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  • @kaydoubleu5802
    @kaydoubleu5802 Před 2 lety +2129

    Maybe one day people will realize that wholesome and lewd do not share an axis. There are a lot of people who are wholesome AND lewd, and there are people who are deranged AND prude. There are also people who are none of those things.

    • @RexOedipus.
      @RexOedipus. Před 2 lety +51

      Isn't deranged and prude just the default setting for prudes? With all the wishing hellfire and shit to others who are not as prude.

    • @913_Niyala
      @913_Niyala Před 2 lety +23

      Thank youuuu! I can't tell you enough how much I get judged for being lewd and wholesome. Making friends is freakin' rough because people feel this need to categorize you in a box that you don't fit in. 😅

    • @mthlily
      @mthlily Před 2 lety +103

      @@RexOedipus. nope. Those kinds of people are both prude and deranged. Being modest is just as valid a choice as showing off your sexuality. You can be prude without shoving it down everyone else's throats.

    • @geoxaga6507
      @geoxaga6507 Před 2 lety +19

      Projeck melody is both wholesome and lewd.

    • @SilkNeon
      @SilkNeon Před 2 lety +16

      After watching the Harley Quinn cartoon I realized that wholesome and crass are also not mutually exclusive. Very interesting combination, as well. Usually I’m unfazed by gore and stuff but the stuff in Haley Quinn regularly gets me, I’m just not expecting it for some reason.

  • @nora-ng2ro
    @nora-ng2ro Před 2 lety +2694

    I feel for Emily, god forbid people see you as a multifaceted woman.

    • @YuSooKey
      @YuSooKey Před 2 lety +56

      It's not just a female thing. Look at Sykkuno.

    • @JustSomeoneRandom1324
      @JustSomeoneRandom1324 Před 2 lety +27

      @@YuSooKey Sykkuno is kinda the exception that proves the rule though

    • @razier5299
      @razier5299 Před 2 lety +5

      @@JustSomeoneRandom1324 How? I haven't seen anything about him so do you have proof?

    • @burns5701
      @burns5701 Před 2 lety +3

      @@YuSooKey wait really, what's with sykkuno?

    • @JustSomeoneRandom1324
      @JustSomeoneRandom1324 Před 2 lety +84

      @@razier5299 Sykkuno gets put into a box of being a certain archetype a lot of the time, just like many female streamers get put into a box.
      The fact that it is so noticeable with Sykkuno that he has way more personality than the 2D prop people make him out to be (which I assumed the reply was pointing out when mentioning Sykkuno) proves that it isn't considered the rule for male streamers.
      Hence, Sykkuno by being mentioned as an exception, proves the rule that it is rare for men to be boxed in like that. Because with Sykkuno he is considered special for being put in one. While with Emily, she is considered special for breaking hers.
      Lastly, calm down man, I am neither attacking Emily or Sykkuno, your targets of adoration, whichever they may be here, are safe from my accusations.

  • @notaball518
    @notaball518 Před 2 lety +1388

    I feel Emily there, apparently having the quiet rep & non-intimidating appearance have ppl losing their minds that someone knows mature jokes and swearing

    • @despicablepenguin
      @despicablepenguin Před 2 lety +54

      Yeah I have the same thing irl. It makes me surprised when people say that because it's not like I'm hiding it or anything but I keep doing it non-chalently they catch on and then realize I'm just like that (wow I'm a normal human being. How surprising). It does get me out of situations though and staff and teacher always thinks that I'm not doing anything wrong so I can get away with some stuff cuz stereotyping 👍:)

    • @yuililith
      @yuililith Před 2 lety +27

      Yes! Gosh, I get this all the time. People see me as somewhat innocent and shy at work because of my looks and my introverted self but when they add me in any of my social media, they get shocked because of my lewd memes and dark humor.
      Someone even REPORTED me and got me in trouble at the HR because of the shock as if I had a "change of personality" in my social media. I didn't even post anything against my former work. It was the shock because I looked quiet and professional and baby-faced, then wild in my own safe space. It's terrifying.

    • @yuililith
      @yuililith Před 2 lety +13

      Additionally, these same people always think I will feel awkward or will cringe if they make innuendos. Like come on, I know more sex jokes and innuendos than y'all do.

    • @dorcat2867
      @dorcat2867 Před 10 měsíci +1

      That happened to me in school as well, there was this guy in class who was annoying and I swore and he literally gasped and said, “You’re not allowed to swear”, although I think he not because I was shy but because of my weight and felt like he had to be condescending towards me

  • @geoguessrplayer1
    @geoguessrplayer1 Před 2 lety +194

    "The lion, the witch and the audacity of this bitch" is my new favourite sentence.

