How To Handle A Breakup? Gaur Gopal Das
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- Going through a heartbreak can cause intense anguish and emotional pain. Gaur Gopal Das offers 3 steps to deal with a troubled relationship.
About Gaur Gopal Das
Gaur Gopal Das is an Electrical Engineer, having studied at the College Of Engineering, Pune. He has been speaking at various prestigious academic institutions and corporate firms in India and abroad for over 2 decades and has even spoken at the United Nations & British Parliament. He has spoken at many charity events to raise funds for social initiatives in the field of education and rural development. His motivational videos are viral having reached around 1 Billion views. With over 13 million followers across all social media platforms, he is known as the urban, online monk.
He has been the recipient of several awards including the most prestigious Dadasaheb Phalke International Film Festival award, Lokmat’s most stylish international life coach award, an Honorary Doctorate by KIIT university and many more in recognition of the work he has been doing. Based on the timeless wisdom coming down from ages, his talks make the audience think deeper and find simple solutions to difficult problems.
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Its not about breakups we have gone thru, Its about the memory which we have spent together hurts more & more
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate🥰🥰
Exactly true bhai
Recently I encounter under the breakup but I can't control ☹️😭
True that memory hurt most ..... 😭😭😭
Or use vi Jayda JB us insaano ko apki kisi chizo se koi fark ni padta .... Ap mar gye khush ho ..... Vo bindasss hh ..... Isse trigger hone ke bad suicidal thoughts ate hh nd man krta hh krne
Nothing hurts more than seeing your loved one is lossing interest in you🥀
True
😢
Yep😢
So so true. It's killing
Its painfull😢😢
Bhagwat Geeta says : Nothing is permanent 😊✨
Keep Patience 🙏
Radhe Radhe 🌸
Radhey Radhey❤
"Today's Breakup is Much Better then future Divorce or Chait "
True
@@akritisadotra2531 😊
Bitter truth bro
Divorce naam sunke insaan toot jata hai log divorce lete kaise honge
@@manasoni7485 break up is also divorce which attachment without court
“Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.”
― Mark Twain
@@shonal. difficult but not impossible
I wish i read this before.
Guess what i did and I'm paying for it
How could we know that she is a cheater ?????
I have taken it serious 😭😭😭😭
Not impossible but what should do when priority changes by the time and then later you become their option
It took me precious 5 years to overcome the truma and depression due to breakup,that years were most worst and life threatening...may Allah save every one from these situations....
I’m so hurt and torn. I keep replaying the last time I saw her and she let me go like it was nothing
@@livenow13 same thing happens with me too 💔😭
Break ups deepwounds,but that is not the end, many need our help👍
I'm happy to see that still there is karma and humanity existance
@@mr.prathamjadhav5790 what do you mean by karma in this aspect sir?
I felt im the only one going through the trauma of break up. But when I came here, I figured out there are myriads of people going through the same disaster. Im not alone in the journey. We are all in this together. But it is so difficult to heal.
same journey man gong through
Yeah. That's what I felt too.
Breakups are difficult to deal with. It takes time to heal moving on from someone you were so close to. It's okay to give yourself the time to heal and time to process. If life can remove someone you never thought of losing, it can replace someone you never dreamt of having🙂
Nice thoughts buddy !
Thank you
Had a breakup from 8.5 years of relationship 🙌 Still fighting with all the emotions from past 6 months. I know it will take time indeed it will make me stronger one day or other . ✨
Same!
I don't know you but I love you sir! As a fellow human being.. Take care sir
Same here brother after 8 years
How to overcome this ....becoz I really don't want this feeling ....it will destroy my career day by day.
@@civilian2298 same man.
There was a time when my best frnd was dealing with this breakup issues. I was that one person whom he come up and ask for support in order to come out of all these as said in this video. I supported him as much as I could then he said that he loves me and want me for the rest of his life. I was so emotionally attached with that person so I couldn't live without talking to him that's why I decided to go with what he want. As we were best frnds according to me I thought he is the one whom I can live with rest of my life...
And then guess what he cheated on me and now I'm dealing with this issue for which I supported him. And most importantly he had me for dealing with it but I have no one.
