How to Deal with Rejection and Heartbreak

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  • čas přidán 14. 07. 2023
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Komentáře • 26

  • @nerizehenning
    @nerizehenning Před 11 měsíci +6

    Thank you so much for sharing this video. I was rejected last year December when my boyfriend broke up with me. One thing I knew is that I needed to stay busy and surround myself around a Christian community and I did it. In the process I made new friends and the right people came into my life. As I look back I still have some moments feeling sad, but I keep on reminding myself that God sees the bigger picture and that His ways are higher than my ways.
    My relationship with the Lord grew tremendously and I learned to only depend and rely on Him.
    Sadie, a few weeks ago I also watched your first video about rejection and thank you so much for sharing. It really encouraged me to keep on pushing through the hard times. May God bless you.
    Kind greetings
    Nerize ❤

  • @Jaee450
    @Jaee450 Před 11 měsíci +2

    This was very beautiful and extremely encouraging. About 4 months ago, the Lord led me to end a 5 year relationship with someone I was engaged with, and a month later my brother passed away, and it has been the hardest time of my life. I’ve been so crushed and feeling defeated and far from God. I’ve stumbled upon your guys’s content and it has been very encouraging. Not because I’m holding onto hope of finding “the one” but because I can now see that there are better days ahead with the Lord, and that there is a place in Him where I will be content with just Him and have joy again. Thank you guys very much, God bless you! ❤

  • @colinodriscoll_youtube
    @colinodriscoll_youtube Před rokem +5

    I absolutely LOVED that cute smile you both shared at the beginning of the video when you said you are out of it now! (And BTW “Bless You” Sam)

  • @Daniellethedaisy
    @Daniellethedaisy Před rokem +6

    I really needed to hear this being rejected has been very hard for me😢 I’m trying my best to believe God has someone for me. That will appreciate me.

    • @glenn4198
      @glenn4198 Před 10 měsíci

      I’m available 😊

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Před 5 měsíci

      Why wouldn't the Lord have a great man for you? There is warfare against marriage these last days. The brothers are hesitant to marry. Be it fear, porn, toxic feminism. It's spiritual. Pray the men heal and step up to marrying the sisters.

  • @PromisesBelieved
    @PromisesBelieved Před 11 měsíci +2

    Oh. My. Gosh! I needed this video today. I'm going through a heartbreak, but it's not really a heartbreak?? It's more like a separation, but it still feels like a heartbreak? There is still hope for the situation but still. This is honestly the most unique situation I have ever been in I mean!!! I'm not going into the details because it's SUCH a long story. But over the past week and a half I have been in my PJs and just sleeping almost sixteen hours. Monday was the first day I was out of bed, in normal clothes, praying all day long about the situation and just leaning on Jesus! You are right about getting through things with a smile on you're face and I am trying my best to do that now! I have loved your videos for a while now and they are so helpful! So thank you for this one today!

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Před 11 měsíci +1

      We are so so sorry to hear you are going through such a difficult time. You will be in our prayers. Please let us know if there’s a specific way we can be praying for you or encourage you.
      Psalm 34:18 ♥️

    • @PromisesBelieved
      @PromisesBelieved Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@samandsadie Thank you! That means alot!

  • @davidt01
    @davidt01 Před rokem +2

    Thanks, I needed this today.

  • @carsynlee1147
    @carsynlee1147 Před rokem +2

    Wow, I am going through this all right now and have definitely been stuck in the “woe is me” mindset recently. This video was SO needed and truly helpful and inspiring to get out of the rut and refocus on my identity in God. You guys also had me laughing so much throughout this video haha! Thank you guys!!

  • @midnightclearschannel8344
    @midnightclearschannel8344 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much for teaching me about the woe is me attitude. I needed that very much. God bless you!

