He's the RIGHT GUY but it's the WRONG TIME

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    He's the RIGHT GUY but it's the WRONG TIME... In this dating advice video, I will discuss he's the right guy but the wrong time. You can meet the right guy at the right time, and it can be on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to this dating advice, and be sure to watch the entire video.
    It would help if you didn't think that it is always the right time for both of you to be together when you meet the right guy for you. I want you to understand that it is possible to meet with the right guy at the wrong time. Ensure you embrace this relationship advice for women to know what to do when you meet the right guy but at the wrong time.
    If you have ever met with the right man and felt like he's the right guy for you, but it was the wrong time right person, this dating advice is for you. I understand how it feels whenever you meet the right guy at the wrong time or wrong place. This dating advice for women will help you know why the right guy wrong time happens to enable you to have better dating experiences and relationships.
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Komentáře • 584

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks
    @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +37

    ⭐️ Join my SPECIAL coaching program here 👉 www.receivingmyblessings.com

    • @idoracruzinofre2882
      @idoracruzinofre2882 Před 2 lety +6

      Thanks Stephan Speaks I'm always watching all your video and it truly help me may God bless you always

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +5

      Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that and may you b blessed as well 🙏

    • @idoracruzinofre2882
      @idoracruzinofre2882 Před 2 lety +1

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks even my ex left me. I haven't got into another relationship anymore and if someone told him that I did it's a big lie that probably someone just want him and wanted to take him from me and only I can say is I didn't cheat on him and if his one of your listener he already had a big mistake

    • @bennawhite4097
      @bennawhite4097 Před 2 lety

      This Is True Because we as women don't want to admit we're not used to a man guiding a leading because we never had that in our life or a man doing for you because you had to do everything for yourself it is a very scary frightening situation to have to let your guards down and dig deep within yourself and be honest with yourself and take all accountability to be truthful with yourself This Is What I'm Going through right now ❤️ l Must Be honest with myself I'm Not Use To It ,And I Must Say ,A Lot Of Time's It's Not That Men Don't Want To Guide or lead It's Because No One Showed Them The Right Way To Guide Her Amen ❤️

    • @bennawhite4097
      @bennawhite4097 Před 2 lety +1

      Thank You ❤️

  • @ericajanellelifecoaching
    @ericajanellelifecoaching Před 2 lety +556

    I have literally experienced this and every single thing that you said was accurate. When the connection is there and the timing is not right, its best to just be willing to wait for divine timing. I’ve had to learn that just because l may desire the relationship at the wrong time, it’s just not worth the risk rushing and not letting God bring it to me at the right time. Honestly it’s best to shift your focus and work on the areas, goals etc. and be willing to wait for it while working on yourself.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +42

      Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.

    • @BabyFaceRose
      @BabyFaceRose Před 2 lety +5

      Love this response … I’m trying to gain hope

    • @riannab5256
      @riannab5256 Před rokem +2

      But how do you know he is not just wasting your time and breadcrumb’s you

    • @monicathompson9751
      @monicathompson9751 Před rokem +3

      This is where I'm currently at.
      I want to shift and focus on GOD like you ..
      Thank you 😊.

    • @melanieortiz712
      @melanieortiz712 Před rokem +5

      Yeah going through this right now. So working on work right now. So I'm ready when he gets his life together.

  • @doritofu
    @doritofu Před 11 měsíci +64

    As a guy this was helpful for me too. I met someone who I had the most amazing connection with. She was pretty much everything I've wanted and more. God was also at work between us. I experienced massive spiritual growth during our time together, including deliverance from addiction. I was convinced that she could be the one. But a lot of things you mentioned applied to us, including lack of stability, healing, and possibly maturity. And God also made it clear to me that it wasn't time for a relationship, and so we ended up parting ways.
    I don't know if God plans on bringing us back together, but I know that I won't settle for anything less than the connection that we had. The chances of her coming back or me finding someone better seem equally impossible to me, but I believe that God is a God who does the impossible. Right now my focus is on following him and wherever he's leading me next.

  • @fitforfreelance
    @fitforfreelance Před 2 lety +225

    That story about letting someone go when it's not the right time hits 🎯 focus on your development and health, stay true to your word, and let people make the right decisions for themselves. That's real love

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +11

      ❤ 💯 Yes!

