How to Be Less Impulsive

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  • čas přidán 23. 07. 2024
  • We all want to know how to be less impulsive, but it's pretty wild to think just how many people aren't aware of how to control impulsive behaviour (such as how to control impulsive anger). Impulsive behaviour treatment is available professionally, but it can certainly start at home with some awareness and self-education.
    It's not just for kids, either - how to control impulsive behaviour in adults is a very commonly searched topic. Today, you'll learn about the importance of impulse control, including key impulse control techniques on how to control your impulsive behaviour.
    After watching this video, you'll know how to control your impulses and find some more calm in your day to day interactions. Simply put, the impulse control meaning is freedom from whimsical and irrational decisions and hot-headed emotions.
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  • @KingaGorski
    @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety +12

    How do YOU control your impulses? It can be so challenging, especially when we feel triggered - will you try the technique I shared in the video?? Let me know!

    • @VideoCashflow
      @VideoCashflow Před 5 lety +2

      Interesting question. It depends if you're anticipating something happening, and what your mood is at the time the event happens. Great topic for a video.

    • @SimpleMarketingAcademy
      @SimpleMarketingAcademy Před 5 lety +2

      I tend to be the opposite. I think about things for awhile before I decide.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 4 lety

      It's a tricky question to answer that certainly can depend on the context of a situation - depending on how much self control we have. Thank you!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 4 lety

      That's really fortunate you don't fall victim to impulsive behaviour then. :)

    • @payaldesky3152
      @payaldesky3152 Před 3 lety +1

      Hey thanx a lot❤️

  • @whompingwillow5338
    @whompingwillow5338 Před 3 lety +36

    I honestly searched for this because i know i am impusive and i'm unknowingly hurting people. Thank u for this!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      That's very big of you to acknowledge that - not just within yourself, but for the way that's impacting others. Really proud of you for taking action to elevate yourself and improve your relationships!

  • @planetsj527
    @planetsj527 Před 2 lety +3

    I’m either really impulsive or I take FOREVER to make a decision. There is no in between

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 2 lety +1

      Ah I know the feeling - if that’s something you want to find some middle ground between though, know that it’s possible by first making the decision to do so and continue to explore that! 💪

  • @JaneyImaaniEmotionalAwareness

    “Don’t be a slave to impulse”- lets stop and breathe before we react 👌🏽

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      Janey Imaani - Emotional Awareness I love that phrase - had to include it! Yes, let’s!!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey Janey! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @Communitychoud
    @Communitychoud Před 2 lety +4

    Throughout the years of going through shit myself I’ve started to become toxic and sabotaging friendships. I’ve picked up an unhealthy habit of cutting people off really quickly, leaving group chats without discussing and just leaving. And without realising how this might be making other people feel. I’ve lost some potential friendships over this and I just hope I can learn from this but im not sure if I’ll find these types of friends again

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 2 lety +2

      Hey Ati, first off, I really commend you for being so vulnerable and acknowledging where you feel you can improve. I've been there myself at times and it's those tougher moments that push us to become better, so there's always a lesson to be learned. I've found it tremendously helpful to practice forgiveness - both towards myself (for the times I didn't act as my highest self) and towards others. You will absolutely connect with the friends who are meant to be in your life. The self-development and personal growth journey is lifelong, and challenging yet beautiful. Stay the course 🙏

    • @Communitychoud
      @Communitychoud Před 2 lety +1

      @@KingaGorski Thank you so much for the reply, I really needed it :)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před rokem

      Of course, happy to help however I can!

  • @Drostvideo
    @Drostvideo Před 5 lety +9

    "slave to impulses" sums it up nicely. I've learned to walk away or just not react right away

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety +3

      Walking away and removing yourself from the conflict is a very healthy tactic as well - as long as it doesn't end up in avoiding the issue at hand!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey Herman! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in the topics of consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @AdrianaGirdler
    @AdrianaGirdler Před 5 lety +10

    So important to talk about this - I loved your example of the harm of 'blowing up' on someone because of the way you feel. I always say to take a step back whenever possible and address the situation once the emotional charge has been removed or settled down. Great video!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      It's hard to control those "blow up" feelings sometimes but as you said, you gotta let the emotional charge cooool down first. Thanks so much!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Adriana Girdler! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @MeredithRyncarzPhotography

