You are pretty spot on about how a lady shows signs she likes a man. I visit my lady friend's church (wwwhich is business causal) a few times but the last time I visited there I was gonna catch her off guard because I didn't tell her I was coming and it is more of the same. A nice classy dress, nice makeup, and high heels. She goes out of her way so each time it is worth the visit
I've done all of these things around my crush. We usually see each other at work, in uniform, so I do my hair a bit more differently and I sometimes put on makeup when I know he's going to be there.
TheSarahkitten42 does he react (his feedback) positive or negative? Or, because of his behavior and reaction, you can't distinguish yet? Thanks for your comment 😊
TheSarahkitten42 keep trying, but try not to be too pushy. Just sufficient to allure his interest. (Remember, don't beg either. You are looking for someone that you deserve .... and that he deserve you.) 😃😊
This is different when it comes to a shy girl. I tend to talk to everybody else other than my crush. He may get a high and a smile if he's lucky. 🤗 That's if I've built up enough confidence on doing that. I think it would be easier if he'd break the ice first. If you like a girl go for it, guys are suppose to be the pursuer 💕
Annette English We sound JUST alike!! I get nervous around my crush. Right now it's a man at work. I'm head over heels for him, but don't know what to do about it. He seems interested, but hasn't made a move either. I think we're waiting on the other person to initiate. That didn't work for me the two times I tried in 39 years. I'm so torn, but also tired of not "knowing" what he feels. It's terrible and makes me sad. 😭
interesting study found that women are the initators of romantic interest 98% of the time. she uses body language and subtle hints shes interested. a man if he is perecptive enough will pick up on these and make the approach if he lieks her to. for shy girls it takes a very perceptive man ( like me ) :). but men are simply not wired to pick up signals as easily as women due to the male brain wiring.
Annette English Hi so i am in college and i am a little shy to, but like the past month this shy muslim girl been looking at me and our last fall semester she was by her self looking at me i looked and smiled. But i didnt make move i was clueless. Now after break i dont see her as much and she usually with her friends should i move on?
This is why men shouldn't speak for women and women shouldn't speak for men :D. I like someone, at work, and I don't tick any of these boxes. I wear the same stuff I would normally wear. I don't laugh or giggle with him more than with other people. I have initiated contact with him more than once but he wasn't very responsive and that made me more distant. So though I am attracted to him and always 'aware' of his presence, I don't do any of these things.
@@Dooger111 that sucks bro because honestly with shy girls most of the time you’re gonna have to do all the initiating bro you said she’s extremely shy
When you say “gitty,” what if she’s making jokes or doing weird things like balancing a water bottle on her head? Does that also mean she’s very comfortable?
Adam Mapp thank you. You are so right I even act like he don't exist. So I made the move. Guess what now he's testing me. This man has been doing the whatever it takes for months just to say hello to. Now this is the thing, I don't care how much I'm into a man as soon as I see a game or a test, I'm done. Why do people make things too complicate it. I really like you. Alot in fact but this ain't to me. So then when I lose interested men become very interested and chase you. Adam good luck n do got these little girls they're into games.
i have a crush on a girl. And i dont knw whether she likes me or not, but we used to talk nicely earlier,,and then all of a sudden she started ignoring me..probably because my friend mentioned that i had a gf, which was absolutely false, and i reacted in a negative way , which ofcourse implied that i dont have a gf. But is it becuase of this that she lost intrest? Or pls can anyone tell that why is she actually ignoring me..its like she sees my posts. but she does not DM or reply to my text. Pls help
Celldweller Stahli It sounds like because she thinks that you have a gf. Maybe she's not sure how you feel about her. She may really like you, but can't handle the fact that she thinks you have a gf so she tries to protect her feelings but just not speaking to you all together. Out of respect of the gf she thinks you have. She may just feel awkward altogether. Maybe she's all of the sudden became shy with you. Did something transpire between the two of you? I think you should just try to talk to her and she where she's at when it comes to you. If your afraid then maybe asked a close friend of hers, maybe someone mutual. Just trying to feel her out, is she shy?
