The ladies of “The Real” get candid about Instagram filters and dating etiquette. They also speak to an audience member who can’t stop checking out her reflection in the mirror.
That's why I deleted my Instagram. Ever since that day, I've never felt happier and contented. There is really a sense of freedom after leaving Facebook and Instagram permanently.
꧁JEFF꧂ I still have both I just don’t care what people think. I’m 46 and once you hit 40 my friends would always say you won’t care and it is so true. I learned that before 40 too and those that talk about you are not really your friends and why care? Some people do say they feel that freedom like you say. I keep my circle small and they are only people I know trust and want to talk to my family and friends.
Plus I dont care to see your baby everyday. I dont care if Billy pissed you off this morning (people rant on insta about their kids a lot). If we were close enough you would send me pics of your baby or we would hang out and I can see him in person.
But that's the whole point. Look at Kim Kardashian, known worldwide for being beautiful and she has filters and editing all over her posts. Self esteem and confidence is blind. It doesn't care what you look like. It doesn't come from the outside, it comes from within. Doesn't really matter your level of conventional beauty
No instagram, no FB, no twitter. Quit 4 years ago. They have absolutely no control over me. Now I take pictures and frame it. For my family and myself! Best feeling ever. Quit it everyone. They are bringing you down. Whether you realize it or not.
Yep, I quit it but mine was for personal reasons that affected my peace of mind. Plus not wanting others to validate me. Sn: why are people cinching in their waist? Be true to yourself!
I personally do not believe that there’s people “more attractive”. What someone might not like, the next person will! It’s all about preference and everyone is beautiful in their own way. Just facts.
Idk.. I personally feel like some people settle for what they can get when they aren't attractive themselves. They might like a person who isn't considered conventionally attractive, but I think if given the opportunity, they'd jump at it. Call it shallow but humans are visual creatures at the end of the day.
"if you're gonna snatch your waist in make sure the door behind you isn't coming in snatched too" 😂 thank you Adrienne for this very important advice that not enough people follow
I definitely felt a lot better after I left Instagram and Snapchat. I couldn’t take pictures with my actual phone camera for a while. Instagram is toxic.
Instagram is just a place for people to crop out all the sadness. I also think the likes and positive comments can be toxic too. Honestly just because someone liked your photo doesn't mean they truly "like" it. It's sometimes a greed of like for likes which subconsciously makes us post more. People will use social media to gas you up which can make you arrogant rather than humble so you're just constantly trying to impress your followers because you think they have certain expectations of you like you have a fan base or something. It's sad.
Don't even put it out there because you will regret it later. This is your humble nature, which is good. Sure, taking pictures can be fun - but leave it at that. No need to associate yourself and your contribution to society with some selfies. Agree
They were legit having three different conversations about the dating thing. I agree with Adrienne I'm not about to sit up here on a first or second date and say 'I feel fat', 'I don't like my nose' especially in high school, he gon be like wtf
I’m fat depending on the angle I might have a double chin and I still think I’m fine AF sooooooo I can NOT relate. I hate the saying there’s always someone better because there’s no one more attractive than me in my mind. I wish more people felt that way about themselves. It’s #hotgirlsummer get wit it! If you’re reading this girl you’re fine as heck I seee you doing your thing with you’re gorgeous self 😘😘😘😘😘
VANITY is what makes s person to be constantly interested in their reflection, to the extent that other things seem less important. You being attractive does not mean the world needs to stop, conversations end and movement halts .
Thank you Adrienne. Common sense. If you don't like it don't click on it. First it was the magazine and now it's Instagram. What another human being looks like has nothing to do with you. Then when you see someone in person who does look like that in person, now you have a problem.
Okay I’m one of the people who stare at myself in the reflections 🤷🏽♂️. I like the teaching kids proper dating techniques, having a teenager who’s dating we monitor all the dates to teach them how to respect each other. I approve!