    • @womanofnations1
      @womanofnations1 Před rokem +3

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks i am in a situation right now . God told me must wait but he sent me the similitude of the guy I just want . Now things became hezzy and now we are apart , no communication nothing . But I feel peace because God wants to prepare me

    • @jeffreyjephter4172
      @jeffreyjephter4172 Před 9 měsíci +1

      That’s how I been feeling

  • @JamaicaLove876
    @JamaicaLove876 Před 2 lety +422

    What is meant for you will always find its way back to you. Over time we naturally gravitate back to things we love & things that speak to our heart. We can meet someone we have a strong connection with but if we are not ready to receive love it will not happen. Often both partners have to go through a wilderness period to build our character spiritually & emotionally into a level of maturity to handle the vulnerability and commitment required of a loving relationship. Everything must come into alignment and things will fall into place. True love is always present yet if the relationship is not nurtured and watered how will it thrive & take root. Nothing ever happens by chance, God is always strategic in preparing us for His blessings. Excellent video. Blessings, peace & light to you. "Love aligns in the right time by God's design."

  • @fosterjanine5112
    @fosterjanine5112 Před 2 lety +311

    Just because you're in a relationship with the RIGHT person it doesn't mean it will be a bed full of roses there will be challenges and obstacles along the way but as long there is an investment from both parties then that's what is more important. Partnership and Good communication makes a relationship work.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +38

      Communication is definitely key, thank you for sharing!

    • @renee167
      @renee167 Před 2 lety +9

      Absolutely! I agree.

    • @BAM4_
      @BAM4_ Před 2 lety +14

      And being honest and trust worthy.

    • @Char796
      @Char796 Před 2 lety +1

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks mm

    • @marshayn6358
      @marshayn6358 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Char796 that’s really him replying this time!

  • @privateequityguy
    @privateequityguy Před 2 lety +143

    *20 Life-Tips I wish I Knew In My 20s:*
    1. Marry the right one
    2. Don't Lie, ever
    3. Learn to be Brave
    4. Learn to Say No
    5. Be curious about everything (ask questions)
    6. Develop a Code and Live By It
    7. Be Patient with Yourself (but put in the work)
    8. Learn to Listen
    9. Avoid Debt (big one! if you want to make some moolah!)
    10. Seek out a Mentor
    11. Develop a Space to Confined In and Ask Questions
    12. Be Kind, Be Compassionate
    13. World changes constantly, keep an open mind
    14. Break bad habits
    15. No dirty websites
    16. Read more (it’s actually really good for you - makes you more intelligent)
    17. Limited time for gaming
    18. Not drinking too much
    19. No drugs
    20. Enjoy life, smile
    Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +3

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

    • @msdemeanour
      @msdemeanour Před 2 lety +5

      No dirty websites? 😂😂😂

    • @jaelenrandolph2030
      @jaelenrandolph2030 Před 2 lety +6

      @@msdemeanour yes. It does harm to your sexual relationships even if you don’t realize it. TV and reality aren’t the same so the more you watch dirty websites, the more you began to have unrealistic standards for people who aren’t in that ‘career field’

    • @Keevus03
      @Keevus03 Před 2 lety +6

      @@jaelenrandolph2030 True. Porn and "excessive" masturbation desensitizes mentally and physically.

    • @lisabrown7409
      @lisabrown7409 Před rokem

      Amen! Life goals

  • @digthewarmth
    @digthewarmth Před rokem +38

    Stephan dropped a Gem here. Do not get with someone who you don't have a stronger connection with than the person you had the strongest connection with. Amen to that!

  • @patriciascorner4686
    @patriciascorner4686 Před 2 lety +82

    So many people are in relationships, but heartbroken because it's not with the one they truly wanted. It's tragic.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +13

      I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but we need to focus on doing what is truly best 🙏

    • @patriciascorner4686
      @patriciascorner4686 Před 2 lety +1

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks absolutely 👍🏾

  • @samildeperez8399
    @samildeperez8399 Před 2 lety +135

    Some profound wisdom here. Best line for me was do not settle. If the next person that comes into your life does NOT surpass what you experienced so strongly with that special person-then move on. Wait. Don’t settle.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

    • @theone8327
      @theone8327 Před 2 lety

      Someone needs to explain what settling is... whats your definition of settling

  • @sandragreen5146
    @sandragreen5146 Před 2 lety +54

    Never ever let the " right girl" go. Life is way too short for that.

