Understanding How Men Think in Relationships: "Think like a Man" Movie & Book Review | High Caliber

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  • čas přidán 22. 04. 2021
  • Today we try to understand How men think in relationships by analyzing the book "Act Like a Lady Think Like a Man" from Steve Harvey. And we are going to talk about the movie that inspired the book as well and it is called "Think like a man".
    In the book, Steve Harvey gives his perceptive on being a man in a relationship, he gives us advice, tell us to set boundaries and protect ourselves as women. To make sure we select the best high caliber man, and to be aware of the mistakes some women do in relationships.
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  • @user-bc8sw8ve2m
    @user-bc8sw8ve2m Před 3 lety +196

    I'm a law student and i want to work as a part time lawyer so i can have time for myself, my femininity & my family ❤

    • @Lisaglamour
      @Lisaglamour  Před 3 lety +33

      You should absolutely do what you feel the best for you darling ❤

    • @taghreed6086
      @taghreed6086 Před 3 lety +19

      I’m studying politics and it’s a masculine career but I’m trying to make it more feminine♥️
      And show the world that I don’t need to be a man to succeed♥️
      Wish you luck♥️

  • @Scintiilla
    @Scintiilla Před 3 lety +109

    to add on to what you said, i completely agree that letting the man know that you're looking for a long term serious relationship is important but i also believe that we shouldn't tell them what kind of man we're looking for because then all they're going to do is morph into that man and once they have you, they'll start to show who they really are! it's better to keep it short and brief.
    can't let these men fool you!

    • @ambersummer2685
      @ambersummer2685 Před 3 lety +11

      Exactly how I feel. I avoid any questions referring to what my preferences are. They should focus on being themselves and getting to know me more as a person.

    • @QueenAmour8888
      @QueenAmour8888 Před 3 lety +4

      Agreed!!

  • @madelineasmr926
    @madelineasmr926 Před 3 lety +175

    There’s a song by Kirko Bangs where he talks about “type of chick takes three months to lay it down”, so even 90 days is way too short imo some men enjoy the game so much they will wait extended periods of time then leave you once they get what they want.... I would wait until he makes serious commitment like engagement or especially marriage... that’s how you know he’s not playing with your heart and wasting your time . Speaking from experience

    • @Lisaglamour
      @Lisaglamour  Před 3 lety +45

      I completely agree and I think that 90 days is way too short. I was just trying to stay open minded for maybe people that don't think like me 😂
      But definitely waiting for a commitment is the way to go!

    • @madelineasmr926
      @madelineasmr926 Před 3 lety +2

      @@Lisaglamour yes mam 🙏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @ludsayuri3847
      @ludsayuri3847 Před 3 lety +12

      Yes they like the game, this piss me off, i made a man wait more than that to find out he is a manipulative narcissist 😂😂😂 and after a year of relashionship he made a drama saying "why did you make me wait so much?" I felt kinda guilty about it but now I think that I should've make him wait even more so I would realize that he doesn't deserve me and walk away, honestly.

    • @madelineasmr926
      @madelineasmr926 Před 3 lety +26

      @@ludsayuri3847 yes that sucks but lesson learned. That’s why waiting until marriage is important. It’s weeds out men who would even wait years to sleep with you but had no intention of ever marrying you. Your sexual power is one of your most valuable assets of all time.

    • @katrin6388
      @katrin6388 Před 3 lety +19

      honestly, people should have sex when they feel like it and accept that if you do that, the relationship may not last. u just never know. u can wait until marriage and the marriage wont last a year. whats more important is seeing how the guy treats you, how he responds whenever u feel insecure..

  • @lordofwarcrag
    @lordofwarcrag Před 2 lety +21

    These videos on femininity made me realise I'm attracted to women and I'm the provider energy haha. But yes, nothing more rewarding than her being able to receive your energy and being taken care of.

  • @Chahlie
    @Chahlie Před 3 lety +112

    "You don't need a man, you ARE a man". Ouch. For all my life I tried to please my father by being a 'son' and suppressing my inborn super girly-ness. People used to tell me how lucky I was because I didn't need a man to do things for me. I don't want to be fake, but I started by giving away all my tools and work boots :) I would give anything to have a man do the manly things.