The girl looks at me everyday since the 10th grade I’m a senior now but every time she see me she doesn’t say nun she jus looks at and always looks away but doesn’t talk to me I don’t get it 🤨and I don’t wanna approach her and jus get rejected in front of my friends so idk she stares but doesn’t say nun and when I talk to her she doesn’t seem interested
She talks to me a lot in person, but she doesn't really do much on text or Snapchat. Is that bad? Her body language always shows me that she's interested. I can't tell if she doesn't really text much or very well. Help.
I have a question i text the girl that i like but she does not reply. but every time we're together she is always smiling at me and laughing. she will only reply my text after we spend time with each other. ? and every time i flirt with her she will tell me to stop but she was laughing and smiling.
she's just being friendly to u that's all don't think that way just move on but when u do it stay just be friends with her and if she get a little sad about u that you're liking someone then u got her but for now move on because she just being friendly to u
Ok, so this new girl that I met at work is obviously shy and reserved and when I was introduced by a senior it was love at first sight. I had never felt anything so strong in my life before; I didn't even believe in it until I properly noticed her. We stared into each other's eyes and smiled -- but her smile was different; her eyes, I don't know but I was certain for a moment afterwards that she liked me, until my pure-OCD doubts. Anyway, the senior eventually got me to talk to her but it was unbearable; I couldn't even look at her as I was shaking with my mind in a trance-like state and I didn't know what to say and I even said: "sorry, I don't how to start a conversation", which I know I shouldn't have done but what could I do in that position? She generally smiled at the time and said: "so...do want to rotate here? ("rotate here", because we are lifeguards). She must think of me as a fool. I have pure-OCD and social anxiety, and I am also shy and reserved too and I've never been in a relationship before. For the rest of the day I was crumbling and feeling a burning and sinking sensation in my stomach so unbearably strong that I kicked my water bottle off my chair because I was trembling. After going home I only slept for under three hours and the feeling remains the same because I always let girls slip away; time is running out and I haven't even had the chance to talk to her. I was on a shift with her a week later and still the same strong feeling; I tried to control myself but nothing went in my favour! I also think that I'm a laughing stock to her as I see her with a woman senior looking at me and smiling from far away yesterday; when I approach to rotate, she is still smiling like I am a laughing stock! But know one else is to me. I think they were talking about me too which made me think: "Oh, God"! She also stares at me from far away, but doesn't smile; she studies with her eyes, like me as a shy person I can identify close-up. What do I need to do if I can't control myself? And if anyone could help me, then I would be most grateful!
@@hberguy9078 Hey man, it's kind of hard to tell now. She'll be lifeguarding in the chair opposite me and I nearly catch her looking at me; everytime I try to look at her she quickly turns her head away. She always wants to find stuff out about me but she won't accept my friend request - even if she has accepted other work colleagues. Everytime I see her it's that same painful rollercoaster drop and burn feeling; I'm sweating and then I start to struggle getting words out quickly with a panicky slipping tongue. I think she knows now too; rumours go around like crazy. She also does this thing where she'll rotate with another (female) lifeguard, giggle with her and then look at me after?
@@bethanyjosephadventures2935 I understand how tough it is for you, with your anxiety and everything. Honestly I'm no ladies man myself but, I'm thinking since you're both shy somebody has to take charge and initiate something. Chances are she's not gonna do it. It's up to you my guy. Do you take meds for your anxiety? If not, I know you have some type of confidence or "know-how" because you have a job. so what's really stopping you from getting this chick in your bed and knocking them ankles loose. It's gotta be the over analyzing that's holding you back bro. That OCD and anxiety is probably the results of over analyzing too. Realize most people don't think about what you do because they're are to busy with their own thoughts and worries etc. Anyway I'd ask her if she wants to do anything together sometime like a movie, eat out, park walk etc. If she refuses then forget her. Ignore her like she doesn't exist, it may be hard bcuz you work together but you have to look out for yourself first. Any attention you give her if she rejects you would be more validation for her and more pain for you. I've been there and done that. You don't want that. Good luck friend.
