Biggest FLIRTING MISTAKES That Keep You SINGLE... | Matthew Hussey
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In this video, my brother Stephen and I get highly practical on how you can use this power in simple ways that will transform the electricity on your dates. Pay close attention and take lots of notes . . .
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• The key factor that can either kill sexual tension during a date or heighten it. (It’s incredibly easy to apply once you’re aware of it.)
• What you can do while listening to your date talk that will naturally and wordlessly make them excited.
• A practical technique to up your flirting game on your next date so the momentum after the date takes care of itself.
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Matt looks like he's trying to flirt with me while explaining how to flirt... The man knows how to do it
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I'm so glad he mentioned pacing. That's where I've gone wrong many times. I thought I was being bold, fearless, and confident in being very flirtatious and sexual early on, when that was actually indicative of fear and insecurity. Take your time, build the sexual tension slowly, let it simmer, give it room to breathe as you gradually escalate. This isn't about game playing because you're not sending mixed signals and are still conveying interest in the person. It's a strategic, intentional choice to create a highly erotic experience - in the same way that gradual foreplay and slight teasing make sex feel so much better.
A movie that shows the effects of pacing very well: The Bridges of Madison County (and Meryl Streep speaking Italian English also slows down a bit).
The way you describe it, tells me you understand how to flirt very well, now that u will pace yourself, ull prolly become an irresistible temptress 😅
I don't even want a boyfriend and I enjoy listening to Matthew - He's so charismatic, confident, intelligent, articulate, handsome (and that accent is just adorable). Awesome job Mr. Hussey. Keep up the excellent work. You are respected and appreciated.
Me too!
you could date a fictional character insted. there is bound to be one you deeply enjoy and have the hots for. After all, it is so normal that there is no need to make an orientation around it, unless a person is not exclusively attracted to them
It’s absolutely in the eyes for me. The way they look at me when I’m explaining something… they’re looking at my emphasis, to the way they look at me after they’ve kissed me for the first time, they’re looking at what they want. The eyes are the window to the soul. I flirt with my eyes, I expect my date to as well.
Exactly! I love to look at Man in his eyes and connect, and I look at his lips, too!
6:59 "Lack of connection: you'll suffer later on. Lack of chemistry: you'll suffer early on."
I love how they’ve turned dating into an extreme sport. It’s no longer about getting to know someone to discover if you’re compatible, etc., but about creating a bespoke experience that will score a callback-like an audition or a fantasy football league or those people who spend all day cosplaying. Your mission, if you choose to except it, is to be hot without being vapid, well groomed without being superficial, successful without being materialistic, well rounded with being pretentious, affectionate without being clingy, interested without being desperate, etc., etc., etc. And all it really boils down to, as the title “Get the Guy” suggests, is being whatever the guy wants you to be at any given moment of the date and to hell with your God-given personality and character.
All the women I know who are “successfully” dating or married take a second seat to their man without (a) realizing that this is the case or (b) resenting him for it. And frankly, I don’t think that “B’s” actually exist. I think that men just evoke these fantasy women when they’re trying to bring “A’s” to heel. To put this another way, if it were so easy to find the kind of women that men are looking for (i.e., the proverbial fish that the sea is allegedly full of), they wouldn’t waste time trying to shame you into being their perfect Stepford wife (I hear the latest model talks and fucks and even bends her arms!). They could afford to be big. They’d just thank you for your time, like a gentleman, and try the girl next door.
I think that women need to reclaim the narrative for themselves instead of listening to so-called “dating gurus.” The goal should be to discover your best, most authentic self and to be so confident in that that men have no choice but to (a) be all they can be or (b) have sex with each other. And frankly, “A” isn’t going to happen until men are humble enough to do the work that the women on these channels are evidently willing to do to find “true love” (albeit one based on performance rather than personhood). Heck, for the kind of a performance these guys want you to give, you deserve a whole lot more than a man. You deserve a freaking Oscar.
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That was a great comment. There’s just so much mistrust between both sides. You got men who want the submissive wifey but don’t know the work and effort it takes to lead the way and make decisions at all times. Then there’s women who want to sit back do nothing but give absolutely nothing in return. Neither side wants to take that plunge and take the risk of playing their role but not getting what they want in return
Sounds like you've heard WAY too many one-sided conversations.
I agree, complimenting a man (or women) does create the chemistry. Like if a girl complimented me it will spark something in me to question if I should talk to her or not. Either way flirting is like a game of ping pong and the compliment is the first serve.