    • @lilyinthevalley8107
      @lilyinthevalley8107 Před 3 lety +9

      Are you me?? I was trying so hard to prove myself to my dad who loved to have a son but didn't end up having one....but forever dreams to have one.... I looked almost like a boy when I was a teen just to make my Dad happy!! It took me years and a failed marriage to finally realise what went wrong...that I had always been the "man" financially and relationship dynamics wise with my ex.

    • @falsehoodbasher7240
      @falsehoodbasher7240 Před 3 lety +2

      @@lilyinthevalley8107 that’s abuse. It’s
      transgendering you psychologicallly

    • @lilyinthevalley8107
      @lilyinthevalley8107 Před 3 lety +7

      @@falsehoodbasher7240 Yes. Only decades later I realise this, but the damage is done. I was never feeling comfortable in a female body...It took me years to turn around and start liking my body.

  • @Tici-iw1eb
    @Tici-iw1eb Před 3 lety +29

    I JUST recently read that book! And loved it! I also read after that one , ,,Why man love bithes " and ,,Why man marry bithes " ,currently reading ,,Man are from mars,women are from venus"I'm only 19. year's old but i think that this way of thinking is also useful in career. LOVE YOU,Happy late birthday you queen 👸🎂

    • @simplyelvi5676
      @simplyelvi5676 Před 3 lety +4

      Amazing choicess that will definitely give you perspectives which will change your standards for men. Great you do it early, i should as well:)

  • @kimplung8250
    @kimplung8250 Před 3 lety +25

    This is 20 minutes?!! Why it feels so short? I need like 2 hours of this!
    Btw, i haven't read the book but i love that movie!

  • @ninajones6622
    @ninajones6622 Před 3 lety +36

    I always find your videos so empowering, and then i remind myself how worthy I am of the man and relationship that I want, thankyou Lisa for the these videos and the constant reminder to always keep our standards and morals high 💖

    • @Lisaglamour
      @Lisaglamour  Před 3 lety +4

      Thank you darling I'm so glad you feel empowered by my videos ❤️

  • @elizabethburke3861
    @elizabethburke3861 Před 3 lety +12

    A great movie that actually shows a very successful seduction of a playboy is Don Jon. However, the message of the movie is that essentially they were both playing roles that weren't actually healthy, and Don changes by finding actually chemistry with another person. Scar-Jo's character is fantastic tho and I would recommend it to those who want to see what a 90-day rule would look like.

  • @Anna-yd1zj
    @Anna-yd1zj Před 2 lety +7

    I think that it is very important for us to realize that we are very precious and valuable far beyond sex.

  • @AndreaPortley
    @AndreaPortley Před 3 lety +8

    I’m soooo obsessed with your chair!!! OMG! It’s gorgeous! Love ❤️ love 💕 love vintage classic style! Give me Hollywood regency all day everyday!

  • @humaboutique2
    @humaboutique2 Před 3 lety +8

    I literally just shared this clip with my friend and you posted this 💖

  • @outerspace7079
    @outerspace7079 Před 3 lety +4

    Very interesting! You voice is so soothing it reminds me of when you say to speak relaxingly😌

  • @ShinDaHana
    @ShinDaHana Před 3 lety +7

    This is a very good video. Thank you for introducing this movie. Now, I'm going to check out the book :)

  • @patricia1468
    @patricia1468 Před 3 lety +2

    Great as always! Thank you. ❤️

  • @lip3579
    @lip3579 Před 3 lety +3

    Loveee this type of video Lisa :) just bought the book because now im inspired 💙

  • @MegaSweetheat
    @MegaSweetheat Před 2 měsíci

    I love the 90 day rule. It’s so true. Men love it! Real men. And they respect it. ❤

  • @rachelmcclain5367
    @rachelmcclain5367 Před 3 lety +3

    Hi Lisa! Super excited that I'm early to one of her videos 🧡

  • @konamakr1849
    @konamakr1849 Před 3 lety +11

    I am so happy that you comment on that book/movie, I think I need to sent this video to all men and women I know😂😂😂

    • @Lisaglamour
      @Lisaglamour  Před 3 lety +1

      Hahha absolutely you should do it 😘😂

  • @zuzannasacha9328
    @zuzannasacha9328 Před 3 lety +3

    You look absolutely amazing Lisa! ❤️👠❤️

  • @rinamaya8858
    @rinamaya8858 Před 3 lety +2

    This was amazing!!! Thank you

  • @Alise-jl8ln
    @Alise-jl8ln Před 3 lety +1

    you are such an inspiration!!