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I already presume she doesn't like me. Therefore I get that out of the way and get on with my day.
Or were too shy and waiting for you to say something first lol
patricia gabriel omg my point exactly. I'm waiting for him bloody hell lol
All women are shy and lack the confidence to approach. You'll never see a woman DM a man first.
Adam M actually there are some woman who dm’s a man first. It’s never a never lol
@@theerealatm not true
What if she is reserved and shy, Would she still communicate?
Not always. Sometimes we are very nervous around the guy we really like. So, take this as a grain of salt, fellas.
At this time what is the right thing that we have to do?
@@AjithAjith-qi7km nothing. dating is fucked as they say
O_o When i like Someone .... I'm shy .... but when I'm not, I'm talkative ... 😂🤦🏻♀️ I think the person get the mix signal 😆
100% true! When I like someone… I don’t see any red flags 🚩 on him.
I won't talk to him if I like him but I can't help but smile when I see a guy like.
Hmmm...as a female I have to agree with you. Your good really good!
@jaspal singh '_'
@jaspal singh She doesn't your name. Lol
Datinglogic you seem extra happy in this video!
You are pretty spot on about how a lady shows signs she likes a man. I visit my lady friend's church (wwwhich is business causal) a few times but the last time I visited there I was gonna catch her off guard because I didn't tell her I was coming and it is more of the same. A nice classy dress, nice makeup, and high heels. She goes out of her way so each time it is worth the visit
She hugs me every day
I've done all of these things around my crush.
We usually see each other at work, in uniform, so I do my hair a bit more differently and I sometimes put on makeup when I know he's going to be there.
TheSarahkitten42 does he react (his feedback) positive or negative? Or, because of his behavior and reaction, you can't distinguish yet? Thanks for your comment 😊
daco
I can't quite tell, but it's leaning towards positive.
And you're quite welcome! 😊
TheSarahkitten42 keep trying, but try not to be too pushy. Just sufficient to allure his interest. (Remember, don't beg either. You are looking for someone that you deserve .... and that he deserve you.) 😃😊
daco
Thanks, man. 🙂
TheSarahkitten42. U r welkum.
Lool, he did this video twice, once like this, and another time when he was high af
Jacob McQuaid LMAOOO
This is different when it comes to a shy girl. I tend to talk to everybody else other than my crush. He may get a high and a smile if he's lucky. 🤗 That's if I've built up enough confidence on doing that. I think it would be easier if he'd break the ice first. If you like a girl go for it, guys are suppose to be the pursuer 💕
Annette English We sound JUST alike!! I get nervous around my crush. Right now it's a man at work. I'm head over heels for him, but don't know what to do about it. He seems interested, but hasn't made a move either. I think we're waiting on the other person to initiate. That didn't work for me the two times I tried in 39 years. I'm so torn, but also tired of not "knowing" what he feels. It's terrible and makes me sad. 😭
interesting study found that women are the initators of romantic interest 98% of the time. she uses body language and subtle hints shes interested. a man if he is perecptive enough will pick up on these and make the approach if he lieks her to. for shy girls it takes a very perceptive man ( like me ) :). but men are simply not wired to pick up signals as easily as women due to the male brain wiring.
Annette English Hi so i am in college and i am a little shy to, but like the past month this shy muslim girl been looking at me and our last fall semester she was by her self looking at me i looked and smiled. But i didnt make move i was clueless. Now after break i dont see her as much and she usually with her friends should i move on?
@@yassinouro-aguy1827 Bro, I'm going through the same exact thing.
What if she doesn’t talk to anyone at work not even girls ?
I am shy but I will still let a guy know if I like him.