But it's ok. I think that time I did Wht I thought was ryt. I supported him. Now I'll support me.. I'll become strong.. I'll come back soon with a better version of me...
I think I'll become much better after that and also get someone much better who deserves me 🙂
Edit : Hey!! Hope you all r doing great. Many of you have asked me how I'm now.. so I'm here to tell u all that I'm good now and I think much more than the older me bcz I started loving myself.. Till 1.5 years back I was looking for someone to love me but now I realized how much it is needed to love myself..
And to the ones who find my story relatable, I'm here to suggest u that it might happen that the same person who hurts u come back to u after he realized what he loose.. but dear plz don't give urself same pain again even if ur heart wants to go back to him/her just don't go u r strong.. you have survived till yet u will survive afterwards also..but plz don't let yourself break again..
In my case also he came and not only one time he keeps on coming and i think he will try in future also.. He wants me to come back and if not then he wants to destroy my peace he don't want me to leave happily..he don't want someone to come in my life nd he told it by his own mouth..
But I know my worth now..also I know that I deserve the best.. just think if we can love wrong person that much how will we love when a ryt person will come in our life..
Much Love to all of uhh..❤
How this is possible ?? ... Why he cheated you although it's you who supported him ??😳
@@knchnsingh5392 How this is possible ?? What happen ?What is the reason ??
Same here 💔
very beautiful line by telling "I will support me"
Girl..You have conveyed my story I can totally relate to each and every point this is the whole situation I'm facing every single thing..I hope we both will come out of this one day.wish you luck😊
Saying to my self
I've come alone into this world.... And I will leave the same. Everything in between stays in between. It's ok to be betrayed, it's ok to be cheated upon, it's ok to feel the pain, it's ok to cry, it's ok to feel alone. All that matters is ME. I am my saviour, I am my medicine, and there's nothing more important than my self respect and me being my self. Kudos to everyone who have had the hard time of staying away from your dearest one's, who have been living with still some breath and confidence inside you. You are all soldier's. A soldier's life is worth Living💜💜
@Amazing World just began.... I'm sure yours yet to start
It's so beautiful to love oneself.. nobody will understand you but when your heart your mind understand you ..then no need of anyone ❤️
Thanks dear.... unable to bear the pain of separation wo bhi out of sudden.. put everything to almighty let's see why kept in his kitty
Hii Ganesh can we talk...I liked your comment...mujhe lgta hai tum is phase se guzar chuke ho to sayd mujhe kuch bta sko...qk ye mere liye ekdm nyi feeling hai or bahut hi jyada bhyank hai so I wish uhh understand me....plz reply brother I'm waiting 🙏
One of the best break up advices I have ever heard is from Jim Sarbh when he was asked about how he deals with heart breaks and he said that “we suffer, is as simple as that”
So all you wonderful men out there, accept that we have to suffer and accept that it’s more difficult and time taking for us. I am still recovering and relapsing from a 4.5 years of relationship, it will be almost a year now. Don’t blame yourself, don’t go back to things that you have not done right or your mind now says you could have done differently. Jo hota hai ache k liye hota hai. You will be fine, you don’t know what you are capable of.
"Move on! You're not a tree" :)
Wow
That's the problem my dear , we're not trees, we feel and have the thinking ability . the greatest gift maybe sometimes greatest curse .
@@kiingshreyash yes bro.. 😊
@@varshamishra3340 by 2.
@@VISHALKUMAR-wk2ko what do you mean??
So true , I have tears right now, because now I know, I am on the right path
Why dear what happened to you
Same here
@@abhaynathdubey5432 The video is on break up so it's obvious!
Be strong my friend, there is only one person who give you power and courage for fight with your own emotions and thinking.........And it's you yourself, try to find out
All the best.....💖
This too shall pass
4 year of serious relationship gave my 110% and now suddenly everything is gone...she said that a guy she met online 10 days before our breakup..he treated her well better than me.... I was so broken that I gave all my trust and everything in last 4 year and now a random guy come and she got bored with me..... message to every single out there...don't date a person for fun don't play with someone feeling....for me it's very hard to even breath...but it's life lets focus on career
Karma is waiting for her 🙂🙂
Same here brother .. females like her dont deserve true partner but playboys .so you are lucky ,temporary pain is better than permanent pain..
