Why You Need to Watch Out for Shady Musicians

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Komentáře • 101

  • @mrwebbofficial
    @mrwebbofficial Před 10 dny +35

    This is one of the reasons I quit the industry. So many flaky people, back stabbers, and bad actors. It's sickening.

  • @mr.dennis5503
    @mr.dennis5503 Před 10 dny +29

    I fixed this by giving people a breakdown of the performance fee vs. rehearsal fees in my rider. (Yes, I charge rehearsal fees!) It gets me around the people who try to get me to commit to an honorarium, THEN start trying to schedule all these "added" rehearsals!
    Because some people don't want to pay deposits, I also charge the non-refundable variety. It eliminates the people who aren't about business!

    • @allenlevelle
      @allenlevelle Před 9 dny +2

      You are an intelligent musician.... I charge for rehearsals just in case if some one flips out. Time is a virtue.

    • @ScratchySlide
      @ScratchySlide Před 9 dny +1

      Rehearsals require more work than the actual gig. Why would ANYONE rehearse for free?

    • @mr.dennis5503
      @mr.dennis5503 Před 9 dny +2

      @ScratchySlide:
      Precisely! I ask up front for a rehearsal schedule, and factor that work into my overall fee. It's really akin to the pay schedule associated with union scale.

    • @Ytterdahls
      @Ytterdahls Před 15 hodinami

      @@ScratchySlideI believe some people have the hobby musician mentality, that they’re still kids trying to get noticed. The rehearsal is “bonding time” to get to the level where they might get noticed on a gig. Even though they’re way past that, some people stay in that mental state when it comes to music and other art businesses.

  • @shanewoolsey940
    @shanewoolsey940 Před 10 dny +20

    The moment I got my mechanics ticket everyone started showing up at my place on Saturday wanting their cars fixed for free.

    • @JVMC_ZR1
      @JVMC_ZR1 Před 9 dny +1

      That's fucked up. I've always paid for work done for my car even if they were family.

  • @jacobsmithjr
    @jacobsmithjr Před 9 dny +17

    That guy burned bridges with a whole band which means it will be multiplied by a factor of 10. As the saying goes, "Do a good job they tell 5 people, do a bad job they tell 10"

  • @Spladoinkal
    @Spladoinkal Před 7 dny +2

    That's the thing about the pool of musicians. As much as we all might complain about working a 9-5, there is a lack of "Straining out" of the flaky ones compared to a corporate job. That unfortunately leaves situations like this.

  • @papabois5001
    @papabois5001 Před 9 dny +6

    And this is why " managers ,agents, contracts , entertainment lawyers," exist...
    salute..👊🏼

  • @Stereotype5346
    @Stereotype5346 Před 9 dny +6

    We used to have functioning "Musician's Unions", that you paid dues, had monthly meetings & gigs were posted daily. In the '70s @ N.Y.C. I was a member of 'Local 802'. If you played "Union Rooms" you were paid "Union Scale", no problems. So many 'Clubs' have no affiliation with any Unions. In the '80s we used beepers & would hang in a bar or club waiting for the beeper to send a phone #. In the '90s beepers had messages on them & cell phones led into the 21st century. Technology changes, musical styles change, but "bad faith behavior" among musicians, bandleaders, producers, studio owners & club owners has led the "Music Business" less rewarding for all.

  • @WrvrUgoThrUR
    @WrvrUgoThrUR Před 9 dny +10

    I quit a band BECAUSE they didn't want to rehearse. I get not needing a rehearsal if you're familiar with the songs and the other musicians, but still.

    • @tessjuel
      @tessjuel Před 8 dny +2

      It's a different thing. The two big mistakes the singer made in this case was:
      1. He/she didn't mention the rehearsals until after the musicians were booked. The rehearsals are a part of the job and the time spent on them has to be included in the agreement right from the start.
      2. He/she came to the rehearsals unprepared. I think we all know how frustrating it is when one member of a work groups hasn't done their preparations properly and everybody else have to wait for them to catch up. It's ten times as bad an extremely unprofessional when that person is the one who's supposed to be the leader of the group.

  • @djpetenice
    @djpetenice Před 9 dny +7

    This why I quit the music industry back in the late 90s. Imagine how even worse it was back then. At least there's email, text and what not. Back then it was only phone numbers. Couldn't make ends meet, late rent, selling gear just to float another month. Bailed LA and had to move back in with mom in San Jose Ca. Shameful but I was always one paycheck away from being homeless.

