Child support when back pay is owed

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  • čas přidán 28. 06. 2018
  • Richard Brown has retained custody of the child since the child was 11 months old. He is now seeking child support from the mother, Briana Brown, for the 11 years that have passed without child support being paid.
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  • @jaelldiaz0608
    @jaelldiaz0608 Před 3 lety +3500

    When he said at the end -“so I could be a better father AND MOTHER.” I was so proud of him speaking up for himself !

    • @gibblers1996
      @gibblers1996 Před 3 lety +11

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @pamjarvis2771
      @pamjarvis2771 Před 3 lety +31

      Well , it’s definitely the truth of the matter! I hate to think about how she treats her other children.

    • @dorisbaker2992
      @dorisbaker2992 Před 3 lety +8

      So many people who was so funny what the child support I never use the child support I gave it to the kids it wasn't but $100 a month that he was given after the kids got grown he was boosting and brain cuz the kids asking why didn't you come around and chill why did you do this everything was all I had to work to pay that child support but he didn't realize I was giving the kids that child support what you want but $100 and they wanted the kids stepped up to him why you standing until it like you did you only gave us $100 I just look at him and go on God is good every time do what you got to do as a mother or a father it all come back it all come back it's calling what you do it all come back trust and behold that it will

    • @dorisbaker2992
      @dorisbaker2992 Před 3 lety +7

      You should never have to go in front of the judge to take care of your babies your kids that's it automatically come natural it should automatically when we was coming up my mother called the bus every morning at 4:00 and she cut onions picked tomatoes and she went back to school and got an education and when she passed away a very proud of my mother very proud of my mother she never asked my father for a quarter she said I don't know what you doing when you lay down cuz sometime you got to be the only one that jump up and run and try to win that race and that's what she does she did everything and I'm very proud of my mother my dad oh well that's another subject

    • @dorisbaker2992
      @dorisbaker2992 Před 3 lety +3

      You know we forget the analyze always think that little thing that we care between our legs that's our responsibility I obligation to make sure that we do the right thing with it we go out there and do the curlers thing you know what's going to meet you you got to pay for it you got to pay that Piper you know that so I don't know why that you want to go to court mine's day my kids $25 a month a piece for sure that was supposed to make sure they ate clothes everything everything but it's okay it's okay but what goes around will come bac

  • @GabrielCroft
    @GabrielCroft Před 5 lety +2968

    "A child needs more than air to survive..." God bless you!!!

    • @SADD22
      @SADD22 Před 3 lety +20

      Air is the only thing in this world is free.

    • @suesally2103
      @suesally2103 Před 2 lety +7

      SADD22 you would think it free, no it not, it cost to put air in tires, and air in a can. Air cost 💁🏻‍♀️

    • @bohemoth1
      @bohemoth1 Před 2 lety +1

      LORD I HEAR THE JUDGE! WOW!

    • @theperson431
      @theperson431 Před 2 lety +2

      But the government of Texas don't understand that...

    • @ericmorris3030
      @ericmorris3030 Před 2 lety +3

      @@SADD22 Air wont even be free if the Demon-Rat party and Biden get their way with the "Green new deal" and all their new taxes they plan to hit us with...

  • @namaslay7631
    @namaslay7631 Před 7 měsíci +184

    When judge Vonda said “I’m the only one could have an attitude” yesss let her know !

  • @ybhomes6003
    @ybhomes6003 Před 4 měsíci +48

    When my son was younger and we were struggling he asked, "Mom why doesn't Dad help us?". I said to him, "Honey, it's not that your Dad doesn't want to help you, he doesn't want to help me" He responded, But doesn't he know helping you is helping me?. Blew me away. I love that kid. He grew up to be an amazing young man. I always wanted him to know, he could love both parents. He just grew up knowing who he could depend on. Clear boundaries are a blessing to know.

  • @Kings13224
    @Kings13224 Před 3 lety +2557

    The parent the kid lives with could be a millionaire, the other parent still has a responsibility to contribute to the kids upbringing

    • @JudgeVondaB
      @JudgeVondaB  Před 3 lety +196

      Agreed!

    • @blueskiesarelovely
      @blueskiesarelovely Před 3 lety +21

      Exactly

    • @mkayauna
      @mkayauna Před 3 lety +6

      @@JudgeVondaB if you agree why do you order parents that make way more to pay but not the parents that make way less ? not the wealthy parent's fault that the other parents doesn't make as much

    • @RDCFemmes
      @RDCFemmes Před 3 lety +9

      @ind0ctr1n3 Ah yes, when a man consent to have sex with a women he is responsible for the consequences of his choice. Even contraceptives don't give 100% protection only abstinence does.

    • @t.twashington4001
      @t.twashington4001 Před 3 lety +6

      @ind0ctr1n3 are you saying that women shouldn’t be able to get an abortion or use adoption services Because you have to provide for children financially 🤦🏽‍♀️😂😂😂😂

  • @brianaday5027
    @brianaday5027 Před 3 lety +1901

    The fact that she had the nerve. She has 4 more children and her first child doesn’t know his siblings.