    I control my impulses honestly by looking at other ways the same problem can be done. Having options really seems to help.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety +1

      Perspective really is everything! Pause and reflect :)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Meredith Ryncarz! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @menacemonk4000
    @menacemonk4000 Před 5 lety +13

    I actually had to deal with a lot and I use to be very impulsive when I would get angry but I've learned how to stay calm now. My parents were very impulsive with their anger so witnessing that as I grew up made me feel like that it was okay to express anger in the heat of the moment but that was never very effective it actually made things worse.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety +2

      I resonate with you so much on that - my dad was physically abusive (something I've talked about a lot) and so I emulated his actions for a long time and carried a lot of rage inside growing up. I'm so thankful to have done the deep work (and continue to do so!) to live a better life and be a kinder, more tranquil person.

    • @menacemonk4000
      @menacemonk4000 Před 5 lety +1

      @@KingaGorski I'm happy you overcame that! Don't you think back to your past sometimes and realize even though you came out of so much pain you wouldn't trade that pain in for the world because it shaped you to become the person you are today and will be in the future.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety +2

      Oh yeah, absolutely. I contemplate it regularly - it's brought me so much strength. Obviously in the grand scheme of things, I'd rather it have not happened as it did bring a lot of anger into my life, but because I became a victor (and not a victim) of my circumstances, I'm appreciative of the lessons of the experience, and I can now help other people move through their personal shit storms. It's made me one helluva resilient badass woman.

    • @menacemonk4000
      @menacemonk4000 Před 5 lety

      @@KingaGorski I feel the same way too :)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Menace Monk! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @RuthKudzi
    @RuthKudzi Před 5 lety +5

    It's very challenging when you're in the coaching business because you simply can't lose it in front of your clients. Very relatable video. :)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety +1

      Ruth Kudzi Coaching For sure, we have to keep it professional as coaches - there is a time and place for tough love, but in a cool, calm and collected manner ;)

    • @RuthKudzi
      @RuthKudzi Před 5 lety

      @@KingaGorski Couldn't agree more. :)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Ruth Kudzi! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @PregnancyandPostpartumTV
    @PregnancyandPostpartumTV Před 5 lety +1

    Love this video! Thanks for sharing! I knew the deep breaths helped it’s good to know at least 6! Happy Thursday!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      6 is apparently the magic number, though more certainly won't hurt! Thanks for watching!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey Jessica ! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @TrinaBelcik
    @TrinaBelcik Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing! What a great topic.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      My pleasure to spread the word ;) Cheers!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Trina Belcik! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @DianaPalm
    @DianaPalm Před 5 lety +1

    Great video Kinga! Breathing is so helpful for impulse control and so much else, thank you for sharing.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      I think it’s one of the most helpful things we can do, to breaaathe baby ;) thanks so much!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Diana Palm! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @JaneStoller
    @JaneStoller Před 5 lety +1

    I just realized how much I needed this!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      A reminder never hurts anyone ;) Myself included!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Jane Stoller! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @DearGodAreWeThereYet
    @DearGodAreWeThereYet Před 5 lety +5

    This was so inspirational and motivating. By the way, I love your voice!!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety +1

      Aw thank you - I greatly appreciate that and I'm so glad this video resonated!

    • @DearGodAreWeThereYet
      @DearGodAreWeThereYet Před 5 lety +1

      @@KingaGorski Yes will be following

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      Happy to hear it!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Dear God Are We There Yet?! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @HowToMakeDinner
    @HowToMakeDinner Před 5 lety +1

    Such a good reminder!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      I think so too! Thanks for watching!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @How To Make Dinner! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @LindaArmstrong
    @LindaArmstrong Před 5 lety +1

    Yes, connecting to your breath and dropping into your heart, works EVERY TIME 💟☮💟

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      Yet so many people don't believe it still, haha! Working towards shifting that ;)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Linda Armstrong! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @JesseJest
    @JesseJest Před 5 lety +1

    This was super valuable! Thank you!! Wow!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      I'm glad you think so! Thanks for watching :)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Jesse Jest! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @ahmedshabbir3268
    @ahmedshabbir3268 Před 3 lety +1

    Great video..thanks

  • @TheSexHealer
    @TheSexHealer Před 5 lety +1

    This is fantastic. Sending to my clients now!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      Amanda Pasciucco I appreciate the share, Amanda! Thank you kindly :)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Amanda Pasciucco! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

    • @TheSexHealer
      @TheSexHealer Před 3 lety

      Kinga Gorski lets do it!