  • @showrunner2183
    @showrunner2183 Před 9 dny +3

    I had a pastor text me two hours before service and said “service cancelled for the summer”

  • @patrickdudgeon9315
    @patrickdudgeon9315 Před 9 dny +3

    Really digging your channel, looking good, here’s to growth and prosperity!

  • @simbaking6338
    @simbaking6338 Před 10 dny +10

    This happen to me on many occassions...Its ashame there are so many musicians who have some of the most horrible personalities, very selfish & dont care about anyone but themselves....smh!!

    • @sseltrek1a2b
      @sseltrek1a2b Před 9 dny +1

      i tell my wife that, for the most part, musicians are the worst because of these very things...

  • @alanjohnson2853
    @alanjohnson2853 Před 10 dny +10

    I’ve had similar experiences.
    If you’re around long enough, you’re bound to run into people like that.
    It’s one of the reasons I mainly do solo gigs.
    I just don’t want to deal with the frustration

  • @etpslick100
    @etpslick100 Před 9 dny +1

    Wow! This is what I gotta look 4ward to? That was messed up ALL THE WAY AROUND! Thanks for the video! I will sure keep an eye for that BS! Right on point!!🤨🎶🎸👍🏾

  • @ARG7822
    @ARG7822 Před 8 dny +3

    I got up with some musicians and we decided to do a New Year’s Eve gig with other Christian bands. Our lead guitarist had a guitar solo to initiate the intro of our first song. Long story short, he did a no show and we all found out he played for another band that very night. It felt like he kicked us all in the teeth. I have to forgive but I can’t forget.

  • @tjsmith3741
    @tjsmith3741 Před 9 dny +4

    Guy I knew asked me to be a part of a project, he had a gig lined up. I traveled an hour each way to rehearsal for three weeks. Two of the other people in the band didn’t bother to practice the material. The gig Was an hour away. A few days before the gig, the guy tells me the pay was going to be about $90 and he was going to 1099 me. I was out! I don’t mind helping someone out, but I will not be taken advantage of!

  • @salvadorvela8146
    @salvadorvela8146 Před 7 dny

    great post, I love band stories. best regards.

  • @OranteFrazier
    @OranteFrazier Před 10 dny +5

    Only 2 hours, I was playing with a band where there were vocalist auditioning. Three hours of of not knowing lyrics and out of tune singing. Then one of the actual singers came for rehearsal. There were other circumstances, but that was the last straw for me. I wished them the best and quit that band.

  • @aveleofficial
    @aveleofficial Před 10 dny +1

    This was just on my mind this morning ‼️ some people ain’t who you think they are and it’s always some other musician that smiles in your face. I either keep my distance or have people put down deposits.

  • @RockAndDoubleBassWithAaronJoy

    Your rehearsal story reminds of an EP I did with a band just before covid. We were an alt-country quartet. Upright bass (me), drums, lead electric, then our singer on rhythm. It was his band. He was sick. He could barely sing. The plan was we'd just do everything live. Then later we'd go back and redo each part completely or overdub where needed. And, layer some other instruments. Sure. Well, the singer kept stopping to couch and hack. His singing was shit, but saying how great he was doing considering everything. We said we'd reschedule, but nope. His playing was okay, except for the stopping/starting. After 3 hours we got 8 songs done and called it a day. A week later I went back to lay down my bass with just the lead guitarist (also the producer, though I wish he wasn't, but that's another story - just cause you can play doesn't mean you can mix music). He told me the drummer was gone. He wasn't coming back, but didn't say why. On all but 2 songs his drum parts were on, so we dumped those 2 songs. I redid 2 complete songs, then changed some things on the other two for some overdubs. I was done. While I was there my guitarist told me that the rhythm guitar and singing was beyond garbage, and played it for me in pro-tools. The drummer and I had a great connection, so we were locked in. But, our singer wasn't, more than I realized. That's why 2 drum parts were trash, and likely why the drummer was gone, he was changing time constantly to keep up (and I'd been locked into him so I felt something was wrong, but didn't realize it). That was disappointing. Had our singer just stepped away we might have had 8 songs not 6. Anyways, the singer came back to redo everything. Still sick. I heard he spent 5 hours doing 6 songs and they were all garbage. I heard the vocals and they were worse. Then he came back again for another recording session and finally got it. ... I left soon after. We had a gig on the schedule. I did it and walked. After the 'seriousness' taken with recording I decided my definition of "seriousness" vs my singer was not on the same page.