  • @shirleymartin3605
    @shirleymartin3605 Před rokem +28

    My friend and I broke up after almost 3 months. It was the wrong time for both of us. Well 9 months later we have reconnected we are taking it slow and the Lord is a very large part of us. I had been carrying around distrust since I was six. My friend who is a minister has helped me pray to rid myself of theses horrible feelings. They are almost completely gone and we are moving on with our relationship slowly. No more mistakes. You are so terrific. Thank you

  • @Jehovahsdaughter1
    @Jehovahsdaughter1 Před 2 lety +176

    The best message that I got just when I needed it the most.. because I truly love this man and he's my soul mate.. and I cant even bring myself to let him go... but I need this time to work on me. I'm literally praying that time will work this out for us both❤❤

  • @Latoya_T
    @Latoya_T Před 2 lety +164

    I’ve been waiting on this video! I wholeheartedly believe in right person, wrong time! I’m literally in this situation as I type. Our connection is like nothing I’ve ever experienced! We are real friends first, before anything else. We have talks often about us and what we want from each other if/when the time ever presents itself. We both are at points in our lives where we know we’re not ready to enter into a relationship. We’re both on separate self development and healing journeys. We both want a healthy relationship and most importantly for it to be RIGHT! I know this man is MY ONE and I pray that our timing is in alignment with God’s timing!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +5

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤

    • @briannaroberts8255
      @briannaroberts8255 Před 2 lety +1

      I agree

    • @marshayn6358
      @marshayn6358 Před 2 lety +4

      I’m happy you’ve found someone you connect with so well! I can feel your energy, love, devotion, compassion, desire and do much more just reading your comment it’s unreal and how your words run through my body! I pray you’ll both heal not quickly but quickly so you all can enjoy and love each other as one! I can’t wait until I can realize, and accept that can of love and connection!

    • @Latoya_T
      @Latoya_T Před 2 lety +3

      @@marshayn6358 thank you for your comment! I could literally tell you so much that it would have you saying, “that’s crazy!” I’m learning though, patience is important to me and that’s something I’ve always struggled with. The more I heal and work on myself the happier I become and with that, brings the things my heart desires. I pray you will accept everything God has waiting for you. Position yourself and He will place you on the right path🙏🏾

    • @lyndavialet
      @lyndavialet Před 2 lety +2

      I’m going through something almost exactly the same right now

  • @slgraphicsinc.1207
    @slgraphicsinc.1207 Před 2 lety +54

    You’ve explained it all. We started as a long distance relationship 15 years ago. I had initiated the meeting in person. Took care of the tabs. Even initiate moving together. Took care of the finances and his school to better him. Have a child together. I had alway pour into the relationship. I had felt like it was always a one way. I finally realized that he isn’t right for me. Like you said, if a man loves you, he would do everything to get there to make you happy. I am at peace right now and ending this relationship. Years doesn’t matter anymore when you are let down so many times. You have to take the bull by it’s horn. Ready to take charge of my life and happiness. Loves your videos. Keep up with the good advices.

  • @sandragreen5146
    @sandragreen5146 Před 2 lety +51

    When the time is right, I the lord will make it happen' Isaiah 60:32

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤

    • @sandragreen5146
      @sandragreen5146 Před 2 lety

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks you welcome❤️

    • @yokojacobson8494
      @yokojacobson8494 Před 2 lety

      @Sandra Green, Isaiah 60:32?, the 60th chapter of Isaiah only goes up to 22nd verse. Perhaps you were thinking of another chapter in the book of Isaiah?

    • @dejanae7336
      @dejanae7336 Před rokem +1

      60:22. I believe.

    • @nelliebellie2222
      @nelliebellie2222 Před 23 dny

      ​@@dejanae7336Yes it is

  • @renee167
    @renee167 Před 2 lety +42

    One thing that I’m learning during my single season is that timing is everything! If it’s not the right time then I’m cool with that because GOD’s timing is always better. I’ve met some good guys that made me think hmmmmmm all is not lost they do still exist! With that being said I’m very hopeful for the future and until then I will utilize this time to continue to work on myself.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +4

      It really helps when we embrace working on ourselves. Thank you for your feedback ❤️

  • @darlineb426
    @darlineb426 Před 2 lety +45

    Long distance and lack of financial stability is what ended my 1 year relationship. It felt so one sided, he meant well but I was the one making plans to visit him and honestly it began to irritate me. I finally let it go. Good man but he needed to get himself together before entering any relationship 🤷🏾

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +5

      I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and receive the man who is truly best for you the man God has for you 🙏

    • @annea6288
      @annea6288 Před 2 lety +2

      I did this for 5 years before I saw "the light"... spent 10 thousands, did the whole partner emigration thing, paid for everything. Distance makes it harder to see the abuse. I let go in the end. It was his time to come over the bridge, I had done enough .. he only wanted to when I had let go of him.

