Subtle signs that your crush is interested in you, likes you
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- čas přidán 6. 01. 2014
- If he/she is a little nervous around you but is normally a really calm person, that is an indication. For instance if he is joking around with people and all of a sudden you show up, he might act a little more "proper," and you might notice sweating, blushing, or possibly his hands might tremble slightly. Those are all signs of nerves. Also, if he starts asking around about you, that is a definite indication he is interested. No one would do that if they don't care.
Marie Dubuque is a life coach who loves to give advice on everything from dating dilemmas and drama-filled friendships to tricky social situations and romantic relationships gone south! - Jak na to + styl
You're so calm when you explain things I love it. Very feminine graceful energy :) I appreciate this and your wisdom.
Lauren Smigelski thank you for your kind words.
Lauren Smigelski totally I Agree. She is so sweet.😍
Beautiful comment
I act really aloof when I'm interested in someone, childish, I know. I think it's a defense mechanism.
Really? Coz I have this guy who already showed up to my turf
You're a coward.
Same lol I’ve just come to the conclusion that the man who is for me is just going to naturally see through my facade and pay it no mind. 😂
You are like my internet mom!!
"otherwise, why on earth would anyone be nervous around you? - because they are trying to impress" -
I love your calmness... Makes me feel all my stressing is unnecessary and life's going to be okay. Your advice is also very helpful. Thanks Mary!
Grace, since you aren't sure where you stand with him, be his friend for now. And just take it day by day. And since he is friendly with a lot of girls, you do the same! Be friendly with the guys as well.
Marie Dubuque scrub
Hey MISS, I really need your help. A girl at work was giving me all the SHY girl signs that she likes me for like a month and a half. . Staring when she thinks I'm not looking. Getting nervous and clumsy when I would talk to her. She would find excuses to get close to me. She even started to turn red when I would look at her. She started talking to my friends and lingering close by trying to get in my conversations. BUT then she told me she has a Boyfriend what happened????
Love this one!! Watched almost 6 of your videos today and this one really nailed it! He's a player. Don't walk. Run!!! 💃🏽💃🏼💃🏻
Keulisi, he wants to talk to you, but is nervous. You need to talk to him. As soon as you do that, he will feel more comfortable and approach you.
Marie Dubuque please continue making videos they are really helpful
You Ma'am, are awesome. Great advice. That's speaking from what I know in life. All ears people!
Gud boi john john back at it again
Love this lady. She is spot on. Everything she said that people do when they like you is what I DO! :) Trying to bump into them like "Oh, I didn't see you there." Or look at them in the corner of my eye. Also, eating in front of them is kinda hard, but I'm getting better at it.
Ma'am your words sound most appropriate to my situation. Highly appreciated! Thanks.
Thank you Marie! You've helped me understand my crush. :)
Awesome advice! Thanks for sharing.
OMG this channel is killing me ... I feel like I'm getting addicted to her . listening to her 24 hours over and over again ... sometimes watching some of her videos more than 10 times ... she just is teaching me how to get things done I literally love her I really found her channel very very helpful . and i really appreciate her job .thank you so much sweetheart.
She's amazing
Definitely a player. I have heard this saying 'how he came to you is how he will leave you'
I already follow everything, even before I found u, except I always found it hard to look away from the players even if I knew it was wrong X( but everything else is ingrained in my heart. :)
This gal *is one smart cookie.*
*Where was she at when I needed dating advice?*
hey Marie, love your vids. You helped me to deal with a toxic friend. You give your advice in such a motherly way. Keep it up!
David, thank you so much for your kind words. Really glad I could help.
Marie Dubuque thank you so much!
When I like someone I instantly distance myself, I don't give much eye contact, I act nonchalant and sarcastic and I also treat them like I have no time to spend with them. I keep it very casual.
You helped me a lot thanks! (I watch a lot of ur videos)
The signs you mentioned I think are really cute. It never happened as far as I know when I'm around, to other people, but it does happen to me a lot.
😔😖 you're right..I Love your channel. Thank you.