Instagram is where you post the “ good side” of your life anyway... but let’s not lie... sometimes we use filters and stuff...I know people who say “ I’m a natural beauty... “ yet most of the time I see them wear makeup 24/7 both in real life and on IG... and it’s like... i feel like if the makeup makes you feel good , do you boo! Same thing with the filters... I’m not gonna judge... do whatever makes you feel good !
Myronn Coleman half the time the people claiming to be “natural beauties” or “rarely wearing make up” do the opposite they always have weaves/ hair extensions filters and make up why not just do you without feeling embarrassed? I don’t wear much make up and therefore often look ‘natural’ but I won’t deny wearing make up often I put on eyeliner nearly 5/7 days of the week. I can do without it as I look almost the same when I don’t put it on but I don’t want that I will wear it and OWN THAT
Lol I love how Jeannie called herself out for looking like a Girl Scout! Life is so much easier when you can make fun of yourself and not take everyone else’s comments so seriously!! Loved this girl chat segment!💝
Mental health is important and Instagram and other editing apps can most definitely effect ones self esteem. Too many of us are relying on filters etc to feel good and out ourselves. There needs to be a balance. Everyone is fighting to be perfect. It’s a fight no one will ever win.
Instagram can make a girl feel like she has to look a "particular way" in order to be pretty. And then they want reassurance that they look pretty, in the form of likes and comments. I struggle with that sometimes to be honest, but I try to remind myself that I'm beautiful, even if I have some flaws, that's what makes me unique and that goes for every other girl
The thing is EVERYONE can look gorgeous with the right make up, right clothes for your body type and skintone etc, filters and all that. The pressure we feel is needing to look that way all the time. That's the problem! I can look awful and I can look gorgeous that ppl can't believe it's me sometimes. It's normal and ok.
THIS IS SOOO TRUE!!! Social Media can really mess with your self/esteem and self-confidence. It’s the first module in my ‘Becoming The One’ course that I tackle, which helps women truly attract and maintain a healthy and loving relationship.
I’ve always been the one to check every reflection I notice of myself ever since I was as young as 5 years old, and my mom has always pointed it out. It used to be because I wanted to make sure I looked presentable, but now it’s because I wanna see how cute I look. The power of building a great self esteem and loving the person you see in the mirror. 🧡
Ahem Adrienne!!! 🤣 She CLEARLY uses a filter like Facetune all the time on IG to snatch up her neck/chin and her post from just the other day was so badly done and you could tell! I cracked up when she said if you're gonna do it, at least be good at it! 🤣🤣🤣
The0nlykaay 01 I think what Crazy Old Bat is trying to say is that Adrienne said “if you’re going to do it, be good at it” and the picture Adrienne posted recently you can easily tell that it was filtered because it was badly done.
@@khayllaaaa9830 It's ironic you said it like that...I think you missed the point but thank for your input. Stephanie Chavez explains it in a way you might better understand.
The one thing I don’t like about the list on how more it veers towards girls and what they should do... it’s so sexist in my opinion... why should girls have to take an extra step to make sure everything smoothly... when it’s the guy who should take the extra step , or even have the same amount of steps to make sure it runs smoothly on both parts... I just don’t find it fair! I like the rules... but it’s too many rules and regulations for the ladies
The problem is that the ONLY values some people have is based on Instagram. Once you leave the spiritually out of your life , all that is left is outside foolishness.
It's still a problem even if their values are not ONLY based on Instagram because the ones that are, are unattainable and that's still depressing, so I just think social media if it's not to learn something or do something meaningful I'm sorry to say that but it's nothing more than a sweet POISON
JESUS CHRIST IS LORD FOREVER PLEASE LET US LOVE HIM BACK BY SURRENDERING OUR LIFES TO JESUS CHRIST. GOD ALMIGHTY BLESS US ALL IN JESUS PRECIOUS MIGHTY NAME AMEN
I love jeannies explanation about the whole self esteem thing it’s true what she said. And I agree totally 100% about it. You can’t stop posting pics and videos on ig with or without filters just because someone feels bad about themselves whenever they look at it. Cmon! Self esteem is found within yourselves people! Don’t let anyone’s look or posts on ig make u feel bad or less of yourself just because u feel like they look pretty and u don’t . Build your self esteem up, confidence is within yourselves guys.❤️love ya
Alot of people are trying to leave a life that they see on Instagram. It's causing alot of harm than good....you see girls feeling bad just because they don't get them "wig" or clothes or money or car or whatever...how about we all try contentment!!!!! It's okay to be you don't try to impress the world just to get likes and comments... PEOPLE LOVE THY SELF!!! BE HAPPY!