  • @mootbooxle
    @mootbooxle Před 7 dny

    There are some people in the local scene here that have been known to be shady in ways similar to the story you shared here. I avoid them! I’ve also been messed around by venues changing their mind at the last minute…and clueless club/restaurant owners/managers that don’t understand music and don’t know what they want.

  • @thespadestable
    @thespadestable Před 9 dny +2

    I had one worse. Was asked to become a part of an already existing band, attended 3 rehearsals, everyone was comfortable with how the outcome should turn out, come 10 minutes before the performance the lead singer not only shows up with minutes to spare, but didn't want to perform that night. As his boys went to the lobby to beg for him to perform, I'd already had a young lady from the area set to perform provided the lead singer pulled this stunt, because I'd witnessed him doing it to that same band months prior.
    As soon as word got to the lead singer that there was a suitable replacement ready to go, he had a sudden change of mind, and performed with the band.
    A few days after the performance, the band let me go due to, "causing unneeded friction within the band while not being a fully vested member of the band".

    • @abbeyna01
      @abbeyna01 Před 7 dny +1

      They did you a favor!! 🏃🏽‍♀️

    • @thajust
      @thajust Před 2 dny

      That is wack. You were providing a plan B and trying to save them from the mess he was causing. They will learn one day. You was not the problem.

    • @thespadestable
      @thespadestable Před 2 dny

      @@thajust -
      To be fair, my involvement with the band was not all that innocent. I'd agreed to help them out because they were local fan favorite, it gave me a chance to do some behind the scenes recon on just how organized they were once I'd fond steady music for my band, and the young lady was had recently moved to the area, and it would've allowed me to see her talent in a live situation.

  • @jimbarnes3831
    @jimbarnes3831 Před 10 dny +3

    Had the same thing happened to me once. 24 hours before the gig....got a call. After I spent a week working on the set list. It has not happened again since.

  • @howtodoitdude1662
    @howtodoitdude1662 Před 9 dny +1

    I agree, rehearsals are a waste of time unless the songs will be altered from the original covers.

  • @priscamolotsi
    @priscamolotsi Před 9 dny +1

    Terence, I am so sorry this happened to you. That musician is absolutely unprofessional! Were he here in Japan and tried to pull that stunt, his career would be over! Guaranteed! NO ONE would want to work with him. His name would forever be mud!
    I like rehearsing when I have special gigs or new arrangements (jazz) with scores, that my musicians must read. I also feel more comfortable going into a concert having rehearsed new songs. I need to know of the key is right for mer whether the song sits right for me! I can rehearse alone while playing the piano, but it’s so much different if you have a quintet playing behind you.
    If the rehearsals are long and complicated, I will always pay my musicians. Whenever I rehearse with my regular musicians, I ALWAYS lay out a spread of food and drinks, and as I mentioned, I sometimes pay them.
    I would NEVER cancel on them. If ever the show gets cancelled, (for example, because of a typhoon or during Covid), the musicians ALWAYS get paid!
    I have found that over the years, if you treat your musicians well and with respect, the6 will perform excellently and even go out on a limb for you.
    Definitely put that musician’s name on a black list!

  • @soulfulartmusic8487
    @soulfulartmusic8487 Před 10 dny +1

    Here we go!

  • @tomdbass1
    @tomdbass1 Před 8 dny

    About a month ago a music minister from a local church posted that he needed a bassist for 2 services that coming Sunday with a rehearsal that was taking place that evening. I reached out and after going over a few details we confirmed the gig. He explained that the rehearsal location and exact time wasn’t confirmed and that he would get back to me later that day when he found out. Never heard back from him. I had moved things around in my schedule to accommodate his rehearsal. I did text him in regards but never got a reply. From what I understand, he’s done this before to other musicians in town.

  • @demetriccauthen-no1jy

    You got a point bro I know the feeling I was with a band I had go pick up band members that wasn't my responsibility we didn't agree or anything he always volunteers me go get them an for gigs I got fed uo with the shit an moved on I'm not a taxi driver

  • @allenlevelle
    @allenlevelle Před 9 dny +2

    Sounds like Lauren Hill, Anyone???, Anyone???, Bueller???, Bueller???

