"She's lost her mind." Gilbert Police bodycam footage with Charles Vallow

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  • čas přidán 18. 05. 2020
  • Gilbert Police have released bodycam video of Charles Vallow talking with police five months before his death. He claimed his then-wife Lori Vallow locked him out of the house and he was asking for the police's help.

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  • @SeeeEmilyyPlayy
    @SeeeEmilyyPlayy Před 4 lety +193

    This cop is condescending af

  • @missmartine7139
    @missmartine7139 Před 4 lety +207

    The man is dead & the kids are gone. How does this cop sleep at night???

    • @nikkic83
      @nikkic83 Před 4 lety +14

      Miss Martine it’s not the cops fault it’s existing laws. He was trying so hard figure out a way to do something within the law. Sometimes a cops hands are tied.

    • @JenniB123
      @JenniB123 Před 4 lety +3

      @Karen Van Zant The court does that - not the cop

    • @ejwis1
      @ejwis1 Před 4 lety +5

      Your seriously blaming the cop.

    • @dianenolan8645
      @dianenolan8645 Před 4 lety +9

      And 2 days ago the remains of the kids found on Chad's property! Unbelievable!!! Serial killers! No other way to describe Lori & Chad & Alex!

    • @MrMoe158
      @MrMoe158 Před 4 lety +8

      @@ejwis1 Yup sure am .They failed in this situation

  • @pittapatttasin
    @pittapatttasin Před 4 lety +286

    I feel for Charles. The cops did not seem at all sympathetic to his situation and his wife was a legit lunatic that ultimately had him murdered.

    • @kimdolschenko5601
      @kimdolschenko5601 Před 4 lety +16

      Not sympathetic at all!

    • @taylorkirkham571
      @taylorkirkham571 Před 4 lety +14

      Cops are supposed to be unbiased

    • @PuraVida777
      @PuraVida777 Před 4 lety +7

      Yeah Police are paid to respond observe report & follow up with complaint. If the complaint is wiling to prosecute. A summons can be issued or arrest made!

    • @PuraVida777
      @PuraVida777 Před 4 lety

      @Jane Doe As soon as I seen that all my Cars had been taken out of the Garage I would of kicked the garage door in & looked for my Kids. This dude was jumping the fence asking cops if he is allowed to break his own window! Cop was like no dip shit don't break a window how you gonna secure it after you break it. I wouldn't of been so calm... I have seen people alot more in a panic over locking there keys in there car. This dude is missing 30k In Cash his Truck, Kids & Nefew! No one is answering his phone after a long week @ work. DEAD GIVEAWAY

    • @PuraVida777
      @PuraVida777 Před 4 lety

      Dead GIVEAWAY he was involved in some weird stuff!

  • @JMD621
    @JMD621 Před 4 lety +379

    In spite of all she did to make him miserable by taking his truck clothes and money, Charles remained calm and respectful. He was a good good man. Lori needs to pay for his murder.

    • @cliffordbodine5834
      @cliffordbodine5834 Před 4 lety +10

      She could be inhabited by a demon.

    • @troy3456789
      @troy3456789 Před 4 lety +10

      @@cliffordbodine5834 How can we be absolutely certain you're not as cuckoo in the coconut as she is? did you ever get anyone to show you a ghost or demon (to test the assertion to see if it is real?)

    • @lyncastleheights1521
      @lyncastleheights1521 Před 4 lety +4

      @@cliffordbodine5834 a demon, I think she is Ned or Nick Schneider. evil.

    • @juliaweber5026
      @juliaweber5026 Před 4 lety +4

      pepe bastardes Las is not cult she’s off her rocker

    • @strykeghstbrnr4812
      @strykeghstbrnr4812 Před 4 lety +5

      @@cliffordbodine5834 Yeah, that there demon is a dang psycho. They know right from wrong. They just don't care.

  • @catlink8998
    @catlink8998 Před 4 lety +195

    I've read that this officer felt Charles acted strange and was too focused on the $35K Lori took. I don't get it. Charles stayed rational, calm, communicated clearly. You can tell that he is perplexed, worried for the kids, saddened by Lori's actions yet still being concerned for Lori since he feels mental health is responsible for her actions. He did the smart thing calling the cops, having a witness, taking care not to accelerate the situation. This cop does not have the insight or training to get an accurate read on normal people going through abnormal situations.

    • @chrislovitt46
      @chrislovitt46 Před 4 lety +8

      Shit, people go crazy for less! That's money for him to pay his employees and money for his family! In the end, he's dead and the kids are missing

    • @FearIsaLiar
      @FearIsaLiar Před 4 lety +30

      The police were horrible and are partially responsible for Charles and the children's deaths.

    • @maggygraham2218
      @maggygraham2218 Před 4 lety +25

      He was worried about the $35,000 because that included payroll for his employees, which he needed to pay immediately. And he said he had $7.00 in his pocket. So she cleaned him out. That's plenty to worry about.

    • @shoptalk7415
      @shoptalk7415 Před 4 lety +8

      I'm like 10min in and I don't think he has mentioned money once. Smh 🤦🏽‍♂️. I just hate police overall attitude. Like they Kno better. ALWAYS judging ppl and how they should act. Just listen!!! Fukn listen and then verify. How they feel should mean nada. Do ya fukn job

    • @janettecoleman1714
      @janettecoleman1714 Před 4 lety

      Because cop is money hungry shouldn't influence his reaction

  • @DirtyLaundryTrueCrime
    @DirtyLaundryTrueCrime Před 4 lety +96

    Gilbert Police should be sued for the wrongful death of Charles Vallow.

    • @chrislovitt46
      @chrislovitt46 Před 4 lety +6

      I haven't heard about Charles side of the family. They should sue the police, go after Lori get the lunatic in prison. Go after Chad, and pray that Alex is rotting in hell.