Thanks your video helped me a lot.
thanks for the advice
Wow... You can read body language well. I'm usually talkative and extraverted and around people I'm interested in I will be very nervous, watch them, try to accidentally run into them wow. Very affirming.
Hi Marie, I find your videos so helpful and thank you so much for uploading the videos! :) Long story short, he came to a restaurant I used to work and I saw him there like twice. We hadn't met each other for a quite long time and I accidentally bumped into him at his workplace (he works at a perfume stand at a shopping centre). That was our first time when we had a proper convo. He introduced himself while we were talking and I left in about 10mins. I felt this thing from him what you said I'll know when I meet the right person. So I said hello to him whenever I go to grocery shopping coz the perfume stand is right in front of the grocery store I go. Everytime, we had 5~10mins of convo and he rememberd all the details I said and asked me questions like what's my new year's resolution, What I'm interested in etc. I thought he wanted to get to know me but when we found out that we share common interests, I suggested to teach the language he wants to learn, but he didn't ask my number. I was so disappointed that he didn't ask it. even if he's very shy, If he's really interested in me, he shoulda asked my number coz that was the best chance ever! but he didn't and never does. We both know that we dont' see each other on a regular basis. Do you think he's interested in me or he just talks to me simply because he's bored while working?
Kim, it's hard to tell. I would let a little time pass before you stop by again. Say you go in once a week. Don't go in for another two weeks. And then see if he seems to wonder why you hadn't come in or miss you.
The Rules of Dating is a good book!!
This is very accurate .
This one is really spot on me. Thanks a lot! It just one thing that I'm not quite sure. He did try to impress me, his hands were shaking when he's talking to me or in front of me, he could not really make a lot of eye contact when he's taking to me or in front of me, he did look at me when he thought I didn't see that, he tried to talk to me, he did subtlety touch my hand when we're playing with a kitten, he stared at my face when I was playing with the kitten beside him and he helped me carrying a heavy bag when I wasn't asking him tho. It just he never text me first. And I never have the courage to text him If I don't have any important things to be discussed with him.. Hmmm I don't know what's his real feelings towards me..
Oh. I love ur facial expressions when u r talking. Lol. Great advice always. Thanks.
Omg, first video of yours I watched.. And I totally adore you! Thanks for this video, it helped me deal with a coworker I'm crushing on (who happens to be taken) so now I'm gonna take your advice and run? Lol god, I can't stop thinking about him though, lol
Garrett, yes, you are doing the right thing! And then when he is no longer "taken" you could revisit the situation. But don't wait around!! You are not going to play second fiddle to anyone...If he does break up with her, that's a different story.
+Marie Dubuque thank you so much for the advice, your brilliant! I'm going to go to work today with confidence thanks to you!
You Rock, Marie")!
You're just awesome!
my crush knows i like him and if i come up to talk to my bestfriend her locker is under his. she will say something sometimes or her and i have a conversation he responds but then when i say something its like im not even there what does that mean . i mean ik he doesnt like me honestly i have little hope that does anyways
He knows I like him, and every day when I see him he says good morning (my name) in a really cheery voice, or gives me a huge exaggerated wave and a big smile. I'm the only person he seems to do this with. He's normally pretty quiet. He waves and says hi to other people sometimes, but it's much different with other people in both tone of voice and the gestures he uses. Sometimes he initiates conversations with me, and he usually smiles the entire time I'm talking to him. He also asks me for hi fives all the time, which sounds just friendly, but maybe it's his lame way of breaking the touch barrier? Still unsure if he likes me...
Hi. There's this girl at work. She talks to everyone but me. I catch her looking at me but then she looks away. I've attempted to say hi to her but she just smiles without a word. So then I leave it alone, but then she would sit across from me while nobody is around and stare at me with this look. I won't lie, I got super nervous and started shaking. Needless to say, I couldn't continue my work in fear she might see my hands shaking. I locked eyes with her but ended up looking down. When I looked up again, she's still looking at me. I felt like I could run a marathon with how I was feeling. I'm so confused and can't seem to read her. Like a push and pull. Some days she seems interested and some days she doesn't acknowledge I'm there but talks to the person next to me. What do you think is happening?