My phone camera ruins my self esteem. In the mirror I look okay, in film photos I look okay but photos taken on a phone camera? My face is a different shape and it makes my nose look even wonkier. It gets me down but then I remember I’ve got a boyfriend that loves me and wouldn’t change a thing about the way I look - wobbly bits and all. I’ve got 89 posts on my Instagram but only TWO are selfies. I try to upload natural beauty - flowers etc... and of course my cats 😂 @jessicaamy145
@Chantaya I don't base my self esteem on "having a man" thank you. I was highlighting that it's one of the things that helps my confidence. I found your comment very patronising.
Listen your Self-Esteem should have NOTHING to do with your Boyfriend loving you. Making it part of why you feel good about yourself is Not a Good Idea. Boyfriends come and go. Be careful. #NotBeingPatronising
Soooooooooo me!!! I get ready and I'm like hold on I cant go out like this I might be the sexist girl to ever walk the Earth. I take my phone , pull out the camera to capture my beauty and then spend the next 10 mins crying about how fuching ugly I am , wipe my makeup off, put my hair in a bun and throw on some sweats 😂😂
I think instagram can cause low self esteem if you let it, but the reality is everything you see on there isn’t always real, people post what they want you to see. I don’t think people should take social media too seriously and should love themselves and not let other people’s post affect their lives.
I try to use Instagram in a healthy way, I dont follow anyone I know nor do I post pictures of myself I just look at things I enjoy and honestly coming across beautiful people motivates me to be a bit healthier, and lose weight (through exercise)
I love myself without filters lol... I don't mind them but they don't define me!! I am very secure in my life and with my body,looks, and mind👏🙏👏🙏 One thing I've learned my whole life is I CONTROL MY EMOTIONS 🤗 THERE IS NOT ONE PERSON IN THIS WORLD THAT CAN HURT MY FEELINGS OR MAKE ME FEEL DIFFERENTLY!!!! I control my mind and how I feel... #livingmybestlifealways To some I may not be perfect and they may think I have flaws.... Can't nobody EVERY TELL ME DIFFERENT ❤ love yourself ladies... always know your worth always.....
I get that someone is going to be seen as prettier than you but to me no one is more beautiful than me in my eyes .....i just learned to love myself to the point of chanting "ain't nobody gonna tell me nothing, am the most beautiful me i know"
You guys made the point of what they said about feeling fat keep it to yourself. On the first date, don't talk down about yourself. Leave that be a later date.
Ladies, let's take a stand today to not feel any type of way when we see somebody better looking than us. It's the reality that someone out there looks better than me. I love me and you should love you too.
Hello random awesome person, just wanted to say I hope you have a blessed day full of joy. You are special, beautiful, and unlike any other. Remember to be your wonderful self because everyone else is taken. 😊
Because of Instagram, everybody is starting to look the same. Same clothes, same style, hair.. make up... demeanor
lindalately I agree
That was how it was from before
To me everybody do look alike. Just because a certain type of woman is deemed as beautiful.
Ladenna Young yes, very true.
Everyone getting that “Kardashian look”
I don’t take pictures at all. The Camera doesn’t like me but my mirror does
I understand you fellow barb 😘
I think the mirror is more accurate too
Beyonce's Child it’s really not cause it’s a reflection
neither like me 😔
maya lelo 🥰
“When I can’t recognize you in person Issa problem” hahah😂😂
That's true.
True!