    • @abura2980
      @abura2980 Před 2 měsíci

      it's the lie, not lion

    • @ryu_kaii
      @ryu_kaii Před 2 dny

      @@abura2980it’s lion….like the narnia book the lion the witch and the wardrobe

  • @monicacreator3168
    @monicacreator3168 Před 2 lety +1201

    I feel like because shes Asian, people see her as more "innocent" too. For example, I'm Christian, reserved and an introvert, but I'm also black so no one see me as innocent, instead I've been called stuck up

    • @lazulisystem
      @lazulisystem Před 2 lety +64

      Really good point, I hadn't thought about it like that

    • @marvelouschester4104
      @marvelouschester4104 Před 2 lety +96

      How people look really changes how others perceive their behaviour, it's so common that I realised I did it and had to change my way of thinking.

    • @LukSter18998
      @LukSter18998 Před 2 lety +28

      ah that sucks

    • @fen9007
      @fen9007 Před 2 lety +23

      Can relate, I’m a straight white male (and a Christian) so people kinda assume I’m an idiot

    • @mult1versal
      @mult1versal Před rokem +3

      @@fen9007 well, are you?

  • @backtoklondike
    @backtoklondike Před 2 lety +338

    I thought of that hentai dubbing video that Connor did where Emily dubbed a scene where she did say a lot of explicit stuff. And I remember that Connor in the video had to assure people that Emily was the one who chose that clip and that he didn't force her. All because of that image people had off Emily, which is kind of sad.

    • @AsdfAsdf-mi6ks
      @AsdfAsdf-mi6ks Před 2 lety +26

      People are so weird.

    • @whovianmaverick6348
      @whovianmaverick6348 Před rokem +4

      Nah, I do believe people can be wholesome and lewd to the point where it’s beautiful and I believe Emily is a very cool person for being multifaceted

    • @himesilva
      @himesilva Před měsícem

      That sounds like a funny video, do you remember the name?

  • @lieutenantotaku4151
    @lieutenantotaku4151 Před 2 lety +884

    I think people gravitate toward specific archetypes because it's easier for them to maintain that particular fantasy/para-social relationship. Anytime they have a "break" in character so to speak, the viewer could very well interpret that as being misled, lied to, or even a downright betrayal. That's obviously a wildly over the top and borderline unhealthy conclusion to have about a person you never really knew in the first place.

    • @jipke7430
      @jipke7430 Před 2 lety +61

      Vtubers and their fans basically

    • @Prodigi50
      @Prodigi50 Před 2 lety +47

      @@jipke7430 Streamers* and their fans.

    • @capperbuns
      @capperbuns Před 2 lety +26

      People just have unhealty mindsets nowadays tho. The pandemic really boosted that

    • @yourecringe7961
      @yourecringe7961 Před 2 lety +27

      Stans, Kpop fans, Western fans, anime fans and Vtubers fans basically.

    • @imoutotrash390
      @imoutotrash390 Před 2 lety +19

      @@yourecringe7961 I feel like we just call that fandom

  • @PeterButchens
    @PeterButchens Před 2 lety +395

    So it boils down to "All women are queens" vs "If she breaths, she's a thoooot" argument?

    • @ninjigaming6079
      @ninjigaming6079 Před 2 lety +9

      Yes

    • @mono8476
      @mono8476 Před 2 lety +28

      seems like it.
      Also, isnt it puzzling how we hv words like sl*t & wh*re but no male equivalent?
      unless u count stuff like man wh*re i guess

    • @frozenheartedgiant8330
      @frozenheartedgiant8330 Před 2 lety +37

      @@mono8476 I think that mostly comes from biology, and not having ways to see if a male was unfaithful in the past. Really easy to see when a woman is heaving sex out of wedlock when birth control isn't a thing. Responsibility for sex also ultimately fell on the woman, been as they were the one to get pregnant, so females having sex outside marriage came with a lot of social stigma, resulting in these words.

    • @mono8476
      @mono8476 Před 2 lety +1

      @@frozenheartedgiant8330 makes sense 🤔

    • @Petrichorus-
      @Petrichorus- Před 2 lety +5

      @@mono8476 yeah there's less severe equivalents like "fuck boy" and "boy toy", but honestly we should popularize the same words for men, the same way "bitch" is gender inclusive now lol. I don't slut shame so I haven't really used it as an insult but I don't see a point in extending that kindness to bigots who use those words to try and hurt/illegitimize people.

  • @bainbonic
    @bainbonic Před 2 lety +319

    Emily: "A lot of people think I'm just completely wholesome and pure."
    Me, who's also subbed to Moonshine: "Nah she's cool is what she is."

    • @lucidreamer6522
      @lucidreamer6522 Před 2 lety +20

      Eyyyy.
      Like a lot of people I was really surprised when I learned that Emily was the voice behind the murder knife doll whose name I’m too paranoid to say out loud, but it was a really cool thing to discover that there was another dimension to her.
      Parasociality can be pretty toxic, but sometimes all you need to get out of it is a shock like that.