@@roshanchaudhary3390 karma does not work for a girl because uske paas itne options hote hai ki usey iss baat se fark hi nahi padega ,aaj tumhara gala kaategi ,kal kisi aur ka , Karma is a bitch doesn't work for girl
@@nitishsharma6503 thats true ldkiyo k paas options hote h jab ldko k sath aisa hota h they think k ab koi nhi milegi par ldkiyo k sath aisa nhi h ek jaane se pehle 4 or nye khade milte h tbh when any girl is not happy with her boyfriend or wo tumse share kare sab k sab usko bolne lagoge you dont deserve it you deserve the best or jab kisi ldke k sath aisa ho uske dost usko gaali deke samjhaate h kya faltu soch rha h ldkiyo ko male lonliness ka koi idea nhi h
@@Shubhhh129 i just want to say that all the time girls are not wrong . I can understand each and every thing. Sometime boys cheat with girls sometimes girl do that . I am not supporting anyone but i just wanna say that when girls is serious there. boys are not serious.where boys are serious girl' not .there are 50% girls who are honest same 50% of boys are true or honest but unfortunately they met to them who are not actually humble honest..
Don't be in relationship
Wait for the right time and do marriage 🙏🏻
We are facing same problem in married life too
@@sulochanamani7904 Every individual has their own mindset if you both are living together definitely there will be some conflict but if you everytime solve that problem togather,have conversation,put both of your ego aside than you'll definitely create happy & meaningful life
@@pranjalparmar2504 not true....my fiance left me after 8 months. Everything was nice.we did not find.i was suffering from fever n he left me during that time..now i want to commit suicide..this vidso is not helping me
@@timepassdhillon3433 don't do such thing
Suicide is not solution
You have to fight for it
In few case it happens But I know you'll short out everything
@@pranjalparmar2504 tried to sort out..bt he blocked me...left with no option
“Be the reason someone smiles. Be the reason someone feels loved and believes in the goodness in people.”
― Roy T. Bennett
Bro we tried as much as we could but we are only human and humans make mistakes . Once let down , the grief , remorse and pain doesn't let you stay quiet like Karan in Mahabharata you forget the best of your knowledge and become a.child ..and over react .
Don't be Hard on yourself
. Forgive yourself and let go ..!!
@@anirudhsingh1706its very hard to forget
plzz help me I cant move on plz
“Anger, resentment and jealousy doesn't change the heart of others-- it only changes yours.”
― Shannon Alder
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7 years of togetherness, 7 years of commitment, 7 years of every party of that relationship gone in a flick
But the show must go on,
life is bad movie
It's up to you whether you want to learn from it or pick positive aspects and enjoy as it is, or you want to leave early.
Touched bro..
Life isn’t a bad movie. Its your life and you are the writer of this story. Stay strong and good things will happen to you sir🌸❤️
Same
Same here but not 7 years .it is 14 years
5 years of relationship,now 2 years since breakup,still in those memories! couldn't move on.
Had a breakup from almost 9 years of relationship just after that I lost my brother . One thing I have realised lately that it's okay to feel down and go through all the pain, don't fight with your emotions , just let them go , the more you fight the more you are distracting yourself of what's next . Trust me healing is a process and it is extremely important to not loose yourself just to make something out of your life , because you are your biggest project.
Hmm😞
😔😞
Take care buddy 🥺
@@Shalini-kq2hvyes it feels so bad when ur loved ones looses interest in u
Sach m yar jab aapki life m se koi bahut imp insan chod k gya ho sudden y ho jata to kitna hurt hota feeling these days 😢
I wish my friend saw this video before taking her life 😭🥺
people should open up and speak
i have one of ur friend kind
Very sad
May she rest in peace 🙏
Feeling sorry. Rest jn peace😊
Feeling same yr cheated by partner I try to run away from problem I try to keep busy my self
One and a half year ago she leaves me, it was a perfect break up but still it's hurts somewhere....
Same i can't forgot her😔
We all are jst products with price tags bro. Plz keep focussing on increasing yoir price. World is brutal.. Cope with hardness.