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 Před měsícem

      This was me 😭

  • @melloniefrazier4421
    @melloniefrazier4421 Před 2 lety +13

    I totally Agree 💯 another person that you are not in love with will NEVER have all of you when someone already has your heart.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

  • @courtneypelcha4519
    @courtneypelcha4519 Před 2 lety +68

    I just experienced this. I met this guy. He and I have a great connection, love the same things, we dated for a couple months. and he let me go because he wasn't ready. He told me I did nothing wrong, that I was amazing and everything he wants, but he got scared and realized he wasn't ready for where we were heading and what we had. We are still good friends and talk, but timing is everything in life. It just wasn't the right time.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that 🙏

    • @courtneypelcha4519
      @courtneypelcha4519 Před 2 lety

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks, you are welcome! Thank you for all you do! I needed this video today. 😊

    • @avannagirltv9898
      @avannagirltv9898 Před 2 lety +11

      This was a similar situation I had.. I’m not sure if we’re going to end up together..but I’m just going to focus on me and if it’s meant to be it. Will be.. I hope you get you person..🙏🏾

    • @celestialhappiness
      @celestialhappiness Před 2 lety +8

      I don't think I can be good friends with someone I love 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @courtneypelcha4519
      @courtneypelcha4519 Před 2 lety +7

      @@celestialhappiness it isn't the easiest thing to do, but we don't have anger toward each other. He and I both wanted to still be in each other's lives, so friends is our option for now.

  • @geeavo4058
    @geeavo4058 Před 2 lety +81

    This right here is where I am. Thanks Stephan for this video. I am on track!! Great connection like I've never had, but I had to walk away because he said he's not ready. I am open to new experience, and I accept what we shared as a standard before I can commit to anyone.. if he comes around again, then it's all good. If not, I am thankful to God for the experience, the set standard and what I trust God has in store for me. 🙂

  • @dymondboyer5473
    @dymondboyer5473 Před 2 lety +11

    I'll just say.... Find YOURSELF than seek. 👌🏾 easier said then done!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @ShanturaBonner
    @ShanturaBonner Před 2 lety +45

    I totally agree. I had a connection with someone new after my divorce, but my extenuating circumstances along with not being healed from my divorce, I wasn’t ready. This left me with regrets of the unrealized potential I lost.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +4

      Thank you for sharing and may you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

    • @demimiller794
      @demimiller794 Před 2 lety +6

      Hope your paths can cross again once you're healed

  • @crystalo3402
    @crystalo3402 Před 2 lety +29

    This is right on the money. I was sad about our breakup but it was inevitable and I respect our maturity and agreeing that we want to establish financial and emotional stability so we can be better for ourselves and each other. I know that if we’re supposed to be together in the future, we will be.

  • @francistheresiadavids7011
    @francistheresiadavids7011 Před 2 lety +15

    I like when you shift to a spiritual perspective 🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽💪🏽

  • @kc5620
    @kc5620 Před 2 lety +3

    I’ve been subscribed to your channel for awhile & purchased a book. I have to say, this video right here?! Sooo spot on! Thank you for sharing & taking the time to do what you do!

  • @damonteforney8076
    @damonteforney8076 Před rokem +9

    I felt this way a few weeks ago. I met someone we went on one date. One day I told her it wasn’t working out because she was always busy and the communication lacked. She told me that a situation with her friend was taking a toll on her. That it wasn’t the right time. I still don’t know what to think now but I’ve left and tried dating others but no luck.

  • @graceabraham008
    @graceabraham008 Před 2 lety +1

    This is by far, the most impactful message I’ve received through Stephan. Thank you 🤎

  • @manucastrocombr
    @manucastrocombr Před 2 lety +13

    Unfortunately, we are living in a society where a "friendship zone" is something not healthy, and because of one simple principle, we are entering into relationships based on necessity and not based on love...

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +2

      I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus should be on doing what is truly best 🙏

  • @traceycordero2575
    @traceycordero2575 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for making this Stephan!! Can’t wait for the part 2. I truly feel I have had this experience and the hardest part is trusting God and not fighting my feeling about it!

  • @tmw7550
    @tmw7550 Před 2 lety +3

    Can’t wait for the part 2 please! When is ETA? 😊😊 so excited. This is an answer to my prayer!

  • @giantonamission
    @giantonamission Před 2 lety +57

    This message is soooo powerful! Especially the part about the spiritual maturity and trusting that God will send me a man whom I could embrace as my lead; Being prepared to sit in the passenger seat. Thanks for allowing the Lord to speak through you.

  • @hl4507
    @hl4507 Před 2 lety +2

    I am shocked how much this all applied to my situation. I had so many questions and most of them were answered here.
    I never knew until now whether I should keep myself free for this man or just keep going, but you have now answered that perfectly and saved me from a lot of hurt.
    I am looking forward to more! God bless u!