    • @shoto42
      @shoto42 Před 2 lety +6

      Dude when I first heard her in one of Moon’s animated gaming videos just screaming curse words, I fucking died laughing due to shock value of never hearing her curse. And also voicing some of his videos is pretty freaking cool I think

  • @brtt150
    @brtt150 Před 2 lety +922

    Emily: Don't put female content creators in a box.
    Comment section: *proceeds to put female content creators in a box*

    • @saberblitz7629
      @saberblitz7629 Před 2 lety +4

      what

    • @JustSomeoneRandom1324
      @JustSomeoneRandom1324 Před 2 lety +126

      @@saberblitz7629 some of the comments are essentially making a third category and throwing Emily into the new box

    • @johnbuscher
      @johnbuscher Před 2 lety +111

      @@JustSomeoneRandom1324 Because people are very good at categorizing things. It’s like trying to tell someone “you can’t categorize a platypus!” but that definitionally just puts it in a new category: Uncategorized.

    • @myself2noone
      @myself2noone Před 2 lety +8

      I've seen this exact comment more then I've seen anything like that.

    • @coasterthekid8867
      @coasterthekid8867 Před 2 lety +3

      The world puts everyone into a box, it is what it is

  • @thomas_lale
    @thomas_lale Před 2 lety +659

    That girl got roasted hard. If she cosplays and knows Emily, there's probably a good chance she's at some point going to see this.

    • @ckplays4953
      @ckplays4953 Před 2 lety +43

      well she unfollowed Emily on instagram so...maybe not?

    • @UditENG-xi4pu
      @UditENG-xi4pu Před 2 lety +29

      I mean it's warranted now at least she's gonna stir clear of Emily.

    • @BlackHeart1216
      @BlackHeart1216 Před 2 lety +48

      If just telling the truth is a roast you don't really have the right to be offended.

    • @yukilu602
      @yukilu602 Před rokem +3

      god I hope so, I srsly hate fake people like that, Emi deserves better

  • @vultureuser
    @vultureuser Před 2 lety +527

    i thought this was just called "there are two kinds of females"

  • @halycon404
    @halycon404 Před 2 lety +336

    And then there is Sydney. Who's gone so far into the second box she's warped the whole two box paradigm and become educational content of a sort.

    • @taloscal
      @taloscal Před 2 lety +96

      she went so far in the box she became a Bodhisattva of horny and reached enlightenment, now spreading her teachings to the masses.

    • @JustSomeoneRandom1324
      @JustSomeoneRandom1324 Před 2 lety +52

      @@taloscal she unlocked the secret compartment

    • @themadmallard
      @themadmallard Před 2 lety

      @@JustSomeoneRandom1324 ssssshit, thats roffle worthy

  • @sandshark2517
    @sandshark2517 Před 2 lety +58

    2:30 The word for that is called Sonder.
    It means to realize every person you will meet and pass by will have lives and emotions as complex as your own

  • @turq99
    @turq99 Před 2 lety +132

    I can relate to the wholesome expectations. I am reserved and don't curse alot but I know we live in a world with cursing, and dirty jokes so I can handle hearing it. I have had relatives and other people apologizing when they curse around me or asking me to cover my ears when the discussion of someone being high comes up, I have to assure people I am fine and I can handle it lol I know its well intentioned but I am 32 years old.

    • @SufficientDaikon
      @SufficientDaikon Před 2 lety

      awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

    • @regesrghse
      @regesrghse Před 2 lety +7

      No because same it gets so annoying just because I'm quiet people think I'm unknowing

    • @alanabanana752
      @alanabanana752 Před 2 lety +5

      I experience something similar. So, I don’t curse, and I refrain from saying anything slightly “dirty” or inappropriate that pops into my head, such as a joke or something, and my friend has friends who curse so anytime they’re around and cursing she’s like, “Hey, *name, Alana (me) is here!” And I’ve had to tell her that I’m not a seven year old and don’t need people to filter themselves around me, especially with something as trivial as cursing. When she does that it just makes me look like a baby who can’t handle a few words being said.

    • @crazydragy4233
      @crazydragy4233 Před rokem

      @@alanabanana752 Myeah, the sad part thing that the whole "innocence" thing is inherently infantalising with how it's conceived 95% of the time...

  • @BlueLoveYT
    @BlueLoveYT Před 2 lety +77

    It genuinely sucks that the internet has a terrible habit of labeling content creators based on gender. Content creators should be able to express themselves however they want. It's THEIR channel after all, not the audience's. Also humans are complex creatures with many different interests/values. If a youtuber wants to be wholesome AND lewd, that shouldn't be problem. No one should ever feel obligated to fall under a stereotype for the sake of others.

  • @Mati_Panzer
    @Mati_Panzer Před 2 lety +171

    Sonder: The profound feeling of realizing that everyone, including strangers passing in the street, has a life as complex as one's own, which they are constantly living despite one's personal lack of awareness of it.
    I was listening to the podcast and thought "wait there was a word for what Emily is describing... probably a german word or something" and I had to look it up

    • @GustavoSor3y
      @GustavoSor3y Před 2 lety +30

      this is truly one of the "theres a german word for literally everything" moment

    • @TheOfficalAndI
      @TheOfficalAndI Před 2 lety +1

      What's the word then?

    • @pineberry212
      @pineberry212 Před 2 lety +5

      Now I know the word for what gave me existential crisis(s) in the overly crowded halls in highschool...

