I can't stress enough that you have to know your kids. When I was younger, I actively asked my mother for therapy and was dismissed. I didn't have the confidence and social skills to seek for help other than that. Please, never dismiss it when someone is asking for help!
I talked about killing myself since I was 8, I skipped school, was bullied at school, almost killed several times, was depressed, police didn't want to help me and abuse at home as well. Nobody cared to help me. My teachers seeing my cry over and over being in pain didn't care. Police dismissing an early teens girl walking into their station crying. My parents saying they though my mood was just "hormones".. I really do wish I had someone to listen to me, try to understand me, care for me at the time, maybe I'd amount to something at this point in life.
As an attempt survivor, another sign is cleaning. I made sure to clean the entire house and keep it clean, that way I would be lightening the load of those I would be leaving behind. I don't completely understand the thought process, but I just felt that I needed to get rid of as many responsibilities as I could to allow them to put as much energy as possible into moving on and grieving.
Just like the song of Twenty One Pilots titled Redecorate. "I don't wanna go like this At least let me clean my room I don't wanna leave like this Cause the last thing I want to do is make my people make decision wondering what to do ' Should they keep it on display or redecorate'
This is great for those people who have never had suicide. I think the problem is more of ignorance is bliss. People who watch this are either suicidal or know someone that died that way. People never experiencing it, do not want to learn.
@@-3lory there are a lot of healthcare workers that do not want to learn as well. Needless to say, some hospitals hire phenomenal nurses and doctors for their mental health wards that truly understand.
I’m so sorry to hear this. We are worried because my mother in law has been giving away things and closing up. My father in law isn’t well and we noticed a change in her character
Everyone: Think of the children!! Yet the suicide spike is not teens, it's middle aged. Most if not all programs are for teens, we need more for the older generations. I liked your post for awareness, liking a suicide just feels wrong..
Hey , I can feeling you , but really what helped me is my religion and being close to God ,my religion is Islam and its teaching helping me a lot , So I hope you find the peace of mind and tranquility that you seek. I advice you to turn to God and talk to him about all your worries and ask him to guide you to his true path . Good luck
it is so difficult to be begging for help, and to have a parent say "try harder" or "try to do something different". Parents, please listen to your kids, and be empathetic. When you are depressed, simple tasks can be impossible, let alone changing their lives completely while fighting that depression. Parents, if a kid asks for help, please get them immediate help.
Sometimes the people around us just don't give a fuck simple as that. Doesn't matter what I do or say much less feel or think, it just doesn't matter to people often times. Even the ones most important to us. Coping with this anxiety and stress and thoughts etc becomes that much harder and more depressing once I realized even my own mother doesn't give a shit about what I'm doing/how I'm acting/how I'm feeling or thinking. Naive ignorance and blissfully unaware I've been on the verge of drastic action for a long time coming. It just sucks to finally realize nobody sees or understands what it is some of us feel or experience.
Why should people care. Everyone has lives. Hard lives at that. I think people just crave attention, but the world can't be expected to babysit an adult into old age.
I've made one attempt 8 weeks ago and am now in the same situation can't find a way out my mind is destroying me daily .don't sleep ,panic attacks ,mood swings ,being sick ,paranoia,isolation,literally never happy sad to say but the truth
Less enthusiastic about future plans and and even more relaxed as if it’s one less thing to worry about showing up for or being responsible for future planning. Picking up my messes or tossing things instead of reorganizing. Giving things away and not restocking on art supplies/makeup etc.. lying about going to appointments or work bc you ditched, called off or even quite. Writing little notes for ppl even carving into things. Taking some small items that won’t be immediately missed by my loved ones to have w me just in case the day comes. Spraying their perfume on my things, vice versa. Being extra quiet on accident or bubbly on purpose to keep the truth hidden. Making flippant suicide remarks wanting to scream the truth but quickly moving on as if it’s a joke. Being less involved in future decision making and becoming more agreeable than usual. Excessive sleep and or insomnia. Looking up info on suicide/death as if it were for school or something informative, never typing in a way that would alert anyone. The list is nearly endless so I appreciate it when ppl are able to simplify it while still being informative and helpful.