  • @mcdull81
    @mcdull81 Před rokem +4

    Thank you Stephan. Your final advice hits home. Be with the one who surpass the last one with the strongest feeling ❤️ the right guy wrong time so far was the best. Just timing was off…

  • @leatricewalker8038
    @leatricewalker8038 Před 2 lety

    This was awesome! It was so informative and you were right on point!! Thank you 👏🏽🔥

  • @keziyahyisrael9672
    @keziyahyisrael9672 Před 2 lety +3

    Wonderful Stephan🤩 Definitely going thur this RIGHT NOW! This man been trying to talk to me for years now. The man I'm feeling came, when me and my twins father having issues. Our first time meeting we held a conversation getting to know each other, and I just broke down in tears, He embrace me and held me tight. I felt that energy 💥 The twins are now 5months, and I Definitely haven't healed 😫 I Definitely been praying and asking God for strength🙏

  • @auroraborealis6398
    @auroraborealis6398 Před 2 lety +4

    Everything you say makes perfect sense, while there are many brilliant people on youttube, this is the first time that I hear someone putting things in this way, and makes me understand so much things about me, and men in my past relationships. Thank you so much, god bless!

  • @kimberlysmithcarlson1777
    @kimberlysmithcarlson1777 Před 2 lety +3

    Every aspect of this video resonated with me 100%. Thank you for this confirmation. I am so very grateful!

  • @bleugirl101
    @bleugirl101 Před 2 lety +6

    @Stephan this has been a major struggle for me. I believe I have found the right guy but distance is a major issue so we decided not to start anything. However I have been struggling about whether or not to move on. Tbh, I may have unconsciously put up barriers to other relationships. I was so glad that near to the end of the video you explained what to do: find someone who I have more feelings for. The answer was so simple and sensible lol. Thank you for your advice!

  • @OhioGalReads
    @OhioGalReads Před 6 měsíci +1

    My current and most likely last boyfriend I met 17 years ago. We weren't ready for each other. Now we are and it's beautiful.

  • @anon6056
    @anon6056 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and help with the world. It's really helping me

  • @noelanderson7204
    @noelanderson7204 Před 2 lety +2

    This video was spot on! I mean everything, great job! Please keep sharing.

  • @KrazySoul1
    @KrazySoul1 Před 2 lety +7

    The part with you may of met someone that made you vulnerable. That hit me wayy different. I'm ready to get healed and on the rest of my journey to a godly healthy relationship with myself and my future husband. Im excited for part 2. Thanks uncle Stephan

  • @valerienabong1212
    @valerienabong1212 Před 2 lety

    Definitely learned a lot after watching this video. Thank you. I have been following you and reading your books.

  • @lizmy606
    @lizmy606 Před rokem +1

    Amazing Video! Thanks for those words! 🙏🏽 May this video bless so many people !!! ❤❤❤

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +1

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

  • @alicesutton6470
    @alicesutton6470 Před 2 lety +10

    You are so right about the cake. We should not rush a relationship, we should give people time to work it out and have a come back.

  • @amyhines0953
    @amyhines0953 Před 4 měsíci

    Dropping SO MUCH deep wisdom! This *really* blessed me. No matter if we get together down the road or not, this was so so so confirming. I'm grateful for the experience & how he set the bar so much higher. Such a HEALTHY, healing, balanced & peaceful experience!! I can't unsee it & won't settle. Thank you & God bless!!

  • @MixagEQ
    @MixagEQ Před 2 lety +8

    I've been struggling with many of these issues this past week, I came to CZcams for some advice and checked your channel. This video was just what I needed, thanks.

  • @cget
    @cget Před 2 lety +16

    I know this video was directed at the women, but man I couldn't help but relate to most of these scenarios with different women. And it's sad to think about all the relationships that didn't get a fair chance because I was worried about losing them, when I was actually hurting my chances by trying to make them work. This is very illuminating because I used to think that any relationship can work if the two just put in the work, but it's not that simple at all.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +3

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback ❤

  • @steph_steph876
    @steph_steph876 Před 2 lety +6

    This was deep....looking forward to part 2!!❤💯👏

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +2

      ❤ 🙂 Thank you, I appreciate your feedback. Part two will be out soon!

  • @dnormanlett
    @dnormanlett Před 2 lety +31

    This is my second time listening to this specific popcast. You're so on point. I'm in my kitchen spinning in circles, like i really can't believe you're saying these things word for word. I've met this person, found out I was his high school crush. After communicating with him, it was like instant i realized we had such a crazy connection. It got scary to the point, I couldn't understand why I'm feeling the way I do. It was as if, I was floating on air and could not stop myself. I found myself crying because i didn't like how I've became so vulnerable. Also as you mentioned, I'm that person that protects me at all cost. This attitude as I don't need anyone. Then there came this man, that broke down all barriers and gained access. In addition we are countries apart but vehicle accessible. Thanks so much

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +2

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

    • @ComradeFromRhody401
      @ComradeFromRhody401 Před 2 lety +4

      Sounds like he helped you address your attachment trauma. Soulmates will do that 🫂

    • @dnormanlett
      @dnormanlett Před 2 lety +1

      @@ComradeFromRhody401 He sure did. Thank you

    • @dejanae7336
      @dejanae7336 Před rokem +7

      Happened to me too & have no clue why I have a soft spot for him. Feeling safe with him & just knowing I can be at peace. I feel sooooo submissive & I never really felt that way with anyone & it’s beyond me.