Hi, I'm a new subscriber. Your videos are so helpful btw. I just need a little advice. There's this boy I met in my science class and we used to sit next to each other and we got along really well. It was very obvious that he liked me. He would always drop little hints, and I pretended not to notice so that it wouldn't be awkward. Here comes the bad part. The teacher rearranged the seating and I'm all the way across the room, with a bunch of students blocking him from my view. I never see him anymore, and when I do, we always end up looking away out of shyness or only say hello. I can see it in his eyes though. I can tell he's trying hard to do something. And so am I. We snapchat like every day! But it's just so hard to come up with something to talk about. I don't know if he knows I like him, and I don't know if he knows I know that he likes me. (I just realized how confusing that sounds) I'm scared of losing him, because he always talks to prettier girls. Please help me :(
Sophie Marie try to talk to him in person. I know you sit far away from him, but try getting to class a few minutes early and catch him on the way in, or out the door. And just say hi, how's it going, or talk about the class. He probably wants to find a reason to talk to you as well.
Lol, when I realized I liked this guy, I just thought "oh no..." and tried denying it. But not only is he physically attractive, he takes care of his parents, says things like, "I do what I can [to help out the environment]," cares about the fluoride in our waters, works out, likes the outdoors, generally likes to help out, isn't materialistic (one time he said he felt sick to his stomach when a lady was being very rude to a barista), is a bit goofy sometimes, and laughs at his own jokes/comments*. For me, that's kind of hard not to be attracted to.
*okay, we all know no one is that funny all the time, but I smile/laugh for him. I smiled at him once one time and he grinned back.
I think he becomes tense and ignores me because he hates me and everyone knows i like him so he must know so his creeped out...also im quiet and i think cause his so social he wants to talk to me but because im quiet he doesnt know how to
Some cues that are also given are catching someone in the midst of looking at you and they turn ( either they like you or your just isolated so there kinda wondering what going on)
2. They stutter while you talk and continuously wiggle there body time to time while talking.
3. Strong eye contact . Either they find u attractive or they enjoy your company , either way it’s a win win situation
Hello Marie, first let me say that I really enjoy your videos in that you are very concise and give a lot of food for thought in a short amount of time. I wonder if you would consider doing a video about "mixed signals", or at least that's what I'm calling them. Here's my situation, I have a crush on a lady at work, sometimes when we are talking, she seems to be really enjoying my company and often we spend much more time conversing than we really should at work. Other times she seems to be indifferent and uninterested. Which leaves me feeling frustrated and confused, wondering if she is just moody, or she is not sure whether she interested or not, or is it something else. Any input that you have to offer me is greatly appreciated, thank you.
+Doug 99% of the time if a woman is interested, she'll show normal signs of interest. She's probably not at all interested. Don't pursue, it would be awkward for you at work. If you're lonely, go out more and meet women you don't work with :)
Why would a guy who is usually confident become nervous? He came up to me and we were talking and after a few minutes he started to fidget and shift his weight, touched his face etc. He doesnt act that way when we talk and other people are around. He also stumbled on his words and began to mumble slightly. Usually I'm the one who mumbles and fidgets. This time I felt more confident, so it was strange how the tables had turned.
+UNEARTHED36 he probably likes you! That is why he is nervous.
On some occasion on class/events. He always try to be beside me every time there's a chance. He cracks some jokes even though it's not as crazy funny like when he's with his friends. But sometimes he doesn't always interact with me. What is that supposed to mean??
Love all of your videos, Marie! What are your thoughts on giving someone the "gift of missing you"?
Absolutely! And I think playing a little hard to get is also a good thing!
