14 Mistakes to avoid on a First Date ! : Stay feminine on a First Date
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- čas přidán 1. 08. 2024
- Today we talk about mistakes to avoid on a first date ! To stay feminine, fabulous and high value on a first date. To seduce while having the respect that you deserve. I will give you tips on what you should avoid doing, and tips on what you should do, everything that you need to know if you want to make sure to have a fabulous first date !
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I always watch one of her videos before a first date. It's a good reminder and it's a great way to get hyped and confident. Appreciate it Lisa! ❤
Oh I love that 😍!
Me too!
Lisa: "if he doesn't respond... DONT DO IT"
Me: **internally fighting so hard not to do it lol**
Honestly, I found it really hard to not chase men. That brought me a lot of disapointments and sadness and now I realize I do that because of my insecurities. Gratefully, I'm growing as a person and becoming a mature woman, who knows she is beautiful, intelligent, interesting, kind, and valuable, who does not need a man in this moment of my life.
Thank you so much Lisa to have helped me and other women to have more fulfilling and happy relationships with others and ourselves😊❤
I'm so happy to hear that ! I really want for all of you to feel confident, and to understand that you absolutely deserve to be treated the best way possible ❤
I need to hear this right now
Pretty related, but I think on top of not talking too much about yourself, exercise modesty in things that are truly impressive about you like wonderful art skills or degrees. I always just let people (in everyday conversation as I’m married) discover those things about me instead of sharing them outright. It’s the humble thing to do and creates feminine mystery❤️
Oh yes I love this ❤️
Women shouldn't talk about her degrees it's masculine
@@miloudivyne😂😂
I thought it was h.i.l.a.r.i.o.u.s when Lisa said "resting face". She proved she practised her preachings by not swearing ❤
Also, I would love to learn how to walk out and away on a date without seeming dramatic. We need a video about that! Last weekend I went to meet someone for a lunch date and immediately I felt like "oh no! I don't want to eat with him! This for sure is NOT going to result into anything!" before we were even seated.
By the time i go on a date, I've already asked qualifying questions....the date means he passed several tests.
This is a good list.
I'm having a first date tonight and I knew exactly where to come for crash course/refresher on first dates 😁
Thank you so much for this video. I have my first date in years after my divorce and I specifically search to watch this video of yours again. Love All your advice!
I’m so happy that I found your channel!! You’re right on point with everything that you say. I love how everything that you say is aimed at putting women on a pedestal (unlike a lot of the other dating coaches)-You’re refreshing, thank you!!
I agree with you, its about the growth of a woman i love it.
I love your casual 50s inspired dresses for first dates! You look gorgeous as always! 💗
Thank you so much ❤
So happy for this video! I am ready to start dating again so the timing is perfect! Thank you Lisa!💝
Me too! Actually I had my first date with this man two days ago. I will check now what I can improve for the next one hahahha
I'm so happy you enjoy my videos ❤
Do you have any recommendations of where to shop? I really love your dresses, they’re so beautiful 😻
Woww love your dress so classy. You look so stunning. Thank you for amazing tips
Thank you so much ❤
Superb video Lisa, wonderful job! The last few points are so important- thank you for these valuable reminders. Much love from the US.
Thank you for this video and I greatly appreciate the tips that you mentioned. Some of these tips I had not even thought about and I could see the importance in them, especially when we are presenting our feminine energy. What I found interesting was the type of wardrobe that should be worn and I was surprised that dressing up as 'too conservative' was not a good choice for a first date. I liked the different examples of wardrobe that were shown that were appropriate, feminine, not too conservative, and beautiful for a first date, especially the article of clothing that you were wearing as well. Very beautiful and I adored the pink dress!
I highly agree on not looking at your phone on a first date. It is something that people have with them all the time and even dependent on them. Our attention should be on our date where, as you mentioned, we show interest in them and appreciate their time and their gentleness. Before watching your videos, I always thought that it should be the female trying to impress the male but after learning about your tips, I can see that it's the other way around. Let him show that masculine energy and lead into impressing the female and balancing out that feminine energy that's in front of him.
Looking forward to the next video!
Great and helpful,as always,thank you a lot dear Lisa.
Thank you so much for this wonderful video! 💝
Lisa, I wish I can hug you right now! Such a vital and important advice! Well done!
I’m a pro by your videos now and I’m much satisfied ☺️♥️
Thank you for the tips
You give me a really good feminine vibe ❤️
Thank you dear 🥰
I clicked so fast! So happy that you posted❤❤
Thank you so happy to see you here ❤❤
lov ur channel btw its so fun and calming ^^
This video was gold Lisa
Thank you ❤
great video!!
Love your videos great tips!
I wish i had found your channel before last week when i had my first date after 2 years of no Dating 😊.... After watching the video I believe i nailed it he asked for a second date 😊
I love your voice. It's so soothing ❤️
Thank you ❤️
i love your dress lisa ,it’s so beautiful 😍😍
Love how you have Henry Cavill on Clickbait :) because that’s the kind of a man we all want.