    • @valley5617
      @valley5617 Před 4 lety

      Nope police can’t do anything - it’s a civil issue between spouses. My husband locked me out of our house and took all my stuff and money. She has a legal right to do anything with marital property under her control

    • @FearIsaLiar
      @FearIsaLiar Před 4 lety

      Absolutely

    • @laskiaelder304
      @laskiaelder304 Před měsícem

      Yes. Why is this police treating him like this?

  • @idrathernot719
    @idrathernot719 Před 4 lety +59

    This is so deeply disturbing. A calm and compassionate plea for help went ignored. 9 minutes into the conversation and the cop has to ask him for his first name again. Completely disconnected from the situation....you can hear in his voice how much he doesn’t even want to be there. Breaks my heart.

  • @pixiehopper8
    @pixiehopper8 Před 4 lety +223

    I feel like the cop isn’t taking him seriously. So frustrating and sad.

    • @violet32makingit64
      @violet32makingit64 Před 4 lety +15

      No, not at all. You see it with a lot of these cases ....In murder cases, there are almost always prior cries for help ( by the victim ) & usually ignored abuse &/or warning signs . More so, with domestic Violence cases.
      THE VICTIMS GET TREATED LIKE THE “ AT FAULT” , LIKE THEY HAVE DONE WRONG& are made to feel embarrassed . I was abused / assaulted by a previous boyfriend. The Police treated me like a liar, like he was the victim. Even though, I had obvious signs of assault & injury . Come to find out , I was the 3rd woman, that he did this to.... I’m sure, that there are more.
      One day , he will do it again & it may be worse, even deadly .... THE POLICE NEED TO LISTEN! It’s the people making false reports, telling lies, crying fake rape , using the police to win custody cases.... they make it like this :( .
      Maybe the LE, should offer on the spot lie detector tests lol, lie a small, fast, portable version ( oh ya& accurate also lol)... then the cops wouldn’t rip open abuse wounds, by acting like your nothing!
      Rant over...

    • @justatexasgirl5583
      @justatexasgirl5583 Před 4 lety +4

      Honestly, it may be the LDS culture as well. If the cop is one, it’s a big deal to keep your wife in line..

    • @pamelarhoads5839
      @pamelarhoads5839 Před 4 lety +6

      Just a Texas Girl - the cop said on the video he is not LDS and is not familiar with the terms Charles is using.

    • @justatexasgirl5583
      @justatexasgirl5583 Před 4 lety

      Pamela Rhoads Thanks for that..that makes even more sense why he wasn’t taking him seriously..I wrote that when I was watching the video and couldn’t find it to change it.

    • @shaheedharun445
      @shaheedharun445 Před 3 lety +2

      @@justatexasgirl5583 Charles wasn't an LDS fanatic as her

  • @Sharinglifewithyou
    @Sharinglifewithyou Před 4 lety +79

    Smart man. He got help and had someone in the car with him. He did the right thing.

    • @scufles48
      @scufles48 Před 4 lety +13

      Yeah but sadly he died. His wife's brother shot him and killed him

    • @FearIsaLiar
      @FearIsaLiar Před 4 lety +6

      @@scufles48
      The police did not protect him or the children.
      They let the brother off scott free.
      Useless cop.
      Sue them

    • @tinamarie1948
      @tinamarie1948 Před 4 lety +3

      @@scufles48 YEP! and I JUST saw another video where that dude Alex died in December mysteriously

  • @stacyr3743
    @stacyr3743 Před 4 lety +104

    Well, I’m seven minutes in and I do not hear anything about money. So far he’s just concerned about the kids and his heart is broken over losing the person his wife used to be. The cop couldn’t care less.

    • @rOnda88
      @rOnda88 Před 4 lety +2

      Do you mean the money she took from CV’s account to pay his employees?

    • @rOnda88
      @rOnda88 Před 4 lety

      If so, he talks about this around the beginning.

    • @stacyr3743
      @stacyr3743 Před 4 lety +5

      Ronda K I hear him mention it as a part of the overall story. He’s simply giving details about what she’s done. It seems to me it’s far from his main concern. He mentions not knowing where his kids are repeatedly.

    • @stacyr3743
      @stacyr3743 Před 4 lety +11

      Ronda K Yes. The cop said the interaction was strange because Charles seemed overly concerned about the money, less so than his kids and his wife’s mental state. Doesn’t seem accurate at all from what I saw.

    • @ashleyd2591
      @ashleyd2591 Před 4 lety +1

      That's why you should watch the whole video then make an opinion...🙄

  • @My2Monkeeys
    @My2Monkeeys Před 4 lety +170

    Gilbert PD messed up so bad! If they would have done their jobs, Charles would probably still be alive and the kids would be safe! How in the hell is her locking him out, canceling his flight, stealing his truck, and throwing out all of his belongings normal?!? Someone needs to be held accountable for what they didn't do to help this poor man! All he keeps talking about is JJ, but yet in the police report they try to make it sound like all he cared about was money! I'm so glad I dont live in that town because I would not trust that PD with the care of a housefly, let alone another human being!

    • @HappiDeigh
      @HappiDeigh Před 4 lety +14

      Gilbert PD could have prevented the situation we are in now if they would have done their jobs correctly in the first place!! They messed up this day. They messed up the next day when Lori was in the police station. Charles is dead now. They messed up on the day he was murdered!! Now there are 2 missing children!! Charles handled himself perfectly! It is clear that he's devastated!!! I hope Kay and Larry are prepared to do something against GPD!! They need to be disciplined for this mess so it doesn't happen to another innocent family!!

    • @theferalprogressive1160
      @theferalprogressive1160 Před 4 lety +12

      Heather Marie And why in the hell didn't someone look back at police records at the time of his murder. They would have seen the threat and maybe someone would have held Alex accountable. I can't believe they just took his word that it was self-defense!

    • @lovepet4565
      @lovepet4565 Před 4 lety

      What a royal FUCK UP Gilbert police, acting like total asswipes not really caring

    • @missnucci2696
      @missnucci2696 Před 4 lety +6

      Absolutely sickening

    • @stacyr3743
      @stacyr3743 Před 4 lety +17

      Well said. I can’t get over the officer’s condescending tone. Charles had a crazy story to tell, but he was not the crazy one.