This is why men shouldn't speak for women and women shouldn't speak for men :D. I like someone, at work, and I don't tick any of these boxes. I wear the same stuff I would normally wear. I don't laugh or giggle with him more than with other people. I have initiated contact with him more than once but he wasn't very responsive and that made me more distant. So though I am attracted to him and always 'aware' of his presence, I don't do any of these things.
good stuff bro...love all your videos....Man you are the real deal! thanks for posting and for all your help.
None of my girlfriends ever texted me proactively. I think we shouldn't assume everyone is extraverted.
100% the giddy part Lollll
But what if they are nervous
Mj got problems text her my dude
I’m going through this. Girl I’m talking to is shy as f*ck. It’s confusing
@@Dooger111 that sucks bro because honestly with shy girls most of the time you’re gonna have to do all the initiating bro you said she’s extremely shy
There is different kinds of attraction. And different types of liking people.
When you say “gitty,” what if she’s making jokes or doing weird things like balancing a water bottle on her head? Does that also mean she’s very comfortable?
What if he say he will call back but never and he does not text back?
How to make them like you? That's the real question. Nobody is born with liking someone
I'm so confused. I like him but we have been told to wait. I am waiting for hi. To make the move but he's afraid. So what then.
Adam Mapp thank you. You are so right I even act like he don't exist. So I made the move. Guess what now he's testing me. This man has been doing the whatever it takes for months just to say hello to. Now this is the thing, I don't care how much I'm into a man as soon as I see a game or a test, I'm done. Why do people make things too complicate it. I really like you. Alot in fact but this ain't to me. So then when I lose interested men become very interested and chase you.
Adam good luck n do got these little girls they're into games.
lol how does this ever happen
@@theerealatm Every single thing you said is so true.
Good video
i have a crush on a girl. And i dont knw whether she likes me or not, but we used to talk nicely earlier,,and then all of a sudden she started ignoring me..probably because my friend mentioned that i had a gf, which was absolutely false, and i reacted in a negative way , which ofcourse implied that i dont have a gf. But is it becuase of this that she lost intrest? Or pls can anyone tell that why is she actually ignoring me..its like she sees my posts. but she does not DM or reply to my text. Pls help
She thinks you are lying and thinking you could be a player
Then how do i convince her?..should i start talking to her?
Celldwell Stahli why did your friend lie to her? Is it maybe a matter of jealousy? Or a bad taste joke? Who knows?
Talk to her one on one don't let anyone be there she will listen, good luck
Celldweller Stahli It sounds like because she thinks that you have a gf. Maybe she's not sure how you feel about her. She may really like you, but can't handle the fact that she thinks you have a gf so she tries to protect her feelings but just not speaking to you all together. Out of respect of the gf she thinks you have. She may just feel awkward altogether. Maybe she's all of the sudden became shy with you. Did something transpire between the two of you? I think you should just try to talk to her and she where she's at when it comes to you. If your afraid then maybe asked a close friend of hers, maybe someone mutual. Just trying to feel her out, is she shy?
The girl looks at me everyday since the 10th grade I’m a senior now but every time she see me she doesn’t say nun she jus looks at and always looks away but doesn’t talk to me I don’t get it 🤨and I don’t wanna approach her and jus get rejected in front of my friends so idk she stares but doesn’t say nun and when I talk to her she doesn’t seem interested
WHO IS THIS GUY ON DATING LOGIC VIDEOS.
Cool video
Dude you have like 4 vid that have the same titles
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true true
She talks to me a lot in person, but she doesn't really do much on text or Snapchat. Is that bad? Her body language always shows me that she's interested. I can't tell if she doesn't really text much or very well. Help.
NOTHING. NOTHING compares to face to face. it's better
@@grandoldsoul4691 Thanks fam.
Lol so true 😌
Men should man up
No. If you are honest with woman you get hurt. Play the game but never fall for them.