🤣🤣🤣🤣true
True
That's why I deleted my Instagram. Ever since that day, I've never felt happier and contented. There is really a sense of freedom after leaving Facebook and Instagram permanently.
꧁JEFF꧂ I still have both I just don’t care what people think. I’m 46 and once you hit 40 my friends would always say you won’t care and it is so true. I learned that before 40 too and those that talk about you are not really your friends and why care? Some people do say they feel that freedom like you say. I keep my circle small and they are only people I know trust and want to talk to my family and friends.
Yupe, I know the feeling. Quite liberating.
Same here no social media and I’ve never felt any happier
@@TheCami38 exactly
Same here! I feel bad for the people who are truly obsessed with it! They have no idea how much control social media have on them.
People were already insecure IG just exposed it! Filters are too much people are putting them on the babies too smh.
I feel weird about people posting pics of babies on insta. Like they deserve their privacy and there are pedos online.
Plus I dont care to see your baby everyday. I dont care if Billy pissed you off this morning (people rant on insta about their kids a lot). If we were close enough you would send me pics of your baby or we would hang out and I can see him in person.
Right. Babies even have their own IG these days.
I add my kids pictures on Facebook to save them. So they don't take up my space on my phone. My friends enjoy seeing my kids 🤷
True and I think That's sad!
It's easier for "prettier" girls and people closer to societal beauty standards to say get over it, etc
You're right. I'm closer to societal standard too nd would never tell a friend or a student of mine to get over it
It may be easier but doesnt make it less true everyone societal standards or not need to get over this social media mess
Make yourself fit YOUR beauty standards!! -coming from a trans woman.
But that's the whole point. Look at Kim Kardashian, known worldwide for being beautiful and she has filters and editing all over her posts.
Self esteem and confidence is blind. It doesn't care what you look like. It doesn't come from the outside, it comes from within. Doesn't really matter your level of conventional beauty
FACTS
No instagram, no FB, no twitter. Quit 4 years ago. They have absolutely no control over me. Now I take pictures and frame it. For my family and myself! Best feeling ever. Quit it everyone. They are bringing you down. Whether you realize it or not.
Yep, I quit it but mine was for personal reasons that affected my peace of mind. Plus not wanting others to validate me.
Sn: why are people cinching in their waist? Be true to yourself!
Me too and I love it I don't think people realize how much social media consumes your life
Never had it, never will! And I'm 38!
Same!!!
Yet you are here
I personally do not believe that there’s people “more attractive”. What someone might not like, the next person will! It’s all about preference and everyone is beautiful in their own way. Just facts.
No facts at all actually...
Talisa Bethea I wish it was true, but not really !
But another person can look better than your partner even tho that’s your preference.
I also think money, literally anyone can be IG baddie with Surgery & glo'up (fake) transformation
Idk.. I personally feel like some people settle for what they can get when they aren't attractive themselves. They might like a person who isn't considered conventionally attractive, but I think if given the opportunity, they'd jump at it. Call it shallow but humans are visual creatures at the end of the day.
Jeannie: the sweet mom who builds up your self esteem
Adrienne: the blunt mom that doesn’t care
😂😂😂
Adrienne tells it how it is. I prefer to be told the truth than to be coddled.
it’s like what tamera always says/said, “it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it” 😅
"if you're gonna snatch your waist in make sure the door behind you isn't coming in snatched too" 😂
thank you Adrienne for this very important advice that not enough people follow
I definitely felt a lot better after I left Instagram and Snapchat. I couldn’t take pictures with my actual phone camera for a while. Instagram is toxic.
Instagram is just a place for people to crop out all the sadness. I also think the likes and positive comments can be toxic too. Honestly just because someone liked your photo doesn't mean they truly "like" it. It's sometimes a greed of like for likes which subconsciously makes us post more. People will use social media to gas you up which can make you arrogant rather than humble so you're just constantly trying to impress your followers because you think they have certain expectations of you like you have a fan base or something. It's sad.
