I HUNTED MY HUSBAND DOWN BECAUSE HE COULD PROVIDE FOR ME

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  • čas přidán 30. 11. 2022
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Komentáře • 109

  • @eo4zoa
    @eo4zoa Před rokem +20

    My husband and I have slept in different rooms for couple of years after first child, then again for couple of years after second child and I loved it. I am a light sleeper and have a full time job working from 6am-2pm. And my husband snores very loudly. For me to be happy, working at my most efficiency, I need my beauty sleep. We both were fine with deciding I sleep in another room until kids have a stable sleep routine. It was fine, we still have amazing intimacy and a beautiful marriage. I still sometimes sleep in a different room and enjoy the heck out of it.

  • @Loveprevails1111
    @Loveprevails1111 Před rokem +10

    The need for a village to help raise a child is so true!

  • @marycallan1937
    @marycallan1937 Před 10 měsíci +17

    “You can’t imagine the extent that I was anxiously attached.” 😅 Thank you for being SO REAL as it frees others from their shame and gives hope. ❤

  • @Mayfrancisxavier
    @Mayfrancisxavier Před rokem +11

    I clicked on this video, because said you hunted down your husband so that he could provide for you, even though I suspected that wasn’t the case but was interested in the story. Your story is similar to mine, in that I met my current husband soon after a break up, and at the time he was still university student so his career prospects I really had no idea about. However, I knew he was clever because of what he was studying and I really love intelligent men over other attributes they might have. Turns out he’s also a really hard worker and has skills and is now a CEO and great provider and I’ve been a stay at home mum for over 20 years. I’ve had people ask how I got so lucky etc. but it was just how it turned out. Furthermore, our relationship is similar to yours based on basically the same three things. It really works for us.
    Loved the video! 🎉

  • @jillbeans1573
    @jillbeans1573 Před rokem +6

    Love you lots...
    Glad you are here.
    Thanks for the content.

  • @63lorelei
    @63lorelei Před rokem +4

    Your videos have changed my world. 60 years old and didn't know about anxious attachment. Amazing

  • @GiaGRitter
    @GiaGRitter Před rokem +14

    This is so true about the generational raising of little ones with the whole family! I’m totally going to do this - or at least bug my family if they’re interested.

  • @somebodysopinion543
    @somebodysopinion543 Před rokem +43

    Loved this video, could you make a full series on how to reinvent yourself in a marriage or any relationship platonic or not

  • @jayjaytailor
    @jayjaytailor Před rokem +90

    Love your honesty Margarita; nothing seems to bother you!

    • @FayVision_
      @FayVision_ Před rokem +3

      I love this about her! I found her on tik tok and couldn’t be any happier!

    • @kelly.nicole
      @kelly.nicole Před 6 měsíci +2

      She doesn’t give herself any space to let anything bother her

  • @lauramassi
    @lauramassi Před 6 měsíci +1

    Love your content Margarita. It’s helping me switching right now, to a higher and more confident version of myself. Thank u so much ✨😘🌙

  • @spoonlove22
    @spoonlove22 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Lady you’ve changed my mindset and I Thankyou

  • @sqwekity2
    @sqwekity2 Před rokem +23

    “Reinvent yourself like the Madonna tour” 😂 we are so similar down to having a kid named Leo. Sending lots of love 😘

  • @mamaknow8056
    @mamaknow8056 Před rokem +4

    You are wonderful.. great personality n love your humor, so glad I found you today!! 💋

  • @innatidbury1742
    @innatidbury1742 Před rokem +1

    Thanks CZcams for sending me this video 😊 fell in love 😍 subscribed with no hesitation 😁❤️

  • @user-os8th7fg6i
    @user-os8th7fg6i Před rokem +27

    You are the secure example I look to while working through the book Attached that you've recommended 🧡

  • @jennych
    @jennych Před rokem +2

    Such a fun video!

  • @LifeWithFlowers
    @LifeWithFlowers Před rokem +7

    You are a strong beautiful woman. I love your honesty.

  • @ThunderVelvet
    @ThunderVelvet Před rokem +9

    Omg you are so funny and smart! Always happy to hv your videos on youtube, I follow you on tiktok too!