  • @celesteessel4500
    @celesteessel4500 Před 11 měsíci +1

    12:49 I was battling being super shy toooooo this is so helpful rn

  • @cardrescott
    @cardrescott Před 11 měsíci +1

    I have been carrying around the attitude that after my heartbreak and being friend zoned that maybe I was meant to be alone, I also realized that god protect me to realize who I am in Christ and be better

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Celibacy is not something the Lord advocates in His word. Abstinence, yes. A lifetime of no marriage..no. Ask the Lord to break soul ties and heartache .

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 Před 5 měsíci

    Sam piggybacks alot! Keekee. Love you both!

  • @Amy-Westbeld
    @Amy-Westbeld Před rokem +1

    I enjoyed watching this! I have had my own heartbreaks but I have learned from these heartbreaks, I know God has someone out there for me and I know He has a plan for me. I used to be really shy too, I am still a little bit shy though. I didn’t even want to be married but now that I can have conversations again since getting right and left sided cochlear implants. My Dad goes by Bob.

  • @rectify2003
    @rectify2003 Před 7 měsíci

    Bless you Both 🙏❤️
    I Love your Puppy, please please show him on camera
    Dogs lift mood 🐶❤️
    When they have done brain scans of people with heartbreak, many areas light up differently

  • @celesteessel4500
    @celesteessel4500 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Ive been through heartbreak esp in friendships .. and it has scared me off from making connections with people but Jesus has been my true security and He is helping to make me bold. So if I go through more heartbreaks, i know it’ll be alright :) be strong y’all, and try not to take it personal - and 2:27 my suggestion is to not fantasize and just keep your eyes on God

  • @SrFlipsAlot
    @SrFlipsAlot Před rokem +2

    I’ve been through what seems to be an unending stream of heartbreak. I feel incompetent and unwanted. It seems like God just wants me to give up and he’s trying to get me to. I know it’s not true. I know the truth. I’m just tired. My Lord Jesus is all I have, and I know my thoughts condemning me is not from Him. He is greater than my heart. But I can’t see a path forward. After the last hard breakup, I’m so discouraged. I find myself pushing people away before they can do so to me. I’m not in a place to date, it seems, but I’m so lonely and scared to live alone all my days. I have my Jesus, and I want Him to be enough. No idol should be in His place, including a relationship. But the thought of being alone hurts. And because I’m pushing people away, it seems doubly bleak. I sabotage my very desires out of fear. Pray for my heart. Pray I lean on the righteousness of my Lord Jesus, submit to my Lord Father, and live through my Lord Holy Spirit. Pray I live not for my will but God’s. And please pray that no matter what He wants, I find peace and joy in Him.

    • @michaelsandy6963
      @michaelsandy6963 Před 11 měsíci

      Trusting in God's plan as seen in Romans 8:28 and finding my hope in heaven and not in this life has really been helpful for me. Even if life doesn't go the way I want it to go, heaven is going to be far greater than anything this life has to offer. There's so much joy and peace and hope when you come to that conclusion. And you find that Christ is satisfying and that you don't have to feel lonely anymore because you don't need anyone else in this life other than Christ. Praying for you.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Před 5 měsíci

      God can and will heal your heart. Don't self sabatoge. Bind that spirit. Bind soul ties acquired thru sex. Bind fear. Be your best self. Get in Bible group.

  • @divreenable
    @divreenable Před rokem +1

    I think we shouldn’t already imagine our life at any point in time because god is the author, I also wanna say from experience that a lot of people cling to relationships that are not meant for them and it really keeps you from growing and finding your true self, I found so many things I enjoyed doing that I wouldn’t let myself do when I left the relationship that I was in

  • @timhigham4470
    @timhigham4470 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I really enjoy your videos. I believe rejection is one of the toughest thing to deal with. Being shy makes it even tougher; as you already have insecurities. I'm happy you both found each other. Sam, out of curiosity, do you have some Greek or Italian ethnicity? God Bless you both.

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Thanks for the encouragement and comment Tim!! I have a lot of Australian blood, some Jewish, Latvian, and some other stuff haha. I’m tan right now so I think my Latvian is coming through 😂

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@samandsadieRejection is a part of life. Jesus was rejected and it didn't stop him.