I feel like my situation is even more tricky because he's both extremely shy and his friends make fun of him because I like him. There was a point where his friends (because they're my friends too) tried setting me up with him but it never happened because apparently he was "too shy". Now I feel like he's avoiding me, but I don' t know if it's because he isn't interested or because he doesn't know how to act around me. When we meet eye contact in the hallways we both look away really fast. There was even this one situation where his friends pushed him into me in the lunch room and we repelled against each other and pretended it didn't happen. I think we both get equally nervous, but i don't know what kind of nervous he his feeling. Any advice? I want to talk to him but I don't know how..
Maryrose, I think he likes you, but is afraid to talk to you because of the hard time his friends are giving him. You need to talk to him! What do you have to lose? Nothing!
Not sure if my crush is crushing on me or not. She is a colleague of mine. She looks away when walking past me but I have caught her looking at me when my back is turned toward her. I could see it in the reflection of windows at my work. I tend to do the same thing with her. I only look at her when her back is toward me.
I have noticed lately that she has mirrored my behavior lately in some areas and maybe it is just coincidental. For example in the last 2 months I have improved very much on my job performance taking more initiative and doing tasks above the call of duty. In the last week I noticed those same changes in her too.
There's also been inconsistency in her behavior toward me. Last week she avoids me but just yesterday she sat next to me on the break bench when there was plenty of space for her to move further down.
I've known her for 12 years and didn't develop feelings for her until a month ago. That was when I started to distance myself from her and get all nervous and freeze up. I haven't spoken to her at all since my feelings progressed except on work related stuff.
Hello Marie, I really enjoy your videos.
I think I'm without hope, I really can't tell if my crush at the gym is just friendly or...likes me too. After a few months of glances I took courage and started to talk to him properly, the first time (I think) he was actually happy, he even gently pinched my wrist.. then he started to wait for me after class just to have a little chit chat, one time he asked me what day it was (at the and of the day what's the point? Am I silly to find it cute?) He smiles if I say something remotely funny, he asks questions if I talk to him just for the sake of it (this week he caressed my arm, but he's a touchy guy, so I'm confused..) Last time I said to him that we actually never introduced ourselves, he smiled when I said: "nice to meet you!" He didn't had to but then he started to talk about some family problems (linked to my name) also an ex girlfriend popped up during conversation, I would like to think that he was trying to say to me: "hey I'm single!" but I really don't know.. When we said goodbye he used my name, I was tired to be "you" or "her", it made me really happy, but I'm scared that nothing will ever happen because I'm so insicure, not even compliments or long glances help, in the end I always think that he is just a friendly guy and all the signs are in my head.
Oh well.. last night I asked him to share the punching bag with me for the first time ever, he nodded yes, he didn't even speak.. Let's say that he wasn't friendly at all, he hardly said a word to me, but he spoke with another friend. I've seen him far more relax or at least chatty when he shared the punching bag with other people, not necessarily close friends. I guess that's it, I don't think he was nervous cause he likes me, probably a bit scared because I showed some unwanted interest. From now on I'll try to keep distance from him, mistaking friendly gestures is a bit painful.
Marie I love you and your videos. It's like listening to the mother I wish I had over the screen :) lol well there's girl and I'm getting all these good vibes from her. We are being flirty, having fun, then all of the sudden her mood changes. She tells me to go away? And today we went ice skating with the church and we hugged each other (it was awkwardly nice) and then we're having this deep eye contact and she says how she wants to go on the ice with me. Then up and leaves and doesn't talk to me for the rest of the night. Before she left she looked at me. I was pissed cause she did me like that so I looked away. Then I turned back but not looking at her so idk if she was looking at me during this? But I was the only one sitting there and she looked back not directly cause I remember seeing her side eye not full from my perifriual vision. She looked back 3 times. I still don't get it she seems into me then leaves. Without saying A WORD. but I'm sure when we see each other she will say hi. What do I do Marie? Does it seem like she likes me? Is this hard to get? Mixed signals.
erin Zonkin hard to tell. As long as she wasn't talking to some other guy, she was probably just nervous. The next time you see her, act like everything is completely normal, and this never happened.