When is the CDC going to be honest and talk about the raging suicide epidemic not only in teens but also in adults. This is an epidemic. We are seeing rates like never before.
Humans are social creatures. To be expected when you lock people inside with no human interaction, especially if they live alone. Then couple it with masks everywhere and distancing so you don't even get any emotional connection when seeing people outside of home. Doesn't help that there weren't at least some sort of open zoom calls or whatever else they can think of to help lonely people during this time. They took away a vital thing and left it at that.. People gained weight and became unhealthier, started drinking alcohol, self harming, ending their lives, overdosing and so forth.. Will be interesting to see how people are affected in the next several years down the road as well.
I call bullshit. You don't get to tell people they can give their lives for their country but not take it for themselves. It's not your life. It's not your business.
Wow, I finally understood why my behaviorhas changed, but now I feel bad for knowing that my parents didm't asi anything just, that I was becoming more and more disobedient
In the dance of dawn's first light, Where shadows flee from the sight, There lies a whisper, soft and sweet, Be happy, for joy's own beat. Amidst the tumult, find your peace, Let worries fade, let fears release. In laughter's echo, find your tune, Embrace the day beneath the moon. For happiness, a gentle breeze, That rustles through the forest trees, It sings of dreams and hopes untold, In every heart, a story to unfold. Chase the rainbow after rain, Let go of sorrow, embrace the gain. In each moment, find delight, In the darkest hour, seek the light. Like petals dancing in the breeze, Be happy, for life's mysteries seize. In love's embrace, in friendship's glow, Let happiness bloom, let it grow. So raise your voice in jubilee, Let joy resound, let spirits free. For in the journey, you shall find, The key to happiness, within your mind.
I'm suffering from severe depression. I'm under treatment for 1.5 years. But my condition flactuates a lot. In the previous months, I was feeling stable. Psychiatrist had withdrawn some medicines also. I'm taking same medication for last 3 month. Now it's becoming unbearable to fight with suicidal thoughts. I'm continuously getting suicidal thoughts. I just want to die. I want to quit everything. Auditory hallucination returned with new symptoms. Hypersomnia is kicking hard. I don't know why I'm texting this in comment box. It's my problem.
Hey , don't be desperate, sometimes our brain exaggerates our problems, just turn to God and talk to him about all your worries and rely on him, he's near and listening, it's really is what helping me to overcome my depression and hardships is being close to God and pray , my religion is Islam ,and its teachings really help me a lot and brings me peace of mind and tranquility, So I hope you reach the peace and happyness that you seek .
It's scary to believe that I have tick Marked everything over here...I don't know how long I will Survive...Maybe by the time You are reading this Comment, I might be DEAD...I will just say one thing before my DEATH... Negativity is a SET of Lies and Lies are whispered into our Ears by the Evil within us...So, once You Start to believe in Your Negativity, the Evil inside You can even Feed you with thousands of Negative reasons about why Suicide can be the Only Solution to your Problems...So, if you want to Avoid Suicide, don't fall into the Trap of Negativity like I have done...This will slowly take You to the Path of DEATH!!
You can get out of it. Don’t listen to those lies, replace them with good truths. You may not believe it, but people need you here. We are all made for a purpose. If you die, someone who needs your help, won’t ever get the help they needed from you. They will be lost forever too. There is a blessing that we receive when we overcome our greatest pain and don’t give up. I hope you change your mind. You’re stuck. I get it, but you can get unstuck, you just have to fight like hell to get out of it and keep fighting. There will be periods of rest and refreshments. Please don’t die. I’m hurting just like you, I just hope that I could live long enough to see the blessing from the hell that I’ve gone through. I hope and pray that the same will happen for you too. 😢😭🤗
What about music? My son is listening to alot of music that speaks suicide? My son is always withdrawn he just s shy and doesn’t like to be in public and around others so it’s hard. He’s 11 he is more violent but not in a harmful way I just got custody of his sister and so now he is not the only one with my attention?