  • @kmckenney1311
    @kmckenney1311 Před 4 lety +165

    This police dept needs to be held accountable for having a part in this.

    • @katan0625
      @katan0625 Před 4 lety +9

      This is literally how cops react to domestic calls. When I was in middle school my bipolar brother was on house arrest for first degree assault and battery at the time and had a bad day and while my parents weren’t home he got upset that I wouldn’t tell him my evening plans and choked me out until my neck was purple/blue. I managed to fight him off after my dog tried to get in between us and he let go for a second. On the 911 call he was charging at me screaming and telling me he was going to kill me in the background also. I ducked behind my neighbors car for an hour and a half while dispatch calmed me down and took my statement before the cops arrived even arrived. Then when the cops got there they said I had scratched his face and hurt him (note that I was like 120 and 12-13 years old and he was 250+ pounds and like 20) even though that never happened. Then they proceeded to tell me that I was the crazy one and that 911 is for emergencies. Cops literally do nothing in these situations.

    • @juliaweber5026
      @juliaweber5026 Před 4 lety +3

      I agree

    • @juliaweber5026
      @juliaweber5026 Před 4 lety +2

      Katelyn Long I know how you feel they twist things to blame even the females to but in this case Charles was treated or protected they had time

    • @katan0625
      @katan0625 Před 4 lety +2

      Julia weber 100%! The facts are sitting right there in front of their faces but they don’t look deep enough to figure out the substance behind the allegations because they don’t want to file extra paperwork, or don’t feel like dealing with certain situations. As a law student I struggle to be able to count the cases I’ve read involving tragic endings such as kidnappings, disappearances, suicides, and murders that took place following an initial call to law enforcement. The justice system should be embarrassed of the disservice they are doing daily when they decide that they are going to prioritize their laziness over the safety of those who they swore under oath to protect. The

    • @shoptalk7415
      @shoptalk7415 Před 4 lety +1

      @@katan0625 ur right. Sumtimes it is as simple as they just don't wanna do fukn paperwork. Smh 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @jamesboham9050
    @jamesboham9050 Před 4 lety +126

    If I was this police man, knowing Charles is dead by now and re watching this video I will definitely resign as an officer of the law and definitely be depressed!!!

    • @chrislovitt46
      @chrislovitt46 Před 4 lety +18

      Personally, I feel the officer should be charged with the murder and child endangerment.

    • @anastacie40
      @anastacie40 Před 4 lety +5

      @@chrislovitt46 Agreed.

    • @amyabbott454
      @amyabbott454 Před 4 lety +3

      He does need some sort of punishment for not taking this serious and having an awful rude attitude!

    • @janettecoleman1714
      @janettecoleman1714 Před 4 lety

      Lead pellet!

  • @cee_bee5439
    @cee_bee5439 Před 4 lety +79

    I wonder if the police would have taken it more seriously if the roles were reversed and it was Lori making statements about Charles. Poor Charles 😢

    • @shelldotshell
      @shelldotshell Před 4 lety +5

      That's a good question.

    • @wvnder
      @wvnder Před 4 lety +1

      Probably not

    • @documax123
      @documax123 Před 3 lety +1

      Great point.

    • @snoogan1
      @snoogan1 Před rokem

      It if it had been reversed they would have arrested him on the spot. But #metoo right? It’s an epidemic in the United States. I reported my ex gf’s death threats and I got arrested. Insane.

    • @wcolautti
      @wcolautti Před rokem

      I’m going to say yes.

  • @kissy9238
    @kissy9238 Před 4 lety +140

    This doesn’t seem like a man who would have raised his voice even in the most frustrating situations! This video only further confirms all the crazy, insane, narcissist stories you hear about Lori and her cult beliefs. Charles did EVERYTHING RIGHT & by the book, and still look what happened to him! Our justice system failed Charles!

    • @lyncastleheights1521
      @lyncastleheights1521 Před 4 lety +6

      you got it! the system always listens to the crazy women, it needs to change. Men can be Charles Vallows through and through.

    • @missmartine7139
      @missmartine7139 Před 4 lety +4

      Sadly if he was a woman and this happened- there would be outrage. Charles was a true victim here & the law enforcement agency didn’t protect him or get him justice with her.

    • @PanAmericanBarbarian
      @PanAmericanBarbarian Před 4 lety +4

      Foxy Fox & Kissy Cass you are so right and police and system failed Charles and them kids

    • @anastacie40
      @anastacie40 Před 4 lety

      💯😢🙏🏻💕

    • @lea24457
      @lea24457 Před 3 měsíci

      Yeah unfortunately the system failed Charles, like you said he done everything the right way just as he was supposed too and still lost his life 😢

  • @JadeDarkStar22
    @JadeDarkStar22 Před 4 lety +61

    im sitting here screaming that the damn cops messed up again..............

    • @FearIsaLiar
      @FearIsaLiar Před 4 lety

      Low IQ, non caring, scumbag cop.

    • @CrazyGreeneyedCraftylady
      @CrazyGreeneyedCraftylady Před 4 lety

      That cops an asshole! Pure and simple! Listen to the man damnit! What’s wrong with the cop??

    • @runwaylyghtsdebbiep.2349
      @runwaylyghtsdebbiep.2349 Před 4 lety

      What did you EXPECT the police to do? They helped him gain entry and stayed with him and searched the house; otherwise, what else could they have done at that moment?
      He would have to go to court or file missing persons or parental abduction papers the next day.
      The police helped in that moment with all they could do.
      They had to remain unbiased and neutral. Lori really was screwing with him big time!!!!!!!!!

  • @rh7245
    @rh7245 Před 4 lety +39

    This man is so calm during this situation. He came home to all of this from a business trip. His truck was taken, his bank account emptied with no money to pay his employees, and he was locked out of his house. I don't believe for one second that he ever hit Alex Cox with that baseball bat.

