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Parental Overprotection: The Consequences of Not Letting Kids Grow Up ( Covert Incest , Enmeshment )
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- čas přidán 20. 10. 2023
- Silently Seduced book link - amzn.to/4762nY9
Hi everyone, in this video I go over what enmeshment is , as well as the dangerous effects of enmeshment on a human being in their adult hood.
Here are some of the long-lasting emotional effects that are directly tied to growing up in an enmeshed family. Try to think if any of these relates to you just in case if you want to learn if you’ve been affected by enmeshment while you were growing up in your family.
Mental Health Issues aka personality disorders like borderline personality disorder, or bipolar personality disorder
Self esteem issues because of lack of identity and years of being humiliated by the enmeshing parent.
Boundary issues and this is huge one with those who suffered enmeshment because they grew up in an environment where their boundaries were violated 24/7 - 365 by their own parent or parents in some cases.
Unstable adult relationships because of the instability they encountered during their childhood.
Victim mentality- When an enmeshed parent refuses to take responsibility for their actions and enmeshing behaviors , not only is the child walking around with a confused state of mind , almost like in a fog, like I said earlier, but it also teaches the child to be just like them and walk with a victim mentality that’s filled with shame. This is especially true if there is elements of parentification involved in the child-parent relationship.
Wow, I wasn’t expecting to get hit with this analysis this morning. Will take some time to process it. Thanks for sharing.
Parents can be like "I have the right to eat you up because you are my toy" --shameless boundary destruction.
Thank you for this vid 💗
It's very clarifying.
Glad it was helpful! 👍
I know a 28 year old male who has terrible toxic emeshment problems with his mom.
He once said to me " why do I neeed a girlfriend when I got my mom".
😮😮😮 WTF. That is creepy!!!
That's deep conditioning. He is oblivious to what a true relationship is supposed to look like. His mother has conditioned him to think that his relationship with his mother is the norm. He may not even understand the creepiness of that because to him it's "normal". ( He could also be reaching out to you subconsciously, but you have to draw a line when it come to things like that as well ) Thanks for your comment.
Sad part is, he's the younger of his 3 siblings.
For some reasons I feel that his mom sexual abused him.
This was very helpful and insightful! Thank you!
You're so welcome! Glad it was helpful!
Thank you Jomy
You're welcome! I am glad it was helpful
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Hey Ryan, the book is called "Silently Seduced". I just added the link in the description! Thanks for your question!
@@jomymatthews Thank you!
💯💔My God … this is real and pretty spot on.. I still prey everyday that the truth will set me free somehow.. my parents still to this day have control over me -
The thing is - they will never , not once or ever will admit any wrong doing , or try to see things from my point of view..
yet I always forgive them, love them unconditionally.. I’m always in a secret battle within myself- is it me? Am I bad/ worthless.. etc.
I’m scared