  • @Sakura-ek6vo
    @Sakura-ek6vo Před 3 lety +2

    With you by my side, I feel guided. Thank you ❤️

  • @merladyneptune3908
    @merladyneptune3908 Před 3 lety +2

    Love this ❤❤❤

  • @julianeserr4667
    @julianeserr4667 Před 3 lety +8

    The things I learn from you are so indescribable valuable Lisa!! Thank you so much for inspiring me with every video, I am definitely going to read that book & watch the movie.😍

  • @kirandeepkaur9747
    @kirandeepkaur9747 Před 3 lety +3

    😍looking stunning!my sis😇thanks for video

  • @lilliane4218
    @lilliane4218 Před 3 lety +1

    i love your outfit!

  • @SiliconvalleyVC
    @SiliconvalleyVC Před 2 lety +2

    God bless you Lisa, thanks for spreading femininity. I’m gonna tell every young women I know to subscribe.

  • @Latoija
    @Latoija Před 2 lety

    This was INCREDIBLE!

  • @coldblooded568
    @coldblooded568 Před 3 lety +3

    Love you, girl!

  • @nethmini1498
    @nethmini1498 Před 3 lety +5

    Ma'am, You're so beautiful and inspiring 😍 I'm 23 years and watching your videos to improve myself. You're helping women a lot. Thank you Ma'am. Stay blessed.

  • @BuCuInspo
    @BuCuInspo Před 3 lety +5

    I realize I made tons of mistakes😩
    But I'm learning thank you

  • @user-fj2se2bv1j
    @user-fj2se2bv1j Před 3 lety +1

    You are so right!!! Love from Greece!!!

  • @frankyavery
    @frankyavery Před 2 lety +3

    You might like the book "Why Men Love B*tches". It's not as horrible as it sounds ha. It's very much like Steve Harvey's book with the same thoughts but with a bit more detail about specific situations. I have have both on my Kindle. There is "Why Men Marry B*tches" but I haven't read that yet.

  • @dazeddream
    @dazeddream Před 3 lety +3

    Omg first!! Hi Lisa!! I hope you are doing good today!

    • @Lisaglamour
      @Lisaglamour  Před 3 lety +1

      I'm good, thank you darling hope you are doing amazing as well ❤️

  • @amethyst6073
    @amethyst6073 Před 3 lety +1

    Lisa thank u so much for this video. Where did u get this dress from?

  • @aidafar7905
    @aidafar7905 Před 3 lety

    Your enchanting girl😍😍

  • @szekelynora772
    @szekelynora772 Před 3 lety +11

    Answer to my prayers, I wished to know the title of this movie, after all the intriguing clips in your previous videos. I guess I wasn't the only one :)

    • @emilieieden
      @emilieieden Před 3 lety +2

      It's called Think Like a Man😍

  • @missquynhtrang
    @missquynhtrang Před 3 lety +2

    I need to read that book

  • @billhoward4082
    @billhoward4082 Před 3 lety

    Well.....🤔 Hmmm.....Lisa, you got me thinking, Sis!)😇🥰🦅

  • @beautifulwoman8766
    @beautifulwoman8766 Před 3 lety +7

    Marriage is the perfect time to wait to give your 🍪

    • @lu-themadpillow2985
      @lu-themadpillow2985 Před 3 lety +3

      We also need to know if we are sexually compatible with them. It feels horrible not to be.

  • @Naturel1622
    @Naturel1622 Před 3 lety +2

    I love that book😍😍😍

  • @katrin6388
    @katrin6388 Před 3 lety +21

    honestly, i feel like the same goes for being interested too soon. i hate that, i hate that people are like that. i met a guy on tinder, who at the begining, was very interested, he would carry on the conversation and i´d just reply. over time i made sure to be reciprocate and initiate too. thats when he started to show less interest, be less engaging and so on. its like, i took over the relationship and started to "serve" him. and i hate that i have these split personalities, where i want a guy to fight for me, take care of me, show interest and ge a gentleman, and at the same time, worry about what is just and wanting to be authentic and recpiprocate. its not that i want a servant lmao but i just want more. like damn it, i wanna feel that i am worth it, not that i am a consolation price.

