) and overall thank you. I honestly would have never adopted the cat (I’ve always considered it but never thought I could act on it) but everyone here has been very helpful and encouraging. I actually used to be scared of cats till I started seeing this white cat around my neighborhood after my daughter’s death. Me and my wife are still debating on the name, some neighbors suggested our daughter’s which we definitely aren’t making it our daughter’s name since that’s her’s and her’s alone, however we aren’t opposed to making a name somewhat inspired by our daughter. This is why we decided to name the cat Luna since our daughter’s name was Solana. My wife chose the name Solana since she was born during the day, and we are choosing Luna since I my daughter passed during the night. I think it’s pretty since it’s as if she isn’t actually gone, always with me is some way, perhaps this is just me but it’s like a continuation of where everything was left off. I honestly can’t wait to bring our cat Luna in to the family!
Edit 4: hi! Happy new year’s! I kind of forgot about this comment till I received a notification for it. I just received my cat yesterday and I am literally so incredibly happy!! My and my wife are already showering her with love and we can’t wait to see what the future holds, even if my daughter isn’t there with us like we had always planned. We actually got to pick the cat up a little earlier then expected and it was just a day after my daughter’s death, it feels like she is watching over us. My wife especially loves the cat and has been amazing support for her, she looks so alive and happy and while she still gets understandably sad at times, I feel the cat senses this even when she is on the other side of the house and runs to comfort her with cuddles. It’s the cutest thing I have ever seen. The cat also clings close to me and sleep right in the middle of our bed!! She is so cute and I love her so much. I just want to thank the people who told me to adopt this cat because she has become such an important part of our lives in a short amount of time.
Since this is my final edit to this comment I just want to say, I hope you all have a wonderful year and life!!
If you have lost any loved ones, wheather it’s your mother, father, grandparent, sibling, and so on, then I truely empathize with you and sincerely hope you can grieve your losses healthily and may feel happiness in the future again!!
I’m so sorry of your loss but she is definitely watching over you as the cat and is so proud of you ❤️❤️
Losing a child is the hardest loss.
I am so incredibly sorry♥️
We lost my brother many years ago at age 20 and my mom is still trying to cope.
Now that I am myself a mom the very thought of losing my child takes my breath away.
Life is sometimes cruel and unfair.
Send you my prayers ♥️
Lots of people believe that people can reincarnate as animals too
@@Tea-pe1yq thank you, and I so genuinely hope the best for you child and you.
@@Lucyyyyyy23 thanks, I like how she (the cat) always clings to me like my daughter always did. She was the most important person to me and now she is gone, this is a fate I wish on no one.
This nurse handled this so beautifully
Thank you for this. I lost my son years ago and think of the joy of a family reunion with him on the other side in heaven.
When my Nana passed in August, I was with her, and as she was taking her final breaths the entire room changed, it felt like there were suddenly a lot of people there. I hope that everyone she missed was waiting to take her home.
I'm sincerely sorry for the loss of your nanna.
May God Bless her and hold her in his arms, for an eternity.
Just to share, the bible says that when we pass away, we don't move or anything.
We either go up, or down.
The bible also says that demons will impersonate loved ones.
I've personally seen this too.
Think about it, why would a spirit present itself like when it was alive, with clothing, when spirits aren't material beings.
They're spiritual beings for God's glory in heaven.
Daniel 12:13
13 “As for you, go your way till the end. You will rest, and then at the end of the days you will rise to receive your allotted inheritance.”
Luke 24:39
39 "See my hands and my feet, that it is I myself. Touch me, and see. For a spirit does not have flesh and bones as you see that I have.”
@user-bb2vn8vz5x you disgust me
My nanny (grandmother) started taking directly to God. She was like, "Ok Jesus I'm just tired"
@@sheberry2895mine did also.
@@SouthernGospelSinger777 I don't believe in the bible, so it was my ancestors that came to take her away. Fk off with that demon crap. She was a good and moral woman.