    • @tori4770
      @tori4770 Před 2 lety +9

      @@TheOfficalAndI Sonder

    • @namelessdandelion
      @namelessdandelion Před 2 lety +7

      oh yeah from the Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows. That book makes me question my whole existence

  • @eiighta5094
    @eiighta5094 Před 2 lety +241

    Yeah it’s pretty weird and gross how normalized this trend is with female content creators. It’s like they’re seen more as a fantasy or character rather than a person with autonomy…

    • @Kittikee10
      @Kittikee10 Před 2 lety +47

      it's almost like women in general are seen and treated that way...

    • @FATDADDYSACK
      @FATDADDYSACK Před 2 lety +2

      Project Melody exist, Emily is just in her own box lmao

    • @tumamaencosplay
      @tumamaencosplay Před rokem +6

      It's almost like they choose to play those characters because they are either too insecure to be themselves on camera, or know their personality just isn't really entertainer material (which is fine, very few people are), so they rely on archtypes to try to be likeable.
      There is loads of people out there, male and female, who don't play archtypes are perfectly successful on youtube.
      The problem is that if you started as either seiso or horny to get easy attention, the audience you baited with those archtype behaviors WILL feel betrayed and complain when it turns out that isn't the truth. Idubz is a good recent male example, he betrayed the character he created for his audience, and the audience didn't like that.
      TL;DR This isn't about women perse, but about how the influencer chooses to present themselves innittially, and if their real personality is even likable to begin with.

    • @strayiggytv
      @strayiggytv Před rokem

      @@tumamaencosplay the Madonna/whore complex existed way before influencers. Society has always treated woman as either the Madonna or the whore. If a woman is "pure" she's a madonna but If she sleeps with more than one person she's a whore and if she sleeps with someone that isn't the man saying it she's a whore no matter what.

    • @crazydragy4233
      @crazydragy4233 Před rokem +2

      @@tumamaencosplay Fair enough but isn't the real issue spaces that create expectations/pressure for those things?
      It's kinda hard to put the blame on creators when success is behind a "we don't see you as a person" paywall, especially when it's an issue in all aspects of life.

  • @isaiahh6694
    @isaiahh6694 Před 2 lety +65

    10:55 Vtubers immediately come to mind when she said that lol.

    • @mariojordan9543
      @mariojordan9543 Před 2 lety +6

      Yeah... and thats really annoying

    • @Floraclaw
      @Floraclaw Před 2 lety +9

      Yeah it gets really bad when people start clipping What they say or certain screenshots get posted on CZcams.
      It really turns into a fun game of Russian roulette with my phone whenever I open it in public.
      Am I going to be seeing something somewhat socially normal? Or am I going to have to throw my phone across the building when I was just trying to find a video about Elden ring or something cuz my recommendations are completely screwed by watching one Vtuber.(Edit: apparently I can't spell Vtuber)

    • @marccuypers2439
      @marccuypers2439 Před 2 lety +6

      I suppose building a 3-dimensional, nuanced character is somewhat difficult when your entire online persona is literally pretending to be a 2-dimensional anime character. :D

  • @xyznightwing
    @xyznightwing Před 2 lety +76

    The one thing I love when watching Emily's video is how relatable she is. People have this idea of you and if you deviate from it, they are so surprised and don't realize that a human is not that one-dimensional.

  • @pancakeonarabbit
    @pancakeonarabbit Před 2 lety +50

    connor is acting like an anime youtuber grandfather

  • @controlcon
    @controlcon Před 2 lety +116

    ironic how emily is explicitly saying not to put females in a box yet people are doing that exact thing here

  • @HameltheKamel
    @HameltheKamel Před 2 lety +15

    I usually get the feeling of sonder when I'm driving on the freeway. We're all going different places, and just so happen to drive next to each other at that exact moment. And we'll probably never see each other again, but they're still out there living their life. It's wild to think about.

  • @gishkishor4441
    @gishkishor4441 Před 2 lety +131

    The word Emily is looking for when you realise other people are the protagonists of their own lives is "Sonder".

  • @KhuongNguyen-sw2ke
    @KhuongNguyen-sw2ke Před 2 lety +22

    It's almost 5 years since the last time I went back to my hometown. I better retrieve the founding titan soon.

  • @Flayrr872
    @Flayrr872 Před 2 lety +21

    When I listen to Emily's stories, I actually feel like the way she describes her life is so realistic and relateable that I couldn't put her in either of the boxes. She really does well to express herself as another human being and not being categorised into one of two extremes.

  • @mattbaltimore7195
    @mattbaltimore7195 Před 2 lety +46

    I'm pretty sure you can have in between if the subject matter is just neutral-like niche stuff (ex.Overly Sarcastic Productions)... I think what stems to Emily's problem is she's aware of her younger audience so she needs to adjust while her not-so younger audience didn't noticed it that they misinterpret it and made up their own version of what her persona is....

    • @Necroskull388
      @Necroskull388 Před 2 lety +2

      With the OSP example, isn't OSP Red literally asexual? I mean, she's not a virginal seiso maiden with regards to rude language, but she's definitely sexless. And IIRC so are multiple other people on that channel, including the guys.