  • @plasmamig
    @plasmamig Před 2 lety +3

    Wow alot of this advice went both ways and was a major help now after i heal I’ll make sure the feelings the love for the next woman is far stronger than the love I had for my ex

  • @raychelo.8896
    @raychelo.8896 Před 2 lety +2

    This video spoke to me from the beginning to the end!!!

  • @myrtlensekela3109
    @myrtlensekela3109 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks for this information! I am going through the example you used in the man and woman was not ready! Now after 40 years we are in a relationship! But we are in different city and it is very hard to get together, so I don’t know! He wants me to be patience! I will listen to you video again and again because it is a great blessing! God bless you!

  • @Janet1975
    @Janet1975 Před rokem +5

    I recently met a really good guy who didn’t want to be in a relationship, just wanted to date. Based on a lot of things I think it was a right guy wrong time situation. He, I believe, has not healed from his ex. It’s clear he’s still hurting, but he’s in denial. Even with his initial stance on no relationship status we were getting close until his ex started stirring trouble again with his friends which led him to tell me he likes me, but wanted a break. I believe the ex is the reason he doesn’t want to be in a relationship. All I can do is honor his need for a break and pray that if he’s the right man for me God helps him heal and leads him back to me. In the meantime, I pray for peace and strength to move on.

  • @sassanthony00
    @sassanthony00 Před 2 lety

    Stephan as usual you spoke volumes and truth.I have waited patiently for this video in particular.And I agree with you on all you have said.I totally understand everything you have spoken.I met this man of God years ago,and I knew years in advance that their are good men out there,I always said that even though I was in a very painful,hurtful marriage.So when the Lord brought this man of God to me I was not ready at all.Btw my husband had abandon me and our 2 children, way before I met this man of God.I thought I was ok,healed,delivered,etc..,but I definitely wasn't.Past issues,flash backs,and just plain old fear cause me to sabotage the beginnings of what could have been.However it caused me to become aware of my underlying issues and fear.I thank God for showing me these behaviors and thought patterns, so He can heal me.Thank you Stephan for your spiritual words of wisdom. I'm looking forward to part 2....Shalom..Also this man of God has made me truly and I mean truly look at other men so differently.I refuse to date(I don't date anyway) or entertain any man because now I know that good men do exist.And if a man cannot match him or surpass him I am not interested at all!

  • @PJ-xl5hs
    @PJ-xl5hs Před 2 lety +9

    Wow! The spirit is definitely present and flowing. Beautifully done😌. Keep going.

  • @AllSeeingThai
    @AllSeeingThai Před 2 lety +6

    This video came at the right time. I’ve been seeing signs of this for the past few days and I feel this may have been the case for me in the past.

  • @geebee4166
    @geebee4166 Před 2 lety +6

    I definitely agree with this! I felt this about my ex I wanted to pour into her but wasn't where I needed to be stability wise! Can't build like that and I will never let that happen again!

  • @j.b.2592
    @j.b.2592 Před 2 lety +8

    I literally got chills listening to this! Did you somehow watch my past 15 years then do a video on it? Everything you said hit me and was spot on!!

  • @ashleyboo42ify
    @ashleyboo42ify Před 2 lety +1

    Wowww! I definitely needed to hear this!💜🙏🏽

  • @herdiscussions3682
    @herdiscussions3682 Před 2 lety +2

    You are spot on with this one!

  • @keligsp8962
    @keligsp8962 Před 2 lety +2

    This was good advice and it's FACTS. Hit hard Stephan needs to be heard.

  • @cymonearcher4882
    @cymonearcher4882 Před 2 lety

    Thank you. I needed to hear this.

  • @RhondaR4
    @RhondaR4 Před 2 lety +3

    I needed this!
    Thank you, Stephan❣️

  • @barbaracanterbury8533
    @barbaracanterbury8533 Před 2 lety +2

    Your point of view Stephan, is so inspiring!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety

      ❤ 🙂 Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that and don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing!