Couldn't have worded it any better 👏🏽
Wow very well said!
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Jerseystarlet great great point
I never post anything on social media but I have soooooo many photos on my phone. That I love. I'm just not comfortable with it being out there.
Don't even put it out there because you will regret it later. This is your humble nature, which is good. Sure, taking pictures can be fun - but leave it at that. No need to associate yourself and your contribution to society with some selfies. Agree
I love Tam Tam's hair! 😍 It's so fluffy, full and gorgeous!! The bun on top it so cute 😄❤
"We created instagram, so don't let it creat you". I love that.
They were legit having three different conversations about the dating thing. I agree with Adrienne I'm not about to sit up here on a first or second date and say 'I feel fat', 'I don't like my nose' especially in high school, he gon be like wtf
I’m fat depending on the angle I might have a double chin and I still think I’m fine AF sooooooo I can NOT relate. I hate the saying there’s always someone better because there’s no one more attractive than me in my mind. I wish more people felt that way about themselves. It’s #hotgirlsummer get wit it! If you’re reading this girl you’re fine as heck I seee you doing your thing with you’re gorgeous self 😘😘😘😘😘
Weekly Dose of Ash sssiiiiiiiiiiinnnng gurl ❣️
Weekly Dose of Ash you cute sis 😍😍😍
Weekly Dose of Ash awwwee thank you girl ! 😭
I've permanently deleted my Instagram and deactivated my Facebook/Snapchat a year ago. Best decision I have made
VANITY is what makes s person to be constantly interested in their reflection, to the extent that other things seem less important. You being attractive does not mean the world needs to stop, conversations end and movement halts .
Thank you Adrienne. Common sense. If you don't like it don't click on it. First it was the magazine and now it's Instagram. What another human being looks like has nothing to do with you. Then when you see someone in person who does look like that in person, now you have a problem.
I Love Adrienne's ponytail and Jeannie's outfit
Okay I’m one of the people who stare at myself in the reflections 🤷🏽♂️. I like the teaching kids proper dating techniques, having a teenager who’s dating we monitor all the dates to teach them how to respect each other. I approve!
Instagram is where you post the “ good side” of your life anyway... but let’s not lie... sometimes we use filters and stuff...I know people who say “ I’m a natural beauty... “ yet most of the time I see them wear makeup 24/7 both in real life and on IG... and it’s like... i feel like if the makeup makes you feel good , do you boo! Same thing with the filters... I’m not gonna judge... do whatever makes you feel good !
Myronn Coleman half the time the people claiming to be “natural beauties” or “rarely wearing make up” do the opposite they always have weaves/ hair extensions filters and make up why not just do you without feeling embarrassed? I don’t wear much make up and therefore often look ‘natural’ but I won’t deny wearing make up often I put on eyeliner nearly 5/7 days of the week. I can do without it as I look almost the same when I don’t put it on but I don’t want that I will wear it and OWN THAT
It's hilarious when they put #nofilter #nomakeup and the lighting is hella good. Girl you ain't fooling nobody.
@Sassy T 😎
SWEETIE...NOT TRUE OPRAH IS NOT A NATURAL BEAUTY....& 💰💰💰DOES MAGIC 💃🎵🏃
Lol I love how Jeannie called herself out for looking like a Girl Scout! Life is so much easier when you can make fun of yourself and not take everyone else’s comments so seriously!! Loved this girl chat segment!💝
Mental health is important and Instagram and other editing apps can most definitely effect ones self esteem. Too many of us are relying on filters etc to feel good and out ourselves. There needs to be a balance. Everyone is fighting to be perfect. It’s a fight no one will ever win.
Instagram can make a girl feel like she has to look a "particular way" in order to be pretty. And then they want reassurance that they look pretty, in the form of likes and comments. I struggle with that sometimes to be honest, but I try to remind myself that I'm beautiful, even if I have some flaws, that's what makes me unique and that goes for every other girl
The thing is EVERYONE can look gorgeous with the right make up, right clothes for your body type and skintone etc, filters and all that. The pressure we feel is needing to look that way all the time. That's the problem! I can look awful and I can look gorgeous that ppl can't believe it's me sometimes. It's normal and ok.