I've been a stutterer for my whole life, so when Matt talked about pacing it was a bigger revelation than I initially thought. I realized that my biggest problem not just with women but in every aspect of my life, is fear.
I am afraid, very afraid of:
1. Getting perceived as weak and getting punished because of this by the people around me.
2. Never being listened by others, leading me to sound very anxious when speaking.
3. (Related to point #1) Being betrayed by women when opening up, which led me to adopt a cold and distant behavior when speaking to women I was interested in.
A million thanks for this revelation, Matt!
at your absolute best, you still won't be good enough for the wrong person.
at your worst , you will still be worth it to the right person.
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breath and remember those meant to be in your life will love you for exactly who you are.
😕 im sorry you've gone through this dude...but not every woman is bad or not so understanding. Can't give up being the good catch you are bc of the experience youve been through.
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You have to be ok in the uncomfortable silence and just be yourself let things happen organically I always meditate before I go on a date and that allows me to be in my body and show up my most authentic self and that create space for them to be who they are 🥰💖
Brilliant!
Matthew has made a successful career out of being an observer.
What he says is smart because it’s based on his paying attention and noticing patterns. Thanks for sharing this.
I think humans are always fascinated and perplexed by the female-male relationship dance.
And I think Matthew has watched a lot of us dancing, and wants to tell us how we can dance better, and more successfully.
Oof yes, the chemistry without connection just recently happened to me. I’ll toot my own horn and say I’m good at flirting and creating chemistry but sometimes it puts me in a place where I don’t recognize that the person I’m going on dates with isn’t compatible with me.
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Totally relate!!
Personally, I don't need help with creating chemistry. I'm just not romantically interested in 99% of the men I meet because we aren't compatible in a serious or long term relationship. Flirting can draw people in but if they aren't what we're looking for they end up being a time and energy waster.
The connection & chemistry distinction is spot on!
Hussey, you are such a talent. I learn so much each time I hear you talk - regardless of the content.
Found this guy when I was going through a rough end to a 14 year relationship to now needing all of the flirting advice 5 months later 🥰🥰
how did you even get one in the first place?
The value that this guy gives is unbelievable. Thank you so much Matt ❤
I love this idea of pacing. It's so hard not to rush your speech when you're excited!
What about in the context of texting? With modern dating a lot of people prefer to text rather than call so the pause between replies are much longer and then the flirting tension is gone...
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Use your phone to set up dates, not to chat or talk. Message here and then is okay, but anything more than that is useless.
I watched this video and I actually tried out the methods and it genuinely went brilliantly. I ended up kissing hun at the end of the night and I have another date with him tomorrow. Came back to watch this and help me prepare again haha
I'm in my 50s and have not heard anyone speak about pacing before! This information is so valuable!! Thank you guys so much for taking us deeper into the subtle but vital things of relationship.
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This is one of your most powerful posts. Heaven knows; it is that simple. If you want a second date you need to create chemistry with flirting. Pace it well...
If it's gonna be, it's gonna be. Why do we need to be hyper sensitive to all the factors of dating? In fact, that brings a level of "planning" to a date, which makes it harder to find a natural connection with the right person. Instincts and nature either line up or they don't. If you're that worried about not finding someone in 4 billion of the opposite sex, maybe it's just not a good time for you to date. Work on yourself, not your timing and delivery and tone. Wouldn't be surprised if this offended people, but I'm just saying we shouldn't need to dissect all these aspects of human interaction. Be you. Don't be a different timing or delivery or tone in the hopes of finding real love.
Nothing wrong with doing some reflection to get better at dating to get the partner you want. Those who I know that have found a relationship have shared that it took more than just "nature" and things falling into place. Might take more effort for some.
@@babyu21 If you admit you need to change your approach, by all means change it. Just be prepared to keep it that way forever, or you're sending a false signal in order to get "the partner you want". Which goes back to my original point. If it ain't meant to be, it ain't meant to be.
I think it is good to practice and learn good habits in relating till it becomes a new you. Most of us are pretty unconscious and when in a relationship after a while we get lazy so it is good to incorporate new skills that become part of us.
Agreed
@@majrminer Why are you watching dating videos if you don't think there is value in watching them? I think most people are here because we do want lasting change. I think it rather appalling that we don't get tought how to date, chosing a right partner but also how to be someone worth staying with. Everyone sais "just be yourself" but really that's the most useless advice possible on earth cause if someone needs advice, not even trying to become the better version of oneself is not gonna bring better results. If you look at divorce rates the show pretty blantly how the majority of people don't do a good job at creating lasting worthwhile connections that are healthy. If anything we should try even harder to learn healthy relationship patterns from the start which is dating to the long term.