    • @mattbaltimore7195
      @mattbaltimore7195 Před 2 lety +6

      Sorry if i didn't noticed.... I'm more focused watching on their topics than their personal lives.... I still stand to my opinion about having a neutral ground....

    • @longdo5910
      @longdo5910 Před 2 lety +13

      @@mattbaltimore7195 Red outright mentioned her asexuality whenever she talk about romance related trope because she could only dissect academically and based on observation on people around her.

    • @EspeonMistress00
      @EspeonMistress00 Před 2 lety

      @@Necroskull388 Point still stands. She can know about sex. Doesn't mean she's a thot

    • @EspeonMistress00
      @EspeonMistress00 Před 2 lety

      @@Necroskull388
      From what I remember from OSPodcast:-
      Red: Asexual/aromantic
      Blue: Ace/romantic (idk if he is hetero-/bi-romantic)
      Cyan: (Blue's wife) Same as Blue
      Indigo: i think she is hetero on both ends but she could be bi.

  • @dungeonmaster3464
    @dungeonmaster3464 Před rokem +9

    This also applies to male content creators to a degree, but it's really noticeable with female creators. It's like their viewers see them as a characters rather than a living person. They want to see female youtubers as either pure angels or lewd succubuses to fit with their ideal perception of them. It's asinine, but it's part of the reason why people get so up-in-arms about Vtubers.
    Between watching both Emily's channel and her collabs with Connor, I would still call her a cinnamon bun, but that doesn't lock her into an archetype. She's not above cursing or teasing her friends, but she's generally courteous, supportive, and awkward while having the humor to laugh at herself for it.

  • @aliensinnoh1
    @aliensinnoh1 Před rokem +2

    The first video of Emerichu’s I watched was her AMV of “It’s Not Like I Like You”. I watched that in like the fall of 2018. Then I watched a bunch of her other stuff.

  • @dirtyningen8118
    @dirtyningen8118 Před rokem +6

    Fun fact guys, that feeling emily described is called sonder: the realization background characters in our life are main characters in their lives and have just as much depth as a human as us

  • @krol9507
    @krol9507 Před 2 lety +6

    Already saw the full episode but bumping this for the algorithm. Emily speaking fax

  • @xman5393
    @xman5393 Před 2 lety +3

    7:30 Dhar man is watching and he's like "write that down!!"

  • @alexpaumen3937
    @alexpaumen3937 Před rokem +1

    This is why I do what I can to get to know people (in general) before I make judgments. That's the problem with only knowing someone online is that the viscerality of that person's presence isn't there so there's no emotional contagion (when you're talking to someone and you do gestures or start talking like the person you're talking to) and therefore you don't know exactly how they're feeling if that makes sense. I should know because I've made that mistake but I don't want to bring that drama here.

  • @JaytheJaskonian
    @JaytheJaskonian Před 2 lety +5

    Bruh that thing about characterizing every single subscriber gave me flashbacks to the ending of Hellsing ultimate abridged where takahata- I mean alucard had to give therapy to every person he'd ever killed one by one and it took him twenty years

  • @arlokloiber2715
    @arlokloiber2715 Před 2 lety +16

    Knowing the bois are daunted by our collective presence is empowering

  • @Tjad
    @Tjad Před 2 lety +8

    People suddenly un follow me after meeting a old friend in comic con also happens to me as well.
    getting over it was hard ,but i learn people that is rude can be judge preatty easly the more strong we became . Theres good guy and bad guys , she just among of the bad guys.
    but this wonder me, is it this kind of thing is a thing from back in days? here i though its just me . if do women are scary back in days

  • @bcfb21
    @bcfb21 Před 2 lety +13

    Listen, last I checked Emily was with Daidus and anyone who is dating Daidus can't not have a dirty mind somewhere.

  • @raeldri5867
    @raeldri5867 Před 2 lety +3

    Hahahhaha Garnt talking about collabs and fans being "now kiss" I'm sure Connor felt that one

  • @nitashbiswas5590
    @nitashbiswas5590 Před 2 lety

    5:33 The sync among the boys to say "right" is what I love.

  • @jackyoh971
    @jackyoh971 Před 2 lety +31

    I want a Emily and Sydnap collab now...

  • @jobansand
    @jobansand Před 2 lety +2

    10:28 this frame is hilarious. Should be a meme

  • @Lanternside
    @Lanternside Před rokem +2

    I really like Emirichu. I only found her videos recently. I love her chat. And she makes people look really appealing as cartoons. Great to watch this panel. Thanks guys!

  • @andrejjjj2008
    @andrejjjj2008 Před 2 lety +12

    "I thought you were wholesome" usually are a joke.
    In my experience.

  • @bmack4047
    @bmack4047 Před rokem

    2:50 It's called Sonder. I feel this everytime I'm in a large metropolitan area.

