11 Things Surrogates Want You to Know | Iris
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- We sat down with four surrogates to find out all the things they want you to know about their experiences and the process. Are they only in it for the money? Do they get too attached to the fetus? How does it affect their personal lives? Would they ever do it again?
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11 Things Surrogates Want You to Know | Iris
So i was searching for bon appetit. And then this channel came up on the recommendations before epicurious and tasty. I don't understand youtube algorithm but i'm not complaining for this one
Me, too!
Same
Same
Jess Boo same I searched for bon appetite too and this came up
Same happen to me
Eventhough I don't want children, I still think it's amazing how women can help other couples and families. If you have your own children, why not help someone else have theirs.
it’s so refreshing to see these wonderful, altruistic women. thank you iris!
I hate that you guys commenting act like people who can’t have kids are responsible for adopting all the kids out here who’s biological parents gave them away. They are no more responsible for adopting children than you are. They want children with their DNA just like you. Anyone can adopt... so do it if you feel pulled to. Anyways, I’m about to be a surrogate mom soon.
KeiyaValecourt so true
Because you’re gross and unethical Hagar. Lmao
I understand.. is your health okay.. how is your surrogate?
Plus it's not exactly that easy to "just adopt"
When you're looking to adopt a newborn there are so many factors that can effect what happens on if you get the kid or not. If you pay an adoption agency (which ends up in thousands of dollars) you never have a guarantee you'll ever end up with a baby. If you pay a surrogate to carry a baby for you, you have a lot less of a chance not to have a child in the end- and you have a factor of trust that the child will almost always be healthy when they're born.
I have a disorder that causes infertility even though I haven’t actually tried to get pregnant it’s nice to know that I have an opportunity to have children that are genetically linked to me ( 🤞🏾that my ovaries are still viable😬) still want to adopt children for sure given that there are sooo many children without homes. I would be fortunate to love a child regardless of their origin story 🤗💛💛💛
Endo Warrior
And I’m sure you’d be a wonderful mom!
or adopt
People who hire surrogates are no different than those who use prostitutes. Except that prostitutes can end the use of their vaginas whenever they want.
Have you thought about freezing your eggs?
@@bubbledreams6382wtf is wrong with you kid
Wow... This is a vocation... A calling or whatever. I will never understand it, but it is beautiful in a way.
Those Purple braids are gorgeous
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Thanks
This channel was good. Why did it stop?!😫😫😫😫
this is 110%. I truly want to become a surrogate. I loved being pregnant with my son. the joy he has brought into my life, is unexplainable. I'd love to give that joy to someone else. so glad to see these beautiful surrogates sharing their stories!!
I respect your enthusiasm
anyone know why this channel stopped posting?
Absolute amazing! As a infertile woman who is so thankful I’m childless by choice/circumstance now, this video made me cry tears of joy and gratitude. Absolutely riveting, inspiring and spectacular! Gave me goosebumps and made me ever thankful for these selfless, incredible women! God Bless them all.
A video I never knew I needed. Amazing.
I wonder why this channel stopped posting videos
I was thinking the same thing actually.
Interesting to see a video with partners of surrogates or biological parents and surrogate child.
What is with all this baby stuff poppin up on my stuff????? Stop with the feelings!
It’s a sign girl. Get a pregnancy test. Or look at your relationship you’re in right now (or if u want to be in one look at the person u have eyes for and see if they are a good parent
@@9roselove9 uhhhh I don’t think a video about Women who carries babies for other people is a sign of pregnancy (also how do you know this person is not a male or a child)
may the universe bless them for giving such gift to others. only ignorant souls would hate what they don't understand. keep rocking on.
And only an ignorant person has a binary mindset to say if someone doesn’t agree it equates to hate. I don’t like oranges, does that mean I hate them? You’re being a hypocrite and spewing the same ignorance. Grow up.
why haven’t you guys posted
What happened to this channel 🤧
Wdym?
This video was so beautiful. All these women are so full of love.
These women are so kind and loving. Beautiful souls.
No, they are not.
They are angels on earth 👼 I'm so glad I came across this video!
Love you Carla
We surrogate moms have to stand together!
I was a surrogate mom twice!!
It’s illegal in Paris that’s surprising to me.
What?! Really? Had no idea.
@@SarahLizDoan Yeah it's illegal in france but mentality are changing I think. But if it ever become legal no money compensation would be allowed (would need to be a volunteer process) since that would quickly become an industry profiting off the poorest... And because we got healthcare no need to be compensated for any medical cost :)
@@heyyo7033 Yes, it is illegal and it should remain illegal. I found this cruel for women and babies. It transforms babies into a product to buy. This is disgusting.
Wonderful people.
This is such a beautiful video 💜
Why did they give up on this channel?
Omg her son is so amazing wow how sweet of a 6 year okd
What happened to this channel the content is SOOOO good! :(
No not really
this is so heartwarming 💛
Not for $25k. $60k + expenses
Actually I see 60k offers for surrogacy on craigslist quite often. So I do question this videos claim
@@jodkmp they are reached through an agency. Which means they get a percentage because that agency has to probably pay and arrange for a lot of things. The benefits they have to offer considering the risks and the different types of insurances for the actual service agency. It adds up. Not to mention if there are complications. I see what you mean though. I have a lot of questions also.
