Controlling Stepdad Took Over My Late Grandparents Bookstore Instead of Me. So I Cut Contact With...
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- čas přidán 27. 04. 2024
- Controlling Stepdad Took Over My Late Grandparents Bookstore Instead of Me. So I Cut Contact With My Mom When She Sided With Him. Now She's Begging for My Help Cause HE Failed.
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Who wants to bet that Stephan is going to "check on the money" from the buyout one day and leave OP's mother high and dry, THEN she wants to apologize for everything?
I would bet that Stephan would steal the money. However, I doubt OP's mom would apologize. I would even say she would take him back.
I was going to lean toward them trying to re-enter her life with some facade to gain money out of her achievement in the name of “family” because it became more successful.
@@LeondroEbell This story is most likely fake but let's pretend it's real. You wouldn't be wrong there. I'm sure they would pull the family card soon.
Most likely
Who wants to bet that the mother cut ties with the parental grandparents, and not the other way around?
Right that makes absolutely no sense
Lol, a classic case of "consequences of my actions".
The mom loved Stephen more than her own daughter. She made her choice and now has to live with the consequences of her actions.
Did she even love her kid at all?
Do your thing but don’t bring randoms around your kids until they are throughly vetted. Some people are just looking for access.
I'm going to need a little context cause right now I'm wondering if you mean people looking for cupcakes
@@boredboi6279some people target single mothers to have easy access to their kids
Power of getting D is strong with some wmen 😂😂😂
@@boredboi6279They mean some people just want to abuse kids
@@bazdog4464 damn what did kids do to them wait so they are people that will date mother's just to beat on their kids?
I hope OP has gone full NC again after buying them out.
Moved into an apartment after inheriting the house..?
Yup that's a clue this story is fake.
she could've sold or rented it out and didn't mention it.
Then purchased a failing business with a rich friend who is already busy in a completely different industry. This story is unbelievably fake or everyone involved is so unbelievably dumb that it's amazing they can survive by themselves.
Right? Makes no sense unless the house was dilapidated or something such as that.
Or op just wasn't ready yet to live there right after she lost her grandparents there. It happens, some people need a while to come to terms that the memories are just that, sometimes it takes years, sometimes only months. Everyone is different
If mom cared so much about grandparents legacy dhe wouldn't have handed it over to her deadbeat husband.
She didn't let the grandparents down, their daughter (the mother) let them down and couldn't just let her daughter handle the store that the mother didn't even want to deal with it in the first place... Stephan is just a sh**head and should have taken responsibility and admitted he couldn't handle it and give her the store. Luckily, she still got in the end, even though it had to go by other means to achieve it.
If I were OP, I would have agreed to help but in return I would want the entire ownership of the book store (the primary store at the very least)
If someone told me they were taking over a business and turn it into a franchise I would want to see the business plan. They are most likely in over their heads and delusional. I would want to see his qualifications for running a business as well. Joke of a human saying all that. OP's mom had trouble in her marriage and gave them a business. Dumb, and sadly I have known people that dense.
Never forget betrayal. I wouldn't have had anything to say to the woman if she told me that nonsense. The only thing I would want to hear from them is they were signing over the bookstore and offering up an apology.
It's painful to cut out family. But you have too sometimes. The fact they were throwing the grandparents in her face is just such a nasty thing.
Around 14:34 minutes you’ll come to realize the mother only cares about Op when money is involved, and that’s one of the reasons why Op cut contacts.
So, they couldn’t even pay back all of the money they already borrowed; how the heck were they going to pay back OP’s investment.
They didn’t want a loan; they want a gift.
What happened to the house she inherited fr her grandparents?
She moved into an apartment but inherited the house ? ...... hmmmmm AI missed a detail 😅
Mom has a potential waitress job lined up at the cafe after Stephen abandons her with his cut of the business she inherited
cant convince me that OPs mother wasnt assaulted, cant control someone like that on a verbal basis.
You clearly underestimate the power of manipulation and gaslighting, and how emotionally vulnerable people can easily fall prey to others...
@@DarkEinherjar im not but then you really think you cant control someone to that extent without any physical harm gaslighting only works to a certain extent but when theres physical harm that goes a long way.
@@DraxXThanosno. You can control people to that extent. Though it will require a lot of knoweldge
@@DraxXThanos Physical harm is only short term. When people are physically abused, they tend to be more closed off and make excuses for any apparent injuries. Mental abuse however is long term and causes way more damage going outward. Think of one as tnt and the other as a nuke or MOAB. Both can be devistating, but one will clearly take longer to recover from than the other. Mental abuse, by someone who has a true understanding of psychology and no morality can be devistating. It nearly ruined my relationship with my mother from a mentally abusive relationship she was in for years.
