Dating Mistakes that Do NOT attract High Quality Men : Become High Value
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- čas přidán 5. 07. 2024
- Darlings ! Today we talk about Dating mistakes that do not attract High quality men and some advice to maintain or raise your standards ! Because on this channel we are improving ourselves, we love to learn about femininity, elegance, fashion, culture, conversation skills... I want to help you increase your confidence, and feel fabulous!
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"Rejection is God's protection"
Yes
Amen!!
Just like karma ;)
EXACTLY.
Don't play house and give men wife benefits until you're married, otherwise you will be giving him what he wants and wont see marriage as anything to move on... it is like he is just using you for those benefits, even if it wasn't his intent.
Absolutely! Well said darling 😘
I agree, but could you clarify exactly what you count as wife benefits please? I'm in a group that talks about this very thing and I'm never clear on this. I cook for my boyfriend at his or my home, (we don't live together) and I help him with chores at his house, we enjoy time together and apart. I've never been married and perhaps I'm not 100% clear on this "wife benefits". Thank you so much for your help and advice 😊
@@oliviaknight1123 I would say don’t do anything that you would regret if the relationship ended. If you love cooking then I don’t think it is a problem. One boundary can be abstinence until marriage. It is really up to you to decide what your standards/boundaries are.
@@oliviaknight1123 he should hire an housekeeping or lady cleaner to do his chores instead of getting it free from you. Don't spoiled him badly. He is saving too many money to get a new gif until he could get married to her instead of you.
@@luccianalewis9473 hello there!! You know what, I have thought this very thing before, thank you for your honesty.😊 He has a very good job and therefore plenty of money, but he is such a penny pincher!! He wouldn't hire a housekeeper, purely from the point that he would have to pay her😂
When you laugh at the idea of the man being the prize 🤣
At first (even for 2-3 months) most men are nice. With time one can see how they really are, though. It's very important to wait and see.
Absolutely 👏 Taking time to get to know him is important
@@Lisaglamour
I once had an older man just out of the blue tell me in front of other people, at a formal corporate event, that I "need to lower my standards or else I'm going to regret it when I am old" (finger pointing at my face and everything) I only stopped myself from asking him if his wife lowered her standards for him because he was a friend of my then boss. Turned out he was single LOL. (no one even brought up the topic of dating or relationships at this moment) Super unprofessional
He was projecting, he must have mistaken your kindness as weakness or your innocent looking face as a punching bag. You were so gracious towards that man. Sorry you had to deal with such a public slight. Have you ever looked into narcissism> You are so classy and have an admirable level of self control. A true lady of distinction and courage.
@@fatima-zahrakajji4821 Thank you for your kind words dear, but I would have sassed the hell out of him if he wasn't my boss' friend 😂 😂 😂
@@janyuen123anytime! Yes girl!!!! He's so lucky
His ego was hurt bc he knows he’s not good enough
@@agatainventio9464 YES!
You look like an old Hollywood star🤩 absolutely stunning
Thank you so much that is the best compliment 😍
Really stunning, elegant and breathtaking! You inspire me!👱🏽♀️❤️
What do you do about disgusting men that tell lies about you? When you didn’t want anything with them in that nature (either casual or serious) If you would please do a video on liars that good at manipulation like that I’d very much appreciate that.
@@melissamelissa2603 let him be. Don‘t care, he‘s not your level. He will get bored if he sees that you don‘t care. Don‘t react to him at all. That‘s all he wants- your attention. Don‘t give it to him. 😘💃🏼👱🏽♀️ act kind and nice to others- they‘ll find out that he‘s a liar.
She's beautiful and classy👸
I was so happy I already behave like this without trying😅...It just come natural to me..I know my worth and what I want in a relationship,won't settle for less.I am still young so it's great to have a role model like you Lisa 💕
I am not seeing anyone, but I couldn’t resist watching this because of your gorgeous outfits. I wish I could dress like you. Yes, being picky in this case is good, and I refuse to lower my standards. It is a tragedy when highly intelligent women have low standards with relationships - they end up disappointed or devasted, and such relationships have even ruined their lives. Thus, I can’t stand anybody (man or woman) who doesn’t treat me right (and I can’t stand any man who is not a gentleman). 😘❤️👗
Right? I'm engaged, and will be married in June, but I still like to watch these. Love her content
@@That-Wanderer congratulations! No matter what phase we are, we always learn from Lisa! 😊
Absolutely Gretchen love it, keep your standards high, you absolutely deserve a gentleman 😘
And Congratulations Andrea for your wedding 😍🎊!!