    • @moniquejefferson5676
      @moniquejefferson5676 Před 3 lety +23

      Trash

    • @chellierenae
      @chellierenae Před 3 lety +6

      😢😥

    • @moniquejefferson5676
      @moniquejefferson5676 Před 3 lety +25

      @@egyptsheannalundy2143 respecting her for being your mother is different than rocking with her. I can respect a person and be cool and cordial all day long. But we don't have to have lunch dinner I don't have to send her Christmas cards mother's Day cards birthday cards. I treat her like you do an older lady from church. You don't cuss in front of them you be courteous. But it doesn't mean that you have to develop a relationship. Because your grandmother is the one who you love and you do everything for. The Bible says honor your mother and your father that your days may be long on the Earth. But being a mother biologically doesn't mean that you are a caregiver

    • @deel.4958
      @deel.4958 Před 3 lety +9

      @@moniquejefferson5676 i feel like if they’ve done some fucked up shit then they don’t need respect nor the relationship. I get what you saying but hell nah

    • @CookieMonsterBabe123
      @CookieMonsterBabe123 Před 3 lety +7

      That’s what my father did, we live in the same town and I have no idea what the other 4 are like. Now that I’m grown, he wants to be in me and my soon to be baby’s life lmao.

  • @awaxxdagr8307
    @awaxxdagr8307 Před rokem +144

    This judge is a breath of fresh air for us men . Protect this lady ✊🏾✊🏾

    • @DanielAlder-rc9to
      @DanielAlder-rc9to Před 11 dny

      It's great how she just looks at the facts and doesn't discriminate or be sexist

  • @delorismassey8771
    @delorismassey8771 Před 3 měsíci +41

    This mom is absolutely pitiful.

  • @lucky-hd1yv
    @lucky-hd1yv Před 5 lety +1499

    the judge "I'm the only person that can have a attitude okay?" 😆😆😆

  • @Rspri10104
    @Rspri10104 Před 5 lety +1389

    A down to earth no nonsense judge. I love her.

    • @youtubetherapistllc7621
      @youtubetherapistllc7621 Před 5 lety +4

      She's fake... look at "about" section on the channel.

    • @raheempeters6813
      @raheempeters6813 Před 5 lety +2

      I also like a no nonsense taking person.

    • @DSrDavis-tq9qp
      @DSrDavis-tq9qp Před 3 lety +2

      She's for the people, run for President Judge, I'll vote for you

    • @lol.3460
      @lol.3460 Před 3 lety +1

      @@youtubetherapistllc7621 duh most shit on tv is fake

    • @lol.3460
      @lol.3460 Před 3 lety +2

      @@youtubetherapistllc7621 and she’s an attorney not a judge which is ok. It ain’t like she has no experience at all lol

  • @SethBryant1982
    @SethBryant1982 Před rokem +55

    Someone give this judge the humanitarian of the decade award. I simply love her. She's dope.🎉

  • @garethbrown9191
    @garethbrown9191 Před rokem +29

    He's a fantastic father! Certainly a better mother too! Texas should be proud of men like him!

  • @gmetayern
    @gmetayern Před 5 lety +750

    How do you walk away from your child, don't pay to support him and have that horrifying attitude.

    • @wizard9403
      @wizard9403 Před 5 lety +35

      So she abandoned her child to follow her dream of gluing phony eyelashes on somebody's mug!!!

    • @wizard9403
      @wizard9403 Před 5 lety +1

      @Ramone Ritchie Yes I do, life seemed a bit simpler back then!

    • @tanyabrown6969
      @tanyabrown6969 Před 5 lety +5

      I dont think anyone should be forced to take care of their offspring. True parents want to take care of their children and don't need a court order.

    • @itsjustme0820
      @itsjustme0820 Před 4 lety +1

      Don't know,,, but someone needs to ask the MAN in this video.. I have raised his 11 yr old son for 10 yrs now and HE hasn't paid a single cent because HE says he is working on His career!!!!!!!! And that is Not his real name.....

    • @mynameisnobody3931
      @mynameisnobody3931 Před 4 lety +1

      Blame feminism

  • @JAZZnMOTION
    @JAZZnMOTION Před 3 lety +692

    Her: “All he wants is money” Him: “our son want to play baseball”
    What a difference!!

  • @markszymanowski96
    @markszymanowski96 Před 2 lety +66

    LOVE that I came across this, as a single dad I received no support for 12 years, it is nice to see it is not always the man avoiding paying

    • @tamaraslifejourney989
      @tamaraslifejourney989 Před 18 dny

      It’s the same story regardless of who it is man or woman. The parent that’s not there only worry about not giving their money. They can care less about their child/children 😢

  • @DianaDiaz-rf2nq
    @DianaDiaz-rf2nq Před 2 lety +46

    The amount of patients this judge has is incredible. That woman made me want to throw my phone so many times because of her arrogance and cold hearted nature towards the child. I dont think she'll pay the child support or the back pay. Over all the way the judge handled this case and was able to help this man was amazing. I admire this womans ability to stay calm and professional but still retain some sass.

    • @myfavs3530
      @myfavs3530 Před 6 měsíci

      The State of Texas will have it directly taken out of her paycheck.

    • @LoveMusic-pd5iz
      @LoveMusic-pd5iz Před 4 měsíci

      The judge has patience...patients is what a doctor has. FYI, no judgement...

  • @girlslim45
    @girlslim45 Před 4 lety +461

    "I want to see you do that same mmm when I do the calculations." I'm dead. wow

  • @kimcamacho5204
    @kimcamacho5204 Před 3 lety +583

    Been binge watching these videos since I saw the clip on TikTok 😭

  • @jamesboone3678
    @jamesboone3678 Před 2 lety +31

    I love how he never puts her down. True gentleman like my mama raised me like.

  • @JalessaTunstall
    @JalessaTunstall Před 10 měsíci +10

    All children in america need a dad like him

  • @saramcgaha1029
    @saramcgaha1029 Před 5 lety +370

    85 grand as an esthetician? Shoot, I need to move to Texas!

    • @mimibehee1112
      @mimibehee1112 Před 3 lety +13

      She’s lying probably selling hair on the side

    • @Airdec5
      @Airdec5 Před 3 lety +9

      She is making way more than that

    • @teresaj.4103
      @teresaj.4103 Před 3 lety +14

      Wow... How can a woman walk away from her child. She is trifling, grimy, wrong and all the other names women call men who don't support their children!!!

    • @SmazzitSEOTrainingInstitute
      @SmazzitSEOTrainingInstitute Před 3 lety +1

      Lol

    • @美夜
      @美夜 Před 3 lety +1

      @@teresaj.4103 yk this show isn't real right? These are actors

  • @geekemedia
    @geekemedia Před 4 lety +276

    This woman is so selfish and refuses to see it

  • @MarioPerez-tn8px
    @MarioPerez-tn8px Před 2 lety +15

    When she sipped her coffee and said "lets see if you do that mmhm after these calculations" i fucking died 😂 never play with a judge they will ruin your life 😂

  • @amycalifornia3615
    @amycalifornia3615 Před rokem +11

    As a mother I just cannot fathom up and leaving my children it just is mind blowing to me

  • @jeremyburch3574
    @jeremyburch3574 Před 3 lety +781

    Satisfying to see mothers held accountable for once!

    • @aliaziz1145
      @aliaziz1145 Před rokem +5

      Western females…

    • @thedarkstar7045
      @thedarkstar7045 Před rokem

      @Ali Aziz Said what we were all thinkin..

    • @charity9660
      @charity9660 Před rokem +13

      You haven’t seen enough episodes then

    • @rachelreid8621
      @rachelreid8621 Před rokem +8

      ​@@aliaziz1145 that's not always true. I paid child support for my daughter AND only received disability for an income. I am physically disabled but still made it my business to pay my child support

    • @TannerisSmol97
      @TannerisSmol97 Před rokem +1

      Why? It's good to any shitty parent get it.. Why seeing a woman gets your pinky hard?

  • @dvatud904
    @dvatud904 Před 6 lety +409

    I love it when u tell 'em the child doesn't live off air alone.🤣🤣🤣
    But 4yrs back pay isn't enough.

    • @JudgeVondaB
      @JudgeVondaB  Před 6 lety +46

      DvaTva904 Thank you for commenting and tuning into the show!!
      It’s very true. People forget that it takes money to raise children.

    • @justme6665
      @justme6665 Před 6 lety +5

      Exactly! Well stated! I will fill the rest of that statement in for you. They live off money criminally extorted from a non-custodial parent under Title IV D...

    • @raheempeters6813
      @raheempeters6813 Před 5 lety +10

      Right. Four years of back pay isn't enough money. I wish that the courts would go back forth then that.

    • @pervertedatbest4117
      @pervertedatbest4117 Před 3 lety +4

      I'm sure dude had It covered...this was just to make a point....good for him

    • @johny6942
      @johny6942 Před 2 lety +3

      The thing is it’s a maximum bavkpay of 4 years that’s the max you can give

  • @darkstorm5388
    @darkstorm5388 Před rokem +32

    I got nothing but respect for this man

    • @SaySay1980
      @SaySay1980 Před 3 měsíci

      Yes yes he could of be rude and disrespectful but he wasn’t

  • @iamdewey5038
    @iamdewey5038 Před 2 lety +28

    The look at that woman's face when the judge gave her decision was priceless. It's like she was wanting to lunge at the judge. But good for the dude. Doesn't matter the parent is the mother or father, you got to take care of your kids period! full stop!

  • @JoelC
    @JoelC Před 4 lety +227

    "I have 2 ears but I can only listen to one person at a time." Love it!

    • @JoelC
      @JoelC Před 4 lety +6

      You know I’ll always support you, Vonda! Ash and I love watching this show! ❤️

    • @JudgeVondaB
      @JudgeVondaB  Před 4 lety +16

      I appreciate the love!!😎🙌🏽

    • @bohemoth1
      @bohemoth1 Před 2 lety +1

      The judge reminds me of Patti Labelle when she sings that SHE HAS A NEW ATTITUDE!

  • @sierrareed8225
    @sierrareed8225 Před 3 lety +563

    This needs to be on TV, because I love this👩🏾‍⚖️Found out about the show on TikTok, and now I’m binge watching!

    • @JudgeVondaB
      @JudgeVondaB  Před 3 lety +101

      Thank you!! Tell Oprah, Tyler, or Ellen to pick up the show.😁

    • @michelleennis8195
      @michelleennis8195 Před 3 lety +10

      Me too! I watch all sorts of documentaries and I never knew there was Child Support court.

    • @nicolaamore9415
      @nicolaamore9415 Před 3 lety +2

      Same now I’m obsessed lol

    • @vohehuli
      @vohehuli Před 3 lety +1

      Same

    • @shanaparrilla978
      @shanaparrilla978 Před 3 lety +1

      I hope so but hope they don’t sensor her no nonsense demeanor.

  • @KENOMAN1969
    @KENOMAN1969 Před 2 lety +6

    How can you not care about your own child? Sad 😢

  • @vengeancien
    @vengeancien Před 2 lety +18

    I hope people see the pain in the man's eyes when he had to say his son wasn't insured
    Lots of people just don't understand the shame the feeling of failure
    She smirked and all I can do is have this odd laugh because the behavior just has no limits
    Nothing surprises me
    Yall stay strong af Kings

  • @ohiohvac
    @ohiohvac Před 3 lety +70

    Mad respect to this FATHER.

    • @ybhomes6003
      @ybhomes6003 Před 4 měsíci

      You can tell he's still in pain. I think he still loves the mom.

  • @babeNbaby
    @babeNbaby Před 3 lety +214

    I can’t wait to be a judge to use the line “I’m the only person in here that can have an attitude” 😂

    • @ruthhenderson5413
      @ruthhenderson5413 Před 2 lety +2

      She can say that because she graduated from law school. passed the Bar exam, and knows what she's talking about. Are you willing to put in that many years of study and work that hard?

    • @jadie7082
      @jadie7082 Před rokem +2

      ​@Ruth Henderson I feel like they wouldn't comment this if they weren’t willing 💀

  • @feebzlee2079
    @feebzlee2079 Před rokem +16

    Love that you are so real, watched your court cases till 1am last night. ❤️
    Side note: this woman has the absolute nerve in this video. YES you should be held accountable for not supporting the child10 years?!? She lucky Texas does only 4 years back. It’s so unfair. I am speaking from a child who watched her mother sacrifice and struggle for years while my father is absent but wants no responsibility and blames me for the court holding him ACCOUNTABLE. It’s not even about the money, presence first.

  • @stefanc4520
    @stefanc4520 Před rokem +8

    I love how all these sassy black women get their own medicine thrown back at them by Vonda. Don't know many judges that would do that!

  • @spectredeadgaming7874
    @spectredeadgaming7874 Před 2 lety +360

    This is so much more refreshing to watch than paternity court. This judge is actually fair to both parties and doesn’t entertain nonsense. Definitely subbed and notifications on

    • @katherineduke3232
      @katherineduke3232 Před rokem +9

      Yeah, I can't stand Judge Lake some times. I watch her show, I like it most times, but I can't stand when Judge Lake tells men who aren't the biological father and was lied to and manipulated by the mother and such that they should "step up and be a father to the child/children" when it is not their responsibility. The guilt she tries to lay on them in my opinion is ridiculous. It's one thing if he has been raising the child like his for years and then decides to walk out... yeah okay that's when I think he should stay and be responsible for the child. But babies and toddlers? Nope. If they don't want to get attached to a child they found out is not theirs, I'm not going to moan about that and I think it's not right that Judge Lake encourages it anyway.

    • @nicolette100
      @nicolette100 Před rokem +7

      @@katherineduke3232 She does not do that. If he was found to NOT be the biological father but HE DID sign the birth certificate he is LEGALLY the father and he has to pay until the can get that corrected depending on the state they reside in.

    • @lamargordon6017
      @lamargordon6017 Před 9 měsíci +3

      ​@@nicolette100dont know what show you watch. Judge Lake ABSOLUTELY encourages victims of paternity fraud to take care of the child after finding out it's not theirs. She'll inform them they are still the legal father if they signed the birth certificate, but if they are free and clear to walk away (or even if they are they are the legal father) she'll try and talk them into staying.

    • @sydneyhoney
      @sydneyhoney Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@lamargordon6017to be fair, the state of paternity varies from state to state. i know that in texas it most definitely matters if you’re the bio dad or not. regardless if you’ve signed the birth certificate or not. you absolutely MUST be the father according to DNA results when it comes to paying child support in texas. although im not sure where exactly judge lakes court is based. but like i said, the laws vary from state to state when it comes to child support and visitation rights.

  • @ahvaearian6301
    @ahvaearian6301 Před 2 lety +56

    She’s trifling as hell wow. How do you just abandon your child and get mad when you have to pay? Sick.

    • @carolynrandle5454
      @carolynrandle5454 Před 9 měsíci +5

      And she has 4 more kids.wonder who takes care of them.

    • @SaySay1980
      @SaySay1980 Před 3 měsíci

      Omg I just shaking my head

  • @corrinaperez9824
    @corrinaperez9824 Před 8 měsíci +5

    I'm Glad for the guy and his child, that she left. They Clearly deserve a Real Woman and Mom in their lives. Props to Dad All the Way !

  • @matildamaher111
    @matildamaher111 Před rokem +5

    After watching some episodes , can't imagine the nerve of these women not being responsible mother and don't wish to pay child support, inspite of them earning more, absolutely shocking

  • @corybrooks871
    @corybrooks871 Před 5 lety +165

    i loooove how the judge told her off and then sipped her coffee or tea. that was pure ruthless lol

  • @kamikkaphillips-scott5533
    @kamikkaphillips-scott5533 Před 5 lety +109

    This mom has much attitude. My caliber of judge though. Down to earth and keep it crystal clear.

  • @ti0039a340
    @ti0039a340 Před 2 lety +6

    it's actually amazing that you need to be on a tv show to be equal under the law in child cases.
    i've heard a lot of stories of fathers being dragged through the system time and time again being forced to pay child suport even if he has 50/50 custody
    i really hope the father and his child gets a better life after this so the child can get on with his life with a deadbeat mom.

    • @edcox2051
      @edcox2051 Před 3 měsíci

      Fathers still pay child support even if it is 50/50

  • @travmakesbeats3372
    @travmakesbeats3372 Před 2 lety +5

    I love how dusty she is in Court but been chasing her career for 10 years. Dude is a still a higher class person than here.

  • @louradelaney69
    @louradelaney69 Před 5 lety +205

    This judge is great. So concise and down to earth. Mind you, that child would have been in school for years now. There’s absolutely no reason the father couldn’t have worked part time or gone to higher education. But - like the judge said, that wasn’t the reason why they were there and darn right, the mother should support her own child.

    • @classymom9047
      @classymom9047 Před 4 lety +9

      Well he's a sahm...if she was helping.maybe he would have time to.get out and do something is it was a woman no questions would have been asked...how you going to leave a child at 11months...she's wicked

    • @knitetimeteddy2989
      @knitetimeteddy2989 Před 2 lety +14

      their are plenty of stay at home moms tho, that take care of the child 24/7.
      Someone has literally gotta watch them foreal. this is a prime example of when the genders are reversed. No one has a problem or bats n eye when its a women staying home.
      Most fathers dont have a problem providing either while thier wife is at home all the time. AS SOON AS THE GENDERS SWITCH, its a problem.... I thought this is wat women where fighting for these days tho? lol Yall wanted to be in mens roles right?
      Funny how when yall see it happening tho yall like HELL NAW lmao.

    • @theonethathungers5552
      @theonethathungers5552 Před 2 lety +10

      But how do we know he’s unemployed? She said he was unemployed, but she also had abandoned them for 10 years. Inconsistent pay isn’t gonna cut 10 years for a dude and his child. He was doing SOMETHING to get money. Whether it was part time as a cashier, working a pole at a gay club, being a business owner (he did say he owned a business), or even being a drug dealer, he had money somehow. Just because she believes he’s unemployed or doesn’t know about him having a job doesn’t mean he’s unemployed. He’s a man, he can’t have five kids and live off of their dad’s child support.

    • @Donna-qt1ot
      @Donna-qt1ot Před 2 lety +4

      @@knitetimeteddy2989 , you are so right. It's perfectly acceptable for a woman to be a sahm, but let a man do the same? We can't have that.
      What a bunch of horse puckey. Should his son be a latch key child? Should he just run the streets until Dad gets off work?
      How dare she say anything regarding his employment status? She ABANDONED them!!! Glad to see her pay.

  • @LususxNaturae
    @LususxNaturae Před 3 lety +47

    It’s wild that people KNOW who they finna be sitting across from and STILL choose to come in with an attitude knowing my good sis finna outshine that real quick.

  • @marebear606
    @marebear606 Před rokem +5

    I cannot believe how many mothers walk away from their children leave their other half to raise them, or give them to their parents. And it’s so shameful.

    • @ThatHomelessScrubbalo
      @ThatHomelessScrubbalo Před 9 měsíci

      it is shameful. And whats worse is that women think they can do it but fathers cant. Thats why i like this judge...

    • @brianna7359
      @brianna7359 Před 5 měsíci

      That statement goes both ways. Women and men both up and leave their children for their other half’s to deal with it and think they don’t have to pay until they’re brought to child support. Judge Vonda is extremely considerate and fair in every case there is and doesn’t put up with any pettiest meanwhile any other judge will make you pay a ridiculous amount or not grant you much custody of your children even if you’re the primary caretaker out of pettiness.

  • @Corinacc825
    @Corinacc825 Před rokem +2

    Judge Vonda B
    Judge Judy
    Judge Lynn Toler
    Judge Faith Jenkins
    Judge Frank Caprio
    Judge Alex
    Judge Lauren Lake
    G. O. A. T 🏆 !!!

  • @breelimerick4072
    @breelimerick4072 Před 3 lety +143

    She really has a way of putting people in their places and I love it. Great job!

  • @ayannawright2301
    @ayannawright2301 Před 5 lety +74

    I've learned something new about back child support. Didn't know the custodian parent can ask for back support. Judge you've taught me something today

    • @dodybenfer625
      @dodybenfer625 Před 4 lety +2

      You can ask for anything you want. it doesnt mean you will get a judge to agree with what you asked for, but if you dont ask at the time of the court hearings and decree being written up, they oftentimes wont let you go back later to ask then.

  • @lisapolk9391
    @lisapolk9391 Před 2 lety +3

    Absolutely despicable she is not even concerned about how the child will feel as he grows up about a Mother who wants nothing to do with him. Prime example of what can bring out ugliness in a child as an adult of wanting a Mothers love and more.

  • @SaraSmile23
    @SaraSmile23 Před rokem +1

    that mother should absolutely be ashamed of herself. ugh..thank god that child has a father who actually loves his child!

  • @dbvfx8628
    @dbvfx8628 Před 3 lety +87

    I absolutely LOVE Judge Vonda B. She is fair and doesn't take any BS. I'm in Texas too and when my son was 5 my son's biological donor (not a mother by any means now) abandoned him for the simple fact that the judge awarded my Conservatorship and she was forced to pay child support. He's 23 now and we have yet to see ANY action taken towards her. She has never even seen him once since then or reached out. She's never spent a day in jail or paid a single dollar and owes me over $43,000. Maybe if back in the day we had to stand before Judge Von B things would have been different...but then again, there's only so much a judge can do. It's no easier for a man to raise a child by themselves than it is a woman to raise one so shout out to all the stand-up parents out there handling their business by every means necessary and Judge Von B callin' it like it is.

    • @lydiapaddie7763
      @lydiapaddie7763 Před 2 lety +2

      If you had a court order you can collect the delinquent amount

    • @katherineduke3232
      @katherineduke3232 Před rokem +3

      Yes Texas is the WORST! I'm also in Texas, neither of my children's fathers show up to visits or pay their court ordered MINIMUM child support.... my daughters father is actually LESS than the state minimum (he gave a sob story about being in rehab and finding God so he couldn't afford minimum support.... the day after court he left rehab. No idea where he is. Doesn't pay up or show up... not in my daughter's 8 years on this earth. She hasnt met him and we recently told her that my hisband is not her biological father but he has raised her since she was 2.) .... my son is special needs and his father hasn't shown in 9 years. He is now 12 and his fathers visits were few anyway. He always cancelled and he even LEFT HIM AT THE DAYCARE AND NEVER PICKED HIM UP WITHOUT TELLING ME HE WASNT GOING TO HAVE HIS VISIT SO I GOT A CALL AT FREAKIN 7PM FROM THE DAYCARE SAYING NO ONE PICKED HIM AND THEY WERE ABOUT TO CALL THE POLICE FOR ABANDONMENT!!!!!! I asked why he never showed or even bothered to call me and he said "I was working it's not a big deal I just forgot".... like REALLY?! My son is autistic, adhd, and is now being tested for intellectual disability. He has a ton of medical bills and me and my husband and sometimes my mother have been doing it all without any help from my ex. I have reported him to the state multiple times for not paying any of his support and the state never does anything about it.
      Texas is absolutely ridiculous! Like yeah these men (or in other cases, women) are trash, but they know they can get away with it because the state won't do ANYTHING about it!

  • @drewthistlethwaite8909
    @drewthistlethwaite8909 Před 3 lety +68

    This man stood up and said “nah were ending this nonsense” and became mom and dad. He said screw you i love my kid anyway and they won’t go without as much as possible. I love it.

    • @drewthistlethwaite8909
      @drewthistlethwaite8909 Před 3 lety +2

      I know he’s an actor FYI but it’s based off of real life, so wanna congratulate and be thankful to this real Life dude who just stepped up.

  • @angelfire402
    @angelfire402 Před 2 měsíci +1

    "it takes more then air to raise a child" I love it? Judge Vonda you keep it classy.

  • @jinz948
    @jinz948 Před 2 lety +3

    Ms Vonda, you are everything, thank you for making these

  • @dontetidwell4867
    @dontetidwell4867 Před 5 lety +57

    I love how fair this judge was and didnt have any favoritism towards neither person. Good stuff Judge

  • @lucky-hd1yv
    @lucky-hd1yv Před 5 lety +87

    I can't believe the amount of people who don't want to take responsibility in taking care of their children. Wow 😱😱.

  • @harrietbernstein7202
    @harrietbernstein7202 Před 7 měsíci +7

    She looks like his mother

  • @SaltStorm007
    @SaltStorm007 Před rokem +2

    ‘I’m the only person in here who can have attitude’....I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS WOMAN💯Hope you and your family have a blessed one Judge Vonda....you are an inspiration! BTW...you always look AMAZING on the stand!
    One last thing....I have finally found your channel after watching all these clips of people commenting on your content and he linked your channel! NEW SUB!!

  • @frankterronez8743
    @frankterronez8743 Před 5 lety +56

    I'm a 62 year old father full custody of an 8 year old son. I ask for no child support, I cannot put a price on his safety and happiness we barely make it, God provides us with all.

    • @dodybenfer625
      @dodybenfer625 Před 4 lety +9

      you should request a child support order to be placed. if for no other reason it gives a child the opportunity to think of the payer with more respect for helping to have a little more. you might be surprised how much children base thei own little judgements on what a parent gives as money

    • @dejasteele3347
      @dejasteele3347 Před 2 lety

      @@dodybenfer625 z Az

  • @nikkitaylor6402
    @nikkitaylor6402 Před 3 lety +14

    Love the fact that the judge gets in their asses calmly and respectfully!!!!! Binge watching now!!!!!!

  • @FantazomiXroma
    @FantazomiXroma Před 2 lety +4

    Sometimes I can’t believe parents as detached as her exist. A child is a WHOLE LIFE, which you CHOSE to bring into existence. She’s treating the child like a brand new iPhone she’s no longer interested in and can just drop.

  • @lauranmacklin8889
    @lauranmacklin8889 Před 2 lety +6

    Just discovered this judge today, and I just love how rational and understanding she is. Subscribing 💕

  • @latoyasmith6521
    @latoyasmith6521 Před 3 lety +116

    The realest judge I have ever watched besides judge judy but baby it's good to see a strong black woman like this!! This makes me want to sip tea as well lol

    • @justsaying8605
      @justsaying8605 Před 3 lety +2

      Judge Faith is another good, strong black Female judge! They're Both Awesome!!!

    • @auriking9038
      @auriking9038 Před 2 lety +1

      Judge Lynn Toler too.

    • @CameronThomasMedia
      @CameronThomasMedia Před 2 lety

      'strong black woman" lol...that means a lonely black woman with too much mouth.

    • @latoyasmith6521
      @latoyasmith6521 Před 2 lety +2

      @@CameronThomasMedia so being a strong woman means too much mouth???!! So she's supposed to be timid or something? Please elaborate on your comment. I would love to hear your theory....

  • @imthatguyiguess
    @imthatguyiguess Před 5 lety +24

    Her attitude in court to people who have an attitude is brilliant. Takes no shit but dishes it out. Best judge I've seen.

  • @donnabrock8861
    @donnabrock8861 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I want to know how many of these deadbeat parents actually pay the court ordered child support.

  • @nrfnrd
    @nrfnrd Před 4 měsíci +1

    I hope he has a good paying job now. He’s an awesome father.

  • @mistytaylor8166
    @mistytaylor8166 Před 3 lety +74

    I cant get over the fact that a woman would just give up her child, and this woman seems so detached from the whole situation. It honestly blows my mind. I could never give up my child, she is 12 now and I sometimes need to go take a breath, but never could I imagine just giving her up. 👩‍👧

    • @verlenegashweseoma1603
      @verlenegashweseoma1603 Před 2 lety +2

      Same here, my boys are my life, my heart, my reason to keep moving forward every day.

    • @conniead5206
      @conniead5206 Před rokem +1

      Plenty of fathers don’t want their child(ren). Why would you be surprised that there are mothers who don’t?

    • @charlieann456
      @charlieann456 Před rokem +2

      The mother thought it through. Dad doesn't have a job, so the amt of child support she would get if she had custody, was too low for her. She gave the child to his Dad and walked away.

    • @cortezmiller1899
      @cortezmiller1899 Před rokem

      @@conniead5206 Exactly!

    • @amacauley8000
      @amacauley8000 Před rokem +1

      @@charlieann456 the mother drove me nuts! The dad laid it out that the son is his main focus and making sure he’s doing the best he can. Her insults of get a job and stop living off her! Wonder how the other 4 kids are doing😊😮

  • @johnwilson2632
    @johnwilson2632 Před 3 lety +17

    He's such a beautiful man 😍 and the fact that he's raising a child gives me hope.

  • @princepdj
    @princepdj Před 2 lety +1

    That made no sense she should obtain a lawyer and just get custody of the child.

  • @elieenm4391
    @elieenm4391 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thzt mother needs to pay and it's a disgrace that she doesn't even see her son.

  • @angelaknabe5468
    @angelaknabe5468 Před 3 lety +21

    This judge is amazing. I love the way she matched the moms energy

  • @808758
    @808758 Před 2 lety +66

    I love it she is so level headed. I don't know how young mom was when she had her child, but there's no way I could abandon my 11 month old.

    • @allenhooper7830
      @allenhooper7830 Před 2 lety +1

      What the hell did he ever she in her?

    • @SaySay1980
      @SaySay1980 Před 3 měsíci

      Oh wow that’s crazy I couldn’t do that

  • @brendasuelong-bryant3855

    I love how professional the judge is!

  • @Waffles84
    @Waffles84 Před rokem +2

    Omg 😱. This so called mother has a cocky uncaring attitude. The observers in court look 👀 like they can’t believe her attitude 😮

  • @DannyboyProductions0
    @DannyboyProductions0 Před 3 lety +33

    I really love black judges. Real stuff

  • @348Heather
    @348Heather Před 3 lety +16

    Mannnn I need to go see u!!!! I've raised my son alone for almost 14yrs. Even with child support enforcement involved we've barely gotten a handful of payments. He's never been held accountable. Now they've thrown all his back owed child support to the tune of atleast 100k Down the drain! And stopped his payments because he went to jail. Us single parents really get the shaft!

  • @mikebastoni4490
    @mikebastoni4490 Před 2 lety +2

    This guy sounds like a really good dad and he trying

  • @petracatogge6265
    @petracatogge6265 Před 4 měsíci +1

    What an arrogant piece of work that “mother” is!. She made and carried the kid and needs to support her son.

  • @armandlucas3534
    @armandlucas3534 Před 5 lety +46

    I thought in court in Virginia for 5 years. My family was ruined in the process. I wish I had a judge with heart like you. Thank you for showing unbiased justice.

  • @babyface7421
    @babyface7421 Před 4 lety +16

    These eps teaches you to becareful who you lay down with and have a baby with.

  • @bigfuego676
    @bigfuego676 Před měsícem +1

    Judge Vonda B does NOT play, you hear me. She is the real deal. I love how fair her courtroom is

  • @ceriedwards991
    @ceriedwards991 Před 2 lety

    I like your calmness. I like how you're no nonsense. Good job
    Nothing much more rewarding than helping a child.

  • @Douglastrds
    @Douglastrds Před 3 lety +5

    I hope his kid is doing well now. Proud of this man.

  • @tracijasper4716
    @tracijasper4716 Před 3 lety +8

    Checkout how the dad sat up the straightest when the Judge started calculating the costs 😆 his eye lit up.

  • @mrgeno4682
    @mrgeno4682 Před 2 lety +1

    She understated what she makes so she should be paying more. These women absolutely HATE to have accountability when it comes to child support.

  • @daneden9640
    @daneden9640 Před 5 měsíci +1

    This father needs back support big time! She is a crappy mom in fact, she is no mom! What a horrible person!

  • @vanessahassett6855
    @vanessahassett6855 Před 5 lety +18

    I hate deadbeat mom's and dad. She needs to pay up now. Back payment needs to be paid today.

    • @haitiqueen0119
      @haitiqueen0119 Před 5 lety

      Today's judicial system is a joke 😭😭😭😭

  • @senseiois4208
    @senseiois4208 Před 4 lety +19

    Thank you for doing the right thing for doing what's right and needs to be done not all men are deadbeat dad's and I'm sure you see that there are good men out there raising children to the best of their abilities and from watching only two episodes I can tell you can see the best and worst in both mothers and fathers so thank you for being you and doing what your doing my best regards and I praise you for your work and commitment to and excellent judgement in your job

  • @91rummy
    @91rummy Před 4 měsíci +1

    It always good to have a court order on child support immediately. Not wait for 10 years..

  • @thecontrarian999
    @thecontrarian999 Před 4 měsíci +1

    These independent career women are so brave. Pay up. She is so responsible and never missed a payment.

  • @roastingroyalty2630
    @roastingroyalty2630 Před 4 lety +36

    “I wanna see you do that same mhph when I finish these calculations” lmaoooo

  • @Specialcot77
    @Specialcot77 Před 5 lety +39

    I'm glad a Judge finally put a Mom's in Her Place

    •  Před 5 lety +1

      THANK GOD!!!

    • @raheempeters6813
      @raheempeters6813 Před 5 lety +1

      I'm felling the same way.

  • @courtneywilliams7988
    @courtneywilliams7988 Před 7 měsíci +2

    This is a damn good father! Amen to him. Mother can just pay child support and go on with herself if she wanna be a dead beat.

  • @WaitYourNameIsRagnarok
    @WaitYourNameIsRagnarok Před 4 měsíci +1

    Making the judge your enemy is the worst thing you can do and that's exactly what this woman did.

  • @nebulasfart
    @nebulasfart Před 3 lety +24

    Her comebacks kill me lol. I’m obsessed with your videos mam.

  • @maureennowell
    @maureennowell Před 5 lety +7

    I'm loving this new show, this lady don't take no crap from nobody.

  • @anthonysmith5854
    @anthonysmith5854 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you Judge! Ive seen so many single Fathers that get absolutely no credit for the load they carry while suffering in silence. While im all for supporting single (or even married) Mothers that unfairly carry a load, im not blinded to the men who do the same and are often unsung heros. Thank you for being fair and bringing light to a truth thats often been veiled by bitterness, resentment, and attemps at revenge.

  • @paulaliberty2082
    @paulaliberty2082 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thank YOU Judge for your hard work & good decisions. We reeeaaallly need you in Wyoming 😂❤ And Montana & Colorado & Nebraska & South Dakota & Minnesota