  • @NoCoverCharge
    @NoCoverCharge Před dnem

    That’s why I love doing original bands …. We can weed those people out fast …in original band there is no money so you are there because you want to be

  • @dallassurfersclub8872

    The way I do it, I go through the song and/or lyrics to at least be somewhat familiar on my own time before the rehearsal. Then if everyone does that it goes a lot better and we just smooth out the rough spots and tweak the nuances

  • @markorendas1423
    @markorendas1423 Před 9 dny

    Cue the stagehands... yes someone should write a thesis on this. Ans a subset about drummers. (😂) GREAT VID

  • @thomascordery7951
    @thomascordery7951 Před 9 dny +4

    Rehearsal time is not practice time. Buddy showing up not knowing the lyrics and having no idea about arrangements he wants is already not cool. After trashing that gig and cutting off contact, I assume he's not getting crickets back.

  • @Birkguitars
    @Birkguitars Před 9 dny

    There is a great Noah Guthrie lyric "what we do is who we are". Some people prove who they are this way and they are not worth the effort.

  • @ricardomitchell5331
    @ricardomitchell5331 Před 10 dny

    I'm sorry to hear what happened 😞 once bitten twice shy,never again.

  • @magmasunburst9331
    @magmasunburst9331 Před 9 dny +2

    I think the tendency today is to think everyone has the same level of developmental psychological integration. Sad fact is a lot of people did not have very good parenting and they are basically operating at the highest level that they can. It's like ethics doesn't really have much to do with it. Not sure if you're still a Christian but you talked about your experience in that industry. A lot of it today accounts for that those of us who were brought up with those values often are encountering people that are nowhere near having those values or those learning experiences. It doesn't mean that Christians are that much better but often the environment that going to church on Sunday created in the culture was I think a lot higher.

  • @Dsullivann
    @Dsullivann Před 9 dny

    Sorry to hear about this. I've been there as well, rehersal is about coming prepared with the material and NOT learning it during the rehersal. At that point you're wasting everyone's time and showing a lack of accounatbility.

  • @Denver_Risley
    @Denver_Risley Před 10 dny

    I agree that a lot of things need to be standardized such as protocols and etiquette to not only help commitments run smoother, but also to weed out the unprofessionals or, at least, those that aren't quite at the pro working level yet. This also makes it easier to nix unprofessional CLIENTS and maintain/develop a solid working reputation, which is absolutely everything.

  • @argyle6674
    @argyle6674 Před 7 dny

    So true.

  • @jesusislukeskywalker4294

    new subscriber from Australia ☝️🔭🐥 stay cool bro 🙏

  • @ebertmahon8939
    @ebertmahon8939 Před 10 dny +3

    Thank you for speaking truth to power. I see this in church as well. Just lazy with learning lyrics and the correct cadence of the melody.

  • @Strangz_ODT
    @Strangz_ODT Před 9 dny

    Yeah I need to know everything. How many rehearsals, how many hours the rehearsals are, how many hours I’m need the day of the gig ( IE we don’t play til 9pm but sound check at 2pm type of stuff). Then I give my rate and contract it all out, cancelation clauses and all, even for the smaller gigs. I can be friendly and flexible but what I don’t like to be, is frustrated.

  • @travelingman9763
    @travelingman9763 Před 8 dny +1

    Snob musicians can be quite unreliable while quite sensitive" emotionally speaking. Lots of lips pursed while on lookout for money! Have Plan Bs and Cs non musical speaking! Cowards is an understatement!

  • @vender3516
    @vender3516 Před 9 dny +1

    Keep in mind as professionals that love the craft of creating and performing there are those who truly love and respect the art....You dont have to be a great musician nor a great singer what is needed is great COMPATIBLITY for the art ....and thats when ...................The Magic Happens !

  • @markpanic4513
    @markpanic4513 Před 10 dny

    This is so like what I go through all the time players showing up not knowing the songs only wanting to do what they know then the show happens and it’s a complete utter train wreck this is the Pennsylvania musicians garbage every town is like your home town only 2 hours or more away so extremely discouraging to the point I don’t really care to play and I’ve had this across the country as well,so sad it’s like chasing the Elucid unicorn only you can see but never catch really makes you rethink about career choices

  • @romp6969
    @romp6969 Před 10 dny

    Been there. During the holidays as well. Never worked with that person again.

  • @robsaint77
    @robsaint77 Před 10 dny +6

    Practice makes perfect enemies. The only time I need to see you is at the gig when we play and then I pay. Practice on your own time.

    • @sseltrek1a2b
      @sseltrek1a2b Před 9 dny

      "rehearsals" means you show up knowing your part, and then address any issues that come up while playing the music "together"- that's it...i completely agree that "most" rehearsals are a waste of time...if you're all on the same page regarding the keys, arrangements, etc, it should no problem for seasoned musicians to just show up and play the music "at" the gig...