  • @carolsolanas
    @carolsolanas Před rokem +1

    I laugh so much with your irony! Your funny without trying. You did action classes, maybe that helped? For sure some of my funny behavior mande be too nice with certain man, but you have been helping me so much! I found an amazing provider, but we’re just adjusting some of his anxious attachment style vs my avoidance (although very balanced w therapy and law of attraction).
    You’re my inspo! Thank you for being YOU♥️

  • @user-ih4fd9sf8x
    @user-ih4fd9sf8x Před rokem

    Im piscis rising and cancer moon lol I feel ya. Love your content ❤

  • @tanyatsatskas2085
    @tanyatsatskas2085 Před rokem +4

    Keep up it up. Talking about your darkest moments helps others tremendously.

  • @mizzhelloo
    @mizzhelloo Před rokem +2

    Love the vid. Cant tell if the misspelling of PROVIDE was purposeful or not lol

  • @alexandragasitu8402
    @alexandragasitu8402 Před rokem +4

    Can you make a video talking about the different ways you reinvented your relationship?

  • @being_abulele
    @being_abulele Před rokem +3

    😂 Mr Darcy vibe! 🤭 Best line EVER

  • @milachyc88
    @milachyc88 Před 8 měsíci +2

    I'm new to your channel and i must say i love your energy, also seems that your energy is authenthic and transparent...you been married for so many years, how did you mature as a woman while being married, bc a lot of times women are influenced by their husbands and lose themselves into the marriage, how did you keep your version of yourself while being marred? I'm not married just curious..probably having a supportive partner helps but i want to hear your version. Thank you!
    Loved the video, i'm also a cancer rising and i can tell you love your family and children, we are born that way, nurturing and caring, and we might appear "icy" but it's only bc we want to protect ourselves and those who we love.

  • @dddeen477
    @dddeen477 Před rokem

    Ooooo De Cup 😍 ❤ love this video x

  • @Carolinewjames
    @Carolinewjames Před rokem +5

    I think your amazing and your helping me so much with your advise 🙏

  • @dagmaraskiba9250
    @dagmaraskiba9250 Před 11 měsíci +3

    When you smile you look like Scarlett Johansson 😅😊 thank you for your content , found you few days ago and I am obsessed 😍

  • @user-ky9zq5kg2v
    @user-ky9zq5kg2v Před 6 měsíci

    I love your podcasts....I am re inventing my marriage after 3yrs of a physical adjustments...living apart due to my physical therapy.......it was the best and worst thing for our marriage ❤

  • @MsRickylynn
    @MsRickylynn Před 4 měsíci

    You are so gorgeous, thank you for your wisdom.

  • @matriciamoses
    @matriciamoses Před rokem

    Just love ❤️ you 🤝👌thank you for sharing your wisdom ✨️🚶‍♂️🚶‍♀️🚶you completely changed me 😇😇🙏🙏

  • @nickieckford4520
    @nickieckford4520 Před rokem

    Margarita, please tell me what lip product you are wearing in this video? Thank you ❤

  • @dominicgabriela5911
    @dominicgabriela5911 Před rokem +16

    You’re so real for not letting your hubby get an IG 😂🤭🧡

    • @dailyinspiration805
      @dailyinspiration805 Před rokem

      Yes can you share more about this 😀

    • @danitaaaas
      @danitaaaas Před 11 měsíci +2

      my husband has IG which he created just so he can view my photos. And he only follows 2 people there - me and his little sis

    • @mstwilight1612
      @mstwilight1612 Před 11 měsíci

      @@danitaaaasgood for him👍😁

  • @adeleelzinga
    @adeleelzinga Před rokem

    Love you makeup in this video. Would love to know the details please

  • @nicoleb9047
    @nicoleb9047 Před rokem +49

    When you were anxiously attached did you ever struggle with social anxiety? If so, can you do a video about how to not be socially anxious? I used to be super comfortable around people but that changed over time after a few friendship blindsides and a long term relationship breakup. I’m now in the process of re-inventing myself and would love your take.

    • @firststeps3133
      @firststeps3133 Před rokem +13

      Hi, I have been anxious attached for my entire life. But now I have been to therapy for years and soul searched. Living my best life now, abroad, with my lovely boyfriend. Social anxiety is creeping up on me when I don't take care of my own needs or wants. Because I start to worry about what people think of me more. So find your method to keep your standard of self respect, if that means exercising, reading your favorite book, or painting do it. When you respect yourself, you wont have anxiety about yourself or others, because you feel safe. Best of luck, xx

    • @jenniferflower9265
      @jenniferflower9265 Před rokem +8

      When you enter a so ial activity, instead of thinking what others think of you, think, how can I make them feel totally comfortable. Enter with a heart of service. What they think of you is none of your business. Anyhow, that's what worked for me to overcome it. Perhaps there are many other ways, but that's one of them.