@@Lisaglamour Awwew! You’re so sweet! You deserve one, too! 😘♥️💐
Can you do a day in a life of a feminine women? Or maybe perhaps a feminine women morning, night, or self-care routine?😊
A shot of vodka to start your day 🤫
@@user-sw4cl4yb2g 🤣
I love when you said that a gentleman does not criticize a woman.
how can we stay elegant and classy as a collage student everyone wears crops and mom jeans type of thing when ı wear dress they're looking to me like ı m weirdo
Just wear discreet dresses, like without patterns and not revealing, with modern shoes (sneakers, mules, etc). Your good appearance and feminine personality will do the rest.
That's what I did when I was in high school, I hope it will help you :)
F them
same i'm in secondary school and no one wears skirts or dresses, my friends don't make me feel bad for it, thankfully. some people stare but that's ok since I love the attention😀. they're the weirdos, not you, just keep wearing dresses
or u can stare back like they're weird, it makes you feel a tad bit better
Start by not needing others validation
I have my gym, my Hiking, my work and my reading and my two beautiful daughters! If a man is in my life , he’s absolutely going to be high value because I abhor wasting time and not doing what I love. It’s impossible to be too available when you love what you do in your life. All my female friends forgot about me for guys. It’s very low and those guys lost interest in them and they come crying to me about it. It’s because they dropped everything for a man. Ever since I was in highschool I saw females do this. Dropping me for guys.
Dear Lisa, I wish you a lot of success on your endeavors. These informations about labels are pearls to adorn our beautiful women. Congrats for your excellent portfolio and splendid expertise.
Thank you very much for the support 😊
@@Lisaglamour It's my pleasure dear. Happy weekend ahead with joy, prosperity, peace and health.🌟💝💐
Loved when you said "he is NOT the prize" and laughed so genuinely. 😆
Hello Lisa! I am still in my early teen years, but your videos have helped me throughout my femininity journey. I got out of my gothic/masculine phase and it is nice to see that there are still women out there who preserve their worth, keep high standards, have proper etiquette, put effort into how they look, etc. Sometimes, I feel like a 35 year old in a young body. These days, a majority of people have stopped putting effort, which is horrible for your mental and physical health. I am entering high school this year and a video suggestion I have is how to be charming and magnetic to everyone you meet. Another video suggestion I have is how teens can dress feminine but still look modest and our age. Keep up the outstanding work! xoxo
It's not really "men can do it but we can't". A guy who has been with other women casually has displayed a lack of respect for those women. Men can be too easy, too. If he regrets that past, that's one thing (of course, anyone can change and be forgiven!). But, on its own, it's not attractive. That kind of lifestyle is not something that we should just tolerate as being a fact of life. A real gentleman will treat all women with respect - not just "high quality" women.
The attractive mindset from a guy toward a possible casual relationship is: "You're worth more than that, and I want to show you that you are worth more than that by not taking advantage of you. I want to help you realize your own worth, not use you because you don't know your own worth." Honestly, this is just an attractive mindset from anyone, really, not just guys.
Yes of course, I absolutely said that "players" than are going with many women, are not gentlemen and are not the men you should look for.
@@Lisaglamour You're right, you did say that! Thanks, hon. Love your videos :)
Exactly. I think part of the problem is the toxic feminist movement and the fact that us as women tolerate this from men. Many women are no longer confident or kind to themselves and it manifests in devaluing who they are especially in a relationship. It's a masculine quality to have multiple partners and it's a newer (a few decades) mindset that serves NO ONE. This lifestyle does not come without consequences, regardless of who u are. Imagine what it would look like if all women started behaving with high value standards and confidence?? The men would HAVE to step up and if all women were setting these boundaries like they should be, the men would have no choice but to respect those boundaries. I'm not saying it's completely women's fault, but we play a much larger role and have far more power than we realize. This is why channels like Lisa's are a GODSEND to this generation 🙏
@@Hannah-td3vv is it possible that this kind of " players" also go away from you if you clearly say or show signs of wanting an actual relationship ( nt with them but in life in general)
I met one of those guys that I really liked but when he got to know I was religious, went away from me
Thank you Lisa and I want to add that meeting a high value man does not necessarily mean he’s a million dollar man 💵 Please note I am 100% in agreement with Lisa and only injecting my own opinion separate from her statements.