  • @celestinebennett212
    @celestinebennett212 Před rokem +1

    wow you have actually talked about things that people don't talk about ..everything you said here is true 100%

  • @alisoncanty5660
    @alisoncanty5660 Před 2 lety +21

    All I can say is the Holy Spirit just used this entire message to hit my spirit like a ton of bricks. Oh my. I was in tears for part of this. All I can say is this was the message I needed to hear literally right now at this moment. Thank you so much, Stephan. It was like fire. Cannot wait for the 2nd video.

  • @50andbeyond.anewbeginning.18

    Omgosh. Exactly what I’ve prayed for. Praise God!!! Thank you so much!!

  • @dena5558
    @dena5558 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you for this! I really needed to hear it.

  • @user-db6kz8dz7h
    @user-db6kz8dz7h Před 8 měsíci

    Yes thank you for this teaching. I'm going thru this right now.

  • @kresageorgie5030
    @kresageorgie5030 Před 2 lety +6

    This is true for me.
    I have a tendency to be very defensive when someone is getting too close I recognize that and I am trying to get out of that phase.

  • @icydedppl
    @icydedppl Před 2 lety +33

    Please everyone watch this all the way to the end! You won’t regret it!
    It hit me hard and definitely said some things that I didn’t want to but needed to hear.
    I believe this one was divinely inspired bro, thank you. 🙏🏻

  • @thisismystone9658
    @thisismystone9658 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for preparing and sharing with us.

  • @shugababybooks
    @shugababybooks Před 2 lety +16

    It’s about preparing to receive what’s best for you!
    I like that thank you so much again ….and also thank you for allowing God to use you to give us these videos because this one was right on time as well ……
    and it’s also about how can I become better and ready ……I got it!!!!! 😁🙏🏾❤️

  • @prettyr9597
    @prettyr9597 Před rokem +5

    Stephan hearing your video I felt like I went through all those stages. My previous relationship we met our last year of college and he was my first bf. Our connection was real with lots of love. From the start he told me after graduation he would leave to the army. I was blinded to it and thought “he’s here now. I want to try”. We were both told by our family to break up because long distance would be too hard. A year and half goes by and the conversation of long distance comes up and we choose to not talk about it and hope for the best. He leaves to seattle while I live in NC. We ended breaking up because I didn’t want to give up on my dreams here in NC and he didn’t want to give up on his military career. We didn’t know how we would get back together when we were going two separate ways so we thought letting go of each other will be best until we met again. This relationship made me closer to God and now that it’s over I feel like I want to grow even more closer to God.

  • @michellesutton3945
    @michellesutton3945 Před rokem +7

    This video really opened my eyes for myself. Every time my mind is at ease, I have this gut feeling that this specific person in particular is the one but I know now that I have things going on holding me back and sabatoging the potential of our relationship and I’m sure he does too. I’m really just going to have to let it be and focus on getting my self together and just wait and see if my gut is right.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

  • @genbeaudry5063
    @genbeaudry5063 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for sharing all that so acurate content, sooo greatful for it🙏❤️ i couldn t be more informed than this . EVERYTHING you say is so true and beyond what we think we know about relationships😌👌🤗

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +1

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

  • @godseed79
    @godseed79 Před 2 lety +22

    So much truth in this video. I married the wrong guy twice! Different guys, same problem. I didn't want to be alone, but I suffered for those decisions. Never again.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +2

      I'm sorry to hear about that, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through, and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

    • @godseed79
      @godseed79 Před 2 lety +4

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks Yes, I am healed and have spent a number of years single and figuring "me" out. I am ready to love again, but will never repeat that mistake again. ❤

    • @jenng5925
      @jenng5925 Před 2 lety +1

      Same here. Been divorced for almost 12 years, healed and ready to move forward . This time will be different.

  • @mariagontevas6643
    @mariagontevas6643 Před 2 lety +8

    Gods work is truly amazing 🙏 I found you in one of my lowest and a place at a place in my life when I was not comitting at all to God. I think I was emberassed for how I haved lived my life actually. And eversince then, everytime that I struggle to be a good human, your videos keeps turning up. Everytime I go on CZcams there is a video from you, always and I mean always, talking bout the things going on in my life and the things necessary for me to hear to grow as a human being. Your work makes me a better person and I am so grateful that I get to have such a wonderfull life coach. Finally social media payed out 😂 I really wanna say thank you for doin what god wants you to do 🙏 Greetings from Sweden 🇸🇪

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +1

      I'm happy that the videos have been helpful to you I appreciate your response 🙏

  • @teresadavis-amoako6717
    @teresadavis-amoako6717 Před 2 lety +23

    This message is true. Me and my husband are going through this very thing right now. We have been sperated for about seven years he's finishing up medical school...and I wanted to attend ministry school... we had to make some adjustments. But now he wants to get back together and start a family, I was like this is God he has a timing for everything. There was a lack of maturity on both sides. I had my degrees but he was getting his career life together... but the man must lead and be a provider. This video should be the best supported. This really had to happen in order for my husband to lead. God Bless You!