Get Tiffany Haddish & Issa Rae on TheReal!!!
HowardDanielle1299 Issa Rae already has been on the show during the premier week of the real season 5 I believe
Yesssss
Im so bored now that Im watching these 2 year old clips 😭🙄
Nothing to do in the summer😩
@@iqraahmed7788 Read some books, practice a sport.
Yeah, how do I know which ones are the latest, it's so confusing.
A lot of folks never seen these. Especiallythose over seas
THIS IS SOOO TRUE!!! Social Media can really mess with your self/esteem and self-confidence. It’s the first module in my ‘Becoming The One’ course that I tackle, which helps women truly attract and maintain a healthy and loving relationship.
Loni is very pretty
Adrienne uses the most filters out of everyone!
J Melo she’s still pretty though 🤣
fake af
She doesn't even need it,so gorgeous
I’ve always been the one to check every reflection I notice of myself ever since I was as young as 5 years old, and my mom has always pointed it out. It used to be because I wanted to make sure I looked presentable, but now it’s because I wanna see how cute I look. The power of building a great self esteem and loving the person you see in the mirror. 🧡
Ahem Adrienne!!! 🤣 She CLEARLY uses a filter like Facetune all the time on IG to snatch up her neck/chin and her post from just the other day was so badly done and you could tell! I cracked up when she said if you're gonna do it, at least be good at it! 🤣🤣🤣
Which pic sis?? I wanna know lol
@@biancawallace7905 instagram.com/p/BzMT3OFFNqS/?igshid=wb0fb7g4ibtm
Crazy Old Bat she never said she didn’t 🤣🤣🤣 so u just made yourself look stupid 🤦🏾♀️
The0nlykaay 01 I think what Crazy Old Bat is trying to say is that Adrienne said “if you’re going to do it, be good at it” and the picture Adrienne posted recently you can easily tell that it was filtered because it was badly done.
@@khayllaaaa9830 It's ironic you said it like that...I think you missed the point but thank for your input. Stephanie Chavez explains it in a way you might better understand.
I agree with Jeanie. Loni you are right Kim Kardashian has influenced a lot.
I don’t use filters I don’t even know what the filters are. The picture you see is what I am.
Me neither
😆 you don't? But your profile pic of your baby is filtered 😆
Justin Boyens what baby I have a 23 year old?
velvey waters she’s talking to the other girl she just forgot to click the option to reply to a specific person
Justin Boyens that’s even worse lmao 😂
beauty is in the eye of the beholder!
That's what the 45 year old legally married illegal immigrant with three kids and a wife told me. Lmao
@@ladyrootz3311 bruh
@@ladyrootz3311 that's what my dad said about his wife one time😂😂😂🤣
Loni’s makeup looks amazing
So they said it was fine to use filters then went on for 5 +minutes to argue that filters and the pursuit of perfectionism is a problem.
The one thing I don’t like about the list on how more it veers towards girls and what they should do... it’s so sexist in my opinion... why should girls have to take an extra step to make sure everything smoothly... when it’s the guy who should take the extra step , or even have the same amount of steps to make sure it runs smoothly on both parts... I just don’t find it fair! I like the rules... but it’s too many rules and regulations for the ladies
But its not INSTAGRAM. Its our own primal need to be seen that is causing us to post and post. Every picture looks the exact same now
YESSSSS!!!!!
Exactly. Instagram was meant to share their lives wholesomely. Everyone turned it into a validation platform
Tamera: Why Do I HAVE to Sit Next To You? lmao
I hope they mention cameron boyce on their next show😩🕊
these videos are years old hun
I really like Loni’s eyeshadow 😊👌🏼
hahhahaha " where's your cookies at?!" hahahahhaha oh i'm dead! 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤯💥⚰️
The problem is that the ONLY values some people have is based on Instagram. Once you leave the spiritually out of your life , all that is left is outside foolishness.