I think there’s been a prevalent misconception that leveling up means that we are all going to end up attracting the affections of the men who make millions. That is not true! So please ladies don’t associate the job title,credit cards, cash, and bank statements as your sole focus. Don’t brag to family/friends about your partners career and money unless they are benefitting your life in a way that demonstrates long-term investment.
Do keep in mind a senior level project manager could show you a world you’ve never had and give you a happy marriage. Whereas a business mogul can give you a handbag and more stress than a married couple. Lastly don’t learn these tips to be haughty or look down on others. Learn these tips to simply realize you deserve kind and generous treatment.
Oh absolutely! I never said otherwise. A high quality man is not necessarily a millionaire. It's a man that is gentleman, that treat you well, that is respectful, that is responsible and provide for his family 😊 Someone you can count on, that you feel safe and secure with.
The world to focuse on is : gentleman 😘
@@Lisaglamour I just injected my two sense. I already know you are definitely an amazing influencer who advocates healthy principles for women! Much love Lisa ❤️
I love this extra comment ✨✨thank you for the nuance 🤍
I'm starting to try and see it like this, I want to form a family and when I have my children I want to be the one raising them so my future husband needs to be able to support us in a comfortable lifestyle even if I stop working.
@@sofiasoto2214 Oh yes!! I am the same way. 👍🏾🧠
My goodness, you are a vision in this dress! My jaw is on the floor 💎
I really love the softness and gentleness in the way you speak, it's so feminine and respectful...who speaks like this these days? It's so rare. Thankyou ❤️
Oh thank you so much 😍
i Really like this makeup style on you.. you look amazing
Thank you very much 😍
Lisa! As a Filipina I wanted to thank you for including a clip of our queen, Catriona Gray. I’ve admired her ever since I first laid eyes on her and find her to be one of the classiest, most intelligent, elegant and glamorous women. I love all of your advice and am on my own level-up journey! Watching your videos continue to fuel me and motivate me to be a high-value woman. Love you 💋
Soo true!
Hahaha Gilda movie🍀
-Gilda, are you decent?
*Flips hair in a sexy way*
-decent? Me?
I started to watch old movies to take notes about mannerisms, posture, movements...
The were soooo elegant🌸🌸🌸
I personally prefer to watch old movies over modern ones because people really were classier back then!
@@shanaeb4814 soooo true🌸🌸🌸
I love Gilda too!! I made a whole video on this movie here 😘 : czcams.com/video/gx-ceqJrEXE/video.html
Can you please suggest me some old gold movies? Thanks in advance!😇
Thank you so much for this amazing video! I just broke out with my boyfriend of 2 months who was a very low quality men. I had very high caliber men in my life who treated me like a princess.. I just forgot my value for a little while. THANK YOU a million time for making me remember that has a high caliber woman full of qualities I can do so so much better! It's so easy to be blind by "love" and sometime forget your standards.. We need more people like you!! Sending you love and lots of positive energy
You are like Sunshine. A guy ghosted me just the day I saw this video . Thats what I needed .Im sure he really got intimidated by me. your voice is so soothing.
Really love your attitude. I have never understood why women are insistent if they are right for the man, it is the opposite. Why waste time on a man you are not into.
Absolutely 👏
I would love a video on fashion/style ideas for a high-value woman. Outfits for all occasions including college, date nights, casual dates or casual outings, to the grocery store etc 😉
I love your message ! I just love the way you break things down for us ! 💕💕 always uplifting, not putting down.
I’m so happy I found your channel . Your videos are so enlightening and they always confirm everything that I have always believed in ♥️ thank you !