(Someone wants to go out and get killed which would be Person #1) Person #1: (whispering) I’m going out to get hit by a vehicle. Person #2: (after hearing the whisper and therefore holding onto Person #1 super tight) No! Don’t leave this house! Person #1: SHUT THE ****UP AND LET GO OF ME! LET GO! LET GO, PLEASE! (Person #2 persistently shakes his/her/their head.) Person #1: OHH, I HATE YOU! I HATE YOU! I HATE YOU! Person #2: Why? Person #1: BECAUSE YOU WON’T SET ME FREE! YOU’RE ONLY HOLDING ME PRISONER BY KEEPING ME ALIVE!!!!!!!!!
I can't stress enough that you have to know your kids. When I was younger, I actively asked my mother for therapy and was dismissed. I didn't have the confidence and social skills to seek for help other than that. Please, never dismiss it when someone is asking for help!
I talked about killing myself since I was 8, I skipped school, was bullied at school, almost killed several times, was depressed, police didn't want to help me and abuse at home as well. Nobody cared to help me. My teachers seeing my cry over and over being in pain didn't care. Police dismissing an early teens girl walking into their station crying. My parents saying they though my mood was just "hormones"..
I really do wish I had someone to listen to me, try to understand me, care for me at the time, maybe I'd amount to something at this point in life.
agree
I thought I wrote this comment!
Same here family don’t help even though the cliche is talk to your friends and Family
As an attempt survivor, another sign is cleaning. I made sure to clean the entire house and keep it clean, that way I would be lightening the load of those I would be leaving behind. I don't completely understand the thought process, but I just felt that I needed to get rid of as many responsibilities as I could to allow them to put as much energy as possible into moving on and grieving.
That’s interesting, I would do the opposite I’d let things pile up cause it wouldn’t matter if I wasn’t here and no one could get mad at me either
Just like the song of Twenty One Pilots titled Redecorate.
"I don't wanna go like this
At least let me clean my room
I don't wanna leave like this
Cause the last thing I want to
do is make my people make decision
wondering what to do
' Should they keep it on display or redecorate'
@@clancy1537 I'd never heard that song before. I'll have to give it a listen. Thannks.
This is great for those people who have never had suicide. I think the problem is more of ignorance is bliss. People who watch this are either suicidal or know someone that died that way. People never experiencing it, do not want to learn.
unless they work in healthcare
@@-3lory there are a lot of healthcare workers that do not want to learn as well. Needless to say, some hospitals hire phenomenal nurses and doctors for their mental health wards that truly understand.
I think we should all be given the right to take our lives or keepi if we want. I think its a right to die as much as it is to live.
It's not just kids, my Mom committed suicide in July.
I'm so sorry for your loss 💔
I'm so sorry for your loss. This is heartbreaking 💔
I’m so sorry to hear this. We are worried because my mother in law has been giving away things and closing up. My father in law isn’t well and we noticed a change in her character
Everyone: Think of the children!!
Yet the suicide spike is not teens, it's middle aged.
Most if not all programs are for teens, we need more for the older generations.
I liked your post for awareness, liking a suicide just feels wrong..
I told my mom straight up I dont want to be here anymore. Once she determined i wasnt going to off myself right that second she never followed up.
Hey , I can feeling you , but really what helped me is my religion and being close to God ,my religion is Islam and its teaching helping me a lot , So I hope you find the peace of mind and tranquility that you seek.
I advice you to turn to God and talk to him about all your worries and ask him to guide you to his true path .
Good luck
Most people just don’t care enough about others to even be aware!
it is so difficult to be begging for help, and to have a parent say "try harder" or "try to do something different". Parents, please listen to your kids, and be empathetic. When you are depressed, simple tasks can be impossible, let alone changing their lives completely while fighting that depression. Parents, if a kid asks for help, please get them immediate help.
I hate my abusive so called parents . nobody's help so-called family .. emotional help .even animals can feed physical food to their children.
Sometimes the people around us just don't give a fuck simple as that. Doesn't matter what I do or say much less feel or think, it just doesn't matter to people often times. Even the ones most important to us. Coping with this anxiety and stress and thoughts etc becomes that much harder and more depressing once I realized even my own mother doesn't give a shit about what I'm doing/how I'm acting/how I'm feeling or thinking. Naive ignorance and blissfully unaware I've been on the verge of drastic action for a long time coming. It just sucks to finally realize nobody sees or understands what it is some of us feel or experience.