  • @TonyMyersHealing
    @TonyMyersHealing Před 5 lety +1

    I actually already do a form of the technique. I take a step away from the situation release it through breathing, step back into it and then can handle it in peace. Loved the video!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      Tony Myers Healing That’s so awesome, Tony! I think stepping away from the situation is hugely beneficial - in hindsight I wish I had also included that as it’s such a strong tool. :)

  • @darthdread6289
    @darthdread6289 Před 2 lety +1

    I have the impulsiveness to stand down when someone gaslights me.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 2 lety

      Ain't nobody got time for gaslighting... The key is to be aware when any impulsive behaviour starts to become destructive and non-serving, to both ourselves and others. It takes time and *courage* to learn how to speak up for ourselves-I also had to practice speaking my mind and standing my ground, and now I'm wayyyy better at it now in my 30's than in my 20's. It's a skill that can be learned 🙏

  • @YourBestDesignedCareer
    @YourBestDesignedCareer Před 5 lety +1

    Love the speak softly tip!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      Your Best Designed Career So simple yet so effective! Cheers!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Your Best Designed Career! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @EliMagidsLuxuryHomes
    @EliMagidsLuxuryHomes Před 5 lety +2

    Kinga My Response used to be a hand signal when cut offhand road rage.. Since I moved to Charlotte (from NY), and a lot of people carry legal firearms, I now just wave hello (usually !). Take a deep breath is right !

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety +1

      Eli Magids Haha oh man, that would be concerning for sure - no more flippin’ the bird!! I’m glad a friendly hello has served you better lol!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Eli Magids! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @QuinnCJ
    @QuinnCJ Před 5 lety +1

    I over think every. Great info!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      A lot of us are over-thinkers too! Thanks!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Quinn CJ! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @KateEmiley
    @KateEmiley Před 5 lety +1

    Loved your explanation for "what happens in between"

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      Thank you! The moment almost no one knows about ;)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Kate Emiley! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @staceyaginmurray
    @staceyaginmurray Před 5 lety +1

    I'm going to remember those 'six breaths!' Who knew that an involuntary action of our bodies could be so powerful? In terms of decision making, I always remember the line Oprah says, "Let's me pray on it." (like let me sleep on it). Impulsive decision making rarely ends well! Great video.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      The interesting thing about the breath is that it's both voluntary AND involuntary! I love Oprah, she's a wise woman and that's also great advice!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Stacey! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @WeBuildFunnels
    @WeBuildFunnels Před 5 lety +1

    A lot of people need this info :)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      Online DADpreneur We could all benefit, the lessons never end ;)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Online DADpreneur! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @wildwomanenchanted6742
    @wildwomanenchanted6742 Před 5 lety +2

    yup... when you're calm... the other person is more calm. It's very true. I breathe when I need to control my impulses...and usually just say, I'm going to go now. I'll talk with you later. I don't have that too much ... but that is what I do. good to think about and remember ... :) ~Elizabeth

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      Absolutely - a strong choice is always to remove yourself from the situation until the air has cooled down. That can also be hard to do but worth avoiding a blow up!!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey Elizabeth! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @LucyGriffithsdotcom
    @LucyGriffithsdotcom Před 5 lety +1

    Love this! I talk about doing deep breathing to feel calmer in my videos, too. It's a very effective technique!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      Lucy Griffiths I love that you talk about deep breathing too - it’s SUCH an incredible tool we all have!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      Lucy Griffiths And thank you! x

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Lucy Griffiths! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @scurtei
    @scurtei Před 3 lety +5

    Yes, it helped me this video. Me, who have OCD manifastations, periodically.
    I think the impulsives goes hand-to-hand with anxity AND reading a book (or watching a video) on anxity helps you a lot.
    Thx!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety +1

      So glad to hear this helped you. Thanks for sharing!