Hey so this girl in my class, we are lab partners. She and I hit it off, we talk a lot, joke around alot, decent amount of smiles and eye contact. When we work together, she pretty much rubs up against me most of the time. I met her friend and I also very briefly, like for a second, met her sister. She is very supportive, i might have to drop the class and she keeps telling me I can do it. Every I say she laughs at or smiles, every text i send she replies with a lol or lmafo (depending on the subject). The only thing that she calls me dude while texting, never face to face. Idk, I'm seriously starting to like the girl, idk if I should jump it and ask her out or keep texting her. We are both Chaldean, and we met each other about 10 weeks ago or so.
Hi I've watched some of your videos and noticed if you do a lot on non verbal cues and this helps but I've been wondering if you could please do verbal cues like things they might say when talking to you.
Hey Marie, I recently encountered a personal situation whereby I would love to get your advice on. My heart has an answer but I'm unsure if its the right one. So I would like to get a third party's opinion. Could I write to you?
Marie, how can I handle not being taken advantage of? I have this problem that whenever I talk to a guy (I'm 16) we make really good friends, but it always ends up with him falling in love with me. (I am in love with a guy I can't have, I have been for a very long time) and I haven't been able to like other guys in a very long time. With this issue, I always come across as confident and not nervous. Whenever they confess, they don't want to be friends with me anymore. Whenever i ask why, many people reply ''you're attractive'', that's why. I really feel sad about not being able to have guy friends, almost never because they all end up leaving. I'm only being myself,smiling, being happy (and careful), but this is starting to be a problem.
These videos are helpful but they're also hilarious lol
Hi Marie, I was wondering how much do you think age or school levels matter if at all when pursuing a relationship.
hi, marie
i recently have this crush whom i tend to meet frequently !!
it seems that i meet her always!! , walkway , library ,even during course registration.
Plus we give each other eye contact,sometimes our eyes meet ,for 1/2 sec,i would hold mine breath whenever that happens.........................
i could not decide ,whether is this a positive or neutral sign :/ ...
But i admit i am overwhelmed by her beauty and grace ,and probably am feeling a bit insecure about mine own physical attributes.
Thankya, Mrs Dubuque. I feel embarrassed, cause I donno how to hide the feelings, but this viddy and other of ya viddies give me a hint how to do so. It just feels horrible.////Andy
I am in a situation where the person I like stares at me a lot, I walk to class every morning and at the end of the hall sits this girl, she stares at me as I approach the class and when i finally make eye contact she looks away. my friend has also told me this girls very occupied with her phone while waiting for class, but when i turn up she puts her phone away and is interested. Are these good signs and what would your advice be for me to take the next step of talking to her?
Hi Marie, I want to know that if I'm like MEGA BEST FRIENDS with a guy and I do something really special for his birthday and he's like oh my god that's so sweet of you and he hugs me and i always have a great time with him and he's always talking to me and he comes to my locker after school and he comforts me when I'm sad and he always smiles when we talk and he always tries to make me laugh and he always has to come over when I'm talking to other guys (especially if the guy is a good friend of his) also he lets me write my name on every single pair of shoes he has, does he like me or are we just really great friends?
Hello Marie! I've been curious about this weird feeling you get from a old crush. I don't know if it's just me but there's this guy I used to have a crush on last year and like one time I was in a room with him at school and I got so uncomfortable that I was ready to just leave. I even stare at him when he's not looking but i don't feel anything like I felt last year so am kind confused. Also thank you for all the great advice it really do help!
Breana, could be he leading you on in some way? Be careful, he could be a player. Don't fall into that trap.
they also look at you when they find you to be weird or strange or their uncomfortable around you
So recently I have noticed my crush has been looking at me more. Also, whenever he walks past my desk he always smiles at me. And in many of my classes he sits close to me so whenever he tells a joke to his friend next to him he always looks at me to see if I'm laughing along with them. Oh yeah, and in gym if I happen to run next to his friends accidentally they always look at me weird as well. So yeah, it's really confusing
What about if you both know each other but not that well. But your chemistry is very good. Communication is a breeze, a little confusion due to cultural differences but overall there is a level of respect. And flirtation through her wanting to share things, like food, etc with me. And eye contact is strong.