    • @anastacie40
      @anastacie40 Před 4 lety +3

      Honestly,if Charles had hit Alex with a baseball bat,he wouldn't have lived long enough to speak to LE,after he killed Charles.👊😡Sadly,he got away with murder.😢That allowed lori,to use him again(IMO),to "take care of," those precious,innocent children,(IMHO).💕🙏🏻💕🙏🏻I pray that I'm wrong.🙏🏻🙏🏻💕💕

    • @Tawadeb
      @Tawadeb Před měsícem

      The baseball bat was a lie I reckon

    • @laskiaelder304
      @laskiaelder304 Před měsícem

      Can someone tell me what happened to Alex? I just heard about and got interested in this now in May2024. I think Alex is dead if I'm not mistaken but I don't know how it happened. Thank you in advance.

  • @MERALACXBACKINGPAN
    @MERALACXBACKINGPAN Před 4 lety +58

    She literally tormented 😩 this poor man before killing him and their children she needs to be proven guilty. Wow 😳 just shows you how far a manipulator can get when people don’t use their better judgement!

  • @rebeccaann6385
    @rebeccaann6385 Před 4 lety +39

    Charles seemed like such a good guy. The cop is a joke

  • @stormchasingirl1133
    @stormchasingirl1133 Před rokem +7

    Sad part is he was right and not taken seriously.

  • @sunshinydayz1
    @sunshinydayz1 Před 4 lety +34

    Haunting. “They wouldn’t leave him. He’s a service dog, he’s part of the family”

  • @Jessypardon
    @Jessypardon Před 4 lety +32

    I feel so sorry for this poor man. He looked like he was a good man. RIP Charles!

  • @nicoleymacaroni
    @nicoleymacaroni Před 4 lety +60

    Charles seemed like such a good guy. Lori didn’t deserve him. I wish he divorced her took jj and moved away and got a restraining order. I hope he’s in heaven now and helps cops find jj’s body to put him to rest.

    • @Jeweliedear
      @Jeweliedear Před 4 lety +8

      I just said.same.thing truth!!

    • @lyncastleheights1521
      @lyncastleheights1521 Před 4 lety +7

      @@Jeweliedear I heard Lori told him she didnt want a divorce. She didnt want to be a divorcee for the 4th time. You can see very clearly she didnt mind being a widow.

    • @lyncastleheights1521
      @lyncastleheights1521 Před 4 lety +1

      @ yes, sadly that might be true

    • @lyncastleheights1521
      @lyncastleheights1521 Před 4 lety

      @ yup, lori can bedazzle some

    • @FearIsaLiar
      @FearIsaLiar Před 4 lety +3

      I know he must be in heaven. I believe he was a very good man. 😥😥😥😥😥😥

  • @steviewonder417
    @steviewonder417 Před 4 lety +18

    *Sees cars aren't there *begins sobbing "I don't know where my kids are." This man only cared about the well-being of his babies and this cop doesn't seem concerned at all really.

  • @lizgonzalez3616
    @lizgonzalez3616 Před 4 lety +34

    CHARLES IS SAYING SHES NOT IN OUR REALITY HE CANT FIND HIS KIDS HE IS FEARFUL OF THEIR SAFETY HES WANTING THEM TO HELP HIM & THEY FAILED THEM SUCH A TRAGEDY THE POOR VALLOW FAMILY... HE HAS SAID HE LUVS HER THEYVE WOULD HAVE CELEBRATED 13 GREAT YRS EXCEPT THE LAST MONTH MY HEART IS HEAVY FOR THEM WOW WOW WOW

    • @troyterry6919
      @troyterry6919 Před 3 lety

      I think at this point Lori had already begun her affair with Chad. That is why her mind blew up.

  • @zaccox6455
    @zaccox6455 Před 4 lety +124

    This officer is a joke and that breaks my heart for him to treat Charles like the crazy person here.

    • @lovepet4565
      @lovepet4565 Před 4 lety +5

      This shows you the serious MENTAL ISSUES IN USA going un cared for starting at Top with President plumps injecting lysol into the people in our country dying from a terrible virus

    • @nikki6801691
      @nikki6801691 Před 4 lety +15

      I cant even...Charles' demeanor is so calm. This officer was so short with him. Then to watch the footage of Alex and the officer and how non chalant he was makes me sick to listen to it.

    • @sirbader1
      @sirbader1 Před 4 lety +5

      @@lovepet4565 Nobody is dying from a virus, idiot.

    • @SupaNami
      @SupaNami Před 4 lety +9

      @@lovepet4565 You are too stupid to understand what Trump was saying! Also, if people are injecting lysol then they deserve to die...

    • @ladymissna
      @ladymissna Před 4 lety +4

      Had the same impression. "Oh she threaten you in her spiritual voice"..."It's not a crime." Stupid cop!

  • @ejwis1
    @ejwis1 Před 4 lety +22

    You did your best Charles to save those kids.

  • @Icutrauma11
    @Icutrauma11 Před 4 lety +61

    The officer is attempting in any form to not have to do any paperwork.

  • @spoonsoap
    @spoonsoap Před 4 lety +112

    This video footage proves one thing: Lori had the kids killed. Based on what Charles says about her saying "Take the kids, I don't care about the kids" I am more confident than ever Lori had the kids killed, and this video even more so proves the fact that Charles himself was murdered by Alex, Lori, and maybe Tylee knew about it too and was involved.
    This video makes you really get a sense too of how Charles was worried about his kids, because he knew how crazy Lori had become...he was really scared about his kids wellbeing, and rightfully so. He probably never really believed that Lori would have him killed, how could he, poor Charles, just a good trusting dude. I am so glad that the Gilbert Police did something right by releasing this video, we finally get to meet Charles and hear his story about the scary-craziness that Lori was really putting him through, this video is unfortunately his testimony, and its powerful.