मेरे दोस्तो आप का कोई मूल्य नहीं है आप अनमोल हो बस अपनी वैल्यू खुद जानो, जो हुआ वो अच्छा हुआ ये मैं अपने अनुबभ से कह सकता हूँ
#Arpitmotivations
आप चाहो तो ये जान सकते हो के acche लोगो के साथ बुरा क्यों होता hai
@@pujaghosh8506 yesss👍
All the best for your future
4 years of togetherness,and she left me like I was nothing ,I didn't even have a chance to explain myself
Talking to a close friend really helps... Its like releasing the built up pressure.. Also, try to face the pain.. Running from it just makes you more insecure.. And always remember... This too shall pass.. Good things are still awaiting you in your life... ❤️
He broken my heart,After 6 years of relationship.After so many years, how does anyone not love anyone????😑 he totally destroyed my heart.I'm depressed i need to grow up , i need positive energy.thanks to you guruji.
Well a girl left me after 8 years of relationship...i did everything i could for her...she let me for the reason that i am not doing anything in life (currently jobless).
@@proudindian9140 smjh nhi ata kisi k liye itna kx krne k bad, last m y ku suune ko milta ki tum mere liye kx nhi krte ya tum mujhse pyaar nhi krte. It's shame less guys.isse acha tum phle hi ruk jao.
@@Kidi2422 love is all about personal needs
Same here 💔😞
It took me 3 long years... I have forgiven myself and even her
I hope one day she will understand the value of my tears..... and will be too late
Never bro don't wst ur time......
It will never happen... The more u will cry for her /him ... They will feel irritates from u..
So good toove on.. good luck 👍👍
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Pros will never understand it. Only money matters to her
Worst part of a breakup is feeling equally alone dejected and miserable.. some people gets easily out from this and some people take lots of time to move on and in this positive energy is lost!!
He is so calm and his advice is so practical, sensitive and spot on. Thank you!
It is not required to be in a relationship and then face a break up in order to understand his point ♥️ Just link it up with whatever you are facing and everything will be crystal clear infront of you all.
👍🏼
@@deepdhangarfervormanagemen2503 u
Right
You cannot link up some things just right away Mam... Unless we don't fall in it once.... We don't get the truth of life, right..... I think everyone should have this experience... So that we learn ki no one is going to be with you FOREVER..... Peace ✌✌
@@animabanerjee9606 ?
_The first person I've found who's voice is really relaxing and soothing_
We admit that we're happy for the life they chose wen they leave. But deep inside we know it just shatters ur heart. Bcz it becomes hard to even think bout ur future in which that person would not exist anymore
Very true...life is nthg without them ..
Sir whenever...I see reels,songs she used to share before...I feel breathless...and brain stop working...I cry like crazy
Self Help books, Ted Talks and your Speeches will make you live positively and Happy
Move on , You are not a tree ..This line 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Hope we all heal someday❤.
And the views on this video tells how we Indians are so emotional when it comes for the person whom we are attached so much and later relationship get affected . 💔❤️
Already Thanking you Gopalji ...❤️ I needed it...
After seeing so many people depressed just because of their relationships and all I have decided I am not going to develop the feeling of love in my heart .
I am gonna live forever single and I think that is best
I have seen people after their breakups or when they are in relationship also they go through soo many fights and all.
I am just scared of breakups so I don't want relationships in my life.
same high five🖐
Right decision !!
Coz even if you sure that you're not going to breakup with your partner at any cost,(we people can only control ourselves emotions, decisions,etc..not others..) either you don't know maybe your partner can move on !!
So yrr yahi shi rehta hai single rehna hi....
koi kitna v bole na ki i didn't ever give up on you blahh blahh...humlog bas khud ko hi jaan sakte ki haa main nhi give up krne wala...kitna v worst ho jaye to v chorne wala nhii(serious relationship ki baat kr rha)(except the case of cheating)...but partner ko koi nhi jaan skta yrr wo hi kahi chor jaye...tang aa kar ya jo v...
So iske alawa ye v best option ho skta ki tum v apne future k liye achha kro hum v krte hai!!! haan agar jab tum v giveup krne ka nhi soche to shadi krna tab baat maneinge tab tak k liye career focused dono rehte hai ye dhyaan m rakhte huye ki i am giving ourselves someone special...and the same by your partner....
Aisa v kr skte !!!