You'd be surprised. It starts off as little verbal digs, so slowly that you don't realise
Honest to god, I thought this man was gonna try to raise a stink and try to suggest he should be OP's friend's business partner instead. Would not have been surprising AT ALL
I must admit the mother in this story was completely in the wrong. but at least the consequence of her actions came to bite her back in her ass in a big way! Plus I highly doubt they will have a lot of money after the sale. since they do need to find new jobs and I don't think anybody would hire them because of what happened to their own business. but hey that's not the Ops problem.
Your a great person your grandparents would be proud of you to doing that, just remember the insurance in case of anything and keep her out of your life now cause you don’t need that toxicity in your life
First of all if anything your grandparents will be mad at her forgiving day business to a mooch he knew he only quit his job because he thought that bookstore business was going to stay flourishing only to lose it because of her stupid decision
For a grown women, why would she not suspect anything? After 7 years, suddenly asking around for your address and that after choosing her husband instead of her own child?
Hell nah, run
Damn...so the whole town went to "town" on her mom.
If we're taking a completely honest view of the situation with the advent of Amazon and stores like Barnes & Noble's even if OP took over the store it likely would've failed as well
I'm pretty sure the grandparents would actually be disappointed in their daughter for choosing a controlling con man over her daughter and not apologizing to her daughter.
Mom and her husband can loose it and then go behind and buy it. Go NC for your safety they will still think they will have a say on what you do no it. Good thans happen to good people and see the story find its way back to you
buy it urself
and laugh at there face plus make ur grandparents proud
today , with amazon and everythink try to make a chain of bookstore ?
that men is a genius lol
Why did she move into an apartment if she inherited her grandparents house?
Who would have thought - a vegetarian not ticking right
Stop thinking about your mom, she didn’t even think about you 🤡💀
They’re all insufferable
Basically everything that is like him is neutral? He literally thought that he is the normal and everything else is wrong or extreme
I would want nothing to do with it. I would have just laughed at her.
Steve was probably a decent guy
Ah deadbeats exposing themselves
A single mother going to live on her own is for her sexual independence, away from her parents. The wise and financial decision will be to stay put with the grandparents and save money.
Wow you already got it figured out. You’re so smart!
These are always w storyss keep it up
Wait- hang on why is OP so mad at Stephen? It doesn't even seem like he really... did anything? Like, other than being emotionally distant from his wife after they both lost a child, which like... is both fucked up but also understandable... like sure OP's mom SAID that she'd promised it to Stephen and Stephen... changed the decor in their home when OP was younger because he... now also lived there, I guess?
Like high key I just don't think I like who OP is supposed to be as a person in this one. I get that someone would want to be in on the bookstore that their grandparents ran and that their grandad said would go to them but like... if they cared so much about the bookstore that it meant enough to them that they would cut their mom out of their life over it... why not just... offer to work there and help? And then if you hated what Stephen and OP's mom would turn it into then they could... leave? IDK OP just seems really entitled and self-centered in this one, the only emotions/perspective they consider here are their own throughout and that makes it hard to like, agree with, or even believe that this is the whole story.
What happened to the house?
The book store would be saved if it was willed to OP
So why move into an apartment when you inherited your grandparents house it was such an important part of your childhood but you never brought it up and mentioned you went into an apartment
There are many reason why you should invest in a failing business. If it ended with you mom and her proxy still being in control, then it would have been a bad decision.
This story is fake af... but very entertaining, I like it.
“I’m a progressive woman myself and have casual flings”
That’s not progressive, that’s just being easy lol.
Beat me to it!
Flings do not imply easy sex. It just means they don't want to bother with serious relationships.
@@CreditR01 which is the definition of easy sex
You know not every fling ends with sex. I’ve had several flings and didn’t sleep with any of the men but everyone jumped to conclusions about it and started calling me names. You can’t assume you know exactly what is happening behind closed doors!
yeah I can vouch for these older women acting like batsh** crazy teenagers when they meet some guy.
Ai story, countless fluff and repetition.
Wait, didn't Op get the house ? Did they sell it ? (Speaking about the part where they said they moved in their own appartment)
What about the house?
That's what I'm saying
Buy the original bookstore?
So op buy the property that is already her!!!
Whats the store? I wana go there and try it out
Womp womp!
Lol, boomers. It's code. You can run it on any computer. What do you expect to do to stop it?
GOod
Too much unnecessary background.