Has anyone conceived through a surrogacy become curious about their surrogate mother? This taught me a lot but I would guess there's still some sort of connection after nine months between mother and child.
They're talking about something they don't really know the consequencies of in long terms. Grown up children will tell.
I'm sure the parents wanting a child through a surrogacy are prepared for that
Well they should play this for all those women in The Handmaids Tale.
I believe that surrogate mothers should receive awards like honorary blood donors, for example. After all, they help people and society.
Well well well this video was posted on 7th of October 2019 and today is 9th of June 2021
I don't think that she will upload any video now
@@hello9616 yeah
Absolute angels ...
2;16 'Some one who could cure cancer". Forgot to add someone who could be Ted Bundy. Miss, it depends on who the parents are and the upbringing. More logical to aspire about the one you will raise.
great video!! awesome people.
Subtitles would be amazing (please). Thanks
@Dominique Z sorry, no there isn't. I've used subs for years now and checked with yours - and it's not available. I'm deaf not daft.
I'm watching it right now with English subtitles
There are absolutely auto generated English subtitles
Even tho ill NEVER have children of my own. I would most likely adopt a baby. Because it's better for me. But I don't know if ill be a surrogate for someone. I'll just have to think more about that. One guy said ''babies are blessing''......... Ok, Not all babies are blessing...... Seriously like real talk tho. not all of them. But ill adopt than have my own kids
Beautiful video
part of me wonders if this wouldnt become almost a spiritual experience for some people!!!
i love that women will literally carry a baby for another woman! it’s honestly heartwarming
Why do I get this in my recommendation 😂😂
Why not adopt
Because some people want biological kids.
The economic hardship, recession, unemployment and the loss of job caused by covid pandemic is enough to push people into financial ventures.
Watching this gives me a lot of advice ❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
I don't know about their mental health, but it kinda seems they're addicted to the hormones pregnancy gives you. They seem happy tho, even tho they're overweight, which is not particularly good when you're pregnant (I mean, that's what doctors say for medical reasons I don't want to shame or anything). If this doesn't affect anybody physical or mental health, I don't think it is wrong. Even tho I always prefer adoption because I think it is better to give happiness to someone unhappy and alone than creating a whole new life because of infertility. I know adoption is hard, but I think it's the best choice: giving happiness to someone who hasn't experienced it yet is way more altruistic than surrogates. Still I am nobody to say this is wrong
ludovica piccardi I don’t think you understand anything about this and wish you hadn’t commented at all. I do appreciate that you started with “I don’t know about their mental health” and think we all need to remember that when we read the rest of what you said. Your comment was unnecessary and hurtful. Shame on you.
@@sara_fantastic Don't fricking shame another person for their opinion
@zirkuskatze Garfield,
I know like why can't they just accept their opinion
Sara Fantastic it’s their opinion ._. I personally agree with their opinion
A chubby person isn't necessarily overweight
This is amazing.
What happens after birth..
Post more
Hello 💜
I want just going to subscribe, but for this video I won’t.
OH NOOO WHAT EVER SHALL THEY DO 😔😱😱😱😱😱🤧👳🏿👳🏾♂️😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱🥵😱
So this is like a facehugger but human version
Before watching this I thought surrogacy was something horrible and unethical. Now I feel different about it.
Why
@@emilyhiggins1358 I thought it was kinda human trafficking
Piotr Kowalczyk you need to research human trafficking then
@@TaylorRae736 And you need to repeat elementary school if you cant read 3 sentences with understanding :D
Yeah, selling children like pets, why not?
Meanwhile so many people ho through abortus
my demons
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Nope
Xoecahontas don’t know what you mean, and I don’t think I like it 😐
Adam Bunnell I don’t care either
@@adambunnell4418 gosh, i don't even have to find out why she said nope. I just know she was either raised that way or taught that way and she never really broke out of such mentality. so Adam, ignore her ignorance.
Dove Daniels It’s their opinion if they don’t believe that it’s good
Dove Daniels
Lol 😂 the fact that you all are insulting me just because I DISAGREE with this method says more about any of you than it will say about me. The hive mind mentality is disgusting, and you need therapy if you think you know me or how I was “raised” off of one opinion. Get over it. If you took it personal, again that’s a personal problem, and you need to seek therapy. I don’t owe you or any other infertile brawd MY EXPLANATION. Goofy
Aw poor u
Xxxbf😂
Oh I didn't realize it was a selfish endeavor
What is?
@@thisiscait the woman's reasons for being surrogate
Em & m how?
Breathing can be a selfish endeavor. Being kind even though it makes you happy can be a selfish endeavor
Thinking about what makes YOU happy instead of thinking about what would be would be better for another human being could be a selfish endeavor, specially when you're a parent
Surrogate propaganda.
I was searching for a CZcamsr and I came across this depressing CZcams channel. Dude, CZcams I was just trying to see a Vtuber not see a kid see his mom get catcalled.
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Gatto Spaziale why you mad🤔
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