  • @jmitch238
    @jmitch238 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Just want to say I think the advice you gave to the woman sleeping in a different bedroom was very compassionate and effective

  • @elenasantana9703
    @elenasantana9703 Před 9 měsíci

    Love your contact! I am so happy I found you!!! What are your thoughts regarding surrogate?

  • @agapelove4503
    @agapelove4503 Před rokem

    Thanks for the insight into your life. Could you make a video about a 50/50 relationship please? 😊

  • @user-uq1ww9hz2s
    @user-uq1ww9hz2s Před rokem +2

    Can you make a video about the mindset shift (anxious-detached/ masculine-feminine) and how it was applied when meeting your husband? You mentioned you came out of a really difficult relationship in your other video and that you have dealt with being anxiously attached previously. How did you then go about making this relationship successful?

    • @jillmariaplatteaux6083
      @jillmariaplatteaux6083 Před rokem +1

      I do not get it how people bump into a person so quickly and stick. I have been single for over a decade. I do have a pattern of hooking up with the wrong guy.. funny thing is.. after me they all find fast another girl and stay with them.. wtf is wrong with me?? I never looked for these men, it just happened. I met them on social media, via someone, started talking and visit them or when I was living in Spain. Those men only saw me for a fling, to spent the night with. So I also cut that off. Basicly spending my life as a single-solo. I know I deserve better. Hopefully one day I will be ready for what I deserve.

  • @waltergonzalez4890
    @waltergonzalez4890 Před rokem +1

    You are loved 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹👍

  • @Indigoapproval
    @Indigoapproval Před rokem +1

    I love that your shared your human design. Moon sign and rising but now I’m curious about your sun sign lol. It’s giving earth sign.

    • @mstwilight1612
      @mstwilight1612 Před 11 měsíci

      She is Virgo, Aries moon, that’s why she is so concise and witty

  • @elizabethanne8729
    @elizabethanne8729 Před rokem +8

    Sméagol in the corner😭😭😭

  • @carolynwilson7736
    @carolynwilson7736 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I sometimes pick up what I think sounds like a South African or Zimbabwean accent. Is there any link there?

  • @somebodysopinion543
    @somebodysopinion543 Před rokem +6

    Videos ideas : how to love yourself, how to not care about what anyone thinks about you and how to control your emotions

  • @LCtwo3
    @LCtwo3 Před rokem +3

    I had hyperemesis TWICE! Omg people don’t understand

    • @nishamack586
      @nishamack586 Před rokem +1

      it's the reason that I I didn't have any more children. terrible.

  • @shellapruincesse
    @shellapruincesse Před rokem +3

    Cancer gang ♋️

  • @LenaMMcKee
    @LenaMMcKee Před rokem +8

    Girl I concur could never be a huntress❤

  • @LisaLovee420
    @LisaLovee420 Před 5 měsíci

    I just rewatched this today, where u said u wanted another baby. Earlier I watched your last video where u said u were 9 months pregnant and if I was seeing the video you probably already had the baby 🫶🏼 congrats btw

  • @shalimar29
    @shalimar29 Před 3 měsíci

    How long were you friends before dating? And how long did it take him to propose to you?

  • @somebodysopinion543
    @somebodysopinion543 Před rokem +3

    Sorry last comment.. in one of your TikTok videos you mentioned to be a happy wife over a good wife can you make a video on that, because I asked my husband which one would you rather me be and he said it depends ..

    • @Margarita.Nazarenko
      @Margarita.Nazarenko  Před rokem +2

      Depends on what? 😇 he’s rather a happy wife xzx

    • @mizibelle
      @mizibelle Před rokem +8

      Lol why would you ask him anyway, it’s not his choice

  • @naohen
    @naohen Před rokem +11

    Just love your whole vibe. Can I be you when I grow up? 😂

  • @user-ky9zq5kg2v
    @user-ky9zq5kg2v Před 6 měsíci

    I did chase and choose my husband because I wanted a provider...but after covid he had to reinvent himself too....I was off doing hardcore P.T. and he lost his$$great paying job....we were both going thru major transition separately

  • @katecamellia
    @katecamellia Před rokem

    LOVED my C-section. I got lucky with a great surgeon. Was not allowed to push AT ALL due to prior health conditions. 10/10 would recommend

  • @manasikakade783
    @manasikakade783 Před rokem

    What's your husband's zodiac?

