Heartbreak, how do you stop heartache pain from the root up

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  • čas přidán 3. 02. 2022
  • Everyone or at least most of us, will sooner or later encounter heartbreak or a broken heart as we know it.And it is said that to fix a broken heart or heartache, we need time and social support.And although these might be very valuable, time and social support don’t actually touch the root cause, the root cause why heartache hurts so much, even physically at the core.But only when we know the actual root cause or core of a symptom like heart ache, a broken heart or emotional pain, we can heal the root together with its symptoms once and for all.Heartache hurts.And because heartache hurts in relation to another, we believe the other made us feel this way.
    But the truth is, the pain we feel, only reveals already existing pain, which surfaces when we are not distracted anymore by the other.So when the heartache or the pain already existed inside of us,
    And the abandonment or separation only brought our already existing pain to the surface,
    We can truly start healing heartache pain, where it already existed inside of us.Simply put, when we experience heartache or pain after separation, it is like a bandage that is taken away, making the existing wound visible.Now of course we can try to replace the bandage with another partner, to distract ourselves again from our existing pain. But do you think we can ever truly heal, if we keep numbing our existing pain, with distraction by another?Although it may not seem that way, heartache is actually a great opportunity or dooropening, towards stopping heartache at the very core once and for all, and towards becoming a true magnet for true connection or love.The good news is, your heart was never truly broken.It is still untouched and unharmed.To show you, I made the following animation for you.
    #heartbreak
    #heartache
    #brokenheart
    #pain
    #suffering

Komentáře • 28

  • @hu4ngming
    @hu4ngming Před 2 lety +11

    So actually breakups are good cuz the fake and superficial bandages are removed, and hence we can see our own pain and walls around our abundant hearts.. then we are aware and can come to terms with ourselves

  • @gingercelest5776
    @gingercelest5776 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you everything you have said is true and very inspiring. I appreciate you very much. I hope all is well with you and yours. Thanks again

  • @ginahess4504
    @ginahess4504 Před 2 lety

    Good insight

  • @talib8388
    @talib8388 Před rokem +3

    You have basically explained the fundamental principles of being stuck in the cycle of Samsara, of aversion, of moving away from pain and clinging on to pleasure. What we must discover is the unconditional Metta. This isn't criticism I was just curious if you knew you were talking about the fundamental teachings of the Buddha, I enjoyed the personable approach in this video I will be watching more of your videos as they seem more appropriate for me right now.

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 9 měsíci

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  • @nikolaygrozdanov4903
    @nikolaygrozdanov4903 Před rokem +3

    Sorry but what happens when you don’t have bandages but your heartache is coming from actually loving the person for what they are and finding them perfect but you made a mistake and poof they are gone?

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 10 měsíci

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  • @maxinevanvour3415
    @maxinevanvour3415 Před rokem +1

    Your vedio is Very helpful for me to understand why i feel this painful heartbreak👍 really i was searching this kind of explanation and 100% now i understand thank you.

  • @user-co2ee4ix9j
    @user-co2ee4ix9j Před rokem

    Thank you 😊🙏

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 9 měsíci

      Thank you for your kind words! 🙏 If you feel the need to gain more insights please feel free to visit alive-academy.com to watch the 4 free video's. Good luck! 🍀

  • @danab.qahoushcertifiedreco9077

    The animations are helpful Nice work

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 7 měsíci

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  • @wheretonext1158
    @wheretonext1158 Před 2 lety

    At this point Tom you have become a master or a Buddha, you have the power to take it a step further. I don't know if you know how to put your finger on someone's forehead and enlighten them 😅 but that seems the only step left until you can do that 🌊
    Love bro

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 7 měsíci

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  • @Gemisnotmyname
    @Gemisnotmyname Před 2 lety +1

    I love the dutch accent😍

  • @LinusGeijer-gy8nt
    @LinusGeijer-gy8nt Před rokem

    have tried to sit with my pain, feel it, acknowledge it.. and release it… about 100 times! Its been 3 years by now, and Im still in pain!! The pain of betrayal is an another level of pain… I have gone through life with all kind of traumas, severe abuse, sexual abuse as a child, divorces, domestic violence for many many years, tried to commit suicide a few times…. but, Ive made i throuhg with my head held high! Then I met this person… I fell deeply in love, it was a kind of twin flame story…. soul to soul relationship! ..but down the road Ive found out that the person lied to me, and used me, as a bandage, as a rebound, as a placeholder.. and for money! It was not the love, it was the betrayal that broke me totally!! I cant get over it! But, deep down i still love the person very much… but the betrayal is killing me…. what to do?

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před rokem

      Hi, I understand. What you can do is find your independently fulfilled blank slate within your core that lies underneath your self-protection mechanisms. This way, you will liberate your light independent of the darkness around you. I suggest watching the free videos @ www.alive-academy.com about breaking free from the root up. Enjoy your independent liberation process! I know you can! 🍀👍❤️💎

    • @LauraPaglari
      @LauraPaglari Před 9 měsíci +1

      Hi ❤...how are you today?

    • @LinusGeijer-gy8nt
      @LinusGeijer-gy8nt Před 9 měsíci +6

      @@LauraPaglari hi! I must say that Im over it almost 100%! Im doing fine, no attachments, no grief, no pain… just a lesson and a memory!

  • @zainulabdin1720
    @zainulabdin1720 Před rokem +1

    How can we heal heartache ?

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 9 měsíci

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  • @user-fy3gx3ii5z
    @user-fy3gx3ii5z Před 7 měsíci

    My heart aches so bad i feel like ending my life

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 7 měsíci

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    • @yutaidk
      @yutaidk Před 6 měsíci

      are u ok rn?

    • @andytan3606
      @andytan3606 Před 5 měsíci

      Me too few weeks ago. Heartbroken sucks

  • @pardist
    @pardist Před rokem

    Just say you are not interested but don't hurt people. X

    • @alive-academy
      @alive-academy  Před 10 měsíci

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