But ek cons hai iska ki you have to control yourself and partner ko v control krna hoga sab cheej s
.emotion...baat krne ki aadat..and wo sari cheej jo shadi k pahle tumhare career m badha de...yahi s saaf ho jayega agar sach m samne wala giveup krne wala nhi hoga he/she understands your views and gives the space for self development for future...
We don't choose when and for whom do we fall for.
@@rushikeshpasalkar3057 ab toh single hee rehna hain yaar........
same
This is so powerful! We refuse to acknowledge our brief and pour our heart out
Imperfections are beautiful. That touched my heart.
I went through the same steps as you said in exact same way consequently and I really feel happy now and specially I'm glad to have someone with whom I can share my emotions and she's still trustworthy.
Phir se ktega
In this teen age my first break up made me so depressed but thanks to this video which atleast didn''t made me take away my life and just give up on pains and hardships
How are you now?.
@@pranabpranav4214 I am better now thank u so much for asking.
This speech or take as a advice really gives some positive energy and helps in healing youself faster...
Do not be afraid to walk alone if necessary, because on a tight rope we all walk alone. that's the truth I am following now
I think whenever someone in our friend circle go through such break up phase..We should make them watch this video 👍👍
Akanksha here, a fellow You tuber 🙏
Thank you so much for your words.
Hello I really like to know more about you
Simple the practical thing, my mother told me the same thing and helped me a lot and this man always gives us positive energy.
Yes ..its about memories we made together not going apart
I couldn't understand how valuable these words are.. Until I got my heartbreak..
His words just soothed my heart.
Ya ur absolutely right once I felt that I can't recover but things change with time and I believe on you ❤️
You get hurt because you were getting pleasure from that person. You are addicted to that person. Attachment to opposite sex is as addicted as cocaine. When suddenly the cocaine is not available, the person goes crazy.
So, you don't own that person at first. You are just in relationship by coincidence with him/her. That person has freedom to chose someone else over you. All relationship are meant to end one day. Either by breakup, divorce or death separated them in the end. So, don't expect your relationship to last longer. Enjoy the company of that person as long as you are in a relationship. If it ends, let it be. Because it was supposed to end anyhow. Clinging onto a person will only make life worse. Not accepting the loss will traumatize you. Just let it be so.
so if a person suddenly wants to go without any reason , just by saying that he/she feels bore now ,what to do , what if only one person wants to leave and breakup but the other person didn't want this?
@@nitishsharma6503 Though you should first try to fix the issues in relationship. But, if she/he is determined to leave you, you can't do anything. Love can not be forced. Respect her/his choice and move on. Learning the skill of moving on will help you a lot in life.
Gaur ji i just wanna hug you and cry!
Happy to hear this guruji.. i'm the one making my self strong.. i already done 2 steps what u said, i'm right on 3rd step which i want to do.. Yes i took much time to recover myself, bt now i'm enjoying company of myself.. i'm getting hope fr a bright future...☺️☺️ Thank you..
I really need someone who will love me for who i am 🙂
Who are you.... Make that clear first.
Wow.. I love how the conversation is going.. simple and calming😊 Thankyou😊🥰
I healed myself the same way don't know how but I am blessed to have a friend in my life with whom I can share any of my emotions..
Superb! I am a doctor by profession and i can say gaur gopal das sir has tremendous knowledge of counseling ♥️his knowledge knows no boundaries!
Lots of love sir ❤️
plzz help me I cant move on plz
Thank you. I have everything in life but these memories periodically bang my head against the wall. Tears start rolling and psychological faculties start overpowering me. Thank you again.
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Going to third step really takes time a d courage!! There will be moments when you feel depressed again in spite of knowing your self but all you can do is gather yourself again and just be patient with yourself and time will heal everything. Soon you will find yourself on the third step.
Fighting negative emotions takes a lot of energy which could be used to fight the actual problems and negativity also takes a lot of positive energy from us
This was beautiful and really motivating. His voice is a motivation in itself. Respect
Thank you 😀 needed this right now
Healing time is almost a year.
And yess... it's important to accpet the things.
It was like, I'm collapsing form a hill and begging for my life holding a thorny plant, which is actually hurting me the most.
And when i released that plant, i freed up myself.
And now feeling calm and inner peace.