Why should people care. Everyone has lives. Hard lives at that. I think people just crave attention, but the world can't be expected to babysit an adult into old age.
I've made one attempt 8 weeks ago and am now in the same situation can't find a way out my mind is destroying me daily .don't sleep ,panic attacks ,mood swings ,being sick ,paranoia,isolation,literally never happy sad to say but the truth
Less enthusiastic about future plans and and even more relaxed as if it’s one less thing to worry about showing up for or being responsible for future planning. Picking up my messes or tossing things instead of reorganizing. Giving things away and not restocking on art supplies/makeup etc.. lying about going to appointments or work bc you ditched, called off or even quite. Writing little notes for ppl even carving into things. Taking some small items that won’t be immediately missed by my loved ones to have w me just in case the day comes. Spraying their perfume on my things, vice versa. Being extra quiet on accident or bubbly on purpose to keep the truth hidden. Making flippant suicide remarks wanting to scream the truth but quickly moving on as if it’s a joke. Being less involved in future decision making and becoming more agreeable than usual. Excessive sleep and or insomnia. Looking up info on suicide/death as if it were for school or something informative, never typing in a way that would alert anyone.
The list is nearly endless so I appreciate it when ppl are able to simplify it while still being informative and helpful.
Maybe one more sign is not coming out of the room, not talking to anyone and not being seen by any human, since July 2019.
When is the CDC going to be honest and talk about the raging suicide epidemic not only in teens but also in adults.
This is an epidemic. We are seeing rates like never before.
Humans are social creatures. To be expected when you lock people inside with no human interaction, especially if they live alone. Then couple it with masks everywhere and distancing so you don't even get any emotional connection when seeing people outside of home. Doesn't help that there weren't at least some sort of open zoom calls or whatever else they can think of to help lonely people during this time. They took away a vital thing and left it at that.. People gained weight and became unhealthier, started drinking alcohol, self harming, ending their lives, overdosing and so forth.. Will be interesting to see how people are affected in the next several years down the road as well.
It would be great if you made one about adults also!
I call bullshit. You don't get to tell people they can give their lives for their country but not take it for themselves. It's not your life. It's not your business.
Can you please do one of these on self-harm in children?
Wow, I finally understood why my behaviorhas changed, but now I feel bad for knowing that my parents didm't asi anything just, that I was becoming more and more disobedient
Yeah. Always early to this topic
In the dance of dawn's first light,
Where shadows flee from the sight,
There lies a whisper, soft and sweet,
Be happy, for joy's own beat.
Amidst the tumult, find your peace,
Let worries fade, let fears release.
In laughter's echo, find your tune,
Embrace the day beneath the moon.
For happiness, a gentle breeze,
That rustles through the forest trees,
It sings of dreams and hopes untold,
In every heart, a story to unfold.
Chase the rainbow after rain,
Let go of sorrow, embrace the gain.
In each moment, find delight,
In the darkest hour, seek the light.
Like petals dancing in the breeze,
Be happy, for life's mysteries seize.
In love's embrace, in friendship's glow,
Let happiness bloom, let it grow.
So raise your voice in jubilee,
Let joy resound, let spirits free.
For in the journey, you shall find,
The key to happiness, within your mind.
Don't react like my parents did and say: 'Stop texting us things like that.' ... 😥
😞
@@adilstudio14 yes, it's disgusting.. It was not me, but one of my siblings. I still feel angry about it when I think about it.
I have thoughts and a plan, but things have to be better next year
How are you feeling mentally and physically today?
@@timcepin3386 same
@@BEACHDUDE71 Thank you for letting me know.
I'm suffering from severe depression. I'm under treatment for 1.5 years. But my condition flactuates a lot. In the previous months, I was feeling stable. Psychiatrist had withdrawn some medicines also. I'm taking same medication for last 3 month. Now it's becoming unbearable to fight with suicidal thoughts. I'm continuously getting suicidal thoughts. I just want to die. I want to quit everything. Auditory hallucination returned with new symptoms. Hypersomnia is kicking hard. I don't know why I'm texting this in comment box. It's my problem.