Yet another great video Lisa! You have no idea how much your videos have changed my life for the better. Thank you so much for all that you do ♥️
Thank you I'm so happy to hear that ❤️
Oh my gosh thank you so much perfect
Inspiring❤️
I really like carisma on command channel it really boosted my carisma and confidence I became assertive without having to be aggressive or confrontational all the time
Thank you darling
Tysm Lisa
Your dress looks lovely ♥️
Thank you ❤❤
Amazing Day! 🤩
I love all of your content. May I ask what brand your dress is? It is lovely.
A gentleman should earn the right to get to know you. Hopefully, without sounding supercilious, I shall note that if he knows the name of the church you were christened at after the first day, you should safely assume that your date failed.
I really appreciate this video topic thank you!! 💕💕💕 I currently do not allow a man to even kiss me at the end of a first date. I feel this is not enough time to get to know someone and am protecting my health.
@@shalimar29 I would highly advise against letting a man kiss you on the first date or basically unless you think you want to be with him forever. Many men (especially from major cities) can give you health issues from JUST a kiss. I just politely turn away and say because of my beliefs I refrain from kissing unless in a long term relationship (monogamy). I put kissing on the same level as sex/intimacy. Protect your body and health!
What about kissing on a first date?
I used to be ok with this until very recently. Sometimes the first date is so fun and we hit it off well, but then I realized I'm not entirely sure I like him and now he thinks he can just kiss me whenever...
She answered this question.
lisa what is the beautiful pink dress you are wearing at 3:01 ?? i love it and its looks amazing on you!! 💗
Strangely enough, as a bi guy, the tips on her channel help me too.
I like your style 👍👍👍👍👍
Love from France 😘😘😘😘😘🇫🇷🇫🇷
Hi Lisa! Great video. I would also love to hear your thoughts on 'Pretty Privilege'.
Best thumbnail ever with Henry Cavill 🥰
I only look at my phone if the date is going really bad and I’m looking at the time/a way out lmao
Great video Lisa! Can u tell us how you met your husband and dating him, etc... Also, dates you have been on... ❤
Oh she's married?
I dont think she is married
Where are these dresses from??😍
Can you make a video about how we should flirt or let a guy know we're interested too at a party? I feel too shy to flirt with my eyes, don't know why can't do it 😂
I wanna do all these things but sometime they all are so dumb and dont kw how to take lead
But guys always have told me they like how spontaneous I am and that they laugh a lot with me.
I feel if I am constantly thinking about what to say or trying to not talk because he has to lead the conversation, then I would lose the relaxation and the naturality that I like about me and that others like too
What about a man leading with his money? Saying he has luxury cars? 🤔
Hello Lisa, Thank you for that vidéo and your precious advices. I would like to as a question, but i' m sorry i'll continue in french: si nous entretenons une relation virtuelle depuis quelques mois, est-ce que lors de la 1ère rencontre physique nous devons respecter les mêmes règles notamment celle de ne pas avoir d'intimité dès le 1er rendez-vous ? Merci
Oui je pense qu'attendre de mieux le connaitre en "vrai" est aussi important 😊 Car jusqu'a présent tu ne le connais qu'en virtuel, donc tu ne le connais pas vraiment. Prend ton temps et fait en sorte qu'il te mérite 😉
@@Lisaglamour Merciiiii, je suis heureuse, tu viens de résoudre un dilemme qui me dérangeait. Effectivement, c'est beaucoup plus sage et élégant. Thank you so much!
Is it okay if the guy kisses your hand on the first date ? Or how should one react if he comes closer to kiss your cheek or your forehead .
Nice 👍
I dress glam & live in a big city but idk where to meet men
Anyone have advice for a first date for a student/teen?
Exactly what Lisa has said.
Can you please make a video on where to meet men? I don’t get approached idk why
I’ve never really been respected. None of the guys, except one, that were “interested” in me took me out on dates. They just want to chill and watch Netflix. Their excuses for not taking me out are either they don’t have the money or it’s because of COVID. I’m tired of even thinking about wasting my time on them.
This dress is fabulous on you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
From where is it?
Thank you ❤❤ It is from a Brand called "Belle Poque"
@@Lisaglamour Thank you so much, you look stunning❤❤❤❤
7:58 how far should we share the story of our ex and the intimate things we had in the past?? If he wants to know should we tell it all? Or if he shares about his past, we share everything even the intimate things too?
ı couldnt go abroad yet and ı have basically no topic to talk about:((
talk about your dreams and the countries you‘d like to see and why you‘d like to see them. talk about cultures you‘ve experienced otherwise through friends and such
9:31 Whaat i just watched a video of a guy saying that you have to let her pay with you.
He said dont be shy asking her to pay her dinner and dont make her think you are the one who will pay everything
This is a low value man that does not want to make effort! True high caliber gentleman won't even let you pay.