Bht hi ache se express kiya. Holding on is equally painful just as letting go. And here falling off the cliff is easy than bearing the pain of holding onto a thorny plant just bcz that thorny plant was yours in the past
Exactly
Acceptance of negative emotions, accepting that you have it is the first step towards dealing with it.😀😀..Never thought it that way.Thank you guruji🙏🙏
So many people needed this content 🙃😊
so True,Now am trying to accept the reality.
thank you sir
You are amazing... Every word of yours is like a word from God directly...🙏
Thank you so much in advance for making a video on such topic I needed it from you guruji ❤️🙏🏻
Your words were found and I ate them
And your word became to me
The gladness and joy of my ❤️💜❤️💜
No one should ever go through a breakup. There will always be some part of you that will never get over it. It's like a life long scar embedded deep inside which can neither be shown to anyone nor can you face it yourself.
TRUE
Thank You for spreading Knowledge 🙏🏻😊
Also I read your book, it is an amazing journey !
Gopal ji you really have my respect Sir❤️!Frankly speaking; i am not much a spiritual type of person but his way of going through things and discussing them is itself very calm and soothing besides the ways he preach.
Read his book also. LOVED IT!
"It's so much easier to go than face all this pain here all alone"
I really lost myself in loving someone who didn't realise my worth. Being self-centered she made everything work on her conditions n later made me feel that I lacked understanding n m childish. I really felt pain in my heart, the pain of letting her disrespect me, making myself needy, n acting like nothing was wrong in her it's only my overthinking. But eventually I realised I was my own enemy, I was so crazy in love that I forgot to love my own self.
Today when any girl expresses her love for me I just feel the pain of my own love. I feel no one else can ever love me the way I loved her…
My heart just can't accept love
It only aches
I feel like ending this once n for all
But I can't coz the attempt to end my own life may lead me to an even worse life.
I m struggling like hell...
I have lost my real smile..
Today I have to try to smile....
At one moment I smile like a cute happy kid
And at the other I cry out like I would break my own nerves
Iam really tired now…
That's y I say m my own enemy…
Anyone who reads this please stop finding ur happiness in someone else....
please don't let ur own love to punish u....
Don’t let the other person to disrespect you….
How are you now?
If u can love the wrong person that much...then u can love the right person even more....when u will be loved the way u loved her...u will forget all this pain....so stop fighting with urself that u can't love anybody else ..all the best
Same, When you've experienced pain, you know the pain of all sentient beings.
@@smritim3615she was my everything, i loved her with all my heart, i gave her second chance and she left me without hesitation despite it was her own fault, now she doesn't feels anything and I'm just crying typing this
Thank you, Sir, I needed your words badly so I put the reminder on for last 2 days. Thank you for helping me in searching for the sunlight.💖
I feel peace in my mind when hear your peaceful voice
Ray of hope... Means u expect him to come back to your life
Thanks universe for showing me this video❤
One of the best video to watch at the right time.
I loved someone for 5 years and she just left me saying there's no magic in our love when she got opportunity to move out to Germany. Its been 3 months, I just want to moveon and be mentally happy
Been 3 months going through the same phase ..
Keep moving forward brother. I read this somewhere, people won't always give you closure you have to give it yourself. People won't always have a reason you have to find your own. People won't always have explanations you have to find your understanding. People are complex and make bad decisions all the time.
Hope this resonates with you.
Going through with the same situation dear..
I was in a relationship from last 7 years from past 18 months she settled in Dubai from the day she took flight things changed in our lyf now after 18 months she is saying we can't be together. I feel that I don't have feeling s for u.. & here I am dealing with all this it's so hard to face this
She is not worthy...baad m krti to it hurts more than this....something good will be happen in your life...
I am very depressed varun after my breakup. We were together for 2 years and he left me like nothing happened. My anxiety is on peak that I just want to die because of that asshole. Idk how to fight this urge of texting him. Idk why he looks so perfect but he is not. My mind is playing with me.
Quite unfortunate that most of us lack that person in step 2..💙
Very true
Bro the pain the sufferings you will be received is equal to the love the pleasure or happiness you all given to that girl in the relationship
Spirituality really helped me ! Thank you !!!
Clarity & loyalty is must in relationship otherwise things suddenly goes upside down and strikes u hard.