  • @venessavuia
    @venessavuia Před 2 lety +3

    Great stuff. Thank you!

  • @carrieanderson6872
    @carrieanderson6872 Před 9 měsíci

    This was so good. I'm saving "I don't believe in getting with anyone if they have not surpassed whoever I previously had the strongest feelings for". Wow

  • @theposhfamily876
    @theposhfamily876 Před 2 lety +9

    It’s the title for me!! I was literally thinking about this the other day!!! You are amazing ❤️❤️

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +1

      🙏 Hope you like it!

    • @theposhfamily876
      @theposhfamily876 Před 2 lety

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks watching now! And let me just say…I watch the entire video every time!! Love how you take your time with explaining things! I enjoy watching your videos

  • @CC-ny9he
    @CC-ny9he Před 2 lety +1

    Not sure how I missed this one; however, had I saw it at initial release… I wouldn’t have acted. I say all things happen for a reason and I do not believe in coincidences nor luck!
    7.5 months in and I understand why me and my companion are shaking and moving the way we are.
    I thought, I was healed but I am not! He is not healed and that’s our issue. Thank you Stephan for this video and I’ve been distant from him this past week and it’s what we need for now.
    And spiritual growth oh heck yeah, I know I’ve lost my way.. Im praying and asking for guidance..
    Love your spirit Stephan
    ❤️❤️

  • @kellz2blessed
    @kellz2blessed Před 2 lety +1

    I've been wait for this one. I can't wait to listen.

  • @bennawhite4097
    @bennawhite4097 Před 2 lety +4

    Yes It Makes You Feel Like Running , Everything You Said Is Very True My Brother ❤️

  • @imaneelatia9321
    @imaneelatia9321 Před 2 lety +16

    All your videos are amazing but this one is another level … It hits you really hard and the timing is just perfect to listen to it :)!
    I am really excited for part 2 and god bless you Stephan ❤️❤️

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you for sharing I appreciate your feedback and may God bless you as well 🙏

    • @caseyj5597
      @caseyj5597 Před rokem

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks Did you do Part 2 and if so what is the link please?

  • @lindsayc1971
    @lindsayc1971 Před 2 lety +46

    We must trust the progress and timing of our lives 💜
    love the video Stephan 💕

  • @sissyb576
    @sissyb576 Před 2 lety +6

    Situations like this a lot of times push people to pick who is convenient. And of course they usually don't work.

  • @joansandeen9443
    @joansandeen9443 Před rokem +3

    Outstanding advice!!

  • @melissasibell4866
    @melissasibell4866 Před 2 lety +8

    Completely believe in this. Just had to end it with the man of my dreams. We had a great committed relationship for quite some time but he was so damaged from 2 previous relationships that he had not healed from. His fear destroyed us. He tried counseling, did not connect with that person so he quit the process out of frustration. Completely heartbreaking.

  • @francistheresiadavids7011

    PART TWO PLEASW STEPHEN THIS IS SO POWERFUL THANKS

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před 2 lety +1

      Will be doing it soon. Ensure you are subscribed and click the notification bell to be notified when I upload it.

  • @julietpequeno
    @julietpequeno Před 2 lety +2

    Wow! many insights.. Made me think about many things. Thank you 💛

  • @latoyadobson5698
    @latoyadobson5698 Před 2 lety +1

    Omg, Stephan was speaking to me!! Ty 🙏🏿

  • @dimez1981
    @dimez1981 Před 2 lety +2

    Omg he nailed my situation on the spot I’m in it and at the crossroads

  • @queenk.w_williams
    @queenk.w_williams Před 2 lety +13

    So true when we experience a different type of love we latch on overlooking the other stuff. It's just so beautiful ...

  • @chrisparker6249
    @chrisparker6249 Před 2 lety +2

    We have to be in position to receive, that's with anything. Being honest with self first prevents a lot of destruction, devistation, and depression later on.

  • @trinamarina2150
    @trinamarina2150 Před 2 lety +15

    All so true
    I had God’s confirmation that my soon to be ex was the man I was supposed to marry but we both had readiness issues that took it sideways past the point of repair. I have an anxious attachment style and a tendency to cling so this is a great reminder for me to really transfer my dependencies to the Lord before launching my next relationship!

  • @demimiller794
    @demimiller794 Před 2 lety

    So beautifully insightful. I appreciate you💛

    • @demimiller794
      @demimiller794 Před 2 lety

      Aaah man, so much has changed since a month ago.
      Now we wait and see.