  • @JimmyMRollins
    @JimmyMRollins Před 10 dny +1

    Sax player here. Haven’t had this happen to me but I’ve seen other musicians undercut so they can get gig at a venue which I hate and it only hurts other musicians.

  • @TedTalksBass
    @TedTalksBass Před 10 dny

    I had a singer do some sh*t similar to that.. I was at my MOTHER'S hospital bedside shedding and charting - IN THE HOSPITAL

  • @JoeysClones
    @JoeysClones Před 9 dny

    You just received a subscriber
    Wish this video was created sooner!

  • @jcox526
    @jcox526 Před 7 dny

    How do you perform any gig without rehearing first, to make sure everyone is tight. Without rehearsing you wouldn't have known the singer didn't know the lyrics. But this was why I stopped trying to work within bands, and just set out to becoming a songwriter and producer of making music to hopefully sale to established artists. Practice makes perfect! Before recording any track I'm going to play the instrument part several times, and after I practice the part, break for a while or 'til the next day and then come back and perform with better results. Even a professional rehearses before recording a song or performing before live audiences; James Brown stop his band during a live show, took them off stage to re-rehearse the show, then brought them back onstage to do the concert. So, it's important to rehearse, or you'll end up making yourself (and everyone else with you) look like a fool. Peace

  • @BeesWaxMinder
    @BeesWaxMinder Před 9 dny

    Do you know if this person actually DID this gig with the new band?

  • @vender3516
    @vender3516 Před 9 dny

    I had the same issues as a producer and Mastering engineer, I had several singers ( well at least they said they were singers ) after hearing a short snippet they wanted to sing on my tracks, so I invited them over to see what they got and to rehearse to know and understand thier flow well all they did was hum ,,some oohh aahhh and that was that, waste of time; other occasions, I was told my music was to complex and they like simple beats lol .. I find it strange that nowadays I see more so called artist on this selfish " look at me" trend and that seem to be the narritive for being an artist instead for the love of the art.

  • @ukulele-covergirl
    @ukulele-covergirl Před 10 dny +1

    Watch Out in Any business!
    That person needs to practice at home before rehearsing. ✌️♥️
    ~ 🌺

  • @rolandgreystoke5601
    @rolandgreystoke5601 Před 9 dny +1

    I learned an acronym from some Marines when I was in the military: Delta Whiskey Echo - DWE - it stands for "Dick With Ears". Sounds like it describes that 'musician' perfectly.

  • @jimkalfakis9893
    @jimkalfakis9893 Před 9 dny +2

    It’s funny, some of the flakes are commenting on the other flakes, thinking that they’re never the problem. You know who you are

    • @r3dphlud
      @r3dphlud Před 9 dny

      "Thinking that they're never the problem," but also, "You know who you are." 😂Peak passive shit talking

  • @chilisaucecritic
    @chilisaucecritic Před 9 dny

    this is why i switched 80% from rock to EDM, working with bands is too unpredictable.

  • @TruthAndMoreTruth
    @TruthAndMoreTruth Před 9 dny +3

    Amateurs don't the difference between "practice" and "rehearsal".

    • @thespadestable
      @thespadestable Před 9 dny +1

      "Amateur" just means they perform for payment outside of cash. The attitude between them and a professional are solely based on the individuals.

  • @oscardupree8414
    @oscardupree8414 Před 10 dny +1

    This feels like Lauren Hill energy…

  • @kdub607
    @kdub607 Před 9 dny

    We see this all the time. What's funny to me is that vocalists are the worst of the bunch. Sure, there are some lazy musicians that bluff their way through gigs or come out like it's solo time and forget the foundation of the music, but that can (sometimes) get masked and overlooked. The vocalist is the front person and the focal point of the audience in general. So when they don't learn the lyrics, it's a lot harder to mask that - especially for a popular song where everyone in the audience knows the lyrics. Because the vocalist is the one on the billboard, they feel like it's ok, or they can get away with making up words. But don't let the band mess up! And just as bad - when you're given a set list to learn, come to the rehearsal prepared with all these songs you had to learn for this one vocalist, just to find out they're dropping two or three of them. Why? Because THEY never learned the words of the songs themselves (even though they picked them)!!! And of course, they don't care that your time is valuable, and you've got other songs to learn for other artists. So much Shade in this business unfortunately...

  • @jwal1992
    @jwal1992 Před 9 dny

    I left music school about 10 years ago and was still playing with students in the area. One guy turned down my gig because he was offered to play with an older cat. Dude did a rehearsal and the older cat not only kicked him off the gig, but also “offered” him lessons. Guy was livid and teared him a new one. The younger guy ended up moving back to his home town to get gigs and the older cat has been all but exiled from the gigging community. Shady mfers out there.