Yes its correct
The way she acts, the way she laughs, the way she smiles, the way she hugs during our meetup, that soft kisses and many more. These are the things that remain as permanent voices in my head. Her memories are not leaving my soul. More than saying this my soul isn't still ready to leave her. Things have gone way ahead than our argument.
Hope god will bless me🌹💔
Exactly ,Same with me now his memories killing me inside don't know why he left me , crying inside no One here to tell my heart broken story just showing people dumb smile 😒😞😭
@@Aaruu06 how are you now, are u able to foget him?
are u able to forget her now, i am asking everyone as i have been cheated😔😔
@@hrishikeshtiwari2871 we got seperate 🥲🙂......he was in love with other girl 😔
Break up is really heart break . Difficult to accept for few time but later you surely realise that you deserve something more better.
I have gone through tough phase past one year and its over and I'm happy that it was no more and everyone can move on at some point so be patient and believe it will happen...
Chose someone who understands you.. that's all is the key to a happy relationship. Even if you go through a fight/misunderstanding , both should have the sense to correct it in some time.. if you are always the one trying to hold the relationship together, if you are the one who is careful in every step, if u are the one who think- oh.. if i do a mistake then she's gonna leave, then it's a toxic relationship. Just don't keep high hopes from it. Had been in one for 4 long years, beautiful years... But in the end it got ugly becuz i was always the one trying to fix everything always.. coming Out of this certainly is a long painful process.. but i hope everything will be in my favour again someday✨
After so many years of experience and knowledge it has all come to this. I mean there are thousands of 'REAL' issues to talk about and yet we talk about this.
Hope this gets better.
Love all. Peace.
Thank you for your immense support to overcome from this situation..i am tolally sadened, emotionally broken and depressed right now..it is worst experience of my life..may god save everyone from situation like this..
I can feel the wrds ... currently i m crying.....coz i am going through this face
This girl came in to my life and everything was so beautiful and she left me because I was not financially stable. Somehow I managed with my breakup and once again I found a very sweet girl and she was like a god to me who helped me cope with my previous break up and we loved each other so much and thought finally I have found out my true love and guess what she came to me saying her parents are not ready we need to breakup and she left without giving a second thought ☹️☹️. I have only one suggestion we need to focus on our career instead of these craps and you will see that once you are stable someone so special will find you that will be true love. ❤️❤️ Don't be in hurry to fall in love just because everyone is doing it is so painful. let the destiny deside who comes to your life you just focus on your goals.
@Rose who wants to get the same ex I definitely not.
Yes .. ur correct we have to focus on goals...
I cried a lot while listening to your voice guru ji ....I don't know but somehow it's very much difficult to move on.... decide what to do next...but please give me your blessings for stability and for peaceful life....🙏
@Amazing World yes your point of view is considerable....only the thing is when someone get involved in the relationship....and if anything ruined it...then it is not that easy to come out of it....I'm not saying impossible....but how much time it will take...no one knows....and if someone overcomes ...still pain remains....
@Amazing World sahi bol rahe ho aap!
I trust myself that everything is gonna be fine...I will be happy in my life after this phase is over . every good thing takes time to happen 🤞🙂
True words
When you help someone in their difficult time and in return you get the difificult time and there is no one around. This part of breakup hurts more cause when they were in their difficult time we would try everything to keep that person happy and when you are in difficult time and no one is there it feels so empty. I shared with my mom and found she too started feeling weak aftet seeing her son depressed that's why I try to keep myself happy around my parents because they can't see their son such hopeless and in pain.
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate
He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay
Whtsaap him"**
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Had a breakup and since then every night I cry all those memories comes like a Tsunami 🌊 and floods my brain watching this video at 2:42 Am and crying my heart out all alone may god give me strength to move on from the toughest phase of my life. To all brave souls out there just remember one thing you are not alone never loose hope 🙏🏻🙏🏻 Har har mahadev 🙏🏻😇
plzz help me I cant move on plz
Tq so much for your precious advice🙏❤️
Jai gurudev aapka nalayak sevak gurudev ji!
Lets see.. Might be useful for those people who had a breakup in this lock down.
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Me bro..😓😓😓😓
Meee
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