    • @1111ava1111
      @1111ava1111 Před 4 lety +6

      Perfectly said..🙏

    • @FearIsaLiar
      @FearIsaLiar Před 4 lety +10

      Play this to the jury

    • @melsal3982
      @melsal3982 Před 4 lety +6

      Ok Charles says that Lori got really bad past few months which would be back in 2018 when she met Melanie and then she met Chad at some convention, so that’s when she got really crazy on Charles... poor Charles and JJ and Tyler, May they Rest In Peace!
      May the system put Lori & Chad in prison for life !!!!

    • @sandrahill-qn6hb
      @sandrahill-qn6hb Před rokem +3

      In her interview with the police,she says she is done raising her kids...red flag right there

  • @SJ_WomenAgainstPredators
    @SJ_WomenAgainstPredators Před 4 lety +13

    Roles reversed, there would've been an Amber Alert. Men suffer from domestic violence too and they're cries for help should be taken just as seriously as a women's.

  • @rachelsmith1226
    @rachelsmith1226 Před 4 lety +99

    Cop is useless 😂😡 should be sacked

    • @tommyodonovan3883
      @tommyodonovan3883 Před 4 lety +2

      The cop did all he could reasonably be expected to do under the circumstances.
      It's his words against her's at that point....There's no court protection orders, no complaint calls, no criminal history.
      The guy said that his wife was acting crazy for the last 3yr, *WTF!* and that it had gotten much worse these last 8 months or so.
      Q: Why wouldn't he protect his Bank accounts, from an admitted crazy person (Wife) separate the Business accounts from the Household accounts.
      In short....Why would anyone live with a crazy person, why wouldn't you take precautionary measures (Video of her psychosis) get her some help.... *Protect your children and yourself!*
      I have zero sympathy for him.

    • @kathleenvance4045
      @kathleenvance4045 Před 4 lety +4

      Tommy O Donovan he is a victim. So you are on her side? Wtf.

  • @catnc1
    @catnc1 Před 4 lety +18

    He was right: he and the children were in danger of being murdered.
    So, so sad.

    • @Shynestarlight2013
      @Shynestarlight2013 Před 11 měsíci

      Stupid INCOMPETENT IGNORANT POS PIG 🐖 THEY COULD OF STOPPED THIS BUT NO THIS MORON COP WANTS TO HAVE THIS ARROGANT POWER TRIP RIDICULOUS ATTITUDE. CONGRATS BIRD BRAIN THIS MAN AND BOTH KIDS WERE MURDERED AND U NEVER TOOK ANY OF IT SERIOUS

  • @Kriner917
    @Kriner917 Před 4 lety +61

    This is heartbreaking..its so obvious she had him killed. What the hell is wrong with the police. She won't say what happened to those poor kids. She is a monster.

    • @susankohler668
      @susankohler668 Před 4 lety +2

      What sticks in my throat, now, other then this cop's incompetence, is the picture of her a Daybell on the beach at their wedding when her kids were already dead.

  • @1957Dirogo
    @1957Dirogo Před 4 lety +27

    This cop is being a jerk. It's clear the woman should not be alone with kids.

    • @valley5617
      @valley5617 Před 4 lety +2

      That’s not clear at all - cop just investigates he doesn’t judge the facts.

    • @mzdkkeller
      @mzdkkeller Před 4 lety

      @@valley5617 as with most LE people, he could use several hours training in dealing with the public, recognizing possibly volatile situations, and tact. Pure insensitive brutality doesn't look good on anyone but unfortunately that's the LE way.

  • @stacyr3743
    @stacyr3743 Před 4 lety +32

    These are LDS terms. Um, no. I’m not in the cult, but I can understand his words in order to understand Lori’s thinking. 👏🏻How about listen to what the man is saying?

    • @sharlaharris8120
      @sharlaharris8120 Před 4 lety +2

      I agree!! He dismissed Charles in a second-- What difference does it make what terms are being used when he's describing her mental state and NOT living in reality!

    • @troyterry6919
      @troyterry6919 Před 4 lety

      There are far more religions on earth that deserve to be called cults rather than the LDS faith.

  • @missmartine7139
    @missmartine7139 Před 4 lety +42

    This is complete domestic violence prejudice. Reverse discrimination. I hope to hell Charles family is ACTIVELY pursuing a lawsuit!!

    • @cee_bee5439
      @cee_bee5439 Před 4 lety +8

      Absolutely. You are spot on. How sad for Charles and his family.

    • @FearIsaLiar
      @FearIsaLiar Před 4 lety

      Sue lori for wrongful death of her brother

  • @JaneDoe-sm2lm
    @JaneDoe-sm2lm Před 4 lety +21

    DUH, HOW MANY TIMES IS THIS 'OFFICER' GOING TO MAKE HIM REPEAT THE FACTS? THIS IS NOT A ROUTINE INVESTIGATION. SOUNDS LIKE SHE IS HAVING AN AFFAIR AND COVERING IT UP TO JUSTIFY HIS REMOVAL. HE SOUNDS LIKE A GOOD MAN AND A HARD WORKER.

  • @ytee5265
    @ytee5265 Před 2 lety +21

    This man was genuinely worried and concerned. He was calm and reasonable. This should have been stopped way before his death let alone everyone else’s.

  • @zildasouzamendes5890
    @zildasouzamendes5890 Před 4 lety +50

    So sad hearing Mr Wallow claiming for help 👉 and didn't get it. RIP ❤

  • @iguanazilla
    @iguanazilla Před rokem +10

    This was sad at first but now hearing all she’s done in the trial makes it more heartbreaking and infuriating. Poor guy

  • @deFinancechannel
    @deFinancechannel Před rokem +7

    Breaks my heart every time I watch Charles try so hard to stop what he knew would happen.

  • @mustafabuljko4335
    @mustafabuljko4335 Před 4 lety +6

    Listen cop. 3 times Chsrles told him She treatened to kill him. Instead immediately issued warranr for her arrest. Unbelivable

  • @Azdude801
    @Azdude801 Před 4 lety +12

    Did the cop just state that a verbal threat isn't an actual threat? At the beginning of the video.