    • @scurtei
      @scurtei Před 3 lety +1

      @@KingaGorski
      You're very welcome ♡ !
      Thank you for your care - I am feeling it ♡.
      How are you? ♡
      In our the country, from 15 january will began the vaccin.
      Here, some good music to listen to :) :
      czcams.com/video/kVNrzwNfgWg/video.html
      - I'm not from the country in what language they ' re singing

    • @khayleg
      @khayleg Před 2 lety

      it gives me anxiety to read that u wrote anxiety wrong

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před dnem

      🙏

  • @PoojaSharma-se2xq
    @PoojaSharma-se2xq Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so very much mam... for giving me the answer I was searching for .. looking forward to calm my impulses down by just pausing for some sec and taking these mindful breath....☯️🕊️

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 2 lety +1

      So great to hear you connected with this message! Feel free to share back with our community how the breaths help you out 🙏

  • @bandsandotherthingsthatroc3445

    Your video about impulsiveness really helped me out.I had 1 day yesterday I was more impulsive.But generally I think things are better.Thank you the breathing really helps.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 4 lety

      Hi! I'm so glad to hear that the breathing tip helped you out, thanks for sharing - it definitely has helped me too. Isn't it amazing how something so simple can be so powerful?

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @bands and other things that rock! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @shaniquawells4445
    @shaniquawells4445 Před 2 lety +1

    I am diagnosed impulsive but this video really helps

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 2 lety

      Hi Shaniqua! I'm grateful that you took the time to watch my video on the topic, and brilliant to hear that it was helpful for you along your journey. 🙏

  • @lamajigmeg
    @lamajigmeg Před 5 lety +1

    love your back ground :-)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      Thank you, I took the time to make it loveable ;)

  • @JaceJacobs
    @JaceJacobs Před 5 lety +1

    ✋🏼👊🏼😀❤️ I use mindfulness and breathing in those moments. One breath at a time. 6 deep breaths. Thank you my friend. Namaste 🙏 ☮️

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      6 breaths, 1 at a time. You got it! Namaste :)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Jace Jacobs! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @PolishedProfessionals
    @PolishedProfessionals Před 5 lety +1

    I think about my responses, because that is within my control.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      YES. Focus on what IS within our control, and let go of what's not.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Polished Professionals! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @Mahasingh390
    @Mahasingh390 Před 3 lety +1

    Yes very helpful ..six deep breaths

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      So glad you found this helpful - breathing is a powerful tool that’s always available to each of us 🙏

    • @Mahasingh390
      @Mahasingh390 Před 3 lety +1

      @@KingaGorski it did ..iam an actor in India so I get very impulsive from time to time during auditions I will surely use this trick are you on Instagram?

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před rokem

      Yep! @kingagorski on all platforms 🤘

  • @ssipola
    @ssipola Před 3 lety +1

    It's all about that awareness, link pops up, I spend 5 minutes clicking links doing other stuff before I realize Kinga was still talking, had to tab back, rewind and refocus.
    I guess that's why I ended up here to begin with.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Happens to the best of us - I’m no exception! As you said, awareness is everything. Gotta keep building that focus muscle in this world of ever-increasing distractions. 🙏

  • @dollysatavghadole3180
    @dollysatavghadole3180 Před 2 lety +1

    yeah I'm trying my best to not act impulsively i still fear that this might ruin relationships

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 2 lety

      Hey Dolly! You're right-there's always the possibility that our relationships may be impacted by our impulsive behaviour, however that doesn't always have to mean they'll be ruined. A great start is that you landed on this video and you're able to acknowledge that you're working on finding more peace and control over the impulsivity. We can always apologize to the other person and express that we're doing our best to be better. 🙏

  • @talhahashmi2533
    @talhahashmi2533 Před 3 lety +1

    Need that. Doing that next time.
    By the way, love your shirt.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety +1

      I'll be curious to hear what you think once put into practice! Cheers :)

    • @talhahashmi2533
      @talhahashmi2533 Před 3 lety +1

      I'm not always that impulsive.
      But you know very well sometimes when there are things happening and suddenly they just stop for some reason. Then your mind start playing tricks on you saying, asking to this and that, call them, meet them, go see what's happening without realizing the response.
      Beautifully put by you the thing between "Stimulus and Response". That's the prelude where calmness is so profoundly needed which entails rewards.
      I will definitely update you with the progress.
      Thanks a lot LEVIS coach. :)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před dnem