Great video! ❤️❤️❤️ I try not to think about dating too much these days because I need time on my own, and videos like these remind me that the actual best thing you can do single is just to improve yourself! Level up and your choices in dating will elevate as well
Thank you for another inspirational video! Your tips and fashion sense are definitely goals. Keep it up. Looking forward to your next video. 💕
You look absolutely fabulous! 🥰
Thank you so much 😍
I agree, I also absolutely love long distance relationships, or relationships where you don't live with one another and have your own space. Time apart does wonders for your connection
"You are the prize"❤❤❤ Lovely Lisa, you are my hero for saying this!! I feel like I want you as my friend to remind me of this and to tell my boyfriend occasionally too... trust me, he needs to be reminded of this from time to time. This will be my new mantra for 2021. ❤ I AM THE PRIZE ❤ Thank you darling, stay safe and well 😘💋❤
I love your videos! ❤️✨
Thank you 😍✨
Aloha Lisa:) My name is Edie and I am a psychologist in beautiful, sunny Hawai’i:) I found your videos when I was searching for some empowering blogs for one of my clients who is having trouble with her self image and esteem and I wanted to tell you how much I appreciate and enjoy the amazing level of insight and analysis that you have done in understanding men and women and the relationship between them, as well as how wonderfully positive you are and your support of each women accepting and loving herself and seeing herself as precious and beautiful 🙏💗 You have such lovely energy and spirit with what you do on your videos and I know you are making a big difference in people’s lives!!! Keep going and thank you for all that you do! You are truly amazing Lisa🙌🥰
I also wanted to mention that if you ever want to explore why you are only typically interested in long distance relationships I have a pretty good idea as to why (or at least a very good guess that we could talk about) and would be more than happy to spend time talking about it free of any charge of course as your videos do so much for women all over the world and I also want to support women (and men) in feeling good about themselves and treating others with positivity and care! I believe in that very much:)
Either way I wish you so much success and happiness and hope that life is smiling down on you!:)
Warmly,
Edie
I came across this channel and I'm so glad I did! I am a new subscriber and I love your messages to remind us ladies to stay feminine and enjoy life, I am in the process of enhancing my looks etc , thank you for your inspiration Lisa 😊🥂
Great advice darling! You never let us down!
Thanks Lisa!!! You look sooooo elegant and perfect in this outfit as you do on all your videos!!!
Thank you very much such a compliment ❤️
I just discovered your channel, and it is a gem of a channel! Great Content!
Thank you so much Lisa! I really love your videos. They've helped me so much 🥰
I absolutely love your channel and the content you create. You are a QUEEN!
You are so right about it, darling. Keep going!!!
Hi Lisa !!! I'm a really big fan of yours and I love binge watching your videos ❤ I really want to try and incorporate a lot of your femininity advice into my life, but it's kinda hard right now since I'm not really going out much and my social interaction is limited pretty much to texting and Instagram. I was wondering if maybe you could do a video about elegant conversation or feminine conversation tips for these kinds of digital situations? Like how to be alluring and mysterious through text but still keep up a conversation? I would love it, and I'm sure a lot of stuck-at-home college students like myself would really appreciate it! Either way, I love your videos and I can't wait for your next upload! 🤗❤
Thank you so much dear Lisa for this video💖💖 very needed🥰
Thank u so much Lisa for this video cus u helped open my eyes ❤keep it up I love u girl ❤
i struggle with this, thank u for doing this!
Darling, you're glowing!✨ That red lip and dark hair emphasize your magnetic aura 💕
Thank you very much darling ❤️!!
I like u am single ❤❤💑💑😍😍🙋
Love your videos💕You are so inspirational 💖
You are SOOO beautiful! I love your positivity and energy! I hope to be like you one day!
That dress looks so great on you omg. Oh well you look great in everything but that dress is 🔥🔥🔥 and thank you for guiding us lol
"I can always find better." It's something that I know, but I don't act like it. I should start. :) I also like how you talked about the guy that ghosts - it's never about the woman and it's usually because he's not ready or has things he needs to focus on first.
I love that you did that little clip of Catriona Gray! You look just like her! Very beautiful!
Oh waw thank you 😍
I needed this. Thank you so much
All I needed to hear ❤️ thank you
This was so good! Thank you!
Love your videos! Sending love from Brazil 🥰
I absolutely love your emerald green dress I need it in my life!💚❤💚💃🏾
I really love your lipstick color this red is my signature color!!
I love this channel. You are so beautiful ❤️
Thank you so much 😍
Sooooo in loveeee with that dress 😍😍😍 you look absolutely stunning!!!
Thank you 😍
I loved everything, however am I the only one who jumped when Lisa said “do not text them first”? I do believe my time is precious and for the same reason I do encourage myself to text or ask out myself, instead of waiting around. Most of the times it’s a yes and if not, I can move on and stop worrying about it. I hate living with “what if” thoughts, so I believe it’s a good way to get it out of my head not to mention most of the times for men it’s more intriguing to be direct. most likely they will recognize you for it than butterflying around them and playing hard to get.