It's still a problem even if their values are not ONLY based on Instagram because the ones that are, are unattainable and that's still depressing, so I just think social media if it's not to learn something or do something meaningful I'm sorry to say that but it's nothing more than a sweet POISON
Please keep posting Girl Chat, this long we love the full thing, thank you . 👏🏼
People just need to grow up ! If you can't hack it, leave Instagram, problem solved.
Love love love Adrienne’s look here 😊
Tam tam got me laughing (i dont know him like that)
Filters are mad fake, at least to me.
Loni is looking Good!! Definitely liking the hair....
The right side of the table is so on point
JESUS CHRIST IS LORD FOREVER PLEASE LET US LOVE HIM BACK BY SURRENDERING OUR LIFES TO JESUS CHRIST. GOD ALMIGHTY BLESS US ALL IN JESUS PRECIOUS MIGHTY NAME AMEN
Amen in Jesus name!!!
In Jesus name 🙏🏾
Nah, fam
Amen
Amen!!
I love jeannies explanation about the whole self esteem thing it’s true what she said. And I agree totally 100% about it. You can’t stop posting pics and videos on ig with or without filters just because someone feels bad about themselves whenever they look at it. Cmon! Self esteem is found within yourselves people! Don’t let anyone’s look or posts on ig make u feel bad or less of yourself just because u feel like they look pretty and u don’t . Build your self esteem up, confidence is within yourselves guys.❤️love ya
Alot of people are trying to leave a life that they see on Instagram. It's causing alot of harm than good....you see girls feeling bad just because they don't get them "wig" or clothes or money or car or whatever...how about we all try contentment!!!!! It's okay to be you don't try to impress the world just to get likes and comments... PEOPLE LOVE THY SELF!!! BE HAPPY!
Glad I don't have social media CZcams yes but it dosnt consume my life the way social media did/does
I love Adriennes shirt!!! They are all so beautiful!!
I check myself alot too I rely on my mirror it's my best friend it tells me what no one else would
Instagram was for how people see the world it wasn't for people to take pictures of themselves and memes. Folks just took it and ran with the filters
Adrienne is definitely the type to check out her own reflection wherever she can see it, including shiny objects.
2:03
Adrienne: “Where’s your belly button?”
Audience: Stares in silence 😂
but adrienne on all things adrienne u edited one pic using 6 different apps
I thought I was the only one that thought about that....
Valerie Rogers right! Like she uses so many filters they should do an episode where all the girls are wearing NO MAKEUP
I use three edits 😂
They all agree on editing their pictures not just Adrienne.
@@charllybadu7234 I do too
My phone camera ruins my self esteem. In the mirror I look okay, in film photos I look okay but photos taken on a phone camera? My face is a different shape and it makes my nose look even wonkier. It gets me down but then I remember I’ve got a boyfriend that loves me and wouldn’t change a thing about the way I look - wobbly bits and all. I’ve got 89 posts on my Instagram but only TWO are selfies. I try to upload natural beauty - flowers etc... and of course my cats 😂 @jessicaamy145
@Chantaya I don't base my self esteem on "having a man" thank you. I was highlighting that it's one of the things that helps my confidence. I found your comment very patronising.
@Chantaya I can tell you were trying to be nice but your comment didn't help lol
Listen your Self-Esteem should have NOTHING to do with your Boyfriend loving you. Making it part of why you feel good about yourself is Not a Good Idea. Boyfriends come and go. Be careful. #NotBeingPatronising
Soooooooooo me!!! I get ready and I'm like hold on I cant go out like this I might be the sexist girl to ever walk the Earth. I take my phone , pull out the camera to capture my beauty and then spend the next 10 mins crying about how fuching ugly I am , wipe my makeup off, put my hair in a bun and throw on some sweats 😂😂
Tamera's hair is giving my life!!! On point honey!!