      Just saw this - appreciate you expanding, the mind certainly plays tricks on all of us, myself included! & anytime, ha! 🙌

  • @muhammadhassan1018
    @muhammadhassan1018 Před 3 lety

    kinga you are gorgeous

  • @Kajanaclub
    @Kajanaclub Před 5 lety +1

    impulse control is sometimes tough :D

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      Ha! Don't I know it.. ;) Gotta try, though!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Kajana Club! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @payaldesky3152
    @payaldesky3152 Před 3 lety +1

    How to stop being impulsive in feelings

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety +1

      The same applies in terms of catching yourself in the moment, when your triggered emotions are starting to rise - taking at least 6 slow, mindful, deep breaths - and then choosing to act as your highest self in the situation. Choosing to live into the feelings you’d *prefer* to feel, and overlaying them on top of those automatic triggered emotions. It’s easier said than done of course, especially at the beginning, but remember this is a habit and skill that can be learned and improved upon with time, commitment, and persistence. 🙏

  • @lamajigmeg
    @lamajigmeg Před 5 lety +1

    yep, scatterdness is VERY yang

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      Yang has it's place, as does Yin - but we must discern when, where and why to drop into those energies.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey Lama! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @torrinvenomfang5401
    @torrinvenomfang5401 Před 4 lety +1

    I struggle with controlling my anger because my sister is constantly annoying me by doing things. I’m trying to find a video that can help

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 4 lety

      I can't tell you how much I resonate with your comment - my sister used to absolutely infuriate me when I was younger and into my early twenties (I'm sure I did the same for her.). Our communication was poor and it wasn't until we both finally moved out and were able to create space between us that things got better. I commend you for acknowledging the anger you feel and proactively searching for information to help you manage it. You're doing a great job.

    • @torrinvenomfang5401
      @torrinvenomfang5401 Před 4 lety

      Holy cow you actually replied

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 4 lety

      @@torrinvenomfang5401 I reply to all comments while my channel size is manageable :)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Torrin Venomfang! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @user-kx9ch8en4p
    @user-kx9ch8en4p Před rokem

    I love u

  • @CliffordStarks1
    @CliffordStarks1 Před 5 lety +1

    Luckily I have never really been overly compulsive, now my wife is a different story Haha. The Ying and Yang I guess 😊👍

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety +1

      Haha! Opposites do attract, as the saying goes!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Clifford Starks! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in the topics of consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @luioskattusch3497
    @luioskattusch3497 Před 2 lety +2

    Was that an ad for Levi’s?

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 2 lety +1

      If Levi's wanted to sponsor me, I wouldn't say no 😜

  • @argonix5162
    @argonix5162 Před 3 lety

    I’m just impulsive and when something happens I just say somethin like god Damit or something literally

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      That's totally normal to feel a triggered reaction! It's great that you're aware of it within yourself. That's when we can begin to change anything that isn't serving us. 🙏

  • @LucyMorningstarArt
    @LucyMorningstarArt Před 5 lety +1

    Yes the breath

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      All the "yeses" to the breath!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Lucy Morningstar! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @CameraMan66
    @CameraMan66 Před 4 lety

    I'm been impulsive right now, please don't reply in a negative way and understand in what I'm saying

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 4 lety

      We're all susceptible to impulsivity - no judgment here.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @CameraMan66 ! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @meditationsbythiago
    @meditationsbythiago Před 3 lety +2

    Every time my girlfriend annoys me i end up saying some really hurtful stuff to her and it really upsets her and it affects me as well cus i regret it afterward. I need to learn how to control this.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      I commend you for being honest and taking action on this - I've been there before myself. Most people aren't so aware of how they hurt their loved ones when they feel triggered. Thanks for sharing so openly and I hope that the advice in the video helps you moving forward in your relationships 🙏

  • @wildmoonchild8210
    @wildmoonchild8210 Před 2 lety

    I shouldn't have cut my own hair 😐

  • @googleacc6022
    @googleacc6022 Před 2 lety

    I’m trying to do the opposite

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 2 lety

      The opposite of impulsivity control? …lol 🤔