Totally agree with Lisa.
@@Lisaglamour how do you let him order for you?
Or tell him what kind of food you don't like, to make him put in more effort!
Or Captain America from marvel movies a gentleman and a true masculine hero he really went from zero to hero compared to arrogant Tony Stark the Iron Man his power comes from his costume no offense to Robert Downey Jr who played him sure he's cool but Chris Evans is the likeable one different carisma styles these two men have
And if you're not looking for a serious relationship...?
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Me: trying to forget Henry Cavill
Lisa: not today
😂😂
Love the video🌸
Never forget about him ahha 😘
@@Lisaglamour 😂😂😂💕💕
Me, a guy, trying to find out how you work
Masculine macho superman kind of man that's what I want Wonder woman is feminine in her own way I really like Diana Prince she's not just a "desperate damsel in distress" on the contrary kind hearted tomboy she knows when to be feminine and when to be masculine she believes in love
What if the man refuses to pay? It happened a lot to me :(
If a man doesn’t pay on the first date, there is no second date. He’s either too young or not ready to court you.
@@katherine6414 how do I react in that moment?
I would just leave.
@@user-fr8xv9gz7e id pay my part and then leave. No point asking him to pay it would cause a fuss.
@@katherine6414 I experienced most men don't pay for a woman anymore.
It's really hard finding a partner
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I would say that the ONLY question worth asking on a first date is "What are you Values?"
If your Values does not match up, then you are wasting your time. Because NOTHING can make up for misaligned Values.
(Say you Value Family, but he Value his Freedom and never want to have kids.
Or you Value Knowledge and self-improvement, but he Values Fun and think reading is for idiots and forget about self-improvement.
Or you're a cristian meeting a satanist or vice versa.
If your Values are opposing each-other, any relationship is doomed.)
If, however, you Values work together, or better yet; are the same ones, then you can start considering other qualities.
And the other qualities will come out naturally as you meet more times, and you see how he behaves then.
(Humor, if he's acting insecure, and so on.)
People obsess over what someone work with, their income, their sexual partners, and a whole other absolutely pointless and superficial qualities. But those qualities does not predict if a relationship will be good or bad.
It doesn't matter if you're dating a CEO or a Janitor --because if the Janitor values Family he might actually work hard to improve himself so he can support one. And if the CEO only cares about Status or Money, he could push you and the kids aside, because you're just not as important as his job.
(That is not to say a CEO couldn't value Family, mind you. Many do.
I'm just saying that what someone works with is irrelevant, because they tell you nothing about what that person is like as a partner.
And if you want a higher income lifestyle, a man who Values being a provider will always find a way to improve so he can provide. Regardless where he is at the moment you meet.)
Soon i will meet a guy who i know just from a dating app so it will be just as à meeting not a date but im thinking about Who should pay and also i dont want to let him pay for me.
I need a good advice please 🤔
If your interested in seeing him again romantically let him pay. If you don't like him, pay for yourself! this is a great way to say "just friends"
It also depends where you are going. If it’s a Starbucks, I think you should buy your own stuff (it’s easier that way) but if it’s more snacks/sandwich’s HE should pay. Most masculine men like paying to feel good about themselves so if he offers politely say thank you and let him pay (do not argue with him). Good luck :)
Why in the world wouldn't you want him to p@y?? I'd feel blessed if it would ever happen to me.
Actually he paid for everything 😂
Did you have to ask for that or was it his intention?
did you loose weight? i mean you were always stunning but you look very snatched lately 😍
this is a horrible thing to say!
@@dewdropfaerie907 why? 🥺who doesn’t want to hear that, was a compliment lol
@@kathrinemaria3409 well you seem like you meant it as a compliment, but saying that implies she was “fat” before, even though you said she looked stunning before and after
What if im on a date with a quiet man who doesn't talk much
I'm vegan, so....
That’s no excuse! There are many restaurants with vegan options that a man can take you! If he is complaining, then he is just being lazy.
What can you do if he simply r3fuses to p@y? Or if he "goes to the b@thr00m"? Please, I've never been on a d@te but I've heard this happening to other girls.
I asked the question exactly because I don't want to p@y. Under no circumstances.
I want to d@te only for fr33 m3@ls. Guess I'll just leave too if that will happen to me. There's no way I'm p@y!ng, let alone for both of us.
If he refuses to pay, you can inform the restaurant manager. They will require him to pay. In the U.S., per news reports, they will side with the woman.
@LolitaHaze No idea why my perfectly dec3nt reply to you keeps getting d3l3t3d 🙄
Thank you for the suggestion ❤
Here's the thing. He is under no legal obligation to pay. If he asks you to pay, than he isn't a gentleman. In that case, I would pay for myself and not date him again. I don't want to make a scene in public or get the staff involved. They don't care, they just want to get their money. The last thing I would want is the police to get involved. The key is to attract the right man to begin with, so that awkward situation doesn't happen.
Rest...resting face. hhaha