  • @curtisdrummerellerbe9544

    Do you have a video when you talk about people using stems and click tracks and fake instruments on top of live instruments during worship service everything is so mechanical and so robotic

  • @ScratchySlide
    @ScratchySlide Před 9 dny +2

    Write charts, buy charts, rehearse less.

  • @BeesWaxMinder
    @BeesWaxMinder Před 9 dny

    Everyone has stories like this if they are musician but very few have that many stories if they're not a musician it seems to me & that is why when AI finally rolls into town then 10 years later such videos as this will be of minor historical interest on how much BS Was tolerated in the past while, by then, the same so-called musicians who were so flaky on a regular basis will be telling everyone how AI took their careers and crushed their dreams

  • @thajust
    @thajust Před 2 dny

    I agree with most if not all of the comments. I would like to add that by turning down 4 other opportunities for this guy, may potentially have burned bridges for those that you have turned down. The ones that were turned down may have future events or opportunities and think, nah Imma pass on calling you because he turned us down before. See this was very inconsiderate of that person.

  • @givrcanadianrocktributeban6965

    I always ask about the guy setting up/leading the gig- “are they a real musician, or just a karaoke type?” Tends to answer if they have skin in the game sometimes lol.
    Sorry to hear that happened to you too.

  • @badtriad9684
    @badtriad9684 Před 9 dny

    Simply, common decency UNCOMMON...

  • @jc9240
    @jc9240 Před 10 dny +1

    Front and Center Bruce Lee Tee-Shirt!?....I am trying to figure its relative on context about your Subject, Theme or Purpose of this CZcams Broadcast?...LoL x7

  • @Jean-ClaudeLaFond-Paquette-j5p

    F,n hillarious

  • @JonFinnguitar
    @JonFinnguitar Před 9 dny

    I love this thank you for telling the story! There’s a bass player I work with a lot who has what I think is the best approach. If he agrees to a Tuesday night 6:30 -8:30 rehearsal he shows up having learned all the material perfectly, ready to play at 6:30. At 8:30 he packs up and leaves. In between, he’ll give you his best, and be patient if someone isn’t prepared. But when rehearsal is over, he’s out.
    This artist did you a favor by calling another band. He’ll learn. Or not. Ya know?

  • @TedTalksBass
    @TedTalksBass Před 10 dny +2

    buuuuuuuuddddyy.... I have been there

  • @Brolo214
    @Brolo214 Před 10 dny +1

    Musicians need to unionize or the exploitation of labor will just keep getting worse.

  • @skaboosh
    @skaboosh Před 9 dny

    At least 50 per cent seem to be arses.... ive had to sack loads.... yet always did my best for them.... that's the world

  • @pdxfun4888
    @pdxfun4888 Před 9 dny

    The best and common thing are the professional guys never come prepared tp practice. They are listening while people are arriving. Lots have day jobs fam etc yet are prepared.
    Getting fellow players gigs then find they are bad mouthing you to get your venues for themselves.lol
    Done

  • @BenedictRoffMarsh
    @BenedictRoffMarsh Před 7 dny

    I hear you. I bet this hoser hired (with no money) a bunch of wannabes more clueless than himself so he never has to rise.
    Sadly people live in fantasy land so often now they make-believe that they are amazeballz pro-ful when in reality they are totally clueless. Whenever they run into actual professionals (or anyone better than them) they blame their laziness on the better people, often by casting the better people as the clueless ones. Even going so far as to make public announcements about how stupid the better person is compared to their amazingness. This is the single biggest reason that there are so many people "stuck" in those (cesspit) songwriter & producer groups & forums because they are too afraid to step up.
    :-)

  • @itzfast
    @itzfast Před 9 dny

    The only thing that ruins great music is musicians.

  • @ukulele-covergirl
    @ukulele-covergirl Před 10 dny

    Bruce Lee. 😎

  • @3mstudiospalmdesert
    @3mstudiospalmdesert Před 10 dny +2

    Dude sounds like an amateur. You may have dodged a bullet.

  • @jessecorpus6066
    @jessecorpus6066 Před 6 dny

    Wrong! That's what rehearsals are for! Even Micchael Jackson's musician rehearse, famous bands rehearse before a concert tour. Rehearse...rehearse...unless you want to sound crapy just because of one musician. Your arguments doesn't make sense.