  • @mizuki2264
    @mizuki2264 Před měsícem

    1:17 I’ve never felt so exposed as someone with social anxiety 🤣
    Every time I’m around people, I’m praying someone saves me from that ‘air of mystery’ but then I also hope I don’t screw up talking to people, haha

  • @returnedtomonkey8886
    @returnedtomonkey8886 Před 2 lety +1

    Those 2 figures from the second shelf between Connor and Emily.
    One is clearly dio but what's the other? Sub zero from MK?

  • @owenshale8719
    @owenshale8719 Před měsícem

    I wonder if they are going to do another video were they buy anime fighters and

  • @kitsunefirefox1986
    @kitsunefirefox1986 Před 2 lety +2

    Existential introspection has entered the chat...thank you Emily 0-o

  • @Mars-pw4iw
    @Mars-pw4iw Před 2 lety +3

    Let's fucking go Box2!

  • @nomadrl91x
    @nomadrl91x Před 2 lety

    think of it like goku using a spirit bomb: You need ki from so many life forms, animals and people to make one to overcome your obstacles, and enemies. just know that for every sub, thats a persons ki going towards *your* spirit bomb, wanting you to succeed and win the day! I love the channel and love all of you!

  • @carrot708
    @carrot708 Před 2 lety +6

    This is true. There is a thing like "You are either literally Janimations or literally Alinity, and if I'm watching you and you slightly lewder than Jan, ew. You must be Alinity"

  • @dadaromance
    @dadaromance Před rokem

    I thought something similar to Emily. Back when I uploaded stuff on a different channel, when I got 1,000 views for the first time, I imagined the gymnasium. A lot of gyms have these signs that say “Fits up to 350 persons.”
    And I think, if I put all of these people in my gymnasium, it wouldn’t fit.

  • @maximusprime3459
    @maximusprime3459 Před 2 lety

    3. Former Disney employees with nightmare stories...

  • @UditENG-xi4pu
    @UditENG-xi4pu Před 2 lety +2

    I mean if you try to fit into a box you will . But that's very weird that people comment that. I mean the ones that comment that are not that well adjusted .

  • @june2921
    @june2921 Před 2 lety +18

    Connor: ..Who is that creator???
    Sidney: Am i a joke to you?
    I’m kidding but coming from these channels the two boxes analogy ofc sent me right to that

  • @dovahkiinmary
    @dovahkiinmary Před 2 lety

    My first youtube video (on a different account) got 200k views in a few days (When Let's Plays were starting to get big).... and that totally overwhelmed me and I noped out after 2 more videos. xD

  • @danfawks7164
    @danfawks7164 Před 2 lety

    When was this?

  • @kusaboketranslations2163
    @kusaboketranslations2163 Před 2 lety +211

    This comment section is disgusting. Emily discusses how the average internet audience has strange expectations of women, how male viewers criticize content creator women for not being stereotypically seiso or stereotypically horny. The comments go on to criticize vtubers for "being fake" because this or that vtuber didn't match their expectations. The point Emily is making is that such categorizations are inaccurate and bad, while the people in these comments make a third box to put women into and act like they are superior to everyone else. Gross.
    Remember when Connor first showed up in Joey's videos and people were like "Why is he so quiet, does he HATE Joey?" not comprehending the simple fact that while Connor can be more loud and energetic on his own videos and streams to be interesting for the viewer, he does not want to seem like a conceited ass. People act differently in different situations, which includes streaming. This is normal. All the male content creators are just as "fake" while being watched but if you ignore all that and call female content creators "fake", "cringe", "annoying" what you are doing is displaying blatant misogyny.

    • @FM-dm8xj
      @FM-dm8xj Před 2 lety +6

      vtubers actively delude their audience into thinking their some hot anime charachter when in reality their not. their decieving their audience intentionally and in a sense very weeaboo based.

    • @dzello
      @dzello Před 2 lety +47

      @@kusaboketranslations2163 You call the comment section disgusting, but you're literally missing half of Emily's point and that part makes your comment moot?
      She says the viewers put female content creators in two categories, but she also says that female content creators put themselves in those categories.
      This means a significant portion of female content creators are indeed faking to be in those two categories, it's not just projection.
      This in turn makes the male viewers correct to assume such dichotomic personalities.
      And as the comment section points out, this phenomenon is especially prevalent with vtubers who often specifically create personalities that fit within those categories.
      That latter part of her argument literally makes the comment section correct: there is ground to critique the fakeness of vtubing based on this phenomenon because they are especially faking to be within those two categories.
      This is not a symetric phenomenon either, it's just like e-girls. Notice how you never hear the term ''e-boy'' ? It's not misoginy, it's simply an asymetric phenomenon that almost exclusively applies to women. Plus, in no way is the categorization bad since it's relatively true: if 80% of female content creator fall into two categories and 20% are various outliers, it is viable to use this categorization because it works most of the time even if you hit an outlier every so often. It's called discrimination (not to be confused with the negative meaning of the word) and it's a normal cognitive process to recognize patterns and categorize accordingly.

    • @reddytoplay9188
      @reddytoplay9188 Před 2 lety +5

      @@FM-dm8xj Are you FULLMETAL the cringelord? ahhh I am such a huge fan.