  • @Ann-xp9np
    @Ann-xp9np Před 4 lety +9

    This cop should be questioned now on how he dealt with this man.

  • @allisonnapolitano3119
    @allisonnapolitano3119 Před 4 lety +9

    This is so awful. I want to shake that police officer!!! He did everything he could - did everything right. Kept his cool, was respectful and kind. And ended up losing his life because nobody would listen.

  • @shadeie6395
    @shadeie6395 Před rokem +10

    Charles. I know it's way to late for you to hear this but I'm sorry no one believed you. You where telling the truth and warning people. Trying to save his kids he ended up losing his life in vain

  •  Před 4 lety +10

    So cops knew and did nothing. He said she daid she was going to murder him and the police did NOTHING and he ends up murdered!! That's law enforcement for you.

  • @TrishaB80
    @TrishaB80 Před rokem +5

    The cops failed him, Tylee and JJ! So sad!

  • @borianacorry7763
    @borianacorry7763 Před 2 měsíci +6

    I just want to reach inside the screen and hug this man. My heart is breaking watching this. He seems so kind and caring 💔

  • @candy-gn9mf
    @candy-gn9mf Před 4 lety +9

    So sad when he said that she is going to hurt the kids she ended up hurting the kids and him ..those cops are a joke , ... SMH 🤦🤦🤦

  • @danahsutton101
    @danahsutton101 Před 2 lety +3

    The cop had a bad attitude. He needs to be told "you serve the public"

  • @darrickbrown830
    @darrickbrown830 Před 4 lety +8

    If it was a mother calling the police in fear for her children and a crazy husband inside, they would have jumped all over it and tracked those kids down! These officers were given all the clear warnings that those kids were not safe and they treated it like a broken window was the biggest problem to be concerned with. Now we know this man ends up murdered and no charges were filed then either. Law enforcement at its best

  • @jennygirl8849
    @jennygirl8849 Před 4 lety +36

    Poor Charles😓...my heart goes out to his sister & living children...he was, by any measure, a solid guy....a good man! Crazy Lori set him up to be murdered, IMO Lori is playing games only eluding to the kids being safe but not producing them. Niece Melanie is a flake and I think she knows far more than she says but she lawyered up with some (less than) respectable attorneys (again IMO). And, to add insult to injury AZ & ID police seem to have completely failed this entire family (JJ, Tylee Charles and Tammy too RIP). 😭

    • @anastacie40
      @anastacie40 Před 4 lety +2

      😢😭🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💕💕💕

    • @janettecoleman1714
      @janettecoleman1714 Před 4 lety

      Lori is the 🤯 main brain behind this

    • @fgraham8712
      @fgraham8712 Před 4 lety

      @@janettecoleman1714 IDK about that, in the affidavit they released Chad Daybell is the one that told Lori about the "zombie" thing. So who is the actual mastermind? Is it Lori or is it Chad? Maybe Chad was able to convince Lori of all that nonsense since she was slowly getting worse mentally.

  • @PanAmericanBarbarian
    @PanAmericanBarbarian Před 4 lety +21

    Police got offensive over the “LDS” term 🙄

  • @alexasworldofmagic
    @alexasworldofmagic Před 4 lety +5

    This cop is terrible. “That’s not a threat to kill you” really? What is then? If it were a woman the man would’ve been arrested. Double standards. Had this cop done his job maybe this man AND the kids would be alive today!

  • @mischievousamoeba
    @mischievousamoeba Před 4 lety +10

    ...i couldn't believe how the cop was treating him in the video, like wtf

  • @Texas500
    @Texas500 Před 2 lety +6

    Everything this man said she was going to do she did. She killed him and both their kids . Not only that she killed her brother , her new boyfriends wife, and someone else. This woman is the devil himself

  • @cee_bee5439
    @cee_bee5439 Před 4 lety +30

    This police department need some training in unconscious bias. Wow.

    • @shimmer8289
      @shimmer8289 Před rokem +1

      And in mental illness and psychopathology in its various forms. Sadly to the uneducated cop Charles was blubbering about ghosts and goblins which sadly Lori and Chad Daybell believed very much in. To the point of rating each person they knew. Tyler before her death was 4.5 dark. Melanie, Lori's friend was 3 Light. In police training they should have people on the force with a higher form of education such as a higher psychology degree to call on when street cops meet up with situations like this.

  • @mickeykyker4837
    @mickeykyker4837 Před 4 lety +8

    This video should be part of mandatory training for police. This is heartbreaking knowing what's ahead.

  • @sharronpettis1486
    @sharronpettis1486 Před 3 lety +6

    It's a shame when you think you don't have the authority to even break into your own home! He's afraid to even make decisions. Sad.

  • @lindahowe3524
    @lindahowe3524 Před 4 lety +13

    How do you find out who this cop is so we can petition for him to be fired?

  • @interesante80
    @interesante80 Před 9 měsíci +4

    "How does she pose a threat to your children?" Man, let that sink in now.

  • @FearIsaLiar
    @FearIsaLiar Před 4 lety +6

    That police officer signed his death warrant. That police is basically making fun of Charles. Now he is dead and they did nothing
    😡😡😡😡

  • @kristlea1
    @kristlea1 Před 4 lety +22

    She’s in jail now, in Idaho...can’t get out as they put her on a million dollar bail. Kids are still missing.

  • @vee483
    @vee483 Před 4 lety +15

    Wow! He was already telling cops what she was threatening to do to him and possibly the kids way before his own death!! Has the nephew Zach said anything to the police?

    • @lyncastleheights1521
      @lyncastleheights1521 Před 4 lety +6

      His name I believe is on the witness list for the prosecution. He is Adam Cox's son.