OMG 😳😳
These vids are getting ridiculous. So many holes in the plot. Time to wasting my time listening to these made up crappy stories.
What is this game called In the back
I hate the stepdad
Yayy 1 min
YAT
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:() wow
I don't know, if we heard the same story? entitled brat cut out her mother of her live, because inhereting a home wasent't enough, she was clearly entitled to minimum 50% of the bookstore too. Who knows - but running a book store these days is a crazy buisness idea. she could have failed the same way he did. She had no right to the bookstore what so ever.
Main point of the story is that the Stepdad in this story was too controlling , mother did NOT cared about the child while bringing random men at home every other week, letting him be controlling , and in the end calling OP selfish for not helping them out even when they were the one with no experience , doing bad investments and borrowing money when they had no idea on how to run business and being uncertain if they could pay it back.
Your just as bad as your mom & dad by letting them back in to your life in any way.
In no way whatsoever is that true and OP isn't letting them back in her life. She's just buying them out to regain the family business.
If you mean letting the mom visit you don't seem to understand that children want their parents in their lives. That's why OP was hoping she was there to apologize and they could start rebuilding their relationship in a healthy manner now she wasn't subject to their rules. Shame OP's mom was only there for money.
she didnt just wanted to make money off the buisness so she was forced
Nope.
This story sounds Strange for some reason..... Well for a 12 years old... She really had Detailed view points of society and human behavior.
About the inheritance, Op received a house and her mother received the Bookstore...... I think Op shouldn't act like a Wise person and be content what she have.....
Ok but no.
I get the mother choosing to let the grown man to run the store over the teenage girl but up to that point the op sounded very entitled saying she deserved half the store
Fake af
This is written by a girl who had daddy issues and grew up seeing terrible men who used her mother only. That's sad. :(
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I am Joe bidet
@@PabloGomez-ch9bo real
She isn’t the a for not bailing out however, she is a little bit of an entitled princess for wanting both grandparents house and business then throwing a howdy fit when seemingly everything grandma and grandpa built didn’t go to her. Most grandkids get much less than the major asset when their grandparents pass so she should have enjoyed what she did get instead of moaning about what she didn’t get.
Real shit u not entitled to the book store
So , why then after everything went to shit with the book store it suddenly becomes her problem
@@kimanireid6111 it didn’t her mom asked for help… at the end of the day her grandparents left the mom the store she did as she pleased and failed I can understand the frustration but it was her store to do what she pleased… like how she was left the house it seems like she probably sold it would her mom have a claim to the house because she grew up there and wanted it from the daughter no
The miscarriage happened because mother was on a stupid cow diet. Child needs nourishment, not grass.
You can be healthy on a vegetarian diet aswell , main problem when switching to it is that they do it too suddenly.
There is a process that needs to be followed while doing that otherwise the negative effects are unavoidable. Human bodies can make 11 out of 20 amino acids , other 9 needs to be taken as supplements which can be done by including soybean products, seitan, beans, and lentils.
Calling it "stupid cow diet" or "grass" is kind of a inaccurate and weird simplification.
@@dragonslayernightcore1852 Which is precisely why that diet is shit. It's a lot harder to be healthy and very easy to screw it up. It is even more difficult, when you have higher nutrition needs due to being physically active, growing or being pregnant.
@arhael3594 Tell me that you dont know anything about vegetarian diet, without telling me that you dont know anything about vegetarian diet.
Your whole point is that vegetarianism is shit when you are the one who dont know anything about it
You are saying that it's hard? So is the other diet , if your main point is being "healthy" then you defo ain't gonna pop random junk in your mouth.
Animal products contain saturated fat and higher levels of cholesterol than sources of plant protein. Fiber is another important factor. Only plant-based foods contain fiber, which helps to keep the digestive system balanced.
@@dragonslayernightcore1852
Oh, the irony.
First, saturated bad and cholesterol are not bad, you are relying on outdated information, which has been proven wrong over a decade ago. Both are vital to your body.
Second, your fiber point is moot, I never said to not eat vegetables, you are strawmanning.
Third, educate yourself:
***ps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10027313/
***ps://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31991425/
***ps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2912628/
***ps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Malnutrition_in_India
***ps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7269725/
@@dragonslayernightcore1852
Oh, the irony.
First, the myth of saturated fat and cholesterol being bad has been debunked like a decade ago, but you still perpetuate both.
PMC9794145 (Googlle the number, links can't be posted.)
Second, your point about fibre is strawman, I never said not to eat vegetables.
Finally, educate yourself:
PMC10027313
31991425
PMC2912628
Malnutrition_in_India(wiki)
PMC7269725
First again fam