I agree so much with pace- not only in flirtying but also in friendship or even official conversation…… when someone starts speaking so quickly oder interrupting with quickly spoken words I immediately don‘t feel well with this person nor seen as a person!
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oh, i love this advice! wanted to give someone a compliment yesterday but totally flaunted it because my pace was too quick. due to my lack of confidence! exactly what was said in the video! creating sexual tension was not really my aim, but all the same. thanks for the advice.
This tip about speed is actually Gold.
Wow ... Such a nice video ... The distinction between connection and chemistry, so accurate 👌
Hi Sir ... This is such a big one and it's tooo awesome leading to conclusions about 2main elements :to be his soft ,safe place for him to rest his head where all his pressure ends up , focus on Connection in a way when he is not with the person there is a sense of longing to be naturally there as what he gets to experience with the person is something where he gets to feel at ease ,relaxed and allow his vulnerable parts out . Thanks so much for everything with many more big ones to come . Regards and Much Care 🤗💝
Ask people about themselves. Then tell them about yourself
Can't go wrong!
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Similarities and common ground create chemistry. If you are two different people, chemistry will be very difficult.
It's about time someone said chemistry with no connection brings two people together that shouldn't be. Ty for that
I wish I had this advice 30 yrs ago. That was my toxic marriage of 25 years. All chemistry but NO depth or true connection.
Thank you so much Matt for sharing all this valuable information! You are literally chancing my life with your videos
Thank you for mentioning the speed. I am often too quick, talking, moving and all. This is so helpful!
This is my favourite channel. I especially like it when you explain everything so nicely. I wish you a lot of success with the channel and happy life ❤️🙌
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It's all about the mind chemistry. Some minds just cannot be joined and others are almost like one mind.
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tbh i used to talk really fast but approx 2 months ago, i just stopped caring, about almost everything. now no matter what comes at me, no matter who says what, they always get a pause, i remind myself i give no shits, and i talk as slowly as i want and at my own pace. i have to do that to break out of the old habit. its working wonders.
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Great content!
PACE! That’s my biggest problem! Thanks for talking about that area!
Very right on point here gents! Haha laughed at the moment of "flirting" between you two at the broad shoulder shirt comment. 😂 Also another thing to mention with fast-paced flirting is the opposite is also true. Either extreme of the spectrum is bad - To rush the pace or to move so slow with flirting because you are shy or scared to seem vulnerable that you come across as showing no interest at all and create zero chemistry.
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Love this! Thank you 😊
It seems like every date that has mutual attraction, mutual enjoyment of each other's company and behavior isn't complete without firm, detailed plans for date two. None of this 'Ya, let's get together again for sure. Keep in touch.' I'm guilty of saying that to be nice too! I need a day, event, time, and enthusiasm before I even think about taking him seriously. Guys, you should consider this as well.
@maryam ahmad zango No thank you. I have recently begun dating again and am finding it awkward to date more than one man at a time. I don't want to settle for the first nice guy that I meet, juggling respectfully is what I need advice on. Preferably from Mathew. Most men want a relationship, or say they do, just to take a woman off of the market while THEY decide.
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I find this speed of answering thing interesting especially because I’ve been rewatching Gilmore Girls and notice the speed Lorelai answers. Since it’s a show, you can make men react anyway you want to her in the script. I’d be curious for Matthew Hussey to analyze and say how he thinks men would react to her speed of flirting/answering in real life.
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Lorelai is speedy but i guess there’s a reward for any guy that can get her to slow down. Its her slow moments that were particularly romantic and rare and special, like if you remember her chemistry with Jason was paced that way
There's a lot of wisdom in this video. I've gone on dating rampages...date after date...dates that didn't result in 2nd dates, even though I felt that were pleasant & would've been open to that. Saying this from a place of confidence, not pretentiousness: I value myself highly, feel that I am witty, attractive, can have deep & interesting conversations...but I realize that I didn't take the risk on the dates. There was little to no flirting, cheeky complimenting. When the time comes for me to go out & date again, I'll definitely keep this video in mind.
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Next time you go on a date Charlie Webster, if you like the person and you want another date...just score it. Most people will be taken aback by your boldness and either say yes or no thank you. If they give you a no thank you, at least you don't waste time, money and energy on someone who didn't even consider you.
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The best way to flirt is to be subtle at any cost. Once that settles in, flirtation would seem natural rather than a hyperbole. Guys need to take notes, they don’t need to bring flowers and a box of chocolate to woo the person they want to flirt with. Just be there on time and be available.
men still bring flowers on first dates?? lmao
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so if a guy is 'there on time & available' *that's* flirting?!