    • @cee_bee5439
      @cee_bee5439 Před 4 lety +5

      This is the first time I have heard about Zach. Will be interesting to hear what he had to say,

    • @vee483
      @vee483 Před 4 lety +2

      @@lyncastleheights1521okay that's good. Can't wait for the day all the witnesses get called up onto the stand!

  • @the-finn
    @the-finn Před 3 lety +3

    You can tell this cop thinks he's overreacting. If only they took him seriously. 😪

  • @mmackenziiee91
    @mmackenziiee91 Před 4 lety +8

    This cop will probably think of this for the rest of his life, if he has a conscious. That was so frustrating to watch. The cop didn't seem to be taking anything Charles was saying seriously.
    So many dead, including Charles himself and the children he was trying to protect from batshit Lori. He knew what she was capable of. If only the authorities had listened to him..

    • @mmackenziiee91
      @mmackenziiee91 Před rokem

      @@andreyasdus7629 unfortunately, you're right.

  • @gj5990
    @gj5990 Před rokem +3

    People, including cops, need to learn what narcissistic manipulation looks and sounds like, as well as, what to look for in true victim’s behavior. Charles and Gabby Petito are great examples.

  • @sonyavonluehrte
    @sonyavonluehrte Před 4 lety +5

    Gilbert PD you failed this man!!!

  • @HotEyeCandi
    @HotEyeCandi Před 4 lety +8

    UNREAL how many times this evil woman could have been stopped or arrested before anyone died... the police departments seem to play everything down that she did and little to nothing was done, VERY sad situation.....

  • @KaylaMarie_
    @KaylaMarie_ Před 4 lety +6

    "That's not a threat to kill you."

  • @msacedres1855
    @msacedres1855 Před 2 lety +14

    I’ve experienced the same thing. I’ve asked for help with proof and they could careless. You have to die for someone to care or believe you. Sad but true

    • @DeniseSmith-rp2qn
      @DeniseSmith-rp2qn Před 2 měsíci

      Unfortunately you are right and how rude 911 is when you hear people call for help.

  • @ladymissna
    @ladymissna Před 4 lety +30

    The popo messed up in this one. They failed those kids and Charles😡 Unless, the popo is in the same cult as Lori and that is why they didn't do a good job there.

    • @joelvoss1226
      @joelvoss1226 Před 4 lety

      Lust because Lori is crazy does not mean LDS is a cult. Lust because some twit in the internet says LDS is a cult does mot make it so. I am not a member of LDS but I have two friends that are and they are both fine people.

    • @lea24457
      @lea24457 Před rokem

      @@joelvoss1226 I disagree LDS are wacky , please don’t join

    • @joelvoss1226
      @joelvoss1226 Před rokem

      @@lea24457 "wackey" is an open-ended general word, the kind of word one often hears from propagandists and bigots. Do you know why the members of LDS ended up in Utah? In 1838 the Governor of Missouri issued a pogrom (an extermination order or an attack order approved by the govt against a racial, religious or national minority) and many LDS members died fleeing to Utah.
      Their crimes they were accused of? Here are a few: "advocating equality of and sanctuary for slaves", "tampering with our slaves", inviting free negroes from other states into Missouri, not practicing Christianity (a clear violation of the 1st Amendment for any govt to punish anyone for). Oh, I almost forgot they were also accused in the extermination order of being weak, fanatics, vicious, lazy, etc.
      So in comparison to your calling them wackey your criticism may seem mild until you know that that is how the attack against them started - words.
      Make no mistake about it, the LDS were targeted my mobs with the written permission and in fact an order to exterminate them or drive them from the state because they were sooooo "wackey" they believed slavery was wrong and (gasp) said so out loud to others. Their other crime was wanting to practice their minority religion which is 100% protected by the US Constitution.

  • @Smiley_Face_Killer
    @Smiley_Face_Killer Před 2 lety +9

    God, it’s so sad to watch this knowing what happened to him...

  • @juliaweber5026
    @juliaweber5026 Před 4 lety +17

    The policeman didn’t believe him because he was a man if they taken this man seriously he would be alive and he would’ve had his son

  • @elizabeths1mama
    @elizabeths1mama Před 4 lety +6

    This is so sad, why aren't people ever taken seriously

  • @susanna8612
    @susanna8612 Před 4 lety +7

    What's amazing is that even if police had this footage and Charles made report, after his dead they still didn't arrest Lori and Alex but let them walk free to hurt her kids too.

  • @3D-Time
    @3D-Time Před rokem +4

    I think of Charles Vallow often. He seemed like such a great genuine guy who was worried for his children. That brother in law had no injury. The entire story makes no sense. These police officers completely dismissed him and his concerns. Had this been a woman with similar concerns police would be all over it! Rest in peace Charles.

  • @patricabrown5188
    @patricabrown5188 Před 4 lety +10

    I Salute Mr.Charles Vallow. You tried hard to protect yourselves and your family from three people in the proper manner and you where failed, I apologize to you. Your life should have been protected so that you could have lived JJ and Tylee would have lived... RIP

  • @sarabrant723
    @sarabrant723 Před 4 lety +4

    Charles was kicking that door extremely hard. Had he hit Alex Cox in the head like they say, he would have been knocked out or had a severe head injury not just a little cut that's barely bleeding. Head injuries usually bleed alot.they murdered this man and they murdered the children this is so sad those police should be ashamed of themselves for not taking him seriously!

  • @JaneDoe-sm2lm
    @JaneDoe-sm2lm Před 4 lety +8

    WHAT IS WRONG WITH THIS POLICEMAN? HE IS ACTING TOTALLY INDIFFERENT TO THE PROBLEM AND CONTINUES TO ACT LIKE THERE ISN'T A PROBLEM OR MAYBE IT'S WITH THE HUSBAND!? INSTEAD OF INVESTIGATING AND GOING TO THE DOOR, HE IS REPEATEDLY QUESTIONING THIS MAN WHO IS TRYING TO GET HELP FOR HIS CHILDREN AND FIND OUT WHY SHE IS ACTING SO IR RADICALLY AND WEIRD.