A girl I like talks to me everyday at school and she flirts with me a lot, but when I try to text her she doesn't ever respond. It seems as if she has a crush on me, but when I try to text her I usually don't get a great response. I don't want to seem desperate, but I want to talk to her. Also, her friends sometimes ask me if I like her, and they say we would make a cute couple. Is she interested?
Hey Mary. Should I ignore her for a few days to see if she texts me back. She's known for being a really bad texted only saying one word. But when she's around me she talks often and is usually always around me.
Hi Marie I love your videos!! I have a question: how do you deal with not being good at something and you think that everyone around you notices? Is there like a tip to make you feel better? I've been really sad about it lately :( its because I'm not good at soccer and everyone on my team is so much better and I even heard someone say I was bad at it and now I have like a mini panic attack every time I go to soccer :(
J, if you love soccer, keep going. When you have a passion for something, you will improve because you are working hard at it. If you aren't the star of the team, so what. Years from now you want to remember how much fun you had being part of a team, not who was the star. But if you are only playing soccer because of some kind of pressure to play, and you hate the sport, don't do it. Finish out the season (because you made a commitment) and then don't sign up again. And remember, you don't have to be the best at every single thing you do. Maybe you are a musician, or a writer, or a great speaker. But it's good to be physically active as well. And honestly, you are better off not being so competitive. Then you just enjoy the sport instead of focusing on winning.
Hi Marie, how can I deal with a friend who lies and keeps things from me? They add too much to my life to stop being friends with them but their lies are hurtful to me.
edgarae1, you've got to keep your distance from this person. Anything you say or do could be the subject of gossip. I know you say they add to much to your life, but what? Sure, keep him/her at arm's length, and only socialize when you are in a group with your other friends, but other than that, be careful.
PLEASE READ I really need help. What if the guy I like is an outgoing person in general but, as soon as I'm around he goes quiet & his shoulders kind of tense up. He doesn't talk to me unless there is someone else around & he'll say maybe one sentence but, avoid my eye contact. I caught him staring three times in one day but, he wasn't smiling . He was looking at me like he was thinking and when I looked at him he kept eye contact, and he watched me before opening the door (he opens it for all of the ladies) , he got up from his seat to sit right beside me even though he didn't say anything, again. And he ignores me every now and then. I don't know what to do his mixed signals are driving me crazy. Also, I'm a very shy person so I don't initiate conversation.
Hi Marie, there was a guy he said he loved me but he didnt chase me and said i would have to come half way since he came half way. I was a bit nervous and needed time to think about it so i didnt show as much interest, although i said i would try going out with him and see if it worked. He was happy about that but after 3 days he broke off and disappeared. I cant reach him now and i dont know if he liked me or not, we met only once and talked about 4-5 times over the phone. I am so confused about this guy, he said he loved me but he forgot how i looked! so i was confused
Hello! I have a question... there's this guy I really like and for a while, he liked me too. He would subtlety touch me or try to talk to me and stare at me a lot. But out of the blue he has began to HATE me. Well, maybe not hate, but he began to purposely sit away from me, GLARE at me... I'm worried that he didn't realise I was interested because I'm extremely shy and its even worse around him. But I'm pretty sure he knew I was interested. Please help!
Hi :) can you do a video saying how to get out of a friend zone? Thanks so much :-) hope you will love your vids!!
So this guy I like has this tendency to ((when I pass him) look at me and sometimes I catch him out the corner of my eye, other times, he and I look each other dead in our eyes. When we talk face-to-face he always has to touch my hands or me in general in some way and he always looks me directly in my eyes. He sometimes brags about the things he does. When I come around, I'm not sure if he necessarily straightens up or if its his natural posture. Sometimes I think he becomes a bit stiffer, but I'm not sure. I once asked him if he was watching me because I felt eyes and he said "yes". If he notices me, he'll , sometimes, casually walk close to where I am then turn around and go back to where he came from, but he often does things that confuses me as to whether he likes me or not. Can you help ?