People still follow these types of girls so who can blame them for over editing
Adrienne and Tamera man 😍
12:46 Adrien looking like “ohh? It’s just me? Mkay” 😂😂😂😂😂
Loni’s make up and hair is on point 👌!!! Yasss!!!
I take my pictures in the sun so they will look better lol. It's corny but it makes me feel good about myself.
I think instagram can cause low self esteem if you let it, but the reality is everything you see on there isn’t always real, people post what they want you to see. I don’t think people should take social media too seriously and should love themselves and not let other people’s post affect their lives.
Everyone in the comment section has deleted social media 😂
I think they low-key missed the point of why the "if you think you're too fat" comment was sexist
The problem is people abuse IG and eventually it takes over their whole life that's why I'm cutting back from social media it has gotten out of hand
Ok but can you imagine telling your strict parents that you have to go on a date because it’s a school assignment 😂😂
I dont use any filter apps or face tune, just regular filter on the color of the pic. I'm all authentic baby, you get what you get.
Loni’s whole look is one of her best
Very very very true .... social media is driving people crazy, especially with insecurities.
THE PROBLEM WITH SOCIAL MEDIA SPECIALLY ON THIS DAYS THAT THEY DO MORE HARM THAN GOOD IN SO MANY WAYS.
I miss Loni's energy on the show recent. This old video shows the difference
I try to use Instagram in a healthy way, I dont follow anyone I know nor do I post pictures of myself I just look at things I enjoy and honestly coming across beautiful people motivates me to be a bit healthier, and lose weight (through exercise)
I love what loni said . She so wise... love youu loni . You r a wonderful person !
Quit social media after graduating high school and couldn’t have felt any better.
I love these girls. They hit the best topics .
Thats why I quit Snapchat, I was obssesed with the "pretty filter" ... It was ridiculous
I’m 14 and my friends be wearing makeup, eyelashes, and all that for me I don’t like wearing makeup I wanna be natural for life!
I am in LOVE with Tamera’s hair!!!! Tutorial please!
I love that she quoted Katt
Thank you Loni! Jeannie is something else today! Jeannie you know you check your look! Lol.
Loni’looking fly today!
That's why I don't do social media anymore 🤷 too stressful to maintain 😂
Then some people filter their kids photo then Im like what?? You don't think your kid is pretty enough? Why you gotta photoshop your kid!!
Yes girl, that's when you know they done lost their minds.
I love myself without filters lol... I don't mind them but they don't define me!! I am very secure in my life and with my body,looks, and mind👏🙏👏🙏 One thing I've learned my whole life is I CONTROL MY EMOTIONS 🤗 THERE IS NOT ONE PERSON IN THIS WORLD THAT CAN HURT MY FEELINGS OR MAKE ME FEEL DIFFERENTLY!!!! I control my mind and how I feel... #livingmybestlifealways To some I may not be perfect and they may think I have flaws.... Can't nobody EVERY TELL ME DIFFERENT ❤ love yourself ladies... always know your worth always.....
Loni is looking good, makeup, hair, and outfit is beautiful!
I get that someone is going to be seen as prettier than you but to me no one is more beautiful than me in my eyes .....i just learned to love myself to the point of chanting "ain't nobody gonna tell me nothing, am the most beautiful me i know"
Very true plus there will always be someone or others who find something about your favorite facial feature or personality attractive.
same
My thoughts on Instagram or filters...."why would you paint over the mona lisa?"🤣🤣👏
You guys made the point of what they said about feeling fat keep it to yourself. On the first date, don't talk down about yourself. Leave that be a later date.
Ladies, let's take a stand today to not feel any type of way when we see somebody better looking than us. It's the reality that someone out there looks better than me. I love me and you should love you too.
*Great convo.* 💛💛
Hello random awesome person, just wanted to say I hope you have a blessed day full of joy. You are special, beautiful, and unlike any other. Remember to be your wonderful self because everyone else is taken. 😊
You too💕
When Loni and Tamera were like "nahh, more like army or military" looool
Whew, I love this hair on Loni!!