    • @rimarao6912
      @rimarao6912 Před 3 lety +1

      I totally feel you! Thats Me !

    • @Andrewbait
      @Andrewbait Před 2 lety +1

      you brought that upon yourself by taking time to reciprocate people get burnt out. If you like a person be genuine and hsow it to them without playing games and wasting their tiem or yours, if the don't reciprocate just move on.Men don't like chasing they wan't mutual effort. Players love games

  • @lb8270
    @lb8270 Před 3 lety +9

    Je commence tout juste la vidéo, mais je mets déjà un "j''aime" ;-)

  • @ohsostylish60
    @ohsostylish60 Před 3 lety +9

    Hi Lisa, are you on online dating? Do you recommend it, or do you believe it is an individual choice?

  • @sarahm5502
    @sarahm5502 Před 3 lety +4

    Beautiful Lisa 🤩 I want to recommend you the Universe Guru’s channel I think you will love it as much as I love your content 💝

    • @lulue8942
      @lulue8942 Před 2 lety +1

      Yessss! Mina Irfan at The Universe Guru is awesome and I love Lisa's channel, so relaxing and feminine.

  • @ditak1913
    @ditak1913 Před 3 lety

    YES MA'AM

  • @lovourlove04
    @lovourlove04 Před 3 lety

    Hi!! Can you do a video about scarlett johansson

  • @solene9193
    @solene9193 Před 3 lety +12

    Lisa, what is your parents heritage? I know you said you were born in France, but is your ancestry Algerian or Kabyle ?

  • @user-bc8sw8ve2m
    @user-bc8sw8ve2m Před 3 lety +17

    Who sent you the roses 😋😋

  • @christinamason3297
    @christinamason3297 Před 3 lety +5

    Great video! The only advice would be to not explain every single standard to men like these women do in the movie… I think that defeats the purpose.. Don’t explain your standards live them… :)

  • @ravenspadegirl
    @ravenspadegirl Před 3 lety

    I love this video thank you

  • @_Mari
    @_Mari Před 3 lety

    Ohhh 3:40, je ne savais même pas qu'elle est française, depuis que j'écoute ces vidéos haha!!

  • @HH_LP
    @HH_LP Před 8 měsíci

    Dear Lisa, are you Moroccan? You are very beautiful and thanks for the amazing content!

  • @Sakura-ek6vo
    @Sakura-ek6vo Před 3 lety

    2:20 omg 💯

  • @chinyereotaka7517
    @chinyereotaka7517 Před 3 lety

    Yes, beautiful

  • @googlemail2123
    @googlemail2123 Před 3 lety +4

    Yesss❤️💃💥

  • @celineegeman7911
    @celineegeman7911 Před 3 lety +21

    Some things I don’t agree with Dreamer. In my opinion, if a man isn’t finically successful! Drop him! I’m not going to stick around for you to be successful, my time is valuable! So you either have the money to impress me or I will have nothing to do with you! One of my standards is that I want a man that makes 6 figures or more. I agree with Steve when he said boss woman have trouble finding a man that works well with them, that’s bc 2 masculine energies clash. Masculine men with their own house, makes 6 figures of more are attracted to feminine woman. They aren’t attracted to woman that are their masculine, the character in the movie was definitely masculine. She was always working, she has such a strong personality, and she’s always talks about her job and tries to impress men with their job.

  • @marijanakoprivica147
    @marijanakoprivica147 Před 2 lety

    Name of movie?

  • @sweetsimpleslowlife2709
    @sweetsimpleslowlife2709 Před 3 lety +3

    YOU ARE THE PRIZE 👌😉💯

  • @mojyoqueen350
    @mojyoqueen350 Před rokem

    11:40 I would wait 9 years - in case i know the guy since primary school.