Alexandria Harris It sounds like he is very nervous around you and trying to impress you, That is why he is bragging. I would try talking to him a little more. He will slowly become more relaxed around you.
Hi Marie you give great advice I need some advice I really like this girl in my school and she barley talks to me and she told me at frist she feels the same way and them the next day she says she dosnt but I wanna be with her what do I do ?
I feel like I give off mixed signals when I am into someone. One minute I ask this guy a lot of questions and the next I back off from him because I don't want to look desperate. I know this guys single and I know he's probably looking to date but I don't know if he's necessarily interested because it's too soon to tell. What's weird is that I didn't really see him talking to other women and if he did it didn't seem to last that long.
so can I start by saying hi cuz all we do is look at each other
I know this person who has a crush on somebody and now he doesn't really to talk to her he does talk back to her when she talking to him but a few weeks ago he would always say hi you would say you're a great friend and it will talk sometimes this stop just like he's trying to avoid her something
Does the raised eye brows, prolong eye contact, when she sees me means she’s interested?
Hi Marie, how do I go about a guy who was once engaged to my best friend, (i don't know what happened in between), but suddenly they're not together anymore and he confessed an attraction for me...This is awkward...I really have no idea what to do because I never felt the same way he does, I don't know if my best friend knows about him talking to me because we haven't spoke in forever. *Sighs* he's hell-bent on meeting with me but i'm not comfortable with seeing him period, and this person was a jerk to me in high school -_- (we're adults now) I don't know how to tell him that i'm not comfortable with him trying to pursue me...I've had several other guys trying to pursue me the same way but I'm single by choice. You advice is really awesome!
MsSasha, this sounds like a guy who is not going to give up. So, you have to tell him straight up, no. And you are right not to want to date him.
Hi Marie, I don't know if he does like me. He does state at me all the time, and he said when I was bullied that he would protect me. He's one grade above me. I don't know if he likes me. I've also had dreams about him, liking me and it's really confusing. What should I do?
These one or two word responses either verbally or text don't always mean lack of interest. One or two word responses when your working with you're crush means that there very busy to talk if you're both very busy with work. This girl is shy and nervous and quiet so explains a lot xx
I've been having this problem for awhile now whether or not this guy is interested. We use to talk two yrs ago. He wanted to hangout but for whatever reason I kept turning him down. We recently started talking again and planning to hangout. Is this a sign he's interested?
Hi Marie. What If a girl shows signs of both,. I notice that this one girl in a class of mine is quick to talk to everyone but avoids talking to me. when we do talk she still seems just as friendly she just avoids eye contact. I've been running into her a lot this semester outside of class, but she just waves and keeps walking. When I use to talk to her a couple of months ago she seemed pretty relaxed and when I asked her a question in class it was if we were just meeting for the first time. It seemed real superficial, she asked me about how hard I thought a quiz was to keep conversation going.
Will, could it be that she senses you are interested in her, but she doesn't feel the same, and that is why she is acting a little evasive?
Thank you because I think I'm doing some of these things around my crush and he doesn't know I like him. I thinking I should tell tomorrow. But scene I'm shy I don't know how so I'm just going to tell him about my feelings and if he doesn't like me back I'm ok with that. I mean life is a game this is a easy obstacle to get around. And not cry but stay strong
Honestly, that's how my crush acts, but it sucks, because he's wayyyyy wayyyy outta my league, and I'd probably embarrass him. I've Been head over heels for 2 years now.
she keeps telling me to get to know each other, and go slow anytime I get her compliments. she is so shy when I look at her and tell her she is pretty. what can I do?
Do you think that when somebody mumbles when they talk to you if that is a sign as well? Your video is great! I could basically used this as a check list for the guy i like when we had our first "official" encounter the other night :D
jake, if it is a sign of nerves, then yes it could be. But if he mumbles to everyone, then no. you have to pay attention to how he treats other people compared to you.