I just saw this for the first time. Before my grandmother passed, she kept asking for her purse because granddad was there to take her home. He passed 20 years earlier.
My grandpa said the same stuff still gives me chills how sincere he was.
Beautiful. I've had this experience while nursing a patient ❤
As a retired hospice nurse....I cry when I watch these... it's a beautiful thing to have your spouse come and get you.
The fact that they arnt in pain is a sign as well, many people at the end will suddenly have a great day and feel better have more energy and seem like they are getting better right before they pass, I think thats pretty cool honestly
I always think this as God's mercy.
@@irenebernardi703 Scientifically, I think it's the part of your brain that processes fear and pain shutting down because...you don't need it anymore.
So, kinda, yeah.
That happened to my mom. Over 20 years later, my dad was dying and then we heard him say Hello and said her name. He became so relaxed and then he started talking to her in a very low voice. He passed away the next morning.
It's called the last hurrah
They also call it the rally
The last line, “excited” made me burst into tears. 😢❤
When she said "we are leaving tomorrow" that gave me chills because it feels like she is saying, "You are dying tomorrow"😬
My mum ..A Nana..had recently passed.away.....my three year old son..woke up in the morning....he was so happy...he was grinning ear to ear...i asked why are you so happy..? he said Nana came to see me and was reading a book to me..!
Yeah, the night my nana died of cancer, I dreamed she was better. I ran around telling everyone she was better, in the dream, and nobody would believe me, they were all sad. When I woke up, my Mum told me she'd passed away that night.
When my Dad died he came to me in a dream. We were at the dining table eating, telling stories and laughing and laughing just like we had always done before his diabetes and renal failure got to him. I woke up and just knew he was saying goodbye one final time. He was dying in hospital and my sister and I, had just seen him and told him we love you, we're ok you can go we will be fine. So he did. Later that day maybe an hour or two after waking I got the call from the hospital that he passed. I miss him everyday. That was 12 years ago. He still sends me reminders of his love.
Yes, my grandfather was in the hospital ICU, during a blizzard/ice storm. He came to me in a dream & walking! He had been in a wheelchair for years. He told me (mentally) because he never actually spoke. But he conveyed the message that he was wonderful & happy & I was to let my mother & Grandmother know. I woke up with tears. Streaming down my face with happiness at seeing him so happy! The phone rang 5 minutes later. Telling us he had passed. I passed his message along. And they both cried!
My son was 3 and 1/2 when my dad died. For many months my son saw and heard things no one else could, and most of the time he said it was grandpa. Some of us also heard and saw unexplained occurrences usually in my parents house.
..same.. a few days after my husband died..my 2 year old granddaughter was eating dinner in her high chair and started waving at the darkened window.. I asked who was she waving at.?. she said grandpa..✨.. I have soo much hope❤
My grandmother passed away when my mom was only 14 years old. A few days before my mom passed away she was calling out to her mom saying "Mama, mama and also told me that she was seeing many angels surrounding her bed. A few days later she passed away.
There's no doubt in my mind that she's in heaven with her mom and Jesus. No more pain, no more tears. I'll see my mom again some day.
My mom too❤️
What a beautiful story about your grandmother! She must have been a godly lady to have had all those angel near her. I’m sure you can’t wait to meet her!
God bless all three of you! How beautiful! How miraculous!❤️😭😊
Where is the happy ending there really isn't one
That's so beautiful heaven awaits us in Jesus name amen.
My Mom appeared to me 4 days after she was buried. Mknd blowing and beautiful ✝️ 🙏 🤲 ❤Spiritual workd is real.
I hope and pray that it’s my wife that comes for me. I miss her and can’t wait to see her again.
She will ❤ Love shines brightly on the other side, she can feel your love like a lighthouse in the dead of night. As soon as you reach that "in between" state where the veil thins and you can see a little bit on the other side, she will come to you. Her and all of those who passed who loved you too
She will❤️❤️
She will. Damn I’m crying
@@mr.clean419 all her videos make me cry 🤣
@@mr.clean419 *Hugs*🤗