    • @valley5617
      @valley5617 Před 4 lety +1

      What do you want him to do, get all excited? It is the job of police to remain unemotional. There is no evidence that she is acting weird. She’s not there.

    • @FearIsaLiar
      @FearIsaLiar Před 4 lety

      @@valley5617
      He was very condescending
      Now Charles and the children are dead

  • @mickeykyker4837
    @mickeykyker4837 Před 2 lety +3

    So what if the officer is not LDS. So what, Charles is trying to tell him what she said. It matters. It mattered. If he cant tell the officer the crazy beliefs she has and how its relevant to what he's going through then what good is it to even go to anyone for help. No one would listen. Heartbreaking.

  • @lauragoin1227
    @lauragoin1227 Před 4 lety +27

    I like Mr vallow

    • @Jeweliedear
      @Jeweliedear Před 4 lety +8

      Same--- she did not deserve him!

  • @donnad5064
    @donnad5064 Před rokem +4

    What’s worse is that Charles said she was going to kill him. Then he’s killed. No one thinks to investigate this right away and look for Lori?

  • @eblack1396
    @eblack1396 Před 4 lety +5

    All related videos to this Vallow case should be utilized in better training for law enforcement. Seems in each case Gilbert police presume Charles is guilty of something. In reality he was afraid of what Lori might do ... he was right... he's dead as are the two children.

  • @fyutffdtuibgfetu
    @fyutffdtuibgfetu Před 4 lety +4

    incompetent cops failed this man and his kids

    • @sashabr56
      @sashabr56 Před 3 lety

      Yep and their blood are on the hands of these officers! They all should resign or be fired!

  • @Lotuslaful
    @Lotuslaful Před 4 lety +7

    It’s so frustrating when I hear him trying to get help and not being believed
    So sad

  • @atticus-iz7iw
    @atticus-iz7iw Před rokem +3

    Why did it take so long for the police to step forward to help a 65-year-old man break the door???

  • @susankohler668
    @susankohler668 Před 4 lety +5

    What a total failure of "serve and protect" Charles Vallow said his wife threatened his life. He was also afraid for his kids. They sure did not seem to take him seriously. For God's sake! I hope this cop does not sleep at night without that scene running through his head on a continuous loop. Next time, listen.

  • @emilinebelle7811
    @emilinebelle7811 Před 4 lety +4

    Why are doctors and police suppose to be respected members of our society but they are the least empathetic, caring and helpful people?

  • @moonchild645
    @moonchild645 Před 4 lety +12

    This is just more proof that police are just the ones you call when something bad has already happened. No use in calling beforehand, they cant/wont/don't prevent anything. Poor Charles, he tried to get his family help, and look at where they all are now... Dead and/or missing. Absolutely heartbreaking. I just pray that everyone who played a part in this entire story, are brought to justice and pay for what they did. 😔 💔

  • @katden220
    @katden220 Před 4 lety +7

    I feel so very sad about this mans demise.

  • @runwaylyghtsdebbiep.2349
    @runwaylyghtsdebbiep.2349 Před 4 lety +9

    My hearts breaks knowing Charles went thru this torture even telling the police she was gonna kill him. He just wants to get JJ, to find him that night!
    Such an evil demon she is!!!!!
    She removes his truck from the airport and withdraws from his business account!...He’s at his wits end!
    It’s just so sad to see this video and feel his emotions. Heartbreaking knowing he will be shot dead later. 😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥

  • @sharonwright7932
    @sharonwright7932 Před 2 lety +3

    That cop should be jailed!

  • @michelleboyes1873
    @michelleboyes1873 Před měsícem +3

    This is so sad to hear this poor man, he was let down.

  • @shanatinnin339
    @shanatinnin339 Před 4 lety +4

    Charles is the only one that’s given me true insight to a little of her insanity and now he’s gone. RIP Charles Vallow.

  • @calliemaebordley5177
    @calliemaebordley5177 Před 3 lety +2

    They didn't listen to him, while he could talk.

  • @justmona9647
    @justmona9647 Před 4 lety +18

    Officers spend so much time with the he-said-she-said situations I can see where they were skeptical about what Charles was going through. Charles seemed like such a good man and this video is just more evidence Lori should have been put on a psych hold of 72 hours once they found her.

    • @Jeweliedear
      @Jeweliedear Před 4 lety

      Truth and they.deal enough with people who would be abusive and claim they can get in but find they have order against husband or no order yet but abusive situation. Also some folks file false claims of stolen property etc only for ins company later to find it was a scam.

    • @ladymissna
      @ladymissna Před 4 lety +2

      I'm surprised they didn't take her in to a psychiatric ward in a hospital. She qualified to be there. She threathen to kill him while being crazy😮

    • @justmona9647
      @justmona9647 Před 4 lety +3

      @@ladymissna Therein lies the problem, she was never put on the 72-hour hold for a psych evaluation. That meant there was no way to determine whether or not she had psychiatric problems. Even though after listening to Charles~ it sounds like she may have schizophrenia but there is no way of knowing whether or not it was a psychiatric problem or had she became so infatuated with her (now) current husband she began to believe his rhetoric.
      No matter what her issues are~ a decent man was murdered, a brother everyone described as being kind and good died plus a healthy wife died an untimely death. It's an all-round sad nightmare which has culminated with 2 missing children.

  • @ashleyrivera5917
    @ashleyrivera5917 Před 3 lety +5

    THAT POOR MAN!😥 BUT NOW HE IS WITH HIS KIDS THAT HE TRIED SO DESPERATELY TO SAVE, IN HEAVEN!🙂 WHERE NOTHING CAN EVER SEPARATE THEM AGAIN!😊😇👨‍👧‍👦

  • @mrs.johnjohnson7634
    @mrs.johnjohnson7634 Před 4 lety +4

    The Town Of Gilbert sold out long ago & the Gilbert Police are useless. This is one of many examples sadly.