Hmmm. I think flowers and chocolates help. I actually love receiving them. It shows thoughtfulness, chivalry, and that he’s romantic too. It also makes him very memorable. The thought and action of a romantic gesture like flowers and chocolate means more than just spoken words. Lots of guys have pretty words to say. But most don’t deliver actual thoughtful actions. But I suppose since we are all individuals, each person would react to this differently. Different people have different love languages.
@@hayleyb467 it’s the bare minimum IMO. Although others may think differently based on what makes them happy.
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Thank you. You and your brother are crazy... But really really good.
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I love the moon picture in the background.
Wow Matthew, that burnt red color on you looks sooooo nice. (saying that in a non-rushed, confident voice)
I'm 27 and its my first time really getting stuck in to the dating scene for the first time ever.. I'd be lost without Matt and his brother! The dating dance is a bit fun though isn't it..
Your pace here was awesome Matthew !
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You are very, very good at this.
Appearance is very important. Superficial? Yes. But that's where it starts. Self confidence. Good conversation, laughing appropriately. Look at him straight in his eyes, but don't stare creepy-like. An authentic compliment, either appearance or his accomplishments or something showing your admiration. But sometimes there's just a connection...or not. It happens, or doesn't happen, naturally. And if the two of you aren't suited for each other, there's nothing that can be done. It's a mismatch. But often that shows up in the conversation. A bit of flirting is good, if you can do it naturally. Don't drink too much.
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So glad be here early.
This was good!!
Lol this is just a natural skill of mine. I don't even have to try very hard most of the the time. Problem is, I fail with people I actually really like. I just freeze and shut down!
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I saw him and couldn't take my eyes off him !
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This is brilliant. Forget all your other videos this is sooo what i needed right now. Biggest takeaway...RISK!!! Am too cautious...love this boys thank you. 'You have a nice shirt'...*pause* notes that down hehe.💕 xx
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Matt isn’t even my date but Im over here feeling giddy listening to him 😂
Awesome Awesome Awesome work thank you for all
Sloth might have so much chemistry🙈🤣
Very nice
Omg I didn't even know I needed to hear this. Pacing
Well shoot, it’s that simple!? I always felt like flirting would come off as desperate or too forward. I’ll try this next time. 😊
Doing all of this sounds so daunting my goodness.
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I Agree! Great Video Matthew and Stephen, thank-you. 👍🏽😃🌈🌟
@@kelechijoseph3610 Please don’t assume I need a relationship fixed. I am confident in who I am and Definitely don’t feel the need for any advice based on impolite assumptions about my supposed relationship status.
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Please don’t assume I need a relationship fixed. I am confident in who I am and Definitely don’t feel the need for any advice based on impolite assumptions about my supposed relationship status.
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needed this video about two weeks ago... oh well..
I can not get to the first date, still working on that LOL
I don't want a boyfriend but I like listening to these two talking about dating, love, and more importantly guiding you into a more authentic self. I don't really see the point in performing because that usually backfires, 2 months or 2 years down the road (or 20 years), but I acknowledge that dating is a game (otherwise c'mon people why are we even doing this?). Dating shouldn't feel like a chore, it's supposed to be fun to meet new people! I think that's were most people go wrong, they put all the eggs in one basket the first time they go picking eggs....if you want a second date, you go ahead and let the guy or gal know...."that was fun, I hope to see you again" or "that was fun, I'm going to a concert next week, would you like to join?"....boom, 2nd date secured
I do. I'm tired of only falling for fictional characters. but I don't hang out with many men enough to fall for one. or like to do the things "where the men are". or will give one whos face I don't like a chance. I hardly ever cross paths with them
Great advice... oh so true.
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Trust 8n yourself and know your worth,and then just have fun with it if it's ment to be it shall be. Love from a free flowing youtuber
At least I know I'm doing something right lol when I give compliments they r always genuine and I never rush it. even if it's something as simple as "I like ur shirt" they'd say "thank u" and I'd counter with "the color really suits u or/brings out ur eyes" and tilt my head down and look up at them through my lashes and smile and then ask what there favorite color is and probably laugh lol
I don’t think you can create chemistry, I think it’s there or it’s not. I think you flirt when you feel chemistry and it just ramps up the excitement. I personally can’t flirt with I guy I don’t feel chemistry with.
For me personally first dates are horrible if I get to a 2nd I come out of my shell more and they get to experience more of me, first dates always horrible the difference from the first to the second is massive
Thank you 😉❤️
There is a lot of value in good story telling. Is definitely a quality I look for. Guy Garvey summed this up beautifully for me:
#Slide down beside and wrap you in stories,
Tailored entirely for you#.