There is this guy I always see in the hallways, (he's also in my gym block) I always catch him staring at me and whenever I look back he doesn't look away but me being me I look away first because I'm a little shy. I always see him no matter what. Help.
So I have a crush on tis guy, when we text he is pretty talkative and sweet but in person he is completely awkward, he doesn't really say a lot, he stated stares at me blankly or he will turn away and just stay quiet while smile at me, he asked me to hang out out of school, but he can barely even speak to me in person at School, I initiate the conversation all the time, but he walks up to me, please help!
What if she gives you eye contact signals 2-3 days in a row, but when it seem obvious she likes you, next day she (purposely) avoids eye contact?
What if my crush and I talk when we are alone but when we are in class with everyone else he doesn't talk to me as much.
Hey Marie, there's this guy at school and I think he likes me but I'm not a 100% sure. He's shy around some people but around his friends he's not. And one day my friend started teasing me and him saying he likes me and we saw him give a smile and look away quickly saying no like he was laughing and then he quickly walked away. Do you think he likes me? Should I make the first move or should I wait for him to make the first move?
Hey Marie nice hair
Marie. in my math class my crush sat some where else (its a small classroom) like at the computer by the wall n that's like on my right side and as i look of the corner of my eye, i can see that he sometimes look at me. and in the hallways he would walk like close up to me behind me. does that mean anything?? (im a girl fyi)
i need help. There is this girl that I like in one of my classes. I'm not sure if she likes me but I always catch her looking at me and she always looks away right when I catch her. We text occasionally and she is always fixing her hair.
My crush States at me, and even if I stare back he holds my eyes and keeps staring. Also, whenever we talk he comes close to me and stares at my eyes then my lips. I've noticed that a few times. What does this mean? Please help me!
My crush is okay around everyone else but is quiet around me for some reason and he stares at me when I'm not looking. When I catch him he looks away quickly. I've gotten my friends to ask him out for me before but he rejected in the past. I don't get to really talk to him anymore because he's always surrounded by his friends who keep asking me questions and teasing me but I think they're just playing around. He can't even say hi back while being okay. He looks down but glances up sometimes... What do you think?? I'm confused Thx and please reply back...
epicness everything I think he is just nervous around you. He will relax more once he gets to know you etter.
Hi ! There's this girl that I like, we hang out quite a bit. But whenever we're outside, she's usually uptight, reserved and maybe day dreaming .... Like when I'm talking to her, she tends to look to her left.
Also, does it mean anything when a girl bid goodbye, and never look back ?
I'm finding ways of how I can make her relax and be more open, instead of being so uptight.
Jia Kai Lim Gradually she will warm up to you. I wouldn't push it. Let this happen on her terms. She seems shy.
Why does she leave when I am outside taking care of my plants, then come back after I go in the house five minutes later. She seems all nerves when I am around, she gets mad when I pay attention, then when I don't give her my attention she struts around and dresses up, make a lot of noise in front of her house across the street.
I just don't get her, last time I went to talk to her, I received a negative response from her. She needs to make up her mind, I just want to have fun, date her and see where things go.
This Crush i have that works a Trader Joes when she was ringing me up i was talking to her and her face was turning red as she was talking to me.Then at the end of the transaction she said have a good day in a very sweet pitch tone she's never said it in that tone before.I know it's her job to be nice but blushing doesn't go that way it's based on emotion. I've talked to her before i've seen her there for a while now she said she has been working there for 2 years. Next time i am going to ask her out for a drink.
Well I'm interested in this one guy, and but I've only really spoken to him once or twice. I noticed that he usually looks my direction but like above my head. One day I decided to follow him on social media and he let me follow him but he never followed back. He followed everyone else back... And my friend are friends with him so if we go and talk to him he's kinda quiet. Is he avoiding me for some strange reason? What's happening??
Well I'm guessing he likes you, probably hiding his feelings.
However, you could ask someone you know of him. You'll find an answer. Remember, don't waste your precious time on him if he doesn't care about you.
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