Playing "Dead By X-Mas" by Hanoi Rocks on repeat.
by watching this channel?
what about elderly adults who are preoccupied with theirdeath?
Im 13 years old and i often get deppresion and want to take my own life
Its gonna be ok amd you deserve to be loved and cared for because your an amazing person and I'm here if you need to talk ♥
Hey , don't be desperate, sometimes our brain exaggerates our problems, just turn to God and talk to him about all your worries and rely on him, he's near and listening,
it's really is what helping me to overcome my depression and hardships is being close to God and pray , my religion is Islam ,and its teachings really help me a lot and brings me peace of mind and tranquility, So I hope you reach the peace and happyness that you seek .
My friend commit suicide yesterday. I just don't know what to say. Rest in peace dear friend
You should of helped her
@@michaelfranco4282 r u telling I knew that she will do that?
@@boredstuff8015 no I'm saying is if you would of said something to her parents or something they would of helped her basically preventing it
@@michaelfranco4282 I find you so stupid for even telling this...
@@boredstuff8015 how am I stupid I was just telling you how you feeling could of stopped her from doing it
Bruh can't believe I'm back here again. Thb it's on me at this point
Another sign is an abrupt change in looks like a girl totally chopping off her hair.
Oh boy, that’s exactly me
Ow, I did that two years ago. Literally took scissors to my hair and chopped it all off..
@@떡볶이나리 were u suicidal at the time?
@@thebeigesheep6132 Yeah. I figured I was going to die soon so might as well do whatever I want and go "wild" and "crazy".
I just did it again. 🙃
It was either this or cutting or stabbing myself. 🙃
Pandemic has increased the stress
S c amdemic.
It's scary to believe that I have tick Marked everything over here...I don't know how long I will Survive...Maybe by the time You are reading this Comment, I might be DEAD...I will just say one thing before my DEATH...
Negativity is a SET of Lies and Lies are whispered into our Ears by the Evil within us...So, once You Start to believe in Your Negativity, the Evil inside You can even Feed you with thousands of Negative reasons about why Suicide can be the Only Solution to your Problems...So, if you want to Avoid Suicide, don't fall into the Trap of Negativity like I have done...This will slowly take You to the Path of DEATH!!
Hey.. r u still there ? :’( ?
You can get out of it. Don’t listen to those lies, replace them with good truths. You may not believe it, but people need you here. We are all made for a purpose. If you die, someone who needs your help, won’t ever get the help they needed from you. They will be lost forever too. There is a blessing that we receive when we overcome our greatest pain and don’t give up. I hope you change your mind. You’re stuck. I get it, but you can get unstuck, you just have to fight like hell to get out of it and keep fighting. There will be periods of rest and refreshments. Please don’t die. I’m hurting just like you, I just hope that I could live long enough to see the blessing from the hell that I’ve gone through. I hope and pray that the same will happen for you too. 😢😭🤗
My parents are blind.
What about music? My son is listening to alot of music that speaks suicide? My son is always withdrawn he just s shy and doesn’t like to be in public and around others so it’s hard. He’s 11 he is more violent but not in a harmful way I just got custody of his sister and so now he is not the only one with my attention?
Can a murder take advantage of someone's suicidal ideation? Shouldn't children before responsible at this age?
how many albums did they release.
Change in eating habits... music choice... check their PHONES!!
Don't check their phones without permission in my opinion its completely inappropriate and an absolute invasion of their privacy
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(Someone wants to go out and get killed which would be Person #1)
Person #1: (whispering) I’m going out to get hit by a vehicle.
Person #2: (after hearing the whisper and therefore holding onto Person #1 super tight) No! Don’t leave this house!
Person #1: SHUT THE ****UP AND LET GO OF ME! LET GO! LET GO, PLEASE!
(Person #2 persistently shakes his/her/their head.)
Person #1: OHH, I HATE YOU! I HATE YOU! I HATE YOU!
Person #2: Why?
Person #1: BECAUSE YOU WON’T SET ME FREE! YOU’RE ONLY HOLDING ME PRISONER BY KEEPING ME ALIVE!!!!!!!!!
they ask for a pepsi and you dont give it to them
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Like all psychology, these signs are subjective 👍
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