  • @tatlivinlavida
    @tatlivinlavida Před 3 lety

    🤌🏼 exactly

  • @fjwjkjwjdkdjdj1049
    @fjwjkjwjdkdjdj1049 Před rokem

    What to do if you gave the cookie too fast…

  • @clauaome25
    @clauaome25 Před rokem

    "Really?" "Yes"

  • @madelineasmr926
    @madelineasmr926 Před 3 lety +3

    You look so gorgeous 😍😇🥰

  • @ursulamuller6440
    @ursulamuller6440 Před 3 lety +2

    What if he waits exactly 90 days to see you again? He just doesn't want to loose time. So he meets you a first time and then he calls you after 90 days to go out and to go to bed. Not such a good idea

    • @missscarlett5464
      @missscarlett5464 Před 3 lety +5

      he needs to be dating you consistently for 90 days. it still isn't a guarantee though.

    • @chrisharris2367
      @chrisharris2367 Před 2 lety +2

      No
      That wont count
      I'm religious (christian) and truly think one shouldnt sleep w the man until marriage
      But even if you're not religious if you could wait until he talks marriage and proposes otherwise he will use you until he gets the woman he wants he will wait for
      Think about it
      Think of any celebrity: beyonce, Angelina Jolie, ariana grande etc if a man had the option to marry her by only having to be a good man a provider and she told him that she wouldn't sleep w him until marriage, I bet he would wait
      Men do what they have to do based on how much he values that thing they want

  • @Sakura-ek6vo
    @Sakura-ek6vo Před 3 lety

    11:26

  • @beulahthigpen2373
    @beulahthigpen2373 Před 3 lety

    I have a deeper voice can you explain how to make it a little more feminine

  • @ancientbuilds3764
    @ancientbuilds3764 Před rokem +1

    I am a Man. In order to see that I had to go through hell. I tried both sides. It is a bonus now and I accept it. It also means I end up in bed with some truly spectacular women. I don't overdo it. I have respect for the ladies. Anyhow... It's not about the bed. It's the smile.

  • @Shayycraft_
    @Shayycraft_ Před 3 lety +2

    I watched this when it first came out and I was little and not experienced and still didn’t follow the advice 😅

  • @Linda-ot3pj
    @Linda-ot3pj Před 9 měsíci

    The cookie is for the honeymoon night after he has proved his integrity during courtship .Its the way God told us . We should not defile the marriage bed. We don’t want to end up in the lake of fire for the act of fornication or adultery. It won’t kill a man to wait. We don’t owe them our bodies until they honour us as their wife. PERIOD

  • @pumpkin3731
    @pumpkin3731 Před 3 lety

    ✨🌹😍💋🌷💝🤩✨

  • @missscarlett5464
    @missscarlett5464 Před 3 lety +1

    men will wait the 90 days (while sleeping with someone else in the meantime) and still not commit to you. Or they do want to commit but they are bad in bed. It's a crapshoot.

  • @leeconnelly6364
    @leeconnelly6364 Před 2 lety +1

    STEVE HARVEY KNOWS THE LADYS. ID SAY THE "MOMMAS BOY" IS YOUR BEST BUY. NOW YA DONT WANT THE BRING MOMMA ON THE DATE KIND..AND IT CAN BE TOUGH. BUT IF HE RESPECTS/LOVES HIS MOMMA HES GONNA KNOW HOW TO LOVE YOU ALSO RIGHT. MOM L SLAP HIM! BUT KEEP IN MIND...ONE DAY PERHAPS MOM WILL BE GONE...AND ALL THAT WILL BE TRANSFERED TO YOU. YOUR "MOMMA" NOW! YA GOT EM. THE "PLAYERS"...OFTEN..NOT ALWAYS ARE DUDS ANYWAY SUBSTITUTING QUANTITY FOR QUALITY. THE ARTSY TYPE CAN BE GREAT TOO IF LIKE ME YOUR LIKE THAT...BUT IN GENERAL THEY MAKE LESS MONEY.

    • @amandaforrester7636
      @amandaforrester7636 Před rokem

      As a woman who has always dated mommas boys.... you're so wrong. They aren't going to grow up, or place you above their mother. They will tell EVERYTHING to their mother. The momma rules his heart, not you. You're just the woman he has sex with.. God forbid you marry him and have his children, because who makes the parenting decisions? Not you, not him, his momma!