    • @FM-dm8xj
      @FM-dm8xj Před 2 lety +3

      @@reddytoplay9188 please do not use my name, u cringe fuq

    • @willconn3620
      @willconn3620 Před 2 lety +52

      @@dzello Uh no, she said that female creators *feels pressured* to put themselves into one of those boxes, because of how audiences react to them acting in a way that they perceived to be "Out Of Character". Emily even goes on to provide an example where people overreacted to her swearing on Connor's video.
      This entire comment section is a fascinating specimen of the exact thing she talked about, how so many people managed to hear one thing and interpreted to be another, convincingly taking out the part where they're are the one that's partly responsible for that "fakeness", is frankly astounding.
      As for the e-boy thing? E-girl is usually used to describe those that are on Twitch, a place where the vast majority of audiences are straight males. E-boy don't exist on Twitch because that hive of scum and villain use Gay as an insult, no shit there wouldn't be any e-boy, there's no money to be made there.

  • @NatsuHair
    @NatsuHair Před 2 lety +5

    Almost a synchronized moment at 4:51

    • @Ultra_64
      @Ultra_64 Před 2 lety +6

      Bro they can't keep getting away with it. Somebody needs to donate a brain cell so they no longer have to share one

    • @minefish
      @minefish Před 2 lety +1

      @@Ultra_64 lol

  • @therevolutionary5148
    @therevolutionary5148 Před 2 lety +2

    I wish I had the powers of an Isekai protagonist and my life was as simple as that of an Isekai protagonist

  • @joesoq
    @joesoq Před 2 lety +1

    really unrelated but damn i like the mammoni shirt

  • @kazyBarbarian
    @kazyBarbarian Před 2 lety +2

    11:01 for the 2 types of female CZcamsrs

  • @user-xl5kd6il6c
    @user-xl5kd6il6c Před 2 lety +7

    There's 2 types of males, those that say the gamer word, and those who don't

  • @Fabelaz
    @Fabelaz Před 2 lety +1

    I mean, projectMelody can be in both boxes at ones.

  • @lukelyon1781
    @lukelyon1781 Před rokem +1

    It's interesting she says that. But I feel like when you present yourself as clean, wholesome, and cute, people tend to think you have no sexuality or that you're extremely innocent and/or vanilla. I get this from people based off my personality too.

  • @Vincent-mh2fs
    @Vincent-mh2fs Před 2 lety

    Emily just gave the mob psycho s2 speech

  • @nickmerritt5261
    @nickmerritt5261 Před 2 lety +3

    I feel this is true with a lot of v-tubers.

  • @marcorodriguez8792
    @marcorodriguez8792 Před rokem

    10:27 Connor stares into your soul

  • @jamzee_
    @jamzee_ Před rokem

    “The feeling When you pass someone walking on the street and realize they’re a whole other human”
    That term is called Sonder.

  • @lexshia
    @lexshia Před 2 lety

    Me who watches Gab Smoulder, wholesome bean that curses in stream

  • @randommaster06
    @randommaster06 Před rokem

    I have used the phase ""nut residue" many times at work.
    Most people don't say anything, but I had one person who was trying very hard to not laugh.

    • @arctohru
      @arctohru Před rokem

      Wait, how
      How can you just bring this phrase up in a conversation?? I need to learn this power
      Give me an example

    • @randommaster06
      @randommaster06 Před rokem

      @@arctohru Short Answer: I work with food and nut allergies are serious business.
      Long answer: I had to give instructions for proper food handing techniques to several people over the course of several days. I had considered using different wording, but most of the people I had to talk to were older, so I figured it was fine. Also, if anyone complained, we were literally making individual servings of mixed nuts, so as long as I didn't make it sound like innuendo, it would be very hard to get in trouble.
      One day, however, while I was going over the instructions with the only person younger than me and I said the phrase. They started trying not to laugh, so I decided to reference Monty Python and asked "Is there something funny about the phrase 'nut residue?'" Through unsuccessfully stifled laughter they said no, and I decided to leave it at that since I was at work.

  • @lime455
    @lime455 Před 2 lety

    Doesnt IronMouse kinda land in the middle?

  • @BlackHand531
    @BlackHand531 Před 2 lety

    MIKE JONES! THIS HAS SOME REAL MIKE JONES ENERGY.

  • @veryconcernedjesus2584
    @veryconcernedjesus2584 Před 2 lety +60

    The conversation starts at 10:59
    Saved you 11 mins of your life

  • @geoxaga6507
    @geoxaga6507 Před 2 lety +8

    Always thought there was a third of quirky funny girl, like jaiden.

  • @blessedowoboi
    @blessedowoboi Před 2 lety +8

    A perfect example of balance between wholesome and lewd is the CZcamsr Daijoububu. Also my favorite figure collector youtuber.

  • @kurinthekitty6842
    @kurinthekitty6842 Před rokem +1

    Emily 2 boxes metaphor is also surprisingly is the same with alot of LGBTQ characters (usually LGBTQ males)

  • @theefloop
    @theefloop Před 2 lety

    boxes

  • @majorasmask5523
    @majorasmask5523 Před 2 lety

    I still don’t know what happened between Noble and Anime Man.