If you can hold someone's attention (and not waffle on!), that's a very powerful thing.
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The nuances are so critical!! Slowing down exudes confidence and control. Which is soooo sexy. Great vid guys.
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So I'm not the only person who likes reading comments but finds the bots very annoying.
In New Zealand we do that a lot :) when we are talking we give many compliments during the conversation but I actually like it :). However if I like someone not sure if that works, you are right 😊
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Slow pacing can create anticipation which can create chemistry! 💕
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Hey, I am very thankful for your videos and they helped me to go through a lot of emotional things.
I managed to get over someone with your help but I am asking myself how do I get over someone that I have to see everyday?
Getting over someone that you can just block and throw out of your life is „easy“, but how do I get over someone that I simply can’t block out of my life because I have to see him everyday in school or at work. It seems unbearable
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So what happens if you have done all the wrong things, how do you fix it?? Can you bring it back? How do you stop being awkward?
That was really good. I felt that! When you smiled and your eyes glowed! And each of you men had that moment, as you were recalling a girl... that was very cool! hehehe 😁
Ditch the superficial compliments. If you want to stand out, find a deeper compliment about the person's character. Listen to what they say and compliment their character or their positive attitude when going through adversity or their sacrifice for selflessness that they did in their life. This will have a more lasting impression rather then "Nice shirt" - ffs !!!
It's NOT all about chemistry! Finding compatibility is more important. If you feel you have to "create chemistry" that is not authentic. It is manufactured.
That "fire" you are talking about is a natural thing. Just because you find chemistry, does NOT mean you are compatible with that person.
The examples the brother is saying is so superficial.... dimples? laugh? shirt? OMFG is this what we have come to ? People you have to find depth and think about if this person you are sitting across from has the same morals and values as you and if they are good for YOUR mental health. Go on a date to see if you can develop a friendship. You don't have to state that intention but it should be an important part of "dating" if you are serious about creating a long lasting partnership.
I asked both men some appreciate the deeper compliments others are just love as much of not more physical compliments. Especially if they don’t get physical compliments as much.
I truly believe you are missing the point. His coaching style might not work or be for you. However, it does work as superficial as it sounds because initial dates should not be that serious and being a bit playful makes it more fun. If I want a more an in-depth date I stay watching the Discovery channel!
I think they stress a lot that they are talking about how from date 1 you will increase your chances to land date 2 and possibly date 3. I totally agree with what you describe, if you want to create a meaningful relationship, but I think they are more suitable for later on dates. It will be very difficult to judge someone's character from just a 1st date and be able to compliment them and deeply connect with them. Also compliments on personality might be way riskier than making a more "superficial" compliment at a 1st date, as you do not really know the other person.
The whole point they are making is for you to be able to give a hint to the other person about physical attraction. That you notice them and somehow you are attracted to them physically, even if you just like the way the other person talks or his confidence (but let's be honest if you are interested romantically there should be some physical attraction). Do you see him that way? Does he see you that way?
They do mention about connection and that chemistry and connection go hand by hand. If you do aim for a friendship though, and not a romantic relationship, you might end up just with that.
By the way there are many factors that affect such moments such as different personalities, characters, times in people's life etc But I think they give a tip that (on average) can be successful. More importantly they try to differentiate in people's mind what a good conversationalist means vs how a good conversationalist with flirt/playfulness can create tension and increase attraction during first interactions.
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I frankly think it’s less about pace and more about the underlying emotion, if someone is slow and quiet because they are uncomfortable it’s also not sexy, but someone being bubbly and a bit manic to make you laugh can be hilarious and thus still sexy
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I really hope Sir M knows how his sessions and videos also really help gay and bi guys a tonne and a half! Thank you Mr Hussey for all the knowledge, wisdom and tools... and you’re damn handsome to boot! ✊🏽
Looking at and into their eyes and their smile and their lips and listen intently but don't you think chemistry happens or it doesn't? compliments are really good too.
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Nowadays it’s all online I have tried IRL for 8 yrs in La, the earphones buds etc nobody nobody listens or pays attention ever! Not in a bar restaurant gym coffee place. I have Matt’s advice book etc, nobody is in the Moment! 25 yrs in LA a joke no I’m from Boston we talk we care 🙏🏻
I think the person, who invented the words 'spark' and 'chemistry' made us all a great discourtesy.
I’m beginning to agree with you. True love can’t thrive on chemistry alone.
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