It looks like Lisa’s standards are towards old Hollywood Gentlemen tropic and that’s lovely, nothing wrong with it. She’s sharing female empowerment with class, but let’s keep in mind than just as women there are a lot of different kinds of man. So not necessarily because he won’t pay for every dinner or text you first is lower standard. However if he’s unpleasant, have a nasty personality or holds a lot of pride but pampers you that’s a whole different story that you don’t wanna be part of...
but pretty much what I’m trying to say is that besides those two topics the rest of the mentioned standards are definitely general and a must! Texting and paying it’s more of a personal taste, but I’m not gonna lie, it always feels good to be fully taken care for.
thank you for the videos and encouragement 💕
Haha yes don't worry I just said "don't text first" for the first message, to make sure that he is the one chasing you first ! Afterwards it can be natural of course 😘 but at the end do whatever you feel is the best for you, these are just advices to help you, and all women 😊
This is everything I needed to hear😍 when are you coming out with a book? Xx
I met my ex of 5 years on a dating app and my current partner of 2 years too. I think if I had the options for meeting men socially I would have definitely gone more down that route but going back into dating as a 38 year old woman was much harder this time, especially when you move to a new area nd do not know many people to go out with.
I'm a mature Siren model and to see and watch your channel and advice for women, I'm so impressed. You are gorgeous darling.
Rewatching as this is helping me alot! 🙂🙂
Gorgeously you 👏😍❤️
Thank you for your shared content...indeed high value woman full of elegance 🥰❤️❤️
Thank you very much ❤️ ✨
Wow I have been doing everything wrong thank you for your help wisdom please keep them coming I just found you and have been watching your videos again thank you so much.
I love your femininity, girl ♥️
That blue dress is amazing on you!
Love your videos, and your style !
You are my style inspiration. I wish I can have the same vibes as you. Thank you!
You are beautiful! Thank you for your content.
I absolutely love your lipstick, Lisa, and surely it's not just me! Could you share with us the brand & color? Many, many thanks ♥️
Thank you so much Lisa 💖. I wish you can be my personal mentor in this matter. 💐
I just found you and I adore your energy
Thank you for this information it really help
This was so helpful
You have changed me for good really thankfullll❤❤, lots of love from.India
I really Love your videos I subscribed after the first one. One of the reasons is because I too love old classic Hollywood movies. With feminine leads. Do you think that you can start listing the movies that you use in your videos? Maybe even do a video of your fav top 10 movies and why. Thanks
Great video. Thank you
Your outfits are always bomb
That dress is stunning!
I would love if you would do a video on how to write a good/appealing dating profile. It's good to be US, but to know what we should avoid saying or what may turn someone off would be so beneficial!
Heyy first !!!!!💕💕💕love ur videos lisa
Thank you darling 🥰
Please make a video on how to deal with singleness when you are too picky and only want high quality man
Your voice sounds so soft and delicate, and your giggles are just cuteness overload ( ꈍᴗꈍ) you go girl 💫
I love the way she speaks hahah so funny like a friend to me
, super!!! You Look great and You are absolutely right
You are made of gold 🥺
Omg thank you 😍 you are the cutest ✨
Love you Lisa !❤🥰
You are my role model!❤️😍
So sweet 😍😍
In reality, no one HAS to do anything, however it IS nice when they do , because that’s what we LIKE. 😉
I would love to hear your opinion or advice on modern dating apps... some tips to help us feminine single women navigate the apps.
Yes please I would love a video on this
Me, too! I’m lost!
Me too :)
Hello!!! I have one question😊 from where is that beautiful blue with black floral dress? IT'S AMAZING I'm obsessed with it😍😍😍😍😍
great video. what is the movie called with the ladies keeping their cookie in the jar? it looks funny.
You look so stunning! I can't keep my eyes off of you
Oh thank you 😍
We are High value woman!!!! Yes!!!!🍀💚🍀💚
Could you show your wardrobe? We would love such video!!! Bien à toi :)
7:07 😂 perfect!
Thanks love. I appreciate your work! Something that could help, is for ladies over 35, who are single tend to be higher masculine energy. Can you find someone to connect with (older) & help then out?
As a 39-year old woman I still just follow these advices because it’s the same principle no matter our age! Xo
I love your bed.. Where did you buy it? 😍😍I love your channel darling