  • @wtfman2049
    @wtfman2049 Před 2 lety

    i think the moderator shd atleast link the guests youtube somewhere

  • @Hammerheadcruiser
    @Hammerheadcruiser Před 2 lety +3

    I feel like the 2 female boxes comes from the simple decision men tend to make, either this woman is a potential mate or she is not. If yes, adult stuff is cool and desired. If no, adult stuff should be kept away. When you don't know someone that well, like in a parasocial relationship, you generally don't think beyond that because there is no need to do so or possible even desire.

    • @crazydragy4233
      @crazydragy4233 Před rokem +1

      Sadly it's worse than that. It has a lot to do with purity culture which in many ways is more predatory than viewing women as walking fleshlights.
      It's nice you give them the benefit of the doubt.

  • @MsDAmusic
    @MsDAmusic Před 2 lety +3

    Member early Iron Mouse?

  • @Hikari-fw5wk
    @Hikari-fw5wk Před 2 lety +24

    This comment section is just a trash fire of hypocrisy isn’t it…

  • @Harunax3
    @Harunax3 Před 2 lety

    When I start listen to the video I was like:
    I know that voice from somewhere 🤔
    And then I realized who she is 🤣

  • @MelonWaterMelon777
    @MelonWaterMelon777 Před 2 lety +6

    What does the first 11min has to do with 'Two types of female CZcamsrs'?

  • @KhuongNguyen-sw2ke
    @KhuongNguyen-sw2ke Před 2 lety +2

    I miss my friends

  • @Shadow87-
    @Shadow87- Před 2 lety

    The boys are all getting hit with Sonder

  • @whitevii1533
    @whitevii1533 Před 2 lety +4

    Love how after all this they don't even link her socials in the description lmao, no idea who this is

    • @EspeonMistress00
      @EspeonMistress00 Před 2 lety +4

      Because this a clip and not the actual full podcast episode? 🤣

    • @EspeonMistress00
      @EspeonMistress00 Před 2 lety

      Full Episode in the description btw. But clearly you don't cre about her if you bothered to see and click

  • @Jacob-TX
    @Jacob-TX Před rokem

    I think I actually might be a bit of a psychopath. If so, my lack of empathy extends to myself... is that weird?

  • @danielstokes2127
    @danielstokes2127 Před 2 lety

    I have seen Emily in other videos so I wasn’t surprised that she curses and what not but it’s odd to she others makes a big deal about stuff like that.

  • @splatterking1171
    @splatterking1171 Před 2 lety +1

    Everyone else has their first impression of emirichu as a wholesome bean
    My first impression of emirichu: "Who's big dick Ranchero chicken dipping sauce?"

  • @darkjelly944
    @darkjelly944 Před 2 lety

    Why do Connor and Emily look like they're in different art styles?

  • @juampisito
    @juampisito Před 2 lety

    Yeah, and like some people said, some youtubers who I feel they are wholesome, in the sense of kind hearted, do lewd things, like Millie or Enna and some people think they are devilish just because they do not talk in rainbows.

  • @Vincrand
    @Vincrand Před 2 lety

    Other way to take in numbers. The sub count of this channel is about the same as the population of Luxembourg.

  • @t.a.z1750
    @t.a.z1750 Před rokem +1

    she right tho

  • @maxl8623
    @maxl8623 Před 2 lety +9

    I don't think that all female content creators are put into those boxes, I think that it's just that anyone on the internet close to either side of that spectrum put into the end boxes. There are plenty of female content creators who I know aren't put into those boxes, but I also know plenty who are but when they are it's usually because there's a certain type of content they make. It's sad that she was put into a box but based on her main channels very safe/innocent content I'm not surprised that's the idea people got. If you want male example I believe OddOnesOut had a similar rep for a while because he does similar content. Obviously it's more exacerbated for female creators and an issue, but thankfully I don't think it's currently a super massive issue.

  • @monwe8050
    @monwe8050 Před 2 lety

    i mean her name is emily......

  • @feeblefablefum
    @feeblefablefum Před 2 lety

    10:55 title

  • @BIRDSBIRDSBIRDSBIRDSBIRDS

    Oh god they used the f-word in the title. Twitter ain't gonna be happy with this one xD

  • @Gamesmarts194
    @Gamesmarts194 Před 5 měsíci

    I think with Emily the thing that kind of exasperates that image of her being innocent is that she comes off as a sort of plain Jane in her videos. Like aside from being girly and airheaded (and maybe kinda dorky as a result of said air head) I can’t exactly recall anything from her older storytime videos that I would say is something really standout of her personality. (Also the fact that those videos were more for a general audience- younger peeps included- probably doesn’t help.)
    I wanna say the only person I’ve watched (that I can remember at the moment) that sorta caught a bit of the “girls are either pure or completely degen” was JaidenAnimations when she started using some swears on-stream and in her videos. (Granted her image is more dorky introvert but the effect is still the same.)