  • @breezytops14
    @breezytops14 Před rokem +3

    You crack me up 😂😂😂

  • @Eng4555
    @Eng4555 Před 2 měsíci

    what kind of assumption?

  • @livh2290
    @livh2290 Před rokem +1

    Hi Rita! What happened to the videos with your mum? Is she doing ok? 💕

    • @Margarita.Nazarenko
      @Margarita.Nazarenko  Před rokem +2

      She’s great ! Decided she doesn’t want to be on CZcams for now

    • @livh2290
      @livh2290 Před rokem

      @@Margarita.Nazarenko Ok, I see. Thank you for the update!

  • @Eng4555
    @Eng4555 Před 2 měsíci

    stay cool

  • @hannahis813
    @hannahis813 Před rokem

    I think I don’t understand the reinventing yourself part. Can you go into a little more detail what that entails or means plz

  • @karen3705
    @karen3705 Před rokem +2

    you look Russian and speaks with Australian accent but sometimes with English accent. was trying to figure out where all the mix came from :)

    • @YanaWanderlust.
      @YanaWanderlust. Před 3 měsíci

      She is originally Russian/Ukrainian, moved to the UK at 5-6 y/o,
      Grown up there and now she is living in Australia for more then 10 years. So you are absolutely correct about everything.😅

    • @karen3705
      @karen3705 Před 2 měsíci

      @@YanaWanderlust. omg thanks for letting me know :) this meant so much to me knowing my sensing was on point!

  • @cdsa6813
    @cdsa6813 Před rokem

    If you ever need baby sitting I here 🙌

  • @veyra3224
    @veyra3224 Před 2 měsíci

    are you karelian?❤

  • @traciethomas5249
    @traciethomas5249 Před 9 měsíci

    Wow

  • @mirandaburks6774
    @mirandaburks6774 Před rokem

    I have no idea why but your smell was just the first thing I thought of when you left the link for assumptions 😂

  • @bunniewood
    @bunniewood Před rokem +2

    What i find interesting are the men..who are these men that are happy to work while their wives spend?

    • @mizibelle
      @mizibelle Před rokem

      There’s alot, the real masculine men. They typically only hang out with like minded men.

    • @mstwilight1612
      @mstwilight1612 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Cancers

    • @apollofateh324
      @apollofateh324 Před 6 měsíci

      😂​@@mstwilight1612

  • @stevenb007
    @stevenb007 Před rokem +1

    Wow! I am actually shocked at the amount of judgemental assumptions made about you (and your husband also).

  • @NQES777
    @NQES777 Před rokem +1

    "Primary" Partner
    Respect from 100% to 0%
    All women
    Men = Don't ever get married.
    Don't bring business contracts into love.

    • @mizibelle
      @mizibelle Před rokem +4

      Dude hush, and go away

    • @natashadickson4819
      @natashadickson4819 Před rokem +15

      Ladies, withhold sex before marriage, especially from men who hate women and marriage. ❤️

    • @NQES777
      @NQES777 Před rokem

      @@natashadickson4819 nahhh that's when women give men the most sex... it's another form of prostitution

  • @amethyst6386
    @amethyst6386 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Are you a cancer rising in sidereal (eastern/jyotish/vedic)? Give me that pleasure please, my insufferably deep astrological mind must rest 😂

  • @RM-pl5po
    @RM-pl5po Před rokem +3

    She lucked out. She met her husband YOUNG. In your 30’s w kid or kids you get leftovers so take these videos with a grain of salt. These are videos are for YOUNG women in their 20’s who haven’t had kids yet. But YOUNG is key once you as a Woman hit 35 you are DONE you will get a man that no one wants period

    • @Va13chka
      @Va13chka Před rokem +1

      Calm down incel.

    • @yasminah6823
      @yasminah6823 Před rokem +22

      what the hell? my step-dad married my mom when she was 40 and divorced with 3 young kids. He was and still is the most loving man in the world. Both their second marriage. Please live in the real world. Margarita gives advice to women of all ages.

    • @Va13chka
      @Va13chka Před rokem +11

      @@yasminah6823 Right? My older sister and my bro in law got remarried twice with each other and both have a kid from previous marriage. They mash well together and are happy. These incels need help. Anyone can find love again, incels can die off at the other hand.

    • @Alloniya
      @Alloniya Před rokem +2

      It’s not true. We chose partners. If you chosen the bad partners in your life so you didn’t marry yet it’s your own fault.

    • @vam9785
      @vam9785 Před rokem

      Incel