Sure go talk to girls. One night stands etc. but relationsships just break apart so dont even try
@@legobuildingsrewiew7538 you sound bitter. It's unattractive. There's a reason your relationship didn't work out. Look at your own behavior.
camilla de vivenot define man up
@@grandoldsoul4691 no reply
I have a question i text the girl that i like but she does not reply. but every time we're together she is always smiling at me and laughing. she will only reply my text after we spend time with each other. ? and every time i flirt with her she will tell me to stop but she was laughing and smiling.
she's just being friendly to u that's all don't think that way just move on but when u do it stay just be friends with her and if she get a little sad about u that you're liking someone then u got her but for now move on because she just being friendly to u
Sounds like your friendzoned. If she doesn't respond flirting back, then it's just platonic
When girls say stop like that, they want you to stop dude.She probably knows you like her like that too
I hope my crush will not see this vidéo 😂😂
Ok, so this new girl that I met at work is obviously shy and reserved and when I was introduced by a senior it was love at first sight.
I had never felt anything so strong in my life before; I didn't even believe in it until I properly noticed her.
We stared into each other's eyes and smiled -- but her smile was different; her eyes, I don't know but I was certain for a moment afterwards that she liked me, until my pure-OCD doubts.
Anyway, the senior eventually got me to talk to her but it was unbearable; I couldn't even look at her as I was shaking with my mind in a trance-like state and I didn't know what to say and I even said: "sorry, I don't how to start a conversation", which I know I shouldn't have done but what could I do in that position?
She generally smiled at the time and said: "so...do want to rotate here? ("rotate here", because we are lifeguards).
She must think of me as a fool.
I have pure-OCD and social anxiety, and I am also shy and reserved too and I've never been in a relationship before.
For the rest of the day I was crumbling and feeling a burning and sinking sensation in my stomach so unbearably strong that I kicked my water bottle off my chair because I was trembling.
After going home I only slept for under three hours and the feeling remains the same because I always let girls slip away; time is running out and I haven't even had the chance to talk to her.
I was on a shift with her a week later and still the same strong feeling; I tried to control myself but nothing went in my favour!
I also think that I'm a laughing stock to her as I see her with a woman senior looking at me and smiling from far away yesterday; when I approach to rotate, she is still smiling like I am a laughing stock!
But know one else is to me.
I think they were talking about me too which made me think: "Oh, God"!
She also stares at me from far away, but doesn't smile; she studies with her eyes, like me as a shy person I can identify close-up.
What do I need to do if I can't control myself? And if anyone could help me, then I would be most grateful!
You gotta talk to her bro. The feeling of "what could've been "for me is almost worst than rejection.
@@hberguy9078 Hey man, it's kind of hard to tell now. She'll be lifeguarding in the chair opposite me and I nearly catch her looking at me; everytime I try to look at her she quickly turns her head away.
She always wants to find stuff out about me but she won't accept my friend request - even if she has accepted other work colleagues.
Everytime I see her it's that same painful rollercoaster drop and burn feeling; I'm sweating and then I start to struggle getting words out quickly with a panicky slipping tongue.
I think she knows now too; rumours go around like crazy.
She also does this thing where she'll rotate with another (female) lifeguard, giggle with her and then look at me after?
@@bethanyjosephadventures2935 I understand how tough it is for you, with your anxiety and everything. Honestly I'm no ladies man myself but, I'm thinking since you're both shy somebody has to take charge and initiate something. Chances are she's not gonna do it. It's up to you my guy. Do you take meds for your anxiety? If not, I know you have some type of confidence or "know-how" because you have a job. so what's really stopping you from getting this chick in your bed and knocking them ankles loose. It's gotta be the over analyzing that's holding you back bro. That OCD and anxiety is probably the results of over analyzing too. Realize most people don't think about what you do because they're are to busy with their own thoughts and worries etc. Anyway I'd ask her if she wants to do anything together sometime like a movie, eat out, park walk etc. If she refuses then forget her. Ignore her like she doesn't exist, it may be hard bcuz you work together but you have to look out for yourself first. Any attention you give her if she rejects you would be more validation for her and more pain for you. I've been there and done that. You don't want that. Good luck friend.
@@hberguy9078 Well said.
